What Asian Parents Don't Say...
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"Is your dad your best friend?"
*Flashbacks to "I'm not your friend I'm your parent"*
Aryllix ghost ouch.
Say that to Troy from Fences
So true lol
*Flashbacks to "I'm not your friend I'm your teacher*
LayZzmusic “don’t talk to me like that I’m your teacher not your friend “
My sister: Hey mom-
My mom: no, I’m not giving you money.
My sister: _Mission failed._
*mission failed we'll get em next time*
TheGalacticPerson hi
Jairo Jara
hoi
Why use your sister as example, you went on that alot too
Nott for my sis she always gets money whenever she ask but when i ask for money my parents ask me for resons first
I said "I love you" to my mom just now
She replied "what do you want"
*sigh*
Same here. My mom asks how much money you want. xD
My parents r like what happened to your grades?!
+Mike and Zach When my older brother says he loves me, I know that him asking for a favor is coming next...
Used to use that in school, they will question on what I've done wrong again. Asian parents are special like that and you gotta love them for it.
Jesus this is so true
My asian parents are like
Me: I got a 96 on my test dad
Dad:Where is the other 4% you promised me
My Arab dad is like that too!
lmao sammeeee, i once won a international competiton and got 2nd place, and my mom said i am proud, but where is the other place
Ya so true
@@meghana7576 ok now that's just....
@@meghana7576 that's just straight up mean.
*Puts on headphones for 0.0001 seconds*
"Why u wasting your life, go study"
😭😭😭😭
24수지 so true
My dad rambling his life to mine. same
This is what happened to me few moments ago 😂😂😂😂
Always happens to me
Same
Yup. 100% correct. Buying ingredients to make your favorite food dish = "I love you"
My mom does that always
SirDante lol no this is not sarcasm
True XD
Kisskiss6139 shut up
Yep. Food is a big connector in our family too. I'm an adult with a family of my own, my parents and I still don't say 'I love you' to each other. Okay, we may hug if it's our birthdays or Christmas. But we can talk and discuss food all the time, my mom will still cook for us dishes that I don't cook by myself at home. :D Love it!!
lmao does anyone parents actually knock on the door? mine just come in.
Yeah my parents just come in whenever LOL
+Melissa P My dad took out the door
No locking door! and if its locked, they scream at me.
+Melissa P Hahaha high 5! I was just about to comment about this~When i started to lock my door since they always came in without knocking, my mom was like "why is your door locked? what are you doing?" and she gets real mad when she comes to wake me up in the morning and finds my door locked... O.o
Knockings for pussies
Me: *enters room slowly*
Mom: CLOSE THE DOOR QUICKLY OR ELSE THE MOSQUITO WILL COME IN AND BITE YOU
LMAO same
Sameeee
OMG Its me with my open window and my dad
Relatable xD
OMG YES. Ahahahaha
Also;
Mom: Everyone go in the car.
Me: But I left my---
Mom: GO NOW AND SIT IN THE DAMN CAR CUZ AMMA SPRAY SOME MOSQUITO REPELENT!
You know when your Asian parents loves you when they always try to save the best part of the meat for you. Or when they add an extra egg in your noodle soup. When they scream at you to not waste money on them.
Asian parents love differently, not better, not worse, but definitely different.
This is SO true!! Very relatable haha
+Jenny Feng Well, children have different love languages too.
lcycooI Of course, I never said otherwise. 😕
Rt
Hawaiianpizzaforever That's creepy.
This actually brings the truth. And tears
ded
Ok
true
Youve got so many likes but only four comments including me
Ik 2k like
wtf why aren't my Asian family like that ahaha lol.
"Hey mum I really Lo-"
"Have u washed the dishes yet?"
yes, my mum is like "i am going out and when i come back i want the dishes clean"
and if by mistake i forgot to do the dishes before she came back then i am dead.... she would curse at me really really brutally..
SAME
Same😅
@@aparnagautam4950 ONE TIME I have done this. And she was like
Apekshya
What I've told you. You never obey me. Always forget. Don't so any work use devices , sleep and eat. Don't do any work. I am slave of this house. And you ( younger sibling) don't study just play. And you(dad) don't help me just walk around.
Me- sigh.
Mom- You..
