Lyrics: Hey I'm not afraid, I can be myself and I Hope you can be yourself as well 'Cause I can make you feel alright And there was so much happiness that We were still yet to find I said that you can call me Alex, baby Welcome to my life But don't you worry, don't you, don't worry girl No I'm not sure if I'm into you The last time that you checked I was probably so sad and confused I don't know, no, I don't know what you like But if you're looking for something new I know somebody that you could choose What about me? What about me? What about me and you together? Something that could really last forever What about me? What about me? What about me and you together? Something that could really last forever If all my friends wanna be in her bed Then I begin to wonder why I guess that I'd be lying to myself Because who the fuck Would be dumb enough To reject an offer? Oh what an offer? Now two two ten one five Couple hours can change your life Frankie saying oh what a night? What a night? What the fuck is a girlfriend? I'mma need advice Maybe I should go outside So I could get a fucking life I made a friend and she spent the night now I'm in love and she remains in my life And back when we spoke in Europe I need insurance, on my emotions I can't get hurt again Fuck the past, fuck them, they all made me sad And I had no time to prepare to face my fears I guess that it's time that I dried these tears But if I could just be happy by the end of this song But if by the time you hear it you are already gone And it didn't go to plan Then why should I continue in this life When there's no one around to be the one who makes me smile? But so far everything's good (Ooh) Oh oh oh Oh oh oh oh oh I said, so far everything's good Oh oh oh Oh no no no No no no no no oh Want the crowd in tears when they hear this Is that so wrong?
A good musical theme has gained popularity in 2024, even though you are already 2025, it is incredible the amount of detail you have, you have done a good job :) Edit:Thanks for 14 likes :)
@@artless90 Ok, I respect your opinion but i was born with this (UA-cam), and i mostly i discovered this by my brother listing to it, then founded out that people use this song on TikTok (but only the 0:51 part .-.). I mean, i like the full song, but 0:51 just hit me differently, so thats why i loved that line.
I find his melancholic optimism relatable…the sense of wanting things to get better and knowing they will but still feeling the bad stuff in the present
@@zygardslinger6389 fr It sounds like any moment now, Tyler's about to appear and start saying "running out of time, running out of time, running out of tiiiime" Somebody needs to make that transition
Never heard of this song before. I was listening to Zalinki’s (deleted) song Knee Socks and learned from others that it sampled this one. Super glad that now I’ve got two awesome angst songs to listen to, instead of just one.
I heard this songs the first day of my freshmen year and it felt like I opened up a whole new chapter in my life , I’m now halfway my junior year and the memories this brings just warms my heart, times really flies by. Edit: I’m a senior and 17 now and listening to this song now feels way different, it all felt like a dream, my whole high school experience didn’t feel real and it hurts to know it’ll be over soon. Even though I am happier now than when I first commented this, it sucks knowing I can never go back to being that 14 year old naive mentality. Update: I’m 2 months away from graduating and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. I see my 14 year old self and I think about how much I’ve matured. When I first wrote this I was an unhappy 16 year old thinking my life was already over but look, a year later I’m happy, finally. So far everything’s good.
I feel that. I found EDEN back in my freshman year of high school and it felt exactly like that. Now im in my second year of college, just breaking into my 20s and SO much has changed in my life, almost all for the better, albeit some for the worse, but ultimately it has made me a better person because of it. I wish I could go back to 2015 me and do things differently, but I cant. And theres some semblance of beauty in that. The knowledge that what we do and the decisions we make is almost always finite, and we cant go back and undo those experiances now that we're older. I truly do believe theres some beauty in that. I dont know why I got all philosophical there but hey. Just one of those nights ya know?
Dang, hope you get through that soon, it’s definitely a mental state breaker just thinking about your loved one’s death, but I believe you can get through this my bro, I never had anything like this happen, not *YET.* But I can relate to this somehow, anyways, hope you get through this.
i really love this song. i found it from sunflower. this song gives me so many emotions. it reminds me of this one girl and i absolutely love her. but the subtle emotion swings always make me tear up and just like- break down. she was so amazing and genuinely caring and i always treated her like shit (i think?) and never payed attention to her feelings due to being abused and only seeing toxic relationships throughout my childhood. for three years it happened and she still was absolutely in love with me. now the tables have turned and im the one constantly pouring my emotions out to her and shit- i love her so much and i just kinda wish she would look at me and realize im not that same person. shes always talking about wanting to be important to someone and be needed and i just constantly keep asking myself 'what about me'. i want to be her number one. i want her to talk to me and shit. but by the time this song ends or she sees this comment she probably wont remember who i am. idk why i poured my feelings out in a comment section but it feels good. update: she fell out of love with me a while ago and has been deeply in love with her best friend for a while. i knew something was going on between them. but as long as she's happy, i am too. i wish them luck and a happy relationship. turns out she manipulated and abused me and i wasnt the issue. it hurts like hell and i've been crying non-stop for the past two days, but i'll get over it soon. ty guys for liking btw. update: i have a boyfriend now who was my friend through all of this
its good you know what started the negativity in relationships, it might be good to get therapy, write out your emotions to yourself (try not to rely on others for it because you're the one who is going to be with you for your entire life, if you rely too heavily on other people you may find it hard to seek happiness within yourself and try to seek validation. I've been there, trust me please) I hope you feel better soon, and I'm sorry.
@@bonniesensai i'm fine now. im way happier now that i've let go and i like to think of it as a part of my character development. thank you guys for checking up on me.
