I am a regular blue collar man. I'm a truck driver. I drive at night so my Saturdays are short. All I have is just Sunday and I sleep Monday so I can drive again Monday night. That being said, because I'm blue collar, I don't look anything like Chris Hemsworth or anyone from Bollywood since I am brown after all. I'm invisible to women men like me. We are invisible to women because women work in the corporate world. They're exposed to men in the office with the suits. Men like me come home smelling of diesel and covered in suit though we are the ones that make the world go round and we are also the ones who know how to look after a woman. We come home tired at the end of our shift. We don't want to fight or argue. We just want to eat wine down. Go to sleep. Do it all over again and those women who complain that they are alone. They don't even look at us so we just do our own thing. Mostly work
Amigo, grab the passport and head to the airport. Lots of women overseas who would be delighted with a man who can consistently put food on the table, a roof overhead that doesn't leak, and decent furniture, clothes, and kitchen appliances. Vietnam, Thailand, Costa Rica, Panama, Indonesia, Mexico, etc. Throw in a workable car, medical care, and an occasional modest vacation and you'll approach god-like status in her eyes. She's out there. Start the search. Good luck my friend.
Hey bro your mistake is thinking about why women do not look at you. Just that mindset is bad. First of all your on your purpose, your making your bread. Stay on it. When you have free time hit a hobby or gym. Third start traveling take a vacation learn a new language. Am Hispanic of course I speak 2 languages here in California but I learn how to speak Thai my 3rd language. Next am a learn Korean or Vietnamese. Women will come bro trust me. Am 5-9 290 lbs and I have a roster of women. You can too.
Ya ever heard of money? "Amigo?" It's in short supply, these days. Especially for western men. .. "Passport Bros" is just another bullshit Tik Tok Psyop, meant to further discourage men and women
It's always been like this. You have to make yourself visible to women if you want them to look at you. Women wanting the top men only is something that's deeply ingrained into their DNA. But what's also deeply ingrained in their DNA is that they generally are a lot more emotional in terms of decision making. If you want a woman to see you, do something that makes you stand out to her in a positive way. Step out of that pool of 'mass of people' and become a 'real person' to her.
@@whynot1548 nah. 1 dollar = 24,000 vietnam dong 1 dollar = 35.66 thailand baht 1 dollar = 528 costa rican colon 1 dollar = 15,600 indonesian rupiah 1 dollar = 17 mexican peso i think passport bros will be fine, bruv.
It’s hilarious that once you see the red pill, you can’t unsee it & what would of been a harmless comment becomes the answer to her own question. Men that meet “her” standards don’t want her back because those type of men have options & why would they settle for a non agreeable female on her decline . Her money is great for her but unfortunately she won’t provide for a man so it’s useless to us. It’s sad but more females are hitting that wall & don’t realize till it’s too late.
I am an engineer with a bachelors degree. I refuse to date anyone with a Masters degree, or any corporate management job. They look down on me and cannot be impressed. Chivalry is dead because it does not bring a man any kind of reward, and if anything it brings contempt from women. Primarily I find waitresses, retail workers, and realtors are the most appreciative and fun to be with.
That’s so unfortunate. Not everybody in management are that way. Or believe they are above. I could say the same for engineers. I think at the end of the day, it’s about treating people with respect regardless of their status or lack thereof.
Here is my story after my divorce. I moved to the Bay Area and ended a relationship to be with a sister that had cancer. I began a new career from the bottom and didn’t have all my life in order but I proceeded to be active with online dating. My older sister had a senior position at her company, a great career, owned her own home, and had a huge social network. She was shocked that while I was getting my career in order I found a girlfriend around my age and we made a life together. Bottom line, life is all about priorities and when you prioritize having your career firing on all cylinders … your perfect partner doesn’t just show up just because you are getting older.
Respect,man. Thing is men can date down no problem. Women mostly can't. A highly succesfull guy can date and marry a girl who work as a restaurant waitress if she is loving,respectfull,caring and he's attracted to her. Girls can't and that will be a huge problem for so many of these upscale women
so many UA-cam videos have covered this -- Kevin Samuels, Suzanne Venker, Jedidiah Bila etc. too many women wait too long to marry and lose out or end up alone
@@thesandero2454 my youngest sister dated for 30 plus yrs. finally at 50 plus met a guy at an airport, began a relationship, 2 yrs. later got married, I think she was desperate, hope it lasts
@@thesandero2454 They absolutely can, they choose not to because of what other people will think. It's little wonder so few women are happy: they live through the frame of what other people think.
Parents married when both had nothing. Mom said to us "If your dad took me to live under a bridge. I would be there with him. As long as we are together. For better or for worse" Both worked hard and complimented each other and worked as a team. Dad was the President and Mom the VP. Women of today. .....this video. Hoeflation is real.
My mom told me those exact same words. She was against upgrading their lifestyle but supported my father and they’re still together to this day. She’s very much looking forward to retiring with him next year.
Basically, the model low income family from "Good Times" and even the upscale model family from "The Jeffersons" and "Cosby" are gone. We get "Divorce Court" and fake "Housewives" 👀
I met a modern woman online a few years ago and we went on a date.(so I thought). Turns out she only contacted me because she wanted to tell me my standards on my dating profile was too high. When I reread my profile, I stated I only wanted a slim to medium built woman with good manners. That's just one of many online dating disasters. I am married now because I became a Passport Bro. Message!😊
She said she hadn't had a boyfriend, she didn't say she was a virgin. She was focusing on her career, and herself, that means hookups, not relationships. Now she's looking to settle down and her best years are behind her, she thinks she is more valuable and wont drop her standards, but her attitude, her hookups and her not settling, just make her undatable.
This is so accurate. When she says "I have been single," it means Chad and Tyrone were hitting it easily and freely. They are always sleeping around when they are "single"
You should always take what people say with a grain of salt especially women. I’m sure she had a short term bf but maybe she cheated on him or it didn’t work out. Maybe she considered not having a bf a somewhat successful relationship. She is lying or speaking in womenese
I think she just tries to be a parody of suitable candidate for a relationship, for attention I cannot explain why girls magnetize towards the most unhappy joke of the life. Is it somewhat romantic? "I wished for love and happiness, but look at me, used up, dirty, lonely goodies... Boo hoo, poor me" Better than boring peace
I’m a man in mid 50s with a young daughter who has never been married and have been in the grocery business my whole career. I can never risk getting into a serious relationship because I want to guarantee that my wealth and home will be left to my daughter. Generational wealth for my daughter is more important than a committed relationship!!
