@@oheldenring6937 Yeah he really should be judged but man it’s kinda hard to feel bad for this guy in the interview when he’s painting himself as the victim of addiction. I do hate him a lot for what he’s done but he’s probably doing this on purpose to get more validation like he said lmao its working for a lot of people apparently all these comments are somehow sympathetic towards him now
@Foo Foo how is he looking for sympathy he’s literally admitting he has hurt ppl and he’s has a problem and getting help what more do you want him to do the fuck?
@@Asvpsupreme I agree, it’s ridiculous how people don’t see a sincere person just trying to get everything straight, 4 years to get it right, how much longer?
I miss seeing this dude in movies. He starred in some of the funniest comedies and was great in Spider-Man. One of the few actors who could pull off serious and funny roles equally well.
Agree. I think he did his best. He ended up taking responsibility, and then went to rehab.. he hasn’t done anything since.. his friend abandoned him who 1000% have their own skeletons but threw Franco under the bus. I think Franco deserves a 2nd chance.. and Seth can rot
@@acutelilmint8035Franco ran an acting school where he slept with young women looking to break into industry. Even if it was consensual, it's pretty slimy thing to do. He knew he was a well known star and these young women wanting to be actresses would do anything. Including sleeping with him. Using your starpower to get laid is one thing but actively running an acting school to sleep with students? This is real low.
Most genuine I’ve ever seen him. Sounds like he fell pray to the never ending pursuit of ego-driven desire - which so many of us fall into. I pray for his healing.
ego-driven? sex addiction is physiological, as with professional success too (probably), the brain releases neurotransmitters that reinforce the behaviour
Its a never ending cycle of drug, alcohol and sex addiction in the celebrity lifestyle. James Franco isn't unique, he's one of thousands and although what he did was wrong, at least you feel that he's openly trying to understand and get help. Only time will tell how genuine this is...
@@Sowta when it's done on camera its always going to be an awareness, especially when you're a trained actor. Its what will take place once the cameras are turned off that will justify this more so. But yes, I wish him sincerely a meaningful relationship for him and his partner...
Perfection. The interviewer kept his mouth closed but you could see that he cared from his facial expression and James Franco was totally honest and relatable
I actually gained a lot of respect for James here. I've had similar struggles and I can really tell it's something he feels a lot of shame about. It's hard to admit you have problems with things like that, especially love/sex. I think it's harder to see sex addictions the same way as drugs or drinking, like he said, you can be totally sober so you believe you're functioning fine but all your interpersonal relationships are outta whack. It's nice to see him speaking so honestly about this.
Facing your demons and overcoming them is such a big theme in so many lives...whether you're a celebrity or guy next door. I would love to see James Franco make another great run in Hollywood. That charming smile is missed.
Really glad that podcasts are becoming just as, if not (hopefully) more, popular than talk shows. Thank you to the interviewer who just lets James speak instead of constantly interrupting him with ego-driven jokes to make him the centre of attention.
@@juice6521 I mean that's what talk shows used to be back in the 60s 70s and 80s even the 90s there were some good ones like that. What the OP is referring to is Late Night shows. Late Night shows have always been comedy shows since Steve Allen in the 50s.
GREAT interview; because the interviewer is a GOOD LISTENER! And James is so honest and humble. Really good all round. And well done, interviewer; this is how it's done!
James Franco is one of the only actors I’ve seen talk and I believe he’s not acting… might sound weird but a lot of actors actually play a version of themselves but James really is himself. Shows so much maturity.
@@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakesthey’re actors.. they’re goof at playing characters.l they’re not good at playing themselves which is why many actors are f up in the head.
As someone who has struggled with addiction myself, I’m grateful to hear him discuss his struggles publicly. You would forgive the transgressions of a drug addict because we all know they are a slave to their addictions, well, this is no different. I’m not even a religious man but I must say, “Let he who is free from sin cast the first stone”.
Publicly. . . If I found out any dude took advantage of a friend or my sister I would 🖐🖐 At some point u have to throw ppl like that away We all have addictions but unless u have a "mental health " problem then u know what you are doing The world is tired of trash 🗑 ppl 🙂
@@woke1497 My mother is a rape survivor and my sister and I are survivors of childhood sexual abuse. It's insulting to have people like James Franco who partake in consensual, if not inappropriate, sexual behavior be placed in an umbrella category of sexual predators. His actions are a far cry from those of a rapist or child molester. The ethics of his actions are up for interpretation but he is not to be lumped into a category with true monsters of the world. This nuance is incredibly important to distinguish an addict from a predator. And, lastly, if someone is sleeping with him for career ascension or material wealth, the question of who is actually being exploited and taken advantage of is debatable.
It's very different. If someone has a chemical dependency that hurts nobody but themselves, that is one thing. But the scummy way in which Franco habitually treated women and underage girls is another.
@@jonbriggs9029 I wholeheartedly disagree… All addictions hurt more than the person struggling with the addiction. All addictions are chemical… even process addictions. They all provide a neurotransmitter flood of the desired hormones.
This is like therapy. He's just speaking the truth about himself. I commend that. I don't support or condone what he's done. But I'm glad he's admitting to it and working on himself.
To be fair, he hasn't fully acknowledged or admitted to the extend of the misconduct and assault allegations against him. Doing that is an important part of moving on. Without it, there's no moving on.
@@harryskywalker6814 Off the high horse now, chap. Thanks but no thanks for the suggestions, Mr UA-camr. Relax with the judgement and focus on your Star Wars series. ;-)
Hearing James open up really resonates with me. I was always trying to fill that hole . My dad was abusive fundamentalist who beat, harassed and berated me constantly till I was 14 and fought him . I sought out inclusion and acceptance. In the 70’s that meant drugs, alcohol and mixing with strangers . Then there was bars and sex ..then there was a crash and burn phase. I sought therapy and was diagnosed with sex/love addiction by a counselor in my 40’s .. I settled down and got married . We’ve been together for 25 years now . I’m content and hes my rock . Nothing ever seems good enough until I share it with him. When I see something I know he likes , bringing it home to him feels me up inside . Giving him care and love gives me the fullness I never received as an unwanted child of two diametrically opposed forces as parental figures . Bless you JF 🙏
As a recovering sex addict, I can relate to everything James is talking about. My addiction didn’t involve hooking up with other women, it involved pornography and objectifying women both in person and online. And I know James’s addiction isn’t pornography but I think people have to be vigilant about online pornography. It’s like having an open bar that never closes. And as long as nobody can see your searches on your phone, you can do in complete ‘silence’. And this goes for everyone. Young teenagers have their own phones and can start watching porn at a very early age. And because porn objectifies women, young boys feel that it’s ok to treat women as sex objects and it begins to warp their minds to thinking so. Anyway, just wanted to share a bit of my story and like James, I hope others can learn from it.