Me- ( Teary)
I LOVE MY MOM. SHE SCOLDS BUT LOVES ME.
lmaooo the parents look so uncomfortable saying the "real" things im deceased
Its an Asian thing.
100%
@Flora HIGHAM wtf what wasnt
1000th like from me ._.
Asian for u
I really wanna say something but i can't, so relatable i actually teared up
This put me in a good mood
I teared up too!!
+Nicole Ilag me three!!
ITS SO TRUE IM
I know. Me too. :|
What asian parents say: What do you want to do when you grow up?
What they really meant: You should become a doctor when you grow up.
That true for brown parents too.
- Hello - not funny
@@VitalityII they never were trying to be funny lmao
My mom always wants one of me and my sisters to be a doctor😂
@@VitalityII bet you aren't even asian, why defend them. and they always say this anyway
I CAME HERE TO LAUGH NOT TO CRY DAMIT
Mariam Assaf, my name is Mariam too and it spelled exactly like yours
Mariam Elshayeb everyone cared ...
Mariam Assaf ikr. I didn't expect the tears 😭
Princess Taegi, thanks!😑 everyone also cared about your comment too!🤗
wtf why am i crying
Me: Dad, I got 90%
Dad: Look at your uncle's son he got 91%
Ikr, my cousin is a 4.0 student with my 3.5 - 3.99 gpa and they always wonder when i’m gonna fix that.
So what? Lol. He only 1 percent higer grade then yours whats the difference? After all, he would still say the same thing to a 91 percent xD
Me but it's my mom
My mom scolds me for a b
Asian problems
If I pass a math test which 80% class failed they still say look at your friend he got 70% you barely passed with 60%
Edit:the passing marks in my school are 60% should be 50%
This is the tag line of every indian parent too.
That McDonald's sponsorship is probably making jkfilms jealous LMAO
I know right
+Pacunana LMAO!!!!
+Pacunana maybe if they made quality content lol...
+Pacunana TRUE
True. except for Gina she got one already I think.
I said "I love you" to my mom one time thru the phone and she replied "Are you kidnapped?"
Tristan Ji damn
Tristan Ji yeap that’s pretty realistic cuz when i say stuff like that my family thinks i’m being weird or i’m trying to bribe them or something
Tristan Ji i relate so much😂😂
Tristan Ji Lmaoo😂
Tristan Ji I I have no words
Asian parents: what u gonna be when u grow up
U: chef?
Ap: NO U NEED DOCTOR
Just got to be self reliant and love your parents back. Many Asian kids forget that and material possession does not replace time spent and values held together.
*NO YOU BE DOCTOR**
Hahahahaha
For me its either doctor, dentist, nurse or **disgrace**
Yeah so true lol
Ugh same
One reason.
Because it’s awkward.
I asked my dad if he loved me in his foreign language and he said “Maybe..”
Lmaoo
That's typical asiant parent for u
Wow I-
Oof
atleast u know ur dad lmao help me
Hi Jakie,
Correction is Jake
Sorry Jack
XD
ikr😂😂😂
that scene was cute tho
cringe
Kelly Ta My mom's always like that
I told my Asian mom I loved her and she asked me if I was doing drugs.
+Japanesethunder
Hahaha
Wow
I'm laughing
Haha I haven't tried but I'm sure they would think I'm onto something or I must be sick
IM DONE!!😂😂😂😂
My father acts like a tsundere character. Once, I was about to leave after visiting my parent, and he just threw some vegetables next to me : "It's for you. If you don't want to take it, give it back.", without even looking at me.
It was my favourite vegetable.
CistudeSuisse I would watch that anime.
This story made me teary😢
CistudeSuisse that is so cute
May I ask which vegetable that was? ...just curious 😂
Did your dad say baka?
me: mom i love you
mom: study well, then only I will love you
*oof*
Dont you mean “only then will i love you”
She's right Maybe you should study more, starting on english
Delano YES
Omg that’s kinda sad :/
Edwar Son that's probably how her mother said that...
What Asian parents say:
You doctor yet?
No, dad, I'm 12.
Talk to me when you doctor! ;)
+aznpikachu215 Hey, you stole that off Family Guy you jabroni!
kawaiiafangirl I know, I meant it as a joke.
