If You Can't Ditch Social Media Entirely, Try This Instead | Steve Aoki on Impact Theory

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  • Take your mindset and business to the next level with Impact Theory University! Check it out at: bit.ly/ImpactTheoryUniversityYT
    Monster producer, musician and label-owner Steve Aoki has not only achieved incredible success in the music industry, but has managed to constantly reinvent himself to stay just ahead of global trends. On this episode of Impact Theory with Tom Bilyeu, Steve Aoki shares the secrets to lasting success, his own family story, and his advice for anyone who finds themselves feeling stuck, jaded or cynical.
    SHOW NOTES:
    Steve shares what keeps him going at age 40 [3:06]
    Steve and Tom discuss the need to connect and make an impact [6:48]
    Steve describes the compulsion to achieve greatness as positive [12:32]
    Steve explains how he created the space to be free and to follow his passion [15:35]
    Steve shares that he really appreciates his father’s tough love [20:29]
    Steve talks about family and his hopes to have kids eventually [21:51]
    Steve describes how he reinvents himself in music [23:37]
    Steve explains how he connects with the people he works with [29:46]
    Steve talks about cynicism and how he avoids it [32:19]
    Steve shares his advice for people who have gotten jaded [34:42]
    Steve explains how he deals with failure when it’s so common [37:42]
    Steve and Tom share the impact they want to have on the world [40:36]
    QUOTES:
    “Anything can happen now. I really believe that. Things that were complete dream scenarios, like DJing in space, I really think that can possibly happen.” [29:19]
    “Seventy percent of the things I want to do aren’t going to happen, even at my level. And it’s going to continue to be like that. But I’m going to always aim high.” [33:09]
    “I wanna push myself on every level.” [14:14]
    FOLLOW STEVE:
    WEBSITE: www.steveaoki.com
    INSTAGRAM: bit.ly/2mBO8cA
    FACEBOOK: bit.ly/2kzUmcb
    TWITTER: bit.ly/2l3TRr2
    BOOKS MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:
    Blue, the Color of Noise: amzn.to/2mAO3Wz [2:37]
    IMPACT THEORY MERCHANDISE: Check out Impact Theory's Merch Shop: bit.ly/ImpactTheoryShop

КОМЕНТАРІ • 287

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 4 роки тому +312

    It is so easy to forget that 300 views on YT means that a whole film theatre is watching you.
    We have to start somewhere. It's the passion for the craft that helps to persevere.

  • @ErikaK
    @ErikaK 4 роки тому +213

    Focus on yourself, on what you have right in front of you, be present, be grateful. Stop comparing yourself to others, create your own path, your own route to success !

    • @ErikaK
      @ErikaK 4 роки тому +1

      @@rebeccav4659 :D ♡♡♡

    • @ladybird491
      @ladybird491 4 роки тому

      Preach! I create my own type of writing and succeeding.

    • @dannydoorod
      @dannydoorod 4 роки тому +1

      Love this:)

  • @ssalg
    @ssalg 4 роки тому +575

    Whoever is reading this may you attract good health, wealth and abundance in your life.

  • @elenashirley5346
    @elenashirley5346 4 роки тому +71

    I absolutely love that he said if they’re only five people into what I was doing them those are my five people that’s why focus on people. So many of us, myself included, get wrapped up in who hasn’t noticed yet, who isn’t our customer yet, who isn’t our fan yet. And we miss out on the key to earning the 1000 true fans

  • @VictorFang
    @VictorFang 4 роки тому +133

    steve aoki is a legend
    such a humble and likeable guy

    • @1b0o0
      @1b0o0 4 роки тому +5

      Legend is a very big word for this dude. He is not even respected in his area of expertise. How is he a legend?

    • @tiffanyhackerspace8377
      @tiffanyhackerspace8377 4 роки тому +4

      Uuuhhhh, not even respected?! Please! This is Steve freakin' Aoki, lol! He is respected by his peers, and he is bankin'.