100% man. I started watching it in my early teens and have been trying to kick the habit for over a decade. Like you said, it’s a very silent addiction.
So Glad I stopped watching that sht years ago. I see people here asking how. One good way is simply To not entertain those thoughts. I don’t use social media either because sex and half naked women are being pushed down your throat constantly. Over time you get used to it and you slowly stop thinking about it as much. To me a healthier outlet is just thinking about women you like in the shower or something along those lines. It feels way more natural and normal. I’m amazed that people actually think prn is good for society and almost applaud it and guys will make fun of u for not being into it. Warped world we have created for ourselves. I’m glad to see more and more men waking up to this too
Very proud of you James. This took courage. Crazy how easy it is to replace one addiction with another, subconsciously. Then once you have the aha moment its so powerful and humbling. We all all on a journey and you are exactly where you are meant to be. Much love to you.
@@AA4PJM don't worry the accusers got their money so now you can sleep at night.....you should really do your research on the matter because there is absolutely zero proof of any of these allegations. Also simp is so overused just like your oversimplified and lazy train of thought. Next.
I struggled with Alcohol myself. But I am now 1 year Sober. I have sought help for myself and staying off the booze was no easy task early on but I made it to a full year. If I ever met James I would tell him all about how I beat Alcoholism. And anyone who is reading this comment, if you are still suffering from Alcoholism I hope to Inspire you.
Y’all don’t even know, nor would ever be able to comprehend how strong he is for being silent for so long and then coming on here and speaking his truth like this. James has always been one of my favorite actors, and my respect for him has grown astronomically.
If James were to sexually assault someone close to you. I think you would feel entirely different about the whole situation. Right now all you see is a rich, charismatic, good looking celebrity. Gotta see past that.
One thing about me is I love honesty and truthness James really did tell all and I do appreciate him for that. I feel like everyone deserves second chances especially when this was a problem in his life he couldn’t grab hold too.
I'm glad it's becoming more commonplace for people to fight off their troubles and get help no matter if they are famous or not, we're all human and it's nice to see people take steps in a good direction
Well done Mr Franco, and thank you for telling everyone. I didn't recognise it, lost everything, hit rock bottom, but I am coming up 4 years sober, Nov 23. It is sooooo powerful, alcohol. All I wanted was the sweet warming relaxing escape. I can only imagine what heroin feels like to use and kick. Harder than alcohol, and that's bloody difficult enough !!!! Well done again, you will save lives with this clip! 👍😀
I’m sure a lot of us have done things we regret, that’s what makes us human but what’s important is understanding there needs to be accountability in order to change for the best.
I’m so glad he came out and said this, even if it took a while he did it on his terms when he was ready to face all his mistakes and move on. This is good if he truly wants to change, you have my support in recovery 🙏🏾
@@woke1497 you can make a recovery at any point in your life, you clearly have a gated and privileged life if you don’t understand that. There’s no age limit on bettering yourself
@@woke1497 With a user like yours with "woke" on it - that's all the reader needs to know about you and your poor misguided view in life. Go woke, go broke in brain cells.
@@SuperiorModel I’m not sure why they do, but I’m guessing that if you have enough money behind you, certain interested parties will work to convince people to welcome you back and forgive you. James hasn’t done ANY reparations for the victims, other than pay them money. He needs to go to prison if he actually did what he admits to have done.
@@SuperiorModel I guess you missed the part where I said what he did isn’t okay. 🤷♂️ While I believe in redemption and forgiveness, actions have consequences. If a person wants to change, seeing that darkness that’s inside of you, and getting help is the only thing that allow you to change into a better person, but that doesn’t mean what he did wasn’t wrong.
@@tatertotcasserolewithsalt It's definitely a muddy water to tread on with these things. Well the answer is never easy, but I rather see people get help than not get help and continue to harm.
He actually sounds sincere. I hope he’s able to get his life together. He may never be a successful actor again, but that would probably be a good thing for him. What does it matter if you gain the whole world and lose your own soul?
It is very hard with temptation. You can tell he genuinely understand . I can honestly say many of us would have done the same unfortunately if we were in his position. Learning from it takes will power.
It’s about time he started to understand and learn after 21 years don’t you think? The rest of your comment seems you are either defending him or justify his actions.
No it's not. It's about yourself and the people around you, although, it's more about who you are as a person, does not matter what age. I was not raised in a perfect environment, all the boys around me smoking and drinking at very early age of 12-16, but I never did that, I've never smoked and never drank. The first drink I had was at the age of 18 and I disliked it, as my father was forcing me to do it, because it's a "man thing". I always hated the subjugation of things and I had many chances with girls too, but I never used any, because I did not want myself to be shallow and put myself down on the level of others. Does that make me a better person? No, because I have made many other mistakes with life, in general with people and connections, which were base a lot on relationships. But I've never had to do anything like that. Even, right now, being 25 and virgin, which I don't really care about, I do respect the space of others and won't do anything stupid. I care about my life. Now, if you are someone with "power" like Franco, I can't say anything about that. But as a regular person, I think fighting temptations is not hard, unless you enjoy them and don't feel guilty.
@@GriffinXP97 You may be asexual which helps in not having the same level of temptation as someone who is not. To add, how people cope with life depends on their experience. Sure you never had a temptation to drink or smoke, but not everyone's addictions are the same. Some people are addicted to the internet. The brain usually latches on to things that it feels will relieve stress or pain. Your brain development never happened that way, which is good. Neurological disorders can also make it easier to be addictive (Bipolar disorder, BDP, NPD, etc). It's not that cut and dry.
