Haha I felt the same way at times but I found that I will always be able to listen to great pastors on UA-cam but the community you are able to immerse yourself in at your physical church is an experience that is amazing cannot be duplicated online! So keep going on Sunday’s don’t be afraid to try different locations you will eventually find your place! It is God’s promise not mine:)
Hey friend in CHRIST, so… not that you asked but based on this very sermon here’s some tips and information…. This very same pastor would tell you to find a local Church to go to and serve your community and find / use your gift(s) for The Gospel… also if you really feel that strongly maybe relocation would be the next step, new and better opportunities! 🎉 ❤ Also, when my husband and I were dating we went Church hopping.. lol. So on Sundays we would go to different Churches and see how we felt and thought afterward…. 🎉 I too have pastors I enjoy listening to online. Just some ideas, not saying it to make you feels…. ❤🎉 love you. 😍
Wow! Point 3: USE YOUR EARS - out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. This hit me!! For a while now anger, swearing & ugliness has been coming out of my mouth, and I keep praying/crying/begging God to help me change, as well as do practical things to try to change, but I'm still struggling. When I heard this I realised those things come out because they're IN my heart! God show me how to get anger, hurt, resentment, hatred, bitterness etc out of my heart, help me to do this! Prayers appreciated
@@thelma1206 thank you! Just an update, God has been healing me by allowing me to see & acknowledge the hurts, & forgive those who caused pain! I've been angry less - more just annoyed but quickly get over it, and am swearing a whole lot less! This, as well as Ps. Steven Furtick's msg on "Do the new you" & Joseph Prince's teachings on God's grace has helped me to realise I can respond from a different place because God empowers me to - & it's not of my own struggle, just simply believing that what Jesus did is enough & because of that I CAN (have the ability to) speak/do things differently - that revelation has just been 🤯🤯🤯 Thanks again
Something the Spirit discerned for me recently about what the world promotes as love - it's really just romanticised lust, made to conform to love. It's not love.
I didn’t have relational intelligence in my 20s and 30s and I DO have regret today. So he’s right. And, we are absolutely replaceable. I can also testify to that. Didn’t matter how “important” I was; I was replaced and forgotten about INSTANTLY. After 20 years too. So he’s spitting facts. I still remain as relevant as ever as father bc as PD said, that’s my DNA walking around. I created them and therefore we are in it for life. And I’m so thankful for that role in their lives.
That breakdown on a person’s potential…🤯🔥!!! This teaching is what is needed today in order for people to properly see others, in order to relate better to one another. This is some GOOD teaching!! “At some point their mouth will tell on their heart” oooh weee!!! I could have ran around the perimeter (the outside) of my house with that one!! Too many nuggets to even quote!
Great teaching! My feelings have fooled me- and have caused me some devastation.. that I’m not sure if I can come back from. Need much prayer and guidance.
It's amazing when you cry out to GOD for certain things, how he brings exactly what you need...when you need it. Although this series is a year old, I wasn't ready for this back then! WOW!!!! 🤔🤔🤔🤔
If I don't have Relational Intelligence today, I will have regret tomorrow. Yes sir Kinfolk PD!!! There is a difference between vulnerability and stupidity. Man drop the mic 🎤 and give the benediction. You teaching that 🔥 📛 👩🚒 🚒
Relational Intelligence highly recommended. It will truly save you from many heart breaks. Excellent breakdown on different levels of friendship. Thank you Pastor Daniels. At 66 years old, I see so many of my past errors. This book needs to be in lots of hands. Blessings and ❤️
(Me too talk fast) if I don’t have relational intelligence today/this season- I’m going to have regret bc the people who mean the most to me are not/ did not get the best of me We don’t live with wounds. Greatest joy and pain is in our relationships. Love requires vulnerability. (Me too!) There’s a difference between vulnerability and stupidity. Some of our wounds are unnecessary wounds. Stewardship of time, treasure, and talent. Boundaries protect Discernment is the ability to recognize fruits and respond accordingly. Analogy of trees as humans. Recognizing fruit is NOT judgement of the tree. Lack of discernment can get me sick. If I don’t know the difference between trees. It’s just not for me. Fruit inspector to determine whether or not it is for you. Your feelings will fool you. The heart is deceitful. (Yes, my feelings have definitely fooled me- causing unnecessary wounds cause I let me feelings determine actions not the fruit-and I made excuses for the fruit bc I was overly influenced by the idea I was judging not inspecting fruit to see if it was healthy for me and I have underestimated the poison and overestimated potential!)