I have 3 friends in their late 30's in a similar situation all single. They had to move for work, their aging parents lost work and either could not find work or retire yet so now their parents live with them. They are not high income earners and struggle on 1 income to pay the mortgage payments but because of the co-habitation laws they are terrified of bringing home a gold digger and losing their house.
Correct. Most modern women don't want to admit it but when you evaluate how they move with men over time, they're really wanting situationships. They don't have the focus and stamina to stay married longer than 5 to 7 years
I’m 6ft tall or 183cm, athletic physique, broad shoulders , V shape, fit, full head of hair, somewhat handsome ( 7/10 I’m told). Early 40s and I can count on one hand all the times in my life I’ve been flirted with or glanced/ smiled at. I’m practically invisible. I’m quite sociable, friendly, enjoy meeting new people, and go out often. Even worked in a bar during my early 20s. Yet, I have spent years as an involuntary celibate and faced countless rejections. 99.8% rejection rate which has not changed with the woman’s age. Recently, a 43 year old divorced Taiwanese lady seemed to take an interest in me. I sometimes see her at work and we always stop for a chat. She asked if I was single and told me she is single so I asked if she wanted to go out for a drink. Realising it was a romantic offer, she declared my status as merely a friend and nothing more. Rejected and friendzoned by a 43 year old single woman really let’s you know where you stand in the scheme of attractiveness. It’s tough not being in the top ten percent.
Here is the thing. As a person who is 51, been all over the world. To get woman, you have to have seduction and game. To get woman, you have to insinuate that you have other woman interested in you- even if you don’t. It works, woman want what other woman want. They don’t want to know that they are the only one.
@Joel-uc5lo yeah, I love traveling , especially solo. Been learning Japanese for 5 years so that helps break the ice in Japanese bars but anything beyond a little chit chat has yet to happen. I’m open to new technology. I don’t think there’s any shame in it. If women make it clear to men like me that we are not desirable, why shouldn’t we embrace technological alternatives.
You need to be in the gym or find someone to change your wardrobe. You could have bought a Corvette and jumped the line, bro .. I. Get a minimum of 2 women per day I drive any of my sports cars
It always blown my mind how women worked hard to take men's opportunities from them, and then complain that there's no men for them to date. There's only a finite amount of high paying jobs, either you take the responsibility that comes with that, or don't have that job - or just be alone your whole life. I'm tired of hearing them complain about the consequences or their own actions.
This is a big part of it. With all the HR, DEI, Feminist that are applying and in the ecosphere saying there is unfair advantages of Women (to manipulate upward trajectory) they TAKE a position from a Man that is the “provider”
Well...this is hell where complaining and begging get noticed. Anything outside of that is considered a threat. So naturally the alphabet soup community do whatever they can to make that threat real. It's a dirty game , but someone has got to do it.
@@Mrs.CGraves It's honestly unreal. Anytime I was able to successfully pass an interview and land a job, the recruiter was a male. The ones where I got rejected came from females. Women shouldn't be involved in hiring processes in my honest opinion.
A man needs to make at least $60k per year to be able to afford to date and probably $75k before he can honestly consider marriage. Every woman who has a job paying more than $60k removes a man from the dating and marriage market.
As Kevin Samuels always used to say, life is about choices and trade offs. I understand that women also have ambitions, but if you want a man, find one while your still young if you are emotionally ready. Take advantage of your youthfulness before it disappears and get the best for what the market will offer you
I’ve been married 26 Years. I have built a beautiful life with my Husband, walking in traditional values and lifestyle. If people want help, go to long term married couples and ask them to mentor you. Listen, and when triggered work thru WHY it’s triggering, because it’s something you must let go. I’m in my early 40’s and raised 2 wives who are wives.
@mrs.cgraves. You're hitting on a huge part of the problem here. A LOT of middle-aged and younger folks are committing the same repetitive errors in today's "modern" dating marketplace. They mistakenly beLIEve that there's some academic, new, or "high tech" way to learn social & dating skills. Single women most likely can't & won't learn how to be appealing girlfriends, fiancées, or wives out of a book. Usually requires some degree of ongoing coaching or mentoring. (Same goes for most men becoming appealing husband candidates).
@@Mrs.CGravessure but your traditional setup implies that your man is the bread winner? I'm not sure that you're the target audience representative of the women were discussing. Are you more educated or Is he? Who's taller? A lot of us career women value the traditional. We just realise quite late that spending our 20s getting degrees and work experience caused a gap between us and the guys. In my experience, some men felt annoyed that I was more competent at some things. Some feel emasculated at what I earn. You see? Ps: I once tried asking a married couple if similar age for advice, it didn't go very well. It seems like they were pretending to be perfect for aprerances; when I asked for advice observing their seemingly great entente, they acted super defensive then the man started yelling..
Im a single woman virgin 36 and its hard to find a guy for me. And it's not the fault of men! It's the fault of those damn radical feminists who has destroyed men! And that in itself is more depressing than being single
More and more completely ingnore women today. Today the fact that most women can easily sleep around every day with another guy (via social media, dating apps, insta etc) and the fact that women are the ones who sexualize (Insta, TikTok, bigo, onlyfans or in public) and hype hook up culture is not attractive at all. It's way better to be without a woman today.. I wouldn't even meet a girl for a coffee today, they can all have the f-boys (about 10-15% of men)
I think men understand this 100 percent. The problem is that these type of studies and conversations are either falling on death ears for women or they are to busy trying to deny and push the blame off that they don’t take the time to listen and absorb it.
Unfortunately women see these type of truths as attacks. Just waiting on the final steps of my dual citizenship and I'm off to Colombia back to the motherland
@@reynaldogil8842well it is an attack because you're asking a group of people to get out of their comfort zone to realize they're thought process is 🗑️ and women are in this situation are comfortable in their delusion.
