thatweirdgirleverywhere i feel like you dont have to specificaly be experienced in relationships to be able to advise people in them, you can just have more people smarts you know ;P
I think people who haven't had that much experience with relationships give the best advice because they're not hurt or messed up yet you know they can see things from a clearer perspective
I wish EVERYBODY has as much common sense as you. You nailed everything. I'm 13 and at my school so many people already are dating and act like there so mature, when in reality we are kids and should just be worrying about school and our friends. Sure it's normal to have a crush, but seriously is it necessary to be in a ALL TEXTING relationship where you are apparently in "love" with each other. People through that word around WAY too much. To be in love takes time and full commitment. Most adults don't even know what true love is. I'm sure some people can relate to this.
Keep that mentality! You will end up happier through the rest of junior high and highschool. Don't take relationships too seriously if you do end up in one in middle school. I wish you the best of luck through the rest of your school years. :^)
Who says you're not a legit relationship adviser? You may express or deliver it in a funny way but girl, your words are always hitting on the right spot. Basically the truth, yes.
Joy A ikr, me before a test: omg I know everything! I'm gunna get a 100!! me during the test: LOL LOOK AT ME, PRETENDING LIKE I KNEW STUFF YEAH RIGHT WTF IS THIS
i agree with the friend that leaves when they get into a relationship. i had a best friend that left me when she got a boyfriend, and when he dumped her, she had no other friends and when she came back to me asking for forgiveness, i was like we never even talked in 8 months.... you didn't even come to my grandmas funeral because you had a movie date with your boyfriend.....
ashawashaaa You don't need that type of person in your life, if she wants to be your friend she should have at least put some effort in hanging out with you or something.
Hey...tbh I know where your coming from as in she didn't talk to you for such a long period of time...and this is fair if she has not its fair from you not to want to be friends with her but she has got no one, and breaking up with a person love is REALLY hard and I think she loved him because of how much time she spent with him..so maybe give her an other chance? But same time since she didn't come to his fureral etc just bc of a movie date this is pretty cold...anyways goodluck to you to her and its your decision in the end x btw r icon is so cute
Hi, I guess you forgot about one, and it's the fact that some people they claim to love you the firsts month and then after time passes by you realize that they're trying to change who you are. They claim to like your personality, but then they say: "I don't like this thing nor that thing" (messing with your hair style, way of getting dressed, your music taste and stuff like that ), they trynna change you, but you're there wondering "Do I really need to change?" and you ask him/her "But what's wrong with it? it's how I am" and then they say "I'd like you more if you..."... Dude, get away from those people. They don't love you, they love the idea of you!
Or, because you are young and naive and don't know your own worth, you actually try to be the person your significant other wants you to be. And then there comes the point where you ask yourself why you are so god damn miserable in your "happy" relationship.
I think toooo many young girls (12-15yo) think their life is nothing without a boyfriend. Like get real girl, there's more important things in life than that! And when they get a douchebag boyfriend, they complain that all guys are the same. No honey no, you were just in too much of a hurry to get laid.
I am 14, and I feel so uncomfortable knowing that girls amlost 4 yeara younger than me have boyfriends. Like, what's the point? You either gonna date him for 8 years and get married or dump him before then. And those 'relationships' are mostly just the occasional hug or hand holding. Seriously girls, get your shit together.
My friend(12) be saying this guy in my class likes her and that he flirts with her...My bff's sister told him that(cuz they friends) and he was all like "WHAT!!??" She's a hopeless romantic likeeee she's WAAAY to blinded by "Love." Like don't get me wrong I had a bf when I was like 7 because all my friends were getting into relationships now I'm Just Like HELLL NOOOOO. :3
The first one really got to me... I do really depend on people a lot for happiness without even realizing it because I simply hate myself and my life. I dunno, being transgender, having social anxiety disorder, and being just plain insecure about every aspect of myself, I have to rely on other people for positivity or else I'd end up going mad and most definitely killing myself. It's scary to think that it's not good or healthy to depend on other people because I really don't know how to make myself happy and I don't think I have the strength to try...
Its okay, I depend on other people a lot for happiness too but to be honest, that makes me happy and people around me would tell me if they are sick of it but this video is sort of telling people how to live their lives but you don't have to follow it if you don't want to, I'm not going to. If depending on other people makes you happier, do that :)
It got to me too. I'm disabled and have no choice but to depend on people even though I want my independence. I also have severe anxiety, insecurity, self hatred and a skin picking ocd. Honestly, I think I would kill myself if I didn't have people around to motivate me into finding my own happiness. Depending on people is never a bad thing if you're going through depression or bad times. It may feel like you're being a burden to others but if they truly love and care about you, they will not mind. It's so hard and scary getting out of a vicious cycle of depression so severe that you don't even recognize who you are, but finding the strength to depend on others is the bravest and most difficult thing you can do for yourself. In this case, I like to think of depending on others as a temporary crutch until you find yourself and your own happiness.
You are capable to depend on yourself and that will make you feel happier and stronger... i was a person who constantly depends on others and didn't like myself ..in fact, I couldn't stand being alone :( But thanks God I improved myself after reading books and watching videos about self improvement It is really nice to feel that you have the power to do any thing and to have people around you when you are in need... it feels amazing to have a voice and to be a leader... I don't want you to live your life like that, so think about this issue and try to help yourself by reading or asking experts... acknowledge your weaknesses and try to fix them :) Feeling insecure is just like a stone on your heart and is really hurtful and when all that feelings goes away you will feel so happy that i can't even describe your success will surely comes after you feel happy and confident NOT the opposite ;) k? Sorry if there is some grammar or spelling mistakes...English is not my mother tongue , I'm actually an Arab
My boyfriend was totally 100% an example of a fake start. Don't worry, I ended up loving who he was anyways and we've been together for two years. But he's practically unrecognizable from the guy I met personality-wise. XD
From "people are not in your life to fulfill your every need" to no signs of a healthy relationship on Facebook, I absolutely agree with everything you said. Funny that you post a video of this after I ended my relationship. We didn't make the 2-5 mistakes, but #1 was the big reason it had to end. Thank you for being my voice of reason!
Girl tell me about it, he went from two weeks since we started dating- putting effort, texting me everyday, calling me cute names and flirting and being interested in getting to know me, wanting to hanging out with me...to dropping the communication, distant and not making time for us.
This girl is a real superwoman! All girls should be like you, you are all yourself in every video not like these "beauty gurus" who fake everything in their videos making girls look stupid. You're so real and this video advice is just amaazing and soo true, it probably took you a long time to make but it ended up being a video that every one have to refer to, especially girls who depend too much on their men
My deal with cheating is that one will cheat if they don't want to be with me, and if you don't want to be with me, I don't want to be with you. Why would I want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me? I will rather be single than with the wrong person.
I think dats a load of crap! What if a person knows ur the right person for them but they don't know how to express that and have even freaked themselves out because of it! Are you saying you'd through away what could b the best relationship u ever endure or the love of your life because one time when u were young they went home with some1 and did something stupid. U may now b thinking they still did it so its over! But where does that leave u? Without the love of your life!
+Sabrina Spring all she said was if you can't trust your partner then you shouldn't b with them I understand some people are no good at showing their emotions but cheating is wrong and people deserve better so if the cheater Is lucky enough to be given a second chance they should never do it again cuz they new it was wrong the first time if te cheater ID scared of thier own emotions try need to grow up and stop hurting the person they "love" so ya let the jerk go of they don't treat you right in every way mistakes will b made but both should b striving for loving the partner better
My best friend dropped me after he got into a relationship. It wasn't even gradual, he got into the relationship and then immediately I never heard from him. We're now acquaintances at best and rarely talk. I'm stuck between, "Yo, fuck 'im" and hoping they break up so I can have my 'bestie' back. I should probably just move on and find some new people to talk to, but I haven't met another person I could call 'best friend' and barely anyone I could call just 'friend.' He and I were close friends for years. *Years.* And he drops me like that. I dunno if I should be bitter, sad, or laugh at it. All I know is, if they break up, I might not be here for him. I'm tired of being peoples' backup.