    • @tiffanyhackerspace8377
      @tiffanyhackerspace8377 4 роки тому +1

      @What is Reality You're right about that. If/when they get ensnared, they go whole hog. But for someone to say he's not respected is just kinda not true. His bankroll says differently.
      But you're right, the "rock star" status of actors, athletes, and musicians in this country leaves a bit of Goodwill to be desired... Okay, a lot of good will to be desired :-) The system is no bueno.

    • @SusannahmakramTV
      @SusannahmakramTV 4 роки тому +1

      FACTS

  • @oscaralberto3976
    @oscaralberto3976 4 роки тому +10

    Man I swear this show has become part of my life and I swear I can see the change that has occurred by listening ....

  • @KarmasAbutch
    @KarmasAbutch 4 роки тому +37

    Wow, so rare to see DJ’s in such philosophical and thought provoking interviews / outside of the music industry machine - what an interesting and sweet guy. This was great to wake up to today! 💝

  • @GamerGrade
    @GamerGrade 4 роки тому +59

    I dont have personal Facebook, Instagram or Twitter, just UA-cam as i learn so much :)

    • @LegendNinja41
      @LegendNinja41 4 роки тому +4

      same and that's more than enough :D

  • @tubevalve8366
    @tubevalve8366 4 роки тому +4

    41 is still very young, keep it 20 yrs later is something. Actually never heard about Steve before.

  • @soulcostume
    @soulcostume 4 роки тому +16

    Managing my expectations....Right into the goal. My man, I love his eyes, they are so true.

  • @dolsiemercado3140
    @dolsiemercado3140 4 роки тому +8

    He seems approachable, humble and a legend. He has many but many more years of success and happiness.

  • @RamblingRamul
    @RamblingRamul 4 роки тому +22

    I just watched his Netflix documentary.. it's really good!
    Go watch it if you haven't.. very inspiring no matter what your goals are in life.

  • @jonathanbabich7669
    @jonathanbabich7669 3 місяці тому

    Saw Steve Aoki 2010 oxygen festival in Ireland.
    It was absolutely incredible.

  • @edmnomad
    @edmnomad 4 роки тому +7

    Such a great interview with Steve,
    We never get bored of his shows. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @iamthat7351
    @iamthat7351 4 роки тому +5

    What a humble & cool guy. A Japanese friend once told me a Japanese proverb "The nail that sticks out get's hammered down" he told me that in his culture Japanese conform and don't express as much as the west do. Aoki is an awesome example why Japanese should burn that Proverb.

  • @chrisbanisch
    @chrisbanisch 4 роки тому +3

    Your work is fantastic, Steve! Thanks so much for everything!

  • @ninon5168
    @ninon5168 4 роки тому +2

    First time hearing and seeing this guy, happy that he found his path and is so humble and in tuned with himself

  • @ludgerputz7917
    @ludgerputz7917 4 роки тому +6

    Everytime when it pops up on my phone, that you published a new episode I am curious to see where you are going to go with your next guest. Hammer!!!

  • @ileexi1
    @ileexi1 4 роки тому

    Wow hearing his story about his upbringing and his dad relates to me so much, I loved this video! 🙌🏻

  • @av8rk9
    @av8rk9 4 роки тому +2

    Tom ... you prep so well and that adds to the impact ... well done ... I get a lot out of your interviews ... thank you

  • @spicelee8199
    @spicelee8199 4 роки тому +2

    I didn't hear much about ditching social media, but I still loved every min

  • @DriftSquid
    @DriftSquid 4 роки тому +1

    So freaking good. I dont spend a lot of time watching videos on YT but I love it when I find good ones like this that actually have meaning behind it. Thank you Tom and Steve, Legends.

  • @alesterleong249
    @alesterleong249 4 роки тому

    Thank you Thank you Thank you Thank you so much for this inspirational interview with Steve!

