The whipping cream story makes me think that either Paul was very aggressive/pushy and that's why Morgan cried or Morgan has trauma from purity culture.
It's probably for the same reason she threw up at their wedding. I believe she has said she has bpd or something so I honestly think it was her brain trying to sort through her mix of spiritual mania and religious guilt from having doubts in the life that Paul is clearly setting up for her. I think she has her bouts of symptoms and lowkey craves structure/direction and Paul manipulates that to his benefit, leaving her in the end confused about how she "got herself" in this situation she kinda hates.
@@blueismylove3128 my bad, thanks alot. I still think that Paul is manipulating her vulnerable state to get things he wants and then she's left to deal with the aftermath. And I still think she was dealing with religious psychosis early on. She just seemed very out of it and giving up alot of herself to appease Paul.
Their opinions about sex have always been some of their most messed up takes. Morgan is 100% in a situation where she's expected to have sex whenever Paul wants, it is really upsetting and sad to watch.
I had the horrifying thought that if their relationship had taken place in the 50s or 60s then Paul 100% would've SA'd her 😭😭😭 The entitlement is so genuinely scary!
I find it doubly disgusting that he shrugs off the entire part of the situation where they were in the middle of an argument. Like, he isn't upset about the argument and things that were said or done that could be hurtful, but rather the not having sex that night aspect. He is more upset about the sex than the actual problem at hand
@@maggiedukes3191 never go for someone who likes angry sex. [Unless they're into BDSM and you've thoroughly discussed boundaries, kinks, triggers, and safe words before planning a scene. Lol. But if someone complains that that makes it "not sexy" they literally just wanna hate eff you.. it's not as cool as it looks in movies 🤡🥰]
Not defending them, but I don't think that alone means anything. A wedding is a very emotional event, and some people vomit when they're very emotional.
I can't imagine getting into a fight with your partner and the part that upsets you the most is that you're not going to get sex, like seriously dude, do you actually like this woman or are you just after a living fleshlight?
I think he brings the idea of women being a "prize" to another level because he's the one that got her to convert to being a strict Christian so he "won" her soul for Jesus and "won" her personhood in marrying her
Paul is actually gay and went to conversion therapy. That probably explains his strange behavior around just seeing his wife as a sex object and not much else. Although, it definitely doesn't excuse it.
Paul asked "if someone said saving sex was important for me and it's tough for me to hear you've been with other people, would you understand or be judgemental?" Boom, there it is. We all knew he was going to use this as an opportunity to take a dig at Morgan. What a prick.
Honestly, having seen far too much of this couple and what a fucking terrible ass person Paul is, I was very entertained by the slight dig she took at him for being too overexcited for sex after they got married earlier on in the video.
@@tatiana4050 no that's not how that works. It will be a loveless marriage but they're going to take care of the kid and show the kid affection but in turn that is going to affect the kid when they see that their parents don't love each other or at least don't respect each other. That will be problematic
I truly do get a “I can save her” vibe for Morgan because it’s so clear she used to be more progressive and had such a passion for her singing career and now she’s regularly shamed by Paul for not being a virgin when they met and she doesn’t sing “worldly” music anymore. She has also talked about her past struggles with mental health and her anxiety disorder and even though she claims that god healed her, you can tell she’s still struggling. She uses laughter as a coping mechanism whenever she’s nervous and literally sobbed (not in the good way) on their wedding day. She is going to spend the rest of her marriage constantly feeling inferior to her husband and hungering for his validation.
Something people don’t like to mention about purity culture is that it comes with the *expectation* of sex once you’re married, and if you don’t like it, tough. Too late. You’re married now, it’s your job
Yeah. It doesn't make any sense. Don't do sex (even know about sex) before but later you are forced to have sex. So awful. Imagine so many young people having this shock. 😢
They will definitely be a cautionary tale one day. A social experiment on how a couple lived their entire relationship on UA-cam, they invaded their own privacy and their fans will also watch it crumble.
Paul and Morgan are a really good example of what a relationship should NOT be like, she looks like she hates him and he talks about her like she does everything to annoy him.
I was born in Utah and raised Mormon and so many of my childhood friends who remained in the church and got married at 19-20 are just like this. It’s honestly really sad because I know a lot of them (women especially) are unhappy but they’ll never get divorced because they’ve been poisoned by purity culture their whole lives.
My mom got married at 21 it was normal in her day and I got married at 21 wasn't normal in my day and town I look back and think I was young, got engaged at 20... it's weird for me to think 19-21 was the norm
Funny how they’re talking about sin, but having tattoos is a sin and the Bible says you should be stoned to death on your wedding day if you have tattoos but sex??!??!!!
Funny how they love to take the Bible literally, but only when it suits them. Mixed fiber clothing? Bible says no. Rich people can’t get into heaven? According to Jesus!
@@hrvatdogroba9588 adultery wasn't allowed, which is sex with someone outside of your marriage. sex before marriage isn't really talked about. and tattoos are often considered a cultural thing, that's how there are christians with tattoos
@@YoungRebelRoyalty they clearly didn’t plan anything about this video. They certainly didn’t discuss the subject matter beforehand considering the way they react to each other throughout… 😒😬😐
I'm going to be a 34 year old virgin in a few days. I've stayed a virgin because I'm waiting for someone who mutually loves me. Speaking only for myself, sex isn't worth it without love. 34 years and yet I can't imagine going 1 to 100 and not treasuring your first time with your partner like this repulsive Paul thing. I feel so bad for her, I hope they divorce and he leaves her alone. He seems like a horrible person. I'll also say this for other virgins out there. Porn can distort your view on what sex is truly like. Don't expect outrageous things from people. Respect them. Anyway, Paul seem unreal. He seems like a sitcom character.
@@hannahmac7197normal is a construct and honestly everyone is weird, once you know them. Not that not having or not wanting sex is weird. At all. Just trying to say that we're all super weird two legged creatures and everyone's so occupied with their own weirdness, that most people don't really care about yours.