+aznpikachu215 Dad can't ask me that any more, he was the first to get the photo of my card when they first added the Dr. before my name
fofomoon So is he talking you now? :P
When I was your age I was 13
My parents try to feed me a lot but right after they call me fat...
Same brooooooo
Saammee
Omg so relatable! I literally had a fight with my parents the other day cuz I said I don’t want them prep food for me, and they said it is disrespectful 😢 and blame me for being so ungrateful for what they’ve done for me
Saaame
@@jazzy596 i feel you
does any parent just come in the bathroom without knocking cause mine does
Jack OurWorld I feel you....
ohh dude, i feel you
My whole family like my aunt, uncle, or even cousins just to go bathroom. Not when I'm changing when I'm taking a shower.
Only if I were still living at home (or underage according to parents), otherwise, as adult, nope, they don't do that to me.
Same!!! That's why I always lock the door😂
“Isn’t he your best friend too”
Me: *remembers my sibling talking back to my dad*
My dad: AM I YOUR FRIEND OR YOUR PARENT
My sibling: Parent..
My dad: THEN DONT TALK TO ME LIKE THAT
MooWooMoo you sound like my mom..
Don’t bring up the memories 😂😂
haha, this was cute. i noticed that i say "did you eat yet?" to my friends and family too hahah
+Vanessa They all know what you really mean now!
If other people ask "did you eat yet", it's just a way to say "hello", "how are you" and making small talks. When parents and friends say that, it conveys a little more care, but actually still trying to make small talk
+ronnnnie it really is! when my family have guest over or when we're at a relatives house, we always ask if they ate yet, just to be sure everyone is fed and well.
☠☠☠ biblical ^
+Vanessa, did you eat yet? ;)
Me: I love you
Mom: if you really loved me those dishes would be clean
XxanimeponyxX
Nice picture ^^
Omg xD
What they meant
I want you to wash dishes so you won't be hopeless and smelly in collage
Dishes are basic routine 10-15 mins max. Easy after dinner exercise Most Asian parents spend 1 hour plus or 1.5 hours making 3-4 dishes + soup for their kids! :) Dishes just easy Gung Fu,.
Oh my god... WHY AM I CRYING!?!?!
But, being Asian, it's was really relatable and hit home. And I loved that ending :)
+Chi Nova Haha me too. My mom is exactly like that, though she's Korean. sobbing rn
Oh my gosh I'm crying too I don't know why
i am also Asian and i cried so hardly i had to hug my pillow (but i had to keep it down my relatives were downstairs)
Yup :)) :')
OMG! I cried too!!! 😢
It feels awkward to tell my parents I love them
cft ikr
Oh, me
No way
Not me
cft me too, it is really annoying because I really love them but Its just too awkward to say it :(
definitely agree with this! I think Asian parents express their feelings and what they want to say through actions. food is a MAJOR factor in our lives and my parents are always making sure im eating well or they call to ask if i've had lunch or dinner yet. grandparents are even worse haha every time i visit them, they'll just pile food on my plate! my mother would just come in my room randomly sometimes when im working and be like "here, i cooked some chicken soup for you. drink it while it's hot" and she'll leave my room. i think it's moments like that that really touch my heart and i can feel the love she has for me. It's not what she says but the meaning behind her actions. My family is actually quite open so my siblings and I say i love you quite often but i wont deny that most times i say it, my parents would reply with "what do you want this time?" hahahha
Marissa Chin omg thats long
you just thought me a life lesson
Totally can relate to this :)
Marissa Chin ê
It's hard for me to understand my parents because I can't speak their language well.
Feed me
have you eat ?
+TERRENCE TEY love you too
+JinnyboyTV 🍚🍚
hehe
What would u like?
We have:
🍣🍘🍵🍱🍛🍙🍚🍜🍥🍲🍳🍖🍗
What if your mom said did you eat yet?
And you say
I love you too mom.
Mom: ok? But I asked if you eat yet? 😂
Exactly what I was thinking. I was expecting her to give a weird face
Emily Do I Really really hate to be that kind of Person...but I just wanna help, maybe you don't know.
",but I asked if you ate yet"
Not really, She said "Oh how did you know that typd of thing"
2:25 was soooo sweet I started to tear up a little bit
I'M NOT CRYING YOU ARE!!!
