"What Man In Their Right Mind Wants Another Man's Kids," Anton Gets Realistic About Women's Demands

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  • @AntonDaniels
    @AntonDaniels  7 місяців тому +7

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    • @PrincessSarahWifeofAzariyah
      @PrincessSarahWifeofAzariyah 7 місяців тому

      Boyce Watkins is a fool 😂!!!!! Great job inspiring 👏🏿 the brothers Anton!!!!!!! Your inspiring videos encourage righteousness!!!!!!

  • @waynereid3433
    @waynereid3433 7 місяців тому +122

    No woman with kids for me.

    • @Am71919
      @Am71919 7 місяців тому

      I don't mind dating a woman with kids as long as her kids are grown and gone

  • @relaxing_white_noises_by_j1980
    @relaxing_white_noises_by_j1980 7 місяців тому +99

    I grew up in a house where my mom and dad were married. My father gave my mother 49 married years and 52 years total before she passed away several years ago. Over the course of my life my father reminded me many times to never be a step dad. My older siblings always treated me and my youngest sister different because we were not from mom's first marriage. My older siblings don't have anything to do with my father after mom died regardless of him buying her a couple of houses and keeping her in jewelry. He's broken and hurt that they don't ever come check on him. I saw all this and definitely said that will NEVER be me!!!

    • @Candor49
      @Candor49 7 місяців тому +10

      I feel you, peace to you and your father RIP🙏🏽✌🏽I was a stepdad at one time and I wasn’t appreciated either.

    • @Blackwing_Master89
      @Blackwing_Master89 7 місяців тому +1

      Thats wild...blessing to yall

    • @kroenkeout708
      @kroenkeout708 7 місяців тому +2

      This is very common with blended families. Speaking from experience. That's one of the reasons I will never voluntarily put myself in that situation again. I was born into it.

  • @tmac3549
    @tmac3549 7 місяців тому +32

    Facts! I remember trying to build with a woman and her child. I remember her tryin to bait me into an argument I told her “ I’m not going to be in here arguing with you while your child’s father is probably out enjoying himself.”

  • @Yettobeprovedwrong
    @Yettobeprovedwrong 7 місяців тому +7

    Agreed! Preach!!! I’m a woman with no kids and stopped dating guys with kids. I don’t indulge in drama or baggage! …

  • @izzycrybaby1164
    @izzycrybaby1164 7 місяців тому +97

    I don't think a single woman can adequately prepare a boy for the world men experience.

    • @Sheed96
      @Sheed96 7 місяців тому +12

      that's a complete fact it's not a thought

    • @dred9174
      @dred9174 7 місяців тому +10

      ​@@Sheed96True but it's not our responsibility to raise kids that aren't ours. These women need to learn the hard way that chasing Pookie has consequences. That's why I hope they keep getting evicted to know that they should have went with that honest hardworking man over the drug dealers and scammers.

    • @Sheed96
      @Sheed96 7 місяців тому

      @@dred9174 faacts

    • @DontShootTheMessenger4thTier
      @DontShootTheMessenger4thTier 7 місяців тому +5

      How do boys prepare themselves when there’s a woman that doesn’t want to allow structure in the house or a man doesn’t have the patience to teach another man’s son?

    • @Sheed96
      @Sheed96 7 місяців тому +1

      @@DontShootTheMessenger4thTier nothing you can do at that point

  • @Camille-sv9tg
    @Camille-sv9tg 7 місяців тому +88

    I don’t date women with kids either it’s a bad deal😂

    • @cordallneal7381
      @cordallneal7381 7 місяців тому +3

      Smart man @Camille-sv9tg

    • @Camille-sv9tg
      @Camille-sv9tg 7 місяців тому

      @@cordallneal7381I’m a woman 😂😂😂but thanks

  • @denzelsnipes13
    @denzelsnipes13 7 місяців тому +36

    Being a stepfather is like cleaning up after a party you were never invited to. And you gotta pay the DJ out of your own pocket.

    • @1slummzzs
      @1slummzzs 7 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂. Iktr

  • @Brutus34100
    @Brutus34100 7 місяців тому +171

    Anton, is 100% correct. That little ninja will challenge you. When he gets old and says the magic word. You, not my father.