Do straight people just inquire about each others sex lives all the time? Like another Christian couple comes over and goes “so how’s the sex life?” That’s so fuckin weird fr. Like obviously me and my best friend will talk about private things if we want an outside opinion but they’re saying it like everyone that comes over for dinner asks about it 😭
@@christianbosse_ part of me thinks I’d freak out and freeze up but I like to imagine I’d actually just go into such vivid detail (accurate or not) to make them regret asking
I habe the assumption that in circles where sex is so hyped up and kept for after the wedding only, a lot of newly weds are probably talking among each other because they are all insecure and uncertain, feeling let down because they married just for meh sex. I assume it is different in other circles.
The atmosphere this couple’s has is giving me *”2 parents who are on the verge of divorce trying to convince their family, friends, & the court that the rumors aren’t true + ✨getting married was the best decision they’ve ever made! And having kids only made their relationship stronger!✨”*
20:45 Holy fuck I literally dated a guy that was 'suicidal' because I wouldn't have sex with him because I wasn't in the mood and he pulled manipulative shit like this all the time 💀
I'm so sorry you went through this, because I have as well sort of. I was groomed like a few years back and he would pull the same stuff and I was extremely impressionable at the time. And it made me spiral a few times. I'm so sorry you had to go through the same thing. I know how traumatic that can be.
Literally every couple at the church I used to go to was a carbon copy of paul and morgan. i cannot watch them without being reminded of every white millennial couple I met between the years 2006 and 2017
I find it crazy that these two are bothered by lgbtq people (the people that usually have the healthiest relationships) being happy and loving who they want When they themselves are so obviously not in love.
The rates of abuse in lgbtq+ relationships and in straight relationships are similar. Assumptions like these just make it harder for lgbtq people to come forward if they are experiencing abuse.
@@crossingmyrubicon incorrect. the ratio between heterosexual couples & homosexual couples has a huge gap. if one homosexual relationship is abusive, the percentages are going to be way higher than that of a heterosexual one. there are a lot more abusive heterosexual relationships compared to homosexual ones. im guessing you dont understand how statistics work?
I’m an asexual virgin who was raised Catholic and took sex ed in rural Montana. I basically had all the odds stacked against me in that regard. But seeing how clueless these people were about sex despite being married and having a child… It makes me feel a lot better about having the Internet and equally curious friends while growing up.
Same. I was raised Catholic as well and went to a Catholic school from 6th grade til high school. Thank goodness I found out I was ace in college via the internet and a queer affirming health class otherwise I could’ve gone through a whole lot of pain and self-loathing.
@@JuriAmarimy sex ed was funny because we were taught everything but my teacher was a Catholic lesbian who tried to scare everybody about STDs and pregnancy and coercive control which wasn't funny but the way she delivered the message was funny because she kept insinuating that one way or another usually males were the problem
The way he talks down to her in other videos because she had sex before marriage and he didn’t makes me really sad. He sees himself as this holy person that saved her
I think it's so funny how disgusted she is at the thought of having sex with her husband. I've watched a few videos of them where sex comes up and I don't think I've ever once heard her seem to like the thought of having sex with him.
he never misses a moment to to let everyone know how much of a “heathen” morgan is bc she had sex before him. I think he pressured her w the whip cream and thought she would do crazy sex positions their first night bc he does not respect her. he feels as tho since she’s had sex before, she’ll be some type of sex demon to make all his “dirty dreams” come true. it’s like he hates the “wh0re” but is also so excited to play with her at the same time. does that make sense?
It's weird; I had more rights at 18 than I have now, about to turn 30. I want to marry OUT of the US, even as friends. The way things have been progressing over the past 5-10 years, especially the last 3, I'm just waiting for the day we have to file for asylum elsewhere.
More are coming. Trying to figure out how to keep my marriage in the next few years when they revoke marriage equality rights and go back to stonewall days
What gets me is that their very first time having sex, he was focused immediately on what kinks he could get away with and not..connecting with her or just simply enjoying the moment? Cuz even the majority of secular guys know not to act that feral.
Honestly, knowing Morgan has anxiety and knowing that Paul seems to make her do things she doesn't want to do, I'd suspect she's having an anxiety attack on the downlow during this video and probably didn't want to make it to begin with.
They should have discussed this stuff BEFORE getting on camera, this feels like a therapy session without the therapy. Why is this the first time they are telling one another these things? They themselves said you need to talk about this stuff with your partner, but they don't talk about it unless they are on camera. Their whole UA-cam channel feels like a Horror ARG religious addition.
the whole whipped cream thing really made me realize that in these marriages since sex is the prize for getting married and since you're not really supposed to divorce then husbands really do go into the honeymoon with an "all bets are off and i can do what i want" attitude
Same. Anytime I see these videos it's really difficult because I share a name with her and I also have some issues in regard to sex so it's just hard to watch but I can't stop. It's like a train wreck
I’ve always felt bad for Morgan. She always looks so uncomfortable and awkward in videos or generally whenever she’s around Paul. She seems tired of being married to a sex-obsessed man child. I just feel bad for her.
i was raised mormon, im bi so i’m not rlly anymore luckily i don’t have homophobic parents, (yes i’m ok, it wasn’t extreme for me) but i grew up being told sex before marriage is a sin, so now i’m scared to have sex 😭
I'm so glad my parents aren't bigots and never sanitized me from the world. Yeah I'm no better than your average sinner but if I had a sex life I know not to have 0 communication or not stand up for myself
don't be scared. just make sure that its someone you know and feel safe with and it hopefully wont be all the scary, just new. being embarrassed is completely normal but the right person will laugh it off with you.
i grew up mormon and queer too so i know the struggle. if it helps, most people are at least a little scared of sex their first time, and even just their first time with a new person, so you're not alone there. i would just make sure you know how to communicate/set boundaries for yourself before having sex. this was the biggest thing i struggled with coming from a purity culture where we never talked about sex, and i could have avoided several unpleasant experiences had i just known how to communciate better. also sex is very rarely going to be as perfect as it is depicted in media and there's likely going to be some funny/awkward moments so don't be afraid to laugh something off or joke around a bit to help the tension. hope this is helpful, i remember how scary navigating the dating field was after leaving the church
@@arianahammer6084 if sex talk was less taboo the world would be such a better place and so many people could avoid uncomfortable situations. Lack of sex ed creates victims and I wish it would change for the better someday.
