Sista Says Society Has Turned Them Into Men
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- Опубліковано 11 вер 2024
- I agree with the Sista wholeheartedly. I see the role reversal of women being men and men being women. These guys want to be taken out on dates, bought gifts, and women to chase them.
I guess white women didn't tell them the end goal of feminism. 🤷
Well said.
Yt women stopped before they got to that point 😂
Right
Exactly, best comment on the board, 50 years into the making,and the black family is destroyed ,well never recover, well done whitey well done.
And BW bought the feminist lie hook, line, and sinker.
THEY CHOSE THAT PATH! NOBODY FORCED ANYTHING ON THEM!
Black men said this back in the 80s. They ignored us.
Truth! Graduated 🎓 high school 🏫 in 84, & its rough ever since...
Yep, I grew up around old school black males, and my grandfather said a man shouldn't even cross his legs when he was sitting down.
I never heard any of my male elders say it, but NONE of them ever crossed their legs. It drives me crazy to see a grown azz man cross his legs.
Doesn’t matter when u got men with polished nails walkin round with their purse and bf in public now
I don't understand why sista cannot comprehend or pickup what we as black men have been saying all along. Now she just figuring this out?! Better late than never.😎
They never listen.
It's bc a man said it. They have been programmed to rebel against whatever we say, even if it makes sense.
Not the brightest group. But plenty of degrees.
Tough times will admit their weakness and society gonna get worse and then accountability will come forth because of those hard times
@@thelegacyofgaming2928a stack of degrees
The result from choosing Pookie over good guys the last 35 years!! You had 100% control!!
More like 50 years!
As for me, I'll continue to love, respect, and help my husband, while he does what he is supposed to do, pay the mortgage and majority since he makes way more than me. I get the "lighter bills".❤
No issues with that. You both are holding one another down in the roles and responsibilities agreed upon. That’s wassup 💪🏾✊🏾
A supportive woman is a good woman. You take care of him and he takes care of you. W
Thats fair. He needs you to stand with him. No one should be able to socially gang up on him because you'll shut it down.
No u either go half or u can go
Men should learn to be alone and get what he need when he need it and keep it pushing. These modern women are insane.
Amen
Facts relationships and families are done get what you need every once in awhile in move along.
Facts
Society got it like this. Go back in time. Women did not act like this!!! We had real culture and class back then!!!
They wanted to be men so bad because they were jealous of men. Now they get their opportunity and trust me, it will fail. They will burn out eventually. We as men, need to be done and go our own way.
Participating in the entire process that was deemed acceptable by the United states as black community is where we should have said NO.
@@carpediem4512 Facts. Semen Retention/NoFap is the way to go. We've got to focus on ourselves, gents.
This is truly a backwards world.
They have defeated mentalities and don’t even realize it. Proud single moms with fatherless kids, proud to live off government, then sad once their kids go to prison or victims in the streets. Proceed to blame men and lonely ever after
It’s what y’all asked for and you got it! Enjoy! 😁
Ummm. Woman turned themselves into men. It wasn't us men doing it.
Most women are raised by single mothers these days and single mothers are typically very masculine which leads their daughters to become just as masculine, and the cycle continues.
Everything is out of order
Society also put down women who don’t care for feminism. Also look down on women who don’t want to do work that are required for men. In some work environments if the boss would see the men that are unreliable, they’ll go to the women.
They hate women who dont care for feminism. I have been through it, you said it.
I've never seen that...
@@poetryrhymez9620 They do it !!! Our lives are difficult !!! We are the women who respect Patriarchy.
That's not "society," that's feminists. Men aren't doing it. Karen and Becky are not your friends.
No, not society. WOMEN. Particularly FEMINIST OR FEMINIST LEANING WOMEN put down any other woman who lives in more traditional or feminine roles. Men do not put down feminine or traditional women. Men are not calling feminine women names like "Mammies and Pickmes". It's WOMEN DOING THAT.
Society can’t do anything to anyone they don’t want done to them. a lack of accountability is an individual decision.
What do you call Racism my brotha? You seem to be making the assumption that black people are a part of this society. Society is controlled by the opposition, so society can definitely do things to you against your will. Although the sista in the vid and bw for the most part definitely chose to be masculine, I did still have to make the distinction between society's control vs. our choices in the matter.
Biological warfare is a thing you know?
@@greylinfortune9619 This isn't biological warfare. These women were crying about being treated like women, so they did it to themselves.
You mean like Slavery?
When you find yourself in other cultures, you'll realize how much of what you think is your own behavior is actually conditioning from your own culture. Human beings are to a large extent, products of their environment and those at the top know this.