@@venusluv-i1v I have a lovely relationship with my girlfriend, thank you, I am not asexual, but I guess, you are one of those people, who used to think I was homosexual, because I did not grab every skirt on the way to my class or during parties. And don't go on with telling me medical issues, I am an RN and do know things, FYI. Neurological disorders are not the key here, someone fully healthy and acknowledging their irresponsible behavior are 2 different things, maybe think about that.
I have BPD, and this guy really sounds like he might have it too. Everything he says in this video, as well as other stuff I've heard him say, describes BPD down to a tee. The empty void, the inability to form healthy relationships, the instability, the wake of damage you leave behind even though you dont mean to hurt people.
I truly appreciate his honesty. It just goes to show how complex we are as human beings. And the interviewer for giving him the space, where James felt so open to just speak truth ❤
For the first time EVER, I feel some sort of sympathy for this dude. Hr always came off as arrogant and a prick. It’s the first time I see him coming across as sincere!
Probably cause he’s been getting coached on how to do interviews over the past year but yeah man he came off chill this time so that negates all the terrible shit he’s done.
Addicted to being addicted. We are so anal here in the US, so worried about how we will be perceived. I'm not bad mouthing him about what he is hoping to get in his life, but we are just so stuffy about our lifestyle here in America. We should try and live the best lives we can, but how is spending your entire life under a microscope make it more enjoyable. Self improvement yes, but keep it withing reason. I hope the best for him.
I'm not defend James, but not everyone can admit that, moreover, not everyone agree that these acts are ugly. I wish him and all of us patience. P.s. in Russia such confessions wouldn't have had the same effect(
@@neburarieiv at its worst, there will be a lot of talk in the media. I don't remember any cases of ostracism. In a last time are frequent cases when older actresses recall harassment by actors or directors who already died. These actresses (no actors) are usually condemned.
For him to come out and admit all these things now, it seems like he has come to terms with his mistakes and is ready to turn his life around. I hope he finds the light 🙏
I applaud James Franco for owning up to what he did and now is working on himself and starting to become a better person after that. Most celebrities don't do that but this makes me like him 100x more. Always have been a fan and will always be a fan of his
@@delmanpronto9374 uhh no I won't. He is human just like you and I. Yes what he did was wrong, everyone makes mistakes from time to time and that what makes us human
The problem nowadays is that you cant make a mistake, never, you dont get a second chance, everybody have to be perfect and say all the correct words or they get cancelled. I know there´s people that have done very awful and atrocious things that dont deserve forgiveness but most of functional humans beings make mistakes all the time, its part of our nature and also is its seems hard being judge by the entire world for your actions. Nice to see an open and genuine interview with Franco, great job.
I went from loving James due to his acting career, to hating him after of hearing of the scandals. Now I UNDERSTAND him, which is most important. I get what’s he’s saying and feeling. It doesn’t excuse anything, but god damn it’s raw, honest, and relatable. I hope you get a healthy place.
He’s talking! He had poor judgment when it came to making good decisions with the women he slept with, although it was with consent. After being in the spotlight for so long you would think he’d know better. I am so happy to see him answering these questions and happy to see him admit to these things. James Franco is not responsible for making certain decisions for anyone, even adult women. He’s talking about sex addiction and drug addiction which opens the doors to many other actors/celebrities that live this way and it should be something to be open about.
@@strongteee Yes but all admission is based on recognising error in order to move forward positively? Yes the timing suggests selfish reasons, but nevertheless it's better he acknowledges than remaining apathetic?
Those who have seriously struggled with sexual addictions to the point of depression, anxiety, and suicide, understand this all too well. Most have experienced some form of trauma, normally in childhood, that has lead to this compulsion. Like any other addiction, it’s a disease and a destructive one at that. We could all use more empathy in our lives and look at people with a more nuanced and balanced view rather than pointing fingers and containing them into a box based on the limited information we have about them.
@@hirsch4155 Addiction is a treatable, chronic medical disease involving complex interactions among brain circuits, genetics, the environment, and an individual's life experiences. People with addiction use substances or engage in behaviors that become compulsive and often continue despite harmful consequences despite a desire to stop.
Seeing celebrities 10yrs down the road when they once thought they owned the world and could sway opinion with the flick of their wrist now meeting cold hard reality as the world has moved on from their self-delusions is good stuff. This dude was a piece of work circa 2009-2013. Now I actually had to look him up again to remember anything he's been in.
@@Setapart.1 we don't care especially when your late 30s and 40s We are tired of hearing ppl use addiction as an excuse We all have addictions but don't act on them We are tired of having ppl abuse other ppl because of their upbringing that has nothing to do with anyone else
Respect to him being open and honest about his addiction and his personal problems. Most celebs would keep quiet and away from anything so they stay out of the press and news
Very relatable. We do recover. He’s probably talking about the basic text of sex and love addicts anonymous which led me to recovery from sex and love addiction through the big book of AA, adapting the words for this addiction. There is hope ❤
One of the few actors, that I'm super pissed me too ended his career. I miss his acting and I don't really think he did anything to be canceled for, just my pov
We miss you, James!!!! This cancel culture thing as it’s being done helps no one. It’s quite destructive when the public can just mob harass someone sans any sort of evidence or Justice system process. I hope James knows how much we are rooting for him and appreciate his honesty in this conversation… thanks to Cagle for having the guts to hold space for him and actually let him speak!!!
@@Kurry34 bruh not to be creepy but like a nyu teenager or like what like a college student right? That ain’t the fucking same as Jared from subway shit. Cancel culture needs way more nuance people go for the neck every single time Franco ain’t that awful Harvey Weinstein actually was.
@@Kurry34The accusations you may be referring to concern a 17 yr-old girl in NY, w/in legality as their state laws for age of consent is 17. Pedos are prepubescent, ephebophiles are adolescents 15-17; it's important to get the terms correct when accusing, common error.
An amazing actor. A flawed human being, like all of us. We can all admit this was brave from him to expose so open heartedly his 'weaknesses'. Great job on the interviewer too.
"He (you, me, they, them) is very much the actor the Big Book says 😀 as was I 😀 I "acted" like things were OK but inside my world was crumbling right before my eyes 😳 but I kept coming back 👍
Respect for admitting his addiction. Most people deny it happens or shrug it off as no big deal. Sex and pornography are arguably more addictive than heroin or cocaine. STAY CLEAN ❤
This comes off super sus. It’s almost like his publicist was like: ok it’s been 4 years, go do an interview and use “sex addiction” as your excuse and make everyone feel bad for your “disease” and then you can make your comeback.