Thank you for posting this Pastor! I recently released someone from my life because they were not good for me overall. They were not bad people, just not right for what God is doing in me. This clarifies SO MUCH! Be encouraged.😇
1. Use your natural eyes. “When someone shows you who they are, believe them.”-Maya Angelou 2. Use your heart-mind, will emotions, imaginations. Intuition of the Holy Spirit aka hunches/ inner witness 3. Use your ears. At some point their mouth is going to tell of their heart. Many people end up dealing with unnecessary inconvenience bc their ears aren’t used to LISTEN. MAKES SENSE! Some people evolve and some regress. Not who they are but who they USED to be. They can still be on the bus but their seat has to change.
My goodness....this teaching right here just helped me from going down the "wrong street!" Thank you Dr. Dharius for clarifying that we are not determining if a person is bad (or good) but only whether they are good (or bad) for me in my current season 👀👂💓 Correct placement and continual management is key. I am truly LOVING this series 😍
Boundaries and discernment🔥 Not me🔥 If I don't have Relational Intelligence today I will have regret tomorrow 🔥 The people I meant the most from me got the least from me🔥 Nothing wounds than relationships 🔥 We need it so we do not get wounded... Matthew 7:16 You are making so much sense to me🔥 Ability to recognise the fruit 🍑 Recognising what fruit the tree is producing is not judging 🔥 But to determine whether or not the fruit is bad for me is important 🔥 My lack of discernment will get me sick.... That tree is not good for me 🔥 Fruit inspecting whether they are good or bad for me🔥 My feelings will fool me 🔥A person's potential is an indication of what they can be but not always the indication of what they willing to be.. The choices they are willing to make the discomfort that they are willing to endure if they are not willing to make then you can never see it possible from the version of yourself. 🔥 You can realise that this person never become.. Before giving keys to our heart we need to do the fruit inspection 🔥🔥🔥 Wow that's so powerful 🙌 Fruit inspection will allow me to assess what assignment to carry through and what assets will bring so that you can carry it out...That assessment is not suitable for my assignment. Certain imperfections will impact me more than others 🔥 I can recognise what imperfections that I can really tolerate... 1.Use your eyes 👀 - Paying attention 2.Use your heart 💓 - mind, will, emotions, imaginations and affections. Using my inner witness which is under the influence of the Holy Spirit. 3.Use your ears...Luke 6:45 Their mouth will tell of what's there in their heart....Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks...Be slow to speak quick to hear. Based on this I will know what set of boundaries that I need to set...If I stop using my eyes, heart n ears i will not realise when people are changing seats🔥 My mind will be blown and God will pivot to the right relationship in Jesus Name. Amen 🙌 I see manifestation in my life when I use my eyes, heart and ears 🔥
I tell everyone that I can’t find the right church because on UA-cam I found my very favorite pastor. Been this way for 3 years now! Thank you
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Same
Haha I felt the same way at times but I found that I will always be able to listen to great pastors on UA-cam but the community you are able to immerse yourself in at your physical church is an experience that is amazing cannot be duplicated online! So keep going on Sunday’s don’t be afraid to try different locations you will eventually find your place! It is God’s promise not mine:)
FACTS!!
Hey friend in CHRIST, so… not that you asked but based on this very sermon here’s some tips and information…. This very same pastor would tell you to find a local Church to go to and serve your community and find / use your gift(s) for The Gospel… also if you really feel that strongly maybe relocation would be the next step, new and better opportunities! 🎉 ❤ Also, when my husband and I were dating we went Church hopping.. lol. So on Sundays we would go to different Churches and see how we felt and thought afterward…. 🎉 I too have pastors I enjoy listening to online. Just some ideas, not saying it to make you feels…. ❤🎉 love you. 😍
"Matthew 7:16 -'...by their fruit you will recognize them.' So we're not judging, we're fruit inspecting."