  • @mnewt712
    @mnewt712 4 роки тому +4

    Wow! What a badass interview. Thank you so much to you both. 😃🙏❤️

  • @alexanderberhane436
    @alexanderberhane436 3 роки тому +1

    Steve Aoki is a true inspiration

  • @-whackd
    @-whackd 4 роки тому +42

    Having Steve Aokis cake thrown on me in the crowd was a highlight moment of my life lol

    • @harmeetsokhi
      @harmeetsokhi 4 роки тому

      Ha ha ha.... You are a celebrity.... Enjoy it while it lasts...

    • @riclaflair9212
      @riclaflair9212 4 роки тому +1

      Haha liar haha

    • @GurdeepSinghDyal
      @GurdeepSinghDyal 4 роки тому

      And I thought i am the only Punjabi around 🤣

    • @ceedavecee
      @ceedavecee 2 роки тому

      you need a better life dude.

  • @SebastianMlax
    @SebastianMlax 4 роки тому

    So inspiring. Thank you for this deep conversation guys!

  • @miguelanthony4956
    @miguelanthony4956 4 роки тому +1

    Great advices! it feels so realistic when people build their dreams from the scratch. The message is that through extremely hard work, you can achieve any goal in this life.

  • @ElectricRevolution
    @ElectricRevolution 4 роки тому

    Killer interview! Love what you’re doing. Your work is super motivating and inspiring. Thanks a lot man!

  • @nkoresounds6114
    @nkoresounds6114 4 роки тому +1

    AMAZING INTERVIEW. big respect to him for keeping working hard at it, expending and make more available to us. x

  • @1sr0
    @1sr0 4 роки тому +15

    Steve Aoki is a legend and I have total respect for him but his dad is/was extremely wealthy. Worse comes to worse, he really did not have to suffer. He had that option. Many people out there do not. This fact also plays on your mindset and stress levels which directly impacts your craft or whatever you are set to accomplish

    • @bircruz555
      @bircruz555 4 роки тому +1

      Knowing that one has a safety net makes immense difference on how one is going to proceed through life. It is a psychological dividend. Survival always comes first, and most people have no option but to tow the line. One can dare to venture outside of the common path if they know the bottom line is not skid row. I have taken the road less traveled. But I have also kept track of the opportunity cost to my decision, which was considerable. The consolation is that what I chose to do is also monumental, even though only a few know about it or appreciate it. Still waiting for the magic leap, even after almost three decades.

  • @KwikVideoMaker
    @KwikVideoMaker 4 роки тому +1

    He is so beautiful. Been casually watching him for years. Amazing how his career has blossomed. So happy you brought him. Keep mixing it up!!

  • @lizg6460
    @lizg6460 4 роки тому

    Tom, love your interviews-thank you

  • @sergiodeoliveira7826
    @sergiodeoliveira7826 4 роки тому

    What a legend....really enjoyed the interview.....I am such a fan of Steve as a Person....he is a real aspiration.

  • @TaraMae212
    @TaraMae212 2 роки тому

    Amazing Interview! Tom, your explanation of impact theory at the end was so powerful.

  • @MsAmma1
    @MsAmma1 4 роки тому

    Thank you Tom, You are one of my favorite people. Every episode is better than the previous one, great content. I Love You Tom.

  • @aadams3100
    @aadams3100 4 роки тому +1

    This interview was so lit. Steve is so authentic! Also, Tom thanks for doing what you do. . . I know that neither of you ever have to work again but you still give of yourselves to help others achieve greatness!

  • @TheMartinProject88
    @TheMartinProject88 2 роки тому

    That final question was probably the best moment I've seen on this show 'so, I reckon we have to close with that. What's your impact.' Big fan of this, all music aside.Top chats, top dudes..iconic.

  • @tinastein9213
    @tinastein9213 4 роки тому +5

    The work that Tom does is just mind blowing to me. I am continually propelled to the next thing. The next level. Thank you so so much for all your hard work to make this happen for all of us!

