As a grown child of parents who stayed together decades longer than they should have (but they did for the sake of us/their kids and religion), I disagree with this. While it would've been difficult at first, I would rather my parents separated and be happy vs. staying together and being disrespectful and hurtful to each other. This is not a model of marriage and love you want to present to your children, at any age.
Absolutely please due a series of why a betrayed spouse should consider trying to make a new marriage. The Adulterer knows the depths to which they are loved when a betrayed attempts to be part of making a new marriage. This is not something the betrayed really knows or experiences if an adulterer decides to give up the selfish fantasy life. The betrayed as well as the betrayed children pay a very heavy price.
What you’re saying about the affair and the unfaithful causing themselves more harmful by remaining in the affair and infidelity and leaving/divorce will compound the problems, but what about the betrayed spouse’s position? Are they to say for the same reasons? If the unfaithful spouse isn’t changing or owning it?
At this point, my unfaithful husband isn't interested in recovery or saving the marriage. He would rather end the marriage so he can go continue on his limerant escapade. So how about me, how do I cope with this and feel that I can provide a strong future for our children?
They have a course for the Betrayed Spouse. Not sure of its name.... think it’s called Harboring Hope on their website affairrecovery.com. I am also a betrayed spouse and looking for healing so was interested in doing the course. No infidelity experts in my area & I don’t feel progress with the general couples therapist. I’m glad I found this group. Just listening to these videos has helped tremendously. So definitely will check out the courses they offer.
What when the unfaithful has a child with the woman he got involved with. Please do a detailed analysis of how a betrayed and unfaithful are to handle this. This needs to include when the husband and wife have no kids together but both had kids before they met and married.
Sarah’s Opinion Agreed. Also for those who are still young and have no kids but he got the affair partner pregnant. Feels like the betrayed just lost once that happened. My marriage with my husband is 3 years and he got involved with this other woman at the time we were having marital issues. She claimed she’s pregnant but never showed proof. He believes her though. However, she ended up terminating the baby at 6/7 weeks old after finding out she has complications. It’s just hard that he believes everything she says so he believed he lost a child and grieved in it. There has not been any form of proof and he was so scared to ask her because she throw the “trust” card at him. He thinks he’s responsible for her because of that. What about the innocent wife? 😔
My husband is divorcing me after 18 years of marriage he said he doesn't love me and he isn't in love with me and he is done with me. He truly believes that he is happier in his new life. He is going to be 49 and she is 37 and has been married 1 before and cheated on her husband 2 times that ended in divorce. I've asked my husband to work on the marriage and he refuses
Please have a series for betrayed and the reasons why its best to try and SAVE the marriage rather than divorce.
trevor carvalho, I agree!!!
Every couple needs to hear this series. Thank you!
As a grown child of parents who stayed together decades longer than they should have (but they did for the sake of us/their kids and religion), I disagree with this. While it would've been difficult at first, I would rather my parents separated and be happy vs. staying together and being disrespectful and hurtful to each other. This is not a model of marriage and love you want to present to your children, at any age.
Absolutely please due a series of why a betrayed spouse should consider trying to make a new marriage. The Adulterer knows the depths to which they are loved when a betrayed attempts to be part of making a new marriage. This is not something the betrayed really knows or experiences if an adulterer decides to give up the selfish fantasy life. The betrayed as well as the betrayed children pay a very heavy price.
Thank you for sharing all of these.
This has truly blessed me. Thank you 🙏🏽
What you’re saying about the affair and the unfaithful causing themselves more harmful by remaining in the affair and infidelity and leaving/divorce will compound the problems, but what about the betrayed spouse’s position? Are they to say for the same reasons? If the unfaithful spouse isn’t changing or owning it?
At this point, my unfaithful husband isn't interested in recovery or saving the marriage. He would rather end the marriage so he can go continue on his limerant escapade. So how about me, how do I cope with this and feel that I can provide a strong future for our children?
Meghan Gallagher, this is exactly what I’m facing.
They have a course for the Betrayed Spouse. Not sure of its name.... think it’s called Harboring Hope on their website affairrecovery.com. I am also a betrayed spouse and looking for healing so was interested in doing the course. No infidelity experts in my area & I don’t feel progress with the general couples therapist. I’m glad I found this group. Just listening to these videos has helped tremendously. So definitely will check out the courses they offer.
What when the unfaithful has a child with the woman he got involved with. Please do a detailed analysis of how a betrayed and unfaithful are to handle this. This needs to include when the husband and wife have no kids together but both had kids before they met and married.
Sarah’s Opinion Agreed. Also for those who are still young and have no kids but he got the affair partner pregnant. Feels like the betrayed just lost once that happened. My marriage with my husband is 3 years and he got involved with this other woman at the time we were having marital issues. She claimed she’s pregnant but never showed proof. He believes her though. However, she ended up terminating the baby at 6/7 weeks old after finding out she has complications. It’s just hard that he believes everything she says so he believed he lost a child and grieved in it. There has not been any form of proof and he was so scared to ask her because she throw the “trust” card at him. He thinks he’s responsible for her because of that. What about the innocent wife? 😔
Wow... helps me a lot..got the insights
My husband is divorcing me after 18 years of marriage he said he doesn't love me and he isn't in love with me and he is done with me. He truly believes that he is happier in his new life. He is going to be 49 and she is 37 and has been married 1 before and cheated on her husband 2 times that ended in divorce. I've asked my husband to work on the marriage and he refuses
How many unfaithful spouses currently involved in affairs are actually watching this series? Haha
- a betrayed spouse