Family DOESN'T Accept My Path Towards Sikhi/Amrit | What To Do! [Q&A]
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- Опубліковано 8 вер 2024
- If you struggle with your family accepting your steps towards Sikhi or being blessed with Amrit, then this video is for you. In this video, Bibi Gurprit Kaur highlights why your family may have trouble adapting to your decisions around your Sikhi and then gives solutions to what can be done to overcome these obstacles.
Have faith; you are not alone! This is a battle that loads of people are fighting and is one that you will surely overcome. The Guru has chosen this path for you for a reason. You are worthy!
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Thank you for this video. I have been studying for a little over a year now and I have been feeling stuck because there is no gurdwara where I live. I am still not sure what to do but Waheguru and being a Sikh speaks to me in ways that I have never felt before. I know inside this is my path and I am trying to figure out what to do next. Thank you again for all of your videos. waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ke fateh
do Daily Ardas(prayer). and speak to waheguru and chant waheguru in meditation i hope and know you will find your journey. Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh.
Thank you.
That is Beautiful to hear ❤ I hope Guru Ji supports you all the way and blessed you wirh faith and strength 💪 I feel many of us felt this in covid- so my advice, listen to katha (discourse like basics of sikhi) and kirtan 🤍 best forms of sangat/company
Also read baani, because you are reciting the Same words that came out of the Guru's blessed mouth❤ also try to meditate (I need to do this more 😅), you will feel the prescenr of the divine
And make online sikh friends❤
Wishing you the best sister
Where are you from?
@@rajinder2k4 I live in a small town in VIrginia, US. The closest drive is about 2hours.
I would say if you wanna practice
So naam simran, mool mantar.
You will surely find any Gursikh or any way out eventually.
Being from a Hindu family, my mom is totally against me being slowly adopting sikhi. She taunts me on my beard growth and me going to Gurdwara every day.
My love for sikhi has only grown since last 1 year.
Surely I'll take Amrit once after graduation and prove it to my parents..
Stay strong ,Have patience brother, Waheguruji is with you
Practice what you like. It's your life. Have your own wisdom and act.
Wow that is going to be an incredible difficult journey considering the hate most Sikh have toward Hindu. Glad to here you have found a little pocket of kindness.
future I am a sikh, non baptized, our people have a great reputation for our fun loving, generous, and freedom fighting spirit.
I am very sorry n surprised to see you have said we hate Hindus.
A true Sikh sees not a persons religion, color, height etc , they are in love with every 1 , they see Waheguruji in every Form.
🙏Waheguruji 🙏
@@santoshcore1256 it's cuz khalistani's. They're kind of prominent these days and they are anti Hindu
Support eveything13 everyone. We need to support these volunteers
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I was in similar situation
I have also started practicing Sikhi , no one in my family (except me) is a Keshdhari, no one has long hairs, no one wear turban.
Connect with Naam is most important thing (as per me).
With Sikhi Swarup it's a identity by Gurusahib any Sikh is instantly identified, so it not unnatural for family members to feel strange and oppose to Sikhi.
But your life is your sovereignty if you are ethically and morally right you must practice what you like.
My own experience i am sharing how i started practicing Sikhi:
God is one what is written in Hindu spritual scriptures (unedited in orignal form) is same into Sikh holy ... ( I would not say book(s) as it's living Guru).
I don't know when I was in first year of my Engineering how I accidentally listened to Bhagwad Mahapuran (also called as Amrit katha/ Pancham ved/ Amar katha/ Moksha katha )so I got connected to Naam
( The sadhan of moksha in Kalyug,
Kalyug kewal naam aadhara sumir sumair
Nar ( nar means human)utrai paara,
Kalyug kewal Hari gun gaana sumir sumir nar utrai paara,
In Bhagwat Mahapuran listened to below mentioned kathas-
(The katha of Ajamil,
The katha of Kalyug and King Parakshit ( I found this as most logical and a Kalyugi person must listen, it connects you instantly to Naam))
Even before knowing Sikhi I didn't wanna cut my hairs.
I eventually come to know about Sikhi through videos on Gurudwara culture and traditions.
Such things happened that I come across Sikhi automatically without myself having plans to know about it.
I wanted to practice and implement it after knowing about it.
I asked some Sikhs that I wanna practice Sikhi
They told me to think as Sikhs do not ask anyone to practice, but if anyone wanna practice by will anybody can. I wanted to practice by own choice.
But as I was still studying I have to live as per my family's will and they were against keeping long hairs.
So unfortunately I couldn't practice it in the beginning.
But things changed eventually I got job in company in another city.
When I became independent I started practicing it against will of my family as it's my life and it has to be my rules (just keep in mind you are not having intension to hurt anyone / damage anyone)
And I started eventually practicing SIKHI.
THANKS A LOT TO WAHEGURU.
Waheguru really knows everything.
WITH YOUR BLESSINGS I GOT NAAM.
God is yet the perfect as always was and always be perfect one.
I HAVE NO DOUBT WHATSOEVER THAT GOD IS ONE.