    • @rennell1
      @rennell1 7 місяців тому +3

      very true

    • @kenudice9841
      @kenudice9841 7 місяців тому +8

      The moment that ninja says that, I’m out.

    • @fudgematthew33
      @fudgematthew33 7 місяців тому +21

      God forbid it gets physical and he beats your behind. Now you have a choice: leave the relationship or marriage with no dignity or respect, or put him in the hospital by any means necessary. Because there's no way he can stay in the house after that. And the mother will ALWAYS defend her son.

    • @Brutus34100
      @Brutus34100 7 місяців тому

      Lol...

    • @skysimba8953
      @skysimba8953 7 місяців тому +12

      ​@@kenudice9841Don't ever put yourself in that position to start with.

  • @Marschand
    @Marschand 7 місяців тому +38

    Anton I’m a Gen-Xer and in my generation it was thought as being noble to accept another man’s kids, and I commend you bro for educating young men not to accept this as they deserve better. Thank you

    • @nnodw7721
      @nnodw7721 7 місяців тому +4

      Same here, same answer don't even think about. Plus I think that a woman can put a step dad on child support now even knowing the child isn't his. Absolutely not

    • @michaelmayojr.2730
      @michaelmayojr.2730 7 місяців тому +4

      Yep me too it was noble back then now I wouldn’t advise it

    • @bigwalt3898
      @bigwalt3898 7 місяців тому +9

      This is a lie! It was only Noble if the woman was married and the man died under tragic circumstances or he died serving his country. A dutiful widow makes it honorable not a baby momma!

    • @Marschand
      @Marschand 7 місяців тому +10

      @@bigwalt3898 you’re right but I’m saying back when I was coming up, no one told “us” not to do it.

    • @nnodw7721
      @nnodw7721 7 місяців тому +6

      ​@Marschand I'm 50 and yes it was considered noble and allot of our generation fell for it.

  • @roythousand13
    @roythousand13 7 місяців тому +65

    Being a step-father is one of the most idiotic things a man can do! There is absolutely no upside of taking care of another man's child, period!

    • @fudgematthew33
      @fudgematthew33 7 місяців тому +15

      No woman has been able to adequately explain the benefits of being a step-babydaddy.

    • @roythousand13
      @roythousand13 7 місяців тому +4

      @@fudgematthew33 , facts!

    • @thelevelupcommunity
      @thelevelupcommunity 7 місяців тому +8

      @@fudgematthew33never!! Yano it’s facts when you don’t have no women in the comments tryna prove anton wrong!!

    • @waterdrops2135
      @waterdrops2135 7 місяців тому +2

      🎉

    • @AyyYaYYaY
      @AyyYaYYaY 7 місяців тому +1

      @@thelevelupcommunity💯%

  • @dylanhill1640
    @dylanhill1640 7 місяців тому +33

    Not a good choice at all. A friend paid $120,000 for his step daughter to attend university only to get disrespected by her in the end.

    • @Soloman_1800
      @Soloman_1800 7 місяців тому +3

      Smh

    • @acarr00
      @acarr00 7 місяців тому +1

      Ouch

    • @airfrance4365
      @airfrance4365 7 місяців тому +2

      Oh well a fool and his money soon part ways 🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @fudgematthew33
      @fudgematthew33 7 місяців тому

      Know what his stepdaughter can say if he confronts her? "I didn't ask you to do that. You're not my father." Being a stepfather is a bad deal.

  • @deeb6545
    @deeb6545 7 місяців тому +86

    “I don’t like package deals. I only want what I paid for”. I like that quote, I’m definitely using that.

    • @fudgematthew33
      @fudgematthew33 7 місяців тому +3

      The doors of the church are open.

    • @PhelippeMitsu98
      @PhelippeMitsu98 7 місяців тому

      @@fudgematthew33the church and the paradise ain’t the same

    • @kingbizzle1357
      @kingbizzle1357 7 місяців тому

      @@fudgematthew33Church checking in.

    • @airfrance4365
      @airfrance4365 7 місяців тому +1

      It's only a package It's no deal

    • @fudgematthew33
      @fudgematthew33 7 місяців тому

      @@airfrance4365 amen

  • @Mr.Boring_Man
    @Mr.Boring_Man 7 місяців тому +35

    We have some of the most strong, independent, educated/enrolled, permanent unaccountable victims in the world.

