Pretty sure the last one doesn't work if it's an actual situation, too scary haha

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  • @Theeonlyalazae
    @Theeonlyalazae 3 дні тому +10737

    “Make sure you’re ready to step on their foot” cracked me up😂

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  2 дні тому +69

      💖❤️

    • @abbzeh137
      @abbzeh137 2 дні тому +18

      Not just what she said but how she said it, likes little bit robotic but like a cute robot hahaha

    • @uth0000
      @uth0000 2 дні тому

      ​@@banksjenniferchannelAt this point you might as well advocate in favor of burqa
      'To avoid tempting' because it all the womens fault not the creepy guy

    • @kurisurisuku
      @kurisurisuku 2 дні тому +1

      Yass

    • @MissCraig
      @MissCraig День тому +3

      😂😂😂 with the demonstration! Hilarious.

  • @gua.18
    @gua.18 3 дні тому +36703

    i love the fact that she's telling us to cover up not in the "you're searching for it" way but in a "please be safe because it's not your fault" way

    • @ciera4935
      @ciera4935 3 дні тому +24

      Yes! I wish that was the actual focus of modesty. Not shaming women for being "sIưtty", but instead protecting them from men

    • @justinwyatt8
      @justinwyatt8 3 дні тому +302

      The correct answer is still cover up.
      It doesn’t matter how you get to the right answer so long as you have the right answer

    • @frog3262
      @frog3262 3 дні тому +1099

      @@justinwyatt8 brotha eugh

    • @justinwyatt8
      @justinwyatt8 3 дні тому +85

      @ only an imperfect world will punish you for being imperfect

    • @mohina8432
      @mohina8432 3 дні тому +10

      ​@@justinwyatt8Dude it's never the clothes
      Even a Muslim girl covered in a niqab gets harassed
      Its about the mindset

  • @terezak860
    @terezak860 4 дні тому +29138

    In my opinion it's good to be "hysteric", be loud, point that guy out and what is he doing. People will be forced to care and a creep will get publicly shamed.

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому +1438

      💖❤️

    • @joshuareynolds23
      @joshuareynolds23 4 дні тому +2694

      You live in America don't you? If you cause a scene in Japan you will be the one publicly shamed even if the guy does get arrested.

    • @terezak860
      @terezak860 4 дні тому +1560

      @joshuareynolds23 I am from Czech Republic. If I cause the scene here, everyone will look, and some people will judge you, but in my experience, guy would always get embarrassed/scared and leave the vehicle in the next stop.
      I would wish we had a law that would arrest such creeps, do you have one in Japan?

    • @NatureFreak1127
      @NatureFreak1127 4 дні тому +539

      I was taught to name what the person does and to express i want them to stop. Loudly. So that people know something bad is going on and so that he knows you won't be yet another poor person who froze in fear.

    • @NatureFreak1127
      @NatureFreak1127 4 дні тому +81

      ​@@terezak860As you should, we were taught this at Moderní sebeobrana. 😊

  • @Muahaha651
    @Muahaha651 2 дні тому +3865

    Japan has this problem so bad that there’s literal signs in train stations telling women to watch up for upskirt pictures while going upstairs

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  2 дні тому +57

      💖❤️

    • @Cara84de
      @Cara84de День тому +48

      wtf.. like.. really??! that's crazy 😮

    • @allmight8127
      @allmight8127 День тому +22

      Yep, preventative steps should be promoted more.(should not be treated as victim blaming)
      it's crazy it's not, and that people get the idea into their heads that they have a right to not have to take precautions.

    • @LavaSaver
      @LavaSaver День тому +1

      ​@@Cara84de Japan is an insane country lol

    • @MadaraUchiha-xb7dp
      @MadaraUchiha-xb7dp День тому +15

      In fact, Japan has no more that problems than other country. It's not because they are warning against that's mean it's happen a lot more in Japan. Come to certain location in France and you will be surprized

  • @SystemParanoia
    @SystemParanoia 4 дні тому +1787

    Step 4.. Glock with a switch

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  3 дні тому +115

      🥰

    • @anastaziaqtt
      @anastaziaqtt 2 дні тому +22

      🥰

    • @MK-lh3xd
      @MK-lh3xd 2 дні тому +16

      In a packed train? You won't even know the culprit.

    • @SystemParanoia
      @SystemParanoia 2 дні тому +34

      @@MK-lh3xd sounds like you're making excuses to defend them.

    • @MK-lh3xd
      @MK-lh3xd 2 дні тому

      @@SystemParanoia how do you get that from what I wrote? Do you want a mass shooting in a train? I don't know where you are from and how trains are. But in Asian countries with high population density and public transport is the main (if not the only affordable) transportation, trains are tightly packed. I have seen videos where there are train staff at each station to push the passengers inside so that the doors can close. But you do you!

  • @ano3nym374
    @ano3nym374 3 дні тому +3437

    Touching people without their consent will never be an invitation.

    • @juarts3352
      @juarts3352 2 дні тому +37

      É verdade, mas não podemos ser ignorantes e fingir que ninguém vai tocar as pessoas sem consentimento, por isso é bom se preparar psicologicamente e fisicamente para evitar ou se virar nesse tipo de situação.
      O mundo é louco, mesmo fazendo discursos sempre terá algum maluco desses por aí

    • @Keito__37
      @Keito__37 2 дні тому +82

      They "think" it's an invitation.

    • @hobomike6935
      @hobomike6935 2 дні тому +5

      Funny how it’s okay for women to, but not for men.

