IT'S BABY MONTH!! 👶🥰🥳 This is probably the last video I'll film before the birth of my precious little one! I've backlogged some content for you all that I will release here and there during my "maternity leave", so you'll still see my face around , but videos might be a bit more scattered. Thank you for all of the support and understanding! I am very much looking forward to this new season. 💜 (Let's hope this cherub appreciates having an ESFP mother ) (I know I will appreciate having a 24/7 excuse to go on the slide now )
Worry not! Your cherub will be blessed to have such wonderful parents! Both the ESFP mums I know are great. They're really close to their children, and they take them on tons of adventures, so they really do seem to have the confidence to chase their dreams! 🫡
10:12 "Now, for every cult that I've accidentally started, there's been an ENTP egging me on from the sidelines, only for me to find out later that they've started their own rival cult and are planning to enter political war with me." That is one of the greatest sentences I've ever heard 😂
INTJ here. Acceptable bribes are: 1. The dirt on other people 2. Cinema tickets for one person 3. Doing all of the talking for me 4. Ghost writing an expected heartfelt letter and signing it with my name. 5. A glass of blood, shaken not stirred. 6. Not talking to me when I'm wearing headphones, or breathing. 7. Ways in which I can be more efficient (joke, I'm already always maximimally efficient. Always). 8. Bringing a tarp, two shovels and no questions. 9. Repeating 8 as often as necessary, which it will be. This one will net you a lot of credit, I shall dub thee "Renfield". 10. Tips on colour coordinating the coffin I sleep in with my clothing. (I'm joking obviously. Black goes with everything, especially more black).
An ENFP managed to keep me entertained by telling me about people's secret plans for their lives and asking many many questions about technological things, life in general, best career paths for different types of people, how to cool properly in a hot summer, how to kill the planet, how to save the planet, etc. which I happily all answered while she really tried hardest to understand and dig deep into these topics with me.
Accurate. I married an INTJ. He certainly loves his food (although manages to stay fit), deep dives conspiracy theories with me, loves my hairbrained ideas and even finds ways to implement them... and blessedly, thankfully recognizes when I need my own down time for introspection and gives me space to do my own thing while he does his. Then, when I'm ready for socializing again, he has had enough alone time that he can socialize with me. It's a wonderful match. Although, because it works so well for us, we sometimes rely too much on only each other's company for our social needs... then after several months, we realize that we are both missing time with friends. So, that can be a problem. Anyway... he's my favorite. INTJs are amazing. 💃 -ENFP
Awe! Cute! My INTJ husband has the full time job of protecting me with his life. I'm a hot mess and he is constantly protecting me from random mishaps I am about to get myself into. 😂
aww, thank you! i personally dont think i have met much ISTPs in my life, but i imagine you being logically chaotic and straightforward which i both love. i feel like i could really connect to ISTPs given the chance :> - ENFP
I second this. ENFPs are so versatile and interested in everything. They make me laugh. My best friend from college is one. He was a major part of why I can function in society today. - ISTP
INTP and yeah, they're oddly the type I seem to get along fastest with, because they like me and I like them, despite often being so very different in terms of how we see the world, our values, thoughts, beliefs, etc.
"For some reason they feel the need to do research into topics that I can speak about anyway" - great one-liner that sums up us ENFPs. I'd rework the tier list a bit. ISFJ and ESFJ are the types I find hardest to get on with - I can't see any world where that's a top vibe. Other ENFPs, ENTPs, INFJs and to a slightly lesser extent, INTPs, are amazing matches. ESTJs and ISTJs, I generally get on very well with, we share all the same functions, although we often have some markedly different values. ISFP and INFP both tend to be a bit too whingy for me, although we definitely still get on. ESFP, and ESTP, I can have a lot of fun doing things together, but at the end of the day, we don't really have much in common. I've never (knowingly) met an INTJ or ENFJ, ENTJs I've only met at work and we get on decently well, ISTPs are an enigma to me!
No way no way INTJs are absolutely top tier to me as an ENFP. They bring a goofy, serious, deep, and surprisingly emotionally wise vibe that i just adore. I also don't really care for a super high Fe, to be honest. I find that they dont engage easily in casually confrontational banter and debate and that makes them kind of annoying. I dont know if it is because I highly value Te or something, but I really prefer NT types.
Ooh, this!!! My husband is INTJ. My two besties are INTP. I also have an ENTP friend and I love her wit! We aren't as close because she is several years older than me and in a different stage of life, but I like her. My other favorite types are my ESTJ friend and my ISTP friend. The high Fe users also annoy the daylights out of me. Like, my head is in the clouds as I surf the metaverse, sure. However, there is something that seems so disengenuine about the ENFJ in my life. I could be mid catastrophe, with the terrible thing unfolding in real time and her response would be, "Oh, but isn't it wonderful that you get to have a new start and you are okay and look at it this way..." "Umm... Ma'am, give me like a nanosecond (more like a week or so, but she doesn't even give me a nanosecond) to fully process this and be angry, sad, hurt, disillusioned and all the things before you shove what you think my response SHOULD be down my throat. Thanks for the empathy. Thanks for the understanding. Instead I'm being told why my feelings are invalid and wrong... because they are upsetting your Fe harmonious, everyone happy apple cart." Drives me nuts and feels SO fake, because I've seen her absolutely lose it when she experiences equally distressing moments. She is quick to catch herself and apologize (like I am), but I don't expect others to have toxic positivity. I expect they will grieve and struggle, and I support them doing so. It is way healthier than pretending the problem doesn't exist and that you have no negative feelings about it. I want the same respect... let me feel what I feel and tell me it's okay to do so. So yeah, I agree with you all the way. My besties and husband let me be, "not okay right now," and they simply lend their ear and let me talk. They also encourage me and challenge me in ways that don't feel so fake.
Upon hearing ENFP's chaotic sequence of activities and feeling an odd sense of relatability, I'm questioning everything I've ever believed about my supposed INFP identity lol. I relate so hard with this character, she's the happiness and excitement I used to have not long ago. Who knows, I just might be a jaded ENFP haha ✨️☺️🌈💖🦄✨️ Edit: just saw that this might be your last video before baby comes!! God bless and protect you and your sweet little one, I'm praying for you and can't wait to see pictures of your little guy! Im so happy for you I'm getting teary-eyed! 💕🙏🩵
I’m an infp and my best friend is an enfp and I have never seen such an accurate portrayal, BRAVO! Our FaceTime calls will be hours of scattered tangents and random jokes that only we understand and I wouldn’t have it any other way haha ALSO baby month, so exciting, so happy for you!! :)))
I don't even have words but I laughed at literally every joke in this so much in fact that i even laughed at the not jokes this was just so genuinely amazing
Okay, I've gotta do it. As an ENFP, this is my moment and I'm going for it. (also 36 weeks wooooo so close! May L&D go smoothly and the weeks that follow be filled with love and peace despite the insanity that your life is about to become
Beautifully chaotic! 😂😂😂 ENFP is so cute when she talks about ISFJ and ESFJ, I love it. ❤ She accidentally starting a cult is amazing! 😂 Thank you Kristin, a wonderful video again! 🎉
My husband is an ENTJ and while we were dating he went on about how crypto was such a great investment and how he made thousands from it. So I jumped on the bandwagon and bought $500 worth of various currencies. 2 years later and I’m still waiting for the market to go back up and he keeps telling me, “just wait, it’ll go back up, this year for sure!” 😅
I can't relate to this specific ENFP nor their ranking choices. But if I were to make my own tier list I would use the very same categories and the same amount of hats.
