Benefits of Forgiving Others - Mufti Menk
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- Опубліковано 27 лис 2016
- Delivered at The Excellency in Colombo, Sri Lanka as part of the Building Bridges Series Nov 2016.
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I am so thankful allah gave me the ability to forgive
Assalaamu Alaikum to my brother , he's very knowledgable in the way he speaks, i enjoy listening to him Emery time.
I love how he quotes from the Qur'an as much as, if not more, than hadith.
This brother is so spiritual and intelligent. I am learning so much
Modesty Shabazz JazakAllahu khair Brother; He is Brother in islam and an Aalim too
Mashallah I agree 👍
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Me too… I love to watch and hear the sermon every day, it’ll make u feel good and completely different, in shaa Allah grant you mufti menk jannah tul ferdous
We can't count the blessings of ALLAH (SWT). I think this guy is one of the blessing by ALLAH (SWT). Alhamdulillah for every thing 😊💖❤♥☺
Such a nice sermon my heart says to salute the speaker let the sermon penetrate everybody's heart ❤💙💜💖and bring it to in practice. Aameen.
AllahuAkbar,subhanallahAlhamdulillah.may Allah bless mufti menk
Allah u Akber
Subhaan Allah
Alhamdulillah
Laa ilaa ha illallaahoo Muhammmad ur RASOOLULLAH.
mufti menk Allah protect you.
Masha Allah, May Almighty Allah grant you and all of us Janatul Firdowsa. Indeed I have learned more about your teachings both Quran and the Sunnah of prophet Mohamed (PBUH). May Almighty Allah forgive all your sins and grant you Janatul Firdowsa Mufti menk. Ameen Ya Rabi
Indeed we have nothing to give Mufti Menk for this great work. May Allah SWA.. reward him abundantly.
Ameen
Amazing lecture Sir.It minimize our inner grudges.Allah SWT help u in all respect.
SubhanAllah!!! This has helped me a lot!!! Thank you so much
May Allah forgive us I always love to listen to you day and night 🙏👑💖
Thank you muft menk may Allah bless you ❤️ we need this reminders everyday 🙏
may Allah bless mufti menk
May Allah forgive everyone and us !! May allahs mercy be upon all of us and the people who wronged us !! May Allah forgive me for all the bad I have done thought and spoke 🙏🙏🙏
I had an old friend who is non Muslim, we had a big fight. I admit I said hurtful things, and so did he. I tried to reconcile but he ignored me. I have forgiven him even though he didn’t ask for forgiveness, and I asked Allah to forgive me for the hurtful things I said to him. Holding a grudge is a terrible thing, you actually do feel the weight in the heart. You cannot make them ask for forgiveness, leave it in the hand of Allah, and seek forgiveness from Allah, he is the all knowing the most just. I was very upset, but I am now peaceful. May Allah grant everyone the capacity to forgive inshallah ❤️
Allahuma Barak
As a convert I have discovered a Muslim can not be real friends with a non Muslim. They will never accept you as a real friend. They’re not even real friends to themselves (other non Muslims).
That’s why it’s important to control anger.
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, "The strong is not the one who overcomes the people by his strength, but the strong is the one who controls himself while in anger."
حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، أَخْبَرَنَا مَالِكٌ، عَنِ ابْنِ شِهَابٍ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْمُسَيَّبِ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم قَالَ " لَيْسَ الشَّدِيدُ بِالصُّرَعَةِ، إِنَّمَا الشَّدِيدُ الَّذِي يَمْلِكُ نَفْسَهُ عِنْدَ الْغَضَبِ ".
Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 6114
In-book reference : Book 78, Hadith 141
However, we shouldn’t keep non Muslims as close friends. Nor should we keep those Muslims as friends who are heedless of their duties to Allah.
Abu Huraira reported: The Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, said, “A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends.”
Source: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2378
That’s because the company we keep has an influence on us and we may join in their sins or worst become misguided.