  • @philmorgan1053
    @philmorgan1053 4 роки тому +2

    Good work Tom!!! What a guest!!!!! 🙌👏

  • @alanchu1980
    @alanchu1980 4 роки тому +1

    Superb interview and beautiful words! Definitely a pleasure to see Aoki play in Sydney, Las Vegas and Belgium. Looking forward to see inspiring Tom live in Sydney in February 2020!!!

  • @LindseyRago
    @LindseyRago 4 роки тому

    This might be my favorite episode!!!

  • @PowerfulU
    @PowerfulU 4 роки тому

    Steves a legend. Really enjoyed this interview.

  • @thejasonreal
    @thejasonreal 2 роки тому

    Steve's point of being "GRATEFUL" and "PRESENT", I'd add to that it's about being "HUMBLE" even after success, and not "ENTITLED".

  • @RamblingRamul
    @RamblingRamul 4 роки тому +1

    I don't even listen to his style of music much.. But I've always found him very fascinating as a person and now hearing his perspective on life and being an artist.
    I admire him even more.. What a great person.

  • @clarapatterson1220
    @clarapatterson1220 4 роки тому +1

    Mannn I love love love when I find just what I needed when I needed it !!! ❤️ thank you thank you

  • @BABYBEAT5
    @BABYBEAT5 4 роки тому +11

    “Dougieee!!” I love how Tom can make me feel, saying someone else’s name ♥️

  • @alrightsky
    @alrightsky 4 роки тому +19

    These interviews are always inspiring, but I found this even more so. I loved it.
    I also really liked that you could tell how good friends you two are, it was nice to watch. :) Thanks for always doing these.

  • @stephbli1337
    @stephbli1337 10 місяців тому

    Love Steve Aoki and his humility. He is so humble, he is interesting! Good job, he is not cocky and is kind.

  • @halimanine3765
    @halimanine3765 4 роки тому +2

    Thank you Tom for inspiring us! Halima from Algeria.

  • @DavidSchmeikal
    @DavidSchmeikal 4 роки тому

    Thanks so much for sharing, really needed to hear this today :)

  • @eve.k.g.
    @eve.k.g. 4 роки тому

    I say it short: I LOVE THIS VIDEO with you Tom & Steve!

  • @nba2kforever579
    @nba2kforever579 4 роки тому +1

    Very human! Much Love!

  • @malatihegde4050
    @malatihegde4050 4 роки тому +1

    Now this is why love this show,Dude Steve Aokiiiiii😯

  • @kathleenbenjamin7359
    @kathleenbenjamin7359 4 роки тому

    Two amazing guy's - Loved this !

  • @sutats
    @sutats 4 роки тому

    *Listening on New Year's Day 2020!*

  • @luckydayzs9296
    @luckydayzs9296 2 роки тому

    Such a great interview. So interesting to hear about his feelings comparing his life vs how at this age and time-his parents had children at the age he is now and he does not have any.. I think of those same things in my own life.

  • @catsandstarsgalaxy3669
    @catsandstarsgalaxy3669 2 роки тому

    GREAT - GREAT- GREAT INTERVIEW, THANK YOU 💯‼️👍👍👍

  • @monicakendi3959
    @monicakendi3959 4 роки тому +1

    Its all about being present and making it meaningful.
    Thank you @steve and Tom.

  • @Lulu-kt6gr
    @Lulu-kt6gr 4 роки тому +3

    Older people were shy kids with a lot of hidden talent too. You can change and contribute at ANY age!

  • @adamhowells6336
    @adamhowells6336 4 роки тому

    I love Steve soke thank you for changing my life Tom

  • @wakawaka81
    @wakawaka81 3 роки тому +1

    Amazing I admire him a lot. I’m proud of being Japanese as well. Love you Steve!!!

