What it's like living in Japan since 1986

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  • Опубліковано 30 вер 2023
  • Thanks to Chris

    NAATI Certified Japanese to English translator and interpreter (NAATI is the National Accreditation Authority for Translators and Interpreters - refer naati.com.au)
    flynnsensei@gmail.com
    Chris on the Forsyth Family channel (In Japanese with English subtitles talking about 35 years inJapan)
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  • @takashiifromjapan
    @takashiifromjapan  2 місяці тому

    TOKYO GUIDEBOOK
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    • @soujirou86
      @soujirou86 Місяць тому

      Such great interview

  • @joesdeichannel
    @joesdeichannel 8 місяців тому +3025

    Thank you for interviewing my dad Takashi. Your content is sublime and it’s helping to shine a light on many aspects that comprise Japan. Keep up the great work.

    • @earlysda
      @earlysda 8 місяців тому +55

      Cool, joe. Are you still into rugby?

    • @joesdeichannel
      @joesdeichannel 8 місяців тому +133

      @@earlysda watching almost all of the rugby World Cup games ;)

    • @TheMastermind729
      @TheMastermind729 8 місяців тому +15

      My dad nineteen eighty fiiiiiive, white guy nineteen eighty fiiive

    • @SneakySteevy
      @SneakySteevy 8 місяців тому +9

      He is MY dad

    • @ChoobChoob
      @ChoobChoob 8 місяців тому +13

      OH MY GOD. You are so handsome.

  • @BimmermanF800GT
    @BimmermanF800GT 7 місяців тому +397

    Chris is a great guy. I have known him almost that whole time. I also came in 1986 after living in Tokyo area from 1983 to 84. Hard to believe we have been here that long but still love everyday.

    • @celiamaurer9604
      @celiamaurer9604 6 місяців тому +16

      you are a lucky person! the better you two are. A friendship like this is only possible between two enlightened people!

    • @JB-1981
      @JB-1981 4 місяці тому +3

      I’d love for Takahashi interview you both ! Foreign friendships living in Japan for a long time - that would be great stories

    • @BimmermanF800GT
      @BimmermanF800GT 4 місяці тому +5

      Yes Chris and I were actually in a video for Fukuoka City back in the late 80s and have known each other ever since.

  • @dydx_
    @dydx_ 5 місяців тому +35

    He sounds like someone who truly lives the way he wants to. What a great person!

  • @rainsan
    @rainsan 8 місяців тому +286

    I hope he's able to enjoy his retirement. He's worked so hard to support his family.

  • @suginami0
    @suginami0 8 місяців тому +1027

    American here. I lived in Japan for many years in the late 80’s as well, but in Saitama Prefecture. My experience was very similar to his. Very, very few foreigners, with the exception of the center of Tokyo. Children walking to and fro from school would see me and call out “gaijin da!” Every day. I never got used to it. I stood out everywhere I went. I was young, tall, blonde hair and blue eyes. I got attention whenever I went out. I joke now that I know how Brad Pitt feels. I majored in Linguistics at university with a minor in Japanese and I think because of this got fluent pretty quickly. I was a rare commodity back then. It seemed very few foreigners spoke Japanese fluently back then. I also did translating and interpreter work. worked for a Japanese company and made a lot of money. 6 figures which is crazy money for a guy in his mid-twenties. I married a Japanese woman and moved back to the U..S. Two kids and still married 32 years later. I wonder if my life would’ve been like his if I had stayed.

    • @sgnibble1
      @sgnibble1 8 місяців тому +28

      So lucky! I would’ve loved to get a job as an interpreter as I pick up languages quickly but now with so many interpreting apps I’d be obsolete 😢 thank you for sharing part of your life experience it sounds like you lived a very interesting life

    • @kenUndrumm
      @kenUndrumm 8 місяців тому +16

      A question, did you teach your kids japanese with your wife and are your kids bilingual?

    • @spamfremail
      @spamfremail 8 місяців тому +10

      All so interesting. I so admire people who live a new life in a new country. I have bi-racial kids and Asian wife but I’m the one who stayed put, lived in the country of my birth all my life. Sometimes feel guilt for that.
      Certainly can relate to difficulty of having to take the family to visit the other half of the family! Very important that they do but thousands of pounds/dollars every trip!!

    • @codeninja100
      @codeninja100 8 місяців тому +5

      What an awesome story I bet you have so many more to tell

    • @CJ-nm8sw
      @CJ-nm8sw 8 місяців тому +2

      That sounds awesome!

  • @wenaperxa
    @wenaperxa 8 місяців тому +616

    I think this one may be your best interview so far. You're getting good at this. Keep on doing such a good job, Takashii!!
    People, feel free to link your favourite ones in your answers, please. I wouldn't like to miss any :)

    • @xiaoka
      @xiaoka 8 місяців тому +9

      yes for sure! this guy has probably 5 more interview worth of stuff in him! 😀

    • @jakajancar1767
      @jakajancar1767 7 місяців тому +5

      The questions were really good. Very general to allow him to go where he wanted to, but still nicely guided through his entire Japanese experience.