However, that doesn’t mean we don’t treat non Muslims with respect and kindness. Allah says in the Quran:
“Allah does not forbid you from showing kindness and dealing justly with those who have not fought you due to your faith or driven you out of your homes. Allah loves those who deal justly. Allah only forbids you from those people that fought you because of your faith, drove you out of your homes and helped in your expulsion, that you take them as intimate associates. And whosoever takes them as intimate associates, then it is they who are the wrongdoers.” [al-Quran, 60:8-9]
It’s good you acknowledged your mistakes and asked for his forgiveness. But I wouldn’t worry too much about losing the friendship of this person. May Allah put khair in it and replace him with friends who bring you closer to Allah.
@@difencrosby Subhan Allah, I wouldn’t have believed this. But my brother who works with non Muslims says they are very nice to each other’s faces. But different behind each other’s backs. And now you confirmed it. That’s an eye opener. I wouldn’t have thought that of non Muslims before. Subhan Allah. Allah knows best.
He a non Muslim just mail him a letter or email to apologize and if he doesn’t forgive u it on him!!
Yaa Rabbi make it easy for us to ask for forgiveness Ameen
May Allah rewards you n your families with multiple blessings and grand you n Yr family jannatul firdaus aamiin ya robbal alamiin
Astaghfarullah Ya Rabb! MashaAllah what an amazing lecture. I cried through it all. powerful words as always. jazak Allah Kheiran dear Brother Mufti Menk. May Allah bless you for your beautiful work. Allah led me to you and therefore I now know he loves me 🙏🙏🙏
Once again amazing lecture may Allah bless you for your knowledge and wisdom maashaallaa
Amazing Allah For
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Asa bro I really enjoy your speeches and shows. And I share them with my brother s here in Philadelphia. I wanna say Ahumdulilah, I get emotional at times also
We all appreciate you. And we know it's for the sake of Allahswt. Asa.
subhanallah,how came this beautiful lecture to all people.allah grant you in jannah.amen.
May almighty Allah bless this brother for this wonderful lecture. Grant each and everyone one of us to hannah. This is one of my favorite talks, ameen, ameen. May allah forgive me , & have mercy upon me . Forgive me for any wrong I may done knowing & unknowingly.
I love ur lecture Haji Ismail mufti I want u to come one day to Kenya insha Allah
my Allah set grand you highest place in Janat
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
Ameen
hi sir muffi Menk I hope Allah will give you more time in this world so you we're teach more lecture to us I'm so happy to her you always Allah bless you Insha Allah in your family amen ❤❤❤
Allahuakbar,Allahuakbar,Allahuakbar
Allah Allah Allah
I love you allah so so much
Knowledgeble lecture to guide all Muslims.Aameen! May all follow as you said
I welcome and encourage everyone to read and listen to the Holy Quran. Subhan Allah!
jazakumlahu khaira brother mufit menk i always listening to your lecture
Maasha Allah what a beautiful recitation.
“To say a good word and to forgive people is better than any charity.” That sure is true. It’s easy to throw money at other humans but to forgive them takes supernatural power :/
MashaALLAH Forgiveness changes human life for the betterment and happiness
thank you very much really it's a very beautiful lecture
Very It'Very
May Allah guide you and protect you and your family
Subhanallah....barokallahulakum...
barakallahu fikum it really touched me thks very much
subhaallah,allah bless your family my brother.yarab allah forgive us all people and sive us all.amen.
I like your name, masha'Allah XD
Mufti Menk should start a Quran channel , Mansha Allah
May Allah grant you jannahtulfirdous
SubahanAllha
Keep guiding us in the way of almighty
One who forgives others fault that gives divine happiness
Make duah🤲
Beautiful man blessed
May Allah increase good deeds in Islam.
Peace and Blessings 🎂🎂
I love dis message 👍
Ma sha Allah!