Holy shit I had never seen that clip of Paul talking about the anger/disappointment/resentment/tears because he doesn’t get sex when he expects it. I feel like he really carried on about how horrible it felt as a way to manipulate Morgan right there while making the video. Disgusting. I really really dislike both of them, but Paul scares me.
the fact that they do all this preaching but have tattoos … like if you’re gonna think you can use religion to control everyone else, you should be able to follow it yourself
Has she ever made a video denouncing her tattoos the way she has about having sex before marriage? Has Paul ever shamed her for her tattoos the way he has about her not being a virgin? Genuine question. I don't watch their channel. Just seems like something they should address the way they do with all the other "sins" they denounce as "Biblical Christians".
Imagine real advice like it’s sometimes Awkward especially weird noises and body sounds, way more wet patches than movies allude too. Be aware that conversations about boundaries and safe sex measures are normal and essential for a good time. Human bodies do not look like instagram models but that doesn’t effect the sex. Sometimes sex isn’t sexy but a moment of reconnecting with a partner and being together. Sex gets better with a loving partner over time as you learn and grow together. Sex is awesome but so is pizza and snuggles to reconnect don’t feel like you need a certain target or day to have it to be winning in marriage. Shower sex is never sexy can’t convince me otherwise.
I dont like casting things on other people that they dont claim... but.... i get closet-ed queer energy from Morgan every time ive listened to her speak about sex.
A homeschooled, religious, 27 year old virgin, who struggles with intimacy, wears his hat backwards, and clearly isn't right for her? Why did she marry him? This is a great advert for why you should live with someone and have sex before marriage.
I'm thoroughly convinced Morgan is on some kind of medication, whether prescribed, self-administered, or (worst case) coerced onto her by Paul. My personal guess is that she's secretly taking something in order to cope with the unseen stresses of the relationship. Whatever the case, I'm worried about her, and I wonder how much of what she says or does is really what she means as opposed to things parroted out of some sense of fear or exhaustion.
Watching Paul's face whenever Morgan speaks is so scary. It looks like he's just *boiling* beneath the surface. I've seen that look many times in one of my past partners. I'm genuinely afraid for her.
I’ve always thought they hated each other. Glad someone else finally said it. Their view of sex snd it’s place in a relationship is so distorted and gross. I could write a book about it just from that one video because they are so far off the mark.
it's crazy cause paul obviously expects Morgan to just do whatever he wants which is awful, but Morgan is also super demeaning to paul. just two miserable people making each other more miserable
Yeah Paul and Morgan seem to have completely different love languages and they only talk about them in the context of sex. Morgan def wants love shown in more ways and Paul just likes sex. In the nicest way I hope they don’t have kids just to make the marriage work or to fullfill “bearing fruit” cause yeah they need to go to a non Christian marriage counsler
@@mizravenkustoms same !! i started discovering my body when i was 12, felt awful about myself (and how horny i was lol) until i was 16 and left the church. i'm sorry you had to go through that too
Morgan could’ve been such a cool person if she didn’t fall into the Christian purity culture spiral. I somewhat still have hope for her, but I think she has too much pride to admit she’s miserable and was happier before. Paul is just a lost cause and abusive.
Jake, I wanna just say you’re one of my favorite UA-camrs nowadays. You always keep me entertained ❤ My bf also says you laugh like the pillsbury dough boy, and I thought you’d think that’s funny.
the way paul is talking about thinking certain things were to be expected of sex bc of the porn he consumed. that's an important thing to talk about, but clearly he doesn't fully understand that topic himself..
@@roxassora2706 exactly. I'm grateful my stepmom is low-key a weirdo for not being afraid to talk to my brother about it, and I talk to him too of course. He's known since he was seven that girls don't actually act like how they act on TV, they don't look like that, and he walked in on me changing a tampon lol (he already knew what periods were but I guess he'd never seen a tampon. Now he's fourteen and knows the difference! Light-years ahead of my father in female biology knowledge lolol) We'll share jokey sexualized memes sometimes (...it is weird having a brother who is half my age lol) but I know, I KNOW I'll never hear him complaining that his wife didn't wanna whip out the whipped cream on their honeymoon because he will KNOW that edible foods are not to be used on gentle genitals and I would have personally bought him some vaginal safe whipped cream and talked through how to broach the subject with his partner !!! Edit- I obviously don't share explicit details with him but he is aware that I have Had Sex and he has met several people I Had Sex With lmao. I think around the time he started thinking about sex he asked if I had had sex with my longtime friend, I said yeah, we laughed about how Gross® and Gay® that was (I'm AFAB my friend is a cis man). I think seeing a very casual attitude about sex from the femmes in his life is gonna lead to an interesting young man to meet. Not just romantically, he's a good friend:) sorry so long tldr - my brother is so fucking cool I love him a lot and I'm glad he's got one good parent lol
@@mightymeatymech Yes. Lots of guys don't understand that. I have my restrictions on what I'd want to talk to my kid(s) about, as they should learn on their own. Then we won't have "controversies" like the Turning Red one.
Morgan also has her own vlog channel and she seems so much sweeter and kind in those vlogs but also really sad. Plus is Paul is somehow in the video or in the background you can really see how awful he is as a partner. She had a tough pregnancy and he basically made her take care of herself and dismissive of her symptom
These two have a problem communicating to a camera; a literal inanimate object, without getting weird and uncomfortable. Of course they don't communicate well with each other if this is how they are!
Its weird to me when I find people, similarly to Paul, continue to follow a philosophy/religion that he clearly isn't 100% into. Like this dude was looking forward to something normal because he refused himself of it, to the point where he was researching it outside of his partner. Bro made plans about sex without the other person he'd be having sex with only to be surprised that she wasn't onboard for it. Why put yourself through all this..
