Something about Alisha has changed within the last 2-3 weeks? The hair? New makeup rouitne? SOMETHING has glowed up lately and she's radiating confidence!
Ugh this episode is making me feel so grateful for my relationship and the man I’m with. There really is someone out there for everyone and it’s so easy to give up but I promise love is out there for you!!!
• Mel Robbin’s Let Them Theory: If they are ok going weeks/months without talking to you, let them If they are ok disrespecting you, let them • Ask yourself, “if I had a daughter, would I want her to be with someone like my partner? Would I want her to experience this kind of love?” Self love is the best love, fall in love with yourself and the right person will be attracted to your energy and spirit.
When people make fun of Taylor fro writing about such a short relationship/situationship I’m like clearly they’ve never been in one bc it hurts more than a long term relationship that fades out with time😭😭😭
I truly hate how complicated humans are when it comes to love. I think I agree with remi. Pulling away and all the games I think it just means they’re not your person. When you truly love someone it should be simple and easy!!
listen…. i’ve been in toxic relationships, situationships, friends with benefits, etc. and now i’m in the best relationship i’ve ever been in. and she’s taught me a lot. why don’t we just….. talk to each other??? before or during??? if you find someone ask what they want??? maybe not the first date but you know in a month or something??? just ask and you’ll get ur answer.
You guys are so freaking beautiful!! Remi is GLOWING as always and Alisha looks like the real life embodiment of princess belle today ❤️ imagine Alisha in a butter yellow princess dress?!?!
13:28 and this is why Taylor Swift wrote a whole album over a however long situationship, rather than the ending of her 6 year long relationship!! People don’t understand that sometimes those shorter flings hurt more. (Sorry for commenting so much, I’m bored af in the office lol)
you guys have no idea how much i needed this today 🥺 thank you for being the big sisters i don’t have. it’s not easy letting go of the “what’s wrong with me? why am i not enough” mindset
I’ve got to agree with Cal here, your friend needs to rip off the bandaid and tell the guy she has feelings. Sounds like she’s just hurting herself by waiting
Remi's freaking glowing, i love how comfy the chair looked with the throw blanket. I need that hoodie... also That freaking TOP AND THE HAIR, Ms.Alisha 👏🩵💛 we see yall😍
Apart from grieving an imagined future relationship, I think situationships are so devastating because it’s hard to believe someone would disrespect your emotions and time like that. Playing with you like a little toy all to their advantage without any consideration.
I’m totally agree with saying what you’re feeling. I had a best friend my freshman year of college. We literally spent every second of everyday together and so eventually I started developing feelings for him. And then covid hit so everyone went back home and obviously were isolated so we would facetime everyday. Eventually I confessed my feelings to him but I think he was just not in the mindset to start a relationship and said he wanted to just stay friends. But then one day, one of our mutual friends told him to imagine me with someone else and asked how it made him feel. And then in that moment he realized he would be super jealous and realized his feelings for me. When we went back to campus the semester after he asked me out and now we’ve been together for 4+ years :)
I had a guy who straight up ghosted me for like, six weeks, and then he randomly hit me up again. initially, I was really resistant since he disappeared on me previously, but I gave him the benefit of the doubt. turns out, he had really strong feelings for me and it freaked him out, so he bounced. then he realized how dumb he was being and came back into my life. BAM. now we’ve been married for almost 4 years. I am totally aware that this is the exception, not the rule, but just commenting to let the basic babes know that it CAN happen!!
I was in a situationship for 6 months where i was down BAD. Acting like i didn’t want a relationship bc he didn’t & cancelling all my plans for him when he’d end up bailing on me. Totally was losing myself in it and not remembering my self-worth. One day i saw him flirting with another girl like right in front of me. I realized what i had done to myself by putting up with this and realizing what i deserved. I told him i was done with him & done with being disrespected and cut him off. A week later he came groveling back begging to be with me and we’ve been in a relationship for 5 years now and are engaged LOL. So LADIES remember your worth and cut him TF off. He’ll realize what he’s missing & come back for a real relationship or he’ll be gone for good and it wasn’t meant to be.
Always say what you’re feeling. If you are scared of the outcome… honestly that’s just fear of rejection. If you say something worse case they will say they don’t feel the same and that allows you to learn and understand yourself and what you want a little more for the next time. And who knows maybe they feel the same. But you will never know if you never say. It will put you at peace of mind by speaking up and help you learn how to be more powerful in yourself by speaking your mind and feelings.