😂 very fun vibe! My sister is an ENFP and this tracks with her, my vibe with her, and our ISFP brother's vibe with her 😂 they are closer in age, he does struggle with her information processing sometimes. Also, she would make friends with a rabid dog if it appeared friendly. She's very, very sweet and everyone loves her ❤ now, she is very absent minded and leaves her stuff everywhere.... To the point that family members have wrapped things she left at their house in Christmas wrapping paper as a joke gift....😂 But she gets very defensive about that.... Otherwise, i think it's cute - INFP
All of my closest friends are introverts. INTJ husband (apparently, I learned how to bribe him 😅), two INTP besties(including my husband's sister... I adore her), ISTP who is a close friend, and a niece and nephew who I am extremely close with. My niece is a budding INTP or INFP... we have been debating that one. My nephew is most certainly shaping up to be an INTJ. He is so similar to my husband in mannerisms, style and way of thinking that my sister in law is always shaking her head and jokingly asking my husband, "How in the world did I end up raising YOUR child. I thought I escaped you when you went off to college. Now, I'm raising one of you!" (She truly adores my husband, though. They have always been the closest amongst their siblings). I have one other friend I'm close with, but not as close as those above. She's an ESTJ... and she's terrified she will be too hard on me. Yet, I love how bossy she is. My inner Te adores how organized and great she is with administration. I wanna be like her when I grow up... even if that never happens. 😂 Anyway, I have adopted mostly introverts. I feel most at home with them. Except when I'm too much for them and they want to withdraw for recharge time. Then, I feel sad. Also, when I need a quieter and low key hangout for some introspection, because I just don't want to be alone while facing what is bothering me... introverts are the perfect choice. They will simply sit and be there while I sit and ponder. When it comes to other extroverts, I'm often overlooked and overwhelmed by their sheer volume and intensity. I struggle to even be heard by them... and certainly struggle to be understood by many of them. So, I can at least understand what the introverts go through when I'm around them and become too much. *sighs and begins an existential crisis over not truly fitting in with extroverts or introverts and feeling like this weird amalgamation in between.* It's hard being ENFP... Dear Kristin is right. 😂
I am an INFP and my best friend is ENFP! Even tough I don’t consider “best friend” is one friend only, but nowadays I just realized I should call her “best friend” because we’ve been together since middle school. So, it’s about 9 years. And the silent treatment is spot on :”). Of course, It’s not something that be proud of. It’s just I have communication issue and because of this, a 6 years ago we never talked to each other. But somehow(?) we made it(?) Really really agree with instant vibe! I don’t know how to explain it, but once I talk to her, something connecting and understand each other. Maybe we have many things in common. We talked about music, dream, novel, everything. And of course, she is the one who love to talking and I listen her silently. I ever shocked because first time we being seatmate back in middle school, Iike the first day, she is casually talking about her mom’s backstory and history of their grandparents. And I still remember it well. I admire her. She is my inspiration to be a “person”. She is pretty straightforward and can stand herself (speaking whats in her mind), good at social interaction with everybody (girls, boys, teachers), which I don’t have. So, I learning a lot from her. Oh, she is good at writing and her writing is so neat like type keyboard (and I still remember why so neat) and I am good at drawing. So, back then we have an idea to make a fantasy comic book using my sketchbook, she is the word part and me the picture part. We discussed the characters, plot, everything BUT slowly forgotten because we both are procrastinator :”D Anyway, being best friend of her is my another sincerity. I am hoping our 10 years of bestie to be normal-good life with good situation and good people because we adult now and being adult is suck. Not just 10 years, but 11, 12, 13, and goes on goes on~
Hilarious! INFP here who adores ENFPs. This is the Perfect Video to make a decision as to whether you’re an Infp or Enfp. I’m assuming the reason “we” ghosted our “bestie” is bc she has authentic challenges maintaining ALL her boundaries. Not in a malicious way, but in a storm of her central nervous system thundering bolts of lightning, unintentionally electrocuting us, or anyone else in her path. She is a force. I wish she understood this. And that as long as she can sit down and receive positive feedback from “us” “we’ll” be happy to listen. Just don’t touch “our” authenticity. “We” will ghost you again.
WAITED FOR SO LONG AND DID NOT DISAPPOINT!!! Was belly laughing the whole way through! Thanks for delivering Kristin even with that other imminent delivery on the way (sorry had to make the pun), best of luck with everything 😁 - ENFP
Hahahahaha ESFJ here and I love how you portrayed ENFP and ESFJ also bonding over their Ne by doing ramdom stuff accidentally because ESFJ doesn't want to be perceived as rude and ENFP is just there for the ride 😂
First things first, BEST WISHES FOR THE BABY!!! Second, that was so creative, I love this side in ENFPs. Being an ISFJ with oddly high Ne I need to agree. Instant Vibe. Big time. However...having many ENFPs as my closest people has taught me very well a struggle from my side. ENFPs are like air. Never static. They are the people that can go from clingy to ghosting and back to loving as if not a day passed. My personal need for stability can't cope with that well, but I have figured by now it's not personal, it's just how they vibe. And I've seen this pattern in all the ENFPs I've known, so, in my experience, this is a common thing for them.
This video is WAY TOO ACCURATE!!! I have always found ISTPs, ISFPs, and INTPs to be rather mysterious individuals. Also, a friend who I believe was an ISTP returned from vacation carrying a gallon of milk back to his dorm!🔥🔥🥛🥛
As an INTJ extreme-end-of-the-scale…I find that I may write a horror story about being trapped in an elevator with 3 ENFP’s. And then Rod Serling is resurrected for the intro…
I thought I was watching Michael from The Office give one of his inspirational speeches. Turns out it’s a real good impersonation of an ENFP. How do I know? I’m utterly annoyed at the end of the video, as much as I’m amused. (INTJ)
As soon as ENFP admitted to procrastinating, and arguing with her dog about Marvel, I knew that I vibe highly with ENFP, despite being an INFJ. Some of my besties are high NE Users, like ENFPs, INFPS and INTPs.
(INFP) it's friday already? This is a nice surprise to procrastinate writing my book. Anyway, I hope you have an amazing next few months and feel no pressure to get back into content creation anytime soon! Also 8:00 had me laugh a lot
This is why I, an INFP, often wonder if I might be an ENFP 😂. But then I remember all those undeniably INFP traits I embody and get humbled real quick. But give me coffee and BOOM! ENFP. 🤣
@@m_n_a_b 🤣But the only laced Koolaide would be more tequila. If liquid (Jim Jones reference) couraged up INFPs really wanted to amp things up, we’d get the ENFPs to eat the worms. 🐛 🤣
@@soulsurfer5531 lol! What's funny is that alcohol has the opposite effect on me. I don't get sillier and more zany... I mellow right out and get calm and sleepy. Coffee... coffee on the other hand will make me ridiculous. 🤣
@@m_n_a_b You must be a blast when you drink expresso! Btw, I find tequila has a very different effect than any other alcohol. It can be in a margarita. Tequila is high energy. Vodka & Gin add a tiny kick, but it’s not the same. If you really want a big bump of caffeinated coffee ENFP 🤣energy, try Thai tea or coffee. Or Turkish coffee. The only caffeine I drink is green tea. Matcha’s levels of L theanine actually calm down the central nervous system while keeping you awake. Added bonus it’s loaded with anti oxidants & is a great anti inflammatory. Is it me, or do you feel many INFPs are into nutrition? I don’t mean dieting. And we don’t push our regimen into others.
"For some reasons they choose to do research into topics that I don't need to research to speak about them accurately. and that just really helps to fill in the gaps that I didn't know were there in the impressions that I have about things" Ooft as a fellow ENFP I feel attacked 😂
Somehow… really accurate. I have a friend who is an ENFP and we really can talk about lots of different things. And then we don’t talk during at least three months. Although I have an ISTP friend (yeah, I have two friends, that’s a lot, I know) whose communication with ENFP was just like you described. Yep, surprisingly accurate.
Oh man, this ENFP here had a blast watching this!^^ Thank you! :) Just one thing; I would have switched ESTJ (demanding and annoying ah) and INTJ (dark dream pair).
I'm an ENFP married to an INTJ. Yes, the chaos sometimes gets to him... but most of the time he is simply amused by it. The reason it works so well for us is that I can be serious and often need alone time (which gives him built in alone time), and my Ne feeds ideas to his Ni... then he extrapolates the outworking and inevitable outcome of each idea and chooses the one that will yield the best results. We run a business together and it took some time to learn how to work as a team, but once we did, we became a problem solving machine. He will come to me with a problem and ask if we should do A or B. I'll say, "Why not C, D, or F?" Possibilities he didn't even think about... usually a combination of A and B with some random extra spin thrown in... and he will say, "That's brilliant. That. Let's do that." Then, he helps me carry out the plan by giving me the details in small doses. I get overwhelmed by all the details at one time, just like he is overwhelmed when I give all the possibilities in rapid succession. This style works super well for us and we have had a lot of success at problem solving this way. On another note, I see the heart he has for his loved ones. Others think he's all brain and no heart, but I can see right into him and I know it is there in his intentional and careful choices meant to take care of those he loves. I understand him in a way almost nobody else has and it didn't take me long to do so. I didn't need to learn... I just get him. I know his level of protectiveness is off the scales, yet I appreciate it. He watches out for me. It's one more way he demonstrates his love for me. It only occasionally drives me nutty... when he isn't keen on me traveling on a girls trip, because he can't be there to keep me safe. He's working on that one, though. He also simply gets me. He understands my motives in a way almost nobody else has. He sees how deeply I feel for those I love and care about. He knows how fiercely I defend them when someone else is being awful to them. And on a lighter note... he is so fun to have verbal sparring matches with. And to contemplate alternate realities with. He loves doing those things with me. Finally, neither of us trust the large institutions... they are so corrupt. So, we match on our "conspiracy theories". 😂 Yes, we ENFPs bring plenty of chaos and we thrive on spontaneity, but we also bring sunshine, fun and shared adventure. (He has traveled to more places and tried more excursions since marrying me than he had in his entire 30 years before marrying me. We've only been married 12 years. He very much enjoys our adventuring and so do I. Our fondest memories are of our adventures. Standing on mountain tops with breathtaking views, ziplining over alligator tanks, playing with baby penguins, swimming with dolphins, riding side by sides up a mountain, kayaking, traveling, body boarding, walking on the bottom of an aquarium with dive helmets, holding baby alligators, etc.) Anyway, we are similar enough and have shared values and interests to get along super well. Yet, we are different enough to keep it interesting for both of us. 😊
Thanks for the video I love your ENFP content! 2:59 when I saw the video title I knew this joke would be in there 😂😂😂 this is literally me when i was in school. I really thought I was friends with everyone and had a special connection to all my classmates in our own unique way 😂 However, my ranking would look a bit differnt to the actual ranking you made, but maybe there is no recipe for us ENFP for who we vibe with... but seriously: INFP and ENFJ are a very special vibe to me❤ wow what a long comment... hey look there is a cat 😀🐈
My previous favorite pinned comment was the one in the "16 Personalities Through the Eyes of the ESFP," but you just keep getting better and better! Dear Kristin, it's been an honor! Single tear salute. 🥲Your precious little one couldn't be more blessed. There is no type other to have as a mother for your cherub. Unless, I'm Motherwised convinced after watching this ENFP... I gotta go!
