How Do You Truly Forgive Someone

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  • @LillySingh
    @LillySingh 5 років тому +508

    HOW DO YOU TRULY FORGIVE SOMEONE?! 4:54

    • @cerelinadimailig
      @cerelinadimailig 5 років тому +8

      does that mean you have forgiven Jaz because i really dont understand what happened there i miss her in the vlogs, i kno something bad happened there i would like to see a reunion between you two

    • @niyamatkochhar7146
      @niyamatkochhar7146 5 років тому +6

      Thank y'a so much girl, I really really needed this and Today you gave it to me. I'm legit bursting with joy and I feel so much better, I finally feel like I have that type of confidence to do so. Thank you soooo muchhhhhh, girl you slaying and glowinggg

    • @juhee5708
      @juhee5708 5 років тому +1

      I don’t know 🤔

    • @user-ui8ev6sn4c
      @user-ui8ev6sn4c 5 років тому +4

      i really needed this. thank you lil.

    • @gimighore4969
      @gimighore4969 5 років тому +2

      Lily i hope this reaches out to you but can you make a video on how to de -stress . Like real advice for people who have a job and studies and alot more in life . For people like you who want to go an extra mile . Tell us a bit about how you de -stress.

  • @skydreamerlily
    @skydreamerlily 5 років тому +223

    "Really when you forgive someone, you're actually forgiving yourself for allowing you to feel that way because of that person"
    This made so. much. sense. Thank you ❤️

    • @F7YUBVlogs
      @F7YUBVlogs 5 років тому

      LazyCamel96 Come watch my content and join my journey to 1million subs

    • @preetivvss1907
      @preetivvss1907 5 років тому

      Vantalu ln telugu

  • @jazzybooooo
    @jazzybooooo 5 років тому +33

    'No two people hurt you the same' -Lilly Singh 2019
    Truth

  • @aminatopalbecirevic101
    @aminatopalbecirevic101 5 років тому +163

    i havent watched you in a year,and oh damn the editing has changed

  • @lizziebethh
    @lizziebethh 5 років тому +152

    Omg Lilly than for being so helpful and inspirational!!! 💗💙💚

    • @F7YUBVlogs
      @F7YUBVlogs 5 років тому

      Lizzie Hollick Come watch my content and join my journey to 1million subs

  • @carlycharlesworth1497
    @carlycharlesworth1497 5 років тому +29

    Lilly, I was in an abusive relationship for nearly 20 years. I was young and foolish when I first met this person, and still young when I left them. They mentally and physically abused the heck outta me. And one day I said in my heart 'if I dont forgive this person, it will eat away at me for the rest of my life...so now that I am free of them, I need to forgive them, let go and and finally move on mentally as well as physically, and although it was hard at first, I did it! Now when I think of that person, I feel almost nothing for them that I wouldn't feel for a complete stranger. I am stronger and better for having forgiven them.
    I have evolved from that battered and brutalised individual, and I have let go, completely let go of the anger, the hate and the terrible venum I was carrying. I have not done this for them, no, I have done it purely for me, and I am a better, a stronger, and a happier version of me now; minus all that rage and baggage.
    So I want to applaud what you said in your video. You are such a good role model for women everywhere. God bless you honey. Keep doing what you, coz you're great!! Regards from a fan in South Wales. UK.

    • @priyalsepaha2205
      @priyalsepaha2205 5 років тому +1

      It takes courage to forgive and forget. So happy for you :)

    • @carlycharlesworth1497
      @carlycharlesworth1497 5 років тому

      @@priyalsepaha2205 thank you. I believe in God and my faith helped me to move on from my anger and hate. I am where I am today because of God and that is a simple fact. God is good!

    • @tanisha9621
      @tanisha9621 3 роки тому

      It's been a year but I hope you're doing better now!

  • @melanygarcia2354
    @melanygarcia2354 5 років тому +59

    When having our period
    We have *CRAMPS*
    We have -mix emotions-
    We have _The Worst Week ever!!_
    Ladies ya know what I'm saying!
    Say AMEN!

