Please don't leave UA-cam! I just found you guys and you guys are so great and it's awesome to hear both sides. I didn't know you could summit stuff and ask questions. I'd love to hear your thoughts on different topics. I will have to set some time aside to write some things. I think you gius should push you podcast content more. I'm 100% positive there's other people would love to hear what you would have to say. Thank you guys for being so open and honest
@@2bebetter I absolutely will. I've sent so many tiktoks from you guys to my partner. He's the first healthy relationship I've been in and if I can't articulate something you guy's have helped do that in a smaller format. But, I will definitely share more when I get the time. Do you guys prefer comments or emails? I know you're busy and have multiple platforms so if there's a way to make that easier please let me know 😊
This hits home for me. I’ve been told I’m intimidating. My therapist asked are you intimidating or are they intimidated. Every experience is a learning opportunity for me.
I loved this. There is so much to be said for learning not to scream and hold grudges. I giggled remembering a disagreement my SIr and I had, I was still very upset, but he asked if we could have some intimate time. I looked at him and said, "Yes we can but I'm still upset". He laughed, we enjoyed our time together, and after, all that went away. When you respect each other, and that intimacy is there (Not just physical but the emotional intimacy), the arguments quickly become matters of...is this really worth us being mad at each other? It's so much better living this way. Thanks for sharing!
I absolutely Love you guys!! Y’all are fantastic, and I love that you guys are so very honest and real!! I just started watching your podcasts and have not been able to turn it off.
I love love love that you have that kind of confidence. I wish i was at that level , it's also great that he is so supportive and also feels the same way about you.
I used to have a lot of confidence but these past couple of years I have lost a lot of it and I am working on bringing it back. I grew up poor, short, and hit puberty late so I got made fun of a lot but I never let it affect me. I stayed confident in myself and was not worried about what others thought of me. I still feel the same, don't care what others think of me but my issue is waking up each day trying to be proud of myself. With my recent failures in my life, it's been harder to motivate. I am better than I was 6 months ago but still a work in progress. I'm going to start with the simple morning affirmations and hopefully move forward. I appreciate everything you guys do. It is because of the 2 of you that I have really found a new perspective on life and figured out so many things I need to work on within myself. I have tried to get my ex husband to watch you too, he could definitely benefit from what you are offering as well.
I love how Chris said he would be there real quick and burn the place down if he said your man is not there. Love this because my husband would do the same. My husband is my protector ❤
Confidence is something I struggle with...my mental state is not okay. And this episode helped me see things a little better. My husband and I are both working on detailed emails to send you guys, cause I'd love to hear your thoughts on our story. Yall have helped mend our relationship more than you know. Thank you for existing ❤
I stumbled upon a tiktok of y'all last week and i have already learned so much. I went through an extremely traumatic event last year and after being single for a very long time prior, my self esteem was shit. I recently met someone and it was horrible at first. But i have been trying little things i learned from watching your podcasts and i cannot believe the difference. Thank yall so much, i finally feel like i might have a chance to feel loved for the first time. Keep doing what you do. You have literally changed my life already.
I recently just started to watch/listen to your podcasts. You brought up how when you are at the gym and your self-talk when you are there] and my first thought was that I actually have been listening to your podcasts while I work out at the gym. I am socially awkward and anxious in crowded areas, especially when it has to do with something I am uncomfortable with initially and it is hard when I am just listening to music in the gym, but your podcasts have actually helped me. A previous podcast of yours that I listened to before I went to the gym also helped me because of one of the things you said. 'Under-commit and over-perform and that you don't deserve something if you're not willing to sacrifice for it. Those sayings have helped me in my mentality to get sh*t done instead of procrastinating or talking myself out of it. Basically, I have to be uncomfortable first to achieve what I want in the future. So, thank you!
I am so thankful to be seeing this. I am currently speed running through your content. I know I have behavior in my life that is shiznitty. I am working to fix these things, but Khrys, thank you for speaking on being a shiznitty person who owned her shiznit. You are an example for women like me-- knowing there is work to be done, but knowing that in the owning of it, there is true freedom. Keep this up, please. There are old birds like me who need this!!!
Many people have said I’m intimidating, and had a friend say I’m scary confident. I never understood it. Now that I’m older, I understand that it comes from not comparing myself to others and being comfortable in who I am no matter what I look like physically.