The TTRPG thing is real. After I moved, multiple people texted me saying that each of the tables I've been a part of is now just less fun/chaotic. - ENTP
I wish you all the best, Kristin! I don’t care if you don't post at all so long as you take care of yourself! You must be excited/nervous/so many other emotions you probably cannot translate to words 🫂🫂 I really hope the best for you and Andrew on this new journey of being a mother and father, may your little cherub be a beautiful one. Excited to see him 💗
I'm an ENFP and my husband is an INTP. We have a lot of beliefs in common, but we differ at the point of feelings and thinking. I don't care about the logical answer if people are getting hurt. My sister is an INFP and we are totally besties! My mother was an ISFP and she kind of scared me a bit when I was little. My sis-in-laws are ISTP and ESFP, I love them both and we're all good friends. My mother-in-law is an ENTJ, though. I feel like we always have some kind of competition going. We each think we're smarter than the other. We still love each other anyway.
It's accurate, though! I don't have to research that dumb thing my husband is insisting I research... I end up being correct most of the time, anyway (and I mean that sincerely, not arrogantly... 9 times out of 10, the answer ends up being what I said). However, my interests in so many varied topics finds me willfully researching things just to learn enough to satisfy my curiosity. It has to be what I want to research, though... otherwise it feels soul killing. 😂
Oh MARVEL franchise! I heard MARBLE franchise, and went on such a wool gathering expedition about whether it was like the white countertops type marble or the small round toys, and whether there's a company that only makes glass marbles, would that be lucrative to the point of having a franchise? I mean, when I was a kid I played with marbles, but my children don't. Wouldn't it be amazing to find an abandoned factory with just marbles all over the floor, left there after bankruptcy? Dangerous to walk on, though. . . And I had to restart the video because I missed everything she said after that. 😅
one of my best friends would definitely be in the "subscribe" category. she was HARD to befriend. and then my extroverted friends started bothering her and i'm like. you're going to put her off!! she just barely accepted us being friends!! luckily she puts up with us
I'm 1:20 in and already this is destroying me internally. Yes, I do things like cleaning my room at the exact time when I should be doing something more urgently pressing (and then have to panic finish my other projects. The fact that I somehow still do well on whatever it is I panic-mode finished ( I once had to do 5 different papers I hadn't properly studied for in one day and somehow managed to get a good grade on all of them) doesn't help my tendency to do this but does leave me with stress and a reputation. Thanks brain.) The cookie thing *could be slightly* inaccurate as I don't like having to read instructions but I'm also often too lazy to do the typical combine-random-scattered-recipe-quantities-to-see-what-I-get. I have also been known to somehow err when making instant mashed potatoes of all things... *BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY: HOW DID YOU FIND OUT ABOUT THE HAT (or any other thing that will stay on head) THING???* I've genuinely done this several times to fix my problems. Need to focus? Braid hair with pipe cleaners and use a clothes pin as a hairpin. Depressed/stressed/upset? Use a turkey mask as a beanie. Crying? place a stuffed animal on head until the absurdity of the situation causes the tears to turn to laughter. Need inspiration? put a cardboard box over head and run around the house.
Quick note: INTJ's and ENTJ's to me must be forced out of their shells. I know for certain that INTJ's are really just wonderful teddy bears of delightfullness with just a touch of chaotic evil once you can get into their fortress. They do have a tendency to enjoy randomly terrifying one at the most unexpected times but they are actually amazing at the end of the day. But it is unsettling when they suddenly decide to be random... I have yet to know how ENTJ's truly are but I've seen some delightful little indicators of humanity and humour in them which gives me hope. SOMEDAY I WILL FIGURE OUT YOUR INNER WORKING ENTJ'S! I will befriend at least on of you if it's the last thing I do... I just wanted to mention this because those two types are the ones who pique my interest the most and so therefore are the ones I cared to share a little bit of how I think of them.
Lol, more like "tear-ranking", how capable each type is in making the ENFP cry. INTJ: #1 Just kidding, we'd never intentionally make you cry... probably. (no ENFP were harmed in the making of this comment. ...yet)
I can't handle ExTJs without your help, as you seem to vibe very well with them, especially the ESTJs, the inverted opposite of my type, and the scariest among the MBTI personalities. 🥺 They are all villains that I scare to death, as claimed in the INFP tier-ranking episode. And perhaps I can handle the IxTJs? So it'll the best if you handle the ExTJs and I handle the IxTJs. - One of your instant vibe besties, INFP 🧚♂️👼
I have often witnessed is that INTJ’s seem to be instantly attracted to ENFP, but soon after they tend to find them annoying and flakey. There are very few types that INTJ likes.
I feel like that's the exact opposite for INFJs with ENTPs. At first you despise them and think you've finally find someone who is purely evil and impossible to love and that challenges you. Then you spend time with them to figure them out and you realize they're just misunderstood candid trouble makers who make offensive jokes to make people laugh, entertain themselves and try to create a bond and they don't mean what they say. Then you don't want to live without them anymore because they light up your day like a sarcastic sunshine. They're like a baby demon who actually doesn't mean harm but has great chaotic potential.
Are you just drawn to the chaos? We like solving problems, so that's the only logical way I can see this happening. ENFPs do have the patience to peel away the shells of INTJs, but where the structure of this relationship stands without it just being the INTJ putting up the safety bumpers for the ENFP's infinitely bounce ball seems one sided. ... I don't understand...
humm, start what you finish... yes, that is a much easier thing than finish what you've started, just have to look around and work out what you have finished and your already done, no effort required, genius!
Never ever i felt so accurately attacked in my entire life in just within 5 minutes in??! WHAT KIND OF SORCERY IS THISSS? BTW TO ALL MY CHAOTIC ENFPs, I LOVE YOU ALL!!
ENFP’s upside down type, ISTJ: 1. Friends? I tried. (It stayed professional.) 2. They make me want to run and hide. 3. If I said I’d converse with them, I lied. 4. The state of their bathroom has got me tongue-tied. (It’s disgusting.) 5. I wouldn’t care if they died.
INFJ here, I have an ISTJ best friend, and an ENFP joined our gaming group; they see the same pieces on the board, so to speak, but their conclusions are vastly different, and they would often irritate one another and both complain to me about the other one. Each saw the other's trickster function as a glaring omission and personality flaw. They're in the duelist position (like me and ESTP) so they would often "flex", on one another, ENFP with their creative Spontaneity, and ISTJ, with their thorough Planning. I liked them both, and could see how similar but with different priorities they were. They would often wait in silence for me to get back from the bathroom so it was always interesting when we'd go out to places, and I'd often have to cognitively shift into my ESTP Id in order to "Lead" our outings, and arbitrate between them (which the ISTJ quite liked) as I was almost always the tie-breaking vote. I rather enjoy both (two of my favourite types), but you're quite correct, they don't naturally get along, but rather compete and see the flaws in one another as rank, and would question how I "put up with them". Peace, and Blessings to you, and your Houses ❤️🙏🔥
If you don't vibe with ENFPs that's fine. Your assessment looks a bit too dismissive to me though; it doesn't do them justice. ENFPs can be scatter-brained due them constantly being distracted by all sorts of impressions. This leads them to forget about the most basic things sometimes and to a clueless observer they might appear sloppy. They aren't, however. Their sense of beauty, symmetry and - in unison with that - order is actually unmatched. And when they observe their environment, nothing escapes their attention. I'm also an INFJ, and while I also prefer a neat and a clean environment with not too much going on in it, I'm often just too absent-minded and exhausted to live up to my own preferences. So I might be the one leaving my clothes on the floor or groceries in the bag or who just randomly piles up various things that are in my way. And there comes my ENFP who picks up those things and arranges them in a certain pattern or who goes "When you cleaned the bathroom, you missed a spot. It was already there last week." It's actually quite stressful sometimes. 😅 You might be surprised how similar an ENFP can be to an ISTJ. 🙃 That's my impression at least.
@@kommad.2931 idk if your comment was for me or the other person but if it was for me: this is my comedic take on what the ISTJ’s tier ranking category titles could be. i love ENFPs bro. and ISTJs. it’s nothing serious.
but you see, it's the deep understanding that CREATES the vibe. (bascially, as an ENFP, i do crave deep understanding of literally everything.) but, accurate regardless. i eat vibes for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and as a midnight snack.
As an ENFP with ADHD, this was insanely accurate 😂 my guess what that they’d all end up in top tier because we can’t help but see the good in others!!! WE JUST WANT PEOPLE WHO MAKE US FEEL LOVED!!! Honestly doesn’t matter who at a certain point🤣 You absolutely nailed it, love your vids as always cause they give me that validation that I’m not the only one lol
YES FINALLY! Was waiting for this one. The intro before the actual ranking was 100% accurate! The actual ranking was actually almost the exact opposite of what I would have done as an ENFP xD (My closest friends are INTJs, INTPs, and INFJs. I normally don't vibe with ESFPs, ESTJs, and ISFJs at all. Also love tabletop rpgs, even without other Ne users haha)
As a INTP-mistyped ENTP (with some ambiguity around the T) I find I vibe fairly well with ENFPs (especially the streak of ADHD that's apparent here), except as a techie, being around people who end up in situations like 8:08 , 9:06 , 10:08 is stressful, because they're malware magnets and techies spend too much time are work dealing with the consequences.
Is this an Australian thing, and is it only free for kids? My local u.s. supermarket offers kids a clementine or banana. 🍊 may not be the best fruit but they're certainly the most cheerful. I think i deserve some happiness in my life, and y'all deserve to partake of the nut bucket!