    • @yves-zw5bh
      @yves-zw5bh 2 дні тому +4

      @@hobomike6935nobody said it was okay for women, it’s wrong for both men and women

    • @juarts3352
      @juarts3352 2 дні тому +88

      @@hobomike6935 it's not ok for anyone, but unfortunately this world it's full of bad people

  • @LaureesScaredOfMilk
    @LaureesScaredOfMilk 6 днів тому +11708

    I HAVE A GREAT IDEA, I recommend carrying a huge angle length coat that’s a cute color you like just so that while on the train you can still wear ur outfit but you’ll feel safer ❤

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  5 днів тому +542

      💖❤️

    • @lorena1329
      @lorena1329 5 днів тому +3

      so literally a burka

    • @Nancy_shukla
      @Nancy_shukla 4 дні тому +96

      I was thinking that when say cover curver

    • @francesstewart7995
      @francesstewart7995 4 дні тому +100

      People do that on the tubes in London. The tube fit is just something that hides the cute outfit underneath 😂

    • @str4wb3rry_ch4pstik
      @str4wb3rry_ch4pstik 4 дні тому +13

      @@lorena1329what do u think a burqa is?? cuz its defo NOT a coat

  • @jewi604
    @jewi604 4 дні тому +1422

    4. Get some brass knuckles

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому +106

      💖

    • @jingle1833
      @jingle1833 3 дні тому +15

      Why is this not pinned???

    • @OdetteRemsing-m3i
      @OdetteRemsing-m3i 3 дні тому +19

      make sure you sharpen the tip of the heel and don't mind to add some strong sharp needles!

    • @ropesanddragoneggs8494
      @ropesanddragoneggs8494 3 дні тому +4

      I love this idea. Also, grab their jewels like Noxeema from To Wong Foo.

    • @atptunlimited7042
      @atptunlimited7042 3 дні тому

      Or maybe just call the authorities because violence is never the answer

  • @MidnightSakura368
    @MidnightSakura368 4 дні тому +2904

    Honestly, it's not OUR responsibility that you can't keep your hands to yourself. Although high heals is a good idea.

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому +111

      ❤️❤️

    • @reihino6347
      @reihino6347 4 дні тому +245

      It isn’t, it’s their responsibility to keep their hands to themselves, but does it in fact keep you safer to take precautionary measures like dressing a particular way? Unfortunately the answer is yes. That’s how the world works and I think many women would rather wear pants or long skirts on the tube than find out some guy managed to put a camera under their short one without them knowing.

    • @KaceyGonzalez-u7y
      @KaceyGonzalez-u7y 4 дні тому +12

      Obviously lmao

    • @cookiestrong8757
      @cookiestrong8757 4 дні тому +129

      It’s not our responsibility, but gross men don’t care whose responsibility it is.
      She’s just teaching girls to be safe

    • @Lee-fw5bd
      @Lee-fw5bd 4 дні тому +1

      Its not your responsibility

  • @sakurasensations4786
    @sakurasensations4786 4 дні тому +1233

    Unfortunately, the idea that dressing “undesirable” enough is a myth. It was never the clothes that made a guy unable to keep anything to himself. While this does deter the potential of someone photographing you inappropriately (so it’s definitely still useful), physical assaults are disgustingly unrelated to any choice of the woman to dress conservatively or not. I really hate that this is what we live with though.

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому +44

      💖

    • @cookiestrong8757
      @cookiestrong8757 4 дні тому +106

      It’s definitely not a myth.
      Yes, you can get assaulted wearing any clothes.
      But the truth is, if you wear revealing clothes, you are waaaaaay more likely to get touched or have inappropriate comments said to you.
      At least that’s how it is in Japan

    • @chaoticcow4357
      @chaoticcow4357 3 дні тому

      No, its not a myth. Its a lie that women are assaulted because of how they dress, but its not a lie that dressing up helps. You are infinitely more likely to notice someone who is dressing down. If a man is shirtless in a crowd, you will notice him more easily.
      Its about preventing them from noticing you in the first place, not making yourself so undesirable they won't want you. Its proven that what you wear has an effect on how people will view you. If you wear a suit, people will think you're rich. If you wear thrifted clothes, people will think you're poor. If you wear revealing clothing, people will think you want attention. None of these assumptions are right or justified. All of them result in some form of violence, but its a fact of society.
      If you don't want to be killed, the best way to do it is to not be the albino among the herd. It doesn't gaurantee that you'll survive, but it makes it a hell of alot easier.

    • @Ardarail
      @Ardarail 3 дні тому +57

      I think you're kinda misunderstanding this concept. It is true that dressing undesirable is not guarantee of safety, but it certainly lowers your chances of being noticed. A predator is more likely to target someone attractive than someone who isn't drawing any attention. That doesn't mean it's the victim's fault for dressing a certain way, but practically speaking, if your goal is to maximize your safety than dressing in a way that draws attention to your physical attractiveness can only be a negative.

    • @SuchitaBhattacharya
      @SuchitaBhattacharya 3 дні тому +1

      ⁠@@cookiestrong8757 I personally don’t get harassed any less when I’m makeup-free and wearing loose clothes. The first time I got sexually harassed ,I was 14, in school, wearing baggy jeans and a hoodie. Someone who wants to assault women won’t care what you wear.

  • @justarandomartist22
    @justarandomartist22 6 днів тому +3102

    The fact that this video has to be made, and women have to take precautions before using public transport, or even going anywhere to avoid creepy men is so depressing. I am disappointed in humanity.

    • @theresevontodderud3901
      @theresevontodderud3901 4 дні тому

      A friend of mine went to uni with a Japanese dude while he studied abroad in America. He was a total creep, who’d «borrow» his shoes for two weeks without asking (not roommates) etc. Ten years later this dude started producing porn in Japan. He bought train carriages and makes porn based on groping and assaulting women dressed like school girls, and it’s apparently very popular.
      The dude also travels the world to find porn actresses, ‘testing’ them before hiring them. It landed him in jail in Africa once. Then he cried to my friend about the poor treatment he received…
      No idea if he’s representative for Japanese men, but the fact that this hyperrealistic creepy porn has become so popular is concerning. Probably encorages creeps.