Whoop da it is !!!
My lack of discernment can get me sick 🔥🔥🔥🎤🎤
I have to admit that I’ve made decisions influenced by my feelings.
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If I don’t have relational intelligence today I will have regret later ✨
I liked what you said about if you listen to somebody long enough you will see what’s in the heart love you man thank you sir
Wow! Point 3: USE YOUR EARS - out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.
This hit me!!
For a while now anger, swearing & ugliness has been coming out of my mouth, and I keep praying/crying/begging God to help me change, as well as do practical things to try to change, but I'm still struggling.
When I heard this I realised those things come out because they're IN my heart!
God show me how to get anger, hurt, resentment, hatred, bitterness etc out of my heart, help me to do this!
Prayers appreciated
Prayed for you.
@@thelma1206 thank you! Just an update, God has been healing me by allowing me to see & acknowledge the hurts, & forgive those who caused pain! I've been angry less - more just annoyed but quickly get over it, and am swearing a whole lot less!
This, as well as Ps. Steven Furtick's msg on "Do the new you" & Joseph Prince's teachings on God's grace has helped me to realise I can respond from a different place because God empowers me to - & it's not of my own struggle, just simply believing that what Jesus did is enough & because of that I CAN (have the ability to) speak/do things differently - that revelation has just been 🤯🤯🤯
Thanks again
Something the Spirit discerned for me recently about what the world promotes as love - it's really just romanticised lust, made to conform to love. It's not love.
I didn’t have relational intelligence in my 20s and 30s and I DO have regret today. So he’s right. And, we are absolutely replaceable. I can also testify to that. Didn’t matter how “important” I was; I was replaced and forgotten about INSTANTLY. After 20 years too. So he’s spitting facts.
I still remain as relevant as ever as father bc as PD said, that’s my DNA walking around. I created them and therefore we are in it for life. And I’m so thankful for that role in their lives.
We need relational intelligence so we don’t live with wounds ✨
Lord!!! This is good! Jesus Help me to make the right decisions at the right time according to your willpower in Jesus name amen.
Love requires vulnerability ♥️
Wish I had this teaching when I was younger! thank you Pastor Dharius!👏🏽
That breakdown on a person’s potential…🤯🔥!!! This teaching is what is needed today in order for people to properly see others, in order to relate better to one another. This is some GOOD teaching!!
“At some point their mouth will tell on their heart” oooh weee!!! I could have ran around the perimeter (the outside) of my house with that one!!
Too many nuggets to even quote!
Finally a true man of God who can place the words of the bible into reality that makes realistic whole fruitful astounding changes in life❤❤❤❤❤
Thank you Jesus
Great teaching! My feelings have fooled me- and have caused me some devastation.. that I’m not sure if I can come back from. Need much prayer and guidance.
Some wounds are unnecessary wounds
Dana Comeaux
Keep talking!!!
My oh my!!!
Discerning the fruit doesn't mean I'm judging the tree 💯🔥 Goodness PD how can you be speaking to my heart like this???😱🙆♂️🤯
Use your eyes ,heart and ears continuously 🙏🏾 I receive it!
Jesus!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 I receive this word in Jesus name Amen
I'm living proof right now
"Not me! I cannot allow the people who mean the most to me to get the least from me."
Love requires vulnerability. But there's a difference between vulnerability and stupidity
There a difference between vulnerability & stupidity ✨
It's amazing when you cry out to GOD for certain things, how he brings exactly what you need...when you need it. Although this series is a year old, I wasn't ready for this back then! WOW!!!! 🤔🤔🤔🤔
If I don't have Relational Intelligence today, I will have regret tomorrow. Yes sir Kinfolk PD!!! There is a difference between vulnerability and stupidity. Man drop the mic 🎤 and give the benediction. You teaching that 🔥 📛 👩🚒 🚒
Not me! Also, I receive ALL that the Lord has for me in the name of Jesus Christ.
Wheeewwww, this was good!! “The mouth speaks what the heart is full of”….
This is so good
We aren’t judging the tree but whether or not it’s fruit is good for us!
We give people the keys to our hearts because of their potential ...WOW 😳🤯!