For some reason the end of the song gives me actual chills, beautifully made and the way it progresses as a energetic song to a low beat piano mix is the best thing ive heard. im pleased.
to you, who told me to listen to this song, before we finally part ways, I hope life treats you very well. you deserve to love and be loved by someone, remember to always smile and cherish your precious life. take yourself to the moon, until then :)
I feel this song in a different way. I feel it because I’m never somebody else’s first choice. As a friend, as a lover, as a relative…I’m always the last choice. Like nobody really pays attention to me. What about me? I exist too. It hurts to be hurt all the time by being ignored or only considered after having considered everybody else first.I’m none. What about me?
the only time i was ever thought of first was during my worst relationship ever. i dont want to be first because i would get reminded of the pain of that relationship but i dont want to be last because it makes me feel unwanted and casted aside.
I know what you mean, usually for me I'm not even a choice. They just never consider me. Every time we separate and goes back home on the ride to home, I'm always thinking about this and getting my eyes wet. Usually, I'll just ignore that everyone doesn't think of me as a choice, though probably an escapist mentality but it helps me mentally. In the past year I've been thinking that the problem stems from me, I tried hard by at least appearing everywhere, talking to anyone and generally being there. Though it's still in early phase, everyone treats me slightly different now and I'm now a possible choice for anything really.
Am I the only one who feels that “but if you're looking for something new I know somebody that you could choose.what about me?” Has a lot of potential and such a good lyric to only be reapeted once?
Thats sadly true. The whole Song has so much Potential because of this part but they made this. I dont want to say that its bad, but „what about me“ is the best Part of this song! Finale someone who agrees with me😅
I was born into a home with my mom and dad. Not even a year later, me and my mom went to live with my grandparents. It stayed that way for about 7 years. My mom and dad had my sister, but my dad was still not in the picture. When my sister was 1, and I was 8, my mom left us. She had been drinking, and decided one day to go to work and not come back. We saw her every once in a while, but she was not okay. Life went on, me, my sister, and my grandparents. I had 3 close friends, but when we got to middle school they began to grow more distant. They are still friends, just less. They decided to follow the football path, while i pursued music. Music was the only thing that I could fall back on for a while. 7th grade came and went, and I went into 8th. When I got into 8th grade I joined marching band, because it seemed amazing. I got in and it quickly became my whole life. Early in the morning to late at night I was with my first real friends doing my first real passion. That's where I met Mackenzie. I at first thought she was just really pretty, but we began talking and she turned into my best friend. We went like that for 2 months before I got fed up. I typed out my feelings and I couldn't press send. I asked a few of my friends and they said to just do it. I eventually pressed send and waited to get shut down. To my surprise however, she shared the same feelings. Over text we were very into each other, but things in person stayed exactly the same. Our stupid young brains were too scared to act for over a week. Things slowly picked up though. We hugged and things went up from there. My friends said I looked happier, and I was. She was the first person I really loved. We would stay up until 3 in the morning just talking. At one point she needed a mental break because of things at home. I thought things were over, but a week later she was feeling better and we missed each other loads. We got back together and things went back to normal. Marching band put us together most of every day. We would listen to her music on bus rides, and that's where I heard this song. It became my favorite song, it just clicked. We went on our first date the week before Christmas. We got Dutch Bros and laid under the stars together, and that was when I was happiest. We were happy, but the whole time she had been keeping little things from me. She had been in a traumatic relationship before, and little insecurities and secrets built up to her finally telling me that she was scared of a relationship. 3 days before new year, she broke up with me. That's when I broke. Years of a broken life finally snapped due to her leaving me. I went into a deep depression and felt a tad suicidal. This song came back to me then, it described me in ways I didn't even know. Through all that pain I still had my best friend Nathan and my band Teacher Mr.Rother. Mr.R was the first adult I had ever thought of as someone who cared about me. And Nathan had gone through a lot too. Nathan made me suck it up and tell Mr.R what had happened. In that small band office, I got the first (and last) real help. Nathan stayed with me and I called him my therapist consistently. Me and Kenzie were still friends, but I missed her to death. I was starting to feel better until the dance concert. Me, Nathan, Josh, and Lilly (I helped her through some stuff) were all in dance together. During the concert, Nathan started getting snappy and uptight. Late that night I was crying to Nathan again when he broke me yet again. He told me that my feelings didn't matter at all and that I should just shut up. Imagine how that felt to me, when he was really all I had. I told Kenzie and she said she couldn't believe he would do that. Josh was one of my other friends and after that I went to him. He helped me, but I was way far gone. Eventually he couldn't do anything else to help me and I was alone again. There is a whole month where I can't remember anything except that I was broken. During that entire month the only people who said anything at all to help me were Kenzie and Mr.R. the advanced fine arts went on a trip to California for 3 days and Kenzie was there just out of reach the whole time. The end of the year came, and I was a sad, broken mess. During the summer I healed mostly, but I was still depressed. I went on a backpacking trip where I met Braxton, and he was the comedic support I needed. I then went to FSY for week. I met my roommate and he mentioned his sister and I thought nothing of it, until I saw her and fell in love. Me and Renai confessed to each other halfway though the week. It was then she told me that she and her family had to move to Hawaii because her dad was military. We were happy, and when the week ended , she left. We stayed in touch for a while, but eventually we both thought it would be for the best if we ended things. I had Braxton and Lilly to help me through that, but it was okay. School came up again and when I went to band camp I discovered that Kenzie had started dating one of the drumline. At first I was distraught, but I quickly realized that she was way happier with him than she was with me. Months of gray area, before I start dating Nathan's adopted sister Emma. I had helped her in the past with emotional stuff, and I thought there was something there. We went for about a month, before she decided she just didn't want me anymore. I had heard from people that she would do that eventually so it softened the blow. It took a week of nothing before I started thinking again. I couldn't even find anybody to like anymore. All I could see everyday was Kenzie and Aiden, and they were happy. I didn't hate them, but it subconsciously messes with me. It got to my head and I began thinking things that no one should ever think. I began feeling left behind. Forgotten. Abandoned. I couldn't find anybody that ever asked me what was wrong. Lots of my friends started ignoring me. While they were asking Josh was okay because he was tired, I had to smile. Everybody liked Mr.Funnyhaha. Nobody gave a single SHIT about the real Jonah. I smiled and still I smile. When I think of the future it's gray. I wanted to die. I couldn't kill myself, I would just be an inconvenience,but I really wanted to die. My will to live is gone. One night I was checking Instagram and one guy mention Rex Orange County. I pulled up this song and just sat. All these emotions began pouring through my mind. I couldn't even think, so I decided to write. I wrote and I wrote. I wrote things that I hadn't even thought of before. And here we are. That's right I'm young. There is no happy ending. I'm lonely, depressed, and I wish I could just fucking die. I don't even deserve to be sad. There are people in the world who have gone through one hundred times this, yet for some reason I think I have the right to do this. I imagine a world where everybody is happy and I'm not in it. Everybody gets their own happy ending. What about me?