    • @new_handoru
      @new_handoru 7 місяців тому

      TAKASHIのiが2つ重なるのはなぜですか?彼のビデオのコメント欄でよく見るので、英語ネイティブの人誰か教えて欲しい。

    • @extraway770
      @extraway770 5 місяців тому +1

      @@new_handoru THen you better write in English, to ask.

  • @yo2trader539
    @yo2trader539 8 місяців тому +172

    FUWAKU (不惑=四十にして惑わず), means to be no longer confused in life. This phrase derives directly from a passage in RONGO (論語) or "The Analects of Confucius." It refers to a famous tale regarding the life of Confucius (孔子) who was seeking ideal rulers to advise/serve in his younger years only to be repeatedly disappointed, and only when he reached 40 years-old he finally realized that his purpose/mission in life was to teach others. Thus, 40 years of age was historically referred to as FUWAKU (不惑) in Japan.
    This is a story from 2,500 years ago in Northern China when living 60 years was considered longevity and celebrated. To date, some people in Japan still have the CHANCHANKO ritual at 60 years old, as the ETO 干支 "calendar" has circled one cycle of life. If you attend a decent junior-highshool and senior-highschool in Japan, you most definitely would learn this story at one point. Passages from RONGO (論語) and other famous historical texts (as well as the meaning/reason behind them) are often part of high-school and university entrance exams.

    • @ribos2762
      @ribos2762 8 місяців тому +14

      wow he really does know his Japanese

    • @RyanTeo
      @RyanTeo 8 місяців тому +25

      孔子
      《论语·为政》
      子曰:吾十有五而志于学,三十而立,四十而不惑,五十而知天命,六十而耳顺,七十而从心所欲,不逾矩。
      15 years: Start to accumulate knowledge and experience
      30 years: Best physical condition
      40 years: No longer affected by external influences
      50 years: In tune with nature
      60 years: Can accept others' opinions
      70 years: Free to do whatever you feel like doing, without overstepping boundaries

    • @Bradgilliswhammyman
      @Bradgilliswhammyman 7 місяців тому

      Nothing special about 40, you are still beholden to the corporate rat race, have to answer to a boss and honestly the world and your place in it are as confusing as ever. Human beings simply don't live long enough to experience the totality of the universe as it unfolds, which is often on timescales of millions of years. 95 percent of matter the universe is made up of is invisible and unreadable by our best technology.

    • @oliverstaunton10
      @oliverstaunton10 3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks bro, btw you dropped this 👑

  • @melissanakakita951
    @melissanakakita951 8 місяців тому +364

    I'm Australian, I came over to Japan to teach English on a working holiday visa in 2003. My plan was to stay 18mths and then go back to Australia. Well, that didn't happen. 20yrs later I am still here, in Shikoku, now with a Japanese husband (we married in 2004) and 4 sons, aged 16, 8, 4 and 1 hahaha!!!!
    Hopefully we'll be taking a long awaited family trip back to Australia in a few years!!!!

    • @Daniel-ld7xs
      @Daniel-ld7xs 7 місяців тому +5

      nice!!!

    • @kingveetee
      @kingveetee 7 місяців тому +11

      Wow 16 and 1!! Kudos to you. You're gonna be busy a while.

    • @Zultzify
      @Zultzify 7 місяців тому +4

      soo wholesome, thank you for sharing. one question i have is what made you want to go to japan to teach english? i turned down an opportunity in china a few years ago and have been regretting it since. i guess my main reason was i wanted to help immigrants here in my community settle in and find comfort.

    • @alastairhewitt380
      @alastairhewitt380 7 місяців тому +2

      @@kingveetee Lol, I think someone got bored during the pandemic haha

    • @tokyonomad6389
      @tokyonomad6389 6 місяців тому +3

      wow, I came 2003 as well to teach English at Nova and am still here from Australia, got 3 boys now, sounds familiar :)

  • @masamiiida7142
    @masamiiida7142 6 місяців тому +113

    Great interview!
    I am completely opposite from him, born and raised in Japan and living here in Australia since 1987. I studied at university in the US and 4 years later I graduated. I went back to Japan, but didn't feel comfortable at all there . I just wanted to get out of Japan and chose Australia as I had a friend whom I met in US was there. Like him I came here with a working holiday visa. I was going to do the same in New Zealand after a year in Australia. Working holiday visa was valid for one year back then. 36 years later, I still haven't been to New Zealand yet. I knew virtually nothing about Australia back then, but could speak English. I am an Australian citizen now.

    • @Anonanonymous184
      @Anonanonymous184 4 місяці тому +1

      How did u become permanent residence first? I’m wanting to move to australia too

    • @N7sensei
      @N7sensei 3 місяці тому

      Why did you not feel comfortable in Japan? I would not be surprised if you said that about the US - I doubt anyone feels comfortable in the US in the past decades. It's the world's giant opium den and prison.