That's the one I have been sooooooooooo looking forward to. 🤩 You nailed the eye movement and expression. You also nearly nailed the moth collection. My ENFP has a collection of butterflies. ^^ ... which is one of his five collections of specific things.
ENFPs are the best type to play with, but they might become like this ENFP's INFP best friend if I don't elaborate...Ne-who! Reading the comments here has been the best imo. Might make some sense if you agree with the theory that those we attract are a reflection of who we are, might makes right, also if you agree with my comment quality assessment, as well as agreeing with this trademarking prettiest-in-pink ENFP's "first is the best, second is the same, as well as the third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, etc." philosophy, but imo, a tie is worse than losing and, imo, you are the BEST, Dear Kristin. Also, I used to share this ENFP's hat philosophy every work day until 9 PM at one of my many supermarket sales joke jobs where apparently I was nuts okaying free sample handfuls from nut buckets. Preach it, ENFP! Also, just looked up Butterfree, and gonna bring it up to the kids tomorrow! One of them asked me what my favorite Pokemon was and I have to look it up...Charmander! There was a Charmander toy nearby and I went with that and she was happy! Her favorite is... hang on...Jigglypuff! Dear Kristin, imo, this is the best ranker 10/10! When you asked for questions, I should have asked if your cherub gave you ideas because you are, both, incredible! Happy Baby Month to you and your wonderful family (especially your fantastic ENFP sister Jenna!), Angel of Music Dear Kristin! Celebrate the BEST times on your maternity leave (which are times after 9PM unless you get an ENFP customer =)!
I love how ENFP had made rankings for all kind of situations XD XD Yep, actually ENFP can end things more than one could think, but it's true we can get distracted easily. Love also all the chaos, to the point she involved the narrator herself! XD XD Yeap, ENFP tend to see good in anyone n.n Every person we meet is a potential buddy :3 For real, I don't know if I have told it already here, but even once I got liked by a robber, he tried to steal my cellphone, but I ended knowing his nickname, his real first name and his backstory, he didn't take my cellphone nor my money XD XD In another ocassion I was talking with some friends, and I think I needed to go to the bathroom, and when I was back, my friends saw talking with a girl, and they asked me "who is she?", and I said "Oh, she's Raquel, I have met her just now", and they were like "How do you make friends that fast going to the bathroom??" XD XD Also, I think INFP is the other personality that can actually understand ENFP really well, since our differences are actually quite a few, the main one being energy levels. Coincidentally, my best friend is also an INFP :3
This video lives up to the common framework of great ENFP UA-camr's like Peter McKinnon to Johnny Harris' video masterpieces, where you can safely skip the first 2 mins without missing much. That's canon in the MBTI lore, and for that I tip my hat and leave a like. 😂 EDIT: or maybe 4-5min... you know, to really channel that maximum ENFP energy!
The ENFP speaks very fast I can't keep up It's definitely my favorite tier ranking so far, or is it ESFP she is so crazy and full of vitality, INFP based on who the personalities would be in your self-insert fanfic ? INTP and how exhausting they are ? Anyway, I think if I made a tier ranking it would something like this. Thank you KrisTEEN for another amazong video- INFP
Should it concern me that I feel so at ease and even at home watching this video with all its colourful chaos and yet the hundrets of the potential deep-conversation-starters that I also like throw in between my sentences and few people rarely react to properly let alone offer me such gem-conversation-quickstaters themselves!!!!???😢😂❤ Yes, fellow ENFP there. You guessed correctly🎉
Though such MBT videos show caricatures, they do, like all caricatures, resemble some real stuff 😂😢 Enfp here, and I laughed and cringed simultaneously because I felt quite accurately represented. A bit over the top for the comedic element but I'm fascinated how you can get into the mind of a cognitive function and act it out so well! Mad props. 🎉
ENFP: "I'm here to subvert the stereotype that we are purely chaotic!" That pretty much sums it up. ENFPs are chaos-monkeys with the absolute best of intention... usually. They have ESTJ friends who feel compelled to act as guides and life-coaches, and INFP friends who view them as amazingly outgoing and fun, and ESFP friends with whom they can dance and party the night away without a care in the world. I only rarely fault any ENFP for their intentions, but the reality isn't always peaches and cream. Great people with great personalities, but that Ti-Blind Spot can really be a killer. -- INTP (formerly married to an ENFP)
Okay, I've not yet finished this but I wholly believe she *is* the nut-bucket at the supermarket. Best of luck with the baby, Kristin! I hope you managed to stock up on sleep.
hahah, my boss and I are both ENFP's, we get along great, and have many shared interests - but I will admit the rest of the staff can barely keep up with the conversation chaos when we're in the same room together.
"INTJ might not have lighting in their room..." Me (INTJ): Looks up at the LED room lights set to Dim Red. She might have a point. moth collection would be cool though.
i had a blast of a time watching this. also feel annoyingly seen, this is probably how i appear to any friend when i'm not being super professional stressed out mode. everything, everywhere all at once. I can see why we don't float some type's boats, even though fellow enfps are the best company ever. would make changes to the list to switch ISFJ, ESFJ to the bribe to vibe. ESFP to the vibe tribe. INFJ and ENTP and INTP to instant besties. ENFJ to the vibe tribe/bribe for vibe. It's the Fe dom, it ticks me off more than anything, silent social cues and small talk and judgement when I miss those. Also hard to figure out authenticity in the mix of all social maneuvering they do, so harder to trust. Te doms I love, I actually rank them higher than Fe doms lol, for the reasons you describe ESTJs. Some tough love, some organizing and I just have to go along with it. The scolding is fine from them, I don't feel that judged because it's usually facts and truths lol. Must be the Fi somewhere, it just makes me think they really care.
Damn, the excitement...it is just lovely and impressive. The 16 personality model may not be practical but it is definitely worth watching videos like yours.
Me as an INFP who thinks best friend is scared but also tries to be everyone's best friend. I get you, ENFP. Maybe I am an ENFP. I don't know. I'm too lost in my own head I think to be ENFP.
IT'S BABY MONTH!! 👶🥰🥳
This is probably the last video I'll film before the birth of my precious little one! I've backlogged some content for you all that I will release here and there during my "maternity leave", so you'll still see my face around , but videos might be a bit more scattered.
Thank you for all of the support and understanding! I am very much looking forward to this new season. 💜
(Let's hope this cherub appreciates having an ESFP mother ) (I know I will appreciate having a 24/7 excuse to go on the slide now )
@@dearkristin Wish you an easy delivery! Thank you for working so much for your audience! 🥰👏🏻
Congratulations on your impending birth, Kristin, you'll be a wonderful mum. ❤😻
Worry not! Your cherub will be blessed to have such wonderful parents! Both the ESFP mums I know are great. They're really close to their children, and they take them on tons of adventures, so they really do seem to have the confidence to chase their dreams! 🫡
Yaaay take care
Aaaawww❤ Thank you for the video. You made my day.
Congratulation🎉 I hope the best for your baby😊🥰
Not even 1 minute in and I feel both attacked and seen. - ENFP
Same here 😭😭
Hug from 1 of your bfs, an INFP.
I am both embarrassed and impressed.
@@Lemondrop_andBerryWhat type are you?
10:12 "Now, for every cult that I've accidentally started, there's been an ENTP egging me on from the sidelines, only for me to find out later that they've started their own rival cult and are planning to enter political war with me."
That is one of the greatest sentences I've ever heard 😂
It’s so true 😅😂🤣
The INFJ saw all of this coming and that's why they didn't want them to think about it and bring ENTP to the party.
@@kyurei4478 this!! x’D but yes that was a glorious sentence
INTJ here. Acceptable bribes are:
1. The dirt on other people
2. Cinema tickets for one person
3. Doing all of the talking for me
4. Ghost writing an expected heartfelt letter and signing it with my name.
5. A glass of blood, shaken not stirred.
6. Not talking to me when I'm wearing headphones, or breathing.
7. Ways in which I can be more efficient (joke, I'm already always maximimally efficient. Always).
8. Bringing a tarp, two shovels and no questions.
9. Repeating 8 as often as necessary, which it will be. This one will net you a lot of credit, I shall dub thee "Renfield".
10. Tips on colour coordinating the coffin I sleep in with my clothing. (I'm joking obviously. Black goes with everything, especially more black).
On behalf of all ENFPs, challenge accepted
holy shit you reminded me of when i used to drink blood
no actually i used to drink my blood and i liked it
also i have large canines 🥰
VAMPIRES! I'm calling the church! - ISFP
"The dirt on other people" I assume that's done after the two shovels are brought.
As an INTJ, I will let you know that I will accept food, dark secrets and "I will leave you alone for X days/months" for bribery.
Don't forget we accept black coffee too.
An ENFP managed to keep me entertained by telling me about people's secret plans for their lives and asking many many questions about technological things, life in general, best career paths for different types of people, how to cool properly in a hot summer, how to kill the planet, how to save the planet, etc. which I happily all answered while she really tried hardest to understand and dig deep into these topics with me.
ENFPs are the INTJs only hope for someone who will actually break through your defenses and actually care and listen :)
"i will leave you alone for months" as a bribe for vibe. huh.
Accurate. I married an INTJ. He certainly loves his food (although manages to stay fit), deep dives conspiracy theories with me, loves my hairbrained ideas and even finds ways to implement them... and blessedly, thankfully recognizes when I need my own down time for introspection and gives me space to do my own thing while he does his. Then, when I'm ready for socializing again, he has had enough alone time that he can socialize with me. It's a wonderful match.
