5 SIGNS YOU'RE DATING OR MARRIED TO A GERMAN MAN 🇩🇪
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I'm an Australian married to a German man. He didn't hold back any feelings and won me over very quickly with his genuine interest in me and his trustworthyness. Another great attribute is he is an amazing cook 👍👍 and values family.
That’s great congratulations 🎉🎈🎊🍾 does he have a brother 😂 👍🏽
Hab zuerst cock gelesen ...ups
As an American married to a German man this is soo accurate.. My man will tell me his true feelings if want to hear it or not...
My hubby is a great father, caretaker and chef ❤️
I am a German woman and yes, you are right. In my experience German men do not flirt as much as men from other countries because some are just shy and wish the woman would make the first step or they are confused because a lot of women nowerdays are or appear very independent and confident and the men don't want to scare them away. I also know what you mean with being honest. But I think that's a good thing. At least then you can trust and rely on them. I used to be married to an American and he always said something nice but half of the time didn't really mean it. He just said what he thought I would like to hear, I can really do without that.
I married a German guy for over 9 year's. After that he change hes emotions towards me, One day i ask him if he has another girl and hes answer to me"Yes"😢. He said there are more than 1 year in relationship since 2021. Then started my depressions and anxiety.
Now i live alone almost 11 months of separation.
My husband and i had a lawyer to process my devorce. Not all German guy are loyal and faithful.
you´re absolutely right, german fathers appreciate their role and are happy to be the honest ones you´ve ever met
Hey Breuer....
Hello ❤❤❤
Same here, me and my partner of 13 years are Austrians. And though Austrians and Germans tend to have slight to sometimes even big differences in their mentality, romantically, German speaking men have something in common. My man is very respectful, a little shy, no smalltalker (like many German speakers haha), straight forward, good cook and dedicated partner and father :-)
Also, the German speaking world mainly refrains from - what I call - Hollywood dating rules. If a man likes you, he will most probably tell you quite fast, straight to your face. No overbearing romantic gestures, flowers, chocolates and wawawoom action. Just plain to your face haha
And ladies, it does have its charms!
GERMAN BOYFRIEND A GOOD SOUL AND A EXCELLENT COOK ♥️
Take this honest compliment: you look so beautiful and radiant in this Video. And everything you said is true. 🤣
4:12 oh my goodness.... 22 year old german man here. This point... 100% accurate
I love how strong and independent women here in Germany are! I really think that has a lot to do with the guaranteed maternity leave. Girls grow up seeing women be financially independent and working! I see a lot more cultural equality in Northern European countries where women are in the workplace.
Thank you 🙏🏻
Yes, there is a kind of border between North and South Europe! Southern Europe has still the traditional role model for families and mothers. That's why the birth rates in Scandinavia e.g. are much higher than in Spain or Italy! In Germany we had the same border between the West and the East: In the former GDR women were needed as a work force, so they had a job and a family. Until 10 or even 15 years ago the Western part was still much, much old fashioned, and today particularly Bavaria and BW are still conservative in terms of the women's and mothers role. There is also a GREAT difference between the level of self confidence between West and East German women. As a sociologist and someone who moved from the West to the East I can confirm that to 100%! ;-)
I wouldn't say that the low birth rates between south europe and northern europe are due to cultural roles of "women do the house work" and "man bring the money home". It is quite typical that a woman has a job and provides to herself and to the family. I would rather say the reasons for such low rates are more related with 1) the very low average salaries, 2) very low welfare support for families and 3) the very short maternity leave. Unfortunately is very common nowadays that women will have their first child after the age of 35 (actually more towards the age of 40).
I'm very happy to hear german man are very good and engaged father's, i would love it to be true all over the world 😉
Don't underestimate the value of a proper sex education that doesn't neglect the fact that sex can be fun for men and women if you are respectful with each other. When dating goes beyond sexual interest, it is way easier to be serious and honest with each other.
And I love how Germans are slowly dying out because of it
My husband is Austrian and I remember that stare! I asked him straight up why he was staring and he told me "so you know I'm interested" And I've had that haircut conversation as well haha.
I’m glad you have such wonderful experiences with German men and that you were so lucky with your husband. However, I just want to highlight that you rate German men that were obviously husband material as you and your friends married these men. I am a German single and must say that I have dated many German men that were not honest or father/husband material. I don’t think you can rate dating German men in general, but it seems like you were really lucky.