“Somebody will eventually replace me”
And have.
Wow this was life changing! Thank you so much I needed to hear that right now.
Our feelings will fool us because our hearts are deceitful
Relational Intelligence highly recommended. It will truly save you from many heart breaks. Excellent breakdown on different levels of friendship. Thank you Pastor Daniels. At 66 years old, I see so many of my past errors. This book needs to be in lots of hands. Blessings and ❤️
Use my eyes , use my heart , use my ears In Jesus Name !
(Me too talk fast) if I don’t have relational intelligence today/this season- I’m going to have regret bc the people who mean the most to me are not/ did not get the best of me
We don’t live with wounds. Greatest joy and pain is in our relationships.
Love requires vulnerability. (Me too!) There’s a difference between vulnerability and stupidity.
Some of our wounds are unnecessary wounds.
Stewardship of time, treasure, and talent.
Boundaries protect
Discernment is the ability to recognize fruits and respond accordingly. Analogy of trees as humans. Recognizing fruit is NOT judgement of the tree. Lack of discernment can get me sick. If I don’t know the difference between trees. It’s just not for me.
Fruit inspector to determine whether or not it is for you. Your feelings will fool you. The heart is deceitful. (Yes, my feelings have definitely fooled me- causing unnecessary wounds cause I let me feelings determine actions not the fruit-and I made excuses for the fruit bc I was overly influenced by the idea I was judging not inspecting fruit to see if it was healthy for me and I have underestimated the poison and overestimated potential!)
If I don't have relational intelligence today, I will have regret tomorrow.
Debut for the favor of God on my life
Thank you for posting this Pastor! I recently released someone from my life because they were not good for me overall. They were not bad people, just not right for what God is doing in me. This clarifies SO MUCH! Be encouraged.😇
Use my eyes, heart(use what is under the influence of the Holy Spirit), use your ears.
I receive it in the Name of Jesus
Goodness!! At work and almost ran out the building. This was for me. God has spoken to me through you. God I hear you. I receive it!!🙌🏾
If I don’t have relational Intelligence today I won’t have good relational regret later!
Let's go if I don't have relational intelligence I am going to have regrets
I receive it eye heart an ears in Jesus name Amen Ty PD❤❤❤ for all your hard work.
Listen and obey The word .. of God .
I RECEIVE IT I AM GOING TO BE A FRUIT INSPECTOR FOR THE WORD SAYS TEST THE SPIRIT
I have listened to Pastor 's teaching multiple times .. I receive it and will these principles...
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Wow. 🙌🏾 I needed this today. I am in a bit of pain, but I am tired of running from the truth-time to walk towards it.
When someone shows you themselves believe them
Soooo gooood. Thank Jesus for using Pastor Daniels
1. Use your natural eyes. “When someone shows you who they are, believe them.”-Maya Angelou
2. Use your heart-mind, will emotions, imaginations. Intuition of the Holy Spirit aka hunches/ inner witness
3. Use your ears. At some point their mouth is going to tell of their heart. Many people end up dealing with unnecessary inconvenience bc their ears aren’t used to LISTEN.
MAKES SENSE!
Some people evolve and some regress. Not who they are but who they USED to be.
They can still be on the bus but their seat has to change.
No more falling in love..
Next time, I will conscientiously walk into it.
Much needed 😢 because I’m still learning how to use my discernment 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿
Oh this is Good Teaching and Good Information!!! TGBTG God Bless
So timely for me!!!!! Smh
Thank you Pastor Daniel's for this wonderful relationship guidance. God bless and keep you and your family 🙏🏼💜🙏🏼💜.
Yes I made judgments through feelings. Lord knows I paid forcthat
MY LACK OF DISCERNMENT CAN GET ME SICK…… YOU IN THE ROOM DOC
I will never be the same after this!! I am mind blown
Yes 👍👍👍 I miss it lost my son and i wished I had hugged him and hug him more.
My goodness....this teaching right here just helped me from going down the "wrong street!"
Thank you Dr. Dharius for clarifying that we are not determining if a person is bad (or good) but only whether they are good (or bad) for me in my current season 👀👂💓 Correct placement and continual management is key.
