MY AUTHENTIC SELF GETS ME REJECTED

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  • Опубліковано 8 лип 2024
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    MY AUTHENTIC SELF GETS ME REJECTED - many people are afraid to be 100% authentic because as children that made them loss the most important connection. This is an inner child wound that needs to be upgraded. This is the fear that leads to self abandonment. We do to our inner child what was done to us as a child.
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 37

  • @nicktaber2969
    @nicktaber2969 4 місяці тому +20

    I honestly wonder how many kids labeled as "bipolar" just felt all emotions more strongly. Not saying every case is BS, but I bet some were.

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  4 місяці тому +4

      100% with parents who emotionally avoided or invalidated

    • @user-cn7fc2se5k
      @user-cn7fc2se5k 4 місяці тому

      @@CandacevanDell straight up truth ... been there , done that , both myself and also my son ... yea i got live with that .....

    • @Joroco-
      @Joroco- 4 місяці тому +2

      Yes very true I see that al the fine with enneagram type 4’s nothing bipolar about then, just intense emotional stamina!

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  4 місяці тому +3

      @@Joroco- society likes to label things that are not “usual” normally this means special haha

    • @Joroco-
      @Joroco- 4 місяці тому +1

      That reminds me. Many years ago my Psychotheraphist at the time said I was special, but no more special then anyone else, I’m not sure if it was a compliment or not!😂

  • @btlfilmmedia9514
    @btlfilmmedia9514 4 місяці тому +9

    If you're being yourself decent people won't be triggered by you only people with issues get offended ..Thats when you learn to choose your company and set boundaries or just move on

  • @RondaNelson-ff2il
    @RondaNelson-ff2il 3 місяці тому +1

    Those words made me cry 😢 … such truth! “You. Are. Too. Sensitive… “ I was told: why can’t you handle me saying the truth… right!!? However that truth for them… was “ their truth” … not really truth at all…as it always pointed toward what I did wrong. Not fact… but their belief about who I was…I get it now… it was such BS … but the H. U. R. T. Is still there. 😢
    Time to heal
    Too much energy lost
    ❤ thank you

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  3 місяці тому

      Sounds like you were the scapegoat!! It’s the most painful experience ever!!!! Sending 🤍🤍❤️❤️You got this!?

  • @Stanley-xc4yc
    @Stanley-xc4yc 4 місяці тому +2

    Rejection is redirection 😊

  • @nehemilia5033
    @nehemilia5033 4 місяці тому +3

    Exactly we simply here that we are the problèm we dont look st the people calling us à problèm

  • @carlypastore
    @carlypastore 4 місяці тому +5

    “Be the bestie that you need” 🤗☺️ Thank you Candace!

  • @nehemilia5033
    @nehemilia5033 2 місяці тому

    Highly sensitive people.oh my goodness

  • @rosiemac2538
    @rosiemac2538 4 місяці тому +1

    We're a rare breed 😅
    We process deeply and have quick thinking minds

  • @nehemilia5033
    @nehemilia5033 4 місяці тому +2

    I feel alone because i have rejected myself. Whoaaa never ever saw it like that. Stop waiting for people to treat you the way you want to be treated to feel loved and deserving. Start treating yourself the way you want to be treated. Simples définition of self love. Treat yourself the way you want others to treat you.

  • @momione11
    @momione11 4 місяці тому +3

    Thank you. When I said stop and no from my insides, I was called fucking disgusting and fat. Even though my energy was disgusting. I see now that when I said stop, there was actually something. Has it been disputed. That's where I shut myself down myself.Started believing in them instead of myself.And started doubting myself.And felt crazy.No more ever.

  • @nehemilia5033
    @nehemilia5033 4 місяці тому +1

    I might be out of shame, late disorganised and i still love myself

  • @stephaniemthoma
    @stephaniemthoma 4 місяці тому +3

    I just watched this 3x in a row to let it sink in. In a period of really standing in my worth and people having strong reactions, and willing myself to focus on those who don't bat an eye or WANT to understand. It can feel like a tunnel without an end but holding the faith. My concern is when the incubation phase becomes longer than is healthy.

    • @CandacevanDell
      @CandacevanDell  4 місяці тому

      Yes! Ask yourself what is blocking true connections. Are you holding yourself somewhere your soul does not belong?

  • @dv52528
    @dv52528 4 місяці тому +4

    Self validation, yes!!!!!!❤
    Right timing. Thank you !

  • @1999Chelsea
    @1999Chelsea Місяць тому

    I donno
    I’ve been alone a long long time
    This is an extensive incubation period

  • @hannahelizabethdesveaux
    @hannahelizabethdesveaux 4 місяці тому +1

    please stop them. please let me be free. please let me go

  • @blankearth5840
    @blankearth5840 4 місяці тому

    I come from a toxic and psychologically abusive relationship with my father who was a narcissist, I was homeless with him for a very long time, I escaped that and went to go be with extended family that found me on the internet, but what seemed like a gift from god just turned into something that completely hurt me, I was only with them for 3 months because of how difficult they were to live with, and how conditional their love and regard was towards me, it’s just bloody unfair to me how my brother got to have what they called a “privileged life” while my upbringing pretty much got robbed and that it’s something no kid should ever have to have gone through. Yet, people on the internet and even one of my friends invalidates me and tells me “why should they love you” and “oh it’s because they raised your brother and not you why do you think you deserve everything your brother always gotten.” …but to me it’s just really unfair.😔

  • @VickyLicursi-Jani
    @VickyLicursi-Jani 4 місяці тому +1

    Thank you 😘

  • @MindGymMeditations
    @MindGymMeditations 2 місяці тому

    Powerful

  • @nehemilia5033
    @nehemilia5033 4 місяці тому

    Focus on yourself and allow God to do the rest.

  • @yougotgroove
    @yougotgroove 4 місяці тому

    emotionally unavailable... I am trying to forget about my DA ex gf.... I am 59 now, 3 1/2 invested.... She's unaccountable and abusive, friendzoning me like her ex partners (one a good friend apparently)
    I need to kill my ego.....Help!!!! She expects me when ever she wants.
    I am seriously thinking of finding a rebound and being upfront it would be short term...
    That would blow up the bridge...
    But I could never follow through with that.
    Sort of stuck!!