I can't believe I finally heard that if you're exhausted, you won't be intimate. I'm pretty sure if I had communicated my needs better, my ex wouldn't have cheated on me. He was unhappy too, and I just didn't see it.
I think the important thing about the judgment part is that we all judge, it's whether or not you act upon those judgments verbally and with your body language. Hopefully most people understand that lol.
Laughter is the best tension breaker and always be confident in yourself. I’m a fat, fluffy guy, but I strive on being a class clown comedian type. I am always cracking jokes.
I love feeling my feminine, I am submissive to my man, I am strong and I also know I am able to do everything, I love wholeheartedly that my man is my king, I am his queen that's that
Honestly I’m the exact same. I don’t even have a lot going on. I have loads of free time most days I just don’t have the energy to reach out a lot. I went two months without talking to my dad because I either didn’t have the energy or just kept forgetting to reach out. It’s not that I don’t love him or want to talk to him, it’s just easy for my mind to get distracted and forget and hard for me to get the energy. I went like two years without talking to my closest friend because of it. We started talking again like it had only been a day. I’m “absent” but when I’m present I’d like to think I’m a bomb ass friend. (Though I only have two friends… just because I’ve learned to be more particular about who I associate myself with) but hell I would 100000% be friends with you both. Even if we only talked like once a month. I feel it’s more about the quality of time rather than the quantity. One great, engaging conversation a month is better than 10 crappy, minimal effort conversations. You two are fucking awesome ass people that I would be honored to call my friends. (I sound like such a kiss ass 😂)
Also, I would absolutely love having a friendship with you guys But, as a person that is busy and has ADHD I totally understand the "shitty friend" thing lol And I'm the type that feel like shit lol
Oh I am not a bar person. I don’t want to drink. The smell makes me nauseous for most of them. ( I also don’t like the idea of ingesting something that is not only going to destroy my body but also effect the decisions I make) I would 100% do a book club. I love reading and writing.
Does Patreon accept PayPal? Kryhs this video makes me want to be even more confident loved this! The bar thing how can you tell someone that you don't feel comfortable with the bf going to the bar gets paid and his whole check disappears within a few days 😒 and they tell you "my half of the rent is paid that's all that matters"
I know you guys would love to make some money doing this but I will be super sad if you ever leave UA-cam, we can't afford a subscription but my husband and I love you guys and your advice, you've really helped our marriage! We'll be so sad 😢😢😢
Seeing my husband be a bad dad makes me want to leave him he has become more and more distant and difficult as are child gets older he is now to the point where he openly calls my son a retard for making normal kid mistakes and I stand up for my son but when more and more things like that happen make me want to leave we have been together 12 years ... 😢 any advice
How unrealisitic it is to put any amount of your little daily energy into people who arent in your top 5. I think most sucessful adults are terrible friends lol
Please don't leave UA-cam! I just found you guys and you guys are so great and it's awesome to hear both sides. I didn't know you could summit stuff and ask questions. I'd love to hear your thoughts on different topics. I will have to set some time aside to write some things. I think you gius should push you podcast content more. I'm 100% positive there's other people would love to hear what you would have to say. Thank you guys for being so open and honest
Thanks for that. If you find value here. By all means share it!!
@@2bebetter I absolutely will. I've sent so many tiktoks from you guys to my partner. He's the first healthy relationship I've been in and if I can't articulate something you guy's have helped do that in a smaller format. But, I will definitely share more when I get the time. Do you guys prefer comments or emails? I know you're busy and have multiple platforms so if there's a way to make that easier please let me know 😊
@@Ewok91 we are ok with whatever. If you’re looking for us to answer something. Email is best
Please don't leave UA-cam. Some of use are In Nigeria and the exchange rate is kicking us hard
This hits home for me. I’ve been told I’m intimidating. My therapist asked are you intimidating or are they intimidated. Every experience is a learning opportunity for me.
I loved this. There is so much to be said for learning not to scream and hold grudges. I giggled remembering a disagreement my SIr and I had, I was still very upset, but he asked if we could have some intimate time. I looked at him and said, "Yes we can but I'm still upset". He laughed, we enjoyed our time together, and after, all that went away. When you respect each other, and that intimacy is there (Not just physical but the emotional intimacy), the arguments quickly become matters of...is this really worth us being mad at each other? It's so much better living this way. Thanks for sharing!