Wow man I’m sorry about all that. Just know that people care about you and you’re are loved. I went through similar things with friends a year ago and it really messed me up for a while, but if you just wait it’ll get better. I’m friends with the person again and I’ve never been happier. Life will get better as corny as that sounds.
Wow that was a rollercoaster of events hopefully it will get better soon and don't kill yourself it will get better eventually and you have a reason to love it's just hidden go find it get a good job and go have a fun time try and find a girl for you go on a vacation go do something fun you will genuinely have a pretty good time and it might help go have some fun man it will be fine in the end what I'm saying is is it will get better I wish the best for you and will be praying for you. I'm here for you don't worry
My friends dad died a week ago and he is going through tough times and I just want you to know that you need to be like him cuz he lost his GF to another guy and he thought all hope was lost until he met me and I know you will meet that special someone one day😊
Hey man, I'm sorry you've had to endure so much suffering already. Just remember that, although these initial and younger years of your life have felt so long, you've still got probably 4 times that much time left to live. So much life has already happened, and think of how much life might happen. I'm just glad you've held out this long, you truly matter. I've gone through periods of being immensely tired and sad like you, and just know that it really does get better, I genuinely mean it. Always work on self improvement. For starters, hopefully by now you've recognized that trying to pick someone in your life to be romantically attracted to, isn't exactly healthy. I don't mean that as an attack, just to try and help you out. Healthy, lifelong love is something that requires you to be a good version of yourself to be suitable for the right person when the time comes. Hope this helps :)
I know alot of people alr said this, and a random comments on yt wont do much to help you, but i do seriously hope you got better, i could feel your emotion through your writing, sorry if my english is akward is not my first langue.
I've been listening to Rex Orange since 2019, I believe, and I can always relate because I was either a second choice or rejected. Now I'm hoping to spend time with a girl who will never be mine.
There's this girl I've basically known my whole life and I love her so much, but I think that she feels the same way about me, I think. I've asked her if she wants to be In a relationship but she said she doesn't want to be In a relationship rn, but then here she goes wanting to hold my hand and doing things that a girlfriend would do, and I'm just so fucking sad and confused rn because of all these mixed signals she's giving me. But this song by Alex just exactly describes how I'm feeling. But anyways I just wanted to tell someone, anyone about this, I could've talked to my best friends abt this but they wouldn't understand, they're great friends but they just wouldn't understand what I'm going through.
I think she want things to go naturally and is scared of puting straight up words on this relationship. I'v been in a similar situation last year and i fucked it up, it destroyed me so i would know. Even tho, u can do it just be smooth and don't scare her, from what u said, she seems to like u :)
Fun fact: I knew rex by a boy who i really liked some years ago. He said he really like this band and i start to listen all the band's musics to have something in common with him. After all: The guy was an asshole, but I became a fan of Rex. (Sorry for bad english????)
I'm not gatekeeping this song, I'm just proud I'm one of those people who enjoyed this song when it was first released. Being discovered because of TikTok isn't bad at all, but what's with all those slowed+reverb thing they do in almost every goddamn song 💀
This man just doesnt stop! I hear a new song that sounds amazing under the same type of music and now I can automatically assume it's this guy. Hes pumping out masterpiece after masterpiece
This song makes me remember how short life can be... It can the last day of anyone. I want to live a good life with ups and downs. My dream is that I can keep the people I love as long as possible. That's all I wish for, I promise that I will take care for the rest of the things in life
allegations say he sa’ed the woman outside his house in the uk on july 1st. he was on tour california july 1st. please, before you cancel anyone, read into the facts, thank you.
This is the kind of song that you can listen to when you're sad, but it also convinces you to get better
Fax bro I listen to this while working out and it hella motivates me
I have also made a cover of this song . It will be great if You visit my channel and check it out 🥰
wanna recommend me more songs like this:)
I like this song
@@samiam7474 🥲🤝🙂 same bro
The vibe changes like 7 times. Just like flipping through television channels...
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Tbh
@@brookegraham2996 fr bro
i swear, this is not me
😇
how does this song not get more attention?!?!
maia eames casue he cant sing
VICTORy TM and you can't spell "cause" 😙
@@livandmaddie lmao funny joke.