We're all crying
Your profile pic has me dead
@@user-ud8xd 🤣🤣🤣
My Butt I started crying when he said "i love you"
@@btsll9490 i was waiting for this comment for Someone to say my name
I don't think it's simply because Asian parents don't communicate their emotions well. I think there's a fundamental difference in culture between Asians and Westerners. For us Asians, our parents are NOT our friends. That concept to me seems very disrespectful. Parents are not on the same level as us (like friends). They are our parents first and foremost, and they deserve respect and gratitude, not our friendship. Some Americans even call their parents by their first names. Like what?!?!? So disrespectful. Still, that doesn't mean we don't love our parents. In fact, I feel like Asians are much more family oriented and have a deeper love/respect for their parents. We just don't openly communicate our emotions because we don't take our relationship with our parents that lightly and want to show respect more than anything. We care for them on the inside, and show it through actions rather than words (i.e. take care of them when they're old, buy them houses, etc.)
Disclaimer: I'm not trying to hate on Western culture. I'm simply explaining the differences and my opinions.
I felt like your comment was quite offensive to a westener, to be honest. I'm Dutch, caucasian, but I certainly don't take my relationship with my parents lightly. Nor did anyone else who I grew up with. Yes, we seem to be more openly affectionate towards our parents here, but I don't feel like there is anything wrong with considering a parent a friend as well as an authority figure. I respect my parents tremendously and I'm thankful I can share things with them on a friendship level, as well as learn from their life experience, because I know not everyone has that luxury. My parents were the same way with theirs and it has made my family very close-knit and supportive. It saddens me that you feel parents only deserve respect and gratitude, not friendship. To me, those are all equal.
westerners do take their relationship with their parents lightly, and are more often disrespectful to them than other cultures. but the way (which is wrong) of the westerners or the "civilized" people spreads across the globe so its more of the same in almost every culture today.
So don't be offended by the truth. (maybe you personally are not like that, but most of the people of this age and day are the same because of the globalization).
+lone wolf What do you base your opinion on? Because the things you state in your comment are completely alien to me. I don't know, nor have I ever known, anyone who treats their parents like that.
+Simply Suzy I didn't mean to offend you, and if I did I apologize. Perhaps what I am referring to is more of an "American" issue than a "Westerner" issue. At first I wanted to simply use the word American, but I wasn't sure if other Western countries were the same way. I understand where you are coming from, and I agree that perhaps European countries are different from America. So let me rephrase my original argument. It seems that caucasians who live in America take their relationship with their parents very lightly. And this comes from my own personal experience, where 99% of Americans around me behave like the person in this WongFu video; they treat their parents like friends.
Which brings me to the other part of your reply. While I agree that it would be ideal to have a fully respectful yet fully "friendship-like" relationship with your parents, you must understand that this is almost impossible to achieve. We are only human, and we cannot do both equally. If we see our parents as friends, then naturally the amount of respect goes down, and vise versa. Thus, while you may think that you are showing your parents tremendous respect, it is still less respect than they deserve, due to the "friendship" aspect also being included. This is only natural, and I'm not accusing you or anything. For us Asians, we see our parents as only wise, respectable, and dignified guardians who love us deeply and deserve the same love, not as friends. "Friends" and "parents" are two very distinct relationships, and are mutually exclusive. This is why in Asian culture, even the language we speak to our parents is a different, more formal/more respectful standard than normal spoken language. We would never say "Yea, dude" or "Ok Pops" to our father. They don't deserve that kind of disrespect.
Again, I apologize if I offended you, and I hope you can understand my argument.
+jinhk93 I think it's unfortunate that that's how most Asian parents and children feel their relationship has to be. I'm 100% Asian and I'm probably in the minority, but I definitely tell my parents I love them almost everyday if I'm with them and whenever I talk to them on the phone when I'm not with them and they reciprocate this as well. I would say my mom is my best friend and we talk about almost everything. Friendship is a very valuable thing and to have both friendship and respect/gratitude for your parents is the best combination and I feel very fortunate I have this with mine.
I told my mom I love her, and her respond was
"Oh shit, tomorrow we gonna die"
I laughed too hard at this
lol
Omg
😂😂😂
Lol
THIS IS THE MOST RELATABLE THING I'VE EVER SEEN IN MY ENTIRE LIFE TIME
Your pfp says it all
“i love you mom!”