What we still fail to understand is a lot of women and men have never been in a relationship. Meeting up a few times in the week for sex is not a relationship. Having a partner and constantly cheating is not a relationship. Relationship is a state of connectiveness and many don't even come close. For me, a relationship is about fun, trust, laughter, embracing each others flaws and putting in the effort to make things work. A relationship is solidified when a couple meet each others family and friends.
Think in the conventional sense yes, my guy though he hasn’t met my girlfriends cause he’s not going to have any thing in common w them, I mean shit my girlfriends have even commented on wanting to meet him. This doesn’t mean though you’re not in a serious relationship, for me I’m not traditional or conversational.
The problem is people don’t want to work on their relationships anymore. They expect perfection and leave when things start to get a little rough. Women were brainwashed by social media that relationships are always suppose to be smooth sailing otherwise, it’s not worthy it. These unrealistic expectations is why people are having problem forming relationships.
@@tinahuttner7280 I hear what you're saying, but your partner doesn't have to have anything in common with your friends. Your friends are part of your life and I think it only makes a relationship stronger when your partner knows who you surround yourself with. Also, your friends who have known you longer, may identify things in your partner you may not see. It's all a positive at the end of the day.
@@castiel4746 Why not? I'm 32 and I'm a virgin. I'm not proud of that because I've never had a relationship and that's lonely. But I wouldn't want to have meaningless sex either. I'm not attractive, admittedly, but I am submissive. I wouldn't have any problem with letting the man decide everything. But nobody has ever been interested in me. I don't blame men for that, it's biology. But I do feel lonely.
2:08 She didn't say she is a virgin. She said she never had a boyfriend. A 30yo man who says he's never had a girlfriend more likely than not is a virgin. A 30yo woman who says she's never had a boyfriend more likely than not is not a virgin.
This is the big difference the lie by omission is very prevalent… that female mystique leads men to ignore her past experiences… too many naive men out here ignoring their checkered past…
@saraht170 have all the standards you want, just understand that when your standards provide 0% success rate, and you do not change them, do not act surprised that you end up "buying the dog and dying alone" (paraphrased from Kevin Samuels). Also, men generally do not judge women for having their standards. We just move on to more accessible hills to climb or we drop to our default state (alone or dead in a ditch or both). Women on the other hand do judge each other on their standards because that is how they compete amongst themselves. They will spite each other like harpies as we men look from the sidelines, baffled that these creatures actually call themselves friends. We too have our own incomprehensible male rituals like hazing and banter, and occasional fisticuffs, that only make sense in the absence of women. Otherwise, they become hurtful or diluted which is no benefit to anyone.
I looked up on google, feminism and raising boys. I was interested how raising a boy would make a feminist woman question some of the dogma of feminism. Hardly any of the results were women questioning feminist dogma as a result of raising boys. 99% were tips on how single women could raise feminist boys: boys who would be more emotional, passive, yielding to girls. How to raise young men who are unattractive to women, let alone unfit to be called men. Women are sabotaging the upbringing of attractive men, and forcing the upbringing of women who find most men unattractive. Soe anthropologists claim that humans are unusual in being optimised to create grandchildren. Well we are now failing in that task.
the courts enforce this by terminating fathers parental rights based on hearsay from these toxic females. usually accompanied by their toxic mothers. the judge basically salivating at the chance to flout due process, circumvent laws, and ignore evidence, leaving young boys forcefully separated from their fathers and subjected to being raised with their innate manhood suppressed. its a whole secret system. any father who has been through the court system and subjected to the charade run by these psychos in robes knows what im talking about.
I have seen interviews where they asked women to describe the minimum requirements for dating and then they asked them what percentage of men they think meet that requirements. The women rattle off a list of 6 foot 1, six pack abs, $250,000 income, etc. They'll say maybe 40% on men meet that... and then the person interview will tell them only 0.7% of men meet those requirements and most of those men are already married.
The reason women can't find love is because by and large they are throwing their bodies at men. I have dated multiple women who I could have loved and built a life with if not for poor decisions they made in the past. I can't respect a woman enough to make her a wife when she doesn't respect herself.
having any sexual partners prior to securing a committed relationship, ie marriage. 0 is optimal. more than 2 and she's demoted to the "just for fun" category.@@beac8238
@@beac8238 Absolutely. If they have ever had a one night stand or hook-up you are automatically in the for fun category. It's not like I won't consider a woman just because she isn't a virgin, although it is preferable. The woman I was dating prior to the woman I am currently dating initiated with her mouth on the second date... Automatically in the for fun category... I liked her so I gave her more of a chance than I normally would and as I discovered more about her past I had to end things with her. I have never initiated sex within a month of knowing a person... Every single time it's been the woman and yet there are delusional women out here acting like it's the men who want to jump straight into bed with them. If I was dating a proper virgin/traditional woman I would be completely content with waiting until marriage. It's disgusting how women blame men, etc for the dating world they created by choosing to be 304s.
@@beac8238 Hmm, it seems my response to your question might be gone. At least on my end it doesn't show up. Not sure if it is some UA-cam admin blocking it. In the event that you hadn't been able to see my response; to summarize things the women I am referring to made bad choices with men in their past. I'm not going to buy a high mileage woman for full price(marriage).
I’m 68. My fiancé is an attorney in Istanbul. She’s 44 and looks like she’s 24. She actually lectures at the United Nations. She wants to be a housewife and have children. This is a real girl. Here in America, I can’t get a girl in the supermarket to have a conversation with me. Of course, men like myself are going overseas. At least they’ll talk to us……
Melanie, I had a woman once tell me that because of women's historical disadvantage..."in order for us to be equal, I have to have all the power in this relationship." - to which I replied, "back the truck up, sister!"
@@Kyronetta even in the past I wonder where this male advantage was? 95% of men in history have been slaves, serfs, servants, or soldiers Lucky bastards lmao
They look at history through modern lens. Were women going to go hunt the mammoths and escape the sabretooths? 😂. Were they going to fight in the militaries, conquer and build empires? Nope. Next time, ask them how long they would've survived as a species if men didnt keep them save from wild animals, diseases, war and environment and feed them.
Lowering your standards is different than living in reality. Some people are delusional on what they can get and it’s not settling if an option is your only option.