@@livandmaddie get a load of this guy
yet
0:42 Now this is the best part
True 👍
50!!❤
“Dad why is my sister named rose”
“Cuz your mom loves roses”
“Thanks dad”
“Sure thing *television’sguitarsolo”*
AHAHAHAH omgggg
@@amnahsayyed8172 hahahahaha so funny yes!! !
By the way every comment under isn't sarcastic
i laughed without hesitation hahaha
HHSHSHSHHSHAHAHAHAA
I'm so happy youtube recommended Sunflower to me and I found his music.
Me too! His music sounded odd at first but as I listen to them more, I begin to fall in love with his style
was best friend for me :)
i found him from berd hehe
sexy pigeon
Same omg. Saw a video of sunflower in fb and I've never been so grateful.
A moment of silence, for those who searched "what about me"
couldn't be me....
we aren't from tiktok
@@user-vz8ir6oe4k i am….
Ur pfp 😔
wow haha couldnt be me ahaha
Bro the drums are so good
Lyrics:
Hey
I'm not afraid, I can be myself and I
Hope you can be yourself as well
'Cause I can make you feel alright
And there was so much happiness that
We were still yet to find
I said that you can call me Alex, baby
Welcome to my life
But don't you worry, don't you, don't worry girl
No I'm not sure if I'm into you
The last time that you checked I was probably so sad and confused
I don't know, no, I don't know what you like
But if you're looking for something new
I know somebody that you could choose
What about me?
What about me?
What about me and you together?
Something that could really last forever
What about me?
What about me?
What about me and you together?
Something that could really last forever
If all my friends wanna be in her bed
Then I begin to wonder why
I guess that I'd be lying to myself
Because who the fuck
Would be dumb enough
To reject an offer?
Oh what an offer?
Now two two ten one five
Couple hours can change your life
Frankie saying oh what a night?
What a night?
What the fuck is a girlfriend?
I'mma need advice
Maybe I should go outside
So I could get a fucking life
I made a friend and she spent the night now
I'm in love and she remains in my life
And back when we spoke in Europe
I need insurance, on my emotions
I can't get hurt again
Fuck the past, fuck them, they all made me sad
And I had no time to prepare to face my fears
I guess that it's time that I dried these tears
But if I could just be happy by the end of this song
But if by the time you hear it you are already gone
And it didn't go to plan
Then why should I continue in this life
When there's no one around to be the one who makes me smile?
But so far everything's good
(Ooh)
Oh oh oh
Oh oh oh oh oh
I said, so far everything's good
Oh oh oh
Oh no no no
No no no no no oh
Want the crowd in tears when they hear this
Is that so wrong?
copy ad paste gets u 111 likes god damn
Thankss
Thanks.
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@@dolfin4486 ad paste?
I felt that when he said:
“what the f*** is a girlfriend
i’m gonna need some advice
maybe I should go outside so I can get a f***ing life”
That makes two of us
Yes. So fucking relatable
Yeah exactly
@@ΕιρηνηΘανοπουλου-κ1γ Three*
Four.
A good musical theme has gained popularity in 2024, even though you are already 2025, it is incredible the amount of detail you have, you have done a good job :)
Edit:Thanks for 14 likes :)
2025🎉🎉🎉
@@IngridHernandez-nn4qk I hope you have a good year and that you achieve your goals :) happy 2025
0:51 is the greatest line, but sadly, its a only one verse, it doesn't repeat in the whole vid.
Edit:
Thanks for the likes!
True.
I’ve beeeeen replaying that line.
@@artless90 Ok, I respect your opinion but i was born with this (UA-cam), and i mostly i discovered this by my brother listing to it, then founded out that people use this song on TikTok (but only the 0:51 part .-.). I mean, i like the full song, but 0:51 just hit me differently, so thats why i loved that line.
@@artless90 gatekeeping?? Sad 💀
I love the first minute of this song a lot
I find his melancholic optimism relatable…the sense of wanting things to get better and knowing they will but still feeling the bad stuff in the present
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Yes
I didn't think anyone could put the vibe of this in a sentence
That key change at 3:09 gives me goosebumps every time
I didnt hear anything
Super reminiscent of Tyler the creators style of music to me
@@zygardslinger6389 fr
It sounds like any moment now, Tyler's about to appear and start saying "running out of time, running out of time, running out of tiiiime"
Somebody needs to make that transition
this part is like the route 216 of pokemon platinum
Kinda reminded me of david collier on this part
Never heard of this song before. I was listening to Zalinki’s (deleted) song Knee Socks and learned from others that it sampled this one. Super glad that now I’ve got two awesome angst songs to listen to, instead of just one.
I heard this songs the first day of my freshmen year and it felt like I opened up a whole new chapter in my life , I’m now halfway my junior year and the memories this brings just warms my heart, times really flies by. Edit: I’m a senior and 17 now and listening to this song now feels way different, it all felt like a dream, my whole high school experience didn’t feel real and it hurts to know it’ll be over soon. Even though I am happier now than when I first commented this, it sucks knowing I can never go back to being that 14 year old naive mentality. Update: I’m 2 months away from graduating and I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. I see my 14 year old self and I think about how much I’ve matured. When I first wrote this I was an unhappy 16 year old thinking my life was already over but look, a year later I’m happy, finally. So far everything’s good.
aww thats so beautiful
Senior year
mine was my senior year in high school!