  • @Sushma_saini10
    @Sushma_saini10 5 років тому +23

    “I feel like whale, I am so bloated” Me on my period 🥴😂

  • @AzariahsMind
    @AzariahsMind 5 років тому +57

    “My meeting is at 2:00 but it’s 2:02
    Me: *looks at time* oh wow it’s 2:02!!! CRAZY
    also me: Omg... I’m basically in the same time zone as Lilly 😂💀

    • @F7YUBVlogs
      @F7YUBVlogs 5 років тому

      Just.Jordaya Come watch my content and join my journey to 1million subs

  • @keithmesser5794
    @keithmesser5794 5 років тому +1

    It's hard. No matter how hard you pray to have the strength to. Especially with your heart or people that lies on you. Sometimes I have to catch myself and realized that I need to ask God to take the pain from my heart so I can. I like your shows. I live in a small town and I love to cook but you can not make any money as a cook in a small town. All you youtubers inspired me to do a cooking show and make it funny and fun to. I only have 21 sub so far but it makes me happy. Sometimes in life it not about the money or being famous. You just need to be happy.

  • @Domi-Va
    @Domi-Va 5 років тому +17

    Love the lesson, Lilly. Forgiveness is a very complex process. i loved your insinghts. hh

  • @TayanaZook
    @TayanaZook 5 років тому +35

    WHO ELSE LOVES LILLY
    BTW I'm a UA-camr too!

  • @JoSnyder31
    @JoSnyder31 5 років тому

    THANK YOU! I can finally understand with your answer of forgiveness with my friend who she thinks we're good and back to how we use to be but it's not the same for me.

  • @cherylsibson8457
    @cherylsibson8457 5 років тому

    Lilly, I love you Forgiveness is about forgiving yourself before others, it is choosing not to do - do-overs and repeated cycles of the same thing over again, but we are human duh? I have forgiven a lot. oh hey, I heard there was an earthquake in LA they say it was a 6.4 I forgive the earth for getting all shook up!

  • @Monomiibo
    @Monomiibo 5 років тому +11

    Alright guys.
    As a Scorpio, the easiest way to forgive someone is....
    You don't. Don't ever forgive them. They had their chance, and it's gone now. Buh bye!!

    • @Fidddle2Pie
      @Fidddle2Pie 5 років тому

      bowie preach 😂😂😂

    • @priyapandey8486
      @priyapandey8486 5 років тому

      I as a scorpio was thinking the same but doesn't this damage our souls?? I guess it does

    • @Fidddle2Pie
      @Fidddle2Pie 5 років тому +1

      @@priyapandey8486 yes but can we stop? nope (jk ofc we can but that's so much extra effort)

  • @jenzii3339
    @jenzii3339 5 років тому +1

    Are you hinting that you are coming to Jamaica soon, cause the nails are giving me a vibe

  • @carameldoll96
    @carameldoll96 5 років тому +6

    Here's a quote I LOVE about forgiveness.....Today I decided to forgive you. Not because you apologized or because you acknowledged the pain that you caused me, but because my soul deserves peace!! It's the best quote I've seen thus far.

  • @hawaslifexx4480
    @hawaslifexx4480 5 років тому +40

    Let’s play a game!
    Girls- Even
    Boys- Odd
    I am not going to like because I am a girl!

    • @Jade-jq8ry
      @Jade-jq8ry 5 років тому +3

      Wut do I do if I'm neither 😑

    • @jaykay6249
      @jaykay6249 5 років тому +2

      Nothing . You do nothing even if you are a boy or a girl . Because this game doesn’t make any sense

    • @hawaslifexx4480
      @hawaslifexx4480 5 років тому +1

      Jay Kay You like and if the number is say 13 if you are a girl you like to keep it even but if you are a boy you wouldn’t like so it would be odd

    • @jaykay6249
      @jaykay6249 5 років тому

      Nope.

  • @tvishayerramalli8198
    @tvishayerramalli8198 5 років тому +15

    Who else thinks Lilly is the only unicorn out there? Also ily☺💞

  • @RR-qo8yq
    @RR-qo8yq 5 років тому +4

    Lilly finally putting her psychology degree to use... You go girl!