  • @Rishawn26
    @Rishawn26 7 місяців тому +67

    I want Women with no kids... I only want the Sandwich not the Combo Meal

  • @smitht1988
    @smitht1988 7 місяців тому +59

    Imagine needing to make six figures just to date a woman with multiple kids

    • @mackfar27
      @mackfar27 7 місяців тому +18

      Woman with multiple kids that ain't yours. The audacity.

    • @Simpaholics_Anonymous
      @Simpaholics_Anonymous 7 місяців тому +5

      That’s an accurate reflection of the amount it cost to raise these kids. Somebody gotta pay 😂😂

    • @Flymula
      @Flymula 7 місяців тому +11

      Nasty work

  • @johnpatton2794
    @johnpatton2794 7 місяців тому +26

    I see a woman with kids I look her up and down once and keep it moving... I cant raise them like I do my kids they could be weak minded children and not accept my standards that I have in place for my kids so I can't do it

    • @DontShootTheMessenger4thTier
      @DontShootTheMessenger4thTier 7 місяців тому +2

      What do they do? Become the problem that people will complain about when they’re adults?

    • @k.c.marshall921
      @k.c.marshall921 7 місяців тому +1

      "Woman" not women.

    • @johnpatton2794
      @johnpatton2794 7 місяців тому

      @@k.c.marshall921 thank you cheif editor

    • @meuniversity8681
      @meuniversity8681 7 місяців тому

      ​@@DontShootTheMessenger4thTierif no structure is allowed ? Yes.

  • @DanteFortson
    @DanteFortson 7 місяців тому +42

    $60k and $70k a year are not average people unless you mean household. 😂
    Its definitely above average.

    • @ussssaaabixchh
      @ussssaaabixchh 7 місяців тому +16

      the truth a single person making 60-70k is cool

    • @Armyvet55
      @Armyvet55 7 місяців тому +7

      60 70k a year is decent 👌 👏 money 💰

    • @theerealatm
      @theerealatm 7 місяців тому +7

      That's damn good money where I'm from

    • @clockehvac1240
      @clockehvac1240 7 місяців тому +4

      60k to 70k is DAMN good money

    • @GeorgiaMade404
      @GeorgiaMade404 7 місяців тому +4

      If you’re single that’s decent I guess but $60-$70K a year with a family is barely surviving.

  • @mrtommy8875
    @mrtommy8875 7 місяців тому +7

    I never dated single moms. Now I have a real woman as my wife for 17 years now.
    I’m thankful I was wise enough to avoid all those problems. Not my kid not my responsibility!!

  • @RealJermaineHowlettTV
    @RealJermaineHowlettTV 7 місяців тому +10

    I heard you speak of this years ago. I immediately apologized and thanked my stepdad.

  • @colinscrypto3307
    @colinscrypto3307 7 місяців тому +24

    A real woman would work it out with the child's father. 9 times out of 10 they broke up because she was being petty. Not abuse, he brought home STDs, or he was unwilling to work. It was that, she wasn't happy or she thought she could do better (and didn't).

    • @AyyeMelik97.
      @AyyeMelik97. 7 місяців тому +2

      Or just stay single until them kids grown and out house but facts

    • @akilahbrooklyn8236
      @akilahbrooklyn8236 7 місяців тому +2

      @Colins...
      Please don't speak for women, especially if you're not one.
      A woman will leave her child's (or children's father) for this obvious reason.
      "She's a seat-filler and she suddenly relaized that he had no intentions of marrying her."
      There are many women who still believe that a baby keeps a man.
      Women will lay up with dead-beat men all day, especially if he's 'feeding' her promises.

    • @zozozizi6688
      @zozozizi6688 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@akilahbrooklyn8236so he is not a woman a'd can't talk about it?
      You are telling me, a man can't talk about a rachet and bad behavior of a woman because he ain't one?.. Does it make any sense?

    • @airfrance4365
      @airfrance4365 7 місяців тому +1

      ​@@akilahbrooklyn8236Women speak for men all the time on social media and they ain't men. So save it it's fair game.

    • @akilahbrooklyn8236
      @akilahbrooklyn8236 7 місяців тому

      @@airfrance4365
      Who told you that I advocated for women speaking on behalf of men?
      I don't agree with that either.
      For the record,
      I abhor feminism...
      And I abhor hasty generalizations.