I know how you feel because I have been in your place before and if they break up and he tries to come back to you I think you should just tell him that you don't wanna be friends with someone who would drop you just like that every time a hot girl walks by,find your REAL friends because life is too short to love people with all your heart who don't love you just as much and who aren't there for you like you're there for them.and I know its hard to find someone you could call your best friend but you'll meet them eventually,like I said I have been in your place before and I found someone that showed me how true friends act and what they do.
I know exactly how you feel,me and my "best friend" have been with each other since we were born,really. We stuck to each other like glue but then, BAM! Secondary school! As soon as we stepped in there,a boy came up to us and was damn rude! My friend was rude back,then,it stopped. The next thing I knew,is that they're going out, my friend has been dumped numerous times,but she still goes back to him! The other bad,annoying thing,is that she's a gossiper now,so whenever something happened between them,she immediantly goes to me. I don't wanna hear her problems when I've got my own! I chose to go to the school that I now hate,because I wanted to be with her,but now,I've seen many other people who are my BEST friends,and they all go to a different school. The school that I'm trying to get in. But when I tell her,IN CONFIDENCE, she has the nerve to BEG me not to go! Like I'm gonna listen to a girl who only comes to me when she wants to gossip about her boyfriend. Like I'm gonna listen to her! Anyway,sorry for ranting on about my sucky life,hope this helped! See ya in my next rant!
the think about best friends is that you can say what you want to them and you can be honest with them. If you want closure, send him a message or tell him face to face that he was a shitty friend for doing what he did to you. It will help you move on easier
Okay so i understand where your coming from but for me is the other way around i dont let my boyfriend talk to his "sister/Bestie" because that girl is something else i know maybe for u hes just a friend thats all u see him as but my boyfriend and his bestie he told me she liked him ._. And she always bumping our relationship always telling him like brake up with me and all these things now that has stopped we live together having a baby but in my mind im always like what if she comes back . I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with just lies involved. I would want to leave but now i have to think about my baby is complicated
You know that trend on social media where people put their boyfriend/girlfriend's initials in their biography with a love heart after it? That gives me cancer... And makes me feel lonely 😔
Katy_XO The Weeknd it's never too late but being in a relationship is quite fun (I personally don't know as I've never been in one but I know lots of people who are)! Good luck ! I hope you have a wonderful experience with yours.
I'm really digging this. I had the boyfriend who I tried to police into monogamy and all I got was a side bitch threatening my life. Got out of that, took some serious me time and met a wonderful man who is more into PDA's than I am and shows me off to the world. We've been together almost 2 years and there have been no side bitch phone calls, no side bitch late night texting, no side bitches posing as a "cousin", very little drama. It is so much more peaceful and fun on the other side of bullshit. I can never see myself going back to that type of foolishness and chaos again. Codependency is for the turds!
stephanie _ it’s not just for romantic relationships it’s also for family,friends etc relationships.Literally any relationships tbh.Cuz that’s what she said 😺
Omg I totally relate to the "leaning tower" ship -_- I have a friend who gets depressed a lot and whenever she needs someone to talk to, I'm there for her which is totally fine...... But she's come to rely on me SO much. Like she NEEDS me to tell her she's doing good, or to push her to do things, or fix all her problems. If I don't, she messages me until I do. I've lived on my own since I was 17 and I can't really relate to that. I would be fine with it if she listened to me too once in awhile, but she never does. When I try to tell her stuff that I'm struggling with, she flips it back to herself like "wow that really sucks.... Do you know what else sucks? Today I... (ect.)" It's frustrating and it kind of hurts. Like hi I have stuff I want to vent too! Even though she says I'm her best friend, it's totally one sided :(
+Heather Kaylie YES. I understand this COMPLETELY! It is really messed up, and somehow they always manage to make anything about you, about them. Or? They just go "Awww, I'm sorry. That sucks." and then change the subject quickly. I had a friend exactly like this, even tried pointing it out to her. She AGREED, and then... nothing changed. Went right back to the world revolving all around her tragic life. Friendship is a two-way street, I think a lot of people don't realize that. My only advice would be... to maybe try talking to her about it, and then point it out AS she's doing it. At appropriate times of course, never when she tells you something extreme like "Oh my dad died." or something, but I think you're smart enough to figure that out. c: Good luck!
Oh mu god I can totally relate! Sometimes when I'm talking to my friends abt some stuff there always has to be there this one friend who'll cut me and talk to me abt his/her life it's really annoying. By the end of it I can write a whole book on this person
+Sprinkleyourbeauty I'm a writer ^^ It's hard for me to abbreviate things. I don't talk as much face to face because I'm very animated. I rely on my actions and facial expressions to make you realize whether I'm joking or am serious. I don't have that option online. Even emojis can be taken the wrong way. so.... When it doubt..... Write!! ^^
I'm in a relationship at the moment, and I can agree with you on a lot of things you said. The only problem I have is that number 3 is happening to me cause I feel like I'm getting pushed away by my friends, I'm sure they don't mean it, but I kinda notice it started when I got into a relationship, I try to talk with them and hang out with them, but....... You understand right?
Sara Owen Things that I might think: 1) They feel like they are somewhat violating your relationship 2)They feel abandoned or not used to their friends not hanging out with them a lot 3) Or they push you away by lessening the pain of being jealous or something along the lines of that 4) You might be over thinking it 5) Other reasons (they could have their own issues to deal with etc etc)6) Make sure you don't give that feeling of boyfriend/girlfriend over friends (Just in case)
My girlfriend and I each have one restriction for the other Her's for me I cannot touch the leftover nässelsoppa if she's sick, she probably wants to eat it. Mine for her If Alexander Rybak comes on the radio, she is not allowed to change it until the song is done, for I am his ultimate fangirl.
Preach superwoman, I'm 13 and my friends have already had 8+ boyfriends(not at the same time) and I haven't had one. My friends are always like " u need a boyfirend to make u happy" and im like no, I really don't. And half the time their relationships dont even last 2'weeks. They are already thinking about sex, and i've talked to them before that we are kids, and that we should just play outside in the snow. And when one of their relationships last longer that 1 week, they use me just to talk on oovoo with their boyfriends cause they dont have Ipads, ive figured that out so now i dont allow them to come over if they arent gonna talk or play with me. And after that point they arent my friends for like a week until their relatinships dont work out and they need someone to cry to after they've befriended them, right now im really questioning if i should eve call the my frriends. God please help my friends and knock some sense into them
Hopefully this doesn't' t come out too blunt, but you need a new group of friends. Get friends that will help you and not use you, and as for your other friends... They can have fun being on Sixteen and Pregnant
I know how that feels because my friends are always saying that I should get a life and date someone. I am tired of this and I need to tell them that we are just kids and why have a boyfriend when you don't do absolutely nothing with them?
If I was in a relationship and my partner put restrictions on me like tells me not to go somewhere or to hang out with people I would instantly break up with them right there on the spot
I totally agree with ppl who "broadcast" their relationship on facebook. I mean, seriously, why do ppl feel the need to "show-off" that they are in a relationship? I know of this one friend who whenever they get into a relationship, their status says 'in a relationship' and will even post a picture of themselves together AND everyone will be posting underneath that picture saying how cute they look. I think this friend is merely looking for a validation from her friends and is an attention seeker if you ask me. I never ever post a pic of any of my relationships online but then again I'm a very private person. I don't need the entire world to know who I'm dating, where I'm going with that person. Some ppl are attention seekers and that's really sad.
