Who Gives A Black Man Permission to Feel? [An Ode to Uncle Stan] by Preston Perry for PIA 2019

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  • @aaronzamani9860
    @aaronzamani9860 5 років тому +138

    "there's no scenes sadder than hurting men afraid to be hurting men in public" 🔥

  • @k.s.p9696
    @k.s.p9696 5 років тому +70

    " A man mourning doesn't make him weak it keeps him alive."

  • @shanetaylor500
    @shanetaylor500 4 роки тому +66

    "Who gives a black man permission to cry? Jesus does.... " I felt that hit like a brick man. I know my skin doesn't match Preston's, but we've got the same blood in Jesus. Amen.

  • @jamesmcnair2114
    @jamesmcnair2114 3 місяці тому +1

    How am I just hearing this poem! Man this is so deep, just started counseling last week, was about to cancel my 2nd session because I felt like "I got Jesus, I don't need this " but this really has made me want to continue!

  • @jonathanminga9122
    @jonathanminga9122 5 років тому +81

    "y'all I will cry whenever I feel like it!"

    • @sellison08
      @sellison08 4 роки тому +1

      That's it, right there. We can cry whenever we feel like it, whenever the need or want for release arises.

  • @eunicekalala6502
    @eunicekalala6502 5 років тому +50

    When grief comes out, it makes room for life to come in 😢👏

  • @LuckyMakobela
    @LuckyMakobela 4 роки тому +13

    A man mourning doesn't make him weak, it keeps him alive.

  • @natelex7084
    @natelex7084 5 років тому +68

    Preston. Thank you my dude, even though i'm not black I can relate. I've been told for a long time to deny my emotions or feelings instead of taking them captive to Jesus. Poems are so powerful. I ordered your poets in autumn DVD and I can't wait to hear it. Thank you for your powerful testimony and ministry. You are well loved my brother in Christ.

    • @amyelise9200
      @amyelise9200 5 років тому +3

      Nate Lex you will not be disappointed with the DVD your ordered. I promise. I had the privilege to see all of them live in Seattle with my daughter. What a blessing! These poets are disciples, spreading the Gospel message with love and empathy.

    • @natelex7084
      @natelex7084 5 років тому +2

      Amy Elise YES! I love that!!!

  • @dolly2405
    @dolly2405 5 років тому +21

    Wow!! I am a single Mom raising a son...thank you for this poem..from South Africa.

  • @Mish25
    @Mish25 6 місяців тому +1

    This video is so deep to me!!! I’m so tired of men feeling like they can’t express their feelings! Men are not robots they are human beings who have feelings and should be able to express them! It doesn’t make a man weak because he express how he feels! I would be more worried if you didn’t express how you feel! Make men feel safe enough to express their feelings and emotion!

  • @dinglelawrence8890
    @dinglelawrence8890 3 роки тому +5

    Do not put words in my mouth! Watch the ones coming from yours!

  • @kellymanana
    @kellymanana 5 років тому +19

    One of my most favorites from the PIA tour. Thank you Preston for your vulnerability. 🙏

  • @PriscilleBuck
    @PriscilleBuck 5 років тому +29

    man Preston is my absolute favorite, this was soo real and beautifully written. Such an important piece of work for our culture.

    • @debkeeler
      @debkeeler 2 роки тому +1

      For all cultures. With much respect.

  • @TheEmerald07
    @TheEmerald07 3 роки тому +10

    Growing up in the hood and with a lotta dudes who shunned me for being a sensitive dude and expressing my feelings, this hits home for me personally. Despite that, I continued to be me and express myself and my emotions because that's what real men do. The Bible is filled with sensitive men who expressed their emotions.

    • @jld4870
      @jld4870 2 роки тому +1

      You are blessed to know and have the courage to express your emotions. Need more of you.

    • @ilovekene9697
      @ilovekene9697 Рік тому +1

      True dat 🙌

  • @Teyliaj
    @Teyliaj 2 роки тому +8

    So powerful, everyone needs to watch this video.

  • @_swaggdalion274
    @_swaggdalion274 4 роки тому +6

    Brother I could do nothin but cry and smh, I'm from Newark, NJ...its a lot of pain in me I've been letting out, God has let me see, and ive been on ya page every day since I came I came across it a week ago... keep goin what u doin brother, Jesus has softened our hearts and we can see the pain not only we go through but others and to be able to feel is such a blessing

  • @awakened2bme761
    @awakened2bme761 2 роки тому +4

    As a 52 year old Spiritual Black Female Therapist...I Salute You Brotha,❤️💚🖤

  • @eboniarmstrong4401
    @eboniarmstrong4401 5 років тому +8

    This was my favorite from this year! I was literally in tears! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @delobiye1456
    @delobiye1456 3 роки тому +3

    My wife talks about how it would have been powerful for our parents to prepare us for the prejudice awaiting us.