  • @Stanley_Fields
    @Stanley_Fields 7 місяців тому +16

    I truly don’t think any man wants that, I think they find themselves in a situation where their either accept or settle for it!

  • @laron.henderson
    @laron.henderson 7 місяців тому +10

    I will never ever get with a single mother again! Worst decision I ever made

  • @Blkcappuccino
    @Blkcappuccino 7 місяців тому +3

    I did it at 23 and divorced less than 3 years later. I was quickly reminded that I wasn’t the daddy. I ran!!!! I hung the divorce decree on my wall. That’s how happy I was to be free!! Then she was on to the next step daddy. I think they are up to at least 4 step daddy’s now and all are adults. She tried to get me to adopt them too. Nope!

  • @tonyjohnson7421
    @tonyjohnson7421 7 місяців тому +3

    Say what you want! This dude really knows what's going on out here in these streets! I'll definitely be tuning in more on these topics!

  • @tmac3549
    @tmac3549 7 місяців тому +8

    Fellas get a women with no kids and great credit. If she doesn’t have great credit we won’t make it to the other stuff anyway.

  • @tracygibson6901
    @tracygibson6901 7 місяців тому +3

    Man I love that " fellas stop dumpster diving" love that saying !

  • @Vladdicted
    @Vladdicted 7 місяців тому +8

    Oh, Anton! Awesome video. Subscribed. Thanks for the dose of truth.

  • @LADETROIT
    @LADETROIT 7 місяців тому +5

    For a couple of years now I've been telling young men what the lead attorney advises about prenups. He's on point

  • @michaelh370
    @michaelh370 7 місяців тому +12

    Sorry not paying for your babies

  • @thisendthat
    @thisendthat 7 місяців тому +3

    If I had the money, I would buy up billboards and post them in every major city with the message FOR MEN WITHOUT KIDS, SAVE YOURSELVES, DON'T BECOME A STEPDAD!

  • @tima.478
    @tima.478 7 місяців тому +8

    Yeah, like some dudes in here already said...no kids for me! And I'll go further. I don't even deal with women who Tiktok, Insta, Snap, Facebook or any of that other "fake life" BS. Them shyt's is like Kryptonite to me. Consequently, I have a GF that is as solid as a woman can be. We go about 55/45 on every dime spent between us, the 55 being me. From the mortgage to dinner dates.

    • @dany6781
      @dany6781 7 місяців тому

      You have a mortgage with a young lady who isn’t your wife? Ummm just be careful, no matter how decent we are and we can be. There’s a reason why there will be more of us in hellfire than men.

    • @tima.478
      @tima.478 7 місяців тому

      It's my home, she moved in when her apt. lease was up. So It's all good, thanks though. 👍 @@dany6781

  • @GMSYAKALBAH
    @GMSYAKALBAH 7 місяців тому +3

    DNA test should be mandatory 100%. I knew this girl who has a 11 yr old son. She told me she will never tell him who his real father is because she wants all three of her kids to believe the one guy fathered all of them.

  • @2pat2008
    @2pat2008 7 місяців тому +3

    Get your passport and don't come back with her in the state.

  • @Tre38843
    @Tre38843 7 місяців тому +17

    @1:56 - Get your PASSPORTS. That’s the only logical thing to do.

    • @natturner9997
      @natturner9997 7 місяців тому +4

      Got my passport ..sad to say they are all baby mommas over there too

    • @Thtjfjfjfyf68
      @Thtjfjfjfyf68 7 місяців тому

      PassPort for what?? U gotta go to the other side of the fkn 🌎 to get sm 🍑?? Or u jus hvn a hard time taming these American b*tches?😂 Grow sm nuts and u wont hv these problems sir

    • @Angel4ever4678
      @Angel4ever4678 7 місяців тому

      Black men get stupider by the day .. women with kids are all over the world .. maybe ever more 😂😂😂

    • @Tre38843
      @Tre38843 7 місяців тому

      @@natturner9997 Would you rather a delusional, entitled, masculine, fat baby mamma or a feminine, cooperative, super fine baby mamma?