Hang in there James! We are all people and human beings that make mistakes. Just because your life is under a microscope everyone has an opinion and place to much judgment, but never thinking of what our own mistakes we all make trying to live our own lives Regardless of our social status's, rich or poor. I am still a fan.
Hello my gorgeous fan! Thank you so much for your good wishes, even your likes and comments! I believe they’re true! I can’t respond to y’all but I’ll do my best from time to time. I love you xoxo James Franco ❤❤
The Interviewer did an amazing job being silent when James shared his story and didn't try to interject as so many hosts do.
yes, and got paid a lot just by looking at franco talk. best job ever.
@@razzlebautista79 he still has a Podcast to run it sounds tiring Af
Empathetic listening. A lost art.
Yes he let him tell his entire story awesome
That's why he is still a nobody and people don't even know his name, just calling him "the interviewer"
What a great interviewer. His silence is accepting, non judgmental and comforting
I love how the interviewer looks at him with empathy instead of judgement
The fuck? He should be judged, what is wrong with you?
@@oheldenring6937 Yeah he really should be judged but man it’s kinda hard to feel bad for this guy in the interview when he’s painting himself as the victim of addiction. I do hate him a lot for what he’s done but he’s probably doing this on purpose to get more validation like he said lmao its working for a lot of people apparently all these comments are somehow sympathetic towards him now
@Foo Foo how is he looking for sympathy he’s literally admitting he has hurt ppl and he’s has a problem and getting help what more do you want him to do the fuck?
@@Asvpsupreme I agree, it’s ridiculous how people don’t see a sincere person just trying to get everything straight, 4 years to get it right, how much longer?
Empathy?
I miss seeing this dude in movies. He starred in some of the funniest comedies and was great in Spider-Man. One of the few actors who could pull off serious and funny roles equally well.
Agree. I think he did his best. He ended up taking responsibility, and then went to rehab.. he hasn’t done anything since.. his friend abandoned him who 1000% have their own skeletons but threw Franco under the bus.
I think Franco deserves a 2nd chance.. and Seth can rot
@@acutelilmint8035 True. It’s a shame people can be so unforgiving. How can we expect people to change when we give them no path to redeem themselves.
Ha has four upcoming projects on imdb.
His role in the Deuce was amazing. He played twins.
@@acutelilmint8035Franco ran an acting school where he slept with young women looking to break into industry.
Even if it was consensual, it's pretty slimy thing to do. He knew he was a well known star and these young women wanting to be actresses would do anything. Including sleeping with him.
Using your starpower to get laid is one thing but actively running an acting school to sleep with students? This is real low.
Most genuine I’ve ever seen him. Sounds like he fell pray to the never ending pursuit of ego-driven desire - which so many of us fall into. I pray for his healing.
He just cannot stop fuck Amber heard,😂
Even you!
The thing is though he didnt do anything "wrong"? People think he slept with minors which is just false
ego-driven? sex addiction is physiological, as with professional success too (probably), the brain releases neurotransmitters that reinforce the behaviour
Well said.
Its a never ending cycle of drug, alcohol and sex addiction in the celebrity lifestyle. James Franco isn't unique, he's one of thousands and although what he did was wrong, at least you feel that he's openly trying to understand and get help. Only time will tell how genuine this is...
Still it's a profound pragmatic analysis of himself. It's rare people are that much self aware of themselves.
@@Sowta when it's done on camera its always going to be an awareness, especially when you're a trained actor. Its what will take place once the cameras are turned off that will justify this more so. But yes, I wish him sincerely a meaningful relationship for him and his partner...
@@elcal9600 Well said
Time will tell? You really need more than a five minute interview to see what’s going on here?
@@kingofallwhites oh please enlighten me because I bet you know everything about it! Cannot wait for your insight
He seems very genuine in this interview. I’m very big fan of his work. Glad to see him taking responsibility and working to be a better person
Exactly
Pfft have you ever been around these types? He trying to save his ass.
@@chiquitafeldberg8512 and he does acting for a living. It's hard to believe people these days
Well he is an actor after all
@@roarroar4316 you basically sayin he’s too good of actor ,you’re praising him while you also “hate” him Goofy
Perfection. The interviewer kept his mouth closed but you could see that he cared from his facial expression and James Franco was totally honest and relatable
I actually gained a lot of respect for James here. I've had similar struggles and I can really tell it's something he feels a lot of shame about. It's hard to admit you have problems with things like that, especially love/sex. I think it's harder to see sex addictions the same way as drugs or drinking, like he said, you can be totally sober so you believe you're functioning fine but all your interpersonal relationships are outta whack. It's nice to see him speaking so honestly about this.
Facing your demons and overcoming them is such a big theme in so many lives...whether you're a celebrity or guy next door. I would love to see James Franco make another great run in Hollywood. That charming smile is missed.
Really glad that podcasts are becoming just as, if not (hopefully) more, popular than talk shows. Thank you to the interviewer who just lets James speak instead of constantly interrupting him with ego-driven jokes to make him the centre of attention.
Talk show hosts are mongrels
Agree
So true , although I don't watch T.V. you still have to hear about t it and see their faces, get rid of the trash. the' View'
Do you know where I can find the full interview?
@@juice6521 I mean that's what talk shows used to be back in the 60s 70s and 80s even the 90s there were some good ones like that. What the OP is referring to is Late Night shows. Late Night shows have always been comedy shows since Steve Allen in the 50s.
GREAT interview; because the interviewer is a GOOD LISTENER! And James is so honest and humble. Really good all round. And well done, interviewer; this is how it's done!
Nah, James is anything but honest or humble
@@BigBrotherMars Have you even met the man that you judge as if you’re the Lord above?
@@mattheww239 it’s UA-cam. Get used to it.
@@connorharrell3072 You're right... so why don't you shut it and let them respond. Quit being a hypocrite.
@@chriskennedy6300 Do u even know what a hypocrite is or are u just using word u just heard from ur parents?😂😂
"If I get that then I'll be happy. But it's not enough." I certainly can relate to that feeling.
He literally gave us such a solid fact about human nature.