11:43 I find it funny that Paul didn't want to be clueless during his 1st time. Given that he likely had limited access to exploration of sex in regards to himself & for a partner, it would've been inevitable of things going as smoothly. It's like expecting to able to make a big dinner with no experience after not being allowed to cook.
its like every time morgan opens her mouth she doesnt know what shes even gonna say and it makes me cringe like its so uncomfortable to watch the fake super intense laughter its so weird their whole dynamic on camera is so uncomfortable
I genuinely fear for Morgan's mental health. As time has gone on, more and more, anytime she's on camera, she looks and talks like she's taken two or three xanax and washed it down with scotch.
The whipping cream story makes me think that either Paul was very aggressive/pushy and that's why Morgan cried or Morgan has trauma from purity culture.
Considering how she wasn’t a puritan before him, I think option one is the actual reason.
It's probably for the same reason she threw up at their wedding. I believe she has said she has bpd or something so I honestly think it was her brain trying to sort through her mix of spiritual mania and religious guilt from having doubts in the life that Paul is clearly setting up for her. I think she has her bouts of symptoms and lowkey craves structure/direction and Paul manipulates that to his benefit, leaving her in the end confused about how she "got herself" in this situation she kinda hates.
@@mickeewoop-woop9020She said she had bipolar disorder, not BPD (used as an acronym for borderline personality disorder) just saying.
@@blueismylove3128 my bad, thanks alot. I still think that Paul is manipulating her vulnerable state to get things he wants and then she's left to deal with the aftermath. And I still think she was dealing with religious psychosis early on. She just seemed very out of it and giving up alot of herself to appease Paul.
That painful laugh from her when he mentioned it :(
Their opinions about sex have always been some of their most messed up takes. Morgan is 100% in a situation where she's expected to have sex whenever Paul wants, it is really upsetting and sad to watch.
Sounds like the mindset of the majority of people in my country lol it is Beyond sad
@@homeland1128 what country?
Every country ngl
@@fruitlikerw a third world shlthole that 99,999% of the people are people of religion lol
and at the same time paul repeatedly holds shame on her for not being a virgin when they married.
Paul getting upset because he EXPECTED sex and didn't get it and saying he wanted to DRIVE AWAY because he was angry he didn't get it is DISGUSTING!
He gives off major abuser vibes and Morgan doesn't look well. I've watched a few of their videos and they look like a very unhealthy couple.
I had the horrifying thought that if their relationship had taken place in the 50s or 60s then Paul 100% would've SA'd her 😭😭😭 The entitlement is so genuinely scary!
I find it doubly disgusting that he shrugs off the entire part of the situation where they were in the middle of an argument. Like, he isn't upset about the argument and things that were said or done that could be hurtful, but rather the not having sex that night aspect. He is more upset about the sex than the actual problem at hand
lowkey.... rapey
@@maggiedukes3191 never go for someone who likes angry sex.
[Unless they're into BDSM and you've thoroughly discussed boundaries, kinks, triggers, and safe words before planning a scene. Lol. But if someone complains that that makes it "not sexy" they literally just wanna hate eff you.. it's not as cool as it looks in movies 🤡🥰]
when they got married, morgan ran off stage to vomit. i’m not kidding, they even posted the video 😭
😀❓
I had to look it up because I couldn’t believe it but oh my gosh it actually did happen
I believe she's scared of him. She doesn't look happy, the giggling is just an act.
omg please link this
Not defending them, but I don't think that alone means anything. A wedding is a very emotional event, and some people vomit when they're very emotional.
I can't imagine getting into a fight with your partner and the part that upsets you the most is that you're not going to get sex, like seriously dude, do you actually like this woman or are you just after a living fleshlight?
Ugh seriously he is gross
!!!!!!!!! perfect way to put it
I think he brings the idea of women being a "prize" to another level because he's the one that got her to convert to being a strict Christian so he "won" her soul for Jesus and "won" her personhood in marrying her
Paul is actually gay and went to conversion therapy. That probably explains his strange behavior around just seeing his wife as a sex object and not much else. Although, it definitely doesn't excuse it.
@@simplybananas8822wait what ?? how do you know this lmfao 😭😭
I saw a comment that said “they need a good wholesome Christian divorce” and I wholeheartedly agree 😂😂
i saw in another commentary that they’re glad they have to stick things out cause the only “real” grounds for divorce is abuse……… yeah.
at least they arent catholic so they have that!
Paul asked "if someone said saving sex was important for me and it's tough for me to hear you've been with other people, would you understand or be judgemental?"
Boom, there it is. We all knew he was going to use this as an opportunity to take a dig at Morgan. What a prick.
He says that in this video or a different one? I must have missed it. But ya... he's not a nice guy. Seems very controlling. 🚩🚩🚩🚩
Honestly, having seen far too much of this couple and what a fucking terrible ass person Paul is, I was very entertained by the slight dig she took at him for being too overexcited for sex after they got married earlier on in the video.
He brings this up many times
this feels like when you’re out with a couple and they start fighting but pretending they’re chill and not fighting
third wheel lol
I can’t believe they brought a child into this loveless marriage
THEY HAVE A CHILD?!? POOR THING 😭😭
Oh god they have a kid!?
Well if they will love the child. It won't be loveless anymore.
At least until the child grows old enough to disagree and have own opinion.
@@tatiana4050 a marriage isn’t about two people loving a child. It’s about two people loving each other.
@@tatiana4050 no that's not how that works. It will be a loveless marriage but they're going to take care of the kid and show the kid affection but in turn that is going to affect the kid when they see that their parents don't love each other or at least don't respect each other. That will be problematic
I truly do get a “I can save her” vibe for Morgan because it’s so clear she used to be more progressive and had such a passion for her singing career and now she’s regularly shamed by Paul for not being a virgin when they met and she doesn’t sing “worldly” music anymore. She has also talked about her past struggles with mental health and her anxiety disorder and even though she claims that god healed her, you can tell she’s still struggling. She uses laughter as a coping mechanism whenever she’s nervous and literally sobbed (not in the good way) on their wedding day. She is going to spend the rest of her marriage constantly feeling inferior to her husband and hungering for his validation.