As the male part on this side I would argue that it might has to do with what you are looking for as well. See you have basically 3 types of mens 1st the players which are basically childs stuck in puberty and searching for trophies rather than an equal relationship. Those are mostly the ones that prefer to be in the middle of the party and honestly more likely to attract women therefore. Be aware of them please lots of scumbags are in this group as well.
As we speak about childs there is the 2nd group mens that are not all grown up in some aspects ( i have to include me here too) This group is basically stuck between the missing experience of a relationship and their own wishes for life. I wouldn't say we are selfish but we have some issues to understand the needs of our partners and deal often with a lot of our own problems first. I'm not the best father to my daughter nor I'm the most reliable partner for my girlfriend in some aspects (I'm often late, have not much time for her ,because of my work situations and the time we spend together is not feeling like beeing together then but more like sitting in the same room dealing with our own thoughts and the main reason to meet each other is the need for something like money or going shopping or visiting family .....) This might be frustrating and this type of men is not suited to be the partner you dream off but overall it is not like they want to disappoint you they are just the way they are. Honest but also overwhelmed. My girlfriend and I are living in the same house in 2 different flats we both have work with bad working times so we see each other like once or twice a week only and I often spend more time with her mother and grandmother which are basically raising our daughter most of the time then I can spend time with her and because of this whole situation there is little news and a lot of more of the same when we finally meet. I myself would wish that she tells me what she actually wants to do so we could do it and it is basically what partner shouldn't be afraid of talking about with the 2nd group of men.
the 3rd type of men is basically what is spoken off in this video or as you say it the husband material type ^^
The main reason why we are not so active in showing our interest might actually be that we are afraid of getting a "korb" as it is not just that we feel miserable ourselfs because of it but it is actually making the whole atmosphere weird. It is basically like the idea of your best friend relationships getting awkward the moment one talks about their feeling for you and you do not share them in the same way. Despite that as much as most women like to hear compliments it also has this bad taste of a macho if mens are doing the first step too.
Speaking as a man myself I would wish that women learn to understand what problems we have with relationships at all and instead of avoiding our questions with small talk chatter how important it would be for us to be told what you expect from us rather than letting us figure it out and pissing you of because you getting frustrated about us ;)
@@kirasternenfeuer6198 thank you so much for your very open response. The way you replied makes me think of you as a pretty mature guy as you seem to reflect on the situation a lot. You said you would belong to the childish type of men, but here you are reflecting on mankind and why they behave the way they do and even putting on words what you (and probably also many other men) need. Thank you so much.
I know to avoid the first type of men for sure as these guys are neither attractive to me nor would I waste my time like that. I often met the second type of men which was scared when I mentioned I want kids and a family. It felt to me like this type of men is probably the biggest group so it’s hard to find the husband material type of men that are ready for a serious relationship and maybe kids.
I will try to improve also my communication skills to help men know what I would like in a relationship. Let’s hope that doesn’t scare them away ;)
Hey I'm kinda interested in finding love...
@@kirasternenfeuer6198 Hey stern you seem to have a positive perspective as regards German men....Really interested in finding love here....
No. As a german man, living in the US for approx 4 generations, we are just more comfortable with our masculinity. We wait to see what is what and how we might approach the things we want in life. It's not complicated. We just know when the time is right.
Oh, I fully agree. My boyfriend, Jan, (yes that's his name to those who don't know guys are named that in Germany) is brutally honest with me and loves me completely and fully even though I'm much older than him. (He's 26 I'm 45)
Thank you! I'll take it as a compliment (i think...)
Sounds like my Jörgy ❤️
We share all the household chores. I feel so equal with him too, no gender roles
liked this! being time diff i got notification 2am
Hello lady ,how are you doing and l was just going Thur website hoping to meet someone nice and l came across your profile and l decided to say hi ❤
You are right ❤
Thanks for accepting and explaining the point of our "typical german (sometimes brutal and rude called) honesty".
It's really a thing I mentioned is often misunderstood.
Of course not everyone in germany acts like that, but you will meet more people like that, than smalltalk professionals sugarcoating everything. 😆
Really I guess I find your opinion cool
I was think that video over 10+ ..... I was totally agreed with you. But this 10 yrs really changed a lot ...
