1. You mismanage your money 2. Nothing in common 3. You are a liar 4. Emotionally unstable 5. You are rude often 6. Dressing too sexy 7. Too dependent on him
Am no. 4😦😦.and trying so hard to stop it but its keeps popping every 3days in a week(i need help) but he still talks about marriage..he doesn't care but tells me i will change..i need an advice.
I think you nailed this video. I agree with every dealbreaker you made. When I got married 16 years ago we were best friends and enjoyed working out together. We shared all types of interests together. Spending time with family was also very important at least once a week for dinner. I think before you get married you need to be on the same page as far as what your future goals are. For example, if you plan on having children one day will you want to stay home with your baby? How many children do you want? One of the major causes of divorce is MONEY! Very important to live a comfortable life but not live beyond your means. For men to fell comfortable bills have to be paid on time. When a man feels confident with his job, life and marriage everyone is happy. Another important factor for a successful marriage. When your husband comes home from work give him 30 minutes to himself to unwind before talking about your day. As women we are emotional creatures and tend to talk a lot because we want to share our day with our husband. Please give him 30 minutes when he gets home and you’ll both be a happier couple. God Bless✝️
I see people saying that she's not married and should not be making any comments. Wow, and how do you know she didn't learn this from an elder, a personal situation, or just from observing her surroundings? What comes before marriage, air? There are steps leading to marriage and those are the steps she's covering. Not everyone has to be wrist deep in shit to know something, excuse my French. She addressed them all properly and with tact, this is a great start for anyone that is considering marriage. I'm not saying not to ask people that are married but, let's be honest, don't you think their opinion could possibly be biased depending on how they connected with their partner? You have to think about these things... Fools are judgmental but the wise wait and see.
Tynisha Lewis I would've never known that just by watching a video. I wish people asked questions before they let poison spew from their tongues. Keep doing what you're doing because this video helped me make a decision that would've possibly changed my life for the worst. Thank you 😊
Mai U. 👍🏾 This is why I tell people I don’t need to be in a relationship to give you relationship advice so many people have been through things we learn from them
Great video! Another tip : Your not ready to be married if your still holding on to your past relationships with exes. A lot of people don't know how to let there past go completely to have a better future situations like this hinders people from moving forward because their ex is still popping up at places he knows you will be, showing up your house, still hanging out, and still calling. If you want better you have to do better. Stop entertaining the past and focus on entertaining your present and future because if you don't you will miss your blessing.
I am working on #1 and #4. You are a blessing. I WILL GET THIS UNDER CONTROL AND I WILL MEET MY HUSBAND TO BE THIS YEAR IN JESUS NAME AMEN. I'm going to get these issues right. I can do it. Already working on both now! THANK YOU SO MUCH! THIS WAS PERFECT!
Finding true love begins with Loving yourself. You must know that you are whole, complete and do not need another human being to complete you. Then you will recognize and attract people who are vibrating at the same frequency. Your life is a mirror. You will only attract that which you are on the inside. Love attracts love. Two halves will never make a whole. You attract your soulmate by becoming your soulmate.
Y’all this is just her opinions. She’s stating how SHE THINKS a woman should act if they’re ready to get married or not. Only person who knows if they’re ready to get married is yourself & your partner.
Right! My opinion based on my own marriage and the hundreds of makeup and hair clients I have had over the last 14 years. This is wisdom speaking but at the end of the day...people have to decide what THEY want..
Traci Love you don't have to do any of the things I suggested. But studies show that couples who share the same interests typically have greater longevity and their relationships.
I would love an engagement version of this. My boyfriend is talking about it and we would have a 2 year engagement. Something along that sorts, not a short engagement just for wedding planning.
I think they are saved and born again, but many times even after getting saved and born again we still have residue of sin. It is a process to get delivered from all the mess we accumulate before salvation.