    • @dany6781
      @dany6781 7 місяців тому +1

      @@natturner9997nahhhh ain’t no way. I advocate for way too many men to leave here, and you’re telling me foreign women are the same? Nahhh nope! Really?

  • @adim00lah
    @adim00lah 7 місяців тому +1

    Prenups 100% work IF they are done right. The problem is most of the time they aren't done right. I think Jeannie signed her prenup the day before the marriage. Jeezy not that smart.
    You should also have her sign it not just 6 months in advance, but before y'all send out wedding invitations, book the venue, caterer all that. Because once family / friends book plane flights, hotels, and all the money was spent on booking the venue and catering which was traditionally paid for by the bride's father, she can turn and use that as an excuse saying she felt financially obligated to to get married after all that money was spent possibly by her family.

  • @eii8794
    @eii8794 7 місяців тому +15

    A fool is born everyday--simps serve a purpose in society believe it or not

  • @tonyjohnson7421
    @tonyjohnson7421 7 місяців тому +1

    Sometimes you gotta separate yourself! It's alot of foo foo shit! Going on out here kid! Yah hear me! FACTS!

  • @rodbarnes9624
    @rodbarnes9624 7 місяців тому +6

    " *Never swim where other men have drowned.* 🚫 -NO single moms- don't date them or create them." _-Some guy with standards_

    • @Soloman_1800
      @Soloman_1800 7 місяців тому +1

      🎯🎯🎯🎯🎯💯💯💯

  • @Alteringrealitystudios
    @Alteringrealitystudios 7 місяців тому +7

    They want to have fun with Dick but want Tom or Harry to pay the the tab.

  • @intricatelytangled
    @intricatelytangled 7 місяців тому +22

    We tell our 12 yo all the time - you have children with your wife Only.

    • @yomanyomandx5609
      @yomanyomandx5609 7 місяців тому

      Good

    • @dixbowman3452
      @dixbowman3452 7 місяців тому +1

      Good. Raise him right! We need more good mothers like yourself.

    • @AyyYaYYaY
      @AyyYaYYaY 7 місяців тому

      ❤🎉 🙏🏾 that’s right 💯%

    • @airfrance4365
      @airfrance4365 7 місяців тому

      👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @nnodw7721
    @nnodw7721 7 місяців тому +9

    I tell my dudes all the time that you have to be careful. I almost left my wife and kids back in the day for a beautiful younger recently divorced mother of three kids and she was all for it. I couldn't do it because I couldn't get over leaving my wife and kids to take care of someone else's. She kept trying for a few years and one day when I seriously thought that I was going to get divorced I reached out to her and she immediately shut me down.
    Why? Because her kids were almost grown. Never forgot that. She flirted off and on for years until her kids were seniors in high school.

    • @Camille-sv9tg
      @Camille-sv9tg 7 місяців тому +13

      I can’t get over the fact you was going to leave your wife and children for a single mother 😂😂😂 wtf!

    • @terrellwilliams3163
      @terrellwilliams3163 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@@Camille-sv9tg😂😂😂😂 me too

    • @kevbarre6188
      @kevbarre6188 7 місяців тому

      ​@Camille-sv9t well he did say she was young and beautiful. Not saying he would have been right but I understand

    • @Bootyeater999
      @Bootyeater999 7 місяців тому

      @@kevbarre6188he’s still a simp 😂

    • @nnodw7721
      @nnodw7721 7 місяців тому +2

      ​@kevbarre6188 naw, she was fine as hell but it's was a simp move to say the least. We worked together and everytime she needed to talk to me she would brush her chest up against me, lol. Single mom or not the temptation was no joke. But it just didn't make sense
      But that was back in the day

  • @Lyfeastrey
    @Lyfeastrey 7 місяців тому +6

    Why buy the cow when the milk is free these days?

  • @TopJazzCat
    @TopJazzCat 7 місяців тому +4

    I’m still trying to figure out how a woman can claim to have signed a prenup under duress as if she was under any obligation to marry him. She could’ve said no to signing it or no to the marriage altogether.

  • @DIXIFREELY
    @DIXIFREELY 7 місяців тому +1

    Another thing people don't get is a prenup only protects your assets that were acquired prior to marriage. You would need a postnup to protect your assets acquired during the marriage.