Although, because it works so well for us, we sometimes rely too much on only each other's company for our social needs... then after several months, we realize that we are both missing time with friends. So, that can be a problem.
Anyway... he's my favorite. INTJs are amazing. 💃
-ENFP
I'm surprised the ENFP was even able to do a tier ranking video after watching Bye, Bye Butterfree...
She is a strong woman.
This video made me want to protect ENFPs with my life
Awe! Cute! My INTJ husband has the full time job of protecting me with his life. I'm a hot mess and he is constantly protecting me from random mishaps I am about to get myself into. 😂
I’m an ISTP, and I think ENFPs are an instant vibe. They are so damn entertaining without really having an agenda or judgment.
aww, thank you! i personally dont think i have met much ISTPs in my life, but i imagine you being logically chaotic and straightforward which i both love. i feel like i could really connect to ISTPs given the chance :> - ENFP
I often feel like I'm an istp kayak in my friends enfp river. Fun and challenging, good for a few hours entertainment.
😅 I have an ISTP friend of ten years
I second this. ENFPs are so versatile and interested in everything. They make me laugh. My best friend from college is one. He was a major part of why I can function in society today.
- ISTP
INTP and yeah, they're oddly the type I seem to get along fastest with, because they like me and I like them, despite often being so very different in terms of how we see the world, our values, thoughts, beliefs, etc.
This video was so delightfully chaotic. I loved ENFP going off on several tangents, to the point where the narrator had to intervene. 😹
Right?!? Honestly wish I had that narrator for my twitch streams 😂🤣
It would be really cool to have Kristen Bell be the narrator. She’s the voice of Gossip Girl.
@@torid.344ENFP is like the ideal type for being a streamer.
"For some reason they feel the need to do research into topics that I can speak about anyway" - great one-liner that sums up us ENFPs.
I'd rework the tier list a bit. ISFJ and ESFJ are the types I find hardest to get on with - I can't see any world where that's a top vibe. Other ENFPs, ENTPs, INFJs and to a slightly lesser extent, INTPs, are amazing matches. ESTJs and ISTJs, I generally get on very well with, we share all the same functions, although we often have some markedly different values. ISFP and INFP both tend to be a bit too whingy for me, although we definitely still get on. ESFP, and ESTP, I can have a lot of fun doing things together, but at the end of the day, we don't really have much in common. I've never (knowingly) met an INTJ or ENFJ, ENTJs I've only met at work and we get on decently well, ISTPs are an enigma to me!
No way no way INTJs are absolutely top tier to me as an ENFP. They bring a goofy, serious, deep, and surprisingly emotionally wise vibe that i just adore.
I also don't really care for a super high Fe, to be honest. I find that they dont engage easily in casually confrontational banter and debate and that makes them kind of annoying.
I dont know if it is because I highly value Te or something, but I really prefer NT types.
Totally agree! I feel understood by my INTJ friend on a way deeper level compared to Fe-Dominants. Good listeners and also very wise-vibes!
Ooh, this!!! My husband is INTJ. My two besties are INTP. I also have an ENTP friend and I love her wit! We aren't as close because she is several years older than me and in a different stage of life, but I like her.
My other favorite types are my ESTJ friend and my ISTP friend.
The high Fe users also annoy the daylights out of me. Like, my head is in the clouds as I surf the metaverse, sure. However, there is something that seems so disengenuine about the ENFJ in my life. I could be mid catastrophe, with the terrible thing unfolding in real time and her response would be, "Oh, but isn't it wonderful that you get to have a new start and you are okay and look at it this way..."
"Umm... Ma'am, give me like a nanosecond (more like a week or so, but she doesn't even give me a nanosecond) to fully process this and be angry, sad, hurt, disillusioned and all the things before you shove what you think my response SHOULD be down my throat. Thanks for the empathy. Thanks for the understanding. Instead I'm being told why my feelings are invalid and wrong... because they are upsetting your Fe harmonious, everyone happy apple cart." Drives me nuts and feels SO fake, because I've seen her absolutely lose it when she experiences equally distressing moments. She is quick to catch herself and apologize (like I am), but I don't expect others to have toxic positivity.
I expect they will grieve and struggle, and I support them doing so. It is way healthier than pretending the problem doesn't exist and that you have no negative feelings about it. I want the same respect... let me feel what I feel and tell me it's okay to do so.
So yeah, I agree with you all the way. My besties and husband let me be, "not okay right now," and they simply lend their ear and let me talk. They also encourage me and challenge me in ways that don't feel so fake.
Upon hearing ENFP's chaotic sequence of activities and feeling an odd sense of relatability, I'm questioning everything I've ever believed about my supposed INFP identity lol. I relate so hard with this character, she's the happiness and excitement I used to have not long ago. Who knows, I just might be a jaded ENFP haha
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Edit: just saw that this might be your last video before baby comes!! God bless and protect you and your sweet little one, I'm praying for you and can't wait to see pictures of your little guy! Im so happy for you I'm getting teary-eyed! 💕🙏🩵
Whatever your type is, imo, it's the very kind type to put pep in other types' step! Hope you and yours have a very Happy Fun-over-Fear Friday!
New S Tier: A vibe in which legends inscribe
- INTJ
I’m an infp and my best friend is an enfp and I have never seen such an accurate portrayal, BRAVO! Our FaceTime calls will be hours of scattered tangents and random jokes that only we understand and I wouldn’t have it any other way haha
ALSO baby month, so exciting, so happy for you!! :)))
I don't even have words
but I laughed at literally every joke in this
so much in fact that i even laughed at the not jokes
this was just so genuinely amazing
Hahaha I'm glad! Thanks 🖍️
Omg I'm an ENFP and it's my birthday! Perfect celebration!
As soon as I heard the explanation of "Subscribe" I instantly knew that no one was going in there 😂
Okay, I've gotta do it. As an ENFP, this is my moment and I'm going for it. (also 36 weeks wooooo so close! May L&D go smoothly and the weeks that follow be filled with love and peace despite the insanity that your life is about to become
Beautifully chaotic! 😂😂😂 ENFP is so cute when she talks about ISFJ and ESFJ, I love it. ❤ She accidentally starting a cult is amazing! 😂 Thank you Kristin, a wonderful video again! 🎉
Cheers! 🌈🦄
INTP: One of my teens is an ENFP. We can go on fascinating deep dives, but also, the monkeys are very real. 🤣
My husband is an ENTJ and while we were dating he went on about how crypto was such a great investment and how he made thousands from it. So I jumped on the bandwagon and bought $500 worth of various currencies. 2 years later and I’m still waiting for the market to go back up and he keeps telling me, “just wait, it’ll go back up, this year for sure!” 😅
1:32 ENFP : We’re staying focus !
One second later, ENFP : What am I doing today ?
This makes sense. I am an INFP and my best friend, Maisie is an ENFP. We vibe like salt and pepper! 😂
Same, I'm an INFP and my best friend is an ENFP ❤
I guess she's the one to spice up your life.
@@sagemaster1357 yes! But we have learned a lot from each other 🙏💜
ENFP here with an INFP best friend. It seems this pair is likely to be best friends :3
I can't relate to this specific ENFP nor their ranking choices. But if I were to make my own tier list I would use the very same categories and the same amount of hats.
wow I guess I know why I attract the xxFPs. must be all the arts and crafts I do, as well as all the food I feed them lol. -ISFJ
People' stomach is ISFJs/ESFJs best friend.
So. The ENFP learned about the 4th wall after getting married to the INTJ, huh?
ESFP and ENTJ
enfp and intj are a stereotype, in real life we really hate each other and then we go from hate to love
😂 very fun vibe! My sister is an ENFP and this tracks with her, my vibe with her, and our ISFP brother's vibe with her 😂 they are closer in age, he does struggle with her information processing sometimes. Also, she would make friends with a rabid dog if it appeared friendly. She's very, very sweet and everyone loves her ❤ now, she is very absent minded and leaves her stuff everywhere.... To the point that family members have wrapped things she left at their house in Christmas wrapping paper as a joke gift....😂 But she gets very defensive about that.... Otherwise, i think it's cute - INFP
So that's what's going on at the other end when an Enfp adopts an introvert! I've always wondered... 😉
All of my closest friends are introverts. INTJ husband (apparently, I learned how to bribe him 😅), two INTP besties(including my husband's sister... I adore her), ISTP who is a close friend, and a niece and nephew who I am extremely close with. My niece is a budding INTP or INFP... we have been debating that one. My nephew is most certainly shaping up to be an INTJ. He is so similar to my husband in mannerisms, style and way of thinking that my sister in law is always shaking her head and jokingly asking my husband, "How in the world did I end up raising YOUR child. I thought I escaped you when you went off to college. Now, I'm raising one of you!" (She truly adores my husband, though. They have always been the closest amongst their siblings).
I have one other friend I'm close with, but not as close as those above. She's an ESTJ... and she's terrified she will be too hard on me. Yet, I love how bossy she is. My inner Te adores how organized and great she is with administration. I wanna be like her when I grow up... even if that never happens. 😂
Anyway, I have adopted mostly introverts. I feel most at home with them. Except when I'm too much for them and they want to withdraw for recharge time. Then, I feel sad. Also, when I need a quieter and low key hangout for some introspection, because I just don't want to be alone while facing what is bothering me... introverts are the perfect choice. They will simply sit and be there while I sit and ponder.
When it comes to other extroverts, I'm often overlooked and overwhelmed by their sheer volume and intensity. I struggle to even be heard by them... and certainly struggle to be understood by many of them. So, I can at least understand what the introverts go through when I'm around them and become too much.