True. And also do not forget, men don't SPEND like women do, our needs are far more basic and even our high dollar expenditures are very long term buys, we take care of our material things. 13:40 We aren't falling behind, we are achieving work life balance
I've heard hundreds of these enlightened broads speak of this 'work life balance ' , but see only emotion drive them to excess, or give up at the first sign of difficulty. But, you nailed it on the head... men are doing more with less to achieve TRUE balance. Well said mate.
I just started following Melanie and love hearing a woman share such a balanced and transparent perspective that can really make a difference for those willing to listen.
I think most men in their 20s will tend to be lazy without a woman or the prospect of getting a woman they want. Once they hit 30 or so I suspect they end up getting secondary pressures that motivate them to get things for themselves, but a man will tend to do the bare minimum to live a comfortable life. Men tend to need a whole lot less than woman do to be in my experience.
I could be mistaken but the anecdotal evidence I've come across from women is that they spend more but have no retirement. I've come across that several times. I'd much rather live frugally now while saving for my retirement years to ensure I can still eat after my working years are done.
I am 32 and have been single now for over two years. With each month that passes, my bank account grows and my desire for chaos diminishes. I would like to enjoy the company of a woman but I do think I have given up. Attractive women play their games with me but in my mind I’ve already lost, and I do not have faith that I could be married to a faithful woman.
Yes... for the most part, men work because we MUST... and so that we CAN date... if we choose to date. When society punishes men for dating and getting married, more and more men will REFUSE to date/get married. They will "check out"... "take their toys and go home"... refuse to play a game where all the rules are rigged against them... which is happening. They say that 50% of men aren't even trying, but they try to make it sound like that is somehow a bad thing... for MEN... as if it's somehow a bad thing for them, that they don't have some woman making their lives a living 773H.
Unmarried men, per the income stats, flatline in their mid 30's. Meanwhile married men keep growing their incomes through their 50's. So a man without a wife is generally a man who never reached his full potential.
@@theskyizblue2day431 they mention it here, but expanding your pool of options (passport bro) may be an option to find more serious daters. I would ask your male friends for feedback if they know of anyone. I recommended my friend (also 32) to someone who lives in Mexico, and they have hit it off very well thus far (4 months). Meanwhile locally he was not meeting anyone compatible. Keep the faith.
The biggest underlying problem is the unrealistic/ crazy expectations that women have. But we cannot talk about that as it would damage or offend them too much
Sounds like being an adult.. what is wrong with you people. Bills don’t pay themselves, there’s nothing wrong with a woman focusing on her career. The issue is focusing solely on your career. A woman should be able to do both at the same time, it’s not that difficult.
This pisses me off. Now he's just straight up LYING about what the effects and consequences of raising the minimum wage has been. It has devastated those areas he cited.
This whole thing has reinforced a theory i had for the last year; the problem is a subconscious belief in women that in order to truly have rights, it has to be taken from someone else. Feminism has shifted from equality with men to competing with men. There's no other way it makes sense!
I could see that. I've seen women flexing their inked up muscular arms on social media in their gym selfies. They actually believe being more masculine makes them more attractive to heterosexual men. It's hilarious lol.
You've got that part of it right, @kryshunter Another part is the whole oppressor-oppressed narrative. Good people don't want to be the oppressor, of course... so the binary option is to become the oppressed, instead... which tends to make a person FEEL oppressed. That tends to do a LOT of things... none of them good... including turning the other side into perceived enemies. When you treat someone like an enemy, don't be surprised when they BECOME one. "The pooch" has been well and truly screwed.
in GENERAL: Men: "Logic always triumphs over feelings." Great long-term approach. Women: "Feelings always triumph over logic." Great short-term approach. You're absolutely right about putting more money into men's pockets to make them more appealing to women. Increasing minimum wage will do little, as the minimum wage will be equally raised in the C-suite. 90% tax rates under Eisenhower is an urban legend promulgated by the 1%. The MARGINAL tax rate was 90% for HIGH INCOME earners. Ordinary folk paid much less income tax. Under Eisenhower, CEOs earned roughly 30 times what the guy on the shop floor earned. The current figure is around 687 times, most of which CEOs earn by layoffs, outsourcing etc. Until 1992, executive compensation above $1 million [i.e., "Marginal"] came out of POST-TAX profits. In that era, share holders would scream bloody murder if CEOs were gulping down their money. In 1992, Bill Clinton signed an executive order that allowed CEO compensation to come out of PRE-TAX income. Suddenly, taxpayers were subsidizing these absurd salaries. When CEO president Bill McKinnell retired as CEO of Pfizer, he received $92 MILLION retirement compensation, no doubt much of it sheltered. Pfizer had to lay off 50,000 people to pay his compensation. A simple reversion to the pre-1992 tax rule would probably instantly do more than raising the minimum wage to put money into the pockets of working men.
Raising the minimum wage actually has the exact opposite effect that the gentleman in the video assumes it will. He's clearly not an economist, and is basically spouting nonsense. Every time minimum wage is raised, the age of the bottom layer of workers increases, because the youngest people are the least qualified workers, so they are the least desirable from an employer's standpoint. Additionally, some employers, especially small businesses, are barely staying afloat in the current economy. If minimum wage is tripled, they will likely CUT the workforce and employ fewer people, and give existing workers fewer hours whenever possible. Nothing happens in a vacuum, and employers react to market forces. Meanwhile, young folks who would be happy to accept a job at current minimum wage (not triple current) are forced out of the job market because they have no work experience... He should probably watch some Milton Friedman or Thomas Sowell videos about minimum wage.
That woman was trying to live how a man usually does. Doesn't end well. Though a 30 year old women being a virgin is so astronomically rare. Meanwhile with most men, it's not so rare lol. I'm 33, never had a relationship, but oh well. Life's gone that way. I was born alone, live alone, and will die alone. I have no issues with it. My life path is a solo path, it is a quiet and calm path and there is some benefits to it. I just sit on the side as an observer and watch the show that is humanity.
@@ilikepancakes2368 Sad because your bias ego says so, as if you are qualified to determine what is and isn't sad lol. Stay in your lane my guy. Don't project ego, it's toxic.
