@@georgiadavis670 God judges all!! God even judges the keyboard warriers who spew assumptions around like candy, without knowing the FULL N TRUE STORY!
@@debbiewenckowski4670 How do you know what I’m assuming? That was just my personal feelings. The families did know. There was a lot more that should have been done.
I honestly think this entire family needs to be investigated. These family Channels are all sick. To use your kids for views has never sat well with many, yet we seem to ignore it.
Ellie and Jared I just want you to know when you guys are ready to come back I'm going to be here. I miss you and your babies but I understand. Family comes first. I love you all. 💜💜💜
No more videos from you Ellie and Jared. I can understand that your finished with You tube. Enjoy your family and your lovely home. Stay happy and positive. I wish you both all the best .. 🌈🌻🌈
It’s how the world is today. If you watch this channel you would see it’s just about every day life. The kids are in some of it but not all. I’ve learned from them and enjoy them. The harsh judgement and assumptions are disgusting! Folks need to try and let a case unfold, hear the facts and then come to a conclusion. And I know, y’all don’t like this family.
Praying for you guys. My kids used to watch you and so I have watched you a little bit too. You’ve always seemed so sweet and genuine. I just wanted to let you know that we see you and we believe that you did what you could to help the kids.
My advice is a 61-year-old woman with three grown children, and eight grandchildren. I looked back and one of the things I think about are that I followed through. If I said I was gonna do something I did it that’s really important to show children. Great vlog guys.
Ellie and Jared, I’m sorry for what your family has endured. I work in mental healthcare and I know how trauma effects the entire family. It’s really easy for others to judge. Praying for you all
@EllieandJared I miss you guys. Please dont let this video be the end. Take the time away but please come back. Please..we are praying for you. We want to hear from you. Please come back.
I miss u guys. I understand why u had to take a break, at least I hope it’s a break. But I really really miss ur family. Those of us who have been here know you guys and we love you and we support you. And I hope you come back when you are ready. I miss watching June Bug grow. She was so little. And ur boys! Omg they will be big boys before you know it and I don’t want to miss it! I’m wish you all well! ❤️❤️❤️
Ellie and Jared, I’ve watched you since I was pregnant with my first born. Jaxon and my son are the same age. Two months apart. You all always seemed so genuine. I’m really sorry you all are going through the family drama so publicly. Stay strong and I am praying for you two and the kids. We love you!
I agree. But we have to remember that if Russell has not had the courage to get help , we would probably not have known about this until it was too late
Helpful hint from a grandmother. Positive affirmation. You see and hear behavior you want from them you point it out. When you see or hear them work through problem solving with anger or jealousy. Let them know you see them trying. Always make your No no but before you do give them options. I also do a anger meter or how upset meter. This that your upset with you should try to be angry or mad for a little bit or go cry for a few about this but then let’s work it out when your ready to talk. Look at vocabulary you can give your children to help them express there selves. Managing emotions.
I am missing you guys! I understand the need to take a step away for a while, but I hope that you know how much love and support is waiting for you when you get back!
Bless your beautiful family at this time. 🙏🏻 I cannot really explain it well, but I hate seeing happy pictures or videos of people right before their world imploded. I am like," They didn't even know what was about to happen.... Ugh." 😭
@@B-ch6ukwhat’s your point? You actually think they didn’t try to Fo something about it, just because they didn’t vlog it? How stupid are you? You clearly don’t know how hard it is to get justice for children.
I remember saying to my husband that we’ve spent all these years teaching our children how to not need us. We raised them to work hard and think independently, but it’s so hard to see them grow and fly away. It’s pure love and joy seeing our kids grow, but it pulls the heart strings.
I love you all Prayers for your family, for your peace, prayers for your comfort, prayers for your conditions. Heavenly Father knows how this all will end and in prayer i ask he surround your family with his special angels and guide you thru this chapter. ❤
Sending you love and prayers in this difficult time. Knowing you guys, you are probably really taking your time to process and to decide how to respond to all of this. We will be here when you're ready.
highly doubt you’ll be reading comments dealing with so much. but i’ve been following you literally since you got pregnant with jackson (then bonnie and missy etc after) !! i must’ve been about 13 maybe when i started watching your vlogs i’m from the uk so your vlogs would pop up at like 10pm every night i would sneak my laptop in. never missed one vlog! i can imagine right now so much is happening and overwhelming but i just want to say i support you and your family❤ i know your keeping it as private as possible i just want to send my love and support 🩷
It feels sad to say but when I was diagnosis with PCOS and Endometriosis, I really looked forward to this time of life. TTC is very exhausting. Now I’m pregnant with my first and I am trying to not wish the days away. Being pregnant is hard! Along with the hard, there is so much good too.