*sighs and begins an existential crisis over not truly fitting in with extroverts or introverts and feeling like this weird amalgamation in between.* It's hard being ENFP... Dear Kristin is right. 😂
I am an INFP and my best friend is ENFP! Even tough I don’t consider “best friend” is one friend only, but nowadays I just realized I should call her “best friend” because we’ve been together since middle school. So, it’s about 9 years.
And the silent treatment is spot on :”). Of course, It’s not something that be proud of. It’s just I have communication issue and because of this, a 6 years ago we never talked to each other. But somehow(?) we made it(?)
Really really agree with instant vibe! I don’t know how to explain it, but once I talk to her, something connecting and understand each other. Maybe we have many things in common. We talked about music, dream, novel, everything. And of course, she is the one who love to talking and I listen her silently. I ever shocked because first time we being seatmate back in middle school,
Iike the first day, she is casually talking about her mom’s backstory and history of their grandparents. And I still remember it well.
I admire her. She is my inspiration to be a “person”. She is pretty straightforward and can stand herself (speaking whats in her mind), good at social interaction with everybody (girls, boys, teachers), which I don’t have. So, I learning a lot from her. Oh, she is good at writing and her writing is so neat like type keyboard (and I still remember why so neat) and I am good at drawing. So, back then we have an idea to make a fantasy comic book using my sketchbook, she is the word part and me the picture part. We discussed the characters, plot, everything BUT slowly forgotten because we both are procrastinator :”D
Anyway, being best friend of her is my another sincerity. I am hoping our 10 years of bestie to be normal-good life with good situation and good people because we adult now and being adult is suck. Not just 10 years, but 11, 12, 13, and goes on goes on~
ENFP here. I am 3.5 minutes in and I can't stop laughing at how stupidly relatable everything is 🤣
Hilarious! INFP here who adores ENFPs. This is the Perfect Video to make a decision as to whether you’re an Infp or Enfp. I’m assuming the reason “we” ghosted our “bestie” is bc she has authentic challenges maintaining ALL her boundaries. Not in a malicious way, but in a storm of her central nervous system thundering bolts of lightning, unintentionally electrocuting us, or anyone else in her path. She is a force. I wish she understood this. And that as long as she can sit down and receive positive feedback from “us” “we’ll” be happy to listen. Just don’t touch “our” authenticity. “We” will ghost you again.
WAITED FOR SO LONG AND DID NOT DISAPPOINT!!! Was belly laughing the whole way through! Thanks for delivering Kristin even with that other imminent delivery on the way (sorry had to make the pun), best of luck with everything 😁 - ENFP
Hahahahaha ESFJ here and I love how you portrayed ENFP and ESFJ also bonding over their Ne by doing ramdom stuff accidentally because ESFJ doesn't want to be perceived as rude and ENFP is just there for the ride 😂
First things first, BEST WISHES FOR THE BABY!!!
Second, that was so creative, I love this side in ENFPs.
Being an ISFJ with oddly high Ne I need to agree. Instant Vibe. Big time. However...having many ENFPs as my closest people has taught me very well a struggle from my side. ENFPs are like air. Never static. They are the people that can go from clingy to ghosting and back to loving as if not a day passed. My personal need for stability can't cope with that well, but I have figured by now it's not personal, it's just how they vibe. And I've seen this pattern in all the ENFPs I've known, so, in my experience, this is a common thing for them.
Carfts! Crafts!!! My ENFP and I ISFJ actually have a collab for our crochet and sewing projects
This video is WAY TOO ACCURATE!!! I have always found ISTPs, ISFPs, and INTPs to be rather mysterious individuals. Also, a friend who I believe was an ISTP returned from vacation carrying a gallon of milk back to his dorm!🔥🔥🥛🥛
Raw Milk is illegal in my state. I'm tempted to take a gallon home whenever I go somewhere where it's readily available.
As an INTJ extreme-end-of-the-scale…I find that I may write a horror story about being trapped in an elevator with 3 ENFP’s. And then Rod Serling is resurrected for the intro…
I thought I was watching Michael from The Office give one of his inspirational speeches. Turns out it’s a real good impersonation of an ENFP. How do I know? I’m utterly annoyed at the end of the video, as much as I’m amused. (INTJ)
YAY! my glorious friend the Enfp! so excited for your baby coming kristen!!
As soon as ENFP admitted to procrastinating, and arguing with her dog about Marvel, I knew that I vibe highly with ENFP, despite being an INFJ. Some of my besties are high NE Users, like ENFPs, INFPS and INTPs.
Same for me. Ne users are amazing
ENFP "disappointed at being called clumsy" @4:20 ENFP just loses hat
(INFP) it's friday already? This is a nice surprise to procrastinate writing my book. Anyway, I hope you have an amazing next few months and feel no pressure to get back into content creation anytime soon! Also 8:00 had me laugh a lot
This is why I, an INFP, often wonder if I might be an ENFP 😂. But then I remember all those undeniably INFP traits I embody and get humbled real quick. But give me coffee and BOOM! ENFP. 🤣
Yes. Or several tequila shots. But we’d never start a cult. We’d have a retreat for souls to connect with their authentic selves. At least I would.
@@soulsurfer5531 And thereby accidentally start a cult. It's a thing. 😂
@@m_n_a_b 🤣But the only laced Koolaide would be more tequila. If liquid (Jim Jones reference) couraged up INFPs really wanted to amp things up, we’d get the ENFPs to eat the worms. 🐛 🤣
@@soulsurfer5531 lol! What's funny is that alcohol has the opposite effect on me. I don't get sillier and more zany... I mellow right out and get calm and sleepy. Coffee... coffee on the other hand will make me ridiculous. 🤣
@@m_n_a_b You must be a blast when you drink expresso! Btw, I find tequila has a very different effect than any other alcohol. It can be in a margarita. Tequila is high energy. Vodka & Gin add a tiny kick, but it’s not the same.
If you really want a big bump of caffeinated coffee ENFP 🤣energy, try Thai tea or coffee. Or Turkish coffee. The only caffeine I drink is green tea. Matcha’s levels of L theanine actually calm down the central nervous system while keeping you awake. Added bonus it’s loaded with anti oxidants & is a great anti inflammatory.
Is it me, or do you feel many INFPs are into nutrition? I don’t mean dieting. And we don’t push our regimen into others.
"For some reasons they choose to do research into topics that I don't need to research to speak about them accurately. and that just really helps to fill in the gaps that I didn't know were there in the impressions that I have about things"
Ooft as a fellow ENFP I feel attacked 😂
Somehow… really accurate. I have a friend who is an ENFP and we really can talk about lots of different things. And then we don’t talk during at least three months. Although I have an ISTP friend (yeah, I have two friends, that’s a lot, I know) whose communication with ENFP was just like you described. Yep, surprisingly accurate.
Oh man, this ENFP here had a blast watching this!^^ Thank you! :)
Just one thing; I would have switched ESTJ (demanding and annoying ah) and INTJ (dark dream pair).
You are most likely to find a ISTP alone hiking or something in the wild
How... how are these considered the best counterpart to INTJs ?
The chaos I'm witnessing terrifies me.
I don’t get it either, but it’s supposedly a yin and yang sort of relationship.
I'm an ENFP married to an INTJ. Yes, the chaos sometimes gets to him... but most of the time he is simply amused by it.
The reason it works so well for us is that I can be serious and often need alone time (which gives him built in alone time), and my Ne feeds ideas to his Ni... then he extrapolates the outworking and inevitable outcome of each idea and chooses the one that will yield the best results.
We run a business together and it took some time to learn how to work as a team, but once we did, we became a problem solving machine. He will come to me with a problem and ask if we should do A or B. I'll say, "Why not C, D, or F?" Possibilities he didn't even think about... usually a combination of A and B with some random extra spin thrown in... and he will say, "That's brilliant. That. Let's do that." Then, he helps me carry out the plan by giving me the details in small doses. I get overwhelmed by all the details at one time, just like he is overwhelmed when I give all the possibilities in rapid succession. This style works super well for us and we have had a lot of success at problem solving this way.
On another note, I see the heart he has for his loved ones. Others think he's all brain and no heart, but I can see right into him and I know it is there in his intentional and careful choices meant to take care of those he loves. I understand him in a way almost nobody else has and it didn't take me long to do so. I didn't need to learn... I just get him. I know his level of protectiveness is off the scales, yet I appreciate it. He watches out for me. It's one more way he demonstrates his love for me. It only occasionally drives me nutty... when he isn't keen on me traveling on a girls trip, because he can't be there to keep me safe. He's working on that one, though.
He also simply gets me. He understands my motives in a way almost nobody else has. He sees how deeply I feel for those I love and care about. He knows how fiercely I defend them when someone else is being awful to them.
And on a lighter note... he is so fun to have verbal sparring matches with. And to contemplate alternate realities with. He loves doing those things with me.
Finally, neither of us trust the large institutions... they are so corrupt. So, we match on our "conspiracy theories". 😂
Yes, we ENFPs bring plenty of chaos and we thrive on spontaneity, but we also bring sunshine, fun and shared adventure. (He has traveled to more places and tried more excursions since marrying me than he had in his entire 30 years before marrying me. We've only been married 12 years. He very much enjoys our adventuring and so do I. Our fondest memories are of our adventures. Standing on mountain tops with breathtaking views, ziplining over alligator tanks, playing with baby penguins, swimming with dolphins, riding side by sides up a mountain, kayaking, traveling, body boarding, walking on the bottom of an aquarium with dive helmets, holding baby alligators, etc.)