    • @kathrynknocked-out962
      @kathrynknocked-out962 4 дні тому +41

      Exactly
      We gotta cover up ourselves just to not excite them 😢

    • @SV-tc8cu
      @SV-tc8cu 4 дні тому +31

      welcome to reality

    • @anthonystevens-gm6uh
      @anthonystevens-gm6uh 4 дні тому +24

      Agreed
      Ever heard about buses in India?

    • @gishgoyim9170
      @gishgoyim9170 4 дні тому

      I'm disappointed too, people actually believe that Japanese men are just out here molesting women in droves. One of the lowest crime rates of any race btw. Crazy.

  • @akusaamodel
    @akusaamodel 4 дні тому +1389

    I would believe you, but i get cat called in hoodies and pants. It was never the clothes;

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому +121

      ❤️❤️

    • @BestiebooForeva
      @BestiebooForeva 4 дні тому

      Men will do it to anyone nowadays, but they are definitely going to think that a woman is asking for it if she shows off her body compared to someone who doesn’t. Men are also going to be more attracted to women who show off their bodies because they can see what she has to offer. It’s disgusting, but covering up more just adds an “extra layer of protection”. Doesn’t mean it still won’t happen to you, but it’s better to be safer about it.

    • @myhairgotsnatched9435
      @myhairgotsnatched9435 4 дні тому +77

      Real I'm a girl that likes girl but you don't see me doing all that it isn't the clothing

    • @Yoyo.official1
      @Yoyo.official1 4 дні тому +9

      Same over here😢

    • @mandx-chy
      @mandx-chy 4 дні тому +1

      i understand that this way they cant record under your skirt if you arent wearing one. still it wont stop s3xual harrassment because its definetly not the clothes

  • @Leah-qi8gk
    @Leah-qi8gk 4 дні тому +162

    Instead of protecting your daughters, teach your sons

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому +6

      💖💖

    • @LCTenshi
      @LCTenshi 4 дні тому +21

      bad people do bad things whether they are bad or not. laws dont stop people from doing illegal things, focus on the system that punishes these behaviors incorrectly instead of targeting the mothers and fathers trying to do the best for their children

    • @MewwMewx3
      @MewwMewx3 4 дні тому +13

      Nah, not everyone teach their sons and even if they did, they could disobey their parents, they could perfectly still harm your daughter even if you teach your own son to not do that, so the best thing to do is to teach your daughters and sons to respect others, yes but also to protect themselves and not because it's their fault if they get harmed but because they can adapt some measures to lower those risks, yes, they shouldn't have to adapt their lifes the slightest to try to be safe from that sick people but the world is a sad and unfair place and no matter how much you try to teach others to be respectful, there are a lot of people in the world who just don't care about it, and yes, you can still get harmed even in hoodies or oversized clothes, everyone can get harmed, at any age, of any sex, with any clothes, but the chances increase when youre a woman wearing short clothes, some people cover up to lower the risk, some dont, its up to you if you want to cover up or not, there are also other ways of protecting yourself that doesnt require covering up like carrying pepper spray, going out with strong friends who could protect you if something happens, learning personal defense...

    • @cookiestrong8757
      @cookiestrong8757 4 дні тому +13

      How about do both?

    • @motherfnb
      @motherfnb 3 дні тому

      It's to keep blame on men and not about the relationship with men that is what keeps all of them in wonder/kill mode because learning that this is real life and you can not chance it like a lead game or a video/movie character. Making those class of men "creepy" makes you looks less desirable for a partner who finds out that are you worth the relationship if chose to be in one. Some men ask are they worth talking with women since its a losing battle/effort to be with since its all a war not love. Most women have to accept the fact in the words of Woody "you are a human being who happens to be a female." Are you not woman enough to know from your parents (yes learning helps alot here) about the dangers of life. Here I think it's called being formal instead of casual. How many lines does one have to see before knowing what to do? Answer should be 3 not 45. This is in Japan mostly I am referring to. But hey go ahead a comment cause thats what's this section is for. 👇☝😁

  • @TRIC4pitator
    @TRIC4pitator 4 дні тому +968

    that's some professional victim blaming, I must study their techniques

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому +50

      💖❤️

    • @mrkillyourselflol
      @mrkillyourselflol 4 дні тому

      bro wth??????​@@banksjenniferchannel

    • @cassiewright8957
      @cassiewright8957 4 дні тому +71

      She’s not victim blaming. It’s just a sad world that it’s better to cover up than to not. There are creeps out there and it’s best to be as safe as you can

    • @UnneededDrama
      @UnneededDrama 4 дні тому +61

      @@cassiewright8957 they’re saying that the creeps and Japan as a whole are the ones victim blaming

    • @disheartened1030
      @disheartened1030 4 дні тому

      @@cassiewright8957glad they’re covering up 🙏

  • @rillieskyla298
    @rillieskyla298 3 дні тому +130

    Just letting you guys know that if you do get SAed, it's not your fault. No matter what you were wearing. Creeps are going to look reguardless. They only touch if you're wearing what's considered to be "revealing clothes" because they think it exscuses their behavior. It doesn't, and they're disgusting. Thank you so much to the creator for making this video. Stay safe, guys

    • @Marie-MichelleFortier
      @Marie-MichelleFortier 2 дні тому +9

      Nah, even if you not revealing clothes, some people will do it. At least, from my experiences in Japan, and from what I've heard and observed while living there. It happens everywhere around the world, but I've never had that happen to me in Canada (creeps touching/grabbing/head locking me I mean... yep, true stories while I was living in Japan and went to Kyoto and Osaka).

    • @rillieskyla298
      @rillieskyla298 2 дні тому +1

      @Marie-MichelleFortier I'm sorry, what I meant is SOME creeps will only touch you if you're wearing revealing clothing. Some will touch you no matter what you're wearing. Also, I'm very sorry that you had to go through that.