I would post pictures once in a while we are doing something fun or memorable, maybe while when i'm just in the mood hanging out, but it;s annoying when people post pictures of them kissing or most of their pics are both of them together.
Best part is when they're suddenly single again, they hide their relationship status and only make it visible again when they think no one will notice lol
THIS VIDEO WAS POSTED EXCATLY TWO YEARS AGO!! I'm so proud of you Lilly and I can't believe how far you've gone with your music video and meeting the rock and writing a book!! I'm so happy that all of us ( team supper ) had a part in help YOU get to where you are now. Love you so much and hope you get even farther❤️❤️
My girlfriend actually wrote me a poem! Hold on, I'll write it here: Roses are black, Violets are black, Life is black, My heart is black. Loneliness. Pain. Screams. A pony died in a forest, I shed no tears. Do you think she's trying to tell me something or am I reading too deep into this?
no idea it could be anything feeling like it sounds dark and twisted in opinion because it has a pony died in a forest i shed no tears and it has roses are black violet is black i pretty sure they aren't black or they are and i am completely stupid
I pray to God you read this, because it is very important. Superwoman, you are the reason I met my best friend. One day, I heard this girl singing #leh, and I asked her is she was, and she was shocked I knew it. We've been best friends since September and have already gone to California Adventures together because of you. We've convinced our other friends to watch you. Now our handshake is your outro, and our group name is the superwoman squad. Thank you soooooo much for started UA-cam, and giving me my best friend in the whole world. If you never existed, neither would the best friendship I've ever had. I love you so much. Love, Natalie (aka 1/6 of the superwoman squad)
Woah, the story of my best friend and I got 165 likes. I seriously thought nobody would see this. I still have hope that Lilly will see this. Lilly, if you do, Pleeease respond.
I don't like it that my boyfriend goes out to party and drinks. I know he goes out with his friend's and they keep him safe. I'm so scared of him finding someone else, sleeping with someone else, and or getting drunk and get hurt. He doesn't have an issue with drinking. I just never liked it. However, I just watched this video and it kinda think about it... I have my insecurities that I should just get over. I can't keep worrying about it when all in all, I know I remained faithful. I should just tell him to go. I've even said this like Lily did. If you have to set things on someone to remain loyal to you, you need someone better. Thanks for making me be more open minded. (:
I was nodding my head throughout her his entire video! More people need to think like this! This is exactly how I feel about all relationships too. Thank you for this video. I love you Lilly ❤❤❤
Im 16 and i have to deal with friends in relationships who put their Facebook profile picture AND their cover photo of the EXACT SAME kissy couple photo! Jesus, man! They look like twelvies!
+Natalie Herondale The 5 minute "couples" who hug, kiss and hold hands and then break up 5 minutes later! Seriously dude why?!?! I'm going out w/ this guy and we go to different schools, but when we see eachother we aren't like omg! I love you! KISSY KISSY! ew...
Commenting on that last one, am I the only one who hates kissing selfies? As a serious question, I want to know why people do it. I just don't understand. Maybe I'm just a really private person but I don't understand the point of it. :P
Exactly ! If you two actually made proper photos with an actual camera cuz you want to send some to your family or to put them in your room Or IDEK and you want to share one of these quality well photos on a social media side im totally down for that. but i really dont see the point in posting some wishy photos of your and your siginificant other kissing. I don't know who likes looking at that. Really.
Omg high 5 ! I'm also 18 and tomorrow will be another lonely valentines day ! Aaaaaaaand no one ever kissed me and I feel like a piece of shit sometimes. FOREVER ALONE .
My friend always puts her boyfriend before everybody else.. Like we were planning to have this whole weekend like hangout and have a sleepover and go to the mall and all this other stuff, but her boyfriend wouldn't let us.. Last time I checked he's not her parent/guardian.. He doesn't let her sit with us at lunch or let us hang out.. And she doesn't realize this! She thinks he's the best thing in the whole entire world!
Yes i totally agree with you. And i wanna even ask you something.. What if your bf tells you not to talk to a certain guy because if he was your ex?...
Alisha panjwani. But sometimes people break up and decide that they are better off being just friends. And if that's the case then your boyfriend should not be telling you that you can't hang out with him.
You are so right on the first one. That's one of the reasons my relationship with my previous boyfriend failed. It was always my responsibility to make him happy when he was sad, to keep him happy, to always have time for him just in case he got upset for some reason. At least it felt this way.
My three year old cousin had a husband at three.....they even had a wedding.....and plastic rings like the cheesey ones u get at the dentist......and cupcakes her friend Aubrey was the brides maid and Zoey was the flower girl.....but it was fake and adorable Maribel+David=❤️❤️❤️ adorable love😄😄😄😄😄
I agree with you on everything. I used to be all these things in my past relationship yrs ago. Nowadays, I'm changing myself for the better & still figuring out who I am in my own life everyday. Lovy you Lilly. 💛🖒😙
Okay paused video. It's kinda hard to find happiness in yourself when you absolutely hate yourself, struggle with anxiety disorder, server depression, being sducidal and use to struggle with self harm. What if finding happiness in other people is the only form of happiness you have? People tell me all the time to find happiness in myself than put that on people. It's really not like it's a heavy weight they have to carry because it's just like I feel okay and happy when I talk to you and hang out with you but I keep that to myself. I'm not trying to get attention here whatsoever just trying to make a point that it's not always your decision if you put your happiness in others.
The problem is...people are unreliable. If your source of happiness is outside yourself, you are always at the mercy of that object/person. Finding happiness within yourself means getting at the root of your issues and learning to be ok with who you are without external validation. It takes a lot of work but you become a more stable person that way.
It's easy to tell people to just think positively and work harder to achieve what they want...depression is often co-morbid with other mood disorders like anxiety and sometimes that person CANT help but think and feel negatively ALL/MOST of the time. it's not a choice that they can easily make, it's kind of a part of the way their brain is changing (the way they interpret the world around them, themselves, and the future)-it's called cognitive biases. For a depressed person, mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain, but it is more common and also more hard to bear. The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden: it is easier to say "my tooth is aching" than to say my heart is broken....my point is this. Some of us DO need others to make us happy. And we are aware that this might be burdensome on the people we rely on.-but having a sense of belonging gives us a sense of identity, And let's face it EVERYBODY relies on somebody-it's only when you KNOW that you have somebody who will always be there for you, only then will you feel supported and safe to be on your own and be okay with who you are.
to the person above...I dealt with depression, ADHD, PTSD and anxiety for over 10 years. Relying on others can only provide a temporary escape and unless these people are your family members (and awesome ones at that), the burden becomes too heavy and people will leave you... Only way to have healthy relationships with others is to work on your issues (with the help of a therapist, support group, etc) in order to be able to comfort those feelings yourself for the most part...
My point was that...you first have to KNOW that someone is there for you. knowing that fact alone gives people a sense of security to explore the world, except their thoughts and be okay with who they are.you can have a therapist, but they are not like family and friends. it's because they don't feel like they have anybody that brings the lack of self worth. And anyways I've been through depression for many years myself and I work as a clinical neuropsychologists...so I kinda have seen both sides of this story.
You've helped me get out of my depression. I don't know how, but this video has changed my mind to commit suicide. You've said just the right words. Thank you.