This video showed up in my recommendations I didn’t even watch the video yet and I already know I’m not ready to be a wife I want to be financially stable and not living with my mom before I jump into a relationship 😂😂😂
Im on my boyfriends page but this was very on point & specific . That last part tho got me ! I need my own vehicle. I depend on him most times for transportation to & from work
Thank you for this video. You are spot on. I am not aiming to be perfect and I don’t think these are serious issues for me but I really want to keep working on this and keep finding new and better strategies.
spot on. I know this is an old video but I agree with everything you said in this video. especially the “dressing like a stripper” part. A man who ACTUALLY loves his wife, won’t want her entire body out. unfortunately people don’t like hearing that though😹😹
I ain't gonna lie when I first clicked on your video I was waiting to hear your credentials how long you been married so forth and so on but after watching the whole video you made some extremely good points that people that have been married for a while probably needed to hear so thanks for the info blessings
If I was a waiter and somebody called me stupid, I would insult them right back because people think just because you're at work disrespecting you is okay because you can't retaliate. Not this one! But somebody who insults their waiter is just ignorant. You're asking for the quality of your food to be compromised!!!!
I know some don't want to hear this but #1 is a reason why some men cheat bc although u LOVE ya woman but if she becomes more like a daughter than a wife/partner you will seek the attention of a WOMAN. I know some will say just leave but how do you leave a person that is totally dependant on you especially if there's kids involved.
How about a woman or wife who likes happy go lucky a lot and leave her baby to her husband just to go shopping and partying with her friends? I met a lot of women like this. Another wife likes wearing clothes that almost see her boobs? But her husband is proud of it? Geez, I have some friends who are like these. In my case, I mostly stay at home reading books, and taking care of the house and pets while my husband is working. He didn't like me to work and we argue a lot every time I ask his permission to work. I want to work because I want to help my husband for the bills. Instead, he sends me to school but I'm tired going to school at my age 30s. Any advice? Thanks Tynisha.
Maldita Babae I think that even though you are married you still should have some kind of life. So going out with your friends and shopping is okay as long as it's not excessive. If her husband likes to see her boobs then I don't see anything wrong with it as long as she is pleasing him. If you would like to work but your husband does not want you to work then you kind of got to go along with what he says. But you all should have discussed this prior to you getting married to him.
Great video, but she mentioned about emotions I agree with her, 50 50 and disagree cos at end of the day we are all humans, we can't be happy all the time, am not saying, it good to sad. But they are gonna be good days and bad days soo it part life, his got expert the girl, how she is simple so
Tynisha Lewis yeah I get where you're coming from regarding emotionally unstable, but at same the time, sometimes, it difficult to control it, cos for example if things are not well in a relationship your not gonna pretend all time, you got tell him how u feel sometimes
People who have difficulty controlling their own emotions will find it hard to have a meaningful relationships because as we know emotions move daily (hence the word e-motions) We have to just be aware of where we let them go...
Linda Bitwayiki: In cases like this, it’s important to then seek a professional, a therapist to assist you with managing your emotions. Managing your emotions is for your wellbeing and peace. If the relationship disrupts that then it’s time to examine if marriage counseling will work or an exist plan is necessary.
If you can't be comfortably financially dependent on your husband, you shouldn't be having babies with that person. A marriage is about trust and working together. Nothing wrong with a woman cooking, cleaning, and rearing the kids without throwing a job into the mix. That's honest work already, and any decent man knows and respects that. Hope you become ready to get married one day, girl.
I get your point but cooking, cleaning, and raising kids is not a 24hr/day job. A smart woman is not fully depending on a man’s income in today’s society. I was married 8 years, so I guess that day has come and gone.🤷🏽♀️
This topic was always been neglected to ask by ourselves nd we need to accept it bcoz we dont know nd it doesnt matter to us instead we follow our hearts ..thats the big difference between using our hearts over our mind only instead of planning before mking decisions nd needs to evaluate ourselves b4 we get marry
GREAT VIDEO.. IF YALL LOOK UP THE VIDEO "MISS HIGH STANDARDS" by ITSREAL85... he is describing how this woman so called high maintenance but living in the dark... ITS REALLY FUNNY😂😂
I'm bipolar i know I'm not ready to be a wife I'm only 18 but I will always have bipolar disorder also what about all the stay at home mothers ? I've raised my brothers and sisters and also babysit a lot (taken care of a lot of kids) and it's not easy I don't want to come off as rude I'm just curious as to what you think about these things considering some of the things mentioned in your video......