This is so true. I saw videos of her performing and she is actually really talented... but now she seems like a shadow of her previous self
you can't keep making me heterophobic like this, Jake.
😂
hating normal people aint right
Happy Pride!
I agree lmao are the straights okay 😭
I’m straight, but I can hardly blame you 🤦🏼♀️
Something people don’t like to mention about purity culture is that it comes with the *expectation* of sex once you’re married, and if you don’t like it, tough. Too late. You’re married now, it’s your job
Yeah. It doesn't make any sense.
Don't do sex (even know about sex) before but later you are forced to have sex. So awful.
Imagine so many young people having this shock. 😢
And if someone doesn’t know they’re ace until marriage, it’s hell. They fit perfectly into purity culture until the expectations change.
Morgan laughing at Paul when he was complaining abt not having sex is fucking hilarious 😭😭
Omg I watched that part like 7 times. 😅
Timestamp ??
feel like their entire video should have been a private conversation together in their bedroom.
it should have been a private conversation with their therapist
literally every one of their videos feels like that, they always end up either arguing or being super passive aggressive towards each other
She probably feels safer in front of the camera
Or with a sex therapist. They’re sharing their complaints about each other and framing it as advice. Big yikes.
They will definitely be a cautionary tale one day. A social experiment on how a couple lived their entire relationship on UA-cam, they invaded their own privacy and their fans will also watch it crumble.
that video literally sounds like two people who HATE each other just trying to make the other person feel awful
Or two kids who made a wish and now are in grown bodies trying to act like they know what being grown and sex is lol
Paul and Morgan are a really good example of what a relationship should NOT be like, she looks like she hates him and he talks about her like she does everything to annoy him.
i love when christians say "struggle" with lust or ~same sex relationships~, i don't struggle with either! i'm actually very good at them!
Oh I’m definitely using that from now on
Aro ace cupio here.... I definitely struggle :/
@@cloudysky9248😂😂😂
"I'm not a paul, you're a paul" really got me good 💀
Lmao me too 😂
i was fricken cackling that was so awfully good
Saul was a Jew when he became a Christian he became Paul
I was born in Utah and raised Mormon and so many of my childhood friends who remained in the church and got married at 19-20 are just like this. It’s honestly really sad because I know a lot of them (women especially) are unhappy but they’ll never get divorced because they’ve been poisoned by purity culture their whole lives.
And that's their whole plan. Get them in early and they're stuck there forever
Same, I feel grateful that is not my life or reality.
My mom got married at 21 it was normal in her day and I got married at 21 wasn't normal in my day and town I look back and think I was young, got engaged at 20... it's weird for me to think 19-21 was the norm
Funny how they’re talking about sin, but having tattoos is a sin and the Bible says you should be stoned to death on your wedding day if you have tattoos but sex??!??!!!
Nah thats quran not bible and also religious people arent allowed to have sex before marriage
@@hrvatdogroba9588 the prohibition against tattoos is in the bible, but Jesus didn’t have much to say about sex
Funny how they love to take the Bible literally, but only when it suits them. Mixed fiber clothing? Bible says no. Rich people can’t get into heaven? According to Jesus!
Is that the old testament? Because Christians don't follow that typically.
@@hrvatdogroba9588 adultery wasn't allowed, which is sex with someone outside of your marriage. sex before marriage isn't really talked about. and tattoos are often considered a cultural thing, that's how there are christians with tattoos
It feels like as soon as the camera is off paul is gonna yell at her for saying too much about what she wants
besides everything blatantly wrong with this video, morgan had the audacity not to blend her bronzer?? that's almost as criminal as their sex life
I WAS LITERALLY STARING AT IT THE WHOLE VIDEO 😂😂
I'm glad I'm not the only one! I was like "why does her face not match the rest of her body?"
IM SO GLAD SOMEONE SAID THIS I CAME TO THE COMMENTS LOOKING FOR THIS 😭😭😭
@@YoungRebelRoyalty they clearly didn’t plan anything about this video. They certainly didn’t discuss the subject matter beforehand considering the way they react to each other throughout… 😒😬😐
@@YoungRebelRoyalty really highlights the fact that they don’t actually like, or even really know eachother.
not surprised that Paul doesn't know what foreplay is
There's nothing sexier than sitting at home and then hearing a calander alarm go off and then see Paul look at you and say "today is our sex day"
I'm going to be a 34 year old virgin in a few days. I've stayed a virgin because I'm waiting for someone who mutually loves me. Speaking only for myself, sex isn't worth it without love. 34 years and yet I can't imagine going 1 to 100 and not treasuring your first time with your partner like this repulsive Paul thing. I feel so bad for her, I hope they divorce and he leaves her alone. He seems like a horrible person.
I'll also say this for other virgins out there. Porn can distort your view on what sex is truly like. Don't expect outrageous things from people. Respect them.
Anyway, Paul seem unreal. He seems like a sitcom character.
@@hannahmac7197normal is a construct and honestly everyone is weird, once you know them. Not that not having or not wanting sex is weird. At all. Just trying to say that we're all super weird two legged creatures and everyone's so occupied with their own weirdness, that most people don't really care about yours.
