How to Approach the VP of Grad Chapter | KelsTells

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  • My #nphcadvice on how to approach grad chapter members and their Vice President.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 62

  • @spicypynk
    @spicypynk 4 роки тому +103

    I used a lot of your advice and now I'm a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. 💙🤍🕊

  • @just_shaeee
    @just_shaeee 4 роки тому +68

    I crossed my graduate AKA chapter this past spring, and I STILL watch your videos! You ALWAYS put out great content and you are always spot on!

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому +2

      Awe! Thank you! Congratulations on crossing AKA sister Greek! Yip-Skee 💛💗💛💗

    • @yseals44
      @yseals44 Рік тому

      Please share if you did anything in addition to what was offered in this video. I am trying as well.

  • @elizabethrhone5516
    @elizabethrhone5516 4 роки тому +39

    Yes, this was spot on. When you started talking about “who you with” I started laughing because that’s exactly what happened. I ended up going to so many community service events and asking to volunteer, that if I couldn’t make one it was noticed and mentioned at the following event.
    Also, be prepared to attend events and volunteer for a time, if the chapter isn’t doing intake for a while. I showed up and volunteered for 2 years before they had intake. There were other chapters nearby, but I wanted to join this one. Advice- you waited for this chapter, don’t let anything sway you. 💚💕💚💕

  • @jw8165
    @jw8165 4 роки тому +23

    I had a good friend at work that became my sponsor into the Frat. Once I showed interest to him he advised me on all the events to meet the brothers. So when time to came, the chapter knew me and what I was about.

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому

      Thanks for sharing your experience 😊

  • @frostedtayleaux
    @frostedtayleaux 4 роки тому +16

    I went to a fundraiser event last week and I totally could have used this! Thank you sharing this! The info will definitely be useful for future events.

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому +1

      That’s great! Now you’ll know what to do

  • @tumekaallen3538
    @tumekaallen3538 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this information Queen. I feel more confident in my journey to find the Grad Chapter that fits me.

  • @aprilford2552
    @aprilford2552 4 роки тому +7

    Thank you for the video, really puts my mind at ease on how to approach. I signed up to go to my first event in Dec.

  • @yumiko0017
    @yumiko0017 4 роки тому +11

    This came right on time. I have my first informational meeting coming up soon.

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому

      Congrats! Make sure you’re subscribed and turn on that 🔔. I have more info coming soon 😉

  • @alisacollins5195
    @alisacollins5195 4 роки тому +12

    I love your advice. Currently, seeking grad chapter and your advice is so accurate. I've been invited and going to events. My question is how will I know when or if they are having a intake process? I guess they will send me invitation letter/ how if they don't have my contact information umm🤷🏿‍♂️

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому +6

      Great question. Sometimes they’ll verbally invite you to informational and ask for your contact. Other than that they will ask for your information beforehand to invite you

    • @alisacollins5195
      @alisacollins5195 4 роки тому

      @@KelsTells Great! Thanks 👌🏾👌🏾

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 4 роки тому +1

      It depends . If you need an Invitation to be considered for Intake/membership, someone will have to tell you about the informational . Other organizations have open informational sessions . Good luck.

  • @misslo6074
    @misslo6074 4 роки тому +9

    Is it inappropriate to email VPs of more than one chapter? The COVID situation is making it really hard to actually physically attend public events and I haven't been able to use those experiences to narrow down the chapter I want to show more interest in. How should I approach if I am looking into 2 chapters in my city? Thanks!

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому +4

      You can research both chapter’s social media platforms. Check out my video on COVID for interests ua-cam.com/video/rY2i_Pi066A/v-deo.html for more info.

  • @poodledaz
    @poodledaz 3 роки тому +3

    I like your videos thanks. I feel like graduate chapters take longer to have a line. Keep posting more 😁

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  3 роки тому

      Thank you! Every chapter is different which is why I always encourage consistency and communication 😊

  • @Nellly22
    @Nellly22 4 роки тому +10

    What would you advise to be proper phone etiquette when members give you their number? Like what are you supposed to do without being awkward? I noticed interested people exchange numbers too, I’m finding the grad process as an interest is VERY different from undergrad.

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому +8

      Treat it as if it were at your job. Keep it business casual. You can ask questions and have a conversation but keep in mind that you're still in the "interview process."

  • @marlynhunter6384
    @marlynhunter6384 4 роки тому

    Great info Kells. I am old-head and returning to college. Great info! We’ll talk soon!

  • @carolynmorris1626
    @carolynmorris1626 Рік тому +1

    Hi Kels!! I’m actively pursuing a grad chapter and am pretty good friends with a member of their organization and she has shown interest in me joining her chapter. In my inquiry email to the chapter VP, is it okay to mention the name of that member or would that be overstepping bounds? Should I even send an email to the chapter VP or just rely on my friend to vouch for me? Thanks in advance! Absolutely LOVE your vids! ❤

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  Рік тому +1

      Thanks for your continued support of my channel. Firstly, does the organization account solicitation for membership? If not, then an inquiry email may not be appropriate. I don’t think you need an inquiry letter if they know that you’re interested. What are you inquiring? DM me

  • @slim7701
    @slim7701 2 роки тому +1

    I sent an email to the vice president. She seemed very polite and told me to keep up with the social media pages. But she asked me my name and I got stuck lol

  • @doinglifewithrhemadanielle4526
    @doinglifewithrhemadanielle4526 4 роки тому +5

    Hello, if i attended a grad chapter event should i email them to say thank you? Or just keep attending future events?

