I have observed that Pere is confident because he has big and long penis and any man who does is always a confident man. I wish mine is as big and long as Pere own.
Pere’s point on baby-ing is more on communicating effectively.. as he said raising concerns playfully or when you both are calm will give it more strength and audience. As against shouting and showing anger aggressively
Toke... @ 19:40. Yes men go through that. Especially at a younger age. When a woman breaks up with us, we feel it. We just hide it. Society has already told us we need to be strong emotionally, so we don't show it. We'd rather drown ourselves in work, drinks or other vices.
I walked into a pharmacy and boldly asked for condoms, the guy in one corner looked at me a certain way and I got it but it's not him that will catch STIs. It's also taking responsibility for myself first and then my partner.
Did same with my boyfriend. We walked into the pharmacy and I literally shouted give me condom, while tapping my boyfriend's ass. It was quite exhilarating. My boyfriend looked at me like I was crazy
Perfect. @ 14:20. The first thing I told my wife after we got married was if I do anything wrong, call my attention to it. Most men don't want their wives to tell them they have done something wrong and that in itself is wrong. Who do you think will call you to order when you go wrong? You're not perfect men. And then at the point of Toke saying men needs to be held to a higher standard, yes men do need to be held at a high standard. It is important. The reason is the men are the leaders in any relationship. They should be held accountable for the marriage, relationship or any union. Because men are the logical ones and most women are the ones with more feelings than logic. If I say I'm going to call my wife, I should. I've made it a point to even remember (given my Adhd) and put it in my calendar. Hence the "If I do anything wrong, call me to order" Because at the end of the day, I will actually call my wife to order as well
@@groawninggig2436 well... he can learn and she can learn. Things are not just set in stone. Everyone has emotions, it's about balancing them. I believe the word "emotional" is now used to describe someone who cannot handle their emotions. Critically looking at it, everyone is an emotional being. Emotions and Leadership can exist together when emotional intelligence is applied. A leader who understands and manages their emotions while also navigating the emotions of their partner can foster a healthy and supportive environment.
True and yes, but some people are not self aware at all by default nor do they even seek to know to change and be better even in the context of a marriage, I will see how I will solve the fix I am in, given time...
@@groawninggig2436Apt on that. And that is the issue I currently see in so many marriages. Men and women unwilling to change their stance thinking it is a battle for individuality instead of a battle against the world.
Pere confirmed something I have come to observe about men "Men want to be babied and respected". When he says it's the way you say it, (manner of approach) we woman should learn to be gentle eventhough we have reasons to be upset. Still learn to respect them as a king and treat the the way you would care for your little ones. Most men are still babies, it's hidden because society tells men to 'man up'.
To be honest these men know what they are doing especially when the women really want the long term relationship, they know that they are not ready for it, they just want to keep women in the box just incase the other plans didn't work........ experience has thought me never to tell a grown up man what he needs to do with me....... I judge the fate of our relationship by his actions and make a decision base on that.
No matter how advance the world think it has gotten. Wrong is wrong and right is right. I still see fornication as a sin, whether we are sinners or not. Whether we make mistakes or not. The point is to learn from our mistakes. I abstain from sex, I am fully celibate. Thank God, I’ll be getting married again soon. I just pray, we will have a faithful and trustworthy marriage.
@@pauloke3011 what’s funny about it? If you think you can kick me for leaving an abusive marriage, you must be a joker. Not even sure what your second question is about.
Y'all need to embrace🗣 ALL OF YOURSELVES as women. "Love" (youtube 🤪) was God given and there is nothing shameful in that, it is to be celebrated, at the legal age and consensually, very important. Enjoy it!
Which particular Durex condom type that feels like natural is Pere talking about please, I think is what I need to buy @toke please can you tell us the type? Thanks
I've not watch it all (i'm at 4:04), but I can tell the reason why some women will be shy or embarrassed. The reason is because the more condoms you wear, you actually get better at it. Hence, you are embarrassed if you're actually good in putting it on, the man on the other end will feel you do this a lot. Thereby guaranteeing that the man will look down on you. Where some women are wrong in this sense is, if you are doing it for your husband, then it's better, since you will be only with him for life, so there wouldn't be judgement there.