“ok how much money do you want”
There is one thing that is universal though:
All moms hold their phone AT LEAST one foot away from their face.
Ikr
So truee
Moms are so cute 😍😢
That is so fkin true
shit i'm a mom half the time...and i'm male
Are those your actual parents, Phil?
+Chief Complaint That's Phil's actual Mom! It was her first time ever acting!
Nice! Tell her she did a good job!
+Wong Fu Productions What! she's amazing
+Wong Fu Productions He's sure got his mother's eyes.
+Wong Fu Productions and the dad..?
when your mom said i love you. i fucking broke in tears. bc that reminded me of my mom
+Francesca Lee Wow I had the exact same thing happen to me :(
+Francesca Lee Same here, just started tearing up, caught me completely off guard
i couldn't stop crying too T_T
i scrolled down and im so glad I wasn't the only one
Edyn Misilisi JUST LIKE TT
"Hi Jacky!"
"It's Jake ma, the e is silent"
"Hi Jack!"
wait i JUST got that lmao
I thought it was jack ma
so Asian parents are tsunderes
omg your username is amazing😂😂
your username gives me a tingly feeling thing inside ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
gosh I love your username
YOUR USERNAME IM DYING
why Park Chanyeol when you can ride him yup..
i'm indian and i can relate to this vid... i laughed at the did you eat yet part... my mother always says that to me even though i'm 43 :)
Indian from India or America? Indian from India are Asian too
Yousra Palani indian not indiana
elvismickjim1973 I'm also Indian
When he said love you too mum.....I want to cry.......
P W same
We shouldn't hide our feelings.I'm Chinese and I always said I love you to my mum and kiss her(even she said I'm crazy...).maybe because for female is easier than male...
P W awee
my asian parents be like:
me:i got 99 percent in a maths test
my dad:where the 1 percent go
My sister got a 100% on a maths test and my dad said *"it's fine"*
@@satansspawn1810 same here tho my sis got A* and my dad said why didn't you get A*+
I was just watching this video expecting some slight humor and understanding of an asian kid's family background, but when 2:25 hit, I just unexpectedly started crying really hard. I then kept crying for like 10 more minutes.....I guess it just reminds me of my own parents, and how they might not show it, but still really love me.
+Stuffdough My parents aren't like that but I still teared up ;_;
FRICK right after i saw that part, i looked through to comments hoping I wasn't the only one tearing up- I don't think my parents have ever told me they love me before and I used to feel a bit envious of my Caucasian friends but this realization hit me right in the kokoro
Stuffdough I know same!
stuffdough sameee
I just so envy that most of Americans can be like friends with their parents😭😭😭
Alex 147 dont be.i prefer asian parent anyday to white parents.asian parents act all distant and don't show emotion but they will do everything they can to help out their kids if they ever need help but white parents are only about themselves. they may care but their holidays,alcohol and material comfort is a lot more important than their kids.am talking from experience.you should consider yourself lucky for having Asian parents
My dad is from El Salvador and my mom is from Germany I can be friends with them at times but I can also be distant and when my brother or I do something bad ...oh boy you better pray to Jesus.
LMAO Americans and Europeans are cold af
trueeee
Hello Alex 147, I like what your asking these people...
OH MY GOD THE JACKIE JAKE JACK THING AT THE END I CAN RELATE SO MUCH
Same! Asian parents man...
YES! They always say the "e" at the end! Like in Skype! (Or "skypie" XD)
my parents don't remember any of my friends names unless I have known the friend for over at least 4 years
+Serena He Hey a name twin! :)
Omg Asian parents are so bad with names, I have a friend name Lexi and my mom calls her Alexi and I have friend named jaylee and she literally calls her "jelly"
Me : I love you ma ❤️!
My mom : give me the bowls.
Me : ...ok...
I was expecting his mom to say something like that xD
i actually started crying a little bit
so true! I have yet to hear I love you from my parents. I've tried so many times. Closest I got was me too from my mom. Then there is my dad who was like I don't love you go away.
+Julie Nguyen haha, they'll come around
+Wong Fu Productions Eventually. Haha I was so surprised you replied I almost dropped my phone.
+Wong Fu Productions reply to me too
+Wong Fu Productions notice me too wongfusenpai
The closest I got:
Me- Mom, why do you never say "I love you?" I bet you can't say it to me!