The grass is not always greener. I have a friend that has been married for decades. It is a sexless marriage and he has said more than once that he wishes he was me, a single guy. She is always demanding he jump through hoops and do stuff for her and gets nothing in return. See sometimes the chase is what we find exciting and not so much catching the reward. Investing in yourself development is never wasted.
When making 50k to 90k isnt enough because she's making 100k, go to places where a young beautiful fertile woman would be overjoyed with even $10k a year. Not only will they appreciate your efforts, they'll allow you to lead them.
Mr. Galloway mentioned in the full video that the crisis with men can not be discussed in society as many would see anything to help men is seen as anti women. What isn't said is that the crisis in men not just affects men, it affects women too. We have a long ways to go when men and women have become adversaries.
The so-called "crisis in men" is caused by women. Yes, it's affecting women, too... and going to affect them even more, which is just a simple logical prediction. Maybe society should start trying to fix the imbalance in the family courts, before it's too late... but, no... we can't have that, because it would be seen as "anti-women". The only reason that they care about the "crisis in men" is because it's beginning to negatively impact women... and they have been learning about "population collapse", and they are worried where the money is going to come from, to fund all of their social welfare stuff.
@@jefferytokarsky1930 This crisis was caused by men's willingness to sacrifice themselves on the altar of women's needs and desires. You can see some of this in the ways that marriage has been ruined for men, in order to give all of the benefits and protections to women. Prime examples are no-fault divorce, community property, child support, and alimony... and the way that family courts are so extremely tilted in women's favor. Now, women are so self-centered, stupid, spoiled rotten, and ungrateful, as to complain about how that "evil patriarchy oppresses them". Women killed chivalry in multiple ways, including their lack of appreciation. Marriage is ruined, as an viable choice, for men. Thus, we have hookup culture, hump-and-dump, men refusing to commit to women, red pill, MGTOW, "basement dwellers", men "checking out" of a society that calls them worthless (at best), and often much worse. And yes, we have some actual misogynists who *are* misogynists... because of how women treat them. Misogynists aren't born, they are *made*... by women. Cause and effect. This is no different than what almost everyone calls "the cycle of child abuse". Going back to your comment about, "The only reason it’s being discussed now is that women are feeling the affects." Absolutely agree. That is the only way that these problems will ever be solved, or even reduced, precisely because of most men's willingness to sacrifice for women. *Women* have to want the solution, and be willing to sacrifice some of their gains in order to get it... and that isn't going to happen until they realize that this is hurting them, too. Ironically (sort of), the "Chads" and "Tyrones" leaving broken women in their wakes (hookup culture, h-and-d) is likely to be one of the incentives to fix the problem. Ditto for "Andrew Tates" and redpill and MGTOW... and even that deservedly infamous fellow from Hollywood with the initials "HW"... and the earlier one "BC"... and even quite likely that one who "didn't hang himself" and had "an island" and an "express private airplane". I don't condone any of the stuff in this paragraph... but if society will wake up and smell the coffee, it might help to provide incentive to solve the problems. Blaming men will just make the problems worse, even when the blame is justified in specific cases like those 3 that I mentioned.
My parents married in the midst of the Great Depression. My dad was a throwaway child who had virtually nothing but a dedication to working hard and being a hopeless romantic. My mom came from a solid middle class family that was doing OK with a well-paying job. They married and worked TOGETHER to become a successful marriage and he a successful businessman. That's what's missing today.
Women don’t want to put in the work anymore. They want the guy to be ready made. Nothing wrong with that but then what is her purpose in the relationship if she’s just there to be there.
Women (or more accurately, people) can't find love because they're not looking for love. They're looking for entertainment, pleasure, excitement, new experiences, investment-free sex and dopamine hits. Stability, security, trust, familiarity and commitment are boring. Drama, violence, mystery, lust and money. That's exciting.
I watch your channel because i love when you pause the video to comment on the subject. That's what makes it interesting and fun. Even when the subjects are serious. Keep going so we can continue learning and being intrigued. Thank you Melania
Translation Even though women in general claim other things are what they prioritize in a man, resources trumps all. Even though they say men are intimidated by a woman who makes more, the reality is in general they themselves are the ones hyper focused on the fact they make more. So Wouldn't this suggest that women in general are less capable of authentic love if this one thing is the primary motivation for how they navigate relationships as opposed to men who generally have at least several things that are the primary motivation?
You're right. But women will never admit we love better and more consistently than they do. But the stats don't lie. They initiate far more divorces and are quick o monkey branch when they encounter a more attractive man with more money and status.
Women do not love you. They pretend to like you because it will be advantageous to her for you to think she likes you. Once it's not advantageous for her to pretend to like you she will not put on her show anymore.
2:12 she said she never had a bf , Nothing about being a Virgin. A career woman , 'college passout' , never had a bf . Can't assume she preserved her Chastity , probability is staggeringly low.
"Never had a boyfriend" usually equates to "hooked up casually with a lot of people". No man wants to settle down with such a one once she's done all that.
I'm 25 and work with a ton of 50 year old+ dudes. They consistently say they wouldn't even know how to go about dating nowadays, the women are lost. We have it really bad nowadays guys but keep your head up!
Triple minimum wage? So some guy flipping burgers getting $15 an hour suddenly is getting $45? So skilled workers, say, in aviation, jobs with actual responsibility, that are not making that much just get screwed? I assure you, these companies that are employing workers for $35 to $45 an hour are not going to triple that wage. Those jobs will leave the country. Airlines already do it, they send heavy inspections overseas where the employees make half as much money. This thinking is killing the middle class! If you are making minimum wage it is because you are worth minimum wage.
if they tripled minimum wage every fast food place would be closed down or staffed by robots within a year now all the fast food workers are making $0/hr socialists do not understand basic economics
The online dating thing is for men that are in the top 10% of looks. For the rest of us, it's meeting in person with CONFIDENCE. Chad is blessed and can be lazy, put "I'm 6'3" on his profile and the women are waiting in line to lay in his bed. The only way to level the playing field is to get out there and TALK to women. Bottom line: For the average guy on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge or whatever, youre only gonna get the sub 4 women (old, nasty, fat, run through)....if youre lucky. But you'd be surprised how far charm, charisma, and confidence can get you IN PERSON.