  • @ellaofficiel
    @ellaofficiel 8 місяців тому +473

    A lot of respect to these foreign uncles and aunts who worked in Japan from the 80s/90s. It really was such a different time, having to learn the language and culture with no google or anything.

    • @earlysda
      @earlysda 8 місяців тому +24

      Japan was booming in 1989 when I first came to live.
      It's dying now.
      Saw just last week on the news that 1 in 10 people here are over 80 now.

    • @ellaofficiel
      @ellaofficiel 8 місяців тому +6

      @@earlysda i know.. as a millennial it's really hard to plan for our future if working conditions can be unfair.

    • @BrianBaileyedtech
      @BrianBaileyedtech 8 місяців тому +15

      Haha, yes it was very different. I remember I used to line up at the international phone booth outside Kita-Kogane station to phone home. If I ran out of coins the call was over! It was a great time though - I had so much fun and learned so much.

    • @earlysda
      @earlysda 8 місяців тому

      @@ellaofficielella, actually, the root problems with not getting married or having kids has almost nothing to do with money or work.
      .
      It has a lot to do with believing that ones' ancestors rose up from pond slime to become what you are today, and that religion's evil spawn, which is belief that humans are causing Mother Earth to overheat (so we need to reduce the number of humans).
      .
      Even Japanese pollsters see this problem as young people not wanting the hassle of dealing with anyone, even/especially intimately.

    • @AdamPayne1975
      @AdamPayne1975 8 місяців тому +8

      @@earlysda I've been here 23 years. And to an extent, yes it is dying. So, the only option for people who live here is to change their lives so that it does not affect them. I did this a while back and while it is sad to see, the effects are not direct.

  • @robertjackson2700
    @robertjackson2700 8 місяців тому +176

    When he started saying "Marriage is hard. Get ready!" 🤣 I couldn't stop laughing

    • @nathanhaynes2856
      @nathanhaynes2856 7 місяців тому +23

      The "path of least resistance" comment was spot on.

  • @xtxt9135
    @xtxt9135 8 місяців тому +125

    One of the best interviews you have ever done! Talking to an older australian,you will always get it raw and real.

  • @AxeManJapan
    @AxeManJapan Місяць тому +6

    8 years in Japan, 2 half kids who are bicultural and bilingual, this is phenomenal. So invaluable to me. Thank you! And he's right, recently started learning Kanji seriously, and it's a life changer.

  • @lynndunn4145
    @lynndunn4145 8 місяців тому +122

    Been here since 1986 too, about 8-9 years in Tokyo, and Kanagawa, the rest in Okinawa. Can really resonate with him, about learning Japanese in the 1980's. Went to a Japanese Language school for 2 and a half years and all we had was a dictionary, teacher spoke no English and used Japanese TV for listening practice. Ahh those were the days!

    • @breatherepeat
      @breatherepeat 5 місяців тому

      I lived on Okinawa for a year, and fell in love with the island and its people. I always smile when I read people who are there. Thank you for sharing your experience.

  • @davidnicholson6680
    @davidnicholson6680 8 місяців тому +203

    Great interview, he's such a charming and grounded man. I lived in Kyoto, Japan in 1982 and 1983 as a child and still have amazing memories of my time there and the people I met. I still remember kids being shouting about my blonde hair and I remember being treated almost like a celebrity. The more time I spent with Japanese kids, the more that faded and I developed actual friendships. It's a great country filled with great people.

  • @cxrbo
    @cxrbo 8 місяців тому +179

    This guy is the most wholesome dude ever so chill and yet full of life massive respect for this guy. Thank you for the interview Takashi.

  • @darrylt8502
    @darrylt8502 8 місяців тому +468

    He's a good father. Protecting his wife from smokers, and talking to his children about bullying. That's something I would do someday when I'm a father lol.

    • @fredwien8340
      @fredwien8340 8 місяців тому +4

      protecting hes wife ,...!! ohhhhh hahah

    • @Z_Victory_Z
      @Z_Victory_Z 6 місяців тому

      He's a better father for keeping his children away from the decadent, perverted west and its Marxist tranny rainbow flag indoctrination warriors.

  • @chriscastielredy
    @chriscastielredy 8 місяців тому +128

    I love how excited and positive this man is talking about his experience from 80's to now days an his passion and hard work to learn Japanese. It's absolutely beautiful! And him speaking Japanese is wonderful. Great interview Takashii-San ^^

  • @jangelbrich7056
    @jangelbrich7056 8 місяців тому +50

    "Gaijin" here. He is still passionate about the language, and so was I in 1990 as a student. Kanji "triggered" my curiosity back in 1982, and it was a long way to stay as student in Japan. I wanted to expose myself to this language environment as much as possible, and I did. But for me, this was only for some months, then I had to return. Still the greatest experience of my life. Thanls for the video.