It’s always my dream to marry a Germany 🇩🇪 man
Me too 😂
GOT MY GERMAN THANK GOD!
So if a German man is flirting on you, is that bullshit or it's just because he likes you so much?
I'm American and my fiance is German what do I do when talk about his feeling to me and conversation when deeper
The not giving clear signs part drives us german women crazy :D It is really frustrating most of the time... I often feel like they are scared of "getting a Korb" :D
As a foreigner who moved to Germany 5years ago, I’ve also found that I rather approach or give a girl clearer signs outside Germany than in Germany. In other countries, if a girl is uninterested in you, they turn you down softly and nicely. But german girls are really rude with their rejections. So naturally I need a stronger internal push to approach a girl in Germany and risk being insulted. Of course if she’s interested in you, then it’s all fine but how do you know she is, if you don’t flirt or approach? It’s an annoying cultural difference
I think you described all Germans not just men.
I think my boyfriend copied his way of flirting from his American father. We met on the internet and we were going to meet and he was like "Hey, I could come over tomorrow!" and 12 hours later I picked him up from the train station and even though he's quite introverted, he flirted with me very directly and it totally threw me. I wasn't even remotely used to that. Well, it will be nine years ago on the 20th of December and we're still together, so he was pretty successful with that. 😂
Are you married now?
I'll have to look up "flirting" in the dictionary, because I've no idea what it in German.
I have a question I'm engaged with German man and he don't hold back his feeling and he say be by my side and he say I'm stubborn and he need me
And what is the question?
This is so accurate about my german husband omg
No obvious sign of interest - is a lot of interest ;o). you will get used to it and will tell the difference between "no interest" an no interest at all
I'm impressed by the video. the only German guy I met was a guy from couchsurfing, my host, 22 years old. He was very flirting and such a party boy(was into night clubs and that kind of stuff). I didn't expect to hear that there are many nice men like you described!
is flirting and clubbing a bad thing?
@@TheMntnG of course no. There was some other things I didn't mention. Tried to put it softly 😀
Asking me to bring illegal p_lls to the inside of the club, for instance. "I'm not asking you, just saying you're doing that. If you don't, I won't go". Quite pushy.
He didn't go cuz I wasn't gonna help out with that.
Also I didn't mention that I stayed at his place with my bf and flirting was kinda not the right thing.
@@djgonpet Sounds to me as you've met the usual asshole. They are out there. Everywhere, all over the world. But taking that as a hint for ''the average guy'' would be pretty random I'd guess. But admittedly it is always the one character in front of you with whom you have to interact in the end. For the good or the bad.
@@der7tezwerg921 yeah, I got it from the very beginning heh. We moved out to a hostel.
Never took that guy as an example of an average German guy! No way.
I didn't think much what an average German is like, just had that experience and then heard from Antoinette how reliable Germans are.
German men are too honest that makes you sad. And they don't show any interest in the women they are married. They are just independent and focused on their own life. It's the most tiring thing to be married a German man... 😒
I‘m married to a German man and he is wonderful, even after ten years of marriage. When a woman is unwanted by her own husband, she should ask herself what part she has played in changing the man who once cared enough to marry her.
German men are very good fathers because they feed and change the diaper as if it were the most normal thing in the world, even they let their work be work to enjoy the time with their children. I have not seen that from Australian, New Zealand or American men!
We German men watch the woman we find interesting and don't stare! We Germans generally test and wait before we mean business, so it really becomes real when we trust the other person! Then you’re on the cheek for a lifetime.
Meine Worte..
Nur, daß du's besser ausgedrückt hast!
Vater sein ist doch toll! Ich durfte bei meiner 2. Tochter die Nabelschnur durchschneiden! Werd' ich nie vergessen!
Grüße nach Bentheim
@@tasminoben686 Danke aus der Grafschaft Bentheim (ich selbst lebe in Neuenhaus /Grafschaft Bentheim an der Deutsch/Niederländischen Grenze ).