  • @bi2u4787
    @bi2u4787 4 роки тому

    Another great interview Tom👍

  • @alexisidro
    @alexisidro 4 роки тому

    Very inspiring. I must say that i was never a fan of aoki with the exception of a couple of tracks (azukita, lady daddi, neón future), but after this interview and getting him to known a bit better, IM A FAN! Great interview and uplifting 🔥

  • @federicojara2038
    @federicojara2038 4 роки тому

    Tom men, that part where you describe your why and why Steve at the end, min 43 more or less, was beautiful...

  • @cuddlepuddle7183
    @cuddlepuddle7183 4 роки тому +13

    I actually met your dad Rocky once and always remember him bc he was so charasmatic & likeable. my dad knew him bc they were both in the restaurant industry. interestingly my dad also used to tell us about the japanese saying "the tallest nail gets pounded down" . I wonder if he got that from your dad lmao

  • @rhea-views6165
    @rhea-views6165 4 роки тому

    Tom does the best intros!!! Love it

  • @djespmusic
    @djespmusic 2 роки тому

    I’m a DJ at cocktail bars and restaurants. In the first 5 minutes Aoki shits on my whole career. “There’s no appreciation there”. Thanks for the motivational talk

  • @NorthstarAmerica
    @NorthstarAmerica 4 роки тому +1

    I digg Steve! He's a phenomenal guy!

  • @TheZGALa
    @TheZGALa 4 роки тому

    Hiyaz from Albuquerque! :) Much Love to you both. I shared this talk with my 24 year old son...I love your enthusiasm.

  • @Unzyme
    @Unzyme 4 роки тому

    It's easy to see why Steve Aoki is so successful. He remains humble, even after all those wonderful achievements. He keeps on starting conversations with other musicians and music business people, wherever he happens to be. And he's on the road most of the time. That kind of an attitude towards collaboration will boost any career.

  • @positiveone684
    @positiveone684 3 роки тому +1

    Love this interview . Made a a big fan of both of them

  • @mohamedshahisham9706
    @mohamedshahisham9706 4 роки тому

    Really helpful. I appreciate it completely 😃

  • @TheMusicEloquence
    @TheMusicEloquence 2 роки тому

    I was one of those 5 people at Steve Aoki's concert in vegas and he threw his shirt at me! I have it on video, it means alot to me

  • @lukehudson9684
    @lukehudson9684 2 роки тому

    32:45 (ish) "I go into it knowing that 70% of the things I want to do aren't going to happen, even at my level. But I am going to always aim high. People see the 30%, no one sees the 70% of not making it or not getting what you want." - Writing this down and aiming high. Thank you, Steve.

  • @ElGo10x
    @ElGo10x 4 роки тому +1

    Thank you for your videos from Romania

    • @AnaidOff
      @AnaidOff 4 роки тому

      finally someone familiar:))

  • @veronicakumar2162
    @veronicakumar2162 2 роки тому

    I went to his concert last night and I’m a new person … I will now build the life I want to live

  • @yungraptor9864
    @yungraptor9864 4 роки тому

    Please have more guests in the music business. Love this episode

  • @marykathleensapp6937
    @marykathleensapp6937 4 роки тому +3

    Steve is one of the most balanced and talented men of this generation!

  • @philmorgan1053
    @philmorgan1053 4 роки тому

    We love you Steve !

  • @cropyify
    @cropyify 2 роки тому

    love this guy

  • @emmanoconer1750
    @emmanoconer1750 3 роки тому

    Very true what you see in social mead is just 10% of all 100 % that is totally gold!!

  • @vanessaborn
    @vanessaborn 9 місяців тому

    I love this interview I haven’t seen Steve in so long… I’m really surprised on these panels how much no one talks about all the females that encouraged these men throughout time… Stevie, I knew you in 1999 in Santa Barbara… And I definitely encouraged you not only to go see my show at the State Street theater… But also to be an amazing DJ throughout the world… Then I ran into you with the Hurst twins… And encouraged all of you… It’s like nobody sees the cheerleaders that have been there the entire time… People really sleep on female energy that seems to have been Falling on deaf ears. Take it back to females… Encourage each other now!