Anyway, we are similar enough and have shared values and interests to get along super well. Yet, we are different enough to keep it interesting for both of us. 😊
Thanks for the video I love your ENFP content! 2:59 when I saw the video title I knew this joke would be in there 😂😂😂
this is literally me when i was in school. I really thought I was friends with everyone and had a special connection to all my classmates in our own unique way 😂
However, my ranking would look a bit differnt to the actual ranking you made, but maybe there is no recipe for us ENFP for who we vibe with... but seriously: INFP and ENFJ are a very special vibe to me❤ wow what a long comment... hey look there is a cat 😀🐈
The statement about becoming a world dictator is so true. My cousin is an ENFP and that's literally what she said to me. I'm an INFJ. 😅
My previous favorite pinned comment was the one in the "16 Personalities Through the Eyes of the ESFP," but you just keep getting better and better! Dear Kristin, it's been an honor! Single tear salute. 🥲Your precious little one couldn't be more blessed. There is no type other to have as a mother for your cherub. Unless, I'm Motherwised convinced after watching this ENFP... I gotta go!
The most romantic couple I have ever seen, was the ENFP + ENFP! It was like instant magic for those two.
The TTRPG thing is real.
After I moved, multiple people texted me saying that each of the tables I've been a part of is now just less fun/chaotic.
- ENTP
I wish you all the best, Kristin! I don’t care if you don't post at all so long as you take care of yourself! You must be excited/nervous/so many other emotions you probably cannot translate to words 🫂🫂
I really hope the best for you and Andrew on this new journey of being a mother and father, may your little cherub be a beautiful one. Excited to see him 💗
I'm an ENFP and my husband is an INTP. We have a lot of beliefs in common, but we differ at the point of feelings and thinking. I don't care about the logical answer if people are getting hurt. My sister is an INFP and we are totally besties! My mother was an ISFP and she kind of scared me a bit when I was little. My sis-in-laws are ISTP and ESFP, I love them both and we're all good friends. My mother-in-law is an ENTJ, though. I feel like we always have some kind of competition going. We each think we're smarter than the other. We still love each other anyway.
"Don't have to research" is hilarious
It's accurate, though! I don't have to research that dumb thing my husband is insisting I research... I end up being correct most of the time, anyway (and I mean that sincerely, not arrogantly... 9 times out of 10, the answer ends up being what I said).
However, my interests in so many varied topics finds me willfully researching things just to learn enough to satisfy my curiosity. It has to be what I want to research, though... otherwise it feels soul killing. 😂
Oh MARVEL franchise!
I heard MARBLE franchise, and went on such a wool gathering expedition about whether it was like the white countertops type marble or the small round toys, and whether there's a company that only makes glass marbles, would that be lucrative to the point of having a franchise? I mean, when I was a kid I played with marbles, but my children don't. Wouldn't it be amazing to find an abandoned factory with just marbles all over the floor, left there after bankruptcy? Dangerous to walk on, though. . .
And I had to restart the video because I missed everything she said after that. 😅
one of my best friends would definitely be in the "subscribe" category. she was HARD to befriend. and then my extroverted friends started bothering her and i'm like. you're going to put her off!! she just barely accepted us being friends!! luckily she puts up with us
I'm 1:20 in and already this is destroying me internally. Yes, I do things like cleaning my room at the exact time when I should be doing something more urgently pressing (and then have to panic finish my other projects. The fact that I somehow still do well on whatever it is I panic-mode finished ( I once had to do 5 different papers I hadn't properly studied for in one day and somehow managed to get a good grade on all of them) doesn't help my tendency to do this but does leave me with stress and a reputation. Thanks brain.)
The cookie thing *could be slightly* inaccurate as I don't like having to read instructions but I'm also often too lazy to do the typical combine-random-scattered-recipe-quantities-to-see-what-I-get. I have also been known to somehow err when making instant mashed potatoes of all things...
*BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY: HOW DID YOU FIND OUT ABOUT THE HAT (or any other thing that will stay on head) THING???* I've genuinely done this several times to fix my problems. Need to focus? Braid hair with pipe cleaners and use a clothes pin as a hairpin. Depressed/stressed/upset? Use a turkey mask as a beanie. Crying? place a stuffed animal on head until the absurdity of the situation causes the tears to turn to laughter. Need inspiration? put a cardboard box over head and run around the house.
Quick note: INTJ's and ENTJ's to me must be forced out of their shells.
I know for certain that INTJ's are really just wonderful teddy bears of delightfullness with just a touch of chaotic evil once you can get into their fortress. They do have a tendency to enjoy randomly terrifying one at the most unexpected times but they are actually amazing at the end of the day. But it is unsettling when they suddenly decide to be random...
I have yet to know how ENTJ's truly are but I've seen some delightful little indicators of humanity and humour in them which gives me hope. SOMEDAY I WILL FIGURE OUT YOUR INNER WORKING ENTJ'S! I will befriend at least on of you if it's the last thing I do...
I just wanted to mention this because those two types are the ones who pique my interest the most and so therefore are the ones I cared to share a little bit of how I think of them.
I loved the total chaos, but as an Enfp I disagree with the ranking 😢 also we look so delulu🫠, but maybe it's just stereotype (loved the ending)
Lol, more like "tear-ranking", how capable each type is in making the ENFP cry.
INTJ: #1
Just kidding, we'd never intentionally make you cry... probably.
(no ENFP were harmed in the making of this comment. ...yet)
I can't handle ExTJs without your help, as you seem to vibe very well with them, especially the ESTJs, the inverted opposite of my type, and the scariest among the MBTI personalities. 🥺 They are all villains that I scare to death, as claimed in the INFP tier-ranking episode.
And perhaps I can handle the IxTJs? So it'll the best if you handle the ExTJs and I handle the IxTJs.
- One of your instant vibe besties, INFP 🧚♂️👼
As an INTJ I can't believe this was my ex.
I have often witnessed is that INTJ’s seem to be instantly attracted to ENFP, but soon after they tend to find them annoying and flakey. There are very few types that INTJ likes.
I feel like that's the exact opposite for INFJs with ENTPs. At first you despise them and think you've finally find someone who is purely evil and impossible to love and that challenges you. Then you spend time with them to figure them out and you realize they're just misunderstood candid trouble makers who make offensive jokes to make people laugh, entertain themselves and try to create a bond and they don't mean what they say. Then you don't want to live without them anymore because they light up your day like a sarcastic sunshine. They're like a baby demon who actually doesn't mean harm but has great chaotic potential.
Are you just drawn to the chaos? We like solving problems, so that's the only logical way I can see this happening. ENFPs do have the patience to peel away the shells of INTJs, but where the structure of this relationship stands without it just being the INTJ putting up the safety bumpers for the ENFP's infinitely bounce ball seems one sided.
... I don't understand...
humm, start what you finish... yes, that is a much easier thing than finish what you've started, just have to look around and work out what you have finished and your already done, no effort required, genius!
Never ever i felt so accurately attacked in my entire life in just within 5 minutes in??! WHAT KIND OF SORCERY IS THISSS?
BTW TO ALL MY CHAOTIC ENFPs, I LOVE YOU ALL!!
Every tier ranking is BRILLIANT, and every line in this one was gold 🤣 THANK YOU for keeping us laughing! Praying for you and your little one!
ENFP’s upside down type, ISTJ:
1. Friends? I tried. (It stayed professional.)
2. They make me want to run and hide.
3. If I said I’d converse with them, I lied.
4. The state of their bathroom has got me tongue-tied. (It’s disgusting.)
5. I wouldn’t care if they died.
INFJ here, I have an ISTJ best friend, and an ENFP joined our gaming group; they see the same pieces on the board, so to speak, but their conclusions are vastly different, and they would often irritate one another and both complain to me about the other one.
Each saw the other's trickster function as a glaring omission and personality flaw.
They're in the duelist position (like me and ESTP) so they would often "flex", on one another, ENFP with their creative Spontaneity, and ISTJ, with their thorough Planning.
I liked them both, and could see how similar but with different priorities they were. They would often wait in silence for me to get back from the bathroom so it was always interesting when we'd go out to places, and I'd often have to cognitively shift into my ESTP Id in order to "Lead" our outings, and arbitrate between them (which the ISTJ quite liked) as I was almost always the tie-breaking vote.
I rather enjoy both (two of my favourite types), but you're quite correct, they don't naturally get along, but rather compete and see the flaws in one another as rank, and would question how I "put up with them".
Peace, and Blessings to you, and your Houses ❤️🙏🔥
If you don't vibe with ENFPs that's fine. Your assessment looks a bit too dismissive to me though; it doesn't do them justice.
ENFPs can be scatter-brained due them constantly being distracted by all sorts of impressions. This leads them to forget about the most basic things sometimes and to a clueless observer they might appear sloppy. They aren't, however.
Their sense of beauty, symmetry and - in unison with that - order is actually unmatched. And when they observe their environment, nothing escapes their attention.
I'm also an INFJ, and while I also prefer a neat and a clean environment with not too much going on in it, I'm often just too absent-minded and exhausted to live up to my own preferences. So I might be the one leaving my clothes on the floor or groceries in the bag or who just randomly piles up various things that are in my way.
And there comes my ENFP who picks up those things and arranges them in a certain pattern or who goes "When you cleaned the bathroom, you missed a spot. It was already there last week." It's actually quite stressful sometimes. 😅
You might be surprised how similar an ENFP can be to an ISTJ. 🙃
That's my impression at least.