I feel that. I found EDEN back in my freshman year of high school and it felt exactly like that. Now im in my second year of college, just breaking into my 20s and SO much has changed in my life, almost all for the better, albeit some for the worse, but ultimately it has made me a better person because of it. I wish I could go back to 2015 me and do things differently, but I cant. And theres some semblance of beauty in that. The knowledge that what we do and the decisions we make is almost always finite, and we cant go back and undo those experiances now that we're older. I truly do believe theres some beauty in that. I dont know why I got all philosophical there but hey. Just one of those nights ya know?
@@HeyItzAri yeah i feel it man, I wish I could go back to being naive about the world but we found out sooner or later
I love alex, honestly. He's an amazing person. I wish i could go to one of his concerts 🥺
My sister went to one of his concerts and it was a blast she said
i went to one of his concerts, i didnt know who he was until i went as my friend took me there, he’s so good
tengo novia
acordate que tengo novia
no te olvides
This song is amazing… songs like this make me think about the past…
Nah maybe because it is in the pas-
Noice song
@@StopxTrista h
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bruh -_-
if this song ain't playing in my funeral,i ain't dying
何年経っても名曲
fr
だよねぇ〜
this was the song i heard in the radio, and i was vibing
im so happy i found this song a few months ago
Earl Tidalgo you’re so lucky. i never get songs like these on the radio. but im glad it helped you find your way here. 🥺❤️
what station :((
@@lemonlime7862 yeah really! I'd love to hear Rex on the radio lol
I have also made a cover of this song . It will be great if You visit my channel and check it out 🥰
I sit listening to music and remembering my mother who left this world when I was 8 years old, I won’t forget her...
Oh im sorry for that 😢😢
You can't see her but she's in your heart friend
غم آخر باشه🖤
Dang, hope you get through that soon, it’s definitely a mental state breaker just thinking about your loved one’s death, but I believe you can get through this my bro, I never had anything like this happen, not *YET.* But I can relate to this somehow, anyways, hope you get through this.
That's sad I hope u can get better
Let's all be honest
This song bangs in the morning
I listened to this on the bus this morning so ig so 😂😂
just got up, works pretty well
This song bangs ANYTIME haha!
in the evening too
also the night lol
Best of all
Me alegra tanto que Rex Orange County tenga más reconocimiento, merece eso y mucho más.
YES!
Ujum
Alfin uno de lengua hispana
tenes razon :)
Esa cansion me recuerda cuando mi abuelo a un sigia vivo
Perp mi abuelo murio en 2021 :,(.....
i really love this song. i found it from sunflower. this song gives me so many emotions. it reminds me of this one girl and i absolutely love her. but the subtle emotion swings always make me tear up and just like- break down. she was so amazing and genuinely caring and i always treated her like shit (i think?) and never payed attention to her feelings due to being abused and only seeing toxic relationships throughout my childhood. for three years it happened and she still was absolutely in love with me. now the tables have turned and im the one constantly pouring my emotions out to her and shit- i love her so much and i just kinda wish she would look at me and realize im not that same person. shes always talking about wanting to be important to someone and be needed and i just constantly keep asking myself 'what about me'. i want to be her number one. i want her to talk to me and shit. but by the time this song ends or she sees this comment she probably wont remember who i am. idk why i poured my feelings out in a comment section but it feels good.
update: she fell out of love with me a while ago and has been deeply in love with her best friend for a while. i knew something was going on between them. but as long as she's happy, i am too. i wish them luck and a happy relationship. turns out she manipulated and abused me and i wasnt the issue. it hurts like hell and i've been crying non-stop for the past two days, but i'll get over it soon. ty guys for liking btw.
update: i have a boyfriend now who was my friend through all of this
its good you know what started the negativity in relationships, it might be good to get therapy, write out your emotions to yourself (try not to rely on others for it because you're the one who is going to be with you for your entire life, if you rely too heavily on other people you may find it hard to seek happiness within yourself and try to seek validation. I've been there, trust me please)
I hope you feel better soon, and I'm sorry.
@@gav2n why? for attention?
@@bonniesensai i'm fine now. im way happier now that i've let go and i like to think of it as a part of my character development. thank you guys for checking up on me.
keep your head up king, your crown is falling
I hope the best for you :)! ( haven't even listened to the song yet, but I read your comment. ) I hope you find someone else and be happier soon
I love this song so much
4🖐 2025
Rex still hits hard in 2024, I am so glad..
For real bro..
Me❤
Same
i fw u hard
Me
German, Italian, French and British delegations in Munich in 1938: decide how to divide Czechoslovakia
Czechoslovak delegation: 0:50
this deserves 100K likes
I am from czech
The Hungarians in WW2 as well
Poland during the Yalta conference:
0:26
0:51 I love this part
OMG thanks for the 100 likes!
Yes
0:52 This Is Part Him
Me too
Me also❤
True
this is the best song❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤💘🩷💝🩷💝💘💝🩷💝
its been 4 years we still listen to this song.Edit:My notifs-
This came out 7 years ago
Bro sad days😔
100th like
Nah its been 100
Hi
For some reason the end of the song gives me actual chills, beautifully made and the way it progresses as a energetic song to a low beat piano mix is the best thing ive heard. im pleased.
What about me what about me 🥺🥺🥺
I LOVE THIS SONG
YES
I loved this song
Me tooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
Yes 😀
@@ILOVEPEPSIVERRYMUCH
Okay
THIS SONG IS AMAZING.
this song is so good! which has been on my playlist for a while, I even recommended it to my friends and they liked it.