Mom- Of course I can say it. I lug you.
Me- It's I LOVE you.
Mom- I luk you.
Me- LOVE!!!! Stop mispronouncing it on purpose!
it's so fucking true. they're really not verbally expressive with their love but asian parents really like to feed their kids lol. my parents and grandmas (and grandpa when he was alive) would always offer you food, and they would call/text you to ask if you've already eaten. sometimes grandma will keep telling you to eat and won't stop until she sees you put food in your mouth 😂😂😂 or you go to the mall with the fam and you point to a toy or whatever and say, ''i want that'', momma immediately be like ''no!'' but if you say ''i'm hungryyyy'', momma be like ''ok whatchu want?'' 😂😂😂
Prolly bc most of those whom immigrated were starving, and they don't want their kids to feel what they had to feel, and this stuff carried down through the generations
Not connected to that at all. Most parents in Asian countries do that, not just those who immigrate.
this is obviously true
izzadalawatatlo true dat
growing up asian 🙄
sometimes I'm getting jealous to the relationship of my cousin to his Swedish dad because they are so close and so sweet.
Rica Min they're gay
Rica Min i’m from sweden :D
Yeah Markus takes one to spot one.
In asian culture.... its so awkward to talk about how you feels
Nguyễn Duy Anh Ikr I'm vietnamese too and I have the same last name
'education is the only way I know how to achieve that '
THAT'S TRU
I say I love you to my parents all the time. I used to say I love you to some of my teachers when I was younger too LOL - I never had the problem of never being able to say 'I loveyou' and making them feel appreciated.
+NANCAY WANG Awww. Must've been awkward for your teachers lol
+Andrea LOOOOOL I WAS LIKE 10 it was fine 😂 I said it to the lunchladies as a thank you for watching over us HAHAHA
NANCAY WANG
that's freakin adorable XD
+NANCAY WANG i even say i love you to all of my fb friends. lol!
+VeNuS2910 ...?
Lot's of McD product placement here.
God. I'm so hungry, haven't eaten for a week now
wait my parents were aisan this whole time???
Asian families are weird; like my dad says "you're the worst; why can't you be like your cousin? You'll never get anywhere in life." but I know he just means "I just want you to be healthy and successful" yeah...
Yea. It's messed up doe.
Every Asian parent has that one perfect cousin they compare you to. Apparently Cousin David went to Harvard, got his Masters, Doctors and Bachelors in a four-year period, and got a Presidential Award from Obama in person.
...Yeah. I can totally compete with him.
Carolyn Huang ugh don't even get me started on fucking Cousin David; he's a Navy engineer and everyone's proud of him but they don't want me in the military. Oh but then there's cousin Daniel who lost all his weight in HS cuz he was in track but that's because he literally had to run for years to get it going.
+Carolyn Huang AHAAHAHAHA OMG THAT RELATE TO ME SO MUCH GOD IM CRYINH
+Carolyn Huang omg i feel so bad for you.. lol
asian parents don't care if you have A+ or A-. they just want you to always "try your best" to do well in this world.
eh
U sure about that when they got a belt and a will to beat the shit outta ya?
I'm just looking around 😂
That's true though. ...but they will be a little dissapointed because they will think if heworked hard...why is he not successful.(they won't say it but- My child is STAR SUN and my MOON)...what is that he missed.
Do you even have Asian parents
3:01 I legit cried fuck. I'm a grown ass man that went from smiling at 3:00 to crying at 3:01 like what the fuck
I never once heard my asian parent say, "I love you."
Same
Me too
Lmao they're showing the NICE asian parents. The REAL asian parents are flat out screaming
Zykrah ha they do mean it
True
U r a kid...love them now or it will be late
Zykrah uhhh they actually kinda do
Anime Lover probably why Asians shouldn't have kids
There are 5 love languages. And it is true not only for couples but also to parent-child relationships. And for Asians I guess, words of affirmation aren't really one of them (like saying I love you). Asian parents' love language is ACTS OF SERVICE (like making sure you eat well) and in return, it's also the kind of love they want to get from their kids (like doing well in school and helping them do chores in the house). That is why saying those 3 words isn't really a thing for the majority of Asians. Just a few Asian parents do tell what they feel inside to their kids.