    • @Marie-MichelleFortier
      @Marie-MichelleFortier 2 дні тому

      @@rillieskyla298 Thanks for the kind words. I remember as a student, our teacher made us visit a Japanese prison in 2014 or 2015. Some higher up there told us that people from the Kansai area didn't have to inform companies about having been to prison or something like that when applying for a job (unlike in Canada or the US I guess). The reason? He told us it's because the Kansai area had the highest rate of sexual misdemeanor/crimes in Japan. 🤦🏻‍♀️
      I don't know about these days, but that would explain the amount of creeps I encountered back then and when I went back to work (2017-2023). 😅

    • @lovelyloaa
      @lovelyloaa День тому

      ​@@Marie-MichelleFortier but we can't still deny the fact that covering ourselves lowers the chances of being touched without consent.

    • @MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y
      @MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y День тому

      ​@@rillieskyla298what gender ?

  • @nilmadhavkalyan
    @nilmadhavkalyan 8 днів тому +1207

    That's universal precautions if a woman has to travel by public transport. Except when it's women only buses or trains.

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  8 днів тому +19

      💖💖

    • @Buuubl
      @Buuubl 5 днів тому +20

      Not universal.

    • @fregeu
      @fregeu 5 днів тому

      @@Buuublwhat, are you gonna say it doesn’t happen in america or first world countries? sure, some women do it less, doesn’t mean women are attacked or harassed on public transport any less. i live in australia. a first world country where the police are pretty okay. do i feel safe on public transport, which i take about 5 times a week? no. especially not when the tram or bus is pretty empty but a man still sits next to me. just because you’re not educated about these things doesn’t mean it doesn’t happen. do your research properly. femicide happens. women are harassed so bad on public transport in japan they have women only carriages and the phones don’t have a silent mode so you’ll know if someone takes a picture up your skirt. also, the cultures are different. in japan, showing any skin or dyeing your hair or heavy makeup is frowned upon heavily. east asian countries just love to restrict women’s bodies. so it’s more common in asian countries to do this on public transport.

    • @takilatime
      @takilatime 4 дні тому +16

      No if you’re in in north western Europe in an area that’s heavily native rather than multicultural, this doesn’t happen

    • @fregeu
      @fregeu 4 дні тому

      @@Buuubl YES universal. no country is safe for women.

  • @Rebecca-celebs
    @Rebecca-celebs 5 днів тому +654

    I feel so bad as women we should not have to change our fit because of creepy men

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому +17

      💖❤️

    • @stevesimmons223
      @stevesimmons223 4 дні тому

      japan has an insane amount of sexual harassment like bad

    • @mortuarymax
      @mortuarymax 4 дні тому +12

      Men have to worry about this on a much greater level

    • @strawberryfox8819
      @strawberryfox8819 4 дні тому

      ​@mortuarymax How so? Seriously, men don't have to hide this much to "potentially" avoid becoming victims. This is not to say men cannot be victims, they can, but just statistically speaking, women face it on a larger scale.

    • @hey-kh5ij
      @hey-kh5ij 4 дні тому

      @@mortuarymaxgetting inappropriately touched by a woman on a train?
      I think I’m understanding your comment wrong

  • @mintyfresh05
    @mintyfresh05 4 дні тому +70

    I have a really good tip! Try carrying a real life size freshly sharpened sword, you can even use it on them if you need! Hope this helps ❤

  • @menotme4602
    @menotme4602 2 дні тому +13

    When people say "Japan is safe" they mean only for men. I made the mistake of going there with friends, all women, we were followed by many japanese creepy men, even if some of us dress as old ladies and others like teenage boys. In the middle of the trip, we all just started to dress as if we're hiding from the FBI

  • @Jojo-vv9ue
    @Jojo-vv9ue 3 дні тому +54

    Thats really sad that you need to do this 😮‍💨 anyway, where did you get your gorgeous jumper from? It's lovely!

  • @sparklepugtea
    @sparklepugtea 3 дні тому +43

    They can touch me sure, they just better be prepared to never touch anything ever again lmao

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  3 дні тому +3

      💖❤️

    • @ixagonczi
      @ixagonczi 3 дні тому +3

      Remember if they say you are asking for it with your clothes and they aren't protecting their head with a helmet.... Take some inspo from Tangled

    • @Hyaene_Colonlength
      @Hyaene_Colonlength 2 дні тому

      ​@ixagonczi its their fault fsho because if they didnt want me to slap them, then why didn't they wear a full head helmet or mask?

    • @MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y
      @MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y День тому

      what gender are you ?

  • @Stephanie.101
    @Stephanie.101 4 дні тому +57

    "keep those heels handy
    Oops did I just step on your foot?
    Make sure you're to step on their foot with the tip of your heel 👠" 😂😂😂😂😂
    Number 3 took me out 😂😂😂 time to reinvest in some strong self defense heels

    • @MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y
      @MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y День тому +2

      and then the man snaps your neck and you are dead.

    • @Stephanie.101
      @Stephanie.101 5 годин тому

      @@MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y 😅😅😅 "I can always claim it was an accident? 🤷‍♀️"

  • @EricRivera-g6m
    @EricRivera-g6m 8 днів тому +62

    Ms Jennifer knows how to take of herself. Be safe dear always!!❤

  • @Jatinraj-89
    @Jatinraj-89 4 дні тому +43

    Its sad for me to see that my elder sisters in japan has to go from this daily
    You are strongg❤❤

  • @riwawashere
    @riwawashere 4 дні тому +121

    The fact that us women have to go thru shit like this bc men can't be decent mfs is sad.

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому +7

      ❤️❤️

    • @mafiawaffle
      @mafiawaffle 4 дні тому

      the fact that women live in a society is the beginning and end of all the excuses men use

    • @TheOnlyT0asty
      @TheOnlyT0asty 3 дні тому +7

      If you are an American woman this does not apply to you. Just yell out loud, "why are you touching me" and it's wraps for the dude. Even if he didn't actually do anything.

