How God brought us together | married at 33 | matched with my sister?

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  • Опубліковано 15 чер 2024
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    Here is our story of how God brought us together! Being single in your 30's is not easy. With every passing year, I wondered if there was anyone out there for me or if I would remain single forever. I got married 2 months shy of 34. We went from being single to married in a year! I hope our story gives you encouragement as you're waiting. This is how God wrote our love story :)
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    Watch to the end and you'll hear about how God miraculously moved Ivan to GA & he orchestrated every detail along the way!
    0:00 Encouragement for singles
    2:00 He matched with my sister
    4:35 He prayed for a month
    6:20 Didn't accept follow request
    9:53 Non-negotiables
    12:00 mixed signals
    16:40 Pursuit
    18:45 Did I know he was the one
    19:33 Who had to move
    22:11 Who should pursue

КОМЕНТАРІ • 115

  • @sheebachats
    @sheebachats  3 місяці тому +30

    A lot of names have been submitted below for those waiting on the Lord, let's pray for each other!

    • @annsalia4153
      @annsalia4153 3 місяці тому +2

      Mary Ann salia from Ghana 🇬🇭

    • @BeiingCassandra
      @BeiingCassandra 3 місяці тому +1

      Ruth Cassandra thank you in advance for the prayers ❤& absolutely love your testimony

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  3 місяці тому

      @@annsalia4153 adding your name to my prayer journal now!

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  3 місяці тому +1

      @@BeiingCassandra thank you so much! God is faithful. Adding your name to my prayer journal now!

    • @annsalia4153
      @annsalia4153 3 місяці тому

      @@sheebachats Thank you. God bless you.

  • @judydavids9738
    @judydavids9738 Місяць тому +22

    Please pray for me for godly husband. Im 62yrs young, born again Christian, single and want to get married. From South Africa. Thank you.God bless your marriage,🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @jiefeng2946
    @jiefeng2946 3 місяці тому +27

    the seasons of waiting is hard, but God does not keep us waiting for no reason. it worths the wait . It really takes two great people to make a relationship work. Don't waste this season, always have a hope in the season of equipping. Please remember me in your prayer (Jie from UK) . Thanks !

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  3 місяці тому

      Hi Jie! yes exactly, God has a purpose for in the waiting! Thanks for watching :)

  • @brdget23
    @brdget23 2 місяці тому +10

    The waiting season in our 30 s sucks.Its very teary and painful

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  2 місяці тому +2

      yes it is and I felt all those emotions. Proverbs 13:12 says Hope deferred makes the heart sick, but a dream fulfilled is a tree of life. God knows your story and it doesn't make sense now but it will one day. Praying for you

    • @danilaroche1156
      @danilaroche1156 24 дні тому +2

      It will be less painful if you get in purpose and serve others. Get in your calling. It will be less painful if you are in fellowship with like minded, genuine believers in church community. It hurts if you give your heart and body to someone whose not your spouse. Be careful because Satan is sending out narcs to deceive the sisters. It's a pandemic .

  • @_MarisJ
    @_MarisJ 20 днів тому +4

    I’m in a season of waiting on the Lord for my marriage! Sometimes it’s hard but, I’ll keep praying and praising Him. Thanks for sharing your story! Please pray for me that I will keep my eyes on Him and not feel defeated or like He’s forgotten about me ❤. Thanks sis!

  • @c.m.8776
    @c.m.8776 3 місяці тому +9

    Wow getting a message like that from a man would be INCREDIBLE. A true man of God.

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  3 місяці тому +2

      yes I am so thankful :) there are good godly men out there!

  • @moriok6353
    @moriok6353 4 місяці тому +12

    I love how Americans are open to different cultures. I wish you both God‘s Love, Favor and victory throughout your life‘s journey

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  4 місяці тому +3

      thank you :) my husband is Mexican & Im Indian, we both grew up in the US

  • @danilaroche1156
    @danilaroche1156 24 дні тому +3

    I'm in my 60s too. Been waiting to marry a Godly man. I was in a courtship a while back. We fall in love and he 's talking commitment & marriage. He says the Lord brought us together. The difficulty is that he has severe anxiety disorder that disables him. These are demons and he needs healing. He calls off relationship because we hit a bump. I was upset and he got anxious and completely shut down. We broke up but my friend spoke to him. She says he still loves me. Pray 4 us.

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  13 днів тому

      wow! you have been waiting so faithfully. I am sorry you are in that situation; I hope the Lord makes things clear for you.

  • @LiLisLounge
    @LiLisLounge 12 днів тому +1

    I love your story and the intentionality shown by Ivan! Congratulations to you both, and may God bless your marriage abundantly!

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  День тому +1

      Thank you! From all the bad experiences I had it felt like there was no one out there for me but God had him all along’

  • @sinegugudube4956
    @sinegugudube4956 4 дні тому +1

    A beautiful love story... I watched your 7 day fast video first then came across this one. Wow what a wonderful God, you have been faithful and God is granting you all you deserve. Congratulations to you and your husband! You're a Mrs
    With love from 🇿🇦💖

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  День тому

      Thank you so much for the encouragement!