  • @clonedalot
    @clonedalot 7 місяців тому +2

    “He might beat yo ass too” 😂😂😂😂😂 na u snapped

  • @PatrickSFobbs
    @PatrickSFobbs 7 місяців тому +4

    So a man isn't a man if he doesn't take care of another man's child but a man is a man if he leaves her with a child? Make it make sense

  • @PrincessSarahWifeofAzariyah
    @PrincessSarahWifeofAzariyah 7 місяців тому +3

    Boyce Watkins is a fool 😂!!!!! Great job inspiring 👏🏿 the brothers Anton!!!!!!! Your inspiring videos encourage righteousness!!!!!!!!!

  • @johnniegordon1221
    @johnniegordon1221 7 місяців тому +1

    That real man line is the funniest shish ever😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Mikediszel
    @Mikediszel 7 місяців тому

    Oh snap coogie back!
    Im break that joint out the plastic. I knew if I waited long enough I could rock it.

  • @KwameFadhiliWilliams
    @KwameFadhiliWilliams 7 місяців тому

    Much love to you Anton, love your videos. Your videos have helped me in many ways, our birthdays is coming up too,April 13..

  • @cakesaregood5176
    @cakesaregood5176 7 місяців тому +41

    Don’t date anyone with kids, male or female. You will always be second choice.

    • @Bootyeater999
      @Bootyeater999 7 місяців тому +3

      Facts men or women

    • @cleantheplatejames3648
      @cleantheplatejames3648 7 місяців тому

      This makes no sense. What if they have kids together??? they still will be second choice to one another? Its different for men with kids. Men taking on women with kids is more of a financial burden and takes away resources for your future offspring. And men are more of the disciplinary in the home he can't discipline the kids if they are not his the way he needs to.

    • @cakesaregood5176
      @cakesaregood5176 7 місяців тому

      @@cleantheplatejames3648 it’s not different.

    • @cleantheplatejames3648
      @cleantheplatejames3648 7 місяців тому

      @@cakesaregood5176 I just told you how it's different and how your reason makes no sense. You talking to someone that's played both sides of the field.

    • @Simpaholics_Anonymous
      @Simpaholics_Anonymous 7 місяців тому +1

      @@cakesaregood5176
      It is different because the man don’t need you to provide for his kids. It’s funny. The amount of single black men with kids is small but BW all have stories about dating them. 😂😂😂

  • @antonib765
    @antonib765 7 місяців тому +3

    Let them independent women take care of their own kids , don’t be a sucker , the kids will always tell u “ur not my real daddy “ ur a step simp”If u need a prenup don’t get married , nothing is 💯, if they can’t get u in criminal court they will get you in civil court

    • @skysimba8953
      @skysimba8953 7 місяців тому

      Where's Anton to close the comments section.
      Well stated. Nothing more to add. 💯.

  • @Heybaja
    @Heybaja 7 місяців тому +7

    Since when is it illegal to have a paternity test at birth someone please inform me

    • @Kyronetta
      @Kyronetta 7 місяців тому +7

      It’s not. Some be too scared to ask their woman lol

    • @gammafrost
      @gammafrost 7 місяців тому +1

      France implemented that law

    • @gammafrost
      @gammafrost 7 місяців тому

      @@Kyronettaactually…

    • @dcg590
      @dcg590 7 місяців тому

      @@gammafrostFrance implemented that the man had to ok it. Which is stupid

  • @ladellmimms
    @ladellmimms 7 місяців тому +1

    Its some men out here going through it, getting talked to crazy, and they've put their time and $$$$ into someone else's children , I've realized it couldn't be me

  • @JittFrom305
    @JittFrom305 7 місяців тому +1

    YOU STAY ON STEP DADDIES NECKS, GOOD SHIT FAM LMAO!

  • @earljames9210
    @earljames9210 7 місяців тому +1

    For some reason I'm in the mood for some Jello Pudding Pops.

  • @matthewjohnsondotton-sz5uo
    @matthewjohnsondotton-sz5uo 7 місяців тому

    Speak the truth 💯...thanks and keep up the good content 👍

  • @TheBlackWitness
    @TheBlackWitness 7 місяців тому

    The colors on that sweater hard af bra

  • @halakelbensinai4743
    @halakelbensinai4743 7 місяців тому +1

    Single moms are a horrible economic investment, especially with kids under 18. You don't even have to adopt them in some states. If there is no father on birth certificate and you have acted in a father's role, you are a legal guardian, and child support is in your future.

