Your baby looks so Thin
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- Опубліковано 15 вер 2024
- Double tap if you agree. My son is two now but over the last two years I hear these comment about him being thin over and over.
Can you relate mommy?
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Exactly my inner feeling when relatives talk about my toddler's weight
Me too...
Me too
They'll talk continuously till they grow and goes to school then they will forget 😂😂
Do you know everything about bringing up a baby? Don’t be oversmart!
Same here
Iam a doctor and I too faced this situation regarding my baby ..as long as the baby is active and reaching his milestones..no need to worry
Same here..im also a paediatric doctor but my inlaws always say that she dont knw anything..her babies are weak. Breast milk is not enough..give ur babies this and that..etc
Im also facing the same issue
My nephew as well looks so thin n the pple gv a comment that mother n her are just the opposite in size....but they shut their mouth when they held him in their arms...heavy....fully active healthy n eats all kinds of food
Iam also facing same issue
I am also facing same issue
Exactly the same thing happening with my baby now...he is thin..but he is active and sharp...i dnt understand why people think Babies should be chubby or fat...why dnt people accept a baby as it is!
age ke hisap se weight hona chahiye... otherwise some kids suffer from malnutrition and In India this no is so huge.. so don't ignore it
@@pampymalakar3343
Aisa kuch nahi hai mera baby age ke hisab se 1kg kam hai par fir bhi wo etana active hai or abhi 10 month ka hai or usane chalna bhi Sikh liya hai or wahi mere friend ka baby 16 month ka hai or uska weight bhi bhot jyada hai abhi tak wo khada bhi nahi ho pata hai thik se
I was even born a lil under weight and when I was 3 months I weigh lighter than my age but My mom says that I was very active and from 5th month my weight was going ok.
Hi my baby is 2 yrs old , am also facing the same issue.
When my son was born, everyone commented he is thin,not cute..he turned 2 years old for now.he is active energetic and handsome prince to me
age ke hisap se weight hona chahiye... otherwise some kids suffer from malnutrition and In India this no is so huge.. so don't ignore it
It's a sad thing that people even bodyshame a baby
Yes totally true, people like chubby kids even if they are overweight... How shameful world, each and every kid should be loved desperate of their body and talking about body, if the baby is healthy, it's enough...
@@pampymalakar3343sabhi bache ni ho paate. Zabardasti kyu kare...us chakkar mn bache ki lyf kyu kharab karein, apne bacho par focus karna chahiye. Thankgod, hum dusro k bache ki maa ko muft gyan ni dete ❤❤
I too faced the same issue. My child always looked thin. But she met all her milestones and is 10 years old now and a class topper.. i m happy the way she is.. 😊
Waoo congratulations for your child
My baby is 11 month and I am facing this issue....in law says kaisi maaa hai bhar gudi ka butru ni hai sab ka deakho. Bhar gudi ka bacha hai...sirf tum moti ho ye ja rahi...
My baby is 11 month old and past 2 month se his weight is stuck to 8 kg .....from 3 days started dry Fruits halwa
Same here... My daughter is thin but is sharp in studies and sports
An irritating question "ne sapadu kudukarathu illaya payanuku"..will a mother do like dat? Without feeding her own kid😠
Same🤷🤷 questions tha kekaranga yellarum
Very true
Only people with no mind will question us like that
100% true
Can you translate please
Craziest part is..these things are being said by another mother(who have also gone through this comments) ...How can a mother comment like this...Women Vs Women 😭
Exactly
Very true
Woman is the worst enemy for another woman...
Seriously
Agree....many are poor students, despite own life's experience they won't learn and bring change in them
Comparing our kids to SILs kids is the most irritating part
My MIL did same thing..she said my SIL daughter looks better than my daughter..I just can't take those words out from my head..
@@pinkypriya9935 even my MIL will always point out that my sister in law's kids are born talented. Especially when the comparison starts. Mine is just 3yr old and they are into high school now.
Almost all are so relatable.... I am not sure where all it starts, but since from the day mother give birth to a baby, all of a sudden everyone starts suggestions, advices, hold this way that way, color, weight, comparison.. OMG one of the biggest battle I am going through is comparing my child and myself with so and so..... OMG.