Many call him Narayan, some call Venkatesh, some call, Vitthal, some call Ram,
some Waheguru,some call Shiv, some call Shoknashan and many more names are there for GOD.
The names of the one almighty.....
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I would say in end to all : Naam maharas piyo.
Waheguru
Dhan sikhi
are you a bania?
@@me.yashwant
Caste means nothing to me
Guru sahib said that manukh ki jaat ek
In Hindi-(
"Bhagwan ke bhakt ( i don't consider myself as bhakt )
to har jaat me hain.
Moksha jaat dekh ke nahi hota")
I do not ask caste
And give 0 importance to it.
Veere bilkul sahi par ik sawal puchna di thaude kolo ji
@@gunjotsinghk2231 go ahead veere.
Yes finally!
With time families come to accept and understand. A lot of the time they also change too. Most important thing at the beginning of your journey is to show them you are following it properly and that you are actually changing as a person. Show them how Sikhi has made you a better person than what you was before. Do ardas too for Guru jis guidance and help.
Religious actions make me uneasy..but I believe everything in Sikhism and Torah. Wahegurus truth is everywhere...
hello, are you jewish?
Waheguru ji ka khalsa Waheguru ji ki fateh sangat ji 🙏
Dhan guru tere sikhi 🙏🙏🙏 Waheguru Waheguru waheguru ji 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much for this
Wanted this soooo badly
Its been 5 months i am practicing sikhi and all the rules, my family doesn't want me to take amrit.
Do ardaas daily.This is his way of testing us.He"ll surely listen to your prayers.🙏🏼❤️ All the Best!
Vaheguru 🤍 A much needed video, wish i had this last year 🙏 but Daas's advice is to have patience and have Mokham (determination) and Himmat (strength). Parents have this fear out of love and it may be hard to understand that.
Your job is to build your sikhi. You will have the duty of representing what it means to be a Sikh so make it positive. Change your habits inline with Gurmat- stop swearing, do more housework, listen to parents, less arguing, be kind etc. This will naturally have a warming effect on them.
Find sangat (even online) to support you throughout as they will guide you correctly
Have support of kirtan and katha and baani aswell.
Learn about shaheeds too. This will build your love for Sikhi, give strentg and inspiration and make you not want to give up.
The process may take time, but at the end you will realise it was worth it and is nothing compared to dying for the sikhi that many did die for.🤍
I hope maharaj Blesses us all to increase our Sikhi and build of faith and strength 🤍
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A lot of thanx jio for sharing this video
Kindly make more videos like this 🙏
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Thanku sooooo muchh😇😇 much needed video
Slowly against my family i started practicing.
My family has accepted after about 1 year
Connect to naam.
Listen to satsang
Now b grace of Waheguru i am an amritdhari Sikh
Vaheguru ji
Vaheguru
Waheguru Ji! 💙💙💙💙💙
Waheguru
Pls make a vedio on list of all books and granths of panth
Sikhs like me were brought up without any knowledge of our huge literature apart from dhan dhan guru Granth Sahib ji Maharaj
Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki Fateh
Waheguru ji ka khalsa, Waheguru ji ki fateh ji, Is it easy to follow sikhi at early age, as in my case am 45 yrs Hindu with wife and two kids. With Guru's Grace and Amritdari neighbors I am understanding sikhi and doing nitnem but growing hairs and covering head makes it difficult for family to understand, they feel to keep to your heart and don't resemble outside avatar. Anything have said wrong, so please forgive me, am learning and do guide me. Waiting for the reply.
Just surrender yourself to your Guru.Kabir ji in one of his shloks said that he considered that his bhakti was successful,when people started making fun of him.Do ardaas daily.He"ll surely listen to you.Good luck 🙏🏼
Waheguru ji Kirpa Karan Sarbat da Bhala Dhan Shree GURU NANAK ji Waheguru Waheguru Waheguru ji
Respect
!! Om Namah Shivaya !! Jai SriKrishna !! Jai SriLaxmiNarasihma !! Jai SriRam !!
Thanks ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much for this video🙏🏻😊
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Waheguru ji ka khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh ji 🙏🙏🙏🙏🌹🌹🌹🌹
Waheguru aap ji da sukhar hai 🙏🙏..... very nice work you are doing 🙏😌
Another great video penji.
Great meeting you and veerji in Edinburgh, Raj and Deepi, Glasgow.
I am slowly moving towards the path with Maharaj's kirpa but one question which always stops me is I have facial hair as in quite a lot. I already have a lot of physical issues which is making my life worst and with facial hair it will become more worst as i once tried to keep it for months but people kept bothering me and I had to listen to them.
Bhenji I have immense respect but zero confidence and can't fight with everyone.
Also this is going to cause a lot of issues in finding suitable match for me as i already have physical issues.
What shall I do?
waheguru, i was reading your concern about some physical issues and facial hair surely when it comes to taking Amrit . Therefore i also have Friend who concerned once about taking Amrit and facial hair but i think waheguru has to deal with that Our action is only believe him. Even i myself praying for taking Amrit but i saw one young sikh Girl from UK who is Amritdhari with lots of hair like men beard but don't care physical features but Gursikhi. I suggest you to go near Gursangat and discuss your concern definitely waheguru will bless you.