  • @memostothefuture
    @memostothefuture 8 місяців тому +23

    I'm a foreigner in China, 11 years here, with a Chinese wife. I can identify with what he says so much. Absolutely top advice on raising kids.

  • @untitled1464
    @untitled1464 8 місяців тому +104

    oh my goodness he literally came to Japan a few years before the peak of the Japanese economy where there was so much optimism and excess everywhere. That must have been crazy to experience!

    • @eddenoy321
      @eddenoy321 8 місяців тому

      exactamundo

    • @NeostormXLMAX
      @NeostormXLMAX 7 місяців тому +9

      Until america destroyed japan with plaza accord due to fear of being beaten

  • @ajcph
    @ajcph 8 місяців тому +42

    Respect to this guy. Not many of them around. I'm been in Japan for 23 years now so not as long as this man.

    • @user-cp3ip3rw7r
      @user-cp3ip3rw7r 8 місяців тому +6

      Respect to you sir. Thank you for living here for very many years. Thank you.ありがとう👍

  • @seanrm
    @seanrm 8 місяців тому +91

    Similar vintage to Chris - late 80's gaijin.
    Arrived in Osaka in the roasting summer and remember my first icy cold drink from a vending machine: 100 yen.
    35 years later, the same icy cold drink from a vending machine: 100 yen - as low as 60 yen in some places.
    That simple anecdote pretty much sums up the Japanese economy over the last 40 years.
    It is still a great place to live, but the gravy train left the station a long time ago.

    • @earlysda
      @earlysda 8 місяців тому +14

      Same here - late 80s Osaka. I couldn't believe the skyline was all cranes!
      Now those cranes are in Cambodia and Vietnam.

    • @NeostormXLMAX
      @NeostormXLMAX 7 місяців тому +1

      Thanks to the usa destroying the japanese economy with tech sanctions and plaza accord

    • @stephaniegrady8
      @stephaniegrady8 7 місяців тому +1

      I had the same experience. Coke light “lighto “ 100yen

    • @breatherepeat
      @breatherepeat 5 місяців тому +1

      I lived on Okinawa for a year. I loved those vending machines. I used to carry 100 yen coins around everywhere just to get one of those iced coffees. I can still taste their goodness, and it has been 26 years since I last had one!!! Some things never leave you...

  • @BrianBaileyedtech
    @BrianBaileyedtech 8 місяців тому +73

    Wow - this was a great interview and so interesting for me as I first moved to Japan back in 1991 and also got married and had children with a Japanese. We stayed in Japan for 6 years but finally moved back to Canada in 1997. I am now in Japan, seeing friends (old students) who I haven't seen since 1997 - FANTASTIC. I love Japan and often wonder what it would have been like if I had stayed. One of my colleagues did stay and became quite successful here. Life is interesting. I have a lot of nostalgia for the first year I lived in Japan - it was the time of my life and I am forever grateful for what Japan and the Japanese people gave to me. Sincerely, thank you JAPAN!!

  • @Quest4us
    @Quest4us 8 місяців тому +74

    Fantastic interview, Takashii, this is your best yet.
    Chris was a great guest, he articulated well his many years of challenges, employment progress, cherished friendships with Japanese locals and his general love for the culture.
    Chris is a treasure, a great story teller.
    I have been following the life of many foreigners who have resided in Japan for 1 to 10 years, mostly Americans, Canadians, British and Australians. Lots of funny and inspiring stories.
    I hope to come to Japan and spend a minimum of 6 months, longer if possible.
    Hopefully I will arrive with the basics of the Japanese language, enough to be polite and engage in simple conversations. And like Chris said, you never stop learning.
    Keep up the great work, Takashii. You are a great ambassador for Japan.
    Japan is aging rapidly, it needs millions of new people who will contribute and appreciate its endless beauty and civility.

  • @juniyananajukyu
    @juniyananajukyu 8 місяців тому +69

    I've been traveling to japan for over 23 years now and I've been fortunate to make a circle of close Japanese friends. So much so I visited Japan twice this summer. I went for a funeral and wedding this summer. My friendship was solidified when I participated in my friends dads funeral as family member. I even helped place his bones in the urn. That all said, making true friends in another country is worth more than money can buy. My friends don't see me off at the airport but I do occasionally get picked up 😂😂

    • @robotsy
      @robotsy 8 місяців тому +6

      It might be easier for Chris's friends to see him off at the airport given it's only 10 minutes from the city! 😂😂

    • @Bradgilliswhammyman
      @Bradgilliswhammyman 7 місяців тому +1

      You must have a ton of disposable income, those flights are not cheap...easily 1000 bucks or more for the cheap seats.

  • @redbetty1284
    @redbetty1284 8 місяців тому +80

    I’ve been a subscriber for awhile and I’m constantly impressed with your interview skills. Unlike many other interviewers, you ask questions and then let your subject speak without interrupting them. It allows them to get their point across and makes them feel comfortable. Great job!