Exactly. What we will complain about others. In our house there are many people like that. Especially laws
Me too Yar...very sad
About gender is also a big issue🙏
So true my sasuma also says that my baby is so dark..😔
There is a difference between giving suggestions and blaming.People blame for everything and when we raise voice they cover it up as if they are giving suggestions.
It's so relatable, I feel so sad.. When they compare my baby with others😭
This world has gotten so toxic people even judge an innocent baby
Same feeling
Don't care about what other people say🙌...
As long as the child is active and gaining the nutrients he requires that's what matters...
May your child grow up to be a happy , smart and strong person 😇
Kasta padathinga ..
Same feeling
Me too facing same situation.
But i am happy that my son is happy healthy and meeting his milestones
🙂
Me too sis
I can much relate to this. Acutually this made my day today. The nextdoor woman keeps on telling me that my baby has not grown up. Even today she commented on that.She even compares my baby with other neighborhood babies. She once told me that I don't have a sufficient milk supply as though she checked it on herself. I wonder how she can say that my babygirl has not grown up just because she is not chubby and fat. She is very active, energitic and meeting up milestones properly. She is a little cute girl. And I am thankful for this video that it really helped regain my mood. 😘
To be reassured just see how your child's growth is trending at your pediatrician’s office. That's what really matter. A child’s physique is also dependent on genetic factors and not nutrition alone. If their growth is faltering over a period of time it's concerning but if they tend to grow along their growth curves it's perfectly normal.
Aaaaahh! THIS! They said I'm not feeding my baby enough. MIL would bottle feed them more than necessary and they would throw up. And she would blame me for that as well - "You should've given 120 ml to begin with. They threw up because you gave it in two 60 ml installments." Like really? They could only have 60 ml. Not more than that at a time, you fed them twice the amount. What do you expect?!
Exactly
Your videos really touches my heart mam...... Your bringing on going situations in life... Thanks for your support and encouragement.. Sometimes we new moms getting confused with many unwanted advises...
Yes this is also every mother faced who has thin baby.... I really like ur videos it's so connected to real life
Totally agree.. I'm still facing these things. Weight of baby doesn't matter if he is healthy, active. So please don't judge mother based on babies weight. Every mother is unique. Don't think if babies are thin they are unhealthy
Am also facing that problem in my motherin law house it's too uneasy to hear
So true . Mai to bol deti hu meri beti ekdum theek hai , apna gyan apne paas rakho 😅
Man to yhi krta h aisa hi jawab dya jae pr sharafat rok deti h ki chlo ignore kr do
Your baby looks strong, healthy, and beautiful! Obesity does NOT = health! Old relatives pressure young mothers to fatten their babies all the time. KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING!
Iam also faced the same comments towards my daughter who born in 7th month. But she is hiper active and she is nw 3yrs old. Iam happy nd proud of my daughter.
U go mamma❤️❤️❤️its after tonnes of patience that I have acquired selective listening and being deaf to dumb comparisons and suggestions! God bless you n your lil one!
I changed pediatricians because the first one was shaming me because my kids were small (both premature). The second pediatrician was great, she wasn't concerned because they were meeting their milestones. All kids are different, as long as they are thriving it's all good.
I'm 15 days old mom.. my baby's birth weight was 2.9kgs.. After all check up Dr said he's healthy and i got discharged from hospital.. PPL around are like he's so small that's y you were able to deliver him vaginally.. whatever it is PPL are already ready to comment on someone's baby, pregnancy, delivery, postpartum and so on..
2.9 kg is close to 3kg. It's indeed hard to go for vaginal. Especially for first borns. Don't take their words. You re strong. My son was 2.6 yet i couldn't do it vaginally.
@@januari6550 my baby weight 2.5 same I couldn’t do it vaginally ppl same comment he is so thin and ur breast milk not enough for him so I started formula milk with breast milk … can anyone suggest me that’s ok or not plz
@@amnamazhar8785 of course that's okay. But check with the doctor first. How do you know your breastmilk is not enough first? Ask yourself. Is the baby shows no weight gain or any weight loss. Seek the medical help first. Because family around you constantly tell you your milk is not enough all the time. My mil and grandma always say that yet i was able to breastfeed my child till now without formula.
My baby is one month old and his birth weight was 2.75 kg. It is not under weight but he is very tiny. My sister in law's baby was 2.6 kg. But he was chubby. My MIL is forgetting that fact and always telling my baby is very small because I didn't eat much while pregnant.