LostTheRemote thank you for saying this so well! People need to be educated on mental health, the world (especially America) needs to focus on mental wellness, before making statements like that.
That’s me but I still living at home 🏡 even if I did have my own crib still I don’t need rush into marriage then I like soap operas but if I meet that guy he not gonna watch soap operas guys are not interested in that.
Good points but how do you know if you're just a girlfriend? No shade just asking...I say that to say those are the basics but marrage is deep and tough knowing what people don't usually talk about is just deeper for a wife or long term "live with" relationship. Either way good video.
I'm so ready to get married , I have 15 kids by him the last child is 11yrs.old , We been together for 32years now . we have made plans off an on still nothing happens. I want to show the world how much I love this man , time is passing by so fast . so I'm asking the most high to make things right so we can be come Mr.Misses Redding in GOD HANDS . I love you Calvin Redding
You're joking right? 15 damn kids and he hasn't married you yet? He isn't going to. He knows you aren't going anywhere because nobody wants a woman with that many damn kids. This is your life.
African Barbie being happily married is TOTALLY different that being miserable and married. Goal of this video is to prevent being miserable. So you're friends may be married AND miserable which no one wants...
Tynisha Lewis no, mood swings constantly change of thinking..its absolute torture and im feeling extreme unhappy, its the enemy. Im damaged because of what happend in my childhood. Sometimes i feel im being controlled its so powerfull no dokters can help me. I pray to God than the devil will let me go
Sorry sis but you saying that no common ground on saying you go to church and he don't...i do not agree with you....If you are a christian person number one priority is to pray for a Godly husband with a pationate heart of God as you are.Thank you anyways...i learnt a lot.
vimbai more I'm saying what the Word says which is that Christians should not be unequally yoked with non-christians. That is a setup for confusion and dissension.
Catherine Flores Pretty much everyone has something that they take medication for. Don’t let your bipolar disease get in the way of your happiness. The man that loves you will fall in love with the women (you) that stands before him. Trust in God that he has a beautiful life planned for you.😊
Sapphire Evans Right...so unlike others who can only teach you how to be a "boo" or "bae" or "bust down" which clearly you are currently... I can teach you a little more... #StillTryingIt #StillFailing #FlipsHair
1. You mismanage your money
2. Nothing in common
3. You are a liar
4. Emotionally unstable
5. You are rude often
6. Dressing too sexy
7. Too dependent on him
Thanks for the break down!
Tynisha Lewis You are always welcome.
For number 4 are you taking Account people with Metal illness ?
Living My Best life If I had a mental illness I would not get married. That’s me.
Am no. 4😦😦.and trying so hard to stop it but its keeps popping every 3days in a week(i need help) but he still talks about marriage..he doesn't care but tells me i will change..i need an advice.
Great Video. But for me 1 thing in common is to have a relationship with God this is a MUST.
Felicia Okouo AMEN sis
Amen
Felicia Okouo ameen 🧕🏽
Felicia Okouo FACTS❤
Marriage is for the BELIEVER
I think you nailed this video. I agree with every dealbreaker you made. When I got married 16 years ago we were best friends and enjoyed working out together. We shared all types of interests together. Spending time with family was also very important at least once a week for dinner. I think before you get married you need to be on the same page as far as what your future goals are. For example, if you plan on having children one day will you want to stay home with your baby? How many children do you want? One of the major causes of divorce is MONEY! Very important to live a comfortable life but not live beyond your means. For men to fell comfortable bills have to be paid on time. When a man feels confident with his job, life and marriage everyone is happy. Another important factor for a successful marriage. When your husband comes home from work give him 30 minutes to himself to unwind before talking about your day. As women we are emotional creatures and tend to talk a lot because we want to share our day with our husband. Please give him 30 minutes when he gets home and you’ll both be a happier couple. God Bless✝️
Laura Wright I love the advice!
I LOVE the fact that you got straight to the point of the video!!! OMG so many youtubes do SO MUCH RAMBLING and take to long getting to the point!
pretty pooh thank you love!