My friend recommended it to me too. Its really good.
i made likes 69
true shit man
same
aku?
to you, who told me to listen to this song, before we finally part ways, I hope life treats you very well. you deserve to love and be loved by someone, remember to always smile and cherish your precious life. take yourself to the moon, until then :)
One my favorites
I feel this song in a different way. I feel it because I’m never somebody else’s first choice. As a friend, as a lover, as a relative…I’m always the last choice. Like nobody really pays attention to me. What about me? I exist too. It hurts to be hurt all the time by being ignored or only considered after having considered everybody else first.I’m none. What about me?
Man that's deep, it feels the same though. The words itself "what about me" are deep
the only time i was ever thought of first was during my worst relationship ever. i dont want to be first because i would get reminded of the pain of that relationship but i dont want to be last because it makes me feel unwanted and casted aside.
@@wheatflavoredicecream6863 I wasn't even my ex's first choice
I know what you mean, usually for me I'm not even a choice. They just never consider me.
Every time we separate and goes back home on the ride to home, I'm always thinking about this and getting my eyes wet. Usually, I'll just ignore that everyone doesn't think of me as a choice, though probably an escapist mentality but it helps me mentally.
In the past year I've been thinking that the problem stems from me, I tried hard by at least appearing everywhere, talking to anyone and generally being there. Though it's still in early phase, everyone treats me slightly different now and I'm now a possible choice for anything really.
I can be your what about me
1:04 is the best part
Yeah speack Spanish guys
0:51 is so nostalgic and my favorite part
It's probably because of the chords, idk any music or anything but I think it's because of the flat six or something
listening to this on valentine's day hits different
nah i feel you
Sometimes it’s better to use that day to self reflect and improve yourself
Never put your value in someone’s else’s approval 👍
1:47 is officially my favorite part
Underrated part
Just like mine
Am I the only one who feels that “but if you're looking for something new I know somebody that you could choose.what about me?”
Has a lot of potential and such a good lyric to only be reapeted once?
Thats sadly true.
The whole Song has so much Potential because of this part but they made this.
I dont want to say that its bad, but „what about me“ is the best Part of this song!
Finale someone who agrees with me😅
not only u, we are the same
I see what about me meme in the basics in behaviour or fundamental paper education
Ssdj
ei
0:41 so sad
"I need insurance on my emotions/ I can't get hurt again"
It’s apart of life. You can’t live life if you’re afraid of being hurt.
@@kintarooe8688 so true
ty! my fav lyrics ever
bop of all bops
1 years apart i will come back here if it is 1 year
This Is the best Song
of the World
real
@@AnimeScenesYobrasileiro (a)?
Agree
Agree
its not trust me bro
This is 2020 Vibes fr
I was born into a home with my mom and dad. Not even a year later, me and my mom went to live with my grandparents. It stayed that way for about 7 years. My mom and dad had my sister, but my dad was still not in the picture. When my sister was 1, and I was 8, my mom left us. She had been drinking, and decided one day to go to work and not come back. We saw her every once in a while, but she was not okay. Life went on, me, my sister, and my grandparents. I had 3 close friends, but when we got to middle school they began to grow more distant. They are still friends, just less. They decided to follow the football path, while i pursued music. Music was the only thing that I could fall back on for a while. 7th grade came and went, and I went into 8th. When I got into 8th grade I joined marching band, because it seemed amazing. I got in and it quickly became my whole life. Early in the morning to late at night I was with my first real friends doing my first real passion. That's where I met Mackenzie. I at first thought she was just really pretty, but we began talking and she turned into my best friend. We went like that for 2 months before I got fed up. I typed out my feelings and I couldn't press send. I asked a few of my friends and they said to just do it. I eventually pressed send and waited to get shut down. To my surprise however, she shared the same feelings. Over text we were very into each other, but things in person stayed exactly the same. Our stupid young brains were too scared to act for over a week. Things slowly picked up though. We hugged and things went up from there. My friends said I looked happier, and I was. She was the first person I really loved. We would stay up until 3 in the morning just talking. At one point she needed a mental break because of things at home. I thought things were over, but a week later she was feeling better and we missed each other loads. We got back together and things went back to normal. Marching band put us together most of every day. We would listen to her music on bus rides, and that's where I heard this song. It became my favorite song, it just clicked. We went on our first date the week before Christmas. We got Dutch Bros and laid under the stars together, and that was when I was happiest. We were happy, but the whole time she had been keeping little things from me. She had been in a traumatic relationship before, and little insecurities and secrets built up to her finally telling me that she was scared of a relationship. 3 days before new year, she broke up with me. That's when I broke. Years of a broken life finally snapped due to her leaving me. I went into a deep depression and felt a tad suicidal. This song came back to me then, it described me in ways I didn't even know. Through all that pain I still had my best friend Nathan and my band Teacher Mr.Rother. Mr.R was the first adult I had ever thought of as someone who cared about me. And Nathan had gone through a lot too. Nathan made me suck it up and tell Mr.R what had happened. In that small band office, I got the first (and last) real help. Nathan stayed with me and I called him my therapist consistently. Me and Kenzie were still friends, but I missed her to death. I was starting to feel better until the dance concert. Me, Nathan, Josh, and Lilly (I helped her through some stuff) were all in dance together. During the concert, Nathan started getting snappy and uptight. Late that night I was crying to Nathan again when he broke me yet again. He told me that my feelings didn't matter at all and that I should just shut up. Imagine how that felt to me, when he was really all I had. I told Kenzie and she said she couldn't believe he would do that. Josh was one of my other friends and after that I went to him. He helped me, but I was way far gone. Eventually he couldn't do anything