You can actually find out gender at 6 weeks with a blood test!! 😂❤ I can NOT wait the 16+ weeks and hope the baby is in the correct position to find out. I like knowing asap! 😂❤
Fun fact you can find out gender around 10 weeks through the early on routine bloodwork. I found both my kiddos gender before the scans - then you can confirm with the ultrasound ❤
When I was in my situationship, I felt like if I left him. It would be the end of my life. No one talks about how insane these relationships make you. After I got out of it, I felt a lot of embarrassment and clarity of how crappy he treated me. I didn’t deserve it. And if there’s anyone out there that has a man stringing them along, I promise leaving him will do you more good than bad. Even though you don’t feel it now, you are strong and independent🫶🏼 That person is not providing anything but hurt in your life
My thoughts on situationships: your future partner would never have you questioning whether or not they want to be with you. Please do not waste your time on someone who can't stand firm in their choices. Their choices will affect more than one part of life (marriage, lifestyle, finances, etc.). Consider the bigger picture if you want to see your friends or future children in your situation. But situationships I fear are a cannon event lol. Don't repeat the cycle tho.
Omg I had this very same dilemma come up for me at 17. I told the guy how I felt and immediately wanted to vom after (I hated it). He proceeded to ghost me and that gave me the closure I needed. He’s in the longest relationship he’s ever been in after. & he’s definitely not my person. It was hard at the time bc I genuinely liked him but I’m glad I told him so my delulu didn’t keep constantly churning out more scenarios and I got it off my chest. His reaction to it (or lack thereof) is none of my business.
I recently learned about the concept of 'Limerence', basically what you can phsychologically experince during situationships when you fantasize about the idea of someone, whilst essentially being blind to their amber & red flags! 🤯
i’m a mom lol I did not find out what I was having and my daughter was born in 2016. There was nothing cooler though than like her being passed to my husband and him looking at me and getting to say “here’s insert name here “we had to definitive names for a boy and a girl. I was not the biggest fan of the boy name ironically, it became the most popular boy name of that year or within the top five. That moment was so special! I can see though someone finding out having that same feeling.
I think my biggest thing about relationships is learning to grow and love your partner at any and all stages of life. We are ever evolving creatures and it’s unfair to expect someone to stay the same forever.
I feel like the girl needs to just ask the guy. Stop being scared and do it. Once you do either it goes he likes you or he doesn’t. If he doesn’t it is going to hurt since you have feelings, but your person is out there. From past experience I was like this. I regret not asking them and just wasting my time! Then I found my bf that was straight up with me from the start. We have been together 7 years.
You are both sensational at giving advice from friendships to relationships. I like this type of episode. Also, you both look gorgeous. The hair styles, the make-up. You are glowing! Support from Yorkshire, England. 💗✨️🎧🎤
To the girl asking if shes in a situationship... Aw girlie he isn't committed. He likes you sure but that doesn't mean he's not wasting your time. He wants to keep you around but also wants it to be clear that you're not exclusive. Men will use you for emotional labor while still wanting to have everything open to them. If you want a committed relationship, this isn't the guy for you.
I agree with what Cal said. I honestly wouldn’t be with my fiancé for 8 years now if I didn’t tell him how I felt. We met in high school and it took a year for me to work up the courage to tell him how I felt. I’ve always been shy and I was a senior and just said “fuck it, if it’s meant to be then things will progress with him” and it did. I moved in with him after 9 months of dating and now we moved states and have been together for 8 years. 😊
For the friend- I understand worrying about their feelings but ultimately by not saying something you’re still left being confused, questioning everything, being led on etc. We are grown and should be able to communicate about how we feel and if his answer is no then you’re one step closer to moving on and finding the right person instead of wasting months bc you are holding back how you feel.
Alisha trying to explain the right person, wrong time just didn't make a lot of sense to me, because if it was the right person, then the timing wouldn't have mattered? But Remi's take makes more sense, if they broke up and got back together and it works out the second time, then yes lol.
