My Experiences In Cartagena, Colombia | Let's Talk About It | Part 1

#travel #dating

[@castroislivingonearth]

“ Most of them , don’t understand themselves.”
- King LJ

[@kingljproductions504]

✊🏾😎💯

[@29thizzle]

This is facts. Especially once they get with a gringo that shows them genuine love and affection.

[@keepcool460]

💯 had a few colombianas fumble the bag the same way they just stuck in they old habits 🤷🏾‍♂️ being single way better anyway especially if you country hopping😎.

[@maliwoodtalks]

That is a Bar for sure. The supposedly smartest women in the world (American ) can’t even get out of their own way. So throw adverse living conditions on top of that and you get a person in the ultimate survival mode.

[@TRollex7092]

I think that is the way with most latin countries and it’s annoying trying to get them to look past tomorrow and they continue to fumbling that bag …. Then I gotta block em’

[@29thizzle]

What up King LJ??
Brother, you are 100% correct. I think that's how my ex was thinking, even though she's older than the average woman. When I look back, thats how she was- in survival mode. Everything you described is what I noticed. But here's the thing- once we were together almost two years, I expected that mentality to change being that she sees how I'm operating. I figured once she saw that I was down to Earth and genuine, I would get that in return.
I think she listened to the wrong people and now she lost out. Now I'm dealing with a younger Venezuelan and seeing how that will work. I knew her before my ex, so we'll see how that plays out. She was down for me more than my ex, but I figured that's because she's younger.
If I deal with a woman without kids, she has to not want kids, brah, for real because I don't want any more. Most Colombianas that don't have kids want children, from my experience. That automatically cancels me out. 😊
Brother, you already know where we come from. Personally I don't give two shits out of a monkey's ass what people say about me. I've been through to much to think on other people. Yes, words do hurt, but they also build character and make some of us stronger as well.
Do your thing, bro. You know you have a solid following here.
I can't wait to touch down for the first time in Cartegena!!!😁

[@kingljproductions504]

Wassup homie! Man I'm more than sure that she listened to the wrong person. They always do. But you definitely did the right thing by walking away. Jokes on her lol. Enjoy your new PYT. If you already noticed a difference then you off to a good start 💯

[@borngod1315]

Bro, go get that girl back. You have to keep in mind you said it yourself they really don’t know , that’s where you come in You’re the best knower love your loyalty to her champ. That’s why you’re going to be successful. That’s the main reason why I support your channel bro.

[@brownpapi2634]

Yeah but it has to be her decision to get back together...all that wishy washy shit is for the birds. She has to decide what type of life she really wants

[@kingljproductions504]

Appreciate the support bro! It's better like this bro. She fumbled the opportunity. It's going to be hard to get that back 💯

[@kingljproductions504]

​@@brownpapi2634 all of that said and she's still around, so what do you think she wants for her life. It can't be that hard to read in between the lines 🥱👌🏾

[@TRollex7092]

This is the Video the other travel channels don’t explain. The mentality of a American and a Foreign , we are not the same but we have to come to an understanding. For those who put in the work KNOW and for the one who P4P you’ll figure it out… Much Respect for this content give me more ✊🏾💯💯💯

[@bigjay6479]

Appreciate you King LJ love the content bruh keep doing good work been following you since the beginning be safe out there .

[@kingljproductions504]

Appreciate it bro! Thanks for the support 💯🫡

[@genegene6570]

Unfortunately, she allowed the haters to impact her emotions. It's more unfortunate that viewers spew venom that, in reality, reflects their own insecurities and ignorance.

[@kingljproductions504]

Facts! 💯

[@KappaMan69]

ALWAYS GREAT CONTENT BRUH

[@kingljproductions504]

Appreciate it bro 💯

[@danaharrell7256]

My brother , hope all is well, you and your fiance, .....yes !, I still look at the both of you as a couple ( your in love with her Sir ,you can hear it in your voice when you speak about her , and she's in Love with you ! , (Don't! give up on her) wishing you both the best. ....Peace my brother.

[@kingljproductions504]

All is well bro 💯

[@maliwoodtalks]

It’s definitely different dating a foreign woman in her country. I’m 3 months in and I always keep that in mind. But your trick bill will definitely increase in Colombia due to their circumstances like you said. Overall it’s fun and cheaper than dating state side. Salute.

[@kingljproductions504]

Facts bro 💯 That's exactly how it is

[@truththeoryknowledge833]

Here’s my honest opinion, if your ex-girl was upset because of the nasty things the haters were saying under your UA-cam videos then the smart thing to do is not post your next girl on your UA-cam channel. You got to remember you’re a Black American man, it don’t matter if you a good guy posting good content, the haters are always going to try to rain on your parade

[@kingljproductions504]

Only the strong survive!