    • @roblox-j7w5h
      @roblox-j7w5h 3 дні тому

      ​@@TheOnlyT0astythat doesn't happen in Muslim country's because women cover themselves every single one then if he's caught doing that he's getting life prison or death

    • @kaylarK03
      @kaylarK03 3 дні тому +8

      Well guess what not everyone is from America and even if we yell no one cares😀​@@TheOnlyT0asty

  • @Valerie_Valor116
    @Valerie_Valor116 3 дні тому +7

    Aaand this is the unfortunate reason why cell phone cameras are legally mandated to make an audible shutter sound

  • @An_even_fuller_sun
    @An_even_fuller_sun 3 дні тому +8

    I don't live in Japan but in a larger American city where I can't wear what i want without getting unwanted attention. I don't even like revealing clothes, I just like fashion but good fashion apparently means "I want attention from dirty minded, don't take no for an answer, men" in my city.

    • @jmxrmv
      @jmxrmv 2 дні тому

      I heard that screaming helps in America.

    • @An_even_fuller_sun
      @An_even_fuller_sun День тому

      @jmxrmv Not really. That only works sometimes.

  • @Gg2294.-.
    @Gg2294.-. 3 дні тому +56

    I'd rather be shamed for "causing a scene" than perpetuating an unfair & unsafe environment/culture.

    • @immimfromnailsworth2753
      @immimfromnailsworth2753 2 дні тому

      Don't worry, a lot of women do complain when it happens and almost instantly the other passengers hold down the perp to the next station.

    • @shivanisaini9738
      @shivanisaini9738 День тому

      U r not the one who started the scene, but be courageous enough to end the scene

  • @snaillicious7984
    @snaillicious7984 4 дні тому +37

    Im sure this video works and im grateful to you for making it! I did want to say though thats into not fair, we women should not have to hide our body or alter our appearance to avoid sexual harassment and assault. Do whatever you need to do to stay safe🩷 but also remember we shouldn’t have to hide our body.

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому

      ❤️

    • @ChrisbrownBreezy-w8s
      @ChrisbrownBreezy-w8s 4 дні тому

      It not what you wear it’s how you wear it

    • @Alipookie
      @Alipookie 3 дні тому

      @@ChrisbrownBreezy-w8sshouldnt we be allowed to wear whatever we want however we want without being sexualized?

    • @sarandonga5064
      @sarandonga5064 3 дні тому

      The clothes she wore at the beginning were sexy even for me, an heterosexual woman. So I can understand they are revealing much more for men, even if they are not a pervert. It depends in how and why you want to be seen. To be a person that... speaks / behaves / is good at whatever or just another sexy person. ...

    • @carlpanzram7081
      @carlpanzram7081 2 дні тому

      "woman should never have to protect themselves or take responsibility for their own safety" 😂
      OK. Have it your way, it's your choice.

  • @janabme
    @janabme 2 дні тому +20

    Im so sorry that men can't control themselves. It's sad that they blame women for their short comings. But I'm so proud of you for helping the women feel a little more protected.

    • @samyakchhajed
      @samyakchhajed 2 дні тому +2

      You don't need to be sorry. No human on Earth is in control of themselves, not just men.

    • @paperamigauwu
      @paperamigauwu 2 дні тому +9

      ​@@samyakchhajedu still on this???? Everyone has the ability to control themselves

    • @samyakchhajed
      @samyakchhajed День тому

      @@paperamigauwu No one is controlling themselves. Causality will give you insight.

    • @MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y
      @MdZeeshanAnsari-b3y День тому

      no one is controlling anyone.
      56% of human traffickers are women

  • @vibhapandey2527
    @vibhapandey2527 5 днів тому +96

    this isnt just japan. its the WHOLE WORLD

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  5 днів тому +4

      Yes

    • @gishgoyim9170
      @gishgoyim9170 4 дні тому

      It's not the world and definitely isn't Japan. They need to start complaining about their actual issues like increasing suicide and declining birth rates or something instead of exaggerating small issues like this for attention.

    • @starlit_ivy
      @starlit_ivy 4 дні тому +11

      In Japan there is a way bigger issue of upskirt photography though, at least compared to the us.

    • @lunariousmoon
      @lunariousmoon 3 дні тому +3

      Public transport in my country doesn't have this issue

    • @roblox-j7w5h
      @roblox-j7w5h 3 дні тому

      Muslim country are safe

  • @hey-kh5ij
    @hey-kh5ij 4 дні тому +53

    How about everybody wears what they want and the creepy men learn to control themselves or stay inside 😂

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому +2

      ❤️😂

    • @cookiestrong8757
      @cookiestrong8757 4 дні тому +28

      But they don’t. That’s the problem.
      She’s just teaching girls to be safe.

    • @hey-kh5ij
      @hey-kh5ij 4 дні тому

      @@cookiestrong8757 I agree with you. The fact that men cannot control themselves is a huge problem. It’s no coincidence that special women-only compartments were added to trains in Japan. However, it is desirable that this current situation changes in the near future, and that men learn to mind their own business instead of harassing women in public. After all, everyone has the right to dress as they wish and express themselves through fashion, and this should never be hindered by others-especially by the men mentioned in the video who lack self-control ,common sense and obviously a brain.
      Videos showing women how to avoid harassment by covering themselves ideally should not need to exist in the first place. But apparently they’re needed and that’s sad.

    • @notquitehim
      @notquitehim 3 дні тому

      Japan is a backwards af society, people need to stop romanticizing it and saying its this super futuristic place. Its not, they have a long way to go in social progress

    • @sheMessages
      @sheMessages 2 дні тому +10

      or in jail (:

  • @AkshitaGuptaa-x2j
    @AkshitaGuptaa-x2j 7 днів тому +53

    "nAtiOnAl tReAsUrE"🤠

  • @yuli4ka.w
    @yuli4ka.w День тому +1

    "Look at how your dressed, its an invitation" respectfully, no.