As a girl mom. Ahhh 🥰🥰 girl dads are great and so important (and cal gives off perfect vibes) BUT girl grandpas (and even grandmas) my first born is VERY close with them because we were teen parents but even the second whose younger and the total opposite of her older sister... grandpas still wraped around her finger. Daddy too haha ❤❤❤❤❤❤ 😊
Honestly I agree with what Cal said. The more your friend waits to talk to him the more she leaves to herself to get hurt. I feel like the more visits and hookups just puts her in a position to keep dreaming about a life/world she could have with this man. Basically just allowing her thoughts to give herself false hope. If the guy just wants to hookup, then whatever they can choose to stop then and there if they wish. But if he truly just has something going on and he wants to wait til then to even start anything then at least she’s getting some answer. Some sort of closure. I feel the reason why everyone worries so much is just the fear of rejection. Which sometimes rejection needs to happen so you don’t end up getting led on and wasting time with someone who isn’t meant to be your person.
Okay first, damn Alisha! Slay queen! Secondly, I really agree with Cal. Please be honest with yourself and just tell him how you feel. It’s gonna be better for you mentally as well, and you can either move forward or move on!❤
Don’t take the path of least resistance aka avoidance. If you are questioning what the relationship is then you have every right to ask your partner. Based on that is how you should be treating the relationship.
Okay sooo the whole attachment style; I use to be a really bad anxious attachment then I did some hard core self journey Ayahuasca to be exact (100090% recommend) an I feel like a whole as new person because how we become the attachment style is how we grew up ❤
I didn't have a bridal shower, and I planned my Bach trip/party. HOWEVER I did also only have 3 weeks between my engagement and elopement/covid wedding LOL. when we do our vow renewal/actual wedding Im letting my MOH know she's gonna be a busyyyy girl ahahaha
I love pretty basic! I have always said my person is not in my hometown state. I might be crazy and I’ve talked to my coworker about that and she just laughed, but like I have always had this gut feeling that my person is not from my home state and have always said that. Plus all the are ugly in my hometown state😅 Anyways, I would love to travel and see more truly find my person, but it’s expensive and I can’t even live on my own because I don’t make enough to afford even a month of rent on my own. But much love and support Remi & Alisha❤
Cal is soooo right!!! I cant believe they feel so strongly about waiting a few MONTHS thats way too long to carry this on your chest for no reason. Nothing is gonna change like even if its not a good time he will say i feel the same, but it’s not a good time, either way the answer is going to be the same she may as well free herself. Sitting around going crazy for a few months wondering and waiting sounds like actual torture.
I'm sure somebody already said this but there are other ways to find out earlier if you're having a girl or a boy like a blood test can find out pretty much as soon as your levels start showing up that you're pregnant if it's a girl or a boy but it's very expensive and usually only done for medical reasons
Thinking of them as your son is great. Although a little less weird but similar concept I've heard is if someone described you as that person would be proud to claim their characteristics or would reaction be like ew no I'm nothing like them
I agree with Cals take on the situation. She should just communicate instead of avoiding it. 3 more months of waiting it out is a long time to be blocking potential blessings. It doesn't need to be some confession of love, but she should just do a simple checkin with him to make sure they're on the same page and genuinely ask how he's feeling too. Because unless she says something, he probably doesn't even know anything is feeling off or confusing for her.
TELL the guy!!! It happened to me and he said he didn’t see me like that (I was blindsided) but a year later he came back to me asking me out, I said yes. Everyone told me I shouldn’t have but I really really liked him still and had this feeling we were meant to be lol and here we are over 3 years later still together 😅
The story of the situationship with the girl and guy around 20 mins, he definitely wanted to have his cake and eat it too!!! Sounds like he absolutely had feelings for her and having her meet the family and call her his girlfriend to friends…he just wanted to “claim her” and not be claimed by her to keep his options open. Poor girl. Please move on, you deserve someone who validates you and chooses you and only you!
i loveee baby talk ! i def feel like remi would be a girl mom , or actually the both of you! but as a mom i justtt recognize remis energy. i had my daughter in 2021 shes a little leo and her name is elliana
Ok, alisha looks GORGEOUS! The bun? The makeup? The top? Iconic
Agreed her make up has never looked this flawless.
I literally paused to see if she had done a GRWM recently because I need a makeup tut.
Alisha give us the top details!!
YES
Ngl remi is eating too with that stunning face
I agree that “calls with Cal” should absolutely be a section!! I love hearing the male perspective when it’s genuine and authentic!!