I absolutely Love you guys!! Y’all are fantastic, and I love that you guys are so very honest and real!! I just started watching your podcasts and have not been able to turn it off.
Hell yeah. Keep watching. It helps drive our content lol
I love love love that you have that kind of confidence. I wish i was at that level , it's also great that he is so supportive and also feels the same way about you.
I used to have a lot of confidence but these past couple of years I have lost a lot of it and I am working on bringing it back. I grew up poor, short, and hit puberty late so I got made fun of a lot but I never let it affect me. I stayed confident in myself and was not worried about what others thought of me. I still feel the same, don't care what others think of me but my issue is waking up each day trying to be proud of myself. With my recent failures in my life, it's been harder to motivate. I am better than I was 6 months ago but still a work in progress. I'm going to start with the simple morning affirmations and hopefully move forward. I appreciate everything you guys do. It is because of the 2 of you that I have really found a new perspective on life and figured out so many things I need to work on within myself. I have tried to get my ex husband to watch you too, he could definitely benefit from what you are offering as well.
I love how Chris said he would be there real quick and burn the place down if he said your man is not there. Love this because my husband would do the same. My husband is my protector ❤
Confidence is something I struggle with...my mental state is not okay. And this episode helped me see things a little better. My husband and I are both working on detailed emails to send you guys, cause I'd love to hear your thoughts on our story. Yall have helped mend our relationship more than you know. Thank you for existing ❤
I love listening to you guys when I am cleaning the house, it just puts me into a good mood lol! Thank you!
I stumbled upon a tiktok of y'all last week and i have already learned so much. I went through an extremely traumatic event last year and after being single for a very long time prior, my self esteem was shit. I recently met someone and it was horrible at first. But i have been trying little things i learned from watching your podcasts and i cannot believe the difference. Thank yall so much, i finally feel like i might have a chance to feel loved for the first time. Keep doing what you do. You have literally changed my life already.
I recently just started to watch/listen to your podcasts. You brought up how when you are at the gym and your self-talk when you are there] and my first thought was that I actually have been listening to your podcasts while I work out at the gym. I am socially awkward and anxious in crowded areas, especially when it has to do with something I am uncomfortable with initially and it is hard when I am just listening to music in the gym, but your podcasts have actually helped me. A previous podcast of yours that I listened to before I went to the gym also helped me because of one of the things you said. 'Under-commit and over-perform and that you don't deserve something if you're not willing to sacrifice for it. Those sayings have helped me in my mentality to get sh*t done instead of procrastinating or talking myself out of it. Basically, I have to be uncomfortable first to achieve what I want in the future. So, thank you!
Awww I love you guys so much! Looking forward to see what the future holds for you guys!!❤
Thank you.
Oh my gosh, the book club idea. Sounds perfect.
You guys have helped me in a big way to communicate better, I still have a lot of work to do.
The instant recoil I get at just the THOUGHT of wet socks from stepping on a mystery puddle 🤮 makes my toes curl! 🤣
I am so thankful to be seeing this. I am currently speed running through your content.
I know I have behavior in my life that is shiznitty. I am working to fix these things, but Khrys, thank you for speaking on being a shiznitty person who owned her shiznit. You are an example for women like me-- knowing there is work to be done, but knowing that in the owning of it, there is true freedom.
Keep this up, please. There are old birds like me who need this!!!
I’m late to this video and while I agree I have no idea how yall got there but I’m glad you did! I needed that topic
Y’all need merch 🩷
Literally just popped up, Khrys.. I LOVE YOUR SHIRT! Carry on. ❤
Love you 2 on TikTok, glad to have found you on UA-cam!❤❤
Many people have said I’m intimidating, and had a friend say I’m scary confident. I never understood it. Now that I’m older, I understand that it comes from not comparing myself to others and being comfortable in who I am no matter what I look like physically.
An eye for an eye world- everyone is blind. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
That sounds like the best book club scene ever, I would totally participate in the fancy hats too lol
I found you guys on tik tok and just started watching your full videos. They help soooo much
I can't believe I finally heard that if you're exhausted, you won't be intimate. I'm pretty sure if I had communicated my needs better, my ex wouldn't have cheated on me. He was unhappy too, and I just didn't see it.