  • @DarylCray-b4i
    @DarylCray-b4i 7 місяців тому

    That's like going to play all and team already picked😂😂😂

  • @kwamedindavis9840
    @kwamedindavis9840 7 місяців тому

    Excellent advice. And by the way, nice shirt!!

  • @MichaelOsborn-w6e
    @MichaelOsborn-w6e 7 місяців тому

    Not worth spending my money on her child.

  • @thecrownprince6870
    @thecrownprince6870 7 місяців тому +14

    I agree Anton. Women are upset that these days it’s more difficult for them to sell that ultimately thankless job of being a step Father..Some of us have seen this movie all the way through in generations past. Our Fathers, Uncles and Grandfathers lost with ungrateful nonbiologicals, in the long run. No kids ever love you like your blood ones..

  • @moesv-ms8693
    @moesv-ms8693 7 місяців тому +1

    That kids DNA will challenge you all the time 😂😂😂

  • @Mikediszel
    @Mikediszel 7 місяців тому

    I don't get pre-built. I go to microcenter and get my parts a put it together myself. 😂

  • @RaySmith79
    @RaySmith79 7 місяців тому +1

    You were just saying Draya should not be dragged through the dirty for her past. Now that a girl isn't famous, it is okay to diss her on her past decision. How do 2 and 2 make 4. When you are saying 2 and 2, make 2.
    Everyone should be able to be painted by the same brush regardless of their celebrity.

  • @wrcinc
    @wrcinc 7 місяців тому +2

    I charge a fee to play stepfather 😂

  • @garyheiny2820
    @garyheiny2820 7 місяців тому

    Toilet paper has more value than a prenup. Avoid the marriage license altogether, look into marriage contract and check your state for its laws. Always paternity test no matter what.

  • @RavDLC
    @RavDLC 7 місяців тому

    Forreal this all true, it's all unreasonable & ain't worth the risk. You better off pursuing women who don't have kids

  • @Joe-sn8lr
    @Joe-sn8lr 7 місяців тому

    In my experience, it's not a good idea to settle with a woman with children. The dynamics are not level. It starts out fun, but let time run its course, and you will see. Remember, men, you are the outsider and also remember your money is also their money. When the real daddy sees that, the less he does for his children, and it never fails

  • @JimmyShongwe-fj5ct
    @JimmyShongwe-fj5ct 7 місяців тому

    People think that marriage is a love contract,nah it's a business contract

  • @vinnieb5619
    @vinnieb5619 7 місяців тому +1

    Used food 😂😂😂😂

  • @jussdoughjustin3893
    @jussdoughjustin3893 7 місяців тому

    😂😂 Anton said the 2 for 1 special lol

  • @kdub2229
    @kdub2229 7 місяців тому

    Thanks Anton , this was a well needed stream/podcast.
    Baby Mommas make the MOST/Highest demands in life !? Hmmm..? Go Figure .

  • @codyaugustin3019
    @codyaugustin3019 7 місяців тому +7

    Even animal’s KNOW not to raise another offspring…y’all watch animal planet 🔥🔥🔥

  • @thomasburton728
    @thomasburton728 7 місяців тому

    Raising another man’s kid is like serving time for another man’s crime

  • @AZBound3
    @AZBound3 7 місяців тому +1

    And if you are over the age of 30 and above, they tell you...well get use to it, that's all you're going to run into at this point. Single mothers

  • @komo2nen
    @komo2nen 7 місяців тому

    For who? For what?

  • @Cyber-Rain
    @Cyber-Rain 7 місяців тому +1

    It's over for these entitled bozos.

  • @patriotj5426
    @patriotj5426 7 місяців тому

    Why would lawyers reduce the need for lawyers by reforming family courts.

  • @1000questionz
    @1000questionz 7 місяців тому +1

    Preach bro Preach 🙌

  • @cleantheplatejames3648
    @cleantheplatejames3648 7 місяців тому +1

    Not taking on women with kids is fixing the community more than taking on a woman with kids. Start choosing more wisely and we wont have a single parent epidemic.

    • @ballen0360
      @ballen0360 7 місяців тому

      Spot on.