[@29thizzle]

Either way, folks will hate. They don't care if it's good or bad. Misery loves company

[@truththeoryknowledge833]

@@kingljproductions504 Trust me, your going to learn the importance of privacy if you want a different result

[@A.Nel2684]

So I’m the guy who asked the question “Why do you have your ex in your thumbnail when you’re broken up?”
I’m not a hater but it was a genuine question and you mentioned something in this video that leads to my next question
You said if any woman who enters into your life that has a problem with your friendship with your ex than she can leave how is this stance any different from WOMEN who say the same thing in regards to keeping MEN from their past around?
I’m a big believer in NOT taking a woman seriously who is still friends with her ex I will NEVER commit to a woman like that. So isn’t that blocking your blessings in a way?
If your ex meets a man that’s a good fit for her and he has an issue with you & her friendship no matter how platonic it is now how would you feel about that?
My initial question about her still being in the thumbnail was about blocking each other blessings from future partners since y’all are both not a fit for each other. There was no hate in my question
What are your thoughts on what I said?

[@kingljproductions504]

I didn't see it as hate or anything like that. I thought it was a good question so i wanted to answer it in a video.
For clarification, if a new woman comes around and is bothered by my content from the past with my ex then shen can walk. But if i pursue a new relationship, then the friendship with ex will definitely get dropped. And i would expect her to do the same if she wants to pursue a new relationship. There are still videos on the net with Ciara and Future, but that didn't stop Russell Wilson from pursuing her 😂 When a man really wants to be with a woman he doesn't care about the men that came before him. Kanye West, Kim K 💯

[@A.Nel2684]

@@kingljproductions504 Bruhhh if you knew me in real life you would know I'm NOT the biggest fan of the Ciara & Russell Wilson relationship and how it caused a lot of delusional expectations in the black community between men & women that's a LOOOOOONG discussion we can have at another time lol
As far as the Kanye West & Kim K example and how "When a man really wants to be with a woman he doesn't care about the men that came before him." I disagree with this too because I would argue that kind of man doesn't value himself if he chooses to commit to a woman like a Kim K who has her type of reputation
Everybody has past relationships I get it but I look at past relationship like resumes and if I'm choosing to commit to a woman who has a promiscous past, exes who are thugs & Pookies or is still friends with her ex that's a HUGE deal breaker for me. She and her ex don't have to be enemies but being friends and still hanging out will make me believe there are still feelings there and I'm a rebound or placeholder guy
My overall point is don't allow your friendship from blocking each other from finding someone else who is a better fit for you. I personally want you 2 to work it out because there's still an obvious genuine connection between y'all
And a message to your ex... Tell her to ignore the haters and don't let their words bother her. If she knows she's NOT who they accuse her to be she shouldn't let those words bother here. They're watching her not the other way around make sure she remembers that 👍🏿

[@callofdutymw3fan4you]

Hello king lj girl the one whose picture is still in the outtro. We love you and welcome you back to the channel. You are a very good woman and not a gold digger and wishing you and king lj a beautiful life .What you had and still have with king inspired many people and truly a fan. Please come back on his channel. God bless

[@theknownpoet]

The love is real family, and you never know what God has in store for y’all🏁Salute brother

[@Imhimnow713]

My g. Wuzzam. The fire drops are always appreciated. We pulling up on you this summer 😂😂. ✊🏾✊🏾💪🏽💪🏽

[@kingljproductions504]

Wassup homie! Yessir pull up 👊🏾😎💯

[@dru_g9207]

They pile up that plate so they don’t have to keep getting up to fix another one.😂 Keep the content flowing LJ!

[@kingljproductions504]

😂😂 💯

[@29thizzle]

Like my great grandmother used to say, they're being 'big-eyed'. They think that they're the only ones who've experienced what they're going through. I had to tell my ex that I had lights cut off, water cut off and live basic. America's poor may not be exactly like Colombia's poor, but they both are POOR on their respective spectrums. That feeling, sentiment, and lack of resources are ALL THE SAME, babaaaay....

[@callofdutymw3fan4you]

lets see a refresh of content your channel. A conversation with your girl the real one

[@jaz9713]

You need to get it together because a lot of of those new girls you bring around are dirty good rats. I live in Texas but my entire family is from & lives in Colombia (Cartagena & Cali). Bring olive ‘ol girl back into the picture & figure it out bc she seems like a keeper. Shes clean cut & sweet. No matter if she has a kid - almost everyone has kids!

[@callofdutymw3fan4you]

You are still in love with your ex that's why you don't want to remove her from the channel. That is good and do not be ashamed at all it shows you are maturing and you want stability in your life.
Get her back ..pull up on her for the content and be safe. The other new girl is not for you let her go she is just beautiful. You are trying to fill a void don't be selfish. You can keep talking to her but set boundaries and go get your woman. Lastly its not shameful to pay the bill or pay a bill for a woman you are taking seriously after a while. Kids comes with bills so do good women over time.Goodluck.no you better go get your wife brother work harder and get you both a house and car etc. Ready for journey.

[@mole2026]

Man, keep the ex on the thumbnail, nix the haters. Once again great content, thanks.

[@kingljproductions504]

Thanks bro, will do!