  • @vivianidelacerda9708
    @vivianidelacerda9708 8 місяців тому +22

    A very balanced person... May he and his family be always well

  • @griffinina
    @griffinina 8 місяців тому +24

    Shortwave-radio was definitely our parents era!
    This is great interview! You should interview more longtime resident like him!

  • @Tom-bm7mm
    @Tom-bm7mm 8 місяців тому +18

    I lived in Tokyo 1989-2019. I can relate to so much of what Chris said. He's so right, the best way to learn Japanese is to get a regular job. For a time I worked with some electicians on construction sites. My Japanese improved by leaps and bounds.

  • @pauliedontsurf
    @pauliedontsurf 6 місяців тому +13

    What a fantastic interview. It’s so clear that he has spent a very long time speaking slowly in English and perhaps pacing himself in Japanese. He speaks so clearly and specifically. A lovely guy!

  • @sfyoko
    @sfyoko 8 місяців тому +17

    I got to know him through one of his son’s partner who is a UA-camr. Chris showed up several times and his talks are always very interesting. Impeccable Japanese as well.

    • @reinron
      @reinron 8 місяців тому +2

      What's her channel?

    • @franzong
      @franzong 8 місяців тому +2

      Yes please do share the channel

  • @takashiifromjapan
    @takashiifromjapan  8 місяців тому +429

    Thanks for watching!
    If you’ve been here in Japan for long like him, please share your experience in the comments.

    • @jdmspotter
      @jdmspotter 8 місяців тому +20

      anyone who's successfully married for 33+ years is definitely very wise...

    • @xiaoka
      @xiaoka 8 місяців тому +17

      Great video. This guy deserved 30+ minutes! He's very correct Fukuoka is very livable for a big city in Japan.

    • @cheeseontoastbrah
      @cheeseontoastbrah 8 місяців тому

      Yeah that's not 37 years since 86

    • @somerandomchannel382
      @somerandomchannel382 8 місяців тому +2

      He deserves a century if your time. He seems very knowing and great person overall.
      I wouldn't say foreigner. He is Australian. They had a very positive outlook on life. Unlike Americans. I'm sure when his Japanese friends figured that out he was accepted .

    • @uebersurfer
      @uebersurfer 8 місяців тому +8

      You are doing a great job with interviews of interesting people with foreign backgrounds. I’m glad you had an extended interview with him. Keep it up and keep making great content such as this interview.

  • @dwlawson78
    @dwlawson78 8 місяців тому +78

    I have been watching your videos for a few years now and this was the best one. Your questions were very perceptive and intelligent and Chris' answers were spot on. The 2 of you provided a great introduction to anyone considering living in Japan.

  • @lalitasubramanian5499
    @lalitasubramanian5499 Місяць тому +2

    It is a delight to hear you speak about your life experience, as an Australian in Japan. I was a PhD student in Japanese studies fifty years ago. ( Never completed). Love the language and culture to this day. I dream of going to Japan! Still keep plugging in to learn the language.
    Honest, real, humorous, insightful narrative. Great interview Takashi👍 27:44

  • @hansleentvaar1045
    @hansleentvaar1045 8 місяців тому +31

    Very interesting! Thank you. I came to Japan in 1985 and have been living in Tochigi-ken since then. It is a little bit like going back on memory lane listening to the interview. So many of my foreign friends have left Japan. Nice to know that I am not the only one who stayed in Japan for over thirty years. Thanks for posting this, Takashi. It is highly appreciated.

  • @leochen887
    @leochen887 8 місяців тому +33

    This was one of the most profound/insightful/candid interviews that I've had the privilege of viewing. Bottom line: we only get out of life what we put into it through hard work, if truth be told. Back in the 1890's, my Chinese grandfather studied in Japan with Sun Yat-sen. They, of course, could speak Japanese as well as Chinese. They were both revolutionaries, highly educated, forward thinkers. At the time, Japan was considered by Chinese to be a technologically advanced society. In many ways, it still is.

    • @tachankat2485
      @tachankat2485 7 місяців тому

      my bros a KMT heir?!?!?!

    • @publicminx
      @publicminx 3 місяці тому

      @leochen: yep, Japan turned relatively quickly (over 40 years) from a kind of medieval society to a first world nation. Prussia/Germany was one of their role models. Many revolutionary studied in Europe and/or lived for some time in Japan (sometimes rather escaped. China had a lot going on) ...

  • @nipponfraser2383
    @nipponfraser2383 8 місяців тому +32

    So much knowledge out of this guy! I’m also married to a Japanese, currently living in America, and the cultural and languages differences are a challenge. We plan on living in Japan for our lives in the future and I want to be at the same language level that he’s at now. I have step kids and they’re full Japanese and it is a challenge sometimes to raise them but I think having the perspective that this guy has will get you through

  • @gloriasaliba3395
    @gloriasaliba3395 7 місяців тому +9

    We miss fabulous Aussie men like him here in Aus! What a kind generous man sending his wife and children to Aus for an entire year while he stayed behind working in Japan

  • @and1pnoy
    @and1pnoy 7 місяців тому +9

    This is the best interview I have seen in your channel. The guest very informative and very honest. Thank you for sharing.