  • @RachelGLive
    @RachelGLive 5 років тому

    I love your perspective on forgiveness! You are everything, wishing you more love and success hun!

  • @vikZ710
    @vikZ710 5 років тому +9

    Heyy Lilly didi I'm from India I like your eyes and my mom like your all video 😍😍😃
    Plz reply for my mom..

  • @jeanz638
    @jeanz638 5 років тому +1

    BOO COME THRO WITH THIS QUALITY CONTENT I LOVE YOU I REALLY NEEDED THIS. ❤️❤️❤️🙏

  • @Hermione-pz4ld
    @Hermione-pz4ld 5 років тому

    Great video! Just trying to help out because I truly love your videos! 😊

  • @samantha-jane699
    @samantha-jane699 5 років тому +5

    |°You don't have to rebuild a relationship with someone you've forgiven. Keep it moving.°|

  • @tiffanykisiero7112
    @tiffanykisiero7112 5 років тому +6

    We should not forget that as much as people wrong us,we wrong people too...so forgiving others,asking for forgiveness...and forgiving ourselves.

  • @fatimahassan3919
    @fatimahassan3919 5 років тому

    Thank You so much lilly.

  • @akankshayadav5462
    @akankshayadav5462 5 років тому +21

    I love you sm lily. You're an inspiration for me, I hope I can meet you one day in person. You deserve the best. Amazing vlog btw

    • @F7YUBVlogs
      @F7YUBVlogs 5 років тому

      Akanksha Yadav Come watch my content and join my journey to 1million subs

  • @rinkugupta7975
    @rinkugupta7975 5 років тому +6

    Hiii Lilly I am Astha from India ...firstly all the best for your upcoming show.......I love love love your work....you are truly inspiring!...

  • @sarakhan-pk7ko
    @sarakhan-pk7ko 5 років тому +6

    I started my period today morning when I was sleeping
    Needless to say my sleep went down the drain

  • @nazarenemoodley1670
    @nazarenemoodley1670 5 років тому

    this has truly helped me so much, thank you Lilly.

  • @karmalokhi4465
    @karmalokhi4465 5 років тому +3

    Scarborough squad ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @urvishah7528
    @urvishah7528 5 років тому

    Thank you Lilly 😊

  • @basicemi
    @basicemi 5 років тому

    I really hope that you are ok and that you'r fam...is accepting and suportung about you coming out. Sending all my love

  • @atenatesla
    @atenatesla 5 років тому +5

    I loved your message today. It makes me think about who I should forgive, and that that doesn't mean I put myself in the same situation again. Thank you!!

  • @fathimaalzahracassim4623
    @fathimaalzahracassim4623 5 років тому +8

    Thank u so much Lilly. This is something I really needed💚

  • @biancarenee5784
    @biancarenee5784 5 років тому +23

    Merry Fourth of July!!!!! Also eat dark chocolate it will help with your period 🤠

  • @pankajraj3817
    @pankajraj3817 5 років тому +3

    I wanna know if Lilly made time to meet Colleen since she gave birth

  • @amosj7297
    @amosj7297 5 років тому +23

    I want to see Lilly with a boyfriend/girlfriend/life partner... which I have never seen her with. 😁 I want to see that love glow on her, although she is perfect her own but just for my eyes pleasure,I need to see you in relationship 😁😘

  • @ldabell9255
    @ldabell9255 5 років тому

    Honestly necessary in my life: thank you 🙏

  • @Riyakaur.x
    @Riyakaur.x 4 роки тому +1

    Who needs therapy when you have Lilly like she’s the best therapist out there love you lilly ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dexnji
    @dexnji 5 років тому +7

    Where are all of my superwoman fans at?
    I hope you all have a good day

  • @archia-angelinatividad8977
    @archia-angelinatividad8977 5 років тому +3

    damn that was such a big sister talk, i needed that ahhh

  • @daniyasoni8232
    @daniyasoni8232 4 роки тому +1

    ya i totally believe in what u said but also the problem with forgiveness is that people then start taking advantage of you later on because they know that we wont feel bad about it again