[@callofdutymw3fan4you]

he might as well get her back then if he is going to keep her in the outro don't you think. shipping them 100

[@mole2026]

@@callofdutymw3fan4you She has to make up her mind if she's with his program, you can't fold.

[@juneboutit6817]

LUV YOUR CONTENT BRO

[@genegene6570]

Where did you have the custom sports bra made? Is it expensive to have custom (advertising) apparel produced in bulk?

[@MRZE506]

I always say take the emotions out of it when dealing with a woman i respect you og but when one door closes another open but it wont open unless u completely close the first door

[@fo_evah_yung5879]

Fux wit the conti you puttin out real respect real.. I been to cartegena and setting up to move out there.. how that rent looking tho my guy? U air bnb ? Or renting?

[@nigeldenbow1147]

What barbershop you go to in Cartagena?

[@moneymakingmitch]

I gotta mobile guy that comes to your spot. He's official

[@nigeldenbow1147]

@@moneymakingmitch i need his intel bro

[@kingljproductions504]

None bro. I do it myself. That's why my lining always jacked up 😂😂

[@juneboutit6817]

KEEP DOING YOUR THING

[@MJG_Vibes]

King LJ. Good video brother

[@kingljproductions504]

Appreciate it bro 💯

[@goblack6770]

Tell her and anyone that you deal with the following:
DON’T READ THE COMMENTS!!
Comments are peoples opinions. Everyone has an opinion and if you are insecure and care about what people think then don’t read the comments.
When they go out in public together, do you think folks are NOT thinking those same things?? Of course they are.

[@MotivateTravelMoney]

I agree bro. I’m use to seeing you with your ex. It don’t even feel the same without her. But I’m still supporting

[@user-yb3fx8ym2q]

His right this women don’t know about business or investing half of them or dumb because it’s actually men willing to take care of them long term but they don’t see that they just trying to get by and live for that day

[@MrNesto29]

LJ, hey brother go and get your girl back.

[@kingljproductions504]

🫡💯

[@Moneymitch-hn2zq]

Salute to you my brother King LJ. She might be your Ex but you got you got her mind. She ain't never walking out your life man

[@kingljproductions504]

Facts! 💯

[@Moneymitch-hn2zq]

@@kingljproductions504 You got to do a collab wit Bandana, he be out in Cartagena

[@kevinharris7689]

What's up brother...I'd like to link up when I come next week.

[@kingljproductions504]

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[@brownpapi2634]

Good Stuff Brotha.... let's try to link up when I get down there. Keep doin ya thing

[@kingljproductions504]

Appreciate it bro 💯

[@Mississippi_B]

💪🏿💪🏿💪🏿dope video

[@kingljproductions504]

Appreciate it bro 💯

[@ctmj7]

King keep Winning 🏆

[@kingljproductions504]

Yessir 👊🏾😎💯

[@pharoahmonk50]

Your ex has friends who can read and write English very well. So I am sure her girlfriends who speak English are in her head about what the negative comments were saying.

[@kingljproductions504]

She doesn't need friends to do it because she knows how to do it herself. And she doesn't have any English speaking friends

[@tandemtransport7702]

She's just young and simple minded. You have to teach her that people are going to love and hate you for whatever you do. She has to be stronger for you and for you alls relationship. Ignore the BS and set her mind free. She's missing out FrFr.

[@kingljproductions504]

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[@keepcool460]

I definitely agree Cooperation is the biggest thing dealing foreign women. Because most of them just surviving they live for the day to day. They don't ever think about the future much💯

[@kingljproductions504]

Facts bro! Living day to day. That's real 💯

[@keepcool460]

@@kingljproductions504 The bad habits caused them to fumble on good relationships. Then they continued the cycle to lie to Other people about a why they single. From my experience Venezulans are easier to be in relationships with but vetting is crucial💯

[@maxvisionfilms]

Let's go 🫡🫡

[@kingljproductions504]

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[@jimmiemark2135]

Man everytime I saw you and ole girl, everything seemed to be cool. Maybe no one has ever showed her other side of life.. Yeah those words do hurt.

[@kingljproductions504]

Facts bro! She never traveled or flew on air plane until I took her traveling with me. And the list goes on 💯

[@user-yb3fx8ym2q]

And for the the play for play chicks they on a clock as well don’t sweat them every thing gets old

[@rohanj2918]

real talk, bro

[@kingljproductions504]

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[@BranjorAroundtheworld]

Lol you wearing a hat and sunglasses in doors lol

[@lawrencedavis7620]

Respect 🫡 💯

[@kingljproductions504]

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[@LeoJr-rk4km]

Just went through that in a two year relationship down here. The NFL has a draft every spring for a reason. Thats all i got to say. Wishing you nothing but success down here fam 🙏🏿

[@izaak1942]

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[@ChrisBCartagena]

Guy in sunglasses and hat mostly
talking about stuff..,

[@moliereshakespeare3730]

big bro, thats why you don't put your dating life on the internet.

[@kingljproductions504]

If it isn't one thing, it's another. Pick a struggle