I see people saying that she's not married and should not be making any comments. Wow, and how do you know she didn't learn this from an elder, a personal situation, or just from observing her surroundings? What comes before marriage, air? There are steps leading to marriage and those are the steps she's covering. Not everyone has to be wrist deep in shit to know something, excuse my French. She addressed them all properly and with tact, this is a great start for anyone that is considering marriage. I'm not saying not to ask people that are married but, let's be honest, don't you think their opinion could possibly be biased depending on how they connected with their partner? You have to think about these things... Fools are judgmental but the wise wait and see.
Imani Wilder This is true. You can learn from everyone. Also, I was married 8 years. I learned a few things over the years.
Tynisha Lewis I would've never known that just by watching a video. I wish people asked questions before they let poison spew from their tongues. Keep doing what you're doing because this video helped me make a decision that would've possibly changed my life for the worst. Thank you 😊
I absolutely agree
Mai U. 👍🏾
This is why I tell people I don’t need to be in a relationship to give you relationship advice so many people have been through things we learn from them
Definitely agree on not showing much skin aThank you for bringing that us!
You are welcome! I appreciate you for coming by...
Great video! Another tip : Your not ready to be married if your still holding on to your past relationships with exes. A lot of people don't know how to let there past go completely to have a better future situations like this hinders people from moving forward because their ex is still popping up at places he knows you will be, showing up your house, still hanging out, and still calling. If you want better you have to do better. Stop entertaining the past and focus on entertaining your present and future because if you don't you will miss your blessing.
you had me at " by all means secure as much dental floss as possible" lol
Girllll if that is what he want's for her life...and she is ok with it...then 🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️ LOLOLOL
Girl 4 real DENTAL FLOSS😂😂😂
I am working on #1 and #4. You are a blessing. I WILL GET THIS UNDER CONTROL AND I WILL MEET MY HUSBAND TO BE THIS YEAR IN JESUS NAME AMEN. I'm going to get these issues right. I can do it. Already working on both now! THANK YOU SO MUCH! THIS WAS PERFECT!
You are welcome Sis! Be your best self in 2019!
Finding true love begins with Loving yourself. You must know that you are whole, complete and do not need another human being to complete you.
Then you will recognize and attract people who are vibrating at the same frequency.
Your life is a mirror. You will only attract that which you are on the inside.
Love attracts love.
Two halves will never make a whole.
You attract your soulmate by becoming your soulmate.
This sounds really good. Like out of a book. But in the real world, TRUE LOVE comes in several forms and there is no formula to it.
Y’all this is just her opinions. She’s stating how SHE THINKS a woman should act if they’re ready to get married or not. Only person who knows if they’re ready to get married is yourself & your partner.
Right! My opinion based on my own marriage and the hundreds of makeup and hair clients I have had over the last 14 years. This is wisdom speaking but at the end of the day...people have to decide what THEY want..
You don’t have to have the same interests. Opposites attract and sometimes balance the relationship out
Traci Love you don't have to do any of the things I suggested. But studies show that couples who share the same interests typically have greater longevity and their relationships.
Tynisha Lewis yes but this is an opinion not a fact.
True , i was just about to say that.
Valid points. Explain why arranged marriages work better than relationships. that people are supposedly compatible.
Thank you for your transparency my sister!😌🙏
Tammy Bradshaw you are welcome beautiful!
I would love an engagement version of this. My boyfriend is talking about it and we would have a 2 year engagement. Something along that sorts, not a short engagement just for wedding planning.
Proverbs 31 says clearly what a earthly wife should be
GREAT JOB DOLL🌸 Very TRUE
Excellent video. Thank you for sharing these provoking thoughts
A lot of people are carrying : offence , selfishness , hurt and manipulation..
They are just NOT genuinely saved or born again!
I think they are saved and born again, but many times even after getting saved and born again we still have residue of sin. It is a process to get delivered from all the mess we accumulate before salvation.
This video showed up in my recommendations I didn’t even watch the video yet and I already know I’m not ready to be a wife I want to be financially stable and not living with my mom before I jump into a relationship 😂😂😂
At least you are honest with yourself.
I fail. I'm not ready to be a wife. I only pass the rude part. I'm polite and nice.