God created u as a loving complete spirit, dont take ur life just cuz u havent realized who u are. The Good will overcome the bad if u have enough faith nd learn not to surrender to the evil in the world. Do pray everyday nd u will see how God will lead u. I didnt believe in God until 5 years ago cuz God answered my prayer. since that Im convinced that the Good is the real truth, but u must have faith nd trust. love from Germany
Okay, so in friendships, I end up being a leaning tower NOT in the way that I depend on them for everything, but if I'm upset I need someone to talk to me about it. Constantly. It's one of the most annoying things about me, but I just wanted to see if anyone can relate.
OMG do you remember like 2nd grade it was so easy you told your friend you like someone, they tell them, your crush tells you friend to ask you if you wanted to be his girlfriend, then you tell your friends to tell him yes 😂😂 easy as pie
lilly claims she's not good at relationships but she literally gives the BEST advices.
well usually people that's not in relationship actually give the best advice.i mean come on, maybe thats probably why she is single :D
annie ayhhhnn
thatweirdgirleverywhere i feel like you dont have to specificaly be experienced in relationships to be able to advise people in them, you can just have more people smarts you know ;P
I think people who haven't had that much experience with relationships give the best advice because they're not hurt or messed up yet you know they can see things from a clearer perspective
Hann De Grave Loyson speak the truth🙋🏾🗣
I wish EVERYBODY has as much common sense as you. You nailed everything. I'm 13 and at my school so many people already are dating and act like there so mature, when in reality we are kids and should just be worrying about school and our friends. Sure it's normal to have a crush, but seriously is it necessary to be in a ALL TEXTING relationship where you are apparently in "love" with each other. People through that word around WAY too much. To be in love takes time and full commitment. Most adults don't even know what true love is. I'm sure some people can relate to this.
Why can't there be more people like you...?
Hah, thanks.
You said we have to be focused on school while you spelled the word throw wrong?!
LAnnya YuKamel If you correct my English I correct your face, okey? **what up super woman meme refrence**
Keep that mentality! You will end up happier through the rest of junior high and highschool. Don't take relationships too seriously if you do end up in one in middle school. I wish you the best of luck through the rest of your school years. :^)
Dont worry if your single, singles are the best in the album
You know what's in the combo ;)
That made my day lol
Im gonna screenshot this comment n keep it.:D
You win the internet..nuff said
BEST.COMMENT.EVER
Who says you're not a legit relationship adviser? You may express or deliver it in a funny way but girl, your words are always hitting on the right spot. Basically the truth, yes.
her degree in phsycology really shows in this video
Leila Wald I know right! Its so amazing
me _ exactly dude
leila w Ya, I use some her quotes in speech making.
I think it she should be given a degree in common sense cause she is so good at it
leila w no u didnt
"Look at me, pretending to know stuff."
Me taking a test HA
Sameee
Joy A ikr, me before a test: omg I know everything! I'm gunna get a 100!!
me during the test: LOL LOOK AT ME, PRETENDING LIKE I KNEW STUFF YEAH RIGHT WTF IS THIS
lol😂
Oksana Khoruzhenko 😂😂😂😂
ikr
Dear Superwoman,
Us single folk won't be sad watching this video.
We'll be pointing fingers at people we know.
amen
2besties lol XD so true
Truth
So true
Yup pretty much 😂
Dat psychology degree paid off
For realllll she should actually be a therapist or psychologist
Dang! Lilly took us to church like Hozier.
😂😂 lol
Lol
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Lol! I love you
She freaking gets everything right. Superwoman is so smart.
Swimming Poet psychology degree
i agree with the friend that leaves when they get into a relationship. i had a best friend that left me when she got a boyfriend, and when he dumped her, she had no other friends and when she came back to me asking for forgiveness, i was like we never even talked in 8 months.... you didn't even come to my grandmas funeral because you had a movie date with your boyfriend.....
And how old r u
U HAVE LIKE NOTHING ON YOUT CHANNEL
Fnaf Champion im 15 and i log into different accounts because my other channel has songs and school projects with friends on it
ashawashaaa You don't need that type of person in your life, if she wants to be your friend she should have at least put some effort in hanging out with you or something.
Hey...tbh I know where your coming from as in she didn't talk to you for such a long period of time...and this is fair if she has not its fair from you not to want to be friends with her but she has got no one, and breaking up with a person love is REALLY hard and I think she loved him because of how much time she spent with him..so maybe give her an other chance? But same time since she didn't come to his fureral etc just bc of a movie date this is pretty cold...anyways goodluck to you to her and its your decision in the end x btw r icon is so cute
Hi, I guess you forgot about one, and it's the fact that some people they claim to love you the firsts month and then after time passes by you realize that they're trying to change who you are. They claim to like your personality, but then they say: "I don't like this thing nor that thing" (messing with your hair style, way of getting dressed, your music taste and stuff like that ), they trynna change you, but you're there wondering "Do I really need to change?" and you ask him/her "But what's wrong with it? it's how I am" and then they say "I'd like you more if you..."...
Dude, get away from those people. They don't love you, they love the idea of you!
Or, because you are young and naive and don't know your own worth, you actually try to be the person your significant other wants you to be. And then there comes the point where you ask yourself why you are so god damn miserable in your "happy" relationship.
Oh my gosh dude, you gonna be the next Lilly Singh!
Lilly is my life therapist ❤️
Lilly is everyone's life therapist. 😊😏😉
+hello world fr
Yuuh, mine too!
Yeeeeeeees
Lol😂
Ok that lollipop/doctor analogy was actually revolutionary
Devin Ozmon yes
Yes
True. true.
Damn yeahhhh
I think toooo many young girls (12-15yo) think their life is nothing without a boyfriend. Like get real girl, there's more important things in life than that! And when they get a douchebag boyfriend, they complain that all guys are the same. No honey no, you were just in too much of a hurry to get laid.
Preach!
im 13 i dont need bf..im good i have
my besties..
For my school its like 11+ its disturbing, like seriously
I am 14, and I feel so uncomfortable knowing that girls amlost 4 yeara younger than me have boyfriends. Like, what's the point? You either gonna date him for 8 years and get married or dump him before then. And those 'relationships' are mostly just the occasional hug or hand holding. Seriously girls, get your shit together.
My friend(12) be saying this guy in my class likes her and that he flirts with her...My bff's sister told him that(cuz they friends) and he was all like "WHAT!!??" She's a hopeless romantic likeeee she's WAAAY to blinded by "Love."
Like don't get me wrong I had a bf when I was like 7 because all my friends were getting into relationships now I'm Just Like HELLL NOOOOO. :3
I think I'm at the stage where I'm clicking "Thumbs Up" before the video even begins, lol.
Same here fam!!!!!!!!!
SAME
The first one really got to me... I do really depend on people a lot for happiness without even realizing it because I simply hate myself and my life. I dunno, being transgender, having social anxiety disorder, and being just plain insecure about every aspect of myself, I have to rely on other people for positivity or else I'd end up going mad and most definitely killing myself. It's scary to think that it's not good or healthy to depend on other people because I really don't know how to make myself happy and I don't think I have the strength to try...
I do too, it's okay. :)
If you have the luxury to depend on other people then that's great. Don't take it to heart.
Its okay, I depend on other people a lot for happiness too but to be honest, that makes me happy and people around me would tell me if they are sick of it but this video is sort of telling people how to live their lives but you don't have to follow it if you don't want to, I'm not going to. If depending on other people makes you happier, do that :)
Stop defining yourself if you wanna be free. To define is to confine. Wish you have a great day.