  • @waregraham8335
    @waregraham8335 8 місяців тому +13

    Ex- NZ 32 years in Tokyo, time flies…

  • @spmum1271
    @spmum1271 5 місяців тому +11

    Thank you, Takashi and Chris!
    It is the best tube of your interviews, Takashi. Arigato.
    I am a Japanese. And I spent my life as same ages with Chris. This interview brought me back to the time when I had learned English, worked hard during the period in 80s to 90s.
    I am really emphasized with Chris that he said he is still learning Japanese everyday. I am still learning English everyday as well!
    And also 34 year’s marriage and raised up 3 children are same with me!

  • @CelticSeer
    @CelticSeer 2 місяці тому +2

    This is one of the best videos I’ve seen and enjoyed on Japan. Well done on the interview @Takashii. This Australian gentleman imparted much wisdom for people of all nationalities. Arigatō

  • @Emon.98
    @Emon.98 7 місяців тому +3

    Really happy to see you sir 😊💞
    This is our university teacher also my seminar teacher, so kind and friendly person. we like him so much ❤💞

  • @marcinna8553
    @marcinna8553 8 місяців тому +16

    I can really relate to this person's experience. I started learning Japanese in the US as a teenager back in the 1970s and ended up living in Japan off and on for about 10 years. I lived in Sendai, Toyama and later Osaka and Tokyo. My motivation was similar -- I thought I would learn more by experiencing a culture and language that were very different from my own than say a European language. Yes, there were no cell phones or internet, and it was easy to isolate yourself esp. in a rural community where you could go for weeks hearing no English, except for .... that's right, shortwave radio (Now here's Vladmir Pozner with "Moscow Mailbag"!!!). Most of my time was spent as an exchange student or later as a postdoc at Japanese universities, so I didn't get the ground-level working experience that Mr. Forsyth describes, which I think was very admirable of him. One American guy I later met actually worked as a truck driver in Japan for many years -- now that is unique. In my case, I feel I perhaps spent too much time in Japan. I had already accomplished what I set out to do by the time I was in my 30s, and now I wish I had also lived in Europe and learned French or German. I am at an advanced age now, but might still try to do it.

  • @WinterAlt
    @WinterAlt 8 місяців тому +15

    I met an Australian back in Kyoto when i was doing my exchange last year. He gave me similar vibes to this guy when we talked about which place he preferred, but was much younger.

  • @user-mf3ub1sk9l
    @user-mf3ub1sk9l 8 місяців тому +31

    It's amazing that he could speak Japanese so well and got adapted to Japan's traditional culture. Btw as he mentioned,what's local people's view on the immigration policy is the key.

  • @anne-marielamont8765
    @anne-marielamont8765 7 місяців тому +9

    I love your interviews. I’m from Australia 🇦🇺 and this guy has not lost his Aussie accent. Love it.

  • @calebcooksey4390
    @calebcooksey4390 8 місяців тому +12

    I absolutely love how in each talking segment, he summarizes them as "It was honestly just... hard. So, so hard." This man has had to work so hard in his life, and it shows. He knows the value of investment, intentionality and putting others' needs before his own.
    Dude isolated himself from his own family & ate cheap food for a while YEAR, just because he thought it was the right thing to do. That's what astonished me from his answer. It was simply "Because I loved my family and wanted them to succeed. So I did it." Simple as that. Wow.
    Thank you so much for this interview, not only as a foreigner interested in Japanese culture, but as a son that understand his father a little better now. :)

  • @bubutmiha5527
    @bubutmiha5527 8 місяців тому +10

    Stayed in Japan for more than 37 years, got married( to n amazing Japanese guy) and have 2 wonderful kids. It's a blessing that I can call Japan my other home, though my Japanese needs a lot of improvement haha ( compare to this wonderful guy you are interviewing). Keep posting more videos ,please !😄

    • @cristianhcm1914
      @cristianhcm1914 8 місяців тому +2

      You stayed in Japan for more than 37 years!
      And Japanese needs alot of improvement?!
      How is that funny?

    • @bubutmiha5527
      @bubutmiha5527 7 місяців тому

      Oh dear, could you please read again the 2nd sentence.. I commented that "my Japanese" (the language spoken and written in Japan) needs a lot of improvement. And for me , I would giggle at it than be sad 'cuz I was able to " survive " here.! I have many Japanese friends, relatives and foreign friends, too! My dekoboko no Nihonggo ( my broken Japanese ) works like a charm ! And, btw, I always smile and extend a " helping hand". I'm loving it here.!!🥰@@cristianhcm1914

  • @23ofSeptember
    @23ofSeptember 8 місяців тому +14

    I've been in Japan since 2007. This guy has a good 20 years on me.