I am truly LOVING this series 😍
ILLYSMMMMMMM IM SO EXCITED TO HEAR ABOUT THESE SCHOOLS !!!!!!!!
Speaking the truth!!
Talk about it won't he do it get to it come on let's drive together praise God bless his name
Makes sense. I receive it! Thank you Dr. Daniels!🙏🏽🙏🏽
Facts cause I'm one of them
I RECEIVE IT IN JESUS CHRIST NAME AMEN 🙏🏽
Powerful teaching! Thank you for this advice.
This is Real PD , Thank you for these Practical Steps once again. God through you is changing my Life.
Discernment.🔥🔥🔥🔥
I received it, life changing message to build better and stronger relationships.
Well there you go!!!! My God!! TRUTH there!!!
I RECEIVE IT AND IM SO GRATEFUL FOR ALL GOD IS DOING THROUGH U
It’s too spicy pastor! 🥵🙏
Yes sir. Underestimating has really hurt me...learning.
THANK YOU DR. DHARIUS DANIELS!
33:30 - 35:50. I wrestled with these same questions about giving. Thank you for your clarification. Reciprocity is key.
This was so good!!!! I receive it!
Your preaching good Sir.
Talk about it talk about it talk about it
I wholly receive this message. Thank you PD, for being used by our Abba in powerful, life-changing ways.
I RECEIVE IT !!! IN JESUS NAME
Inspect the fruit ❤
thank god I don't have fruit allergies or any allergies for that matter lol . God is good to those who believe. Hallelujah !
DISCERNMENT
Preach holy Spirit,❤
If I don't have relational intelligence in this season, I will regret later in life.
Wow! Thanks Pastor… I should have heard this a year ago but nowww, I needed this❤
God is so on time
🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🌈🌈🌈🌈 trying to stay on that Parth getting hard
LOVE LOVE LOVE THIS!!!!!! Very eye opening and helpful and the season I am in 🙏🏾🙏🏾 I love listening to you such healing
I receive it!! Been received it and will continue to stay receiving it!!🙌🏽 can’t afford to ever stop
Use your ears 👂🏾👂🏾
I receive it! I’m a fruit inspector.
I RECEIVE IT IN JESUS NAME 🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
Boundaries and discernment🔥 Not me🔥 If I don't have Relational Intelligence today I will have regret tomorrow 🔥 The people I meant the most from me got the least from me🔥 Nothing wounds than relationships 🔥 We need it so we do not get wounded... Matthew 7:16 You are making so much sense to me🔥 Ability to recognise the fruit 🍑 Recognising what fruit the tree is producing is not judging 🔥 But to determine whether or not the fruit is bad for me is important 🔥 My lack of discernment will get me sick.... That tree is not good for me 🔥 Fruit inspecting whether they are good or bad for me🔥 My feelings will fool me 🔥A person's potential is an indication of what they can be but not always the indication of what they willing to be.. The choices they are willing to make the discomfort that they are willing to endure if they are not willing to make then you can never see it possible from the version of yourself. 🔥 You can realise that this person never become.. Before giving keys to our heart we need to do the fruit inspection 🔥🔥🔥 Wow that's so powerful 🙌 Fruit inspection will allow me to assess what assignment to carry through and what assets will bring so that you can carry it out...That assessment is not suitable for my assignment. Certain imperfections will impact me more than others 🔥 I can recognise what imperfections that I can really tolerate...
1.Use your eyes 👀 - Paying attention
2.Use your heart 💓 - mind, will, emotions, imaginations and affections. Using my inner witness which is under the influence of the Holy Spirit.
3.Use your ears...Luke 6:45 Their mouth will tell of what's there in their heart....Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks...Be slow to speak quick to hear. Based on this I will know what set of boundaries that I need to set...If I stop using my eyes, heart n ears i will not realise when people are changing seats🔥 My mind will be blown and God will pivot to the right relationship in Jesus Name. Amen 🙌 I see manifestation in my life when I use my eyes, heart and ears 🔥
I RECEIVE it!🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
I receive this message. Thank you!
Wow God is so good I needed this revelation he’s so good thank you for truth and yes it was my choices but no more with Gods grace
If I don't have relational intelligence today I will have regret