It got to me too. I'm disabled and have no choice but to depend on people even though I want my independence. I also have severe anxiety, insecurity, self hatred and a skin picking ocd. Honestly, I think I would kill myself if I didn't have people around to motivate me into finding my own happiness.
Depending on people is never a bad thing if you're going through depression or bad times. It may feel like you're being a burden to others but if they truly love and care about you, they will not mind. It's so hard and scary getting out of a vicious cycle of depression so severe that you don't even recognize who you are, but finding the strength to depend on others is the bravest and most difficult thing you can do for yourself. In this case, I like to think of depending on others as a temporary crutch until you find yourself and your own happiness.
You are capable to depend on yourself and that will make you feel happier and stronger... i was a person who constantly depends on others and didn't like myself ..in fact, I couldn't stand being alone :(
But thanks God I improved myself after reading books and watching videos about self improvement
It is really nice to feel that you have the power to do any thing and to have people around you when you are in need... it feels amazing to have a voice and to be a leader...
I don't want you to live your life like that, so think about this issue and try to help yourself by reading or asking experts...
acknowledge your weaknesses and try to fix them :)
Feeling insecure is just like a stone on your heart and is really hurtful and when all that feelings goes away you will feel so happy that i can't even describe
your success will surely comes after you feel happy and confident NOT the opposite ;) k?
Sorry if there is some grammar or spelling mistakes...English is not my mother tongue , I'm actually an Arab
biggest problem is rushing into a relationship with someone who obviously isn't loyal just because you "Like" them.
It's much easier to hear this from someone who isn't family or friends. This was a great video.
everybody : lilly gives so good relatuionship advice why are you still single?
lilli : coaches neva play
Cause she knows the pros and cons
Everything I've ever thought about relationships verbalised in one video, you killed it Lily!
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+Megan Rodricks totally agreed!!!
+Megan Rodricks ha
Do THIS if you feel he's about to BAIL on you facebook.com/The-Bonding-Code-964550660328328/?sk=app_208195102528120
the amount of preach in this video
I just subscribed too you like 2 hours ago ! :D
I couldn't agree more.
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My boyfriend was totally 100% an example of a fake start.
Don't worry, I ended up loving who he was anyways and we've been together for two years. But he's practically unrecognizable from the guy I met personality-wise. XD
girl same
I am dating some wonderful....... Aka my Netflix account
Pople Nikomple same tho
Girl for me it's the wind 💀💀💀
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The comment I can relate to😂😂
Same
Yes Lily!! This was perfect!! PREACH!!
True
tell'em
AMEN
Omg Amber!!!
lolololololololo
From "people are not in your life to fulfill your every need" to no signs of a healthy relationship on Facebook, I absolutely agree with everything you said. Funny that you post a video of this after I ended my relationship. We didn't make the 2-5 mistakes, but #1 was the big reason it had to end. Thank you for being my voice of reason!
I so agree with the "fake start" oh boy...which I could read the future
Girl tell me about it, he went from two weeks since we started dating- putting effort, texting me everyday, calling me cute names and flirting and being interested in getting to know me, wanting to hanging out with me...to dropping the communication, distant and not making time for us.
“Do not get rid of them” DANNNNG THAT HIT IN THE FEELS
This girl is a real superwoman! All girls should be like you, you are all yourself in every video not like these "beauty gurus" who fake everything in their videos making girls look stupid. You're so real and this video advice is just amaazing and soo true, it probably took you a long time to make but it ended up being a video that every one have to refer to, especially girls who depend too much on their men
Two Rules We Should All Live By : Don't Make Promises You Can't Keep.
Don't Ever Treat A Girl Like A Game Or She'll Show You How To Play
"Amen"!
At last someone saying what i was thinking for years 😅
Mmmhm damn right
hell yes
U damn right
"Look at me! Pretending like I know stuff!!"
This is literally me with every advice I give.
I am married to my high school sweetheart, we've been together for over seven years, and I agree with this video :)
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My deal with cheating is that one will cheat if they don't want to be with me, and if you don't want to be with me, I don't want to be with you. Why would I want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me? I will rather be single than with the wrong person.
Preach🙌🏼
+KiraEileen OMG you couldn't be more right!!! you nailed it!!!
I think dats a load of crap! What if a person knows ur the right person for them but they don't know how to express that and have even freaked themselves out because of it! Are you saying you'd through away what could b the best relationship u ever endure or the love of your life because one time when u were young they went home with some1 and did something stupid. U may now b thinking they still did it so its over! But where does that leave u? Without the love of your life!
+Sabrina Spring all she said was if you can't trust your partner then you shouldn't b with them I understand some people are no good at showing their emotions but cheating is wrong and people deserve better so if the cheater Is lucky enough to be given a second chance they should never do it again cuz they new it was wrong the first time if te cheater ID scared of thier own emotions try need to grow up and stop hurting the person they "love" so ya let the jerk go of they don't treat you right in every way mistakes will b made but both should b striving for loving the partner better
Yes!!! Someone thinks like me!!!
My best friend dropped me after he got into a relationship. It wasn't even gradual, he got into the relationship and then immediately I never heard from him. We're now acquaintances at best and rarely talk. I'm stuck between, "Yo, fuck 'im" and hoping they break up so I can have my 'bestie' back. I should probably just move on and find some new people to talk to, but I haven't met another person I could call 'best friend' and barely anyone I could call just 'friend.' He and I were close friends for years. *Years.* And he drops me like that. I dunno if I should be bitter, sad, or laugh at it.
All I know is, if they break up, I might not be here for him. I'm tired of being peoples' backup.
I know how you feel because I have been in your place before and if they break up and he tries to come back to you I think you should just tell him that you don't wanna be friends with someone who would drop you just like that every time a hot girl walks by,find your REAL friends because life is too short to love people with all your heart who don't love you just as much and who aren't there for you like you're there for them.and I know its hard to find someone you could call your best friend but you'll meet them eventually,like I said I have been in your place before and I found someone that showed me how true friends act and what they do.
I know exactly how you feel,me and my "best friend" have been with each other since we were born,really. We stuck to each other like glue but then, BAM! Secondary school! As soon as we stepped in there,a boy came up to us and was damn rude! My friend was rude back,then,it stopped. The next thing I knew,is that they're going out, my friend has been dumped numerous times,but she still goes back to him! The other bad,annoying thing,is that she's a gossiper now,so whenever something happened between them,she immediantly goes to me. I don't wanna hear her problems when I've got my own! I chose to go to the school that I now hate,because I wanted to be with her,but now,I've seen many other people who are my BEST friends,and they all go to a different school. The school that I'm trying to get in. But when I tell her,IN CONFIDENCE, she has the nerve to BEG me not to go! Like I'm gonna listen to a girl who only comes to me when she wants to gossip about her boyfriend. Like I'm gonna listen to her! Anyway,sorry for ranting on about my sucky life,hope this helped! See ya in my next rant!
the think about best friends is that you can say what you want to them and you can be honest with them. If you want closure, send him a message or tell him face to face that he was a shitty friend for doing what he did to you. It will help you move on easier
Okay so i understand where your coming from but for me is the other way around i dont let my boyfriend talk to his "sister/Bestie" because that girl is something else i know maybe for u hes just a friend thats all u see him as but my boyfriend and his bestie he told me she liked him ._. And she always bumping our relationship always telling him like brake up with me and all these things now that has stopped we live together having a baby but in my mind im always like what if she comes back . I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with just lies involved. I would want to leave but now i have to think about my baby is complicated
Keep looking for another friend your bestie isn't a true friend if he is just going to be rude like that
*I'm getting half of **EssKay Ji** 's cookie*
We're literally sitting behind Lilly waiting for her to hit 'Publish'
I got first comment this time :D well at least one of the first...now can I have a cookie? :p
Awwww,sharing is caring 😂💁😏😂
Humble, you know what's in the combo😉
CHECK OUT MY VIDEOS. I DO SKETCH COMEDY. 5😊😊😊😜😜😜😜
I know this video is 4 years old, but I agree❤
5yrs now😅😅
i agree. one of my friends is obessed with her "boyfriend" that they have their own insta account. it is ridicous
You know that trend on social media where people put their boyfriend/girlfriend's initials in their biography with a love heart after it? That gives me cancer... And makes me feel lonely 😔
fr tho . they are all like "i love you so much babe" like no you aint nothing compared to my dog
If I ever think about that it be for our cat or doggo people care about that more and make people smile more
Is it bad that I legit cringed harder than spongebob?