Something about Alisha has changed within the last 2-3 weeks? The hair? New makeup rouitne? SOMETHING has glowed up lately and she's radiating confidence!
Alisha’s look is soooooo good omg
alisha looks so good today gurlllllllll
This needs to be Alisha’s signature look 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Ugh this episode is making me feel so grateful for my relationship and the man I’m with. There really is someone out there for everyone and it’s so easy to give up but I promise love is out there for you!!!
Needed to hear this
• Mel Robbin’s Let Them Theory:
If they are ok going weeks/months without talking to you, let them
If they are ok disrespecting you, let them
• Ask yourself, “if I had a daughter, would I want her to be with someone like my partner? Would I want her to experience this kind of love?”
Self love is the best love, fall in love with yourself and the right person will be attracted to your energy and spirit.
When people make fun of Taylor fro writing about such a short relationship/situationship I’m like clearly they’ve never been in one bc it hurts more than a long term relationship that fades out with time😭😭😭
I truly hate how complicated humans are when it comes to love. I think I agree with remi. Pulling away and all the games I think it just means they’re not your person. When you truly love someone it should be simple and easy!!
listen…. i’ve been in toxic relationships, situationships, friends with benefits, etc. and now i’m in the best relationship i’ve ever been in. and she’s taught me a lot. why don’t we just….. talk to each other??? before or during??? if you find someone ask what they want??? maybe not the first date but you know in a month or something??? just ask and you’ll get ur answer.
Alisha!! Need a tutorial for this hair & makeup!!! The best you’ve ever looked 🔥
Alisha looks AMAZE
Ladies, this was truly one of the best episodes of PB. I need more of those. And our male correspondent Cal - ah, irreplaceable.
You guys are so freaking beautiful!! Remi is GLOWING as always and Alisha looks like the real life embodiment of princess belle today ❤️ imagine Alisha in a butter yellow princess dress?!?!
13:28 and this is why Taylor Swift wrote a whole album over a however long situationship, rather than the ending of her 6 year long relationship!! People don’t understand that sometimes those shorter flings hurt more.
(Sorry for commenting so much, I’m bored af in the office lol)
Calls with Cal would be iconic and ending the phone calls with “thank you, Cal again” 😉💋
you guys have no idea how much i needed this today 🥺 thank you for being the big sisters i don’t have. it’s not easy letting go of the “what’s wrong with me? why am i not enough” mindset
I’ve got to agree with Cal here, your friend needs to rip off the bandaid and tell the guy she has feelings. Sounds like she’s just hurting herself by waiting
Remi's freaking glowing, i love how comfy the chair looked with the throw blanket. I need that hoodie... also That freaking TOP AND THE HAIR, Ms.Alisha 👏🩵💛 we see yall😍
i love how alisha’s bangs are giving selena quintanilla ♥️✨
Apart from grieving an imagined future relationship, I think situationships are so devastating because it’s hard to believe someone would disrespect your emotions and time like that. Playing with you like a little toy all to their advantage without any consideration.
Alisha?!!?!?! you’re hair?!?! your top?!?!?! stunned, amazing, this look IS you!!! STUNNING 😭
For f***boy thoughts I always appreciate Jeremy’s perspective and he’s always so well spoken he makes it make sense
I’m totally agree with saying what you’re feeling. I had a best friend my freshman year of college. We literally spent every second of everyday together and so eventually I started developing feelings for him. And then covid hit so everyone went back home and obviously were isolated so we would facetime everyday. Eventually I confessed my feelings to him but I think he was just not in the mindset to start a relationship and said he wanted to just stay friends. But then one day, one of our mutual friends told him to imagine me with someone else and asked how it made him feel. And then in that moment he realized he would be super jealous and realized his feelings for me. When we went back to campus the semester after he asked me out and now we’ve been together for 4+ years :)
love yourself enough to let that man go, you deserve a man who is so serious and sure about you. ily
I had a guy who straight up ghosted me for like, six weeks, and then he randomly hit me up again. initially, I was really resistant since he disappeared on me previously, but I gave him the benefit of the doubt. turns out, he had really strong feelings for me and it freaked him out, so he bounced. then he realized how dumb he was being and came back into my life. BAM. now we’ve been married for almost 4 years.