  • @vollied4865
    @vollied4865 2 дні тому +2

    Can We talk about how warm and cozy that sweater looks 😩🙏

  • @indisummers4385
    @indisummers4385 3 дні тому +8

    HOW ABOUT WE FIX THE MEN INSTEAD OF CHANGING THE WOMEN

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  3 дні тому

      ❤️

    • @TheOnlyT0asty
      @TheOnlyT0asty 3 дні тому +7

      Explain your plan for this event.

    • @DeadButPretty-dbp
      @DeadButPretty-dbp 3 дні тому

      ​@@TheOnlyT0asty get violent when we're touched until they realize that their lives are at stake and keep their hands off. That goes for anyone that thinks they have the right to touch without permission.

    • @gryla5290
      @gryla5290 3 дні тому +3

      Cool. I'm all ears.

    • @ambens3010
      @ambens3010 2 дні тому +2

      not all men are like this xDD, if train, bus etc is full then it's normal that ppl touch each other accidentally, i don't say that men don't do SA but pls don't generalise, also works both ways

  • @bluewolffpsfn8424
    @bluewolffpsfn8424 2 дні тому +3

    I can't believe that this video makes it seem like this is normal in Japan, no-one should have to hide themselves

    • @lovelyloaa
      @lovelyloaa День тому

      No one's hiding themselves. It's just practical to cover themselves up so the creeps can SEETHE.

  • @farmerbobbygrows3338
    @farmerbobbygrows3338 4 дні тому +8

    I HAVE AN EVEN GREATER IDEA. PEPPERS SPRAY.

  • @AdritaDas55
    @AdritaDas55 2 дні тому +1

    That" Ooops did I just step on your foot 🦶🏼"is everything I need

  • @melon_271
    @melon_271 2 дні тому +1

    "National Treasure"😂 loved her humor!!

  • @AbadaAnon
    @AbadaAnon 3 дні тому +28

    Tbh also if you DO wear skirts always wear shorts or something similar beneath to cover up. I have absolutely no idea how so many Japanese girls and women don't clothe beneath, but ALWAYS wear shorts beneath, preferably as dark as possible.

  • @sleepnow3053
    @sleepnow3053 4 дні тому +9

    Their foot is getting stomped on

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому +1

      💖❤️

    • @dreamer6870
      @dreamer6870 4 дні тому

      Exactly

    • @alexissteele5274
      @alexissteele5274 3 дні тому

      What if someone is chasing you and you trip and fall because of the high heels not very smart

    • @waffle2247
      @waffle2247 День тому

      @@nyctom3346 that’s such a creepy thing to say ngl 💀

    • @waffle2247
      @waffle2247 День тому

      @@nyctom3346 That’s so creepy tbh 💀

  • @vid9170
    @vid9170 4 дні тому +23

    I'm still sometimes ashamed of our "modern" species.

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому

      💖❤️

    • @Mukyuify
      @Mukyuify 3 дні тому

      *men

    • @vid9170
      @vid9170 3 дні тому

      @@Mukyuify fyi there are creepy women

    • @EvanYushiro
      @EvanYushiro 2 дні тому

      ​@@Mukyuify uhh, women do bad things too, i don't think you can just apply to men and just ignore what some women do

    • @ΚρανίΩ
      @ΚρανίΩ 2 дні тому

      @@Mukyuifya small handfull of men*

  • @p.ttechnicalpoint9952
    @p.ttechnicalpoint9952 День тому +1

    She really told the absolutely correct way of saving yourselves from a creator bastaaard

  • @The-Mediator
    @The-Mediator День тому +2

    Step 1, kick with em heels

  • @0tocci029
    @0tocci029 3 дні тому +4

    Nah I really don’t care and I shouldn’t have to cover up but will, doesn’t mean it prevents it from happening. There’s something called the 3 rule. 1 is a verbal warning, 2 is telling the person to stop and another warning, 3 is a punch or slap to the face. Then you walk away

    • @immimfromnailsworth2753
      @immimfromnailsworth2753 2 дні тому

      But by the time you've already been touched without consent! That's what we want to avoid in Japan.

    • @lovelyloaa
      @lovelyloaa День тому

      And they do it again.

  • @Thegirlwithalyre
    @Thegirlwithalyre 2 дні тому +3

    As someone who lives in Iran, can't even show my hair so every time I go out I just worry whether my clothes are not too tight or too short instead of trying to look good and have my own style..

  • @Esa_Ecobedo
    @Esa_Ecobedo 4 дні тому +4

    I love the first outfit also thank you for this I am planning to go to Japan.

  • @MindGrublin
    @MindGrublin День тому +1

    I really wish we could safely wear these things, but sadly society has taught men it's okay if she's dressed a certain way, while it can still happen in baggy outfits, sometimes it's better to dress safely if you're going out in public, especially alone, being able to defend yourself or not it's safer to be in a group, stay safe out there y'all

  • @ramlakshmanmaheshwari8002
    @ramlakshmanmaheshwari8002 День тому +1

    You don't need to hide it
    You need to fight it

  • @msbookworm1395
    @msbookworm1395 3 дні тому +2

    When we went to Japan and just had to wear our OOTDs despite the cold, our coats were our best friends on the train to ensure complete cover 😂

  • @AsinaKk
    @AsinaKk 3 дні тому +5

    Why would we women have to change for men?!

    • @TheOnlyT0asty
      @TheOnlyT0asty 3 дні тому +3

      You don't.

    • @gryla5290
      @gryla5290 3 дні тому +1

      There are creeps who CHOOSE to touch women because they can get away with it. Are you really not gonna take precautions to protect yourself despite that? You can say all you want that creeps should keep their hands to themselves but will they? Will they make the conscious decision to stop? 😑

    • @immimfromnailsworth2753
      @immimfromnailsworth2753 2 дні тому +2

      You don't. I saw at least 20 girls dressed in the first outfit here last night in Tokyo. Just be careful not to let anyone grope you.