Because only Jesus can fill that void.. nothing else in this world will.
James Franco is one of the only actors I’ve seen talk and I believe he’s not acting… might sound weird but a lot of actors actually play a version of themselves but James really is himself. Shows so much maturity.
They’re actors bro
@@ShinyFlakesShinyFlakesthey’re actors.. they’re goof at playing characters.l they’re not good at playing themselves which is why many actors are f up in the head.
@@acutelilmint8035 Exactly
I haven't seen such an honest celebrity in a really long time. He's so real for doing this.
Lol what celebs do you follow? There are many!
@@savagegameclipss No there aren’t. Being honest when you’re a famous person in this day and age is a rare sight to behold.
so brave
@@Max_RO1yes there are lmao, you clearly just choose to focus on the negative
He’s actually sooooo raw in this interview
As someone who has struggled with addiction myself, I’m grateful to hear him discuss his struggles publicly. You would forgive the transgressions of a drug addict because we all know they are a slave to their addictions, well, this is no different. I’m not even a religious man but I must say, “Let he who is free from sin cast the first stone”.
Publicly. . .
If I found out any dude took advantage of a friend or my sister I would 🖐🖐
At some point u have to throw ppl like that away
We all have addictions but unless u have a "mental health " problem then u know what you are doing
The world is tired of trash 🗑 ppl
🙂
@@woke1497 My mother is a rape survivor and my sister and I are survivors of childhood sexual abuse. It's insulting to have people like James Franco who partake in consensual, if not inappropriate, sexual behavior be placed in an umbrella category of sexual predators. His actions are a far cry from those of a rapist or child molester. The ethics of his actions are up for interpretation but he is not to be lumped into a category with true monsters of the world. This nuance is incredibly important to distinguish an addict from a predator. And, lastly, if someone is sleeping with him for career ascension or material wealth, the question of who is actually being exploited and taken advantage of is debatable.
It's very different. If someone has a chemical dependency that hurts nobody but themselves, that is one thing. But the scummy way in which Franco habitually treated women and underage girls is another.
@@jonbriggs9029 I wholeheartedly disagree… All addictions hurt more than the person struggling with the addiction. All addictions are chemical… even process addictions. They all provide a neurotransmitter flood of the desired hormones.
@@MarcioNovelli Abusing alcohol is not the same as abusing women. Full stop. Women are not things. Stop trying to make excuses.
This is like therapy. He's just speaking the truth about himself. I commend that. I don't support or condone what he's done. But I'm glad he's admitting to it and working on himself.
To be fair, he hasn't fully acknowledged or admitted to the extend of the misconduct and assault allegations against him. Doing that is an important part of moving on. Without it, there's no moving on.
@@AR-wn8gw If it isn’t clear to you, do more research. If you’ve done your research, I suggest the same therapy Franco is taking.
@@harryskywalker6814 Off the high horse now, chap. Thanks but no thanks for the suggestions, Mr UA-camr. Relax with the judgement and focus on your Star Wars series. ;-)
@@AR-wn8gw Wasn’t trying to be unkind in any way. It’s just dumb if you cant see what he did was bad when even James himself admits to it smh
@@harryskywalker6814 him believing what he did was bad, doesn't make it so. ;-) You'd do well to remember that.
Hearing James open up really resonates with me. I was always trying to fill that hole . My dad was abusive fundamentalist who beat, harassed and berated me constantly till I was 14 and fought him . I sought out inclusion and acceptance. In the 70’s that meant drugs, alcohol and mixing with strangers . Then there was bars and sex ..then there was a crash and burn phase. I sought therapy and was diagnosed with sex/love addiction by a counselor in my 40’s .. I settled down and got married . We’ve been together for 25 years now . I’m content and hes my rock . Nothing ever seems good enough until I share it with him. When I see something I know he likes , bringing it home to him feels me up inside . Giving him care and love gives me the fullness I never received as an unwanted child of two diametrically opposed forces as parental figures . Bless you JF 🙏
how did you overcome your sex/love addiction?
As a recovering sex addict, I can relate to everything James is talking about. My addiction didn’t involve hooking up with other women, it involved pornography and objectifying women both in person and online.
And I know James’s addiction isn’t pornography but I think people have to be vigilant about online pornography. It’s like having an open bar that never closes. And as long as nobody can see your searches on your phone, you can do in complete ‘silence’. And this goes for everyone. Young teenagers have their own phones and can start watching porn at a very early age. And because porn objectifies women, young boys feel that it’s ok to treat women as sex objects and it begins to warp their minds to thinking so.
Anyway, just wanted to share a bit of my story and like James, I hope others can learn from it.
How did you stop it ? How long has it been ?
100% man. I started watching it in my early teens and have been trying to kick the habit for over a decade. Like you said, it’s a very silent addiction.
@@mathsdebater Asking for a friend...
So
Glad I stopped watching that sht years ago. I see people here asking how. One good way is simply
To not entertain those thoughts. I don’t use social media either because sex and half naked women are being pushed down your throat constantly. Over time you get used to it and you slowly stop thinking about it as much. To me a healthier outlet is just thinking about women you like in the shower or something along those lines. It feels way more natural and normal. I’m amazed that people actually think prn is good for society and almost applaud it and guys will make fun of u for not being into it. Warped world we have created for ourselves. I’m glad to see more and more men waking up to this too
@@ichiban6004 that's great, well done. How old are you?
props to the host for not interrupting
Very proud of you James. This took courage. Crazy how easy it is to replace one addiction with another, subconsciously. Then once you have the aha moment its so powerful and humbling. We all all on a journey and you are exactly where you are meant to be. Much love to you.
@@jamesedwardfranco424 hiii
so james how was spiderman will you be in another
You rape sympathizers are really something else. I guess as long as people are rich and good looking, they can do whatever they want.
It's people like you who make the world a terrible place.
@@imelfariasthat’s not James Franco… are you really that naive???? 😂
Everybody can change.
Keep working hard James. Cancel culture shouldn’t be life and death for these people.
Agreed. Getting sober is hard as hell.
@@AA4PJM trump 2024?
@@AA4PJM joking
@@AA4PJM
He didn't rape anybody.
@@AA4PJM don't worry the accusers got their money so now you can sleep at night.....you should really do your research on the matter because there is absolutely zero proof of any of these allegations. Also simp is so overused just like your oversimplified and lazy train of thought. Next.