Gone Girl omg! YES! i learned the 5 love languages at college too! And i was thinking the same thing u did too👌👌👌
on point.
Wow yes. This is really on point. Just different ways of expressing love.
Gone Girl idk man I’m seeing all these comments about how good Asian parents are even though they act tpdistant and tough. My parents who are both Chinese immigrants don’t do that. They usually say they love me, which I didn’t know was abnormal for Asian parents until watching this vid. Even though my parents do a lot of asian parent things, they kinda are bananas.
This was unexpectedly one of the most heartfelt things I've seen from Wong Fu
+Sam Lee we have a way of sneaking up on you w/ the feels ;)
So true.. I was like oh shoot.. Here comes the emotions
+Sam Lee i actually teared up at the part when phil said "I love you" to his mom :')
Just by any parents did anyone else get the
“Stop crying like a little girl” (if you’re a girl) or “stop crying/acting like a baby” (when you were a baby/child)
Any grade lower than A- is an F for my mom. 😂😂😂
Zee Taylor ikr
for me even if i do get straight A's its not good enough for her
My big brothers and younger brothers always get straight, and im here getting B's and C's.. sometimes A's
My mom gets disappointed bcuz im the only girl and she thinks girls r supposed to be smarter than boys? 🤷
Zee Taylor SM-Stanning Ahjumma same hahahahaha
Zee Taylor SM-Stanning Ahjumma same my mom would be like WHY YOU HAVE NO A!?! NO WIFI GIVE ME ALL ELECTRONICS!!
This is so true 😂😂😂😂😂 xD xD xD xD xD I'm Asian too that's why I know.
GamingAsAGirl? TruuuuuuuuuuuuuUUUUUUe
That McDonalds product placement tho
When the mom said that she loved him, I was like "Awwwwwwww!"
And then immediately afterward, the friend said "Awwwww!" 😂😂😂😂
It's time like these I wish I had white parents. I have bipolar disorder and issues with suicidality and my parents instead of telling me they love me and acknowledging my efforts to improve, they grew distant from me and criticize me. I haven't been hugged in a long time, and I'm especially craving it now😢
Hug hug ( ´ ▽ ` )ﾉ
Aw, Im sorry. I hope you feel better. If your parents aren’t helping you, you can always talk to someone who is close to you or me. My parents doesn’t know about mental illnesses too so I always talk to people online.
I give you a hug through the internet
Purple Puppy I really wish I could be there right beside you and hug you ;(
White specifically-?
Personally I’m Asian and this is very true,my parents don’t normally say “I love you” and kinda said what the parents in this video said, I find this very interesting cuz I thought I was the only person in the world who have parents who are like this,I’m guessing that my fellow asians are also aware about this too.i think this happened because generation back in Asian culture they don’t normally say “ilove u” and Thea this passed on through generations. Just pointing something out that most of us asians experience!
One has to remember Asian culture has public and private affection. It's complicated and you have to read between the lines when you get older. :)
I'm Asian, (but you wouldn't notice it if I didn't tell you) and my parents do say "I love you", but it only happens sometimes. Sometimes I do get to act like friends with my mom, but when it goes too far, you better pray to God they'll forget.
Im not asian but my parents dont tell me I love you
The McDonald's product placement is reeeeeeeal omg
My Asian mom: I love you
Me: *EVERY NERVE STARTS TINGLING AND CRINGING*
Also me: Ok
THIS IS SO CUTE IM CRYING
i'm asian and i can relate with my parents 😂
Army!!
kookie.chimchim yeah.btw ARMY!
kookie.chimchim I saw armys everywhere I go is the best thing.
💜💙💜/army\💜💙💜
Where the f is it snowing?! Take me there! It feels like spring/summer in Maryland right now!
True
Toronto Canada no snow temperature obove zero...we all gonna die global warming!!! lol
+Derek Kase Here in Alberta it is the opposite
+Aatrox Sagitarius not surprised
I know right! yesterday I just walked outside wearing a tshirt and jeans
"Isnt your dad your best friend?"
Me: *flashbacks to my parents screaming, "ARE YOU TALKING TO ME LIKE THAT RIGHT NOW? WHAT AM I, A FRIEND? WHI DO YOU THINK..."
also my parents: IS THAT HOW YOU TALK TO YOUR PARENTS? DO YOU WANT ME TO USE THE BELT AGAIN?