  • @Username-vn1wx
    @Username-vn1wx 4 дні тому +3

    Heels won't do anything besides prevent you from running properly

  • @YamieriahAzema
    @YamieriahAzema День тому +2

    Sadly bad things happen no matter what you wear or how you wear it

  • @AlejandroOsorioF
    @AlejandroOsorioF День тому

    I'm very sorry to hear about these situations, sadly happening all around the world. My complete support to all the women out there victims of this reality. 💪 Keep up and strong as we all work towards building a world more comfortable. Great awareness video. Sad, yet, so true.

  • @nightappleisPoisonapple
    @nightappleisPoisonapple 3 дні тому +13

    A comment said being loud will help.learned, not always. I travel by bus. A girl around my age 17-20 was sitting behind me. It was crowded. A guy was standing near her seat the whole time. After a while he touched/grabbed her breast, as soon as she yelled "why did you just touch me" he kept his hand on the bag and said "my hand was always here i never did" the girl insisted "you just put it there" he kept saying he didn't. Gosh, no one uttered a word. Nor the ladies neither the guys, not the conductor, driver anyone. She was not heard and they let it slide. The man had the audacity to pickup someones call and say "people are so thirsty for attention, ruined my day over a small matter"

  • @ashleybailey1107
    @ashleybailey1107 2 дні тому +2

    It's crazy how us women have to cover up and take all of these procotunary measures just because some people don't know how to keep their hands to themselves.

  • @Shion-n3o
    @Shion-n3o 2 дні тому +3

    Sometimes, in early mornings like 9, trains may have a women only section. Sadly, some men might come though.😢

  • @ppogepenne2199
    @ppogepenne2199 День тому +1

    Distracted by how good the sweater is 😭

  • @catpax6075
    @catpax6075 День тому +1

    This was high key depressing

  • @Mithrandir694
    @Mithrandir694 3 дні тому +8

    This is what your dads have been telling you for years but y'all won't listen 😂

    • @hadesisbaby
      @hadesisbaby 2 дні тому +2

      bcuz it’s victim blaming goofy. why don’t your dads tell you to keep your hands to yourselves 🗿

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  2 дні тому +2

      ❤️😂

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  2 дні тому +1

      ❤️❤️

    • @ElJewPacabrah
      @ElJewPacabrah 2 дні тому +1

      FACTS.

    • @lovelyloaa
      @lovelyloaa День тому +1

      Sad but true. People have to learn the hard way in order for them to realize that their parents' advice was right.

  • @Minimum3Dashers
    @Minimum3Dashers 2 дні тому +7

    "The curves of the upper body are considered a national treasure"
    So almost every gamer is a national treasure.

  • @pn5625
    @pn5625 4 дні тому +3

    are tasers not legal?

    • @ana..a.
      @ana..a. 3 дні тому

      it’s pretty much impossible to defend urself in japan

  • @Ondestus
    @Ondestus 3 дні тому +2

    Wow this made me feel sad. I am so sorry people have to go through this on a day to day basis

  • @ashrafshaik9673
    @ashrafshaik9673 День тому +1

    She just explained how to dress modestly

  • @robinanna5531
    @robinanna5531 5 днів тому +4

    Grab their hand and shout "Chikan"!

  • @n1ghhtmare
    @n1ghhtmare 4 дні тому +9

    People victim blame to feel safer by not conforming to the "victim checklist" but it only makes you internalise self objectification because it was never the clothes, it was the perpetrators. We don't understand the reason for their actions so we make one ourselves because at least then it makes sense

  • @ilikeoreos-o7o
    @ilikeoreos-o7o 2 дні тому +8

    Women in full burkas and hijabs still get assaulted. It’s so unfair that even if you do cover up you’re still not safe.

  • @Queensdecline
    @Queensdecline 2 дні тому +1

    Thanks for the tips but I'll just remember to wear heels 👠 😤

  • @roboxiangamer1147
    @roboxiangamer1147 День тому +1

    4. Get a tough boyfriend

  • @profiigate1357
    @profiigate1357 8 днів тому +16

    Much love from USA, no country is perfect. 🇺🇸💚🇯🇵 It begins with the individual, we must be vigilant for ourselves at all times.

  • @V9nu3F3nty
    @V9nu3F3nty 5 днів тому +15

    Or just help make a society where creepy people like that are taught otherwise?

    • @ElJewPacabrah
      @ElJewPacabrah 2 дні тому

      There are always bad apples. Please be careful or at least mindful of the potential. Sad but reality.

  • @marjoriepiedade
    @marjoriepiedade 3 дні тому +7

    Actually, I honestly think that dressing in a particular way just to avoid creeps are a thing that doesn't work at all, cuz it's a big lie that dressing in a certain way will prevent you from being harassed in any way. Those things like: "oh, but u were wearing this. You were literally asking for it" it's just one excuse for the victim feel ashamed or responsible for what someone else did, but fr they would do it anyway and would dig for another excuse to say something similar

    • @notquitehim
      @notquitehim 3 дні тому +1

      People need to stop romanticizing japan, its a backwards af society and im sick and tired of people pretending its not

  • @hellodetective234
    @hellodetective234 День тому

    Lady, you are safeguarding those who either have not faced such things or have no idea how to prevent them from repeating.
    Great work.
    World was unsafe, is unsafe and will be unsafe not only for females but males as well.
    Stay alert, and blessed 🎉

    • @axkermans
      @axkermans День тому

      this is satire. The end of the video is the actual advice 💀

    • @hellodetective234
      @hellodetective234 18 годин тому

      ​@@axkermans you mean taking action of punishing a bad guy?

    • @axkermans
      @axkermans 11 годин тому

      @@hellodetective234 yesss 😈

  • @Hyperion_HK
    @Hyperion_HK 2 дні тому

    Not only do you look safe, but that outfit looks super cute and comfy!! I would wear this with zero anxiety involved tbh

  • @FabulousSquidward
    @FabulousSquidward 5 днів тому +13

    Thats fucking sad

  • @luna0_o2010
    @luna0_o2010 4 дні тому +6

    its not about the clothes.