  • @denellechetty9270
    @denellechetty9270 2 місяці тому +4

    Just watched ur 7 day water fast from 3 years ago and càme to your channel to see where u at now and glad to see the Lord has been faithful 🥰 congratulations 🎊 ❤

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  2 місяці тому

      Thank you! God is faithful and he answered my prayer 🙏

  • @chridegekatasohire3578
    @chridegekatasohire3578 16 днів тому +1

    What a beautiful love story and one more proof of God’s faithfulness! I will never stop to say this God never fails. I’m grateful to God because as I’m in my waiting season, the Lord taught me the right way to wait upon him by meditating on his word, humbling myself through fasting and talking to him through prayer. I know that at God’s perfect timing, he will bring my man to me.

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  13 днів тому

      Thank you so much! I really do believe in God's perfect time. It feels late for us but he has a purpose in it.

  • @93vincentvalentine
    @93vincentvalentine 18 днів тому +2

    I hope to find my spouse someday...
    I am 31 now and I have been praying for a spouse since October last year and I am getting advice from family and friends about how to go about finding a spouse.
    I just hope and pray that everyone here finds their own happiness someday. ❤

  • @GajokFamily
    @GajokFamily 29 днів тому +4

    Jacinta is my name please add me to your prayer journal. Still hoping, praying and waiting at 41!❤

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  28 днів тому +1

      Prayed for you today! Amazed by your faithfulness in trusting the Lord!

  • @Shylyne
    @Shylyne 24 дні тому +1

    Absolutely beautiful testimony sis, your channel just came on my feed. Blessings to you & Ivan, just loved hearing how intentional you both were in getting to know each other, no messing around and wasting each other's time. Pls kindly include me in your prayer list 🙏❤️

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  23 дні тому

      Thank you :) Prayed for you this morning!

  • @Minky_M
    @Minky_M 23 дні тому +1

    Wow, God!!!! thank you for sharing, this is such a beautiful match made in heaven.

  • @junebug_8976
    @junebug_8976 26 днів тому +1

    Lovely couple!
    TX for sharing your story!
    💚🧡

  • @ninadenise3969
    @ninadenise3969 3 місяці тому +3

    love the video, sister!

  • @kb_2404
    @kb_2404 15 днів тому +1

    I’m 24 and in a season of waiting. Sometimes I feel a lil lonely and it gets hard. But I also trust God so I believe he’ll work in a mysterious way.

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  13 днів тому

      Amen! Don't give up hope. It is hard to wait. I would recommend you watch this video on 3 tips to thrive a as a single woman: ua-cam.com/video/nQpK6jzcyu0/v-deo.html

  • @triannaanderson
    @triannaanderson 3 місяці тому +3

    Thank you so much I’m so inspired by this ! I’m excited for the videos. Your husband loves you so much !!!

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  3 місяці тому

      Thank you 😊 The waiting season was long and hard but God gave me such a good husband!

  • @vandafarren4864
    @vandafarren4864 4 місяці тому +2

    Powerful testimony sis ! It shares so much hope🤍 look at God 😍 blessings upon your marriage the best is yet to come🤗🙏

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  4 місяці тому +1

      Thank you 😊there’s so much hope in trusting Jesus

  • @triannaanderson
    @triannaanderson 3 місяці тому +2

    Omg if God ever leads you to, you should have an in person meet up or in person Bible study open to your subs:-)

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  3 місяці тому

      I would love that one day! You’ll be the first to know!

  • @LovedbyJesus1900
    @LovedbyJesus1900 4 місяці тому +4

    beautiful Testimony

  • @iantasmall6166
    @iantasmall6166 3 місяці тому +4

    My name is IANTA SMALL....I have been waiting 13years

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  3 місяці тому +1

      praying for you sis, I know it can feel very hopeless at times!

  • @PoSHEmediaglobal
    @PoSHEmediaglobal 5 днів тому

    So are you both 33 ? Or just the lady

  • @marysuja7624
    @marysuja7624 26 днів тому

    Wow! Beautiful story! Is your husband younger than you? It seems so. Is it OK to marry a man younger than oneself?

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  26 днів тому +1

      Hi we are both in our 30s! I think spiritual maturity & character come before age

    • @shelynaemerald4676
      @shelynaemerald4676 21 день тому

      Age shouldn't matter, because God is the one who decides who marries who and when they're born. I think that sometimes, whenever people think about marriage, they think about Adam and Eve. And since the Bible tells us that Adam was created first. Maybe the idea of God created the woman for the man, and not the man for the woman, that the man must be older? But husbands being older only worked out this way for a long time because people had a lot of sons. Can and Abel were the firstborn sons of all their children, that's why Cain was older than his wife. Who basically was his younger sister.
      I think because of the times and wars, and different cultures, and having a lot of children was kind of a big deal, so women married young and a lot of times married to much older men.

    • @shelynaemerald4676
      @shelynaemerald4676 21 день тому

      There were a lot of arranged marriages, to help the brides family financially. Or to give the young bride a good life since the parents were poor, or the bride came with a big dowry, or it brought peace to rivalling families or kingdoms, etc. So men were usually older than their wives. But that was just because of how things were back then. I think a lot of marriages were kind of based (or started) on survival more than love.
      But today, for the most part, we have more freedom to pick and choose our own spouses.

  • @pankokatya
    @pankokatya Місяць тому

    thanks for this video. Did people advised you to make "first step" because of your age?)

    • @sheebachats
      @sheebachats  Місяць тому +2

      Hello I’m not sure I understand your question fully- I don’t think there is anything wrong with going first or taking the first step. If after praying you sense the Lord impressing that then try it! What do we have to lose 😊 thanks for watching