Morgan’s makeup in this is so insane, the middle of her face is so highlighted compared to her forehead, she looks like the sun-baby from Teletubbies
I cannot unsee.
the bronzer is hurting me
😂 it really does
@@noriiiHELPP OMGGGG 💀
@@happyiexsit it’s so bad. looks like she forgot to do the rest of her makeup and cranked the bronzer up to 200%
Do straight people just inquire about each others sex lives all the time? Like another Christian couple comes over and goes “so how’s the sex life?” That’s so fuckin weird fr. Like obviously me and my best friend will talk about private things if we want an outside opinion but they’re saying it like everyone that comes over for dinner asks about it 😭
Not straight people. Maybe straight religious people fucked up by purity culture though
i’ve had it happen once but i shut that down quick
@@christianbosse_ part of me thinks I’d freak out and freeze up but I like to imagine I’d actually just go into such vivid detail (accurate or not) to make them regret asking
yeah i thought that part was super weird as well
I habe the assumption that in circles where sex is so hyped up and kept for after the wedding only, a lot of newly weds are probably talking among each other because they are all insecure and uncertain, feeling let down because they married just for meh sex.
I assume it is different in other circles.
I'm calling it - he doesn't go down on her, or if he does he stops before she finishes. I hope she has a toy hidden in the bathroom for after.
The atmosphere this couple’s has is giving me *”2 parents who are on the verge of divorce trying to convince their family, friends, & the court that the rumors aren’t true + ✨getting married was the best decision they’ve ever made! And having kids only made their relationship stronger!✨”*
20:45 Holy fuck I literally dated a guy that was 'suicidal' because I wouldn't have sex with him because I wasn't in the mood and he pulled manipulative shit like this all the time 💀
I'm so sorry you went through this, because I have as well sort of. I was groomed like a few years back and he would pull the same stuff and I was extremely impressionable at the time. And it made me spiral a few times. I'm so sorry you had to go through the same thing. I know how traumatic that can be.
Literally every couple at the church I used to go to was a carbon copy of paul and morgan. i cannot watch them without being reminded of every white millennial couple I met between the years 2006 and 2017
I find it crazy that these two are bothered by lgbtq people (the people that usually have the healthiest relationships) being happy and loving who they want When they themselves are so obviously not in love.
@@Cosmic_Cookies_774 most queer ppl are super open minded and progressive, it only makes sense that their relationships would reflect that
The rates of abuse in lgbtq+ relationships and in straight relationships are similar. Assumptions like these just make it harder for lgbtq people to come forward if they are experiencing abuse.
@@crossingmyrubicon incorrect. the ratio between heterosexual couples & homosexual couples has a huge gap. if one homosexual relationship is abusive, the percentages are going to be way higher than that of a heterosexual one. there are a lot more abusive heterosexual relationships compared to homosexual ones. im guessing you dont understand how statistics work?
They have the healthiest relationships not according to the L word lol
I’m an asexual virgin who was raised Catholic and took sex ed in rural Montana. I basically had all the odds stacked against me in that regard. But seeing how clueless these people were about sex despite being married and having a child… It makes me feel a lot better about having the Internet and equally curious friends while growing up.
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Same. I was raised Catholic as well and went to a Catholic school from 6th grade til high school. Thank goodness I found out I was ace in college via the internet and a queer affirming health class otherwise I could’ve gone through a whole lot of pain and self-loathing.
@@JuriAmarimy sex ed was funny because we were taught everything but my teacher was a Catholic lesbian who tried to scare everybody about STDs and pregnancy and coercive control which wasn't funny but the way she delivered the message was funny because she kept insinuating that one way or another usually males were the problem
The way he talks down to her in other videos because she had sex before marriage and he didn’t makes me really sad. He sees himself as this holy person that saved her
Paul seems like he expected Morgan to be ready for anything and everything because she wasn’t a virgin and he was.
the only on camera straight couple interaction i don't recoil at is Jake and Hannah 💯💕
Are you okay? You need realize recoiling to a whole sexuality is weird. That's just not funny.
@@KairiMorin they were joking
edit: plus given all the vitriol the lgbt community gets, i think we deserve to clown on straight people a little
Straight ppl are a lil tiring tho. I can say that I'm straight.
@@KairiMorin i am a proud heterophobe, Jake and Hannah are two of the few good ones
@@marleyaddsomemoore im a proud homophobe 😊
I think it's so funny how disgusted she is at the thought of having sex with her husband. I've watched a few videos of them where sex comes up and I don't think I've ever once heard her seem to like the thought of having sex with him.
he never misses a moment to to let everyone know how much of a “heathen” morgan is bc she had sex before him. I think he pressured her w the whip cream and thought she would do crazy sex positions their first night bc he does not respect her. he feels as tho since she’s had sex before, she’ll be some type of sex demon to make all his “dirty dreams” come true. it’s like he hates the “wh0re” but is also so excited to play with her at the same time. does that make sense?
I completely agree. No virgin marrying a virgin would immediately jump to whipped cream for no reason
The perfect people to get sex advice from are a couple who can’t even talk to each other about sex
Jokes on you Jake, the government has already taken my rights 🥹🎉
we’re going back in time… it is terrible
I'm gonna steal your rights back brb
It's weird; I had more rights at 18 than I have now, about to turn 30. I want to marry OUT of the US, even as friends. The way things have been progressing over the past 5-10 years, especially the last 3, I'm just waiting for the day we have to file for asylum elsewhere.
More are coming. Trying to figure out how to keep my marriage in the next few years when they revoke marriage equality rights and go back to stonewall days
Jake ratioing Paul and Morgan in subscribers is so amazing and the joy and hope we need this pride month!!!
Can’t take my rights away if I don’t have any 😡😡😡😡
“We’re not gonna be overly descriptive” “DAMNIT!!!” LMAO 😂
What gets me is that their very first time having sex, he was focused immediately on what kinks he could get away with and not..connecting with her or just simply enjoying the moment? Cuz even the majority of secular guys know not to act that feral.
Paul and Morgan's content is so legitimately upsetting to watch.
I was Asexual before this video, but they were too descriptive and now I lusted too hard 😔
LMAO UNDERRATED COMMENT
Wow this video made me want to be asexual
She sounds ready to cry that entire video. I just feel bad for her. Like do better for yourself girl! Love yourself and get out!
Considering she vomited on her wedding day….she is definitely not happy.
Honestly, knowing Morgan has anxiety and knowing that Paul seems to make her do things she doesn't want to do, I'd suspect she's having an anxiety attack on the downlow during this video and probably didn't want to make it to begin with.