    • @elmalanmalan2175
      @elmalanmalan2175 8 місяців тому +3

      Same here I thought my 16 years was a long time 😅

  • @RedRoverTW
    @RedRoverTW 7 місяців тому +21

    What a great guest. It was nice to hear his perspective. I'm an American, but I've been living in Taiwan for over 12 years, so I can relate. I think we should all strive to have good friends that go to the airport to bid us farewell. 😊

    • @kmsingh8539
      @kmsingh8539 6 місяців тому

      I arrived in Taipei in June 1999....that place has changed a lot.

  • @trinidadinternational
    @trinidadinternational 8 місяців тому +10

    I studied Japanese in college... over 30 years ago. I considered moving to Japan but ended up having my kids in the US. Although I experienced life in Asia and in other places, I feel that this man has lived the life I would have lived. What a great man! I loved the interview.

  • @jklmnoqr
    @jklmnoqr 8 місяців тому +42

    Thank you yet again for this very special interview. Your guest is so kind and enthusiastic about Japan. I am so glad to see that he has been successful. His learning the language and wanting to learn about the culture through making friends is what has made him that way. God bless him and God bless you!🌺

    • @earlysda
      @earlysda 8 місяців тому

      He didn't mention anything about God at all.
      That was the saddest part of the interview where he measured success by others' feelings towards him...

    • @mollytovxx4181
      @mollytovxx4181 8 місяців тому

      ​@@earlysda You either completely misunderstood his point or you aren't much of a people person.

    • @earlysda
      @earlysda 8 місяців тому

      @@mollytovxx4181molly, please reread the comment I was commenting on, if you want to understand.

  • @notme444
    @notme444 7 місяців тому +19

    I lived in Japan for a little more that 30 years, and for me, this is the most engaging video have ever seen on Facebook. Although he seems to have a rather different personality, and the same goes for the kinds of jobs he's done and his personal life, so much of what he said chimes beautifully with my own experiences. Like hearing an old song that holds dear memories, I'm sure I wont be able to get this out of my head all day, maybe all week.

  • @yosotattoo
    @yosotattoo 7 місяців тому +8

    15 Years in Japan this year! I love it! Especially my Miyazaki family & Friends! If you come to Japan! Be respectful, be yourself and pay attention to the little things! It's often not what is said that we have to listen to! But what isn't said! It is a way of being! I feel so grateful to have been adopted here! Thank you Japan and the Japanese people! I hope I can spend the rest of my life here! Blessed! Gassho! Y.

  • @marclaton
    @marclaton 8 місяців тому +2

    Such a nice interview! Thank you for this video!

  • @LilaSatori
    @LilaSatori 8 місяців тому +4

    Awesome interview! Thank you!

  • @5z436
    @5z436 12 днів тому

    reaeeeaaallllyyy love the almost-biographical content of this interview with someone as level-headed and cool as Chris-san, but especially love the mature and inclusive comment near the end of the video!

  • @solonbeatz
    @solonbeatz 18 днів тому

    Great video! Thanks for that!

  • @itsd3br33
    @itsd3br33 8 місяців тому +3

    This was a really interesting video Takashi. Great job !

  • @BadDubII
    @BadDubII 8 місяців тому +5

    This interview was class!

  • @SwissTanuki
    @SwissTanuki 8 місяців тому

    Very good interview. Thanks for uploading

  • @marcusapicius4217
    @marcusapicius4217 7 місяців тому

    Great interview! Thanks!

  • @kayokolindenberger3754
    @kayokolindenberger3754 8 місяців тому +4

    Excellent video!😊

  • @RafaelGarciaYito_7131
    @RafaelGarciaYito_7131 8 місяців тому +7

    This was a great interview!

  • @clivepetty2338
    @clivepetty2338 8 місяців тому

    This was a very good interview, informative, interesting and well managed.

  • @jasminnat
    @jasminnat 8 місяців тому

    This is such a great interview. Thank you.

  • @sloppytightbottom
    @sloppytightbottom 8 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for a very interesting interview well done! 👍

  • @jimwalsh7904
    @jimwalsh7904 8 місяців тому +8

    Takashii, that was a very interesting interview. I'm an American Expat living in Japan. My wife is Japanese and we have a 19 year old daughter. I have only lived here since July 2022. I really didn't start studying Japanese until I got here. Your guest said he studied Japanese for three years before moving to Japan. I feel better now about my low level of Japanese and if I study for two more years I might really start to get better. I take classes now and I'm beginning to learn Konji. It was interesting to here 60% of Japanese is Konji. Great interview. Very informative.

    • @fridaytax
      @fridaytax 6 місяців тому

      You're an American immigrant. Why are Americans so afraid of being immigrants?