else to help me and I was alone again. There is a whole month where I can't remember anything except that I was broken. During that entire month the only people who said anything at all to help me were Kenzie and Mr.R. the advanced fine arts went on a trip to California for 3 days and Kenzie was there just out of reach the whole time. The end of the year came, and I was a sad, broken mess. During the summer I healed mostly, but I was still depressed. I went on a backpacking trip where I met Braxton, and he was the comedic support I needed. I then went to FSY for week. I met my roommate and he mentioned his sister and I thought nothing of it, until I saw her and fell in love. Me and Renai confessed to each other halfway though the week. It was then she told me that she and her family had to move to Hawaii because her dad was military. We were happy, and when the week ended , she left. We stayed in touch for a while, but eventually we both thought it would be for the best if we ended things. I had Braxton and Lilly to help me through that, but it was okay. School came up again and when I went to band camp I discovered that Kenzie had started dating one of the drumline. At first I was distraught, but I quickly realized that she was way happier with him than she was with me. Months of gray area, before I start dating Nathan's adopted sister Emma. I had helped her in the past with emotional stuff, and I thought there was something there. We went for about a month, before she decided she just didn't want me anymore. I had heard from people that she would do that eventually so it softened the blow. It took a week of nothing before I started thinking again. I couldn't even find anybody to like anymore. All I could see everyday was Kenzie and Aiden, and they were happy. I didn't hate them, but it subconsciously messes with me. It got to my head and I began thinking things that no one should ever think. I began feeling left behind. Forgotten. Abandoned. I couldn't find anybody that ever asked me what was wrong. Lots of my friends started ignoring me. While they were asking Josh was okay because he was tired, I had to smile. Everybody liked Mr.Funnyhaha. Nobody gave a single SHIT about the real Jonah. I smiled and still I smile. When I think of the future it's gray. I wanted to die. I couldn't kill myself, I would just be an inconvenience,but I really wanted to die. My will to live is gone. One night I was checking Instagram and one guy mention Rex Orange County. I pulled up this song and just sat. All these emotions began pouring through my mind. I couldn't even think, so I decided to write. I wrote and I wrote. I wrote things that I hadn't even thought of before. And here we are. That's right I'm young. There is no happy ending. I'm lonely, depressed, and I wish I could just fucking die. I don't even deserve to be sad. There are people in the world who have gone through one hundred times this, yet for some reason I think I have the right to do this. I imagine a world where everybody is happy and I'm not in it. Everybody gets their own happy ending. What about me?
Wow man I’m sorry about all that. Just know that people care about you and you’re are loved. I went through similar things with friends a year ago and it really messed me up for a while, but if you just wait it’ll get better. I’m friends with the person again and I’ve never been happier. Life will get better as corny as that sounds.
Wow that was a rollercoaster of events hopefully it will get better soon and don't kill yourself it will get better eventually and you have a reason to love it's just hidden go find it get a good job and go have a fun time try and find a girl for you go on a vacation go do something fun you will genuinely have a pretty good time and it might help go have some fun man it will be fine in the end what I'm saying is is it will get better I wish the best for you and will be praying for you. I'm here for you don't worry
My friends dad died a week ago and he is going through tough times and I just want you to know that you need to be like him cuz he lost his GF to another guy and he thought all hope was lost until he met me and I know you will meet that special someone one day😊
Hey man, I'm sorry you've had to endure so much suffering already. Just remember that, although these initial and younger years of your life have felt so long, you've still got probably 4 times that much time left to live. So much life has already happened, and think of how much life might happen. I'm just glad you've held out this long, you truly matter. I've gone through periods of being immensely tired and sad like you, and just know that it really does get better, I genuinely mean it. Always work on self improvement. For starters, hopefully by now you've recognized that trying to pick someone in your life to be romantically attracted to, isn't exactly healthy. I don't mean that as an attack, just to try and help you out. Healthy, lifelong love is something that requires you to be a good version of yourself to be suitable for the right person when the time comes. Hope this helps :)
I know alot of people alr said this, and a random comments on yt wont do much to help you, but i do seriously hope you got better, i could feel your emotion through your writing, sorry if my english is akward is not my first langue.
Whenever i feel down or a bit depressed i put this song on and it cheers me up, this song is beautiful please keep up the amazing work man!.
realtalk
4:13 That last piano note, sent me into orbit.
Same
The best audio
WHO IS HERE IN 2024?!👇👇
You
@@eliz9838me
Yo
me and You😂
Me
I’m litterly in love with this song THE BEAT AND EVERYTHING it makes me so happy
😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
"want the crowd in tears when they hear this". Mission accomplished Rex:')
This is what we call a banger
0:46 My favorite part of music
Same
0:46: elige que hay de mi😥
The only good part of the song honestly, shame there weren’t any repeats of this line throughout the song.
same
Too
I love this song so much cause for a solid 4:23 it feels like everything is all good.
Love this song but hate that it brings back memories that aren’t mine, these feelings aren’t mine and I don’t know how to deal with them
Pls send help
what ever do you mean darling?
???
I feel this too. He sends his feelings so well through the song that I get affected for things I didn't even live
bro same
same :>
I love this song
“It is what it is” ahh jam making me boogie
Simplemente hermosa.
Tối nay đón giao thừa nha a!❤
This song plays:
That one mf: womp womp
HE WAS PROVEN INNOCENT, Never doubted him for a second❤
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@@vshroshhe was charged with SA allegations
@@Joseph_Joestar_555 oh ok
@@vshroshhow didn’t you know lol
I've been listening to Rex Orange since 2019, I believe, and I can always relate because I was either a second choice or rejected. Now I'm hoping to spend time with a girl who will never be mine.