I struggled with Alcohol myself. But I am now 1 year Sober. I have sought help for myself and staying off the booze was no easy task early on but I made it to a full year. If I ever met James I would tell him all about how I beat Alcoholism. And anyone who is reading this comment, if you are still suffering from Alcoholism I hope to Inspire you.
Congratulations on your 1 year of sobriety! Truly amazing!
I would love to hear your story!
James Franco has always seemed like a chill and intelligent down to earth dude. One of the few celebrities I respect.
r we just gonna forget about all the girls he raped
But bro assumed Austria and Australia as the same country 😭
@@unmistakabl3lmao😭but he is smart, he has like 5 phds
Y’all don’t even know, nor would ever be able to comprehend how strong he is for being silent for so long and then coming on here and speaking his truth like this. James has always been one of my favorite actors, and my respect for him has grown astronomically.
James Franco bad. Lost all respect
‘His truth’ LOL yikes
"Speaking his truth", oh my god, this is too much cringe for one paragraph 🤣🤣🤣
you gotta be outta your fucking mind nigga 😂
If James were to sexually assault someone close to you. I think you would feel entirely different about the whole situation. Right now all you see is a rich, charismatic, good looking celebrity. Gotta see past that.
This is powerful stuff. There’s very few things better than seeing someone becoming better. Stories don’t have to end at any bad things that happened.
One thing about me is I love honesty and truthness James really did tell all and I do appreciate him for that. I feel like everyone deserves second chances especially when this was a problem in his life he couldn’t grab hold too.
I'm glad it's becoming more commonplace for people to fight off their troubles and get help no matter if they are famous or not, we're all human and it's nice to see people take steps in a good direction
shout out to the host letting him talk and express himself without interrupting
You are TEARING ME APART Franco!
Fk Franco for not letting Tommy speak on the mic at the Globes
Great his publicity tour is working then.
Yikes
You're first time? 🤣😅
I reckon I must have had sex with James Franco, looks like everyone else has
Regardless of the controversy, I’m happy to see James out there talking about it. I was a bit worried, not hearing much of him lately.
He is fine, going on holidays etc.
I'm in recovery from SLA. This was very powerful to hear James Franco speak about it.
Well done Mr Franco, and thank you for telling everyone. I didn't recognise it, lost everything, hit rock bottom, but I am coming up 4 years sober, Nov 23.
It is sooooo powerful, alcohol. All I wanted was the sweet warming relaxing escape. I can only imagine what heroin feels like to use and kick. Harder than alcohol, and that's bloody difficult enough !!!! Well done again, you will save lives with this clip! 👍😀
I’m sure a lot of us have done things we regret, that’s what makes us human but what’s important is understanding there needs to be accountability in order to change for the best.
I’m so glad he came out and said this, even if it took a while he did it on his terms when he was ready to face all his mistakes and move on. This is good if he truly wants to change, you have my support in recovery 🙏🏾
He's gaslighting
40 something year old man in recovery 🤔
U must be under a spell
@@woke1497 you can make a recovery at any point in your life, you clearly have a gated and privileged life if you don’t understand that. There’s no age limit on bettering yourself
@@woke1497 With a user like yours with "woke" on it - that's all the reader needs to know about you and your poor misguided view in life. Go woke, go broke in brain cells.
@@bonvct You're really special if you think what you heard in this video was "gaslighting". Google that word lol
Well at least he’s getting help. Doesn’t make what he’s done okay, but it’s important to look in the mirror and face the truth.
How do people fall for this?🤣
@@SuperiorModel
I’m not sure why they do, but I’m guessing that if you have enough money behind you, certain interested parties will work to convince people to welcome you back and forgive you. James hasn’t done ANY reparations for the victims, other than pay them money. He needs to go to prison if he actually did what he admits to have done.
@@SuperiorModel I guess you missed the part where I said what he did isn’t okay. 🤷♂️
While I believe in redemption and forgiveness, actions have consequences. If a person wants to change, seeing that darkness that’s inside of you, and getting help is the only thing that allow you to change into a better person, but that doesn’t mean what he did wasn’t wrong.
@@tatertotcasserolewithsalt It's definitely a muddy water to tread on with these things. Well the answer is never easy, but I rather see people get help than not get help and continue to harm.
@@SuperiorModel what makes you so sure he’s not actually facing his issues? Even if the catalyst was getting caught?
The honesty is so inspiring and appreciated thank you !! 🙏🏻
U just like men who open up don't u
He actually sounds sincere. I hope he’s able to get his life together. He may never be a successful actor again, but that would probably be a good thing for him. What does it matter if you gain the whole world and lose your own soul?
It is very hard with temptation. You can tell he genuinely understand . I can honestly say many of us would have done the same unfortunately if we were in his position. Learning from it takes will power.
It’s about time he started to understand and learn after 21 years don’t you think? The rest of your comment seems you are either defending him or justify his actions.
No it's not. It's about yourself and the people around you, although, it's more about who you are as a person, does not matter what age.
I was not raised in a perfect environment, all the boys around me smoking and drinking at very early age of 12-16, but I never did that, I've never smoked and never drank. The first drink I had was at the age of 18 and I disliked it, as my father was forcing me to do it, because it's a "man thing". I always hated the subjugation of things and I had many chances with girls too, but I never used any, because I did not want myself to be shallow and put myself down on the level of others. Does that make me a better person? No, because I have made many other mistakes with life, in general with people and connections, which were base a lot on relationships. But I've never had to do anything like that. Even, right now, being 25 and virgin, which I don't really care about, I do respect the space of others and won't do anything stupid. I care about my life.
Now, if you are someone with "power" like Franco, I can't say anything about that. But as a regular person, I think fighting temptations is not hard, unless you enjoy them and don't feel guilty.
@@GriffinXP97 You may be asexual which helps in not having the same level of temptation as someone who is not. To add, how people cope with life depends on their experience. Sure you never had a temptation to drink or smoke, but not everyone's addictions are the same. Some people are addicted to the internet. The brain usually latches on to things that it feels will relieve stress or pain. Your brain development never happened that way, which is good. Neurological disorders can also make it easier to be addictive (Bipolar disorder, BDP, NPD, etc). It's not that cut and dry.