Catherine Flores
Research the word "nice".. And you will realize that your not that either..
jwesson30 and how do know that? Do you even know me?
@@greenfairy549 The word nice schematically means stupid or foolish. That's probably why the commentator said that. 😊
Thank you for sharing your truth. OMG it really helped me. Be Blessed my Sista.
Reena Marie you are welcome...
Im on my boyfriends page but this was very on point & specific . That last part tho got me ! I need my own vehicle. I depend on him most times for transportation to & from work
Yea I would look into getting my own. It's about 2 whole people coming together.
"seven signs you're NOT ready for marriage...
...READY...?!?!"
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for this video. You are spot on. I am not aiming to be perfect and I don’t think these are serious issues for me but I really want to keep working on this and keep finding new and better strategies.
When we look at ourselves and actively seek how to become better we are bound to reach the goal!
Tynisha Lewis thank you, yes this is true. This is all we can do really.
Good stuff sis!!! Loved it!
spot on. I know this is an old video but I agree with everything you said in this video. especially the “dressing like a stripper” part. A man who ACTUALLY loves his wife, won’t want her entire body out. unfortunately people don’t like hearing that though😹😹
I ain't gonna lie when I first clicked on your video I was waiting to hear your credentials how long you been married so forth and so on but after watching the whole video you made some extremely good points that people that have been married for a while probably needed to hear so thanks for the info blessings
LOL...life is my only experience....and common sense..and you are right so many don't use that... Love ya!
Seriously helpful even though i am from different culture and different continent .
Sharu Smith I understand...but we can all help one another...despite differences
That's true. Its tough when you don't. know this information!! Good job..
Thank you. I appreciate the feedback! Knowing is half the battle.
then I'm ready to get marryed
You are awesome and what you said is absolute truth. Greetings from Cyprus
Gabriella Kyroacou thank you hun! Greetings from Atlanta Georgia!
Damn she canceled me out with the money lmao only thing is I pay all my bills but I spend up what’s left til I’m broke smh
This video is so insightful, had to subscribe 😘
Authentic Scorpio39 I appreciate you...Welcome!
If I was a waiter and somebody called me stupid, I would insult them right back because people think just because you're at work disrespecting you is okay because you can't retaliate. Not this one! But somebody who insults their waiter is just ignorant. You're asking for the quality of your food to be compromised!!!!
This is true!
I really appreciate your humor in this. I laughed out loud sooo many times! You are awesome!!
Sweet Heart No problem Hun...I'm kinda silly...
Many thanks for sharing nd agreed with my dear..
Great Video,thank you!!
Thanks for sharing I may fall short on One of those lol
I loved this!!!! You make so much sense and you are so hilarious!!! 😂 love it!!!!!!!!!!!! ❤️❤️👍🏻🙏🏻
Awww thank you....that means a lot
I know some don't want to hear this but #1 is a reason why some men cheat bc although u LOVE ya woman but if she becomes more like a daughter than a wife/partner you will seek the attention of a WOMAN. I know some will say just leave but how do you leave a person that is totally dependant on you especially if there's kids involved.
love your frankness.
How about a woman or wife who likes happy go lucky a lot and leave her baby to her husband just to go shopping and partying with her friends? I met a lot of women like this. Another wife likes wearing clothes that almost see her boobs? But her husband is proud of it?
Geez, I have some friends who are like these. In my case, I mostly stay at home reading books, and taking care of the house and pets while my husband is working. He didn't like me to work and we argue a lot every time I ask his permission to work. I want to work because I want to help my husband for the bills. Instead, he sends me to school but I'm tired going to school at my age 30s. Any advice? Thanks Tynisha.
Maldita Babae I think that even though you are married you still should have some kind of life. So going out with your friends and shopping is okay as long as it's not excessive. If her husband likes to see her boobs then I don't see anything wrong with it as long as she is pleasing him. If you would like to work but your husband does not want you to work then you kind of got to go along with what he says. But you all should have discussed this prior to you getting married to him.
Great video, but she mentioned about emotions I agree with her, 50 50 and disagree cos at end of the day we are all humans, we can't be happy all the time, am not saying, it good to sad. But they are gonna be good days and bad days soo it part life, his got expert the girl, how she is simple so
I am not speaking about daily changes of emotion. I am more so speaking about people who have very little emotionally stability.