  • @SpiritofaLevite
    @SpiritofaLevite 5 років тому +9

    Much respect Preston👊🏿 We appreciate your artistry!

  • @TheJuan08861
    @TheJuan08861 Рік тому +1

    This had me teared up the whole time, thank you for sharing this

  • @DirtyKnucklez-k3q
    @DirtyKnucklez-k3q 8 місяців тому

    They can only see the Black in my soul, thats why they act so cold, the cold shoulder is all I've felt, oh the distaste they've dealt. I feel u! It's still hard to cry... Now I know why! Thanks!

  • @debkeeler
    @debkeeler 2 роки тому +1

    Yes! "I will cry whenever I feel like it." Thank you for addressing this. No matter our gender, color or religion, I believe if we all cried more as adults, many people would be in a more healthy mindset. Thank you for your words, they are so important.

  • @voiceofreason1613
    @voiceofreason1613 3 роки тому +3

    Wow wow wow😭💯❤🙏🏾. This was such a amazing poem and speaks to soo many truth of black men.

  • @lauralafleur3997
    @lauralafleur3997 4 роки тому +1

    I was at the OKC PIA Tour. Thank you for this poem. I was not ready. Your words pierced through my soul and time stopped. I felt so many emotions as tears ran down my face. I grieve and mourn with my brothers and sisters from the black community. #JesusPlusTherapy #BlackLivesMatter #MyHusbandMatters

  • @mphumudzenimbelengwa7197
    @mphumudzenimbelengwa7197 5 років тому +3

    One of my favourites from PIA Tour 2019! I have been waiting for it. Thank you Preston

  • @kfutwahlaura9242
    @kfutwahlaura9242 2 роки тому +2

    Thank you Preston for being an open book, it's easier to identify God's works through a transparent man.

    • @jld4870
      @jld4870 2 роки тому

      Amen and amen!

  • @kimbutler9501
    @kimbutler9501 4 роки тому +4

    Powerful poem!!!

  • @Mzlizzy
    @Mzlizzy 4 роки тому +5

    I know I'm a black girl,have seen the reflection of my skin in the eyes of too many stares in my life time to begin

  • @jacob777jacob
    @jacob777jacob 4 роки тому +4

    It's not society's fault though, MEN have never had a platform for emotions and feelings and it's due to MEN, no one else can be blamed for it.

  • @Elijahrising1
    @Elijahrising1 10 місяців тому

    Praise YESHUA! The more I listen to you , I understand the youth! I say youth because most youth want to be a black youth/Kool!
    This testimony/poem is sad and uplifting!
    You're an amazing young man!
    I'm 63! THE LORD IS using you to teach me about The Youth and how to, not let a finger nail under my skin when witnessing!
    Funny! Its not the youth that keep my head from turning!
    I look for to your book and more teaching videos!
    I'm blessed by your and wife ministry!
    And seeing what Family looks like!
    Blessings 🙏❤🔥🌍
    B

  • @durkduggie
    @durkduggie 5 років тому +3

    Definitely one of my favorite poems on the tour!!

  • @miguelgonzalez9364
    @miguelgonzalez9364 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you for addressing the hidden issues of the heart

  • @lifewithdanicepedersen821
    @lifewithdanicepedersen821 4 роки тому +1

    Powerful. Thank you Jesus for my brother.

  • @Sweeettt.Caroline
    @Sweeettt.Caroline 5 років тому +3

    Loved it in person love it now !

  • @michealjohnson8715
    @michealjohnson8715 4 роки тому +3

    Touched my soul on this one iseen him do this live and i teared up

  • @lizzymwamba7546
    @lizzymwamba7546 5 років тому +3

    This blessed me 🙌 thank you

  • @bigsidrealprisontalk9173
    @bigsidrealprisontalk9173 4 роки тому +4

    I just found your channel I love your testimony man

  • @ronalddowdell1931
    @ronalddowdell1931 3 роки тому +1

    Just beautiful.

  • @ilovekene9697
    @ilovekene9697 Рік тому

    I'm not a man. But I do struggle with emotional health. I often feel I don't have the right to laugh or smile or feel some way. I often feel my sentiments are invalid. This poem is great.

  • @brandonhaines6936
    @brandonhaines6936 5 років тому +1

    Thank you Preston

  • @ngozia34
    @ngozia34 3 роки тому +1

    wow!!