@@Gabor123 I don't think he is justifying his actions. Rather accepting that we all have something to work on and grow from.
@@venusluv-i1v I have a lovely relationship with my girlfriend, thank you, I am not asexual, but I guess, you are one of those people, who used to think I was homosexual, because I did not grab every skirt on the way to my class or during parties.
And don't go on with telling me medical issues, I am an RN and do know things, FYI. Neurological disorders are not the key here, someone fully healthy and acknowledging their irresponsible behavior are 2 different things, maybe think about that.
I have BPD, and this guy really sounds like he might have it too. Everything he says in this video, as well as other stuff I've heard him say, describes BPD down to a tee. The empty void, the inability to form healthy relationships, the instability, the wake of damage you leave behind even though you dont mean to hurt people.
Its not BPD. Bipolar depression maybe, but he doesn't sound like a BPD at all. He might be in the autism spectrum.
Def !!! Reminds me of my ex gf
@@Maverick.D. he doesn’t have autism
No such thing!
@@ForeverEngland76 thanks doc. You should know
Great interview. Such discussions must happen. Society's been feeding off of trauma for too long. That's the future's demand.
I truly appreciate his honesty. It just goes to show how complex we are as human beings.
And the interviewer for giving him the space, where James felt so open to just speak truth ❤
What an amazingly original story from an actor. He’s so brave.
Yeah the classic story you hear every rich dude tell.
he's not brave at all. he hurt so many girls along the way. very lucky not to be prosecuted for various dubious situations.
Addictions are a search for the Real Love that was not given by caretakers early on in childhood. Just watched Franko in the Deuce. Great series.
For the first time EVER, I feel some sort of sympathy for this dude. Hr always came off as arrogant and a prick. It’s the first time I see him coming across as sincere!
Probably cause he’s been getting coached on how to do interviews over the past year but yeah man he came off chill this time so that negates all the terrible shit he’s done.
@@oheldenring6937 just stop
That’s how he’s trying to come across
@@sa1ntluke That’s how I know you’re 14 yrs old. I don’t argue with kids.
@@oheldenring6937 How incredibly cynical of you.
Addicted to being addicted. We are so anal here in the US, so worried about how we will be perceived. I'm not bad mouthing him about what he is hoping to get in his life, but we are just so stuffy about our lifestyle here in America. We should try and live the best lives we can, but how is spending your entire life under a microscope make it more enjoyable. Self improvement yes, but keep it withing reason. I hope the best for him.
This is who I am and I’m trying to beat it!! This will help people James! Good for you!
he’s a great actor and never disappoints in his work.
What? Lmao he sucks
That’s not even the point here…
@@PreachinBlues_no shit?
@@PreachinBlues_have you ever been around all the horrific woman abusers that get away with it using their zero accountability privilege?!
Is there a subtlety in this comment? 🤔
I love how this interviewer stayed completely silent. It was like listening to a real-life therapy session.
im happy to give anyone a second chance if they are willing to face what they did . he seems to be doing that . we can all be better
Nah no one should forgive him
@@BigBrotherMars ever ?
@@gump5ter01 don’t listen to that person
What about 10th and 15th chances? At some point you run out. Even cats only get 9.
@@Physics072 but I only said “happy to give anyone a second chance”. That’s pretty clear I think
I'm not defend James, but not everyone can admit that, moreover, not everyone agree that these acts are ugly. I wish him and all of us patience.
P.s. in Russia such confessions wouldn't have had the same effect(
Which effect would they have had in Russia?
@@neburarieiv at its worst, there will be a lot of talk in the media. I don't remember any cases of ostracism. In a last time are frequent cases when older actresses recall harassment by actors or directors who already died. These actresses (no actors) are usually condemned.
@@ven_monakhov cool
The morale of this story is self love and true love will help you heal your wounds!
i have such a admiration for this guy, i remember loving his films and get really happy on his performances
For him to come out and admit all these things now, it seems like he has come to terms with his mistakes and is ready to turn his life around. I hope he finds the light 🙏
I applaud James Franco for owning up to what he did and now is working on himself and starting to become a better person after that. Most celebrities don't do that but this makes me like him 100x more. Always have been a fan and will always be a fan of his
give it a break. his career has nosedived because of all the allegations, and he's trying to revive it.
@@delmanpronto9374 uhh no I won't. He is human just like you and I. Yes what he did was wrong, everyone makes mistakes from time to time and that what makes us human
@@tonygunksgal4196 you should. the guy is a fraud.
@@delmanpronto9374 no I won't.
@@tonygunksgal4196 you should; franco is a total weasel.
The problem nowadays is that you cant make a mistake, never, you dont get a second chance, everybody have to be perfect and say all the correct words or they get cancelled. I know there´s people that have done very awful and atrocious things that dont deserve forgiveness but most of functional humans beings make mistakes all the time, its part of our nature and also is its seems hard being judge by the entire world for your actions. Nice to see an open and genuine interview with Franco, great job.
Nope. Lost all my respect for him
@@BigBrotherMarsI hope you never make a mistake
@@theresalwayshope5349mistake? A loooongg Harassment is not a basic mistake ok?
I went from loving James due to his acting career, to hating him after of hearing of the scandals. Now I UNDERSTAND him, which is most important. I get what’s he’s saying and feeling. It doesn’t excuse anything, but god damn it’s raw, honest, and relatable. I hope you get a healthy place.
I love when interviewers listen so the interviewé can talk deep ❤️
He’s talking! He had poor judgment when it came to making good decisions with the women he slept with, although it was with consent. After being in the spotlight for so long you would think he’d know better. I am so happy to see him answering these questions and happy to see him admit to these things. James Franco is not responsible for making certain decisions for anyone, even adult women. He’s talking about sex addiction and drug addiction which opens the doors to many other actors/celebrities that live this way and it should be something to be open about.
Man went from spiderman to a lot of comedy films his acting skills is top notch
Three things we know about human beings. 1 Quick to judge!
2 All make mistakes
3 Not all of us can admit and admit publicly to them
he's admitting publicly for a reason, to save his own ass. It's for no other reason. Damage limitation.
@@strongteee so you’d rather him not admit publicly and keep it hidden for everyone to continue speculating?