May Allah guide, protect us here and hereafter
mashallah beautiful lecture 🤗
Allah subhanaallah Allah Taala
Alhamdula mashaalla allah bless all the time my life
Ma shaa Allah tabarakallah
worst thing is to hate on others, still forgiving others is like wasting your time on hating. the goodest question is does allah s.w.t forgive...
Is On Forgiving
V..helpful video to save all
Alhamdulillah
Nice message masha Allah
I’m gonna forgive my stepdad for what he did to me growing up and then I’m gonna forgive my mother for not accepting the truth when I told her about it and for not being emotionally there for me. Then I will pray that Allah forgives them
So sorry may Alah wipe it off ur ❤ heart amin
May Allah forgive us
Subhanallah
Fax fax fax mufti menk 👑
dernk herb bes kol
I’ll Thank you I blessings to you
wow subhanallah.
Someone asked me to forgive him and after that started talking ....If you don't forgive Allah will get you stuck at some point in your life............And I was like .....Is he asking forgiveness or blackmailing me ????
What to do in a situation of the other person is not willing to listen
Is very stubborn
You have not done anything wrong and still asking him to forgive for the sake of Allah swt
But he / she is stubborn and has too much ego and does not want to reconcile
Mash Allah
ASSALAM ALYKUM. BRO.ESMAEL,💖ALL T.Ks,SWT ALLAH,FOR 🎁OF,YOUR DEDICATION TO,PAS,THE UNDERSTANDING,THIS TOPIC ABUT FORGIVE TO ANOTHERS, (NO)! Easy for everyone, humble way to your knowledge passing two US, we have to obey you instructions that was giving to you;FROM. SWT ALLAH !AMEN ! 🌷❤️🌻🕋🌻❤️🌷. SIS.LILY REHANNA🌷
Good lecture but it is strange to see someone else pictured speaking on the video while hearing Mufti Ment talking.
Fax @saeed ❤️
Assalamu alaikum. Thank you for these khutbas- they serve as very helpful reminders and reinforcement along the Path especially during the pandemic when social isolation became widespread. Could the Mufti find the time to address the growing problem of narcissism and how to deal with it especially if it’s a family member. Bearing in mind it might be a trauma response in itself - however the affect it has on those around it is very damaging. Often the person at the receiving end of the narcissist is prevented from fully being Muslim (eg. Prevented from marrying anyone, being treated poorly/like a possession or worse, a slave, no rights are respected, and so forth). This is a growing problem globally but no one on the Islamic community seems to want to address it in a scholarly and advanced manner. It’s all very superficial. Please guide the Ummah especially the women who seem to be disproportionately affected by such abusive behaviour amongst their spouses or fathers or even brothers. The love in the hearts of these men towards their duty to women gets lost somehow. The connection to Allah gets similarly lost. The women’s lives are destroyed for no reason. Sometimes even their Iman gets sidetracked as they cannot keep it alive through good acts due to the oppression. There are no winners in these relationship dynamics as far as one can tell. Please shed some light on this dark evil that seems to be emerging as a very widespread phenomenon people are only now waking up to. Thank you and jzk.
Aameen
Please insert the CC English automatically or subtitles in the lecture sheikh.
A.aslam Alaykum muft menk
I pray may Allah give me ability to repent and turn to him amin
But if the person do again and again cheeting how do I forgive hom hir still do I'm married to a Muslim what do I do I divorce him but what must i do
Makasih Dik Udah buat videonya seru banget😎
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1)
سُبْحَا نَ اللهِ وَ بِحَمْدِهِ عَدَدَخَلْقِهِ، وَرِضَا نَفْسِهِ، وَزِنَةَ عَرْشِهِ وَمِدَادَ كَلِمَاتِهِ.
Subhanallahi wa bihamdihi, ai’dada khalqihi, wa ridhaa nafsihi, wa zinata ‘ar shihi, wa midaada kalimaatihi.