Finde man kann die Kinderbetreuung nicht so generalisieren. Dein Kommentar kommt rüber, als hätten wir hier schon keine typische Rollenverteilung mehr in Deutschland und als gäbe es keinen Handlungsbedarf mehr. Und als ob alle deutschen Männer gleich wären. Nach wie vor kümmern sich statistisch eher die Frauen um die Kinderbetreuung. Und traurig zu sehen, dass es sowas krasses ist, dass Männer Mal Windeln wechseln. Sie sind gute Väter WOW :o weil sie Mal ihrem eigenen Kind die Windeln wechseln. Sorry da kann ich nur müde lächeln im Vergleich zu dem was Mütter machen. Ich bin ehrlich erschrocken, dass es in anderen Ländern noch altbackener hergehen soll, da ich dachte Deutschland ist schon mega hinterher mit dem super veralteten Bild: Männer=Arbeitende; Frauen=Kinderbetreuende. Im Jahr 2021 sollte das nicht mehr erwähnt werden, dass Väter sogar Windeln wechseln.
@@anikaschneider2611 die Brust kann ich noch nicht geben aber wer weiß was die Zukunft bringt ! Natürlich mach ich nebenbei den Haushalt und kümmere mich um meine Kinder . Weiß nicht was dir wiederfahren ist aber es scheint das du das nicht mit deinem Partner erleben kannst , darfst ?
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Mhhh I don’t agree with the flirting. I think it depends more on the character and your husband was maybe just shy 😂 why you say german women are intimidating you? Of course we want to flirt …but not with someone who isn’t our type!
I'm a German man, but nobody wants me :'(
I am a German man and I don't want anybody. I am totally happy with myself and a few hand-selected, low-maintanaince friends.:-)
I want you 😂
😢😢😢 god provide u hun
Agree
Am looking for a friend in germany
Germany is located in the center of Europe and 25% of the population has a migration background. In this melting pot of cultures, it is impossible to speak of typical German behavior. This is especially true for the generation
Good morning Antoinette,
What I know from the part of our family living in Poland is, that family means a lot to them. Family is important and everyone cares about the others. When went to a dinner or lunch it meant a lot to them, they prepared always so much food and took there time to enjoy everything together as a family. It was always such a joy to visit them. A German with polish root's is definitely a good mix, they are correct, honest and heartwarming when you know them better.
Dad's caring more about their kid's and like to be a real father is something that changed in a positive way over the last 50 years step by step and that's just wonderful. Education and contact to people from other countries is something very important in that case.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts and to be honest, your jeans jacket is really cool. ☺️
Again Ana Luisa 😊😊😊
Married to a Silesian! ;)
Hi Antoinette, in addition to your great videos, I would recommend to display "advertising / Werbesendung" or similar to your videos to avoid any legal issues (Abmahnung) when making paid advertisements for your sponsors....
Am Anfang des Videos war bei mir ein Hinweis darauf, dass das Video bezahlte Werbung enthält. 🤷🏻♀️
@@Zuckerwaffel27 stimmt, die kurze Einblendung ist mir vorhin gar nicht aufgefallen.
now Tinder has to pay you for making people interested :DD
Do you live in Berlin?
@@samkobby3567 I have visited Berlin, but no, I don't live in Germany, I live in Ukraine. Why? :)
Ho lord I need a German man
Nice vid yeah from my View I hate this called " Games" its childish from my View some women do that here i think not many mens like that. Honesty yeah some do it but also many Not cause of .. political View many ask how are you but theyre Not interested in the answer its so called Fake social or Fake emotions/questions whatever. I dont Like Fake emotions so much (it feels Sometimes better but with the truth you live and learn better)
My friend told me German guys don’t treat the women with respect ✊The girl was from Germany 🇩🇪 that’s why she ended up dating my American 🇺🇸 friend 😮USA#1😅
🇦🇹❤🇩🇪 God bless Germany 🇩🇪
F america
I‘m married to a German man. He is very caring and respectful, as many German men are. The thing is that they are like this to THEIR woman whom they find worth it, and not just to every person that just so happens to be female. I used to live overseas, and I never liked the superficial false chivalry of American men. I rather have a husband who will give me the world, than a boyfriend who holds doors for every girl he meets.
@5:30 Okay, so if you want a woman and not a fake man, go Asian or go kiwi. 😊
Can you do the same for woman.
She probably never dated a German woman
wow... what a woman at 2:37! Klar das dein Mann dich nicht wieder vergessen konnte!
why do you often (mockingly) say “strong independent woman”, but never “strong independent man”?