@@1699ArunjeetSINGH thank you. I surely will😊
😊🙏
@@prabhkeenkaur9156 khalsa ji you can contact with Bibi Mandeep Kaur Birmingham UK, she will help you out and she is great gursikh
@@appalsingh how to connect with her khalsa ji
I want to come in sikhi as I follows all the rules and regulations had been tod by gurusaheb but some how I can't manage my family as they are obstructing me in this. How can i manage this??
Try to convince them about that sikhi is the way to live it's beyond from religious clashes , it is something which let you see the world from other side and u will see a world where u r fearless nd distinct from others
Do ardaas daily.He"ll surely listen to you and make your path easier. 🙏🏼
I struggled but now family believes
Lovely video whaeguru ji 🙏🏽
Very nice explanation
waheguru ji 👏
Khalsa mero roop 🙏
👍👍👍👍👍🙏
🙏🙏
Your life your rules.
Start naam simran and reading bani.
Slowly you will come into
And if you wanna truly come and you are not lazy
You will definately come one day.
Believe my words.
See my personal experience in the other comment here for same video.
Guru is really perfect he will do justice at some point if you are true.
But i have seen people who are coming to Gurudwaras since childhood like for 20+ years but not practicing Sikhi.
While some others not even going to Gurudwaras from 2 years but start practicing Sikhi?
( I really do not know how this happens)
But one thing definately i will say
Increase naam simran.
Such a great video ji 🙂🙏
Thankyou
I have seen ample of amritdhari women who are covering head with dupta not having dastar(turban). It's compulsory to cover head with dastar or will be ok in covering head with dupta after taking amrit?
Thank you - what if you don’t trust the panj pyare in your local Gurdwara Sahib ji ?
Guru sahib said" khalsa Mera roop hain"
Guru sahib himself did not go against panj pyare.
Could you go to another Gurdwara? I’m curious to know why don’t you trust them at your local one? Just interested to know what’s going on
Vaheguruji Ka Khalsa Vaheguruji Ke Feteh
Mine won’t even let me keep kesh in the uk
How old r u?
Try to convince them about that sikhi is the way to live it's beyond from religious clashes , it is something which let you see the world from other side and u will see a world where u r fearless nd distinct from others
❣️💯❣️
Waheguru ji ka Khalsa waheguru ji ki fateh ,aap ji sikhi bare dasde ho mera pariwar sikhi piyar vich hai ,par char saal ton labh rahe koyi sikhi nu piyar Karn Vali ladki nahi mil Rahi .
Aap ji help kar sakde ho? Ho sakda hai eiso koyi ladki aap ji de concern vich hove
Pl. Give ans. Waiting
Periods me ladies path kr skte h k ni plz tell me
You can do path whenever you want, there is no such restriction in sikhi.
You can do paath where ever and whenever you want. There’s no restrictions in Sikhism.
sikhi is against rituals and emphasizes more on righteous actions. Hence you can do path while on periods or anytime.
Baba Guru Nanak, who is revered by Sikhs and Muslims alike, was the first Sikh Muslim. The part of Guru Granth written by Baba Guru Nanak is nothing but Naat in honor of the Prophet (May the Peace and Blessings of Allah be upon him). Baba Guru Nanak has also done the holy pilgrimage of Haj and called the Azaan in the House of Allah in Makkah. His teachings were all aimed at bringing Hindus closer to Islam and in the process building bridges between the Muslim and Hindu community in India. May Allah accept his efforts and give understanding to everyone who follow Baba Guru Nanak.
Wrong a Muslim is one who declares faith by shahada. Guru sahib also called Muslims fools for fasting.
Your statement is so wrong. Please learn real facts not that benefits you.
In actual fact makkaa kabaa revolved around Maharaj Satguru Nanak Dev Ji s Lotus Feet
Bibi Gurprit Kaur are you from a non sikh family?
Nonsense
Sense*
Bruv ur nonsense
Bloody Arya named crap
it hurts doesnt it.
Guru here follow islam
Muhammad here follows sikhi
It's not compulsory to practice Islam.
No one can ask to follow any sect.
Is Islam so weak that it needs support of people to ask other people to practice it and that too by force???
@@suradhayakshsinghbansal4950 your guru followed the prophet Muhammad and Islam, one god only so Islam doesn’t need any support. It’s a pillar by itself
@@suradhayakshsinghbansal4950 plus Islam is the largest growing religion. So no support only momentum
U pon ah bullshit...just remember I tried...doe tell him on judgement day I didn't try..guru out
!! Om Namah Shivaya !! Jai SriKrishna !! Jai SriLaxmiNarasihma !! Jai SriRam !!
waheguru ji 👏
Waheguru
!! Om Namah Shivaya !! Jai SriKrishna !! Jai SriLaxmiNarasihma !! Jai SriRam !!
What?
Jai Kalki, Jai Narayan , Jai Sarvadanavgahtini
@@HS-lz8jg lol
Oh, i love looking at the chats. lol
Waheguru ji.....jai shree ram❤