@@munnymatt you're missing the point entirely. The fact he's speaking out is to save his own ass, that's it. He wouldn't otherwise.
@@munnymatt ???
@@strongteee Yes but all admission is based on recognising error in order to move forward positively? Yes the timing suggests selfish reasons, but nevertheless it's better he acknowledges than remaining apathetic?
Thank you James Franco for opening up and also thanks to the host who let him speak without interruption.
He's being 💯💯💯 and while it is obviously an addiction it is also part of being human with BOTH learning as well as accepting balance.
It sounds genuine because his answers aren’t scripted. He’s answering honestly. That’s why he keeps pausing and trying to gather his thoughts etc.
Those who have seriously struggled with sexual addictions to the point of depression, anxiety, and suicide, understand this all too well. Most have experienced some form of trauma, normally in childhood, that has lead to this compulsion. Like any other addiction, it’s a disease and a destructive one at that. We could all use more empathy in our lives and look at people with a more nuanced and balanced view rather than pointing fingers and containing them into a box based on the limited information we have about them.
No such thing as sex addiction, you cross the line, apologize or just shut up.
Addiction is one thing and manipulation is another
@@hirsch4155 Addiction is a treatable, chronic medical disease involving complex interactions among brain circuits, genetics, the environment, and an individual's life experiences. People with addiction use substances or engage in behaviors that become compulsive and often continue despite harmful consequences despite a desire to stop.
Replacing one addiction with another, can be very common. Sad to say. Great guy, glad he figured it out!
Seeing celebrities 10yrs down the road when they once thought they owned the world and could sway opinion with the flick of their wrist now meeting cold hard reality as the world has moved on from their self-delusions is good stuff. This dude was a piece of work circa 2009-2013. Now I actually had to look him up again to remember anything he's been in.
whats it like being perfect?
Which book is he talking about? I can't find the exact author and book online.
Im glad to see him speaking out and getting this out , addiction is hard
Oh shut up
@@DanNic88 you shut up , addiction is a tough
@@Setapart.1 we don't care especially when your late 30s and 40s
We are tired of hearing ppl use addiction as an excuse
We all have addictions but don't act on them
We are tired of having ppl abuse other ppl because of their upbringing that has nothing to do with anyone else
why he lookin at me like dat 1:10
cus you’re next
Respect to him being open and honest about his addiction and his personal problems. Most celebs would keep quiet and away from anything so they stay out of the press and news
He's just human I think we all sometimes forget these actors aren't perfect none of us are.
Very relatable. We do recover. He’s probably talking about the basic text of sex and love addicts anonymous which led me to recovery from sex and love addiction through the big book of AA, adapting the words for this addiction. There is hope ❤
Seems like a genuine guy, very sincere and understandable from a sympathetic stand point
One of the few actors, that I'm super pissed me too ended his career. I miss his acting and I don't really think he did anything to be canceled for, just my pov
We miss you, James!!!! This cancel culture thing as it’s being done helps no one. It’s quite destructive when the public can just mob harass someone sans any sort of evidence or Justice system process. I hope James knows how much we are rooting for him and appreciate his honesty in this conversation… thanks to Cagle for having the guts to hold space for him and actually let him speak!!!
He tried to sleep with a teenager though. If he actually did it he would of went to jail for a long time. It still makes him a pedo.
@@Kurry34 Cry us a river, mate.
@@Kurry34 bruh not to be creepy but like a nyu teenager or like what like a college student right? That ain’t the fucking same as Jared from subway shit. Cancel culture needs way more nuance people go for the neck every single time Franco ain’t that awful Harvey Weinstein actually was.
@@Kurry34 17 year old Scottish smoke show not a real pedo bro 😂😂😂Jesus h
@@Kurry34The accusations you may be referring to concern a 17 yr-old girl in NY, w/in legality as their state laws for age of consent is 17. Pedos are prepubescent, ephebophiles are adolescents 15-17; it's important to get the terms correct when accusing, common error.
thanks for the interview
Still a great actor. Probably one of the best today.
Thanks for sharing James
Kudos for speaking out!
An amazing actor. A flawed human being, like all of us. We can all admit this was brave from him to expose so open heartedly his 'weaknesses'. Great job on the interviewer too.
"He (you, me, they, them) is very much the actor the Big Book says 😀 as was I 😀 I "acted" like things were OK but inside my world was crumbling right before my eyes 😳 but I kept coming back 👍
Appreciate your honesty. Be proud that you were able to do, see and accept that..... 🌱
Hope he can make a comeback James Franco is easily one of my favorite actors
Respect for admitting his addiction. Most people deny it happens or shrug it off as no big deal. Sex and pornography are arguably more addictive than heroin or cocaine. STAY CLEAN ❤
we love ya james, we know you will be fine and ur career will resume .....be strong.
This comes off super sus. It’s almost like his publicist was like: ok it’s been 4 years, go do an interview and use “sex addiction” as your excuse and make everyone feel bad for your “disease” and then you can make your comeback.
Eh
James Franco deserves to get his status back and make great movies.
Very very good host!!
Greatest actor of our generation, I hope he comes back stronger than ever
Jennifer Howell was right about him being on a spiritual journey
Exactly
Who is she?
@@creamerasant a sexual abuser = nobody 😂
What the fuck are you talking about?
Hang in there James! We are all people and human beings that make mistakes. Just because your life is under a microscope everyone has an opinion and place to much judgment, but never thinking of what our own mistakes we all make trying to live our own lives Regardless of our social status's, rich or poor. I am still a fan.
Hello my gorgeous fan! Thank you so much for your good wishes, even your likes and comments! I believe they’re true! I can’t respond to y’all but I’ll do my best from time to time. I love you xoxo
James Franco ❤❤
I love James Franco!!! Happiness comes from within always ❤️
I love the supportive comments in here as much as I love that James has evolved.
such an interesting topic - just talked about in one of my videos why your dreams won't make you happy, but if not your dreams what will?
This actor is very talented and does almost 100% perfect job in any movie he played.
"It is Jesus that you seek when you dream of happiness; He is waiting for you when nothing else you find satisfies you..." -pope John Paul II
We need him back for spiderman 4 despite the fake accusations
Thank you for sharing so honestly. You are not alone!
Great thing that the interviewer was silent in this discussion. So precious.