  • @brookehirtzinger6208
    @brookehirtzinger6208 5 років тому +6

    Nskdkskfkekf im so excited for the show I can’t wiat😭

  • @afragranttale8201
    @afragranttale8201 5 років тому

    Forgiving others is tough when you cant forgive yourself

  • @sniperxxz3198
    @sniperxxz3198 5 років тому +1

    IISuperwomenII youre awesome and 🙋😎

  • @jaykay6249
    @jaykay6249 5 років тому +1

    Yes , we know you’re a small UA-camr.

  • @Moon-sl8ym
    @Moon-sl8ym 5 років тому +1

    3:10 how I feel EVERY period day

  • @dominicawitt7867
    @dominicawitt7867 5 років тому +1

    This is exactly what forgiveness is. That's a hard lesson to learn but it is an important one

  • @max7420
    @max7420 5 років тому +1

    But how do you forgive yourself?

  • @raullopez7347
    @raullopez7347 5 років тому +1

    ERES MUY ERKOZAAAA 😍😘💘👌👍

  • @TheJeffmillion
    @TheJeffmillion 5 років тому +1

    Why did you have your green card at pride?

  • @stilllauralinda1639
    @stilllauralinda1639 5 років тому +1

    Girl! That Was A FABULOUS Response To That Forgiveness Question!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾And Absolutely Right In Time For Me!🙏🏾 I Am Just Sooooo PROUD OF YOU!!!🤗 #inspiration ❤️ I Remember When They Screwed You With That Farenheit Thing And You Came To A Crossroads Where You Could Either Keep Playing Their Game Or Create Your Own Creative Island And Be Free. 🏝️🦄🐒 I Could Feel Your Anxiety But I LOVED Your Decision And Courage To Follow Through!💪🏾I'm Sure All This Growth Has Brought It's Own Kind Of Pains But You You've Weathered The Storms Well!🌈 I Will Say That I Am So Sad That Our Periods Went Out Of Sync!😪We Used To Start On The EXACT Same Day!😟I Feel Like I Don't Even Know You Anymore!😨 Anywho, Keep Up The Great Work!👊🏾Love To You And All The Crew❤️And Of course Kisses To My Baby Scarbro!💋 (He Is Getting So BIG!!!🤯 Love His Haircut!🤗)

  • @AishwaryaNet
    @AishwaryaNet 5 років тому +1

    5:37 can we talk about that nail polish though??

  • @mill7667
    @mill7667 5 років тому +3

    Love youuuu ❤❤❤

  • @haylie3074
    @haylie3074 5 років тому +1

    July 3 was my birthday

  • @AzariahsMind
    @AzariahsMind 5 років тому +3

    OH NEW VLOG! I think your advice is super important and essential. Thank you for giving this advice. I REALLY needed it. Btw..Your nails are FIRE!!! I love them and you!

    • @imanimcnair973
      @imanimcnair973 5 років тому

      Just.Jordaya her nails are fire for real

  • @macydunbar4506
    @macydunbar4506 5 років тому +1

    Really good advice

  • @shireenakhtar4653
    @shireenakhtar4653 5 років тому +2

    I love how real she is love u Lilly! 💖💖💯

  • @freddy7534
    @freddy7534 5 років тому +1

    I can’t count how many times I came back to this video because it’s so insightful and inspirational.

  • @shanaharper836
    @shanaharper836 5 років тому +2

    You
    Can
    Not
    Guess
    Who
    The
    Best
    Person
    Is
    Read the first word

  • @lauragresova3301
    @lauragresova3301 5 років тому +1

    Happy 4th of july!

  • @EchaKiut
    @EchaKiut 5 років тому

    How i can move on when the person who broke my heart is the closest person for me.