Ciao, dato che siete genitori di maschietti (futuri uomini) vi chiedo per favore di educarli al rispetto verso le donne. Scrivo da Palermo, Italia. La mia patria è teatro troppo frequente di omicidi, violenza, prepotenza verso le donne perché non si accetta un rifiuto, la fine della relazione. La donna è vista come un oggetto. Per favore, cresceteli saggi, rispettosi. C'è urgente bisogno di uomini, maschi ne abbiamo abbastanza ❤
The moment I realized my baby was not a baby no more was when I was shopping for him in the little kid section, the section where I would walk first thing when I’d enter the store. I couldn’t find his size anymore and that’s when I realized I have to move to the bigger kid section. I just stood for a few minutes staring at the clothes that he no longer will fit in anymore and kinda broke me that he’s growing up into a young boy 😭
What happened to your old videos? I started watching you when you guys lived in an apartment and were trying for Jackson. You guys were so funny and you ended your videos with handstands lol I miss those videos.
😂 secret about me with my birth family always forgetting about me or ignoring me I just like the spiritual connections for my self through other families like you mechams gifted me with and I cannot thank you and support you enough ❤ 😢😅 🎉 Lauren Franklin Tn
It is such a bitter sweet decision to make. My husband and I are currently pregnant with our last baby. The decision was something I never thought I'd come to, but something felt right about this decision. Younger me had the goal of 6-8 kids, and here I am stopping at 4. The Lord is so gracious and kind to us throughout our lives. Blessings to you, Mecham family!
I used to watch you guys back when Jackson was learning to ride his little balance bike and now coming back seeing him at almost 9 is crazy! So happy for you guys and glad to see Ellie finally got her little girl she dreamed about for all of those years. All the best to you
Falling silent and deleting comments is not the way.
Might as well grab a ukelele.
I noticed that too.
@@georgiadavis670 God judges all!! God even judges the keyboard warriers who spew assumptions around like candy, without knowing the FULL N TRUE STORY!
@@debbiewenckowski4670 How do you know what I’m assuming? That was just my personal feelings. The families did know. There was a lot more that should have been done.
They are all sick people:(
Is the Mormon religion really that strange?
I honestly think this entire family needs to be investigated. These family
Channels are all sick. To use your kids for views has never sat well with many, yet we seem to ignore it.
You searched for this family just to comment this?
@@familyoffour247do you even know what they did?
I miss you guys, I bet June bug must be walking by now. Take whatever time you need to heal. Love you.
She's not old enough but she might be an early walker
Ellie and Jared I just want you to know when you guys are ready to come back I'm going to be here. I miss you and your babies but I understand. Family comes first. I love you all. 💜💜💜
I miss the Mecham family! Come back to UA-cam!!
Just sending deep love and empathy. ❤ Love you guys.
No more videos from you Ellie and Jared.
I can understand that your finished with You tube.
Enjoy your family and your lovely home.
Stay happy and positive.
I wish you both
all the best ..
🌈🌻🌈
Miss seeing videos , but I understand you need time to come to terms ❤ prayers to you all 🙏
Just watched Bonnie’s video! So proud of her! Hope to see you back when you are ready! Prayers to all of you!
Glad she told her side
Me too!!❤
Ellie Jared and family I love and support you You are all in my prayers. 🙏🙏🙏✝️✝️✝️💜💜💜
Ellie and Jared, I just wanted to say I miss your smiling faces, but please take all the time you need and hold your babies tight ❤
What happened?
@@foxyred1015 They not having anymore babies
They having family problems
I hope all this Family vlogs get CANCEL..
Why??
@@juanolivarez7877birds of a feather…
It’s how the world is today. If you watch this channel you would see it’s just about every day life. The kids are in some of it but not all. I’ve learned from them and enjoy them. The harsh judgement and assumptions are disgusting! Folks need to try and let a case unfold, hear the facts and then come to a conclusion. And I know, y’all don’t like this family.
Same.
I have been here since Jackson was born and I can’t believe 😢 he is 9 years old ❤❤❤❤❤ love from uk 🇬🇧 keep up with the great work guys ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Praying for you guys. My kids used to watch you and so I have watched you a little bit too. You’ve always seemed so sweet and genuine. I just wanted to let you know that we see you and we believe that you did what you could to help the kids.
Miss you guys!! I hope you decide to come back to UA-cam soon!
When you coming back?
My advice is a 61-year-old woman with three grown children, and eight grandchildren. I looked back and one of the things I think about are that I followed through. If I said I was gonna do something I did it that’s really important to show children. Great vlog guys.
💯
Ellie and Jared, I’m sorry for what your family has endured. I work in mental healthcare and I know how trauma effects the entire family. It’s really easy for others to judge. Praying for you all
Did I miss something??? What happened?? 😢
@@Caroline2208-ro8uh They not having anymore babies
They having family problems
@@NoodlesDoodles-zb3uvnot entirely true
Sending love and prayers ❤
@EllieandJared I miss you guys. Please dont let this video be the end. Take the time away but please come back. Please..we are praying for you. We want to hear from you. Please come back.