It happens to me also why they compare one child with another, every kid is different in their own way
Truth
Everyone is saying my son like this only but he is too strong active and healthy
totally relatable.... n j just don't understand y people r always in the habit of comparing when evry individual is unique
You are exactly reciprocating my sentiments!!
Even i faced this problem. People comment and compared my child with other babies though my child was healthy. But As mother it is our responsibility to give a lot of love to our child so that the child grows healthily🤗☺️
When ever feel about my baby’s weight ur video jst calm my mind thanx a lot mam
Going through comment session. thanks for a lovely video as many moms could vent out here. I'm a mom of 3 boys too. Plus side mommies, now we all know what not to comment or opine to our Daughter in laws
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Let’s see what she says to her sons and daughters-in-law when time comes.
@@pu7396 you don’t have to wait so long, here would be our reply to our sons and DIL’s , to shut your ears to ppl around you and call us for help as a last resort coz v r busy enjoying our life 😂😂, The choice is always ours, either to be the Change or shadow your MIL.
@@himaselvan7682 I thought she was the 1 bragging about some generation MILs but you took it personally 🤪
did yu just think that the content maker was bragging and I tuk your comment personally, lol 😂, no more comments.
@@himaselvan7682 There is nothing to THINK about there🤣 because in every video of hers she only keeps bitching about in-laws and the 2nd thing you did write WE would teach this and that to OUR kids, I wonder what you call that…..
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And also meeting his milestones too..
very important one to note that now a days..
Ur little baby is really very cute n being a mother u know what's best for ur child... Baby is perfect.. god bless him with happiness n good health...
Mera baby v 2years ho geya but thin hai.... But bohot active hai..... May v bohot happy hu...jo v hai jese v hai apna baby world ka best baby hai.. Aapne baby se badhkar koi nahi
Yes , mother in law is always said that your baby is thin compared with sister in law baby ,irritating thinking
My situation is the same ....but my baby is more intelligent social,strong...so,the weight is negligible measurement for my case...
Same situation, so sad to hear the comparison it's making me irritated
Exactly me also faced & facing too
Relatable
Can I say something ur videos often i ll keep as status bcoz all things are undergoing as a mom but feel light by seeing ur videos and it's useful..... Thanks for your videos it's really useful for me especially to tell my feelings
Child is healthy and that is enough🙏God Bless
I'm facing the same. My son is not a chubby baby. My husband and I are both slim built. Our son is meeting all his milestones some even faster than his peers. He is not sick. Very active and curious but some people make me feel like a horrible mother for not having a fat baby. Thanks for this video. Your baby is very cute.
Sending virtual hugs to you... I needed to see this video and all the other mothers relating to this sentiment! My MIL asked me how much I am feeding my 6 month old son in an interrogating manner, and my own mom said that he is "underfed"! On top of that, my brother asked if I feed my baby! I am his mother! What kind of mother does not feed her baby?! My son is gaining weight steadily, and most importantly he is within the normal window of his growth chart. On top of that, he is meeting all his milestones. He may not be a chubby baby now , but to me he is the most handsome little prince!
I m also facing same 😒 but i dnt care wht others feel... 🥰
Thank you
I was wondering just before seeing this shorts with the same issue
Now i am happy and clear
Same situation I'm facing right now... But whatever it is I don't care what others say.... My baby is smart, happy, healthy and active. So I don't listen to what others say about my baby... He is my prince.
They won't think about how the mother's feeling will be when they commenting... its too hard situation... good content you're sharing sis... i immediately shared this shorts to my mom first. She is the number 1 ratchashi always saying this...
Your baby looks healthy and well fed. And he's cute too. Don't mind what others says they are jealous of you, all baby's aren't same. Some might be chubby but don't have weight. You are a good mother and ur baby is lucky to have u as his mom. God bless u and ur family❤❤❤
Feeling happy after watch this video
Exactly happening this.After watching ur video i feel relaxed and motivated.