I am totally aware that this is the exception, not the rule, but just commenting to let the basic babes know that it CAN happen!!
Remi, if you don’t have a sunny angels Xmas tree in vlogmas.. disappointed… hahaha 💚😍👌🏼
I was in a situationship for 6 months where i was down BAD. Acting like i didn’t want a relationship bc he didn’t & cancelling all my plans for him when he’d end up bailing on me. Totally was losing myself in it and not remembering my self-worth. One day i saw him flirting with another girl like right in front of me. I realized what i had done to myself by putting up with this and realizing what i deserved. I told him i was done with him & done with being disrespected and cut him off. A week later he came groveling back begging to be with me and we’ve been in a relationship for 5 years now and are engaged LOL. So LADIES remember your worth and cut him TF off. He’ll realize what he’s missing & come back for a real relationship or he’ll be gone for good and it wasn’t meant to be.
Always say what you’re feeling. If you are scared of the outcome… honestly that’s just fear of rejection. If you say something worse case they will say they don’t feel the same and that allows you to learn and understand yourself and what you want a little more for the next time. And who knows maybe they feel the same. But you will never know if you never say. It will put you at peace of mind by speaking up and help you learn how to be more powerful in yourself by speaking your mind and feelings.
This episode came out at the perfect time for me I fear
"my perfect guys out there" ...me shouting across the room..."yeah zane" lol i know he's not who you want but a girl can dreammmm
You can actually find out gender at 6 weeks with a blood test!! 😂❤
I can NOT wait the 16+ weeks and hope the baby is in the correct position to find out. I like knowing asap! 😂❤
11:47 lmao Remi is not pregnant, there is no embryo 😂😂 there’s just an egg rn
girl I was freaking out thinking I missed the memo somewhere but yeah she definitely just meant egg😂
@@chloesmith7335 i know i know loll I was like oh nooo, thats going to be confusing 😂
Fun fact you can find out gender around 10 weeks through the early on routine bloodwork. I found both my kiddos gender before the scans - then you can confirm with the ultrasound ❤
When I was in my situationship, I felt like if I left him. It would be the end of my life. No one talks about how insane these relationships make you. After I got out of it, I felt a lot of embarrassment and clarity of how crappy he treated me. I didn’t deserve it. And if there’s anyone out there that has a man stringing them along, I promise leaving him will do you more good than bad. Even though you don’t feel it now, you are strong and independent🫶🏼 That person is not providing anything but hurt in your life
My thoughts on situationships: your future partner would never have you questioning whether or not they want to be with you. Please do not waste your time on someone who can't stand firm in their choices. Their choices will affect more than one part of life (marriage, lifestyle, finances, etc.). Consider the bigger picture if you want to see your friends or future children in your situation. But situationships I fear are a cannon event lol. Don't repeat the cycle tho.
this episode gave me the biggest most protective, bad ass big sister vibes 🍸🫒 love you guys sm this was NEEEEEDED
I love seeing the sonny angels!! Having them lined up would be such a cute idea 💗
Omg I had this very same dilemma come up for me at 17. I told the guy how I felt and immediately wanted to vom after (I hated it). He proceeded to ghost me and that gave me the closure I needed. He’s in the longest relationship he’s ever been in after. & he’s definitely not my person. It was hard at the time bc I genuinely liked him but I’m glad I told him so my delulu didn’t keep constantly churning out more scenarios and I got it off my chest. His reaction to it (or lack thereof) is none of my business.
I recently learned about the concept of 'Limerence', basically what you can phsychologically experince during situationships when you fantasize about the idea of someone, whilst essentially being blind to their amber & red flags! 🤯
alisha absolutely ate in this episode like met makeup and hair are perfect and her outfit with the sonny angel
she’s absolutely gorgeous ❤❤
This episode was so great to hear fr
alisha your hair looks exceptional this episode
i’m a mom lol I did not find out what I was having and my daughter was born in 2016. There was nothing cooler though than like her being passed to my husband and him looking at me and getting to say “here’s insert name here “we had to definitive names for a boy and a girl. I was not the biggest fan of the boy name ironically, it became the most popular boy name of that year or within the top five. That moment was so special! I can see though someone finding out having that same feeling.
Remmy talking about water made me think of how she looks like the water fairy from tinkerbell and Alisha looks like the animal fairy 🥹
I think my biggest thing about relationships is learning to grow and love your partner at any and all stages of life. We are ever evolving creatures and it’s unfair to expect someone to stay the same forever.