Some women think to be feminine that means they must be weak too. So they try to act more manly to prove thier not weak. But you can be feminine and still kick ass when needed without acting manly
Very good comment. That's the part most black women didn't learn correctly from white women "feminists".
In the words of our Sista Crimson Cure "Girl knock it off"!!!
These are the same women who wish each other *_"Happy Father's Day!"_* And gladly tell their children that Stanta Claus doesn't exist because she bought all the Christmas gifts!
Um Santa clause doesn’t exist you still believe in Santa Clause have you ever met him how was he let me
@@ashuhncummings8668 Either you're being facetious or you totally missed the point.🤷🏿♂️🤷
Didn't you, ladies, tell us that you wanted to be "strong and independent". Well, you reap what you sow.
Sew.
@@realashandaatlargesow
@@realashandaatlargesow
Ain't nobody turn y'all into nothing, y'all were shown different paths and that's the one you chose to embrace. Once you're grown you are the ONLY one accountable for your actions
Exactly- cut it out….. 🙄
No , some of us had ONE path since childhood. No fathers or Feminine deadbeat bitchy fathers with Feminine brothers and masculine single mothers. But it is our responsibility to re-raise ourselves and take control of our life as adults. But I must say … it is EXTREMELY hard to reprogram your brain and subconscious mind. That’s why most don’t succeed at doing it.
@@Simply.Shonta Naw even in the shittiest of households, in life you've come across others that let you know there was something different. I'm sympathetic, but I don't want to hear that because even in the shittiest people have still followed something different.
@@TheOneTrueNoName were you yourself raised in one of these shitty households? If not then I don’t think it makes sense for you to speak on behalf of those who have. You should do your research on epigenetics , I’m not saying it’s impossible to overcome but most people are a product of their environment…
@@TheOneTrueNoName women who didn’t have fathers that protected and provided for them had to become that masculine defensive figure for themselves especially in the hood dealing with other kids who got no daddies and single mothers as well 🤷🏽♀️
I'm sick of these women now, because they were down with the whole feminist movement and now that it's back firing on them now women are complaining. STOP IT
💯
Femininity is not a light switch. Most women won’t be able to get that masculine programming out. Sad.
If I would have come home to my father with lipstick on dressed like Goldilocks, it would have been ALL BAD. 😅
You had a real Dad.
@@batgirlp5561 It helps that I did not see any benefit to my life getting dressed up in women’s clothes and no one in my family did either. I had one cousin who was gay and died early of AIDS may he RIP, but the equations were simple where I was raised that my father and the men in my life were focused on doing things that benefit us and not living our truth. Simple cost versus benefits analysis.
Nah y'all chose to be men decades ago, y'all don't wanna be soft and sweet until after 40 when it's too late
"Decades ago" she would've been a child or teen but you want the young generations to pay for the older ones. So then I guess it's also your fault for ruining the blk community since you created broken homes decades ago.
I mean, we've only been saying this for YEARS...
BW been saying for years I'm strong and independent and I don't need no man..
Go get your bag sis.. 😂
Some og you are dumb ass hell. How long are you going to use that excuse? The women that were saying that were grown ass women of the 60's and 90's not millenials and gen z. You guys are truly touched.
Don't blame society, blame yourself cause Y'all played a part in that.
💯
Society can make you change society told y'all to hate trump and y'all did and don't know why 🤔
Black women need to shut up y'all accepted it
@@Chucky248 I know why I don't like Trump goofy
@@Chucky248...Is Trump your New personal Malcolm X or your lord and Savior? We live in a country where no president in history reshape the government for the benefit of black people. Either political party cares about the main financial agenda of black people social media has planted a psychological virus that got you hopping from One slave plantation to the next or maybe you feel the slave master is much nicer over there on Trump side of the coin.
Root of much of this is the destruction of the family unit. It was the the building block of great societies in the past but now the culture has decided that traditional family structure is not important and thus we have many men and women among us who were raised outside of this structure. Is it any wonder why the black community struggles?
She's masculine because she chooses to be. So she need to stop blaming men for a behavior she - and women like her- excepted...!!!!!
Accepted
Climbing up behind and giving up your virtues to Pookie and Ray Ray's turned you into men, because nice guys finish last.
More like pookie and Ray Ray was climbing behind them an now these women want to climb behind the nice guy.
@@retiredsnowbunnyhunterx5106 I take your point, however when I said climbing up behind, I meant perpetually chasing after Pookies and Ray Ray's.
the lie she tells...society doesn't control me. I only answer to God and my husband.