I didn’t feel the whole sexual energy that this post was suppose to give, have never seen any talk show about sex that is boring, pls look for a very vibrant guest next time, Khloe or Don jazzy will do an expert job abeg ifedayo Of diaryofanaijagirl will be an excellent guest for this blue zone.. well done still Toke
Men especially African men are so minus zero when it comes to communication. And instead of owning and fixing that error in them, then turn to gaslighting😡 meet a man who lacks communication, my sister run 🏃🏽♀️ cus y’all will always be fighting. He will gaslight you until you can no longer recognize yourself.. runnnnn
Pere you are an honest man. We appreciate you and we’ll support you always. You are extremely talented and handsome. ❤❤❤
She absolutely gave him a Therapy session. Emotional intelligence displayed 👏
PERE is a man of confidence, very honest and charming
I have observed that Pere is confident because he has big and long penis and any man who does is always a confident man. I wish mine is as big and long as Pere own.
"Even if you explain the explanatory explainations"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Pere is so effortlessly funny!!
Pere’s point on baby-ing is more on communicating effectively.. as he said raising concerns playfully or when you both are calm will give it more strength and audience. As against shouting and showing anger aggressively
There’s so much sexual tension between you guys 😅😅😅. I love how Pere is openly flirting with her.
Lively interview...thank you my General Pere
Pere my fav… smooth talker with a touch of pride😍
If you know you know
Like seriously 🤣😂🥰❤️
Nice conversation guys
That's my General Percy, you so intelligent ❤❤❤
I love you Toke. I love the way you can put emotions into words. God bless you
Thank you 😊
Toke, you are too intelligent abeg🙌🏾 always a pleasure to hear you speak ❤️ This Convo was light-hearted and candid at the same time.
I appreciate that
Wow so interesting I enjoyed it❤
Great interview with Pere
Toke is doing the Lord's work, asking these men the absolute right questions! Bless you
Goooooosh this guy is a vibe 😍!!!! Everything about him give cool swaaaag. I know who I am!! Grrrrrrrggggh!!! I like
Pere to the world ❤
It’s always Toke’s laughter for me anyday, anytime😂❤️❤️
My Pere ooo.. I love this❤
Interesting conversation and interview
I enjoyed watching this 😂😂😂❤
Toke... @ 19:40. Yes men go through that. Especially at a younger age. When a woman breaks up with us, we feel it. We just hide it. Society has already told us we need to be strong emotionally, so we don't show it. We'd rather drown ourselves in work, drinks or other vices.
pere ooo perw the GENERAL hinself 🙌🙌🙌🙌✌✌🇧🇴🖤✊
Even if you explain the explanatory explanation 😂😂😂
Pere I love you regardless ❤
I genuinely enjoyed this conversation. A lot of questions weren’t answered. Toke, you asked the questions on our minds. Thank you!
I love this episode so much
Thank you toke
Always doing the work for us
I just realized how much I still love pere even after biggies house 😍😍😍
Ebei Toke this oje you know m'am ate sure 🤣🤣🤣🤣
You’re loved truly and genuinely🥰... Giving us notes on a daily❤️
I enjoy every bit of this conversation 💯
Loved the vibe between dis two its adorable
God's work ...😃
I walked into a pharmacy and boldly asked for condoms, the guy in one corner looked at me a certain way and I got it but it's not him that will catch STIs. It's also taking responsibility for myself first and then my partner.
You're absolutely right
Did same with my boyfriend. We walked into the pharmacy and I literally shouted give me condom, while tapping my boyfriend's ass. It was quite exhilarating. My boyfriend looked at me like I was crazy
@@tovkeljames9430 now that's crazy fam😂
@@tovkeljames9430 gurlllllllll you is crazyyyyyy😂love eeet!!!😂😂
There is no shame. They can call me loose all they want.