I feel like the girl needs to just ask the guy. Stop being scared and do it. Once you do either it goes he likes you or he doesn’t. If he doesn’t it is going to hurt since you have feelings, but your person is out there.
From past experience I was like this. I regret not asking them and just wasting my time! Then I found my bf that was straight up with me from the start. We have been together 7 years.
My mental health relies on this podcast of yall just yapping about whatever u guys want YES PLS FOREVER do it only like this ❤❤❤❤
You are both sensational at giving advice from friendships to relationships. I like this type of episode. Also, you both look gorgeous. The hair styles, the make-up. You are glowing! Support from Yorkshire, England. 💗✨️🎧🎤
PLEASE TALK ABOUT “THE TAXI CAB THEORY” ITS SO INTERESTING !!!!!!
Alisha looks AMAZING😍😍
To the girl asking if shes in a situationship... Aw girlie he isn't committed. He likes you sure but that doesn't mean he's not wasting your time. He wants to keep you around but also wants it to be clear that you're not exclusive. Men will use you for emotional labor while still wanting to have everything open to them. If you want a committed relationship, this isn't the guy for you.
I LOVED this episode, I love hearing different perspectives on relationships especially coming from u 2
I agree with what Cal said. I honestly wouldn’t be with my fiancé for 8 years now if I didn’t tell him how I felt. We met in high school and it took a year for me to work up the courage to tell him how I felt. I’ve always been shy and I was a senior and just said “fuck it, if it’s meant to be then things will progress with him” and it did. I moved in with him after 9 months of dating and now we moved states and have been together for 8 years. 😊
For the friend- I understand worrying about their feelings but ultimately by not saying something you’re still left being confused, questioning everything, being led on etc. We are grown and should be able to communicate about how we feel and if his answer is no then you’re one step closer to moving on and finding the right person instead of wasting months bc you are holding back how you feel.
Alisha trying to explain the right person, wrong time just didn't make a lot of sense to me, because if it was the right person, then the timing wouldn't have mattered? But Remi's take makes more sense, if they broke up and got back together and it works out the second time, then yes lol.
I love this podcast so much!! y’all are amazing 🩷🩷
Oh great now I’ll be getting bangs tomorrow.
😂😂👏❤️ same
Remi and Alisha you both look beautiful today. Thank you for the podcast 😊😊
As a girl mom. Ahhh 🥰🥰 girl dads are great and so important (and cal gives off perfect vibes) BUT girl grandpas (and even grandmas) my first born is VERY close with them because we were teen parents but even the second whose younger and the total opposite of her older sister... grandpas still wraped around her finger. Daddy too haha ❤❤❤❤❤❤ 😊
Honestly I agree with what Cal said. The more your friend waits to talk to him the more she leaves to herself to get hurt. I feel like the more visits and hookups just puts her in a position to keep dreaming about a life/world she could have with this man. Basically just allowing her thoughts to give herself false hope.
If the guy just wants to hookup, then whatever they can choose to stop then and there if they wish. But if he truly just has something going on and he wants to wait til then to even start anything then at least she’s getting some answer. Some sort of closure.
I feel the reason why everyone worries so much is just the fear of rejection. Which sometimes rejection needs to happen so you don’t end up getting led on and wasting time with someone who isn’t meant to be your person.
Okay first, damn Alisha! Slay queen! Secondly, I really agree with Cal. Please be honest with yourself and just tell him how you feel. It’s gonna be better for you mentally as well, and you can either move forward or move on!❤
Don’t take the path of least resistance aka avoidance. If you are questioning what the relationship is then you have every right to ask your partner. Based on that is how you should be treating the relationship.