  • @teamsuper2001
    @teamsuper2001 5 років тому +1

    5:00--- 5:06 "listen linda listen"😭😂😂

  • @kerrisagovender105
    @kerrisagovender105 5 років тому +1

    😻😻😻😻😻😻

  • @mrcoolblueeeee
    @mrcoolblueeeee 5 років тому

    thank you 💕

  • @mill7667
    @mill7667 5 років тому +2

    Super early ❤❤❤

  • @laurenmaguire7334
    @laurenmaguire7334 5 років тому +1

    Love you superwoman ❤😋

  • @bruceyazzie8059
    @bruceyazzie8059 5 років тому

    But what if they do deserve it like a frenemy? U and colleen ballinger r interesting in a non negative way but take it the way u want 2 even though i just told u it's not negative. I love u so much, ur 1 of faves and i've been needing ur positivity cause my environment isn't really good right now so thank u. No hate.

  • @saraaalbrashdi7031
    @saraaalbrashdi7031 5 років тому +3

    love you. you truly are an inspiration to me. thank you lilly

  • @ItsMe-hjkg9
    @ItsMe-hjkg9 5 років тому +3

    I needed this so much..Im having a hard time forgiving my bestie..So confused 😭

    • @indiafrigo3217
      @indiafrigo3217 5 років тому +1

      Its Me I feel you, im sorry. it’s hard. But you’ll eventually figure it all out and make the right choices

    • @indiafrigo3217
      @indiafrigo3217 5 років тому +1

      And if you need to talk I’m here

    • @ItsMe-hjkg9
      @ItsMe-hjkg9 5 років тому

      @@indiafrigo3217 ❤️❤️❤️

  • @dolly9930
    @dolly9930 5 років тому +1

    My girl ❤️🏳️‍🌈🦄

  • @veronikajantekova5802
    @veronikajantekova5802 5 років тому +1

    Lilly, yes! I truly want to say THANK YOU. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and your points of view on different types of things in life. They are actually eye-opening and helpful. You are my best therapist. Thank you

  • @Indiakkariii
    @Indiakkariii 5 років тому

    Love u lillyyyyyyýyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyýyyyyyý😚😚😚😚😚😚
    I think am gone crazyyyy😂😂

  • @tarinitiwari5064
    @tarinitiwari5064 5 років тому +1

    I needed this advice so badly. A friend started to date my ex boyfriend as soon as we broke up and never talked to me about it or tried to see if I would be okay with it, knowing that we had had a very long and tumultuous relationship and that her being with him without asking me would hurt me. She moved away that summer and I never confronted her, but just kind of cut her off and harboured a lot of anger. I found out today that she wants to talk to me about this, and I really don't want to rehash everything I felt and went through. I think I will find it in me to forgive her so that I can stop feeling angry and resentful towards someone else, but I won't reach out to her because I'm not ready for that. If she ever contacts me, I'll tell her that while I don't think what she did was okay, I am no longer harbouring any resentment and have moved on with my life. Your words today taught me to be a better, bigger person. Thanks Lilly x

  • @care4sher188
    @care4sher188 5 років тому

    Dammittttt you hit the nail on the head....now to move forward ......bc the same person hurt me with the same mother father 🤓 thing so I think I’m out....😭🙏🏽❤️❤️❤️ Thanks Lil. You’re the best

  • @Trendy695
    @Trendy695 4 роки тому

    Lol, you have a show in 2 months... You accidentally spilled it before you were supposed to I love that😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛😛

  • @strawberryiesful
    @strawberryiesful 5 років тому

    If you don't drink some freaking water Lilly I SWEAR I will fight you lol. But like, HYDRATE YOURSELF PLEASE.

  • @savneetdulay2889
    @savneetdulay2889 5 років тому +1

    Hi

  • @basmabraima797
    @basmabraima797 5 років тому

    When is "A little late with Lilly" gonna be on TV and on which channel ☺

  • @michellearias1223
    @michellearias1223 5 років тому

    Lilly You bring this up and I'm glad you did. IM SO HAPPY for your new show but am deeply saddened because you REALLY don't know what you got yourself into. You will not be able to TRUST NO1 in NBC besides YOUR TEAM. Please talk to your friend Charlize Theron and have her explain the entertainment business to you because YOU are THEIR PRODUCT/MONEY and YOU LILLy the human being/feeling/ DOES NOT Matter. At first they will butter you up but DONT trust them, You will soon find out. Hope what you gain Money, Career success, Fame, Acuaintances is WORTH the LOSS of Peace, Love, Trust of people that's how the celebrities grow and evolve due to the entertainment business. But I LOVE YOU and will see Your show. Happy 4th of July have a beautiful day♡.