Every Paul and Morgan video is really a “if you want a good relationship do the opposite of everything said in this video”
I feel like theres more to story of their honeymoon where morgan was crying when paul pulled out the whip cream
They should have discussed this stuff BEFORE getting on camera, this feels like a therapy session without the therapy. Why is this the first time they are telling one another these things? They themselves said you need to talk about this stuff with your partner, but they don't talk about it unless they are on camera. Their whole UA-cam channel feels like a Horror ARG religious addition.
HE WAS HURTTTTTT When she’s like “he walks away satisfied, I don’t” lmaooo
the whole whipped cream thing really made me realize that in these marriages since sex is the prize for getting married and since you're not really supposed to divorce then husbands really do go into the honeymoon with an "all bets are off and i can do what i want" attitude
Don't worry, Jake, i cackled at your "I'm not a Paul, you're a Paul!" joke. We can all have shitty humor together.
They say communication is important but they clearly never spoke about any of this until they started filming this video
As someone named Morgan everytime he takes a dig at his wife it feels even worse because she and I share a name 😅
same😭
I kind of understand that. I get it a bit with my name as well.
Yes! Same here!
Same. Anytime I see these videos it's really difficult because I share a name with her and I also have some issues in regard to sex so it's just hard to watch but I can't stop. It's like a train wreck
Omg my bf is named Paul and I sent him this video, he was like “sorry my insane clone got out, we gotta go” 🤣
I’ve always felt bad for Morgan. She always looks so uncomfortable and awkward in videos or generally whenever she’s around Paul. She seems tired of being married to a sex-obsessed man child. I just feel bad for her.
I love your username!!
i was raised mormon, im bi so i’m not rlly anymore luckily i don’t have homophobic parents, (yes i’m ok, it wasn’t extreme for me) but i grew up being told sex before marriage is a sin, so now i’m scared to have sex 😭
I'm so glad my parents aren't bigots and never sanitized me from the world. Yeah I'm no better than your average sinner but if I had a sex life I know not to have 0 communication or not stand up for myself
don't be scared. just make sure that its someone you know and feel safe with and it hopefully wont be all the scary, just new. being embarrassed is completely normal but the right person will laugh it off with you.
i grew up mormon and queer too so i know the struggle. if it helps, most people are at least a little scared of sex their first time, and even just their first time with a new person, so you're not alone there. i would just make sure you know how to communicate/set boundaries for yourself before having sex. this was the biggest thing i struggled with coming from a purity culture where we never talked about sex, and i could have avoided several unpleasant experiences had i just known how to communciate better. also sex is very rarely going to be as perfect as it is depicted in media and there's likely going to be some funny/awkward moments so don't be afraid to laugh something off or joke around a bit to help the tension. hope this is helpful, i remember how scary navigating the dating field was after leaving the church
@@arianahammer6084 if sex talk was less taboo the world would be such a better place and so many people could avoid uncomfortable situations. Lack of sex ed creates victims and I wish it would change for the better someday.
@@arianahammer6084 thank you!
“You’re not devouring anything, bubba”💀💀💀 11:30
Holy shit I had never seen that clip of Paul talking about the anger/disappointment/resentment/tears because he doesn’t get sex when he expects it. I feel like he really carried on about how horrible it felt as a way to manipulate Morgan right there while making the video. Disgusting. I really really dislike both of them, but Paul scares me.
"sex books or articles" is hilarious 😂
the fact that they do all this preaching but have tattoos … like if you’re gonna think you can use religion to control everyone else, you should be able to follow it yourself
iirc Morgan got her tattoos BEFORE paul
That's the whole point of these death cult religions. Rules for thee but not for me.
yall keep bringing this up as if she couldn't have gotten them before she met him?☠
Has she ever made a video denouncing her tattoos the way she has about having sex before marriage? Has Paul ever shamed her for her tattoos the way he has about her not being a virgin? Genuine question. I don't watch their channel. Just seems like something they should address the way they do with all the other "sins" they denounce as "Biblical Christians".
Tattoos aren't a sin.
I’ve never felt uncomfy about being named Morgan until now. So thank you Jake 🙂
Imagine real advice like it’s sometimes Awkward especially weird noises and body sounds, way more wet patches than movies allude too. Be aware that conversations about boundaries and safe sex measures are normal and essential for a good time. Human bodies do not look like instagram models but that doesn’t effect the sex. Sometimes sex isn’t sexy but a moment of reconnecting with a partner and being together. Sex gets better with a loving partner over time as you learn and grow together. Sex is awesome but so is pizza and snuggles to reconnect don’t feel like you need a certain target or day to have it to be winning in marriage. Shower sex is never sexy can’t convince me otherwise.
1000% shower sex is NOT good
I dont like casting things on other people that they dont claim... but.... i get closet-ed queer energy from Morgan every time ive listened to her speak about sex.
To me it’s Paul
I get ace spectrum vibes from her
i didnt expect this video to get AWFULLY WORSE it was hilarious holy shit
A video about straight sex at the start of pride month is hilarious to me 😂
It's hilarious to me that they hate sex before marriage yet sex is all they ever talk about 🤣 I'm a Christian and they are SO toxic
A homeschooled, religious, 27 year old virgin, who struggles with intimacy, wears his hat backwards, and clearly isn't right for her? Why did she marry him? This is a great advert for why you should live with someone and have sex before marriage.
Wrong
As long as you are someone who wants to have sex
Not necessarily
Correct and necessary
I'm thoroughly convinced Morgan is on some kind of medication, whether prescribed, self-administered, or (worst case) coerced onto her by Paul. My personal guess is that she's secretly taking something in order to cope with the unseen stresses of the relationship. Whatever the case, I'm worried about her, and I wonder how much of what she says or does is really what she means as opposed to things parroted out of some sense of fear or exhaustion.
Watching Paul's face whenever Morgan speaks is so scary. It looks like he's just *boiling* beneath the surface. I've seen that look many times in one of my past partners. I'm genuinely afraid for her.