🤣 f'd up. you have to appreciate the rhyme scheme though. I see you ISTJ
@@kommad.2931 idk if your comment was for me or the other person but if it was for me: this is my comedic take on what the ISTJ’s tier ranking category titles could be. i love ENFPs bro. and ISTJs. it’s nothing serious.
@@JungINFJ 🤣🤪
“Pff who needs detailed understanding of how things are, I can just rely on vibes”
How I think ENFP brain functions-INTP
This is actually how my brain works. Vibes first before logic. And it's just working on me. I dunno why 😂 -ENFP
but you see, it's the deep understanding that CREATES the vibe. (bascially, as an ENFP, i do crave deep understanding of literally everything.) but, accurate regardless. i eat vibes for breakfast, lunch, dinner, and as a midnight snack.
As an INFP, I'm definitely forthcoming with my emotions, and I certainly don't hold quiet grudges 😃
As an ENFP with ADHD, this was insanely accurate 😂 my guess what that they’d all end up in top tier because we can’t help but see the good in others!!! WE JUST WANT PEOPLE WHO MAKE US FEEL LOVED!!! Honestly doesn’t matter who at a certain point🤣
You absolutely nailed it, love your vids as always cause they give me that validation that I’m not the only one lol
YES FINALLY! Was waiting for this one. The intro before the actual ranking was 100% accurate!
The actual ranking was actually almost the exact opposite of what I would have done as an ENFP xD
(My closest friends are INTJs, INTPs, and INFJs. I normally don't vibe with ESFPs, ESTJs, and ISFJs at all. Also love tabletop rpgs, even without other Ne users haha)
When I am an INTJ who loves light rooms and thinks positively
As an intj I have no light on in my room due to that light bulb produce a bit of heat and I don't like being hot .
Every video i swear she can't get any better. . .EvErYtImE Kristin uploads she proves. me. wrong.
As a INTP-mistyped ENTP (with some ambiguity around the T) I find I vibe fairly well with ENFPs (especially the streak of ADHD that's apparent here), except as a techie, being around people who end up in situations like 8:08 , 9:06 , 10:08 is stressful, because they're malware magnets and techies spend too much time are work dealing with the consequences.
Everyone SHOULD be allowed to take free samples from the nut bucket at the super market
Is this an Australian thing, and is it only free for kids? My local u.s. supermarket offers kids a clementine or banana. 🍊 may not be the best fruit but they're certainly the most cheerful. I think i deserve some happiness in my life, and y'all deserve to partake of the nut bucket!
That's the one I have been sooooooooooo looking forward to. 🤩
You nailed the eye movement and expression. You also nearly nailed the moth collection. My ENFP has a collection of butterflies. ^^ ... which is one of his five collections of specific things.
ENFPs are the best type to play with, but they might become like this ENFP's INFP best friend if I don't elaborate...Ne-who! Reading the comments here has been the best imo. Might make some sense if you agree with the theory that those we attract are a reflection of who we are, might makes right, also if you agree with my comment quality assessment, as well as agreeing with this trademarking prettiest-in-pink ENFP's "first is the best, second is the same, as well as the third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh, etc." philosophy, but imo, a tie is worse than losing and, imo, you are the BEST, Dear Kristin.
Also, I used to share this ENFP's hat philosophy every work day until 9 PM at one of my many supermarket sales joke jobs where apparently I was nuts okaying free sample handfuls from nut buckets. Preach it, ENFP!
Also, just looked up Butterfree, and gonna bring it up to the kids tomorrow! One of them asked me what my favorite Pokemon was and I have to look it up...Charmander! There was a Charmander toy nearby and I went with that and she was happy! Her favorite is... hang on...Jigglypuff!
Dear Kristin, imo, this is the best ranker 10/10! When you asked for questions, I should have asked if your cherub gave you ideas because you are, both, incredible!
Happy Baby Month to you and your wonderful family (especially your fantastic ENFP sister Jenna!), Angel of Music Dear Kristin! Celebrate the BEST times on your maternity leave (which are times after 9PM unless you get an ENFP customer =)!
I love how ENFP had made rankings for all kind of situations XD XD Yep, actually ENFP can end things more than one could think, but it's true we can get distracted easily.
Love also all the chaos, to the point she involved the narrator herself! XD XD
Yeap, ENFP tend to see good in anyone n.n Every person we meet is a potential buddy :3 For real, I don't know if I have told it already here, but even once I got liked by a robber, he tried to steal my cellphone, but I ended knowing his nickname, his real first name and his backstory, he didn't take my cellphone nor my money XD XD In another ocassion I was talking with some friends, and I think I needed to go to the bathroom, and when I was back, my friends saw talking with a girl, and they asked me "who is she?", and I said "Oh, she's Raquel, I have met her just now", and they were like "How do you make friends that fast going to the bathroom??" XD XD
Also, I think INFP is the other personality that can actually understand ENFP really well, since our differences are actually quite a few, the main one being energy levels. Coincidentally, my best friend is also an INFP :3
This video lives up to the common framework of great ENFP UA-camr's like Peter McKinnon to Johnny Harris' video masterpieces, where you can safely skip the first 2 mins without missing much. That's canon in the MBTI lore, and for that I tip my hat and leave a like. 😂
EDIT: or maybe 4-5min... you know, to really channel that maximum ENFP energy!
The ENFP speaks very fast I can't keep up It's definitely my favorite tier ranking so far, or is it ESFP she is so crazy and full of vitality, INFP based on who the personalities would be in your self-insert fanfic ? INTP and how exhausting they are ? Anyway, I think if I made a tier ranking it would something like this. Thank you KrisTEEN for another amazong video- INFP
I wasn't expecting this to be so accurate!!!
No I'm still getting more and more shocked! Has someone've been watching me?
I 100% knew we ENFPs would rank everyone in the top tier 🤣
*So just a regular Tuesday
Should it concern me that I feel so at ease and even at home watching this video with all its colourful chaos and yet the hundrets of the potential deep-conversation-starters that I also like throw in between my sentences and few people rarely react to properly let alone offer me such gem-conversation-quickstaters themselves!!!!???😢😂❤
Yes, fellow ENFP there. You guessed correctly🎉
Though such MBT videos show caricatures, they do, like all caricatures, resemble some real stuff 😂😢 Enfp here, and I laughed and cringed simultaneously because I felt quite accurately represented. A bit over the top for the comedic element but I'm fascinated how you can get into the mind of a cognitive function and act it out so well! Mad props. 🎉
Thanks 😁
Yes, I'm fascinated, too. She has a brilliant gift. 👍
36 weeks?? wow! Wishing you a safe and easy delivery! Enjoy your time off with your new little one 💕
ENFP: "I'm here to subvert the stereotype that we are purely chaotic!"
That pretty much sums it up. ENFPs are chaos-monkeys with the absolute best of intention... usually. They have ESTJ friends who feel compelled to act as guides and life-coaches, and INFP friends who view them as amazingly outgoing and fun, and ESFP friends with whom they can dance and party the night away without a care in the world. I only rarely fault any ENFP for their intentions, but the reality isn't always peaches and cream. Great people with great personalities, but that Ti-Blind Spot can really be a killer. -- INTP (formerly married to an ENFP)
3:01 MAN I told myself that you'd make ENFP put them all into besties before i even clicked on the video xD
Okay, I've not yet finished this but I wholly believe she *is* the nut-bucket at the supermarket.
Best of luck with the baby, Kristin! I hope you managed to stock up on sleep.
I have been waiting!!!!!! I am so ready to neglect my work to watch this....
I always thought INFPs were those that came up with ideas and INTJ were best at reinforcing them to be the best that they can be.
hahah, my boss and I are both ENFP's, we get along great, and have many shared interests - but I will admit the rest of the staff can barely keep up with the conversation chaos when we're in the same room together.
The nut bucket killed me every single time 💀
"INTJ might not have lighting in their room..." Me (INTJ): Looks up at the LED room lights set to Dim Red. She might have a point. moth collection would be cool though.
I laughed so hard that I literally cried! 😂😂😂
"That said, INTJs suck and I hate them."
And just like that, every INTJ suddenly respects the ENFP a little more.
SOMEBODY give this lady an OSCAR!!!!
i had a blast of a time watching this. also feel annoyingly seen, this is probably how i appear to any friend when i'm not being super professional stressed out mode. everything, everywhere all at once. I can see why we don't float some type's boats, even though fellow enfps are the best company ever.
would make changes to the list to switch ISFJ, ESFJ to the bribe to vibe. ESFP to the vibe tribe. INFJ and ENTP and INTP to instant besties. ENFJ to the vibe tribe/bribe for vibe. It's the Fe dom, it ticks me off more than anything, silent social cues and small talk and judgement when I miss those. Also hard to figure out authenticity in the mix of all social maneuvering they do, so harder to trust. Te doms I love, I actually rank them higher than Fe doms lol, for the reasons you describe ESTJs. Some tough love, some organizing and I just have to go along with it. The scolding is fine from them, I don't feel that judged because it's usually facts and truths lol. Must be the Fi somewhere, it just makes me think they really care.
Damn, the excitement...it is just lovely and impressive. The 16 personality model may not be practical but it is definitely worth watching videos like yours.
Me as an INFP who thinks best friend is scared but also tries to be everyone's best friend. I get you, ENFP. Maybe I am an ENFP. I don't know. I'm too lost in my own head I think to be ENFP.