Women can't find love because they have already rejected the man who would love her. This happens very early in adulthood. Women focus on sex and money instead, not love. Love has to be #1.
Actually, you cannot focus on love, because sex is love for them. I think you mean "external love", they missed the guy that loves them, instead, they focus on the guy they love, a Chad, a Tyrone...
As a man, and will say an older man, that it is difficult to understand the rules these days. It's something that Jordan Peterson has said in one of his talks, that the rules are not understood. These days it is very dangerous as a man, certainly from a career and reputation perspective. Men have to be very careful l as to what we say, especially to a woman. It is so easy for a woman to take a comment the wrong way, and that can be very much based on if the woman likes you or not, if they take it the wrong way, careers and reputations can be broken. People in general look to take offence, we live in a victim society. What this leads to is that men switch off to getting involved in any meaningful way with women due to fear of a ruined reputation, it's not worth the risk. On another point what was said about reinvesting in the middle classes, I have heard before. Middle and lower classes spend their money, the rich keep their money and try to find ways to get more. The concentration of wealth in the top few percent is the biggest problem the world has in my opinion.
The raising minimum wage was a nonsensical stretch out category of discussion and false. That is not a remedy but rather a addition to even more economic problems
Could it be because they are looking for the affectation of 6ft, 6pack,6 figures. The status of stay at home wife, and a provider, and not love at all?You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else.
He lost me as soon as he said to raise the minimum wage. How many times has the government raised the minimum wage? And how many times has it worked? Yeah lets raise the minimum wage, but how will we pay for it? Oh yeah! Print even more money to raise inflation even more so everything costs even more, so we need to print even more money, so we need to make more money to even afford to live! WHY HASN'T ANYONE THOUGHT OF THIS BEFORE????
The only possibility of decreasing taxes for the masses is to compensate that by taxing the few richest people more. The dude is completely right, people who aren't rich tend to spend the vast majority of their money, and an increase in income translates much more to an increase in spending. An economy runs well when many people spend money. If you don't have money to go to the restaurant, the restaurant owner and staff will not make money on you. One rich person can only buy so many products and services.
@@crazymonkeyVII define “rich” because even people think that making 100k in California is “rich.” Which is not, really. Now, if you aren’t making at least 6 figures, you’re considered low income in Commiefornia.
From what I've learned over the years, a man doesn't need to have a good job or be good looking in order to have a successful relationship. All you really needs is to have confidence and be a strong masculine leader. There are plenty of men in the world who are average/below average looking with average paid jobs, yet they've slept with lots of hot women or have successful long term relationships. If a man has game it's easy for him to have success with women. He just has to have the confidence to approach women and be the leader in the relationship. If a woman doesn't follow your lead then let her go and move on. Just be a strong confident masculine man and you'll have success with women.
I don't buy that "he can protect me" nonsense... Its for trophy purposes. Women openly make fun of short men their entire lives. You want a 6'5 mofo so you can show off.
@@otimismoedoenca6749 Lol, I dont think you used that fallacy in the right context, and I definitely dont think you've ever done martial arts. Being tallies not make you a better fighter, or stronger. If you ever served in the military then you would know the tall guys always had problems doing physical activity and sparring. It's only good if youre a basketball player.
Women have been like this for decades. The hot ones think they have so many choices in their early 20s, and become awfully choosey. The good guys slowly leave the marketplace, and the no longer hot women, now with baggage start bitching about the choices they're left with.
My parents got married and then divorced after 19 years both got remarried and were with their new spouse for 25+ years.... and yes they are both in their 80's. Different people.... better people.
Young women date for casual sex (Chads only), older women date for help (she will accept her equivalent which she will still deem beneath her standards). Get your passport guys!
I’m not gonna stop trying to be the best man I can be, but if a woman only wants a man that has already reached success and would never look his way otherwise I personally want absolutely nothing to do with women. You heard it from women first “If you can’t handle me at my worst then you don’t deserve me at my best” well you’ve already missed me at 15 years old. I’m not sure how common it is, but as a genuine Christian man, I don’t want to be involved with a flousey and I’m not trying to sleep around, yet modern society looks at a man in control of his urges and calls him an incel. Satan has his fingers deep in so many people and they seem to love it despite being more depressed than ever
As a genuine Christian women... we are not of this world and its standards anyway. If God has a wife for you, she and you will meet under HIS standard, so you may safely leave the rest of womanhood alone in that respect. In the meantime, 1 Cor. 7 says that it is better for both men and women to be single and focus on serving the Lord in times of distress... so keep serving Him and have peace, and don't worry about the perishing world system more than is necessary than to be a good witness for Christin it... that is all God requires. God does not require marriage except for those who cannot contain their urges... enjoy your single life...
As a European seeing the US from outside, finances are important but as you have to feed your body, you also have to feed your mind and your soul. The US has to change course and recuperate the values like unselfishness, honesty, integrity, decency, loyalty and appreciate much more people with those values. Those were the values that created this great nation to begin with. Most of humans have enormous values and potential, we are just too much self absorbed to see it.
If you're 30 and haven't been in a stable relationship it's even harder for you. Being in a relationship is nothing you have in the closet in case you want to wear it. It takes time, resources, committment and emphathy to make it work. This can only be learned by being in a relationship. As you can't drive by just enter a car in the driving seat, you can't just start having a relationship at 30. At that age living single until then, you have a much harder time trying to adjust to live with another person. As there's dating coaches there should be relationship coaches to learn how to live in a relationship for those who never have done it.
Beware of dating coaches as there are a lot of fraudsters out there specially when it comes to speed dating. The coach will often use the money men pay to hire women to feign interest in the men for the 1 hour even. Those women get a warm up drink at the event $40-100 from the coach and then hit the clubs that very same night with cash for drinks. Once you see it you cannot unsee it.
Relationship coaches are for women bruh. When men get into relationships they hardly leave (unless the women is modern and obnoxious) so it's the high standards of women that must be coached and managed.
Towards the end, the guy was referring to the fact that men like to get themselves financially established before they start thinking about marriage and family formation.
There are only two options here. Give up and accept that you will always be part of the 90% Or become the 10% by any means necessary And the hidden option of just going 'eh, not even worth my time anyways.'