Lmao! I love that Paul's version of wild, adventurous sex is....whipped cream.
I’ve always thought they hated each other. Glad someone else finally said it. Their view of sex snd it’s place in a relationship is so distorted and gross. I could write a book about it just from that one video because they are so far off the mark.
it's crazy cause paul obviously expects Morgan to just do whatever he wants which is awful, but Morgan is also super demeaning to paul. just two miserable people making each other more miserable
Yeah Paul and Morgan seem to have completely different love languages and they only talk about them in the context of sex. Morgan def wants love shown in more ways and Paul just likes sex. In the nicest way I hope they don’t have kids just to make the marriage work or to fullfill “bearing fruit” cause yeah they need to go to a non Christian marriage counsler
They had a kid and Morgan had a traumatic birthing experience while Paul was posting Instagram reels
All this talk about sex after marriage and staying pure is making me glad I am asexual
You are so lucky. I was raised super religious with a sex drive that won’t quit. It’s made my life a nightmare
@@mizravenkustoms I’m very sorry about that =(
@@mizravenkustoms same !! i started discovering my body when i was 12, felt awful about myself (and how horny i was lol) until i was 16 and left the church. i'm sorry you had to go through that too
@@arianahammer6084 i swear puberty made me want to do some wild wild shit. Now I have lost a majority of that energy
“you’re not devouring anything bubba” LMAOOO
"im not apalled, youre a paul" genuinely made me chuckle
Morgan could’ve been such a cool person if she didn’t fall into the Christian purity culture spiral. I somewhat still have hope for her, but I think she has too much pride to admit she’s miserable and was happier before. Paul is just a lost cause and abusive.
he’s never made her come, let alone tried
Jake, I wanna just say you’re one of my favorite UA-camrs nowadays. You always keep me entertained ❤ My bf also says you laugh like the pillsbury dough boy, and I thought you’d think that’s funny.
the way paul is talking about thinking certain things were to be expected of sex bc of the porn he consumed. that's an important thing to talk about, but clearly he doesn't fully understand that topic himself..
for HIM that means "i was disappointed bc of it" but it's a lot more than that.
Lots of dudes think porn is reality.
@@roxassora2706 exactly. I'm grateful my stepmom is low-key a weirdo for not being afraid to talk to my brother about it, and I talk to him too of course. He's known since he was seven that girls don't actually act like how they act on TV, they don't look like that, and he walked in on me changing a tampon lol
(he already knew what periods were but I guess he'd never seen a tampon. Now he's fourteen and knows the difference! Light-years ahead of my father in female biology knowledge lolol)
We'll share jokey sexualized memes sometimes (...it is weird having a brother who is half my age lol) but I know, I KNOW I'll never hear him complaining that his wife didn't wanna whip out the whipped cream on their honeymoon because he will KNOW that edible foods are not to be used on gentle genitals and I would have personally bought him some vaginal safe whipped cream and talked through how to broach the subject with his partner !!!
Edit- I obviously don't share explicit details with him but he is aware that I have Had Sex and he has met several people I Had Sex With lmao. I think around the time he started thinking about sex he asked if I had had sex with my longtime friend, I said yeah, we laughed about how Gross® and Gay® that was (I'm AFAB my friend is a cis man). I think seeing a very casual attitude about sex from the femmes in his life is gonna lead to an interesting young man to meet. Not just romantically, he's a good friend:)
sorry so long tldr - my brother is so fucking cool I love him a lot and I'm glad he's got one good parent lol
@@mightymeatymech Yes. Lots of guys don't understand that. I have my restrictions on what I'd want to talk to my kid(s) about, as they should learn on their own. Then we won't have "controversies" like the Turning Red one.
So.... if Paul really doesn't watch p*rn.... where did he get the idea about the whipped cream from?
Exactly!
Morgan also has her own vlog channel and she seems so much sweeter and kind in those vlogs but also really sad.
Plus is Paul is somehow in the video or in the background you can really see how awful he is as a partner.
She had a tough pregnancy and he basically made her take care of herself and dismissive of her symptom
the fact they have a LIST is fuckin hilarious
i laughed at the “i’m not a paul you’re a paul.” LMAOOO 😭
it's been such a long time since this video came out and im just now realizing how terrible her contour is
Right it’s brutal 😂
Trixie Mattel contour
These two have a problem communicating to a camera; a literal inanimate object, without getting weird and uncomfortable. Of course they don't communicate well with each other if this is how they are!
they're having a thinly veiled marital feud and masking it as an informative video.
This made me laugh so hard about the "books he was consuming" that I cried.
Its weird to me when I find people, similarly to Paul, continue to follow a philosophy/religion that he clearly isn't 100% into. Like this dude was looking forward to something normal because he refused himself of it, to the point where he was researching it outside of his partner. Bro made plans about sex without the other person he'd be having sex with only to be surprised that she wasn't onboard for it. Why put yourself through all this..
As a Christian, this is so sad to watch. Paul is an abuser
I love all your videos, because you have my kind of humor. Your reactions are so funny. I love this channel's content, Keep it up!
“Do a backflip b*tch.” Bffr 😭
Perfect timing! Thanks for keeping me entertained!
11:43 I find it funny that Paul didn't want to be clueless during his 1st time. Given that he likely had limited access to exploration of sex in regards to himself & for a partner, it would've been inevitable of things going as smoothly. It's like expecting to able to make a big dinner with no experience after not being allowed to cook.
its like every time morgan opens her mouth she doesnt know what shes even gonna say and it makes me cringe like its so uncomfortable to watch the fake super intense laughter its so weird their whole dynamic on camera is so uncomfortable
The amount of times that I've seen this one singular Paul and Morgan video is unreal.
I genuinely fear for Morgan's mental health. As time has gone on, more and more, anytime she's on camera, she looks and talks like she's taken two or three xanax and washed it down with scotch.
Just finished watching the Duggar documentary. THIS is the video I needed to wash all that sick shit down!!! Thank you!!