Reward: Recite 3 times = 6 hours of Dhikr
2)
After every salah say:
Alhamdulilah (33 times)
SubhanAllah (33 times)
Allahuakbar (33 times)
لاَ اِلٰهَ اِلاَّ اللهُ وَ حْدَ هُ لَا شَرِ يْكَ لَهُ، لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَ لَهُ الْحَمْدُ يُحْيِى وَ يُمِيْتُ وَ هُوَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَيْ ءٍ قَدِ يرْ
(one time)
((Laa ilaaha illallaahu wah dahu laa shariika lahu, lahul mulku wa lahul hamdu yuhyii wa yumiitu wa huwa ‘ailaa kulli shayin qadiir))
Reward: say after every salah and your sins will be wiped away even if they were as large as the foam of the sea.
3)
SubhanAllah
سُبْحَانَ الله
Reward: say 100 times a day and 1,000 Hasanah will be written for you or 1,000 sins will be wiped away.
4)
سُبْحَانَ اللهِ الْعَظِيمِ وَ بِحَمْدِ هِ
Subhaanal-laahil ‘aathiimi wa bihamdihi
Reward: say this and a date palm will be planted for you in Paradise. (In Shaa Allah)
5)
لَا إِلٰهَ إِلَّا اللَّهُ وَحْدَهُ لَا شَرِيكَ لَهُ، لَهُ الْمُلْكُ وَلَهُ الحَمْدُ وَهُوَ عَلَى كُلِّ شَيْءٍ قَدِيرٌ
Laa ilaaha illallaahu wahdahu laa shareeka lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu wa Huwa 'alaa kulli shay'in Qadeer.
Reward: say 10 times and you will have the reward for freeing 4 slaves from the Children of Isma’il
6)
اللَّهُمَّ إنِّي أَسْأَلُكَ الْجَنَّةَ
Allahuma inni as alukal jannah
Meaning: Oh Allah, grant me Jannah
Reward: say 3 times and Jannah itself will ask Allah to grant you Jannah
7)
اللَّهُمَّ صَلِّ وَسَلَّمْ عَلَى نَبِيِّنَا مُحَمَّدٍ
Allahumma salli wa sallim 'alaa nabiyyinaa Muhammadin
Reward: The Prophet saw said: "Who recites blessings upon me 10 times in the morning and 10 times in the evening will obtain my intercession on the Day of Resurrection.”
8)
أَعُوذُ بِكَلِمَاتِ اللَّهِ التَّامَّاتِ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا خَلَقَ
'A'oothu bikalimaatil-laahit-taammaati min sharri maa khalaqa
Reward: Whoever recites this 3 times in the evening will be protected from insect stings.
9)
سُبْحَانَ اللَّهِ وَبِحَمْدِهِ
Subhaanallaahi wa bihamdihi
Reward: Whoever recites this 100 times in the morning and in the evening will not be surpassed on the Day of Resurrection by anyone having done better than this except for someone who had recited it more.
10)
بِسْمِ اللَّهِ الَّذِي لَا يَضُرُّ مَعَ اسْمِهِ شَيْءٌ فِي الَْأرْضِ وَلَا فِي السَّمَاءِ وَهُوَ السَّمِيعُ الْعَلِيمُ
Bismillaahil-lathee laa yadhurru ma'as-mihi shay'un fil-'ardhi wa laa fis-samaa'i wa Huwas-Samee 'ul- 'Aleem
Reward: Recite 3 times. Whoever recites it in the morning will not be afflicted by any calamity before evening, and whoever recites it in the evening will not be overtaken by any calamity before morning.
11)
حَسْبِيَ اللَّهُ لَآ إِلَهَ إِلَّا هُوَ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَهُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ
Hasbiyallaahu laa 'ilaaha 'illaa Huwa 'alayhi tawakkaltu wa Huwa Rabbul-'Arshil-'Adheem
Reward: Allah will grant whoever recites this 7 times in the morning or evening whatever he desires from this world or the next.