My first born was like that but she's healthy and strong 💪
Yes your true I faced this situation baby walked in 8th month she reached all her milestones before her age , weight and height also In WHO normal range but I faced so much of torture if husband behaves like a matured man that wife lucky otherwise wife faces so much of problem from inlaws at the same time he also behave like his mother
Yes right my hubby nd my inlaws same situation
He is sooo cute
Personally for motivate you he is really very cute
All are equal in the eyes of mom and dad 💞💞🤍🤍🤍🖤🖤🖤😍😍
It's very relatable to me also.... As my baby grow up he started gaining less weight because he was highly active, doctors also said it's normal in babies but for other people it's not and they passed such comments for my baby... It's so irritating
So relatable I'm also facing these type of comments on my baby.
its so much relatable. u r doing best for ur child.
every child is different.For God seek plz understand that simple thing.
My baby's birth weight was 3.2 kg but he was not plum. Each n everyday I used to hear these words from my in laws side.। Just because my sil son was plum.। People irritate u so much n without reason wants u to be in stress all the time 😢
I m also frustrated 😢... every time relatives and out siders are gossiping.
Exactly my baby also like , but very active, and healthy.I am happy for that.
Let the child be he looks very happy and loved 🥰
Me too facing the same problem sister
I had what ppl would say skinny baby and ppl always commented how tiny she is and I will get really insecure. She actually learned how to walk early and just a happy baby. She is now 9yrs old and champion in gymnastics in our area. Her coach said she is strong. God created all of us into different shapes and sizes. My daughter is perfect the way she is. May this be an encouragement to mommas out there that don't have chubby babies... your baby is perfect the way she/he is ❤
Yes....no one should talk about baby appearance....He\she is precious for mother as well as father
Mbbs doctors se bade hamari society ke self proclaimed doctors hain bhai.... inhone humse pehle bache pale hain... inko nahi importance dnge to kaise chalega? Hum to is world ke liye alien hain na .... bhalehi bacha humne paida kiya ho usko pyar aur uska khayal humse zyada society wale rakhte hain ... free gyan dena to inka arman hai ...
Some people say weak instead of thin and that makes me even more angry!
Fun fact is, relatives keep talking for their inner satisfaction,
My child has always been a big boy, he was 8.5kg at 6 months, still they used to say he is so thin 😂
He was born 4.01kg and they used to say he is so thin 🤣🤣🤣
They don’t even know what they talk.
So relatable. Sometimes baby is very thin sometimes ohh she has become so chubby. Reduce her diet.
It is all relatable but I am positive and happy the way she is growing ☺️
Exactly... Faced same thing but I'm very happy with my daughter.. she is more active energetic cute .. n reached all milestones
yes u r right , i faced this types of comments
Its so true😢but for a mother her child will always be remain special one no matter how is he/she❤
Its true.. Every one expect baby to be chubby always..and asking silly questions won't you feed your baby😒. Checking whether the baby is fair as soon as born.
True sister I was also irrited when my son was small and he was looking so thin but he was very active.
Ur baby is so cute !
True but Inner side every mother wants her baby chubby chubby...
This is so true...I also had to give justification to many regarding my daughter...funniest thing is some elder relatives don't note that her dad was also not chubby so it may be just genetic...!
Your every video is relatable to my life🙂
I got this comment soamy times.
So true.....as long as baby is not thin due to hunger thn it's ok.....genetic matters....
Its not good to starve the child....
But if the baby is full and still thin thn it's just his body type and no need to worry......
But of ourse thin due to malnutrition is different
Agree, I don't know why people always do body shaming😠
Really it is so relatable,,even I am also facing same questions about my baby..but I am sure my baby is so active
Don't worry about society thought,, my baby is also very thin in her childhood but she is so cute I love her a lot ❤❤❤
My baby is pre mature and her birth weight was 900 gms only . She is 2 now but not chubby . Inam happy that she is active and has a very very sharp brain.
Tnq for this vedio akka
Exactly my feeling
I faced this now for my toddler
Same scenario here. Rolling tears frm my eyes. Very much relatable. I know my girl is active, energetic and healthy. But others always having probs with her growth. Idk why 😳 even my parents call her balli otrakombu for their fun, but dn care how that will hurt me deeply 🥲🥲🥲
Currently going through this, honestly speaking I hate advices when it comes to feeding my baby, i very much loath it... I'm a new mom bt i like it only when my mother and sister advices me for the first three months later all the new mother's eventually learns everything... It bothered my mental health due to people nagging me everytime they see my baby, and it's still ongoing, if it wasn't for my husband always comforting me...as long as our baby is healthy and active we don't need anyone's advise...!!