Lol 🖤 😆 Thanks guys!
“Drunken words are sober thoughts”
Book club would be rad~
I look up to your guys relationship and am trying to incorporate the stuff you talk about in my relationship
I think the important thing about the judgment part is that we all judge, it's whether or not you act upon those judgments verbally and with your body language. Hopefully most people understand that lol.
Laughter is the best tension breaker and always be confident in yourself. I’m a fat, fluffy guy, but I strive on being a class clown comedian type. I am always cracking jokes.
I literally just said girl yes to not communicating for weeks or months with friends. This is why my husband and I have one friend each.
I will subscribe for sure ❤
I love feeling my feminine, I am submissive to my man, I am strong and I also know I am able to do everything, I love wholeheartedly that my man is my king, I am his queen that's that
Oh my god y’all don’t smoke either?! Jeez we would make great friends 😂
Please don’t go to Patreon 😢😢 I just found y’all and have only been watching a couple days now
We are going to be doing the podcast and some content here. But we will be doing exclusive content for patreon.
I'm also really bad about keeping in contact
Honestly I’m the exact same. I don’t even have a lot going on. I have loads of free time most days I just don’t have the energy to reach out a lot. I went two months without talking to my dad because I either didn’t have the energy or just kept forgetting to reach out. It’s not that I don’t love him or want to talk to him, it’s just easy for my mind to get distracted and forget and hard for me to get the energy. I went like two years without talking to my closest friend because of it. We started talking again like it had only been a day. I’m “absent” but when I’m present I’d like to think I’m a bomb ass friend. (Though I only have two friends… just because I’ve learned to be more particular about who I associate myself with) but hell I would 100000% be friends with you both. Even if we only talked like once a month. I feel it’s more about the quality of time rather than the quantity. One great, engaging conversation a month is better than 10 crappy, minimal effort conversations. You two are fucking awesome ass people that I would be honored to call my friends.
(I sound like such a kiss ass 😂)
I'm definitely going to subscribe.
We will post a link when it’s approved
www.patreon.com/2bebetter
@@2bebetter thanks! I will get signed up tommorrow
Where is episode 4?
Also, I would absolutely love having a friendship with you guys
But, as a person that is busy and has ADHD I totally understand the "shitty friend" thing lol
And I'm the type that feel like shit lol
Oh I am not a bar person. I don’t want to drink. The smell makes me nauseous for most of them. ( I also don’t like the idea of ingesting something that is not only going to destroy my body but also effect the decisions I make) I would 100% do a book club. I love reading and writing.
Going to bars is junk food. Temporary enjoyment but ultimately unhealthy, not good for you.
Drunk mind sober thought
Does Patreon accept PayPal?
Kryhs this video makes me want to be even more confident loved this! The bar thing how can you tell someone that you don't feel comfortable with the bf going to the bar gets paid and his whole check disappears within a few days 😒 and they tell you "my half of the rent is paid that's all that matters"
I don’t know if you can do patreon with PayPal.
www.patreon.com/2bebetter
Patreon accepts both pay pal and card. Hope that helps
@@autismmama34 thank you 😊
I'd subscribe for sure.
www.patreon.com/2bebetter
I know you guys would love to make some money doing this but I will be super sad if you ever leave UA-cam, we can't afford a subscription but my husband and I love you guys and your advice, you've really helped our marriage! We'll be so sad 😢😢😢
Seeing my husband be a bad dad makes me want to leave him he has become more and more distant and difficult as are child gets older he is now to the point where he openly calls my son a retard for making normal kid mistakes and I stand up for my son but when more and more things like that happen make me want to leave we have been together 12 years ... 😢 any advice
How unrealisitic it is to put any amount of your little daily energy into people who arent in your top 5. I think most sucessful adults are terrible friends lol
I’d subscribe to your patreon.
It’s happening. We are waiting right now for it to be approved
www.patreon.com/2bebetter
Don't leave youtube
💯❤
I can't subscribe to a Patreon on a monthly basis. But if one off you has PayPal i can make a donation ☺️
2bebetterco@gmail.com is the paypal
We appreciate that.
Maybe go and take paint ball pic if you want to spend time with your friends.
Argue to understand.