Mom : Hi jackie!
I told you the E is silent!
Mom : Sorry jack!
I pretty much died of laughter >○
Jake*
MintSugar I see a fellow army or somebody who at least likes Jimin😂
O.o Lol, you don't know how much I can relate to this, I give this video my gold potato seal of approval
cool
I see you everywhere._____.
You are interesting. I wonder how you are irl.
+Viet Lee YOU
I FOUND YOU
HEYAAAA do you remember me
When you're African and you still relate to this...
Hazel Jame yep
I think unfortunately a lot of people can relate with any practical-minded parents xD
Hazel Jame and mexican
and middle eastern
Same I’m Dutch ( the typical blond hair and blue eyes thing xD)
Me : *Mom! I got a 99% on my test!*
Mom : *Where is the 1% That you promised? No electronics for a whole year!*
Nicole Larissa make that two years
Or three xD
tbh I feel like we show affection through actions more than words. 😊
+Thuong Dinh Absolutely agree
Sometimes that's better
and you're all stupid for believing and pushing stereotypes for "Asians" congratulations!
+MrChomskyist Why are they stupid? Is it a bad thing that Asians are known to respect their parents, and show their love through actions rather than words? You know the saying, "Actions speak louder than words."
You can say "I love you" to your parents a million times, but if you don't actually show it with your actions and with your life, it is useless. I think it's a very good thing that Asians are able to truly love their parents through actions.
+EtSmilee that is so true. and we mean it too.
Did anyone actually cry, because this actually happened to them?
I've never said i love you to my parents they don't say i love you to me! 😳 Nobody from my family has NEVER said the 3 words! 😞
but their actions must've told you how much they care
Kevin Nguyen WOW
My Asian parents.
Me: *comes home with a 95 A*
My Dad: *why you don’t make the 100 percant?!*
Subtle McDonalds product placement
"subtle"
i did not even noticed
+Carols438 Not really that subtle.
not gonna lie though, i got hella hungry for some Mcdonalds.
All of a sudden, I want to hug my mom.
Although we're asian, my parents and I are open about our feelings and say "I love you". Are we the only ones??
I'm sure there are other Asian parents out there who do the same thing. I might know a few of them, but it's not often I do hear it.
+Hannah Cheng⼁♡ You'e definitely not the only one! My parents say it and express it through kind gestures. Being away from home (for college) certainly has helped the saying "I love you" part out loud more though.
+Deaf w Headphones Can u not
+Hannah Cheng⼁♡ Yeah for sure! My parents always say I love you to me almost every day even though I'm living at home seeing them every minute aha
My parents do all the things in this video, but we definitely still say I love you so you're not the only one :)
Me : watching this video at 8 in the night
My mom : oH mY gOd iTs 12 in the morning
So fking trueeeeee
Neon Glow underrated comment
McDonald product placement though :OO
sees McDonald's : I SWEAR IF THIS IS A MCDONALD'S CARMICHAEL
Eric marfull I wonder if it is. Carmichael
My mom is Asian and she's always telling me she loves me. She doesn't shy away with her words lol... but she's also Lao lol
Also she's awkward as hell
my lao mom tells me she loves me by making me those unnamed little pork ball thingies then nagging me about life, reminding me when my own trash day is, and then making sure I have enough sticky rice to make
exewhoever LOL yep. Sticky rice is good though! (Even if Japanese rice is my fave.)
“...but I can’t brag about you unless you are #1...”
*stops playing chess*
I literally started crying when Phil said "I love you too mom"...
What my Asian mom means for some of these things:
Be home by 10: you are a tiny young girl out in the world and will DIIIIIEEE. I don't want my precious baby to DIIIIIEEEEEE.
Did you eat yet: you are a skinny tiny young girl out in the world and will DIIIIIIE. With my superior asian food making skills I cannot let my previous baby DIIIIIIE!
MY MOM ALWAYS RAGES AT ME AND THEN CALMS DOWN AFTER 2 SECONDS AND YELLS AT NE AGAIN
This makes me feel like I’m not asian, my mom tells “I love you” at least 5 times a day and if I get a B she will tell me to study harder and she says she is very happy with my score!
You're very lucky
@@aceshadowins1310 damn you must be young
Your lucky dude