rachellizzy22 this is such a cringy comment line
Biggest mistake : getting in a relationship! Don't do it. These 5 mistakes won't happen. 😂
Prasanna Kumar ur right 😜👌
Prasanna Kumar тσσ ℓαтє 😪😪
Katy_XO The Weeknd it's never too late but being in a relationship is quite fun (I personally don't know as I've never been in one but I know lots of people who are)! Good luck ! I hope you have a wonderful experience with yours.
yes I agree 😂😂
Prasanna Kumar literally. Why didn't I read this a year ago
All of what she said was soooooo true
Ya the second one applies to my stupid friend
IKR
the fake start also happens with friends
1 mistake people make in relationships is being in 1...lmfao
i love your videos
Hahaha
😂
Trueeee
Omg this comment made my day 😂
I'm really digging this. I had the boyfriend who I tried to police into monogamy and all I got was a side bitch threatening my life. Got out of that, took some serious me time and met a wonderful man who is more into PDA's than I am and shows me off to the world. We've been together almost 2 years and there have been no side bitch phone calls, no side bitch late night texting, no side bitches posing as a "cousin", very little drama.
It is so much more peaceful and fun on the other side of bullshit. I can never see myself going back to that type of foolishness and chaos again. Codependency is for the turds!
Lol you go girl!!👏👏👏
You go gurl!
i love her...she helps me get over my breakup
If u wants to go in new relationship iam ready contact me on mohaebody@gmail.com you will be happy all time
Gurl u waaaayyyyyyyyyyy to goooood...sisters before misters. Fries before guys!!!!!!!!🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟🍟
I don't know why I'm watching this video like.. I've never been in a relationship and I am not close at getting into one either
stephanie _ yeah, me neither.
stephanie _ it’s not just for romantic relationships it’s also for family,friends etc relationships.Literally any relationships tbh.Cuz that’s what she said 😺
Same lol
All the single ladies, all the single ladies, put your hands up!🙋🙋🙋👐✋👋🙌
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Me me nether!
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🙋🙋🙋🙋🙋✋✋ #foreveralone
#I'm awesome.
Omg I totally relate to the "leaning tower" ship -_- I have a friend who gets depressed a lot and whenever she needs someone to talk to, I'm there for her which is totally fine...... But she's come to rely on me SO much. Like she NEEDS me to tell her she's doing good, or to push her to do things, or fix all her problems. If I don't, she messages me until I do. I've lived on my own since I was 17 and I can't really relate to that. I would be fine with it if she listened to me too once in awhile, but she never does. When I try to tell her stuff that I'm struggling with, she flips it back to herself like "wow that really sucks.... Do you know what else sucks? Today I... (ect.)" It's frustrating and it kind of hurts. Like hi I have stuff I want to vent too! Even though she says I'm her best friend, it's totally one sided :(
+Heather Kaylie YES. I understand this COMPLETELY! It is really messed up, and somehow they always manage to make anything about you, about them. Or? They just go "Awww, I'm sorry. That sucks." and then change the subject quickly. I had a friend exactly like this, even tried pointing it out to her. She AGREED, and then... nothing changed. Went right back to the world revolving all around her tragic life. Friendship is a two-way street, I think a lot of people don't realize that. My only advice would be... to maybe try talking to her about it, and then point it out AS she's doing it. At appropriate times of course, never when she tells you something extreme like "Oh my dad died." or something, but I think you're smart enough to figure that out. c: Good luck!
Oh mu god I can totally relate! Sometimes when I'm talking to my friends abt some stuff there always has to be there this one friend who'll cut me and talk to me abt his/her life it's really annoying. By the end of it I can write a whole book on this person
You mist talk alot how do u type for that long
You mist talk alot how do u type for that long
+Sprinkleyourbeauty I'm a writer ^^ It's hard for me to abbreviate things. I don't talk as much face to face because I'm very animated. I rely on my actions and facial expressions to make you realize whether I'm joking or am serious. I don't have that option online. Even emojis can be taken the wrong way. so.... When it doubt..... Write!! ^^
I love that she is so real 👑
Number 3 soo relatable! My friend literally dumps us as soon as she has a new boyfriend. And guess whaaat
She be 13!
I'm in a relationship at the moment, and I can agree with you on a lot of things you said. The only problem I have is that number 3 is happening to me cause I feel like I'm getting pushed away by my friends, I'm sure they don't mean it, but I kinda notice it started when I got into a relationship, I try to talk with them and hang out with them, but....... You understand right?
Sara Owen Things that I might think:
1) They feel like they are somewhat violating your relationship
2)They feel abandoned or not used to their friends not hanging out with them a lot
3) Or they push you away by lessening the pain of being jealous or something along the lines of that
4) You might be over thinking it
5) Other reasons (they could have their own issues to deal with etc etc)6) Make sure you don't give that feeling of boyfriend/girlfriend over friends (Just in case)
Ok, thanks
OMFG YESSSS I THOUGHT I WAS ALONE 🙌🏻
Sara Owen same thing happens with me toooo. wow.
and I can relate! u aint alone
UA-cam get with the program!! I want a LOVE button instead of a like button!!!
YAS! I know, this video is so funny and actually REALLY helpful. ❤️
Years ago they actually tried the reaction function (similar with FB now) and it failed so they just switched back to like.
Alamanda Bud Really? I didn't know that. That's cool! xD
VioletRoseLilly I think they heard you 😂 because they have heart buttons now
VioletRoseLilly violets my name, rose is my nieces name and Lily's my sisters name!!!!!
My girlfriend and I each have one restriction for the other
Her's for me
I cannot touch the leftover nässelsoppa if she's sick, she probably wants to eat it.
Mine for her
If Alexander Rybak comes on the radio, she is not allowed to change it until the song is done, for I am his ultimate fangirl.
BubbleOnFire *CLAP CLAP CLAP CLAP* SO BEAUTIFUL! *CLAP CLAP* PREACH GIRL PREACH!
That is the only restrictions I will allow cause that is just historical😂😂😂😂
YES
Are you a girl dating a girl?you said I am his ultimate fan girl and my girlfriend.by the way I'm not judging you
lee trenzyme mhm
Right when she said,"do you hear that" my dad's alarm clock went off
"Why can't you make yourself feel good"..I do that once a week!😂😂
Same xD
good for i do it once a day
but hopefully i stopped and i do it twice a week :) heheh
LMAO!
+Jack The reaper You say Pete instead of Pee, so why not day Masticate instead of...
Ciri it's an autocorrect fail.