You say take time away but are begging them to come back. What if they decide to never come back? Will you be ok?
I miss u guys. I understand why u had to take a break, at least I hope it’s a break. But I really really miss ur family. Those of us who have been here know you guys and we love you and we support you. And I hope you come back when you are ready. I miss watching June Bug grow. She was so little. And ur boys! Omg they will be big boys before you know it and I don’t want to miss it! I’m wish you all well! ❤️❤️❤️
Ellie looks so relieved! She is glowing with this decision. Although it is bittersweet, I know we are about to get Ellie's thriving era!!! 🥰🥰
Miss you all so much. Thinking of you during this difficult time. ❤
Ellie and Jared, I’ve watched you since I was pregnant with my first born. Jaxon and my son are the same age. Two months apart. You all always seemed so genuine. I’m really sorry you all are going through the family drama so publicly. Stay strong and I am praying for you two and the kids. We love you!
I agree. But we have to remember that if Russell has not had the courage to get help , we would probably not have known about this until it was too late
Helpful hint from a grandmother. Positive affirmation. You see and hear behavior you want from them you point it out. When you see or hear them work through problem solving with anger or jealousy. Let them know you see them trying. Always make your No no but before you do give them options. I also do a anger meter or how upset meter. This that your upset with you should try to be angry or mad for a little bit or go cry for a few about this but then let’s work it out when your ready to talk. Look at vocabulary you can give your children to help them express there selves. Managing emotions.
As sad as it is, the thought of just rasing my kids and not getting pregnant ever again has been amazing 😅
When are you guys making another video
I am missing you guys! I understand the need to take a step away for a while, but I hope that you know how much love and support is waiting for you when you get back!
Miss you guys so much! I know Christ has been with you all. Sending all the positive vibes, thoughts and prayers your way ❤❤❤
I hope
You all come back I miss you guys and how big Jennifer is getting ❤
Bless your beautiful family at this time. 🙏🏻 I cannot really explain it well, but I hate seeing happy pictures or videos of people right before their world imploded. I am like," They didn't even know what was about to happen.... Ugh." 😭
@@B-ch6ukwhat’s your point? You actually think they didn’t try to Fo something about it, just because they didn’t vlog it? How stupid are you? You clearly don’t know how hard it is to get justice for children.
I agree 💔💔
It's going to be Ellies thriving Era !!! 🎉❤❤❤ Everything has a season!
I remember saying to my husband that we’ve spent all these years teaching our children how to not need us. We raised them to work hard and think independently, but it’s so hard to see them grow and fly away. It’s pure love and joy seeing our kids grow, but it pulls the heart strings.
Your kids will always need you. For people to think they can teach their kids to not need them is truly sad!
Heavenly Father has truly blessed you. Your family is in my prayers. ❤
And I sympathize with Shari and h r needing to ignore her family but found family love for her through deru crew❤😮😢🎉
Missing you guys 😢😢😢😢
Hope to see new videos soon!!
I really miss you guys!!!! 😭😭
A nice journey from your infertility to end of having baby era....
Miss you so much!! 😥
I love you all
Prayers for your family, for your peace, prayers for your comfort, prayers for your conditions.
Heavenly Father knows how this all will end and in prayer i ask he surround your family with his special angels and guide you thru this chapter. ❤
I miss you guys come back plz
Ellie I totally get what you said to listen more and watch . You sound like me. I like that you cry Jared😊
I miss so much seeing your videos. Hope and praying all is well.
thinking about you guys xo sending love and peace your way
If they check the comments from a distance I'm sure they will feel the support of their followers! ❤
I support all of your family Ellie. I know this hard for you right now. But you will always have my support. I love your family please keep vlogging
We miss you guys,, plz make more videos 😊
Jennifer June is so cute. ❤❤❤❤
Missing y'all! 🙏🙏🙏
Beautiful bittersweet vlog ❤😢😊🎉
Comeback guys. We all miss you 😢
Prayers missing you.
I'm sending love and hugs❤❤❤
Grew up with you guys! I remember the video when you found out your pregnant with Jackson
We sure do miss you. I am praying and hoping you get to see your nieces and nephews. Nothing but love.
Sending you love and prayers in this difficult time. Knowing you guys, you are probably really taking your time to process and to decide how to respond to all of this. We will be here when you're ready.
Same here. They've managed to grow this channel and uploaded regularly for years. They exude happiness. ❤
We miss you guys
We miss you and hope you guys are ok
I somehow missed why they've been away? Hope they're ok.
You guys should go camping more. Those are special precious years and your kids are at great ages for that. Camping, hiking, biking, canoeing etc.