Same here
damn. im hoping for the same. I hope I can spend time with a guy who will never like me or show it :')
Damn same here, felt that. I wish you luck for being first choice and not rejected though!
Ha for me I finally got the girl I wanted to be with for a year and it’s been going for two months but now I’m thinking is worth it
apparently the guy is now my bf so mission accomplished >v
0:43 0:47 0:49 0:50 😢 0:53 😢 0:57 😮 1:00 😢 1:02 😢 1:05 😢 1:07
please I'm crying already writing my own story while listening to this song.
My imagination + this song = I'm crying
Bruh
me too!! :O
😀😀😀😀😀😀
There's this girl I've basically known my whole life and I love her so much, but I think that she feels the same way about me, I think. I've asked her if she wants to be In a relationship but she said she doesn't want to be In a relationship rn, but then here she goes wanting to hold my hand and doing things that a girlfriend would do, and I'm just so fucking sad and confused rn because of all these mixed signals she's giving me. But this song by Alex just exactly describes how I'm feeling. But anyways I just wanted to tell someone, anyone about this, I could've talked to my best friends abt this but they wouldn't understand, they're great friends but they just wouldn't understand what I'm going through.
Don’t worry you aren’t alone in this situation!
damn bro i cant relate but hey i hope your confusion doesn't last that long
I think she want things to go naturally and is scared of puting straight up words on this relationship. I'v been in a similar situation last year and i fucked it up, it destroyed me so i would know. Even tho, u can do it just be smooth and don't scare her, from what u said, she seems to like u :)
@@adriou_3_lenckun359 yeah I agree, also since you were In a similar situation I trust your advice, thanks
Everything will be fine. 🥺
This song is exactly what I feel
Not a basic boy triying to look sad, I REALLY feel this song as the best thing my ears could hear
0:52 nostalgic 😢
0:49 is best lyric
Roblox kids when they found their roblox gf with someone else:
@@yukierblxlmao
@@yukierblxlol
what about me?
@@yukierblx fr lmao
wtf underrated asf
probably my fav ROC song
What about meeeee
Fun fact: I knew rex by a boy who i really liked some years ago. He said he really like this band and i start to listen all the band's musics to have something in common with him. After all: The guy was an asshole, but I became a fan of Rex. (Sorry for bad english????)
your english is pretty good!
what is important is your now here
Your english is bad and that's not even a fun fact.
@@El1as-- thanks
@@mcleyalanzalon1547 Yup:)
I love the vibe
This hits different when you get told "I need someone like you" but it's not actually you
this song is so criminally underated
This is the perfect soundtrack
0:44 just saving this ❤
XD
My friend recommended this to me and I'm glad she did. Thanks Lue. 😊
I'm not gatekeeping this song, I'm just proud I'm one of those people who enjoyed this song when it was first released. Being discovered because of TikTok isn't bad at all, but what's with all those slowed+reverb thing they do in almost every goddamn song 💀
Merry Christmas🎉!!
Happy New year to U srry it's a bit late to say it but have a wonderful day or night :)
The best piano playing I’ve ever heard in my life.
I’m off summer and I listen to this song everyday from then because miss my friends😢😢😢❤love y’all ❤❤❤❤
Bruh
0:46
Ha! I miss my crush, till next year I guess
I do miss my friend 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Me too😢😢😢😢
This song hits differently for everyone, some just like the music, some relate with the lyrics and some relate with the lyrics in another way.
0:44 ouvindo a música e me despedindo de 2024 ❤
I meet this music for the first time today, and I just loved! ❤
❤❤❤
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
This man just doesnt stop! I hear a new song that sounds amazing under the same type of music and now I can automatically assume it's this guy. Hes pumping out masterpiece after masterpiece
i remember being addicted w this song a year ago lmao 💀
same 💀💀
we living the same life
Same. When I used to have “depression “ 🤧
me too
2y ago
Honestly I am going through with stuff right now and this song is helping me by reminding me things will get better
Bro, I wish you get better, you're better now 1 year later
If you see spelling mistakes I'm argentinian
Best song ever
I agree
Eh
My fav part❤ 0:18
same brooooo
Yes Ooooooooo zy hldñslzkklllldkdldlslfkkkkdkgvlf2jf1234567890 4:14 4:15 4:16 4:17 4:18 4:18 4:18 4:19 4:19 4:19 4:19 4:20 4:20 4:20 4:21 4:21 HAHAHAHA
Me fav igualided
Nah that's FIRE🔥
This song makes me remember how short life can be... It can the last day of anyone. I want to live a good life with ups and downs. My dream is that I can keep the people I love as long as possible. That's all I wish for, I promise that I will take care for the rest of the things in life
1:38 one of the most jolly part 😊😊
0:45 RIP ant boi
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0:45
좋은 노래네요.
This song got a whole new meaning 💀
allegations say he sa’ed the woman outside his house in the uk on july 1st. he was on tour california july 1st.
please, before you cancel anyone, read into the facts, thank you.
@@user-hz1oq2qf2f Yeah, it's sad how so many people get falsely accused of that, his career is forever damaged because of this
Right 😭
@@user-hz1oq2qf2f sorry but like 6 counts of them
@@sir.dillonx9248 six counts by the SAME person, usually that says something you know
this just shows you every person is different
Every one is same
@@albanianalban9936no, don't make me gay i'm not like you!
@@albanianalban9936it appears I have been unwillingly turned Albanian
@@bruhm4571LOL
@@viadro4618EVEN LOL
2:45 I felt that
move on, make a better and a new plan if its fail again make another plan