Preach superwoman,
I'm 13 and my friends have already had 8+ boyfriends(not at the same time) and I haven't had one. My friends are always like " u need a boyfirend to make u happy" and im like no, I really don't. And half the time their relationships dont even last 2'weeks. They are already thinking about sex, and i've talked to them before that we are kids, and that we should just play outside in the snow. And when one of their relationships last longer that 1 week, they use me just to talk on oovoo with their boyfriends cause they dont have Ipads, ive figured that out so now i dont allow them to come over if they arent gonna talk or play with me. And after that point they arent my friends for like a week until their relatinships dont work out and they need someone to cry to after they've befriended them, right now im really questioning if i should eve call the my frriends. God please help my friends and knock some sense into them
Get some new friends because these types of friends can put you on the wrong road
Hopefully this doesn't' t come out too blunt, but you need a new group of friends. Get friends that will help you and not use you, and as for your other friends... They can have fun being on Sixteen and Pregnant
Also good job resisting peer pressure
I know how that feels because my friends are always saying that I should get a life and date someone. I am tired of this and I need to tell them that we are just kids and why have a boyfriend when you don't do absolutely nothing with them?
Briiluv 22 yes girl, yes
Every single thing is so damn true,valid universally and inspiring👍🏻
If I was in a relationship and my partner put restrictions on me like tells me not to go somewhere or to hang out with people I would instantly break up with them right there on the spot
I totally agree with ppl who "broadcast" their relationship on facebook. I mean, seriously, why do ppl feel the need to "show-off" that they are in a relationship? I know of this one friend who whenever they get into a relationship, their status says 'in a relationship' and will even post a picture of themselves together AND everyone will be posting underneath that picture saying how cute they look. I think this friend is merely looking for a validation from her friends and is an attention seeker if you ask me.
I never ever post a pic of any of my relationships online but then again I'm a very private person. I don't need the entire world to know who I'm dating, where I'm going with that person. Some ppl are attention seekers and that's really sad.
I know right arhhhh so annoy ing arhhh again
Only those "broadcast" their relationship who are insecure about themselves or their partnership. True love doesn't need an audience.
And instagram.
I would post pictures once in a while we are doing something fun or memorable, maybe while when i'm just in the mood hanging out, but it;s annoying when people post pictures of them kissing or most of their pics are both of them together.
Best part is when they're suddenly single again, they hide their relationship status and only make it visible again when they think no one will notice lol
You are right Lilly, we all sometimes need to provide for ourselves.
"It would be covered in cheese... Nacho face" I'm dead XD
THIS VIDEO WAS POSTED EXCATLY TWO YEARS AGO!! I'm so proud of you Lilly and I can't believe how far you've gone with your music video and meeting the rock and writing a book!! I'm so happy that all of us ( team supper ) had a part in help YOU get to where you are now. Love you so much and hope you get even farther❤️❤️
My girlfriend actually wrote me a poem! Hold on, I'll write it here:
Roses are black,
Violets are black,
Life is black,
My heart is black.
Loneliness.
Pain.
Screams.
A pony died in a forest,
I shed no tears.
Do you think she's trying to tell me something or am I reading too deep into this?
Could be a 'read between the lines' kind of thing I guess
no idea it could be anything feeling like it sounds dark and twisted in opinion because it has a pony died in a forest i shed no tears and it has roses are black violet is black i pretty sure they aren't black or they are and i am completely stupid
😐 are u trolling?
I think she's planning a murder..
Anemona M i agree , what if shes planning a suicide 😞
she actually said everything ive been thinking '-' she cool
I pray to God you read this, because it is very important. Superwoman, you are the reason I met my best friend. One day, I heard this girl singing #leh, and I asked her is she was, and she was shocked I knew it. We've been best friends since September and have already gone to California Adventures together because of you. We've convinced our other friends to watch you. Now our handshake is your outro, and our group name is the superwoman squad. Thank you soooooo much for started UA-cam, and giving me my best friend in the whole world. If you never existed, neither would the best friendship I've ever had. I love you so much. Love, Natalie (aka 1/6 of the superwoman squad)
OMG that's so cool!
OMG! That's so freecking cool!!!
AWESOME
That's pretty dope! Friends fo eva.
Woah, the story of my best friend and I got 165 likes. I seriously thought nobody would see this. I still have hope that Lilly will see this. Lilly, if you do, Pleeease respond.
Even though this is supposed to be comedy,
Lilly's advices are gold and so true
people should hear them out more! ❤❤
I don't like it that my boyfriend goes out to party and drinks. I know he goes out with his friend's and they keep him safe. I'm so scared of him finding someone else, sleeping with someone else, and or getting drunk and get hurt. He doesn't have an issue with drinking. I just never liked it. However, I just watched this video and it kinda think about it... I have my insecurities that I should just get over. I can't keep worrying about it when all in all, I know I remained faithful. I should just tell him to go. I've even said this like Lily did. If you have to set things on someone to remain loyal to you, you need someone better. Thanks for making me be more open minded. (:
Have the same problem with my problem! Nice to know someone else has went through this.
xxxs
Be careful....my boyfriend cheated on my once and said it was a mistake and I stayed with him.....a month later he cheated again...
+Lion Morris
Thanks. But I rather not think negative. Best relationship I've ever had.
YurGardianAngelX ur like the sweetest person ever
You have the best advice like it's not even funny!!
My valentines day is going to consists of me laying in my bed watching netflix with a soda and pizza 😏
Were totally doing the same thing! But in different states!
My food gonna be my valentine's
Kiki Andre Stop right there!! Dont say lonely shit like that please you're spoiling it
Same! But it will be with nuggets and water
You are not alone.
Netflix is there with you,
Nutella can come too,
Netflix, Nutella, and you...
You are not alone.
😂 I binge watch all your old vids
I get to spend valentines day wit my new boyfriend...and his name is Netflix!!!
WHAT!!! Netflix is cheating on me!!
Well that's okay, it's too good to me. I love you Netflix. 💕,💖💗💓
How dare you steal it though. 💔💔💔💔💔
*small voice* Netflix is cheating on me?
Why Netflixs why u cheat on me
My boy, Hulu Plus, is loyal af.
OMFG NETFLIX IS CHEATING ON US! MY BF'S NAME IS NETFLIX TOO!
I was nodding my head throughout her his entire video! More people need to think like this! This is exactly how I feel about all relationships too. Thank you for this video. I love you Lilly ❤❤❤
So true, if a person wants to cheat on you no matter what you do they will do it in the end
Even though this is still a light-hearted video, all of this is so true!
I'm guilty of being too independent that boys tell me that they feel not needed. I'm just like "boi, I wasn't born to be your ego booster okay? "
Amen 😂
Me to my friends.
amazing. I feel you gurl
eccenterika I tried to re-tweet that then realised I'm on UA-cam lol
boiiiiii...rofl!!
Im 16 and i have to deal with friends in relationships who put their Facebook profile picture AND their cover photo of the EXACT SAME kissy couple photo! Jesus, man! They look like twelvies!
Hey Natalie!! (I know it's not related at all,but ) are you a Mortal Instruments fan????? Lol, 'cause I'm too
+Sharanya Bose haha yeah! I get these comments a lot everywhere :') we shadowhunter fans are growing bigger and bigger (more of a tid fan though!)
Heeheehee, Natalie Herondale oh I love tid too. Will herondale obsession ❤️💕😍
+Natalie Herondale The 5 minute "couples" who hug, kiss and hold hands and then break up 5 minutes later! Seriously dude why?!?! I'm going out w/ this guy and we go to different schools, but when we see eachother we aren't like omg! I love you! KISSY KISSY! ew...