It's not a sign of respect. We're just waiting for you to show your true feminine desires. Why approach someone you know will reject everything that approaches? It's not difficult. We've simply figured out the calculation of when you women have said to yourselves that the time is right. lol
You live in Germany... so it's not a surprise that you and your friends are married to Germans. ... Anyway.
are German man not boring ?
If you are a smalltalker and gossip person, than yes we are
are u dutch
... in a good way! 😜
Great video! :)
PS: I'm an awesome (super mega) man - trust me! ^.^
PPS: Please, Don't trust me - End!
Yes, when a German guy tells you you were adequately attractive, you should take it and run. It's the greatest compliment he can make. ;-)
It's the inner Vulcan in us. Why do you think Spock was so much more liked here than his pompous captain. One follows reason and has a dry humor, the other is the hollow nice-talker who only wants to satisfy his own animalistic impulses.
But better don't idolize German men. There are enough Zap Brannigans around...
Take care!
hahahahahaha Of course the Germans do remind me a bit of the Borg.
We all be humans! The differents are only in our Brains! I lived for a long time in the USA and I have so many friends from all over the World! Your Video is interesting but not good for relationships from Poeple! Bye and all the best!
Hello handsome,how are you doing and l was just going Thur website hoping to meet someone nice and l came across your profile and l decided to say hi ❤
💓 Man muss es aber den Vätern auch ermöglichen ihren 50/50 Job zu erfüllen ! Z.B. mit Wickel-Möglichkeiten auf öffentlichen Toiletten … 💓
I disagree with your statement that in Germany everything is 50/50 and women and men are equal. To be honest I am a bit shocked that you see it that way.
Maybe it's better than in NZ, I have no clue, as I don't live there.
But statistics say different than this 50/50 statement! Women take much more time off work for children. They are most likely the ones who will raise the kids. That's also one reason why they don't earn as much as men! Part time work is a "killer" for higher paid jobs.
Also many employer think that a woman could leave work for kids, which is the reason why they will prefer a man for the position. Women will be told thinks like: Teacher is a perfect job for women because you can leave it for 3 years and come back. Wtf, nobody tells men this shit. If a man leaves his job for "Elternzeit" (parental leave??) He will get so many comments like: " oh wow such a good and loving father!" But for women it's normal and if they don't do it they are a "Rabenmutter".
Things get better, but it's not Equal, I could go on and write a book about it. Feminism is still very needed, also in Germany!
Also I have to add: Within Europe Germany is very much behind. Women stay at home so much more than men. There are statistics about it and in other countries it is much more even. Also if you look at salaries. In Germany almost always men are the ones who earn more. The topics are very related.
And also as a last comment: Women do still about 70 Percent or so of household work. Not 50/50 if you look at statistics
I agree. To say that "German men are great fathers" is very generalized and just not true. Of course there are great German fathers, but there are so many who are not. I think it's a very naive point of view based on her own husband. 50% of fathers don't pay child support, so how could that be true?
I think women like you are the reason why Antoinette has the impression german men are afraid of women...
and i'm very sorry for you obviously not to have made positive experiences with german men
@@eagle1de227 Gute Besserung
Us Austrian guys are even better 😉
😊😊 talk about coz am looking for one
@@ritahk2615 where you at? 😉
Kenya peter koller☺,
@@ritahk2615 that would be a long commute for a date...
Yes Peter, that's where the world has put us, we have the globe in our hands,distance ain't a barrier😊
Schade dass Ana Luisa bei Black Friday mitmacht. Nachhaltigkeit und Black Friday sind meiner Meinung nach ein Widerspruch in sich. Wer nachhaltig kauft, kauft nicht in Massen, sondern wenn er wirklich was möchte. My 2 cents
Danke Antoinette.. Ertappt! 🥲
Es ist nicht nur der Respekt, warum ich nicht zuviel Interesse an einer Frau zeige. Es ist auch die Angst, von ihr einen Korb zu bekommen. Und das wäre oberpeinlich! Also lieber etwas länger beobachten, bevor ich sie ganz vorsichtig 'anbagger! 🤓🥰
LG von der Elbe Ben
Sehr Deutsch geantwortet mein Freund aber tatsächlich wahr !
Tja, aber irgendwann mußt Du das Risiko eingehen. Mein Mann hat keinen Korb bekommen und wir sind nun schon 41 Jahre zusammen😊
*winkt
Nur Mut, Ben !
@@nordwestbeiwest1899 😎👍🏻