This is not the first time I've heard this. When I was a young man I worked in the church (assistant youth minister). I've heard many people say that young women should just focus on career development. Even back then I knew something was wrong about this advise. I remember being about 12 - 16 Y.O. when I'd be at the barbershop hearing the older men say something is wrong with this type of woman. They (the barber) would say look back over history men could get married, divorce, remarried, and or be single. However, no women have ever had enmass the same options that men have. They also would say why would any ilder woman be divorce, remarried, and or single in her later years. This is not the most opportune approach to getting the best option for their outcome.
I love videos like this and all the suggested remedies to help solve the problems. Many of those remedies will help, but if we don't get to the attitudes or paradigms of the people, those remedies will only have a small affect. We in the western world have become spoiled and think that the world owes us something. Every man a King and every woman a princes. We have the "The grass is greener on the other side." paradigm. Until we as a whole adjust are attitudes, it will continue to get worst. Most people would classify me as a good man, but what I notice, since I've been out on the dating scene. is that no one talks about commitment, dedication and sacrifice. Most talk against those things since it does have to potential of wasting your time in the long run. However, without those traits, no one, or very few will ever get what they want from their partners. And so, it becomes a game to just protect yourself, while the dating market is going to hell in a hand basket. I wanted a real relationship after my divorce, but I have to admit, I have not found a woman I would trust fully, because it seems to be just about how people are feeling; instead of any principles.
None of them will help, companies are being rewarded for being discriminatory against strait men of any race and color. If a company has a choice between a black bisexual Muslim woman with zero knowledge in a field vs a strait Hispanic man whose slightly light skin with 8 years in that job. ESG and DEI dictate that a company will gain more access to loans and better deals going for the 'oppressed' minority over the more experienced worker.
Twice in my life I moved in with women who owned their own home. Twice it turned badly, it became a weapon used against me in arguments where I was constantly threatened with immediate removal. Don't waste your time with women like that. Part of the purpose of marriage is to build a life together. If you or she has already "built" that life then it might be best to just accept that and move on. There is a time and a point in life where marriage makes sense and where it does not.
I immediately dismiss any woman who owns her own home. For the reasons you mentioned but also she is looking for a guy to do repairs. I’m sorry I’m not doing home repairs for a house I have no entitlement to. I’m not going to do repairs to gain her equity and I’ll get kicked out when she’s used me up. No thanks
Tripling the minimum wage is an economically illiterate move that could worsen the situation by causing job losses and higher prices. It doesn't solve the intended problems but creates new ones, overlooking the complexities of the labor market and the real needs of workers and businesses.
No your wrong, trickle down economic is only benefits rich e.g no other country does tipping because its stealing, tipping used to keep slavery in place benefits no one. Plenty of western societies are doing better for their middle class than USA with huigher minimum wage and health care there are facts.
I've said it before and I will say it again, height has nothing to do with a man's ability to defend or protect a woman. Bruce Lee was 5'8", Chuck Norris is 5'9", most MMA fighters and UFC fighters, except in the highest weight class are on average 5'9". Audie Murphy, the highest decorated soldier of WWII and an MOH recipient was...5"5". I am 6'2" and would probably get my ass kicked in a street fight.
@@otimismoedoenca6749 yes, but on the street you don't know the level of training or experience anyone might have. A big guy might be getting by on size intimidation while someone smaller may be a highly trained fighter with years of experience. So once again, size is not a determining factor on whether someone can protect you.
Corporations offset that cost by marking up the pricing on everything. It's not the minimum wage increase itself. It's the corporate greed that increases. That sort of minimum wage increase is brutal on the small businesses and mom and pop shops that need employees. Plus that encourages additional reward without any work. I'd argue that's what's wrong with our society right now. Entitlement.
They sleep with guys with money during their twenties then come crawling to the average guy for marriage after getting ran through. Has been happening for 20 years.
Journeyman plumber can make $100/hr. That's $200K/yr. Setting looks aside, if he lived in LA or NYC, you think he'd get any dates? Blue collar career is instant disqualification in marjor cities.
It's profound seeing how much preferential treatment young women get in the job market, both for entry level positions, cafes, retail, hospitality, and in the increasingly feminized corporate world (where HR favours them through the roof). And you simply cannot talk about it in polite society.
True I know companies that are aggressively recruiting specifically for women even offering double,triple even quadruple the referral bonus for successful candidates.
I am a regular blue collar man. I'm a truck driver. I drive at night so my Saturdays are short. All I have is just Sunday and I sleep Monday so I can drive again Monday night. That being said, because I'm blue collar, I don't look anything like Chris Hemsworth or anyone from Bollywood since I am brown after all. I'm invisible to women men like me. We are invisible to women because women work in the corporate world. They're exposed to men in the office with the suits. Men like me come home smelling of diesel and covered in suit though we are the ones that make the world go round and we are also the ones who know how to look after a woman. We come home tired at the end of our shift. We don't want to fight or argue. We just want to eat wine down. Go to sleep. Do it all over again and those women who complain that they are alone. They don't even look at us so we just do our own thing. Mostly work
Amigo, grab the passport and head to the airport. Lots of women overseas who would be delighted with a man who can consistently put food on the table, a roof overhead that doesn't leak, and decent furniture, clothes, and kitchen appliances. Vietnam, Thailand, Costa Rica, Panama, Indonesia, Mexico, etc. Throw in a workable car, medical care, and an occasional modest vacation and you'll approach god-like status in her eyes. She's out there. Start the search. Good luck my friend.
Hey bro your mistake is thinking about why women do not look at you. Just that mindset is bad. First of all your on your purpose, your making your bread. Stay on it. When you have free time hit a hobby or gym. Third start traveling take a vacation learn a new language. Am Hispanic of course I speak 2 languages here in California but I learn how to speak Thai my 3rd language. Next am a learn Korean or Vietnamese. Women will come bro trust me. Am 5-9 290 lbs and I have a roster of women. You can too.
Ya ever heard of money? "Amigo?"
It's in short supply, these days. Especially for western men.