Same age as you. I feel Ur pain.😂😂
Commenting on that last one, am I the only one who hates kissing selfies? As a serious question, I want to know why people do it. I just don't understand. Maybe I'm just a really private person but I don't understand the point of it. :P
i hate it and im in a relationship its just not neccessary to post unless its ur wedding photo
ikr!! Thank you! you are the first I've met that has the same view. Like your relationship is cute and all but no one wants to see you spit swapping
Exactly it's like ewwww lol
Exactly ! If you two actually made proper photos with an actual camera cuz you want to send some to your family or to put them in your room Or IDEK and you want to share one of these quality well photos on a social media side im totally down for that. but i really dont see the point in posting some wishy photos of your and your siginificant other kissing. I don't know who likes looking at that. Really.
YEAH I HATE IT SO MUCH
Totally agree..💯💯💯.. a person should be able to make themselves happy rather than waiting for someone to do so 😊
When I read the title of the video, my head instantly went: Starting one.
Lol
I just commented one lol
Im 18 and didnt had boyfriend till this age
:D
Forever alone is my nickname
Going to be 19 soon without any bf in my entire life. Be proud boo x
Didn't have*
Omg high 5 ! I'm also 18 and tomorrow will be another lonely valentines day ! Aaaaaaaand no one ever kissed me and I feel like a piece of shit sometimes. FOREVER ALONE .
Dammnnnn 18!!!
High 5 girls!!Even I am 19 n have never had a boyfriend till date!Happily n proudly single!:D
Amen sister ..couldn't have said it better myself
I agree wholeheartedly. Everything you said here is so important! 💕
Look at me pretending like I know stuff.. This is so me..😂😂
My friend always puts her boyfriend before everybody else.. Like we were planning to have this whole weekend like hangout and have a sleepover and go to the mall and all this other stuff, but her boyfriend wouldn't let us.. Last time I checked he's not her parent/guardian.. He doesn't let her sit with us at lunch or let us hang out.. And she doesn't realize this! She thinks he's the best thing in the whole entire world!
Wait till they break up and you can just ignore her and then she will feel bad and youll be bffs again :)
Lily made a flirty face when she said " yes I want fries with that"
😂😂😂
Who else watches the whole add to get Lilly paid more cuz she deserves it
I have a boyfriend and we can trust each other there is zero secrets between us so I'm pretty happy 😁😊
cheers to you and your bf buddy.
Lucky...
ohhhhhhh! you just wait
hang then why are you here
forest archer
because they can watch this video if they want to
anyone from 2016?
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nope 2017 (:
+Leah Ng yasss
Yes i totally agree with you. And i wanna even ask you something.. What if your bf tells you not to talk to a certain guy because if he was your ex?...
He should be able to trust you... even if he's your ex.
Alisha panjwani there's a reason he's your EX and not your BOYFRIEND
Alisha panjwani.
But sometimes people break up and decide that they are better off being just friends. And if that's the case then your boyfriend should not be telling you that you can't hang out with him.
Will you allow your bf to talk to his ex if he had any?
He should trust u because ur ex could be ur friend. So dump him on da spot jk
You are so right on the first one. That's one of the reasons my relationship with my previous boyfriend failed. It was always my responsibility to make him happy when he was sad, to keep him happy, to always have time for him just in case he got upset for some reason. At least it felt this way.
THANK YOU SOMEONE WHO ACTUALLY HAS A BRAIN .
My three year old cousin had a husband at three.....they even had a wedding.....and plastic rings like the cheesey ones u get at the dentist......and cupcakes her friend Aubrey was the brides maid and Zoey was the flower girl.....but it was fake and adorable
Maribel+David=❤️❤️❤️ adorable love😄😄😄😄😄
I wish I was there
Omg me and my friends did this kind of things at kinder
OMG that's so crazy my brothers best friend and I got married when I was 3 and it was obviously fake but I named my brother fartlicker lol
lilly i love u...u r the best therapist ill ever have...u literally see through me...😘😘😘😘
I agree with you on everything. I used to be all these things in my past relationship yrs ago. Nowadays, I'm changing myself for the better & still figuring out who I am in my own life everyday. Lovy you Lilly. 💛🖒😙
The one mistake you can make in a relationship is not knowing what's in the combo
Hahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!....u nailed it!!!!!
Okay paused video. It's kinda hard to find happiness in yourself when you absolutely hate yourself, struggle with anxiety disorder, server depression, being sducidal and use to struggle with self harm. What if finding happiness in other people is the only form of happiness you have? People tell me all the time to find happiness in myself than put that on people. It's really not like it's a heavy weight they have to carry because it's just like I feel okay and happy when I talk to you and hang out with you but I keep that to myself.
I'm not trying to get attention here whatsoever just trying to make a point that it's not always your decision if you put your happiness in others.
I agree with you.
The problem is...people are unreliable. If your source of happiness is outside yourself, you are always at the mercy of that object/person. Finding happiness within yourself means getting at the root of your issues and learning to be ok with who you are without external validation. It takes a lot of work but you become a more stable person that way.
It's easy to tell people to just think positively and work harder to achieve what they want...depression is often co-morbid with other mood disorders like anxiety and sometimes that person CANT help but think and feel negatively ALL/MOST of the time. it's not a choice that they can easily make, it's kind of a part of the way their brain is changing (the way they interpret the world around them, themselves, and the future)-it's called cognitive biases. For a depressed person, mental pain is less dramatic than physical pain, but it is more common and also more hard to bear. The frequent attempt to conceal mental pain increases the burden: it is easier to say "my tooth is aching" than to say my heart is broken....my point is this. Some of us DO need others to make us happy. And we are aware that this might be burdensome on the people we rely on.-but having a sense of belonging gives us a sense of identity, And let's face it EVERYBODY relies on somebody-it's only when you KNOW that you have somebody who will always be there for you, only then will you feel supported and safe to be on your own and be okay with who you are.
to the person above...I dealt with depression, ADHD, PTSD and anxiety for over 10 years. Relying on others can only provide a temporary escape and unless these people are your family members (and awesome ones at that), the burden becomes too heavy and people will leave you... Only way to have healthy relationships with others is to work on your issues (with the help of a therapist, support group, etc) in order to be able to comfort those feelings yourself for the most part...
My point was that...you first have to KNOW that someone is there for you. knowing that fact alone gives people a sense of security to explore the world, except their thoughts and be okay with who they are.you can have a therapist, but they are not like family and friends. it's because they don't feel like they have anybody that brings the lack of self worth. And anyways I've been through depression for many years myself and I work as a clinical neuropsychologists...so I kinda have seen both sides of this story.
You've helped me get out of my depression. I don't know how, but this video has changed my mind to commit suicide. You've said just the right words. Thank you.
Much peace, happiness, and healing to you.
God created u as a loving complete spirit, dont take ur life just cuz u havent realized who u are. The Good will overcome the bad if u have enough faith nd learn not to surrender to the evil in the world. Do pray everyday nd u will see how God will lead u. I didnt believe in God until 5 years ago cuz God answered my prayer. since that Im convinced that the Good is the real truth, but u must have faith nd trust. love from Germany
GIRL you know so much about relationships without having one!! Im legit sharing this with my bf THANKS
Okay, so in friendships, I end up being a leaning tower NOT in the way that I depend on them for everything, but if I'm upset I need someone to talk to me about it. Constantly. It's one of the most annoying things about me, but I just wanted to see if anyone can relate.
Im so inspired to make better videos! Thank you
Shouldn't number one be getting in the relationship at all? 😂
OMG do you remember like 2nd grade it was so easy you told your friend you like someone, they tell them, your crush tells you friend to ask you if you wanted to be his girlfriend, then you tell your friends to tell him yes 😂😂 easy as pie
Emily Rivera thats me
Emily Rivera
Totaly
lol
Relationships include friendships.....
i always come back to this video whenever something in my friendships goes wrong. and usually it’s me overthinking. thank you lilly ❤️