    • @Simpaholics_Anonymous
      @Simpaholics_Anonymous 7 місяців тому

      The people that shouldn’t reproduce, are reproducing the most 😂 so yea I agree. Decline the Stepdaddy proposal

  • @nothingbutfacts1676
    @nothingbutfacts1676 7 місяців тому

    There are men watching this which were raised by a stepfather. This man played a positive role in their life and today they refer to him as dad. Therefore it’s not always negative.

    • @basemanawakens6089
      @basemanawakens6089 6 місяців тому +1

      How does raising someone else's children benefit a man?

  • @JaysAnde-f6w
    @JaysAnde-f6w 7 місяців тому

    Coogi sweater🔥✊🏾appreciate the insight as well young man

  • @valeries5722
    @valeries5722 7 місяців тому +1

    The short answer is NOBODY. Single moms are a dime a dozen. Hold out for something special. Find a woman who didn't START BUILDING before you even got there. Keep steppin guys.

    • @Simpaholics_Anonymous
      @Simpaholics_Anonymous 7 місяців тому

      If 27% of BW are single and childless, and the marriage rate is 17%, then that means we’re left with about 5% of BW that might be marriageable. Just saying 😅

  • @sbonzama7013
    @sbonzama7013 7 місяців тому

    Can you put the "peternity test" clause on a prenup?

  • @tbreeze79
    @tbreeze79 7 місяців тому +1

    It's againist my religion to date or marry a single mother.

  • @calebhenderson6507
    @calebhenderson6507 7 місяців тому

    I know you dont like passport bros... but prenups rule are defaulted in alot of other countries without the lawyersor paperwork.... im just saying folks!

  • @ericcrawford4217
    @ericcrawford4217 7 місяців тому +1

    Tennessee about to pass a law that requires dna a birth

  • @millardthomas9059
    @millardthomas9059 7 місяців тому

    I think the step daddy role is a very submissive act. Submissive to the woman, child and Indirectly the person she had a child with. No offense to anyone, but guys who make 40k to 60k a year don't want to deal with that. So 6,7 and 8 figure men certainly don't want to.

  • @kkalayaan
    @kkalayaan 7 місяців тому

    For some men, settling down and raising a family, even with other people’s kids, is the best for them. You can’t understand it because you lack empathy. Stop trying to keep men from starting families if that’s what’s best for them. You don’t know what’s best for everybody, everybody can figure out what’s best for themselves.

  • @perrykeshahwalker5321
    @perrykeshahwalker5321 7 місяців тому

    U shouldn't marry someone u don't trust. There are some great women that happen to be single moms. I married one. Happily and gracefully married for 27yrs.

  • @andynash1393
    @andynash1393 7 місяців тому

    😅 3:15 - 3:21 wooo what idiot would do such ignorance 🙄

  • @V8411C
    @V8411C 7 місяців тому

    Everything in life is a scam.

  • @Cratossama
    @Cratossama 7 місяців тому

    If it cost all that you might as well avoid marriage altogether legally n marry here outside of the state on a beach in another country n never claim her as your wife with no photos

  • @mrdacusthenavigator4989
    @mrdacusthenavigator4989 7 місяців тому

    The first half of this video begs the question on whether it's worth marrying someone under these current laws in the first place, single mom or not.

  • @chrisjett313
    @chrisjett313 7 місяців тому

    If a Male Lion don't want deal with another Lions cubs, they kill the cubs what makes it ok with a man raising another man's kids and these women wanna compared themselves to Lionness. I was a stepdad and it was the most disrespectful job a man can ever have. I would wish this on my worse enemies

  • @dyshaunierandall5185
    @dyshaunierandall5185 7 місяців тому +1

    Men always leave women that they have kids with to go be with another woman and her kids I always thought that was weird

    • @kishaquiller505
      @kishaquiller505 7 місяців тому

      I don’t know why these women don’t give the men custody Or don’t have them period. The solution ladies stay childfree

  • @diogok9459
    @diogok9459 7 місяців тому

    in the end, the best option is to not get married, the bad side is that makes hard to built a family, nowadays marriage hardly last long because everyday there is influencers telling the wives that they will be happier if they get a divorce to live their life without any husband imposing limits to the girls only night out in clubs.