  • @godlike4719
    @godlike4719 8 місяців тому

    Great interview, Thank you

  • @dmercman
    @dmercman 5 місяців тому

    Loved this episode, amazing!

  • @Guevon_Pajaro
    @Guevon_Pajaro 8 місяців тому +4

    This is awesome work. So fascinating. This guy is great

  • @noobnesz
    @noobnesz 8 місяців тому +3

    What an insightful interview!
    Chris is such a delight to listen to. What a great storyteller, and an all around chill dude!

  • @noak_g
    @noak_g 6 місяців тому

    Great Interview! Thank you

  • @mmaxx8771
    @mmaxx8771 8 місяців тому +1

    Very interesting! Great interview!!

  • @EricaInTokyo
    @EricaInTokyo 8 місяців тому +19

    This was a great interview! I’ve watched you for a while and you seem to be getting more and more comfortable and confident with your interviews.

  • @brunomdn
    @brunomdn 8 місяців тому +4

    Beautiful interview. Your best yet

  • @lililinda6947
    @lililinda6947 8 місяців тому

    That was an incredible interview, so interesting to get his story and perspective

  • @pisderata
    @pisderata 8 місяців тому

    one if the chillest interviews! great man

  • @undertaker9138
    @undertaker9138 8 місяців тому +3

    Very interesting interview, it's nice to hear the point of view from someone with such a unique life experience

  • @VinceNet
    @VinceNet 8 місяців тому +7

    Excellent interview. Asking interesting questions and just letting him talk, I wish more interviewers were like you!

  • @haze1123
    @haze1123 6 місяців тому

    Great interview. Thank you!

  • @maryannpomeroy
    @maryannpomeroy 8 місяців тому

    I love this video! You're both very informative and fun to watch.

  • @subtleprelude2400
    @subtleprelude2400 8 місяців тому +16

    This is the best interview you've done as of yet Mr. Takashii. Quality production.

  • @so_juu_y0o
    @so_juu_y0o 8 місяців тому +4

    Takashi, thank you so much for Chris's story! it was really interesting for me to hear how Japan lived in those years from someone with such a life experience like Chris. It's really healing! Hope you can find more people with their stories from past

  • @kubadykta
    @kubadykta 5 місяців тому

    Thank you for the footage, a great interview! Inspiring!

  • @mohammedtaqi9508
    @mohammedtaqi9508 8 місяців тому

    Best video ever! Thanks Takashi continue posting these amazing interviews!!

  • @stewartadamson9479
    @stewartadamson9479 7 місяців тому +17

    What a great fellow. Lots of gems of advice in here, about life in general but also specifics like international marriage, the pressure and reality about raising bilingual kids, and how much you may have to work when your kids in Japan hit university age and the cost of raising them really ramps up. Great humility to accept that while he has achieved much, it has been through the support of Japanese people and not from some awful "Success my way! me! me! me! I deserve it!"-type self-centeredness that people are taught to believe in the West. I've had a similar life to Chris in many ways but am about five years behind him in when I came to Japan, about ten years behind in terms of how old my kids are, and light years behind in terms of sociability. Plenty for me to think about there, so thank you Takashi from producing this content. I hope a lot of people see it.

  • @richmondroamer
    @richmondroamer 8 місяців тому +18

    You really are a gifted interviewer. There must be so many more adventures like this man has had, just waiting to be discussed.

  • @FunkyKiwi7
    @FunkyKiwi7 7 місяців тому

    That interview was great Takashii. Thanks for sharing.

  • @temporaryinnanity
    @temporaryinnanity 7 місяців тому

    Another great video. Great interview and wise subject.

  • @janishani1
    @janishani1 8 місяців тому +2

    A truly pleasant Sir to seat with, talk to and learn from.
    Glad I've decided to stop by and watched the entire interview.
    I first watched the short version.

  • @jukerdanz
    @jukerdanz 8 місяців тому +2

    What an interesting guy! This is an excellent interview.

  • @mnesler4326
    @mnesler4326 8 місяців тому

    Great conversation, I look forward to more like this!

  • @mattc698
    @mattc698 2 дні тому

    Loved this interview!

  • @Pagroove
    @Pagroove 8 місяців тому +8

    Fantastic interview with someone with a lot of wisdom that came through life. Thank you for this great interview.

  • @maryannogo2571
    @maryannogo2571 8 місяців тому +10

    Great interview. Brought back many memories for me. I lived in Tokyo from 1975-2013.

    • @r8m8s8
      @r8m8s8 8 місяців тому +1

      Why did you leave…

    • @maryannogo2571
      @maryannogo2571 8 місяців тому

      @@r8m8s8
      I left for medical reasons. Hometown near Boston, MA and returned there permanently for treatment.

    • @earlysda
      @earlysda 8 місяців тому

      38 years?!

  • @pyfinx
    @pyfinx 8 місяців тому +2

    Such a great interview. Some really interesting perspectives.