That’s kinda hard for Jared to do right now being that he has had a hip replacement.
Praying for you! 🙏
Wish y'all would come back
Miss watching yall
I miss you guys so much, sending you and your family so much love❤️ take your time and comeback when your ready, we’ll be here whenever you are!
highly doubt you’ll be reading comments dealing with so much. but i’ve been following you literally since you got pregnant with jackson (then bonnie and missy etc after) !! i must’ve been about 13 maybe when i started watching your vlogs i’m from the uk so your vlogs would pop up at like 10pm every night i would sneak my laptop in. never missed one vlog! i can imagine right now so much is happening and overwhelming but i just want to say i support you and your family❤ i know your keeping it as private as possible i just want to send my love and support 🩷
Thank you. Momma to 4 here
11,7,5,2 and I reallllly needed to hear this... "patients"
Miss seeing your family
🥜🧈 🐶
Are y’all just not going to post anymore?
I lost my precious daddy a few years ago. Nothing matters but the memories. The laughs, the times together…the memories. Just keep making memories!
I have ben following since you starte ivf whit Jackson and have ben so nice to following along thanks for being you love you all 🫶
I miss you guys ❤😢 praying for your whole family
It feels sad to say but when I was diagnosis with PCOS and Endometriosis, I really looked forward to this time of life. TTC is very exhausting. Now I’m pregnant with my first and I am trying to not wish the days away. Being pregnant is hard! Along with the hard, there is so much good too.
Congratulations 🎉❤🤰and prayers for a healthy pregnancy, uncomplicated birth and most of all a healthy & content new baby!
Ciao, dato che siete genitori di maschietti (futuri uomini) vi chiedo per favore di educarli al rispetto verso le donne. Scrivo da Palermo, Italia. La mia patria è teatro troppo frequente di omicidi, violenza, prepotenza verso le donne perché non si accetta un rifiuto, la fine della relazione. La donna è vista come un oggetto. Per favore, cresceteli saggi, rispettosi. C'è urgente bisogno di uomini, maschi ne abbiamo abbastanza ❤
You don’t get to tell them how to educate their children.
@@dearleah7299 temo non abbia capito il senso del mio commento, mi dispiace se non sono riuscita a farmi capire
The moment I realized my baby was not a baby no more was when I was shopping for him in the little kid section, the section where I would walk first thing when I’d enter the store. I couldn’t find his size anymore and that’s when I realized I have to move to the bigger kid section. I just stood for a few minutes staring at the clothes that he no longer will fit in anymore and kinda broke me that he’s growing up into a young boy 😭
Thanks you for share and you have wonderful four of children 🩷🩷
People in the comments need to learn respect. You dont know the whole story, nor is this the way to communicate. Do better
I agree I can't imagine. 😢
Where are you guys?? We miss you
Please come back, I miss you all !
I miss you guys. You are all in my prayers!
What happened to your old videos? I started watching you when you guys lived in an apartment and were trying for Jackson. You guys were so funny and you ended your videos with handstands lol I miss those videos.
We all miss you all ❤you all.,
Seems like a great time in your life. No pressure of wondering if you're pregnant, checking the time of the month, making dr. appts. etc.
What does the time of the month mean!???
@@ragadalfaqeeh7922Period
@@ragadalfaqeeh7922to see if you’re ovulating. You need to ovulate to get pregnant. Women aren’t fertile every day of the year.
@@ragadalfaqeeh7922may I ask your age?
GOOD BYE
Please release a statement for your viewers.
No ? they do not owe us anything
😂 secret about me with my birth family always forgetting about me or ignoring me I just like the spiritual connections for my self through other families like you mechams gifted me with and I cannot thank you and support you enough ❤ 😢😅 🎉 Lauren Franklin Tn
So the journey has ended
I miss y'all
❤❤❤❤
Rewatching videos cause I miss your faces and smiles 💓 hope to see you when you’re ready. Social media family loves y’all so much!
Where’d you guys go? Everything okay?
Hey Ellie love from India
I hope you all come back after things calm down been praying for you.❤️
Miss you!
Hope all is well miss the vlogs
Good morning I miss watching your family so much please don’t let what happens to others and say to you your family is such a blessing❤
I just found out so I was wondering why there was no new upload. ❤
It is such a bitter sweet decision to make. My husband and I are currently pregnant with our last baby. The decision was something I never thought I'd come to, but something felt right about this decision. Younger me had the goal of 6-8 kids, and here I am stopping at 4. The Lord is so gracious and kind to us throughout our lives. Blessings to you, Mecham family!
I used to watch you guys back when Jackson was learning to ride his little balance bike and now coming back seeing him at almost 9 is crazy! So happy for you guys and glad to see Ellie finally got her little girl she dreamed about for all of those years. All the best to you