Tynisha Lewis yeah I get where you're coming from regarding emotionally unstable, but at same the time, sometimes, it difficult to control it, cos for example if things are not well in a relationship your not gonna pretend all time, you got tell him how u feel sometimes
People who have difficulty controlling their own emotions will find it hard to have a meaningful relationships because as we know emotions move daily (hence the word e-motions) We have to just be aware of where we let them go...
Linda Bitwayiki: In cases like this, it’s important to then seek a professional, a therapist to assist you with managing your emotions. Managing your emotions is for your wellbeing and peace. If the relationship disrupts that then it’s time to examine if marriage counseling will work or an exist plan is necessary.
If you can't be comfortably financially dependent on your husband, you shouldn't be having babies with that person. A marriage is about trust and working together. Nothing wrong with a woman cooking, cleaning, and rearing the kids without throwing a job into the mix. That's honest work already, and any decent man knows and respects that. Hope you become ready to get married one day, girl.
I get your point but cooking, cleaning, and raising kids is not a 24hr/day job. A smart woman is not fully depending on a man’s income in today’s society. I was married 8 years, so I guess that day has come and gone.🤷🏽♀️
Mmmh gud advice girl. Thnx 4 dat
I like ur makeup
This topic was always been neglected to ask by ourselves nd we need to accept it bcoz we dont know nd it doesnt matter to us instead we follow our hearts ..thats the big difference between using our hearts over our mind only instead of planning before mking decisions nd needs to evaluate ourselves b4 we get marry
If a woman can’t cook and clean. You are not ready to get married.
Great video.. I think some of these are more opinion based than science based.
XAudreyS The whole video is opinion. Lol...
GREAT VIDEO.. IF YALL LOOK UP THE VIDEO "MISS HIGH STANDARDS" by ITSREAL85... he is describing how this woman so called high maintenance but living in the dark... ITS REALLY FUNNY😂😂
“If you would rather spend money on a weave rather than pay your bills” ... I feel targeted🤣😂
Champagne Mami Sorry Sis. Not my intention.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Ephesians 5 clearly states a earthly husband
Excellent video. You're hilarious! Vagina..dental floss!! Lmao🤣
Another reason that i think i not ready to marry is becouse i am independent person and not rely to any body include him in my life..
That could be true. But you have to give him a chance to prove you can rely on him. If he keeps failing then you know what to do...
Ooh this is good amen
Your amazing, my typa girl
I'm bipolar i know I'm not ready to be a wife I'm only 18 but I will always have bipolar disorder also what about all the stay at home mothers ? I've raised my brothers and sisters and also babysit a lot (taken care of a lot of kids) and it's not easy I don't want to come off as rude I'm just curious as to what you think about these things considering some of the things mentioned in your video......
Is your bipolarism under control? If not, start there first.
Chandler Jones. You just need some deliverance from that bipolar Demon
kendra w Exactly. She needs deliverance. Jesus came to set the captives free and bipolar disorder is not your portion.
LostTheRemote thank you for saying this so well! People need to be educated on mental health, the world (especially America) needs to focus on mental wellness, before making statements like that.
@@TheKendra1423 yep find a good and godly love.
living together before marriage is not a good look
Tanx. I am so ready
Tynisha Lewis lol I will ensure u are invited Wen the time comes
I love you xx keeping it real girl
Samara Williams Thx Sis...I appreciate you..
This rules are for not being able to be in a relationship in general.
Sign 1: I said I'm outta here
READY
NOW GOTTA FIND HIM. LOL
Oh wait, dang it. A lil bit in debt but I got that covered.......soon.
Sarah Stewart Invite me too the wedding!
Tynisha Lewis
I like the way u said it
Hello Ma’am! May I please speak to you in private? I would like to ask for some advice. Thank you 🙏🏿
On point
Thank you Love!
you look so beautiful mam💗💗💗
Aww thank you 😘
@@Tynishalewis no problem 💗💗😍
That’s me but I still living at home 🏡 even if I did have my own crib still I don’t need rush into marriage then I like soap operas but if I meet that guy he not gonna watch soap operas guys are not interested in that.