  • @shabz09
    @shabz09 5 років тому

    Lilly ..its been so long we have seen ur parents... is all ok between u guys ? Did they accept your pride?

  • @Wyvern1358
    @Wyvern1358 5 років тому +1

    "Forgives others for you not for them."
    I didn't need that personal attack😂

  • @_laurie_
    @_laurie_ 5 років тому

    this is the best explanation i've ever heard on forgiveness. so so helpful. i actually clapped during it. CLAPPED!

  • @stevieblum4770
    @stevieblum4770 5 років тому

    anyone else think their phone was going off when lilly's did? cuz same. DO YOU BOO LOVE YOU QUEEN

  • @stefannybrand885
    @stefannybrand885 5 років тому

    Soooooo freaking wise!!!! I just admire you a lot! Thank you so much! Really helps

  • @aquamarineentertainers2062
    @aquamarineentertainers2062 5 років тому +1

    It's 11:57pm here in India and the only reason I'm still awake is for this video.😄

  • @gaurig7215
    @gaurig7215 5 років тому

    This is #forgiveness thought was so damn deep and it changed my perception in 180 degree ..girl your are just told the secret of avoiding grudges ..I am still processing and getting this new perception .. thanks for being there..Lilly love you girl.. !!!

  • @zarah8176
    @zarah8176 5 років тому

    Hey Lilly Singh omg love u so so so much pls it would be a pleasure if u could reply back ilysm ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @kadiykay7746
    @kadiykay7746 5 років тому +1

    Love youuuu Lily sooo much a fan from Morocco ❤❤❤ ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @pineappledorothychannel8494
    @pineappledorothychannel8494 5 років тому

    That was very well said. 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @z.k.7018
    @z.k.7018 5 років тому

    ain't you sick and tired complaining about your period every month , How did you get green card for the USA. You only visiting USA. did you get married for green card

  • @maabamer658
    @maabamer658 5 років тому +1

    I love u soo much ❤️❤️

  • @Elizabeth-vj9mm
    @Elizabeth-vj9mm 3 роки тому

    3:38 I totally have that same scrunchie! It's literally from Amazon. How did I not notice this before??

  • @mhoney83
    @mhoney83 5 років тому

    I cannot forgive the person I live with because she lost my trust and respect. She hit me at 4am because she forgot the door code and her keys. She was drunk AF and high AF and lashed out at me. Called me all sorts of names so I called the cops. Yes I did. She put 3 holes in my door as well. I don't feel comfortable living here and because of that I'm eating less and stressing more. I need to meal prep and she is always home and the kitchen is always a disaster. What do I do to overcome that fear?! Like I'm being real here. I got 27 days left here.

  • @FlyFox_Art
    @FlyFox_Art 5 років тому

    I get what you're saying but think you can give those two meanings different names: forgiving and moving on. You can move on but refuse to trust the person who hurt you. Forgive yourself&stop blaming yourself bc you simply didn't know better&couldn't have avoided it, but you don't have to forgive the person who hurt you.

  • @winniethomas4769
    @winniethomas4769 5 років тому

    Like..for real though... who be looking good with break out all over the face though... her!... make me sick! ..with love!

  • @dianelopes3821
    @dianelopes3821 5 років тому

    Thanks sooo much for the info on forgiveness.. I have been divorced for about 8yrs now. And can't bring myself to forgive as yet..

  • @ruchikaarya6587
    @ruchikaarya6587 3 роки тому

    Beautiful just beautiful. So deep and meaningful. Forgiveness does not mean that you invite the person back into your life. So true.