  • @sharonmbabazi7481
    @sharonmbabazi7481 3 роки тому +1

    WOOW

  • @chilubamumba2806
    @chilubamumba2806 5 років тому +1

    Thank you ❤️

  • @nh2008
    @nh2008 4 роки тому +1

    Wow... Wow...
    Anointed
    Wowww

  • @MrMorale96
    @MrMorale96 5 років тому +1

    This is going straight to Favsville!!!! Awesome piece

  • @sunnypark2087
    @sunnypark2087 4 роки тому +1

    I just found you....wow. Thank God for you.

  • @cookwithqueenzy5818
    @cookwithqueenzy5818 2 роки тому

    So refreshing and powerful more Grace man of God🙏

  • @lydiakatongole8480
    @lydiakatongole8480 4 роки тому +1

    Wow, just wow❤❤

  • @wetwaters7400
    @wetwaters7400 Рік тому

    Man I loved this

  • @danielbassa2354
    @danielbassa2354 4 роки тому +1

    When the black free indeed hoodie coming back in stock

  • @ashb7636
    @ashb7636 9 місяців тому

    Preach!

  • @mariahdomyhair2401
    @mariahdomyhair2401 3 роки тому +1

    Amen

  • @whitediamonds444
    @whitediamonds444 5 років тому +12

    That one dislike got me feeling like………😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡😡

    • @thehoodedpoet
      @thehoodedpoet 4 роки тому

      Same here

    • @edwardwright7295
      @edwardwright7295 4 роки тому +1

      Can't do anything about people who dislike videos like this maybe they dislike because they haven't found that comfort in Christ to know that it's okay to feel down just know that he can pick you up. Got to pray for people who don't understand have keep them in prayer so the Love of Christ can come in there hearts

    • @whitediamonds444
      @whitediamonds444 4 роки тому +1

      Edward Wright 👍🏾 🤜🏾💥🤛🏾 fist bump

    • @latashaallana7252
      @latashaallana7252 4 роки тому +1

      Theirs always one or few haters.🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @terria.mccurdy9190
    @terria.mccurdy9190 4 роки тому +1

    xcellent...amen...amen...amen...

  • @Healing_her
    @Healing_her Рік тому

    “I thought ‘she doesn’t need a weak man in the house at this time’ she doesn’t need a husband so human” woooww

  • @mclaniyisapphire80
    @mclaniyisapphire80 Рік тому

    Here after 3 years.

  • @micom6082
    @micom6082 5 років тому +1

    Wow, bless up

  • @chevelynjozefzoon
    @chevelynjozefzoon 4 роки тому +1

    Wauw ! Love it 🔥🔥

  • @MaryMason007
    @MaryMason007 5 років тому +1

    Love it!!

  • @rickbeastrandolph
    @rickbeastrandolph 7 місяців тому

    Wowww

  • @realonethreesevens3640
    @realonethreesevens3640 4 роки тому +3

    I'm from Atlanta, what church are you a part of Preston? I am interested in attending, I've been trying to find a righteous Bible based church to be apart of

  • @jacqueline9575
    @jacqueline9575 3 роки тому

    Amen 🙏🏽

  • @tunuk4060
    @tunuk4060 3 роки тому +1

    👏👏

  • @narcherdsda
    @narcherdsda 4 роки тому +1

    Wonder what race that one dislike is and if they cried recently..

  • @kashawnaforte9364
    @kashawnaforte9364 5 років тому +1

    WHEWWWWWWW 🔥🔥🔥

  • @broderickbrown6028
    @broderickbrown6028 5 років тому +7

    Bruh ! Where you been 🙏🏾

  • @karstenrogers7178
    @karstenrogers7178 4 роки тому +1

    Hi I am requesting permission to use this video for a youth service

  • @rachelleiverson655
    @rachelleiverson655 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤

  • @BlueSea92
    @BlueSea92 4 роки тому +1

    🔥🔥🔥Wow

  • @9105tvp
    @9105tvp 4 роки тому +1

    ❤🙏❤

  • @mangalisoxhamela4246
    @mangalisoxhamela4246 Рік тому

    Damn.

  • @karenwallaceadventures3146
    @karenwallaceadventures3146 5 років тому +1

    👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽💙

  • @Reneica1
    @Reneica1 2 роки тому

    👏🏾👏🏾

  • @rickbeastrandolph
    @rickbeastrandolph 7 місяців тому

    🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @CartoonActor3
    @CartoonActor3 2 роки тому

    👍

  • @lawrencemanley4401
    @lawrencemanley4401 5 років тому +1

    Yo....

  • @isaaclungu545
    @isaaclungu545 Рік тому

    Jesus gives them the permission to cry

  • @dinglelawrence8890
    @dinglelawrence8890 3 роки тому +1

    He is describing living oppression! Thanks, and No!