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому +2

      I think that’s a polite thing to do

  • @arnesiacarter5617
    @arnesiacarter5617 4 роки тому +2

    Kels, first thank you for your videos. I want to express interest in a local grad chapter and attended a recent intake with the chapter but decided focus on furthering my community involvement. How would you suggest to further show my interest? Should I email the organization about events or just participate and show up? I want to ensure that I am seen and express my interest.

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому

      Thanks for watching my videos. I think that you should still make an effort to attend as many hosted events as you can. You don't have the email the chapter if you're receiving regular updates regarding their events. If you're not receiving updates, then you can message them or follow their social media for updates.

  • @dared12000
    @dared12000 4 роки тому +4

    You mentioned that it is best to send a letter of interest via email. I have gone to the chapter's website and there is no email address for the vice president, there is only a blanket 'contact us' form. Should I send my letter of interest through that form or just simply ask for more information?

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому +6

      You can email their “contact us” and request more information. You don’t have to send a letter of interest just yet

  • @anncam79
    @anncam79 4 місяці тому

    What does it mean if the VP approached you at an event and introduced herself as well as other members, including the president?

  • @cassaundradean7223
    @cassaundradean7223 4 роки тому +9

    Do you think it's okay to visit different Grad chapters of the same sorority?

  • @shanntahinds4335
    @shanntahinds4335 4 роки тому +1

    Great advice thank you 😊

  • @KrysStyle
    @KrysStyle Рік тому

    Hello great information I wanted to know there are about 3 grad chapters around my area. is it best to email all 3, or try to seek events to see which one is best for me prior to an email telling them I am interested? I wanted to know if its not good to tell all 3 grad chapters of the same organizations I am interested and ask for events of each. Or is it best to only email 1 and go to the one event only?

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  Рік тому

      Check out my video on this topic and "Before you reach out". It is my recommendation to choose one. ua-cam.com/video/Cx3WIrmdiF0/v-deo.html&pp=ygUea2Vsc3RlbGxzIGJlZm9yZSB5b3UgcmVhY2ggb3V0 and ua-cam.com/video/HZ-3m8usvto/v-deo.html&pp=ygUSa2Vsc3RlbGxzIHR3byBncmFk

  • @erikalatanya8478
    @erikalatanya8478 4 роки тому +2

    What happens when they leave you on read or are nonchalant in their emails? Should you keep pursuing? Should I bother going to their virtual zoom events or just leave it alone? I have two grad chapters in my area.

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому +6

      You should want to join a chapter that actively communicates with you. I would look into other options. There’s nothing wrong with courting different chapters of the same organization

  • @sidney3415
    @sidney3415 2 роки тому

    @KelsTells should I be worried if I emailed the VP, and their response was a little brief straight to the point?

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  2 роки тому

      If the organization does not accept solicitation for membership, that it would explain why the response was short. Does the organization accept solicitation for membership?

    • @sidney3415
      @sidney3415 2 роки тому

      @@KelsTells no, they do not. I thought that only applied to membership.

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  2 роки тому +1

      It’s a blanket statement. There’s a workaround. Video coming soon for y’all!

    • @sidney3415
      @sidney3415 2 роки тому

      @@KelsTells thanks, can’t wait!

  • @malston81
    @malston81 2 роки тому +1

    How many public events do you recommend attending prior to reaching out to the VP?

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  2 роки тому +1

      There’s no specific number. Attend as many as you can and do what makes you comfortable

    • @malston81
      @malston81 2 роки тому +1

      @@KelsTells thank you!! I just came across your channel & have been watching some of your videos & they are very informative!

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  2 роки тому

      Thank you

  • @angelarose8847
    @angelarose8847 2 роки тому

    You are amazing!

  • @TheAs63401
    @TheAs63401 3 роки тому

    Is it okay to visit all chapters to gain info about them prior to intake process?

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  3 роки тому

      What do you mean by visit all chapters? You can do research on each organization. Organizations also host meet and greets for you to learn more.

  • @Naye0926
    @Naye0926 4 роки тому

    In November I was invited to attend an event from one of the grad chapters and gave the VP my contact information after talking to a few members of this particular organization. The next day I emailed a thank you letter and I have not heard anything back. I have been looking on their website for future events but have not seen anything. What do you recommend I do next? Should I email again?

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому +1

      Yes, you can email to inquire about future events.

  • @dared12000
    @dared12000 4 роки тому

    I don't know anyone from the chapter I want to join. All of the deltas I know are either in another chapter or are not financial. Will that hurt me?

    • @KelsTells
      @KelsTells  4 роки тому +3

      It wouldn’t hurt you to ask them their perspective on the sorority and/or their experience joining the organization. I recommend attending the events of the chapter you want to join so that you’ll have the opportunity to meet active chapter members