  • @a7xfanben
    @a7xfanben 4 роки тому

    Cool episode!

  • @joshthrush4196
    @joshthrush4196 2 роки тому

    When he said don't stick your head up it literally represents the Japanese proverb perfectly "the nail that sticks out gets Hammered down"

  • @sylviacanchangeworld
    @sylviacanchangeworld 4 роки тому

    Wow, I love this. Thank you! :)

  • @MiaMixx
    @MiaMixx 4 роки тому +2

    40:58- 43:43- Give it up to the greatest interviewer of our generation.

  • @marykathleensapp6937
    @marykathleensapp6937 4 роки тому

    Steve is so relatable to multi generations!

  • @ziggazaggastudio4429
    @ziggazaggastudio4429 4 роки тому

    Looking healthy Tom!

  • @iwnunn7999
    @iwnunn7999 3 роки тому

    Tom is quite the wordsmith. Apparently a terrific writer.

  • @josefinotv
    @josefinotv 4 роки тому

    Inspiring!

  • @rawkakani
    @rawkakani 4 роки тому

    Now what would be amazing is a conversation with Tom, and Steve Aoki the guest.

  • @kalaukia434
    @kalaukia434 4 роки тому

    This guys cool at 17:36. Great 👍🏼 interview.

  • @michaelhawk6413
    @michaelhawk6413 4 роки тому

    I can appreciate Steve's hustle and entrepreneurial grit, and I am in awe in his amassed masses. I have absolutely no derogatory view on the usage of mind altering drugs to change one's perspective on our rigid/rational life (and I think certain herds of our society could benefit from doing so). I prefer not to do so on my own mission to determine how far I can use my concept of Bi-Manual Artistic Development to unlock creative and analytical potentiality through neural stimulation....naturally (other than a bit of wine each night). My concern is that the massive flock of Steve's audience when attending his music events are doing so with the expectation of heightening or sensationally altering their consciousness through not just music, but mostly through artificial neural-chemical alteration with MDMA. Though I see that most of the people that use MDMA have a heightened sense of euphoria and "love", I believe this emotional state is somewhat fabricated in a "test-tube" incubation and doesn't stem from real, evolutionary developed and necessary cohesive adaptation functions of the mind and soul that makes humans...more human. Would love to hear Steve's thought on this and what might be the ramification of a society led to believe altruistic love is only a Pill and some Beats away.

  • @ThomasJordanTV
    @ThomasJordanTV 2 роки тому

    43:44 - How do you follow up with that response lol It like going after someone who just crushed it on stage at the talent show lol - Tom's deeper purpose is amazing

  • @designingmindy6175
    @designingmindy6175 4 роки тому

    I sure hope your path crosses with the incredible AU5!

  • @leiladasha
    @leiladasha Рік тому

    start your self

  • @elgeebee5250
    @elgeebee5250 2 роки тому

    This is so helpful - thanks. I don't know how to get money just to survive......... With what I do. How to give value or be seen etc

  • @ProjectFinalAudio
    @ProjectFinalAudio 4 роки тому +2

    Legend🙏

  • @miriamdavis2988
    @miriamdavis2988 Місяць тому

    So that part where he says his dad was a showman but didnt want that for him, i think what his dad was trying to do was to protect him. A showman doesnt happen instantly. It takes time, maturity and wisdom something that a young child, teen and young adult doesnt have. Luckily, in his case, it def paid off because of his understanding of life and his inner desire of express himself thrpugh music. Its just something people are either born with or not. Most people comfirm.very few step out. And thats what makes musicians, actors, etc ecceptional. They have this crazy drive to keep going no matter what.