12)
اللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي لَّا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ، خَلَقْتَنِي وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ، وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ، أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ، أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ، وَأَبُوءُ بِذَنْبِي فَاغْفِر لِي فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ الذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ
Allaahumma Anta Rabbee laa ilaaha illaa Anta, khalaqtanee wa anaa 'abduka, wa anaa 'alaa 'ahdika wa wa'dika mas-tata'tu, a'oothu bika min sharri maa sana'tu, aboo'u laka bini'matika 'alayya, wa aboo'u bithanbee faghfir lee fa'innahu laa yaghfiruth-thunooba 'illaa Anta.
Reward: Whoever recites this with conviction in the evening and dies during that night shall enter Paradise, and whoever recites it with conviction in the morning and dies during that day shall enter Paradise.
@saeed learn habibi
If u for give ALLAh solved ol promise problem o swear
When are you coming back to Sri lanka?
indonesia caption please dear brother. im willing to work non profit..
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I want to know is it necessary to forget after forgiving someone? Because if we forget then we are allowing the same thing to happen in future. Please answer!!!!!!!!
It's good to not forget incase so and so does the same mistake too you, but forgive and advice the person..
@@maryamnew65 thank you very much 😊 May Allah make us better Muslims.
Forgive to clean your heart, but if people abuse you or keep a toxic relationship, or mistreat you then you have to walk away.
Sometimes, you must stop interaction with toxic people
@@aborgeshonorato You are absolutely right. Thank you so much for your comment.
@@jeevanabbas welcome
Pattern up wallahi u somali
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Lailatul kadig is layk I see gadara alhamdulilah Rabil alamin I soo I m ezz asw
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What if the wrong doer is punishable by imprisonment or do n the wronged one forgives him?
It'll be up to the wronged-one to decide whether to forgive him or report it to police/court
As Salamu Alaikum I’m thinking to go to Jamayah but money is stopping me. Sheikh is not true he is stopping me to Jamayah?
Hahahahaha sorry Allah but being a black man I was driving and listen to the Quran on my way to the mosque in my car and I heard the verse about radiant faces and blackened faces and I looked in the mirror, 😒 saw my blackened face and I smiled and said to myself “ am I already blackened or will I be more blackened than this? I pray to Allah that this part of the book is not quite literal. Where is my motivation right? May Allah bless all of you my brothers and sisters.
Paraduss Saboor Sensix I don’t think 🤔 “blackened” literally means that way. Even if it means that way, a black person with a pious soul would have their faces full of light 💡. Again Allah knows what exactly that means, but a righteous person’s condition will be much better that a sinful person’s whether we are black or white or all the other colors in between. Also, remember that there are some people who are black and have noor on their face because of their deeds. Go look around and see the difference in the people who are pious and those who are not. May Allah open our hearts to good understanding of matters. Don’t lose hope in the mercy of Allah just because your black. There is a good reason Allah made you that way.
Aisha A thank you 🙏🏾! May Allah bless you
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If I fogv ALLAh given u enithing I wAnt ALLAh promise u don't now
👉💎DIAMOND 💎👈👆
Listen to my hadith.
Allah will forgive everything.
You don't pray it is up to Allah to forgive you.
You don't fast in ramadan it is up to Allah to forgive you.
You drink alcohol, womanizer and gamble, it is up to Allah to forgive you.
All the above are between you and Allah.
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But the only thing Allah cannot forgive you is .
If you have cheated any person of there money.
If you cheated your family people in property matters.
If you have caused pain and suffering to other people because of your actions.
All the above Allah cannot forgive unless the people whom you cheated and caused pain and suffering don't forgive you.
So first and foremost ask forgiveness from all the people whom you cheated or caused suffering.
And once you settle the dues of all this people then you can turn towards prayers, fasting, charity, Hajj etc to please Allah subhan wataallah and seek his forgiveness.
Unfortunately Muslim still especially benefits
Is not m ALLAh sey if u for give ALLAh rimuvd ol mathabi to u