If Your “Psychologically Conquered”
That’s Your Fault…
(Some Jobs Are Not For Woman)
Truck Drivers, Sanitation, Delivery,
Security…
Wake Up or Stay Sleep 💤
I will never understand a man wearing a dress 🤣
This is what they (that are masculine like that) wanted though...strong and independent right? It's wild to me that it has to get this bad for them to start realizing that tryna move like a man ain't all what it's cracked up to be...and they wonder why it's so hard to find and keep a man, because no masculine man wants a masculine woman...I'm already masculine myself, I need a soft and tender feminine woman to hold
BW even try to beat you up when you date out your race hahahaha
I have seen that happen by us too..its not necessarily to be jealous like we say others are of us..
@ShutingFromTheSky This must be the women you know🤔🤣😂
It's the man in them 😂
That's the proper response actually, the problem is that I then see them online worshipping NeanderBrads 🤦🏿♂️
Racooning needs to be dealt with all around. Male and Female, young & old.
Men and women both need to be punished for disgracing themselves and their ancestors and hooking up with an open and hostile enemy.
“This breaks all sociological order of the culture we are living in now - because we are raising up women to be men.” Bishop TD Jakes.
This was a snippet from his “Real Men Pour In” segment. You covered this snippet in a prior video.
How can he say that after platforming so many female pastors?
Good question! I’ve got no answer on that one.
Y’all wanted to be masculine and chose this life on your own. Good luck. You wanted to be men and take control. These are the consequences to your own actions. Not ours.
💯 well said. We’ve checked out. They are on their own.
not a men's problem. we going overseas. Good luck woMEN. Right now in Asia with an Asian of persuasion and she is hella of a good cook and washes clothes and everything in the house.
😂😂😂 White women got them hyenas in a trick bag 😂😂
😂😂😂
Meanwhile, WW are either at home with their husbands still or in lesbian relationships. BW can’t have either successfully 😂
Some people in the comments saying society can have affect on people decisions. Society can not make nor force you to do anything. If you that weak minded to allow white supremacy/media and other in the outside world influence you to do something you know that is not right and goes against your principle ,that is no one fault but your own. Despite everything this going on in the world, I still have my own mind, I do not follow behind anyone. With all the 304 activity, women coming out the house naked, twerking in public wearing bonnets and pajamas in public, joining the feminism, etc, I am not out there doing that, because I have my own mind. I much rather be in the corner by myself then to be in a whole group engaging in immoral behavior.
The cost of being strong, independent, liberated and free, and creating a feminist matriarchy. Decisions have consequences.
This is making me.laugh. Now I'm wondering where my desire to drive a truck truck, a taxi and to be a bad military woman came from. When did my masculine, rebellious against the system thoughts stem from? Hmm. I need to think about these impulses.
They claimed that they can so everything better than men
Do everything better than BLACK MEN. That’s their sole purpose. Every day they seek ways to dethrone a black man and Boss up on him to prove they know more, can do more and can rule better than him. I deal with it every day to the point I am done with BW. They might win some but they definitely lost this one.
I have to be honest with you, I was not expecting that deion sanders clip wearing a skirt singing madonna, smh. That threw me off. I thought he was one of the very few alpha black men in hollywood world.
these women haven't been "soft" for decades.. they been men like for decades.. and they asked of or it
True indeed brother Phil, we live in the Twilight zone.
So yall cool with (woman king) but now they have gone to far?!
I've never accepted it. And, I have an amazing life.😊
Let’s be honest, black women have become bm or mdd add mush a long time ago!
NO disrepect but I though most Women wanted Equality 🤷♂️
Man BS get your passports!
Even most white homosexual men don't wear dresses....ie. Elton John 🤷♂️😒
They allowed society to dictate their own minds, maybe if they thought for themselves & not be so reliant on outside sources life wouldn’t be so fkd up for them. Simple.
No, this started back in the 1960s..
Like The Late Malcolm X said in contrast to the assassination of John.F Kennedy: " The Chickens Have come Home to Roost"
Brother I respectfully push back...a little bit. I live for the soft life. I love making the home a pleasant place to be. Making food for my hubby that he loves...and putting a smile on his face. I do work outside the home though but I'm definitely not trying to do his job.
Thumbs up
I'm right with you, sis. One of my joys is watching clean with me and decorating videos so I can learn how to make our home even more cozy and relaxing for us all. There are more of us like that, but it's just not promoted in our spaces enough.
@@realashandaatlarge Sounds like heaven
Hopefully you got a man already cause unfortunately for modern women, black women, American women - GAME OVER 😂
2023 The Twilight Zone, You Said It.
I hired some Uhaul movers for my house and they were women! One drove a forlkift and the other drove the deseil truck that bought the forklift. I told my brother these are some tough looking women. He told me women got to find any job they could get.