Those who care...can't be quie....their experience make them talk to that way.... As this generation turn old will see how calm they are going to be .... without opening their mouth.. may u r much matured.. so many they don't have knowledge..for such these type of suggestions help alot
Exactly...the way all say is actually irritating, we all moms know how to care a baby 🥰
Kitna to pyara hai baby aur kya chahiye baby Mein logo ko 🙏🏼🙏🏼🧿🧿god bless you Bchey 😘🧿
Heyy so ik no one cares about my comment but I still would like to share 👍
Earlier I used to skip you're videos and wasn't exactly intrested in these pregnancy and motherhood videos because I'm still 17 but then this year my sister who's almost 30 now announced that she's pregnant and she decided to stay again with us for a few months so that my mom can help her take care of the baby as it's her first time
Nd she delivered a babygirl in November and it was the sweetest most cutest thing I've ever seen in my life and the happiness of being aunt of undeniable...but the thing is that when my sister's labour pain started her baby was just taking too long to come out and she was extreme pain for almost 12 hours as her cervix was not even 5cm wide yet...she was in an almost death like pain for a freaking 12hrs and the doctor's said that if it takes any longer then that then it will be harmful for the baby as it may affect the baby's heart and result in still birth therefore c section was the only option so my sister delivered through c section and got sick a number of times as the stitches didn't heal properly and she developed an infectious due to which she was hospitalized again after a week of giving birth and on heavy meds. She was not able to breastfeed her baby properly and her milk became a bit harsh on the baby due to all the meds she was taking and and therefore we used to give her the formula milk...also the baby was a bit dark skinned but totally wholesome and cute
Anyways, so as our relative's started to visit and see the baby I noticed all these little comments and remarks they started to make about how c section birth is for women who don't want to feel pain and are weak and how my sister's arrogant for for not feeding the baby her own milk, or how the baby was dark skinned and they went on and on critising my poor sister who almost died while being in labour and hospitalized for weeks after, not able to even meet her own baby and these stupid aunties are coming to our house and insulting us nd just passing a nasty comment without knowing anything and it makes me sick to my core!
Gosh this is just so sick I hope the baby and your sister both are healthy
My mil kept on saying these things and came to a conclusion that apparently my breast milk is not A grade milk
No grade for breast milk...tell her first...
No words for your mil. Only this 🤦♀️
My mil also said this to me that my breastmilk is not good and if any other baby is chubby so she told me his mother milk is good
Tell your MIL, please produce your A grade breast milk if you are an expert and feed my baby as I am not capable of producing it!!
This exactly what I was going through at the time of my both son....khana nahin khilati ho kya thik se was most annoying comment. Thank God touchwood my both son are healthy and handsome .
Dear i agree with u... Please stop this negativity... Ur child is nice and healthy.... Don't compare... Every child is unique ...health .. body shape.... Genetic material... Its the immunity of child which confirms that child is healthy not the chubbiness of the child.
exactly same issues I'm handling.. even though she is gonna turn 2 yrs ...still I'm facing it
sahi kaha apne.... stop comparing children please 🙏🥺.I too faced same....
One big advise to all women out there:
You cannot shut everyone’s mouth, just ignore negativity and focus on good things from comments….. who knows when we become old, even we may comment the same for our grand kids.
Not everyone thinks like u do..... love u sis.....
Thanks for your encouragement.
Breastfed babies are naturally not as fat. It’s better for them. In western countries we have seen the rise in obese babies and obese children. Lot of them use too much formula milk, I think it’s better now though. You’re child is natural and normal. Very lucky, he’s so cute.
You are a miracle ❤️❤️❤️ i have seen all your videos and they all are amazing ... Love you from chhattisgarh 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
I’m facing these questions everyday 🥺
Mee too
Every body saying my child was in black colour.. really am feeling very sad.. i know my daughter queen for me
Literally I went through this and cried alot when ppl compared my kid with other kids weight, all should stop it as it's mental harassment to a new mom.. Hope ppl mentality change
Same feeling ✨
Yes yes yes......how i wish i could.say that out. Exactly my mind voice ......
Say out will hurt and make things bitter. Sometime ignoring would give a solution sis.