1:15 - 1:21
wise + funny at the same time.
Wasthe Trust Thanks Hun!
Tynisha Lewis thank u too for ❤
Awesome video
Sidney Smith Thx Sis!
I AM READY FOR MARRIAGE AND KNOW MY PARTNER IS TOO
I agree!!
Thanks Sis!
You are welcome :) you should rush marriage which I feel like a lot of young people do.
Soooo true
Should'nt*
Love you!
Connor Ward Right back at you!
Well done!
I love your video
having is sex before marriage is not withing Gods convent
then i think i might be ready. i hope that God send me a good husband one day ❤
Freakin username position yourself to be found. Go out and enjoy life.. he’s out there..
thank you ! :)
Good points but how do you know if you're just a girlfriend? No shade just asking...I say that to say those are the basics but marrage is deep and tough knowing what people don't usually talk about is just deeper for a wife or long term "live with" relationship. Either way good video.
Stacy Ann Fraser I guess these are some things I learned during my 8-year marriage. And also what I learned prior to marriage.
I'm so ready to get married , I have 15 kids by him the last child is 11yrs.old , We been together for 32years now . we have made plans off an on still nothing happens. I want to show the world how much I love this man , time is passing by so fast . so I'm asking the most high to make things right so we can be come Mr.Misses Redding in GOD HANDS . I love you Calvin Redding
Stephanie Redding I wish you the best...
Stephanie Redding
You're past stupid. You've graduated to dumb..
You're joking right? 15 damn kids and he hasn't married you yet? He isn't going to. He knows you aren't going anywhere because nobody wants a woman with that many damn kids. This is your life.
Stephanie Redding prayers up
Why are you calling yourself Mrs Redding?
Good video and we have the same first name.
tynisha johnson Thanks Sis! Yes we rock!
Iv seen so many people with all those bad characteristics and thier married lols .
African Barbie being happily married is TOTALLY different that being miserable and married. Goal of this video is to prevent being miserable. So you're friends may be married AND miserable which no one wants...
Meagan good is always sexy, she's married. And many women I know who dress sexy are married.
I have borderline... so im never ready for marriage?
Rox Nadaa borderline what? Schizophrenia?
Tynisha Lewis no, mood swings constantly change of thinking..its absolute torture and im feeling extreme unhappy, its the enemy. Im damaged because of what happend in my childhood. Sometimes i feel im being controlled its so powerfull no dokters can help me. I pray to God than the devil will let me go
Rox Nadaa I pray God give you relief and a sound mind.
Tynisha Lewis thank you i appreciate it ♡
Sorry sis but you saying that no common ground on saying you go to church and he don't...i do not agree with you....If you are a christian person number one priority is to pray for a Godly husband with a pationate heart of God as you are.Thank you anyways...i learnt a lot.
vimbai more I'm saying what the Word says which is that Christians should not be unequally yoked with non-christians. That is a setup for confusion and dissension.
God first overall but U told the truth 100 💯
Thanks Sis!
I disagree you dont necessarily have to have the same interests
Same values
A great deal of rude people are rude. I disagree with you. You have valid points.
Rude people are married.
Most women are really independent. Marriage would be the next step in the development stage.
Anitra Johnson a lot of those rude people are getting divorced. They call it irreconcilable differences.
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So anyone who is bipolar is not a Wife material?
Catherine Flores don't give up there is someone right for you but you much listen to your inner self. Be Blessed
Catherine Flores
She was saying in general. A lot of bipolar people have been happily married.
Catherine Flores Not saying that but you need to find someone who can handle that.
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Pretty much everyone has something that they take medication for. Don’t let your bipolar disease get in the way of your happiness. The man that loves you will fall in love with the women (you) that stands before him. Trust in God that he has a beautiful life planned for you.😊
If I knew you were bipolar, there is no way I would marry you.
nice.
Idk why im here, im 14 xd
You'll be prepared when the time comes..
You don't need to have things in common. Except when it comes to christianity, you both have to be christians.
Yes you do. Some common interests helps build relationship. Try dating someone who has NO common interests and then tell me how it goes.
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