The Roles have definitely changed.
Ok, but women have to CHOOSE to have that done to them. She is speaking with forked tongue. Women have painted themselves into a corner with feminism, so now THEY have to do the heavy lifting.
@JusTheKing
Stop the defensiveness and pay attention to her message becuz they are tryin to flip these young dudes too.
The game is population control and the undermining of our community.
Women are the new men. It’s sad and tragic and hilarious all at the same time.
I thought bw do what they want to do🤷,who's MAKING them do this ?it sounds like a choice to me 🤔
Many women especially black women are getting sick and having mental issues due to the overloading. It’s not natural
It’s the consequences of the game. They asked for it, they got it. Good luck 👍🏾
@@cjfyre3914 Yeah that’s the truth unfortunately. It’s the damn truth
They choose this aint nobody making yall do this.Yall just want to become a man. Life is about choices. God told yall this. Choose God Jesus and yall wont be so confused.
she is right, but he is too. im a black american man living in Egypt and arab women dont accept that at all. and their father's take care of them.
I agree .soo true. Right, they really are
Nope, did it to themselves.
Old school my OG uncle would say real men didn't wear short pants. They thought it was feminine no disrespect intended
Lol 😂 pitiful
You chose loud, proud, and independent. What the F did you think would happen?!?!
You have to be accountable for your own actions!
The Media and their mothers
Here I am seeing them chasing them type of men, since when did men have time to act like the men that they are wanting. They literally have been avoiding men who they deemed to be square, the joke is on us for even letting it get to this point on both sides.
Blacks Americans women LET IT HAPPEN????😮😢
Lay in that bed!! trust me yall made ..
Nah, they been saying I don't need no man for years. Now with inflation its a different story.
😂😂😂 This ☝️ right here
women had a major part to play in this you scream you don't need a man and strong and independent now society is responding to that its crazy how you realize things when its too late
The black family in the U.S. is almost completely destroyed.
Black people have never have healthy families in America
Why is treatment so gender based? Women can't pick and choose what level of adulting is their role as Women. Adulting is adulting. Period.
They got what they asked for. Oh well
So one minute we are kweens and the next we been turned into men..then its because BM left us, then its society and them folks? chile please,
BW and accountability don't
It’s always somebody else’s fault.
@@thelegacyofgaming2928
Coming from the only group of men who blame their women for everything I find it unbelievably ironic. Hey tell us why you have the highest divorce rate with your own AND with other races. Comon denominator much.
Let them be.
Yeah sure they did. But women allowed it, participated in it, women took provider jobs, shunned any provider responsibility and now want to pretend like they dont understand.
They need women to act like men i.e. work because it brings in more taxes for the government. Women account for 80% of consumer spending, taxes on that too. 2 houses, 2 cars, 2 sets of utilities, etc. etc.
Reality has arrived.
Apparently no one is taking your bait so stay single nobody is making you do a damn thing be unhappy by yourself and stay single 😊
Hence the "smash and dash" guerrilla strategy we men adopted.
Do ... your thing and vanish into the jungle before getting shot at.
MY WOMAN PAYS ALL THE BILLS.
Oprah divided the Black community.
Oprah was just a tool black women were planning to separate themselves long before Oprah. Read the Combahee River Initiative black feminists in the 1970’s strategizing how to beak up the family. Kimberly Crenshaw, Bell Hooks predate Oprah Winfrey. Black Macho and the Myth of the superwoman written by Michele Wallace published in 1978 pushing a narrative. Oprah just gave them a platform to spew their anti black male misandry. Go read what Bell Hooks said about black men. Go read black feminists writing on black men.
You can't defend this.they choose to act that way.
This is what they wanted,so why hell are they complaining?
the oppressors are pulling a willie lync letter
There's this popular saying, "strong & independent", i can't remember exactly where i heard it.
No rhey have by listenimg to foolishness
That woman is crazy 🤪 😜
I agree that things don’t happen overnight
Feminism has done it's job.
Well that's how it is no man wants a woman around them if they can't help to spend money.......U either going half or u can get the hell on.
Deion woahhh 🤯
I was shock when I saw that clip, they have done got deion sanders too, smh. Out of all the men songs he could have chose, he chose to sing Madonna. He could have did Mj, ll cool j, hell even eminem, that would have been ok.
Philip, who is the last woman (not a family member) you were a Good Samaritan to? Because I’m sad to say it, but non-Christian men have often demonstrated more brotherly kindness me than men in the “godly manhood” camp have.