I love you Toke thank you for this💖
Sweet soul pere❤
Wow Toke you are so intelligent I really enjoy this Blue zone conversation 😍😍
Thank you 🙏🏾
Perfect. @ 14:20. The first thing I told my wife after we got married was if I do anything wrong, call my attention to it. Most men don't want their wives to tell them they have done something wrong and that in itself is wrong.
Who do you think will call you to order when you go wrong? You're not perfect men.
And then at the point of Toke saying men needs to be held to a higher standard, yes men do need to be held at a high standard. It is important. The reason is the men are the leaders in any relationship. They should be held accountable for the marriage, relationship or any union. Because men are the logical ones and most women are the ones with more feelings than logic.
If I say I'm going to call my wife, I should. I've made it a point to even remember (given my Adhd) and put it in my calendar. Hence the "If I do anything wrong, call me to order" Because at the end of the day, I will actually call my wife to order as well
It's very hard being a non typical female with a non typical male who is sensitive, not so logical and not exactly leader material.
@@groawninggig2436 well... he can learn and she can learn. Things are not just set in stone. Everyone has emotions, it's about balancing them. I believe the word "emotional" is now used to describe someone who cannot handle their emotions. Critically looking at it, everyone is an emotional being. Emotions and Leadership can exist together when emotional intelligence is applied. A leader who understands and manages their emotions while also navigating the emotions of their partner can foster a healthy and supportive environment.
True and yes, but some people are not self aware at all by default nor do they even seek to know to change and be better even in the context of a marriage, I will see how I will solve the fix I am in, given time...
@@groawninggig2436Apt on that. And that is the issue I currently see in so many marriages. Men and women unwilling to change their stance thinking it is a battle for individuality instead of a battle against the world.
I enjoyed the conversation
I was looking forward to hearing the just the tip story ooo😂😂
The fact that Aunty toke can relate to girls struggles❤ Communicate man, it’s not hard💯
I enjoyed every bit of this conversation 😋
Hi Toke. You speak with so much intention and emotions, you just earned a fan. Thanks pretty ❤️ Glad I found this.
My General pere ❤❤❤❤
Alot of love from Cameroon 🇨🇲
Pere confirmed something I have come to observe about men "Men want to be babied and respected". When he says it's the way you say it, (manner of approach) we woman should learn to be gentle eventhough we have reasons to be upset. Still learn to respect them as a king and treat the the way you would care for your little ones. Most men are still babies, it's hidden because society tells men to 'man up'.
Lol spot on
I learnt this a long time ago that it is the how
Why does it lowkey feel like i'm watching a therapy session. Lol Good job, Toke!
Lmao!!! This episode about to be hilarious.
I see what Pere did there, when he said he said he doesn’t know a lot about durex 😉 #ifyouknowyouknow *coughing in Trojan* 😂
I enjoyeeeddddd this ❤
My favs 😅😅😅😅❤❤❤❤❤ Perezzzzzzz and Tokesssssss❤❤
Always informative and enlightening contents
😂😂😂 I am a Gender Officer & I am slowly but surely breaking out of that box…
I will also lurvvvvvv the opportunity to be on this show
#Tope2023# if you know you know !!! Congrats in advance my toke star 🌟
This is the comment I’ve been looking for!!!
👀
Pere is a good guest for the topic. Such a sexy soft guy with a sprinkle of pride. Exactly how I love my man 💯
My goodness 😂😂😂
Welldone 😂
Oshey
😅 Oya go carry him😅
@@nanaakua2887 with all pleasure
To be honest these men know what they are doing especially when the women really want the long term relationship, they know that they are not ready for it, they just want to keep women in the box just incase the other plans didn't work........ experience has thought me never to tell a grown up man what he needs to do with me....... I judge the fate of our relationship by his actions
and make a decision base on that.
GOD BLESS THAT IS ME NO TIME FOR BABYSITTING
This is the comment!📌
100% + another 1000%! These men know exactly what they are doing.
Why am i just seeing this🤣🥰
Am 2nd 🥰🥰 my very lovely Aunty Toke
😊😊😍in love with this episode..
Thank you
I'm so happy seeing you on my fyp today 💃
King Pere ❤❤
This podcast is everything 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
I totally loved
💃💃🙌🙌okayyyyyy... Am here for this. Someone get my popcorn 🍿..