  • @FakeMoon98
    @FakeMoon98 4 дні тому +5

    A better idea: them keeping their hands to themselves

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому

      💖❤️

    • @carlpanzram7081
      @carlpanzram7081 2 дні тому

      You people are pathetic.
      Please just stop victimizing yourself. Bad people won't stop existing just because they don't fit your ideal fantasy world.
      "I have to out my jewel in a safe? Better idea, a thief shouldn't want to steal it."
      "I need to put a lock on my front door? A better idea, a criminal shouldn't want to break and enter" 😂

  • @AliAryanTech
    @AliAryanTech День тому +1

    bro earned a sub for some reasons 🗿👍

  • @elav9412
    @elav9412 2 дні тому

    😂 My favorite one " OOPS DID I JUST STEPPED ON YOUR FOOT"

  • @Atheistbatman
    @Atheistbatman 3 дні тому +12

    I taught my daughter how to shoot a gun and conceal carry. She wears what she wants when she wants

  • @erikasek5229
    @erikasek5229 3 дні тому +5

    Another tip: dress however u want

    • @fuckthisapp
      @fuckthisapp 3 дні тому

      and risk someone film under your skirt? 💀

    • @carlpanzram7081
      @carlpanzram7081 2 дні тому

      Great tip. Have fun getting SA'd I guess?

    • @IAmNot-Everywhere-
      @IAmNot-Everywhere- 2 дні тому

      ​@@carlpanzram7081 You're the type of person to go around saying women are victimizing themselves instead of feeling sympathy. And if you're a man, I think that's the most sympathy a man can feel.

    • @tokyo4490
      @tokyo4490 22 години тому

      Sa is prominent in Japan. The laws of protecting women are basically non existent so don't talk unless you actually know what you're saying. Btw, in case you didn't notice, she's giving advice for girls in Japan because she KNOWS Japan is well known for having a misogynistic society.

  • @S-ol3qz
    @S-ol3qz 4 дні тому +3

    It was never the clothes. And the heels make it harder to run away

  • @npc.21269
    @npc.21269 2 дні тому +1

    I have two hands and the law can't stop me from using them

  • @princesslayyy101
    @princesslayyy101 2 дні тому

    I love the heel idea😂😂😂 LOVE IT

  • @pav-01
    @pav-01 4 дні тому +3

    True for Indian buses too

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  4 дні тому

      💖❤️

    • @hardeepsaklani5175
      @hardeepsaklani5175 2 дні тому

      Well yes and No. Chikan as it is called in Japan is a major thing. Women get harrassed or sa'd in buses and trains and due to some reasons they don't raise their voices or call them out. I have rarely heard news of women being groped in buses or trains. Even when they are people will beat the shit out of the guy. My point is we don't have anything compared to Chikan, went to college 3 years in an overcrowded bus never encountered such things.

  • @Virgil-the-rat
    @Virgil-the-rat 6 днів тому +6

    This is satire right?

    • @Puppet7879
      @Puppet7879 5 днів тому +12

      No, trains in Japan have really high reports sexual assault and sexual harassment, so women have to cover up more for safety

    • @banksjenniferchannel
      @banksjenniferchannel  5 днів тому

      💖❤️

    • @Virgil-the-rat
      @Virgil-the-rat 5 днів тому +8

      @Puppet7879 it shouldn't be the woman's responsibility to cover up though

    • @CheeseEnthusiast69
      @CheeseEnthusiast69 4 дні тому

      @@Virgil-the-ratIn an idealistic society, yes youre right. But realistically although its unfair that a woman has to dress like this because of other men, it does significantly decrease the possibility of being SA'ed. The question isnt about responsibility, its about whether you want to be safe or not.

    • @Jayleta
      @Jayleta 4 дні тому

      Why would it be

  • @TAP7a
    @TAP7a 2 дні тому +2

    4) long hat pins

  • @estherofei-asamani5395
    @estherofei-asamani5395 День тому

    "And suddenly ur the star of someone's creepy hidden camera show"😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @carltongannett
    @carltongannett 2 дні тому +1

    It’s like armor with +5 creep resist

  • @TammanaSultanaFood
    @TammanaSultanaFood День тому +1

    In Bangladesh you could wear borqa and still be entire country's mens national treasures

  • @P3PP3RRR
    @P3PP3RRR 2 дні тому +1

    Our dam national treasures getting in the way of safe public transport

  • @noahfischer3088
    @noahfischer3088 2 дні тому +1

    You look very warm. Like lots of layers

  • @hyunjinloveseggplants
    @hyunjinloveseggplants 2 дні тому +1

    I mean I think it's high time that we, as women need to understand that even though men should keep their hands to themselves and SHOULD NOT touch a woman, we should also ensure our safety. Yes, it's not the fault of the clothes we wear and predators would do it anyways but we should also keep ourselves safe from those predators who judge on the basis of clothes.

  • @nikniknik_40
    @nikniknik_40 3 дні тому +2

    We need to start wearing hats with pins again. 😂🤔

  • @AuroraBorealiz111
    @AuroraBorealiz111 День тому +2

    In Malaysia, I was 13. I cover my neck to toe (literally fully covered), I still get sexually harassed. Good news he got arrested, I'm 20 now.

  • @sanskritimishra3500
    @sanskritimishra3500 9 годин тому

    I love your style ❤❤

  • @mattybadger13
    @mattybadger13 День тому +1

    See it's funny cause this video exists then the next video will be like "how Japan is the friendliest country"

  • @Pvinodpatil1234
    @Pvinodpatil1234 День тому +2

    Oh hell naw, i aint doing that just to avoid someone's attention
    If they're uncomfortable, they may close their eyes, that ain't my fault

  • @Miku-h6l
    @Miku-h6l День тому

    I’m going to Japan soon tysm for this!!