Yay today it's Wednesday pretty basic podcasts episode good afternoon my two favorite girls ever 💕💕💕💕
Okay sooo the whole attachment style; I use to be a really bad anxious attachment then I did some hard core self journey Ayahuasca to be exact (100090% recommend) an I feel like a whole as new person because how we become the attachment style is how we grew up ❤
Alisha’s hair is SERVINGGGG
I didn't have a bridal shower, and I planned my Bach trip/party. HOWEVER I did also only have 3 weeks between my engagement and elopement/covid wedding LOL. when we do our vow renewal/actual wedding Im letting my MOH know she's gonna be a busyyyy girl ahahaha
I love pretty basic! I have always said my person is not in my hometown state. I might be crazy and I’ve talked to my coworker about that and she just laughed, but like I have always had this gut feeling that my person is not from my home state and have always said that. Plus all the are ugly in my hometown state😅 Anyways, I would love to travel and see more truly find my person, but it’s expensive and I can’t even live on my own because I don’t make enough to afford even a month of rent on my own. But much love and support Remi & Alisha❤
Not me being avoidant attachment like Alisha but have evolved into a straightforward with my actions like Cal. 😂
Situationship conversation it’s definitely giving Sam M from the bachelorette as in he was living in a Situationship
My situationship turned into my boyfriend of 2 years! I agree with Alisha! Right person wrong time
Ashley should get her boyfriend to call in on her podcast aswell 😄 He always sounds like a great guy
Cal is soooo right!!! I cant believe they feel so strongly about waiting a few MONTHS thats way too long to carry this on your chest for no reason. Nothing is gonna change like even if its not a good time he will say i feel the same, but it’s not a good time, either way the answer is going to be the same she may as well free herself. Sitting around going crazy for a few months wondering and waiting sounds like actual torture.
Alisha looks so much like Mia with the bun and the white top idk I kept seeing Mia when it would cut to her.
So cute! 🥰
Alisha SERVINGGGG LOOKSSS 😍😍😍
I'm sure somebody already said this but there are other ways to find out earlier if you're having a girl or a boy like a blood test can find out pretty much as soon as your levels start showing up that you're pregnant if it's a girl or a boy but it's very expensive and usually only done for medical reasons
I could’ve sworn the wall behind them was way back and not in hands reach 😂😂😂 my depth perception is way off
Thinking of them as your son is great. Although a little less weird but similar concept I've heard is if someone described you as that person would be proud to claim their characteristics or would reaction be like ew no I'm nothing like them
loved the “Cal-ling” section 😂
my situationship advice: YOU WILL KNOW!! if they want more like. its so obvious if they want something serious they should be able to say that
I agree with Cals take on the situation. She should just communicate instead of avoiding it. 3 more months of waiting it out is a long time to be blocking potential blessings. It doesn't need to be some confession of love, but she should just do a simple checkin with him to make sure they're on the same page and genuinely ask how he's feeling too. Because unless she says something, he probably doesn't even know anything is feeling off or confusing for her.
TELL the guy!!! It happened to me and he said he didn’t see me like that (I was blindsided) but a year later he came back to me asking me out, I said yes. Everyone told me I shouldn’t have but I really really liked him still and had this feeling we were meant to be lol and here we are over 3 years later still together 😅
I WOULD HAVE NEVERR told the guy ever. But I just neeeded to! I now always tell everyone, just go for it and get it out! Always just tell them!
The story of the situationship with the girl and guy around 20 mins, he definitely wanted to have his cake and eat it too!!! Sounds like he absolutely had feelings for her and having her meet the family and call her his girlfriend to friends…he just wanted to “claim her” and not be claimed by her to keep his options open. Poor girl. Please move on, you deserve someone who validates you and chooses you and only you!
On Wednesdays we watch PB💕💅🏼
Ive never been this early hey girlies love the pod and rthe patreon. Love Yall.🥰
Alisha, you look stunning. The bangs, the makeup, the bun, the lips. I’m wanna look like Alisha Marie when I grow up.
Love you so much this is literally my weekly therapy session lol ❤️
The way Remi said “a dumb bitch” so matter of fact looooool bc true
Science is wild you can get a blood genetic test at 6 weeks to determine gender
their hair looks so good
i loveee baby talk ! i def feel like remi would be a girl mom , or actually the both of you! but as a mom i justtt recognize remis energy. i had my daughter in 2021 shes a little leo and her name is elliana
Alisha needs to do her voice like this more
I love wednesdays PB grwm
Omg I was suppose to be named Ashley but my dad switched it on my mom last minute to Alicia 😂
I think I need to send in! Yall would have a field day!
tbh situationships have just exhausted me and I am so not interested in the whole dating/relatioships.
1:31 not the sonny angel lobotomy omgggg lol
i’ve never been this early omg i love yallll
Such a good podcast ❤❤