My General ❤
Pere my sexy General, so sweet with words
Pere❤❤❤❤
Love the convo 💕💕
I buy a condom,p2 ,tampons and pregnancy kit all four at the same time 😂✌️confuse them ……
😅
🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽
🤣🤣🤣 that'd work.
🤣🤣🤣
Baddest🙌🏾
I love this talk❤❤
You are such an intelligent woman ❤
PERE AND TOKE??❤❤❤ we won
#TMpod this was a cool Convo...
I am here for my General
I love this woman 🥰🥰💯💯💯
I sense a lot of sexual tension here lol
Me too
This was fun
Toke is too intelligent abeg😂❤
No matter how advance the world think it has gotten. Wrong is wrong and right is right. I still see fornication as a sin, whether we are sinners or not. Whether we make mistakes or not. The point is to learn from our mistakes.
I abstain from sex, I am fully celibate. Thank God, I’ll be getting married again soon. I just pray, we will have a faithful and trustworthy marriage.
Amen in Jesus' Name...you're so right
Lol (again?) …how about one man one wife?
😄😄😄 Go siddon. Na una do pass
@@Afrobarbie21 God forbid your evil and insecurities upon me.
@@pauloke3011 what’s funny about it? If you think you can kick me for leaving an abusive marriage, you must be a joker. Not even sure what your second question is about.
20:03 Toke is soo smart !!
Guys this is toke makinwa of Nigerian?I always hear ebuka speaking out her name on the finals
I love the slight arrogance he has. Felt like grabbing his arms throughout
I love you so much Toke❤️
Y'all need to embrace🗣 ALL OF YOURSELVES as women. "Love" (youtube 🤪) was God given and there is nothing shameful in that, it is to be celebrated, at the legal age and consensually, very important. Enjoy it!
Which particular Durex condom type that feels like natural is Pere talking about please, I think is what I need to buy @toke please can you tell us the type? Thanks
Ooouuuu wowwww 😂❤❤❤
Toke!!!!!
Too good
General Pere
Smooth operator my general
I have bought condom before oooo, Wetin concern me😂😂
I still buy yesterday sef lmao
I've not watch it all (i'm at 4:04), but I can tell the reason why some women will be shy or embarrassed. The reason is because the more condoms you wear, you actually get better at it. Hence, you are embarrassed if you're actually good in putting it on, the man on the other end will feel you do this a lot. Thereby guaranteeing that the man will look down on you.
Where some women are wrong in this sense is, if you are doing it for your husband, then it's better, since you will be only with him for life, so there wouldn't be judgement there.
Pere is flirting and toke hmmmm I like both vibes thou
All nigerian mrm use that i will call you back thing but never call back.
First here 💃💃💃
I didn’t feel the whole sexual energy that this post was suppose to give, have never seen any talk show about sex that is boring, pls look for a very vibrant guest next time, Khloe or Don jazzy will do an expert job abeg ifedayo Of diaryofanaijagirl will be an excellent guest for this blue zone.. well done still Toke
The comment I’m looking for!!!!
Exactly... No chemistry
I literally look through for this comment
Pere was too dry for this
Taemisan would have been better
He is not vibrant 😢
She should have the women from Madeux Lowkey Relatable on the show. Valarie and Tamara.
Toke and Pere😍🎊
Pere pere if i didn't like mercy 😅 i would ve bought a ticket to Nigeria just to..... 😂😂
Sex outside of marriage is SIN.
Men especially African men are so minus zero when it comes to communication. And instead of owning and fixing that error in them, then turn to gaslighting😡 meet a man who lacks communication, my sister run 🏃🏽♀️ cus y’all will always be fighting. He will gaslight you until you can no longer recognize yourself.. runnnnn
And it's how they are always proud of themselves for lacking basic communication skills🙄
Toke you look good!❤
Thank you
This made me love Pere now🥰 didn’t really like him because he of his pompous then in big brother and been too strict
Hummmmmm My favorite okayyyyy
Pere. 💟