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"Passport Bros" is just another bullshit Tik Tok Psyop, meant to further discourage men and women
It's always been like this. You have to make yourself visible to women if you want them to look at you. Women wanting the top men only is something that's deeply ingrained into their DNA. But what's also deeply ingrained in their DNA is that they generally are a lot more emotional in terms of decision making. If you want a woman to see you, do something that makes you stand out to her in a positive way. Step out of that pool of 'mass of people' and become a 'real person' to her.
@@whynot1548 nah.
1 dollar = 24,000 vietnam dong
1 dollar = 35.66 thailand baht
1 dollar = 528 costa rican colon
1 dollar = 15,600 indonesian rupiah
1 dollar = 17 mexican peso
i think passport bros will be fine, bruv.
I know many woman who have never had a boyfriend. But they've had 100 hookups and 200 dates. Yup, true story.
hahaha so true
And carrying so many diseases….yuk…..stay single and stress free
They are buying 🍆 now
Phone numbers? Asking for a friend 😁
And they will never have one. Unless they lie, but when the guy finds out it will be hell to pay.
After she said “I’m not willing to lower my standards” I now know why she is single.
Yup, it's men who settle in marriage.
It’s hilarious that once you see the red pill, you can’t unsee it & what would of been a harmless comment becomes the answer to her own question. Men that meet “her” standards don’t want her back because those type of men have options & why would they settle for a non agreeable female on her decline . Her money is great for her but unfortunately she won’t provide for a man so it’s useless to us. It’s sad but more females are hitting that wall & don’t realize till it’s too late.
Compromise? Lmao… multisyllabic activities tend to be too difficult for them
And in reality she’s trying to go three levels above her level anyway
So you can get erect from Rosanne Barr? Lizzo?
Nope, some standards are not negotiable 😂
I married my wife in 1963 when she was 22 years old. It was before the sexual revolution and birth control. We celebrate 60 years this month (Nov).
Happy 60 yeare🎉
Wow! That's a long time!😮 I'm a Millennial, too bad my generation and the next Gen-Z will never see this happening for the majority!😮
Times you will miss these times...
BC and the sexual revolution destroyed society. You're blessed that you got to marry before that.
Ok boomer
Men will not die to protect a valueless society. We are a valueless society.
They might to rip it down.
@@CanadiancromagnonGod hasten the day.
The decline of the west is preceding apace in every sphere.
@@Canadiancromagnon When?
When there is no culture we become consumers
If she's never had a boyfriend but isn't a virgin, then I understand everything i need to know about this woman.
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For da streets....
Professional CC rider right der.
Trash 🗑️ and majority of women are like this btw
I am an engineer with a bachelors degree. I refuse to date anyone with a Masters degree, or any corporate management job. They look down on me and cannot be impressed. Chivalry is dead because it does not bring a man any kind of reward, and if anything it brings contempt from women.
Primarily I find waitresses, retail workers, and realtors are the most appreciative and fun to be with.
That’s so unfortunate. Not everybody in management are that way. Or believe they are above. I could say the same for engineers. I think at the end of the day, it’s about treating people with respect regardless of their status or lack thereof.
Don’t date waitresses.
So you see ppl in those positions as below you? Nice waving the red flag . Jesus
Guys should never "date up". Across, maybe... but never "up".
Sure, you could get a "unicorn"... but the odds are against it.
@@KateTsingtao Of course not everyone is that way. But is the search for that unicorn worth it?
Here is my story after my divorce. I moved to the Bay Area and ended a relationship to be with a sister that had cancer. I began a new career from the bottom and didn’t have all my life in order but I proceeded to be active with online dating. My older sister had a senior position at her company, a great career, owned her own home, and had a huge social network. She was shocked that while I was getting my career in order I found a girlfriend around my age and we made a life together. Bottom line, life is all about priorities and when you prioritize having your career firing on all cylinders … your perfect partner doesn’t just show up just because you are getting older.
Right on, things don’t come in the order you want and if you’re a person to think this way, you’ve got no sense at all.
Respect,man.
Thing is men can date down no problem. Women mostly can't. A highly succesfull guy can date and marry a girl who work as a restaurant waitress if she is loving,respectfull,caring and he's attracted to her.
Girls can't and that will be a huge problem for so many of these upscale women
so many UA-cam videos have covered this -- Kevin Samuels, Suzanne Venker, Jedidiah Bila etc. too many women wait too long to marry and lose out or end up alone
@@thesandero2454 my youngest sister dated for 30 plus yrs. finally at 50 plus met a guy at an airport, began a relationship, 2 yrs. later got married, I think she was desperate, hope it lasts
@@thesandero2454 They absolutely can, they choose not to because of what other people will think. It's little wonder so few women are happy: they live through the frame of what other people think.
Parents married when both had nothing. Mom said to us "If your dad took me to live under a bridge. I would be there with him. As long as we are together. For better or for worse" Both worked hard and complimented each other and worked as a team. Dad was the President and Mom the VP.
Women of today. .....this video. Hoeflation is real.
My mom told me those exact same words. She was against upgrading their lifestyle but supported my father and they’re still together to this day. She’s very much looking forward to retiring with him next year.
Basically, the model low income family from "Good Times" and even the upscale model family from "The Jeffersons" and "Cosby" are gone. We get "Divorce Court" and fake "Housewives" 👀
@@Brothapocalypse so poignant.
women like that are growing extinct....
I agree I would think first lady but VP makes sense the VP takes over if the president is absent or etc.. 💯💯💯💯
I met a modern woman online a few years ago and we went on a date.(so I thought). Turns out she only contacted me because she wanted to tell me my standards on my dating profile was too high. When I reread my profile, I stated I only wanted a slim to medium built woman with good manners. That's just one of many online dating disasters. I am married now because I became a Passport Bro. Message!😊
Passport Bro up!
@@JD-te6vm 😁😁😁
I'm a bro
She said she hadn't had a boyfriend, she didn't say she was a virgin. She was focusing on her career, and herself, that means hookups, not relationships. Now she's looking to settle down and her best years are behind her, she thinks she is more valuable and wont drop her standards, but her attitude, her hookups and her not settling, just make her undatable.
Most likely that is exactly what has happened with her. Spent her best years in her hoephase and can't find a man that accepts it.
This is so accurate. When she says "I have been single," it means Chad and Tyrone were hitting it easily and freely. They are always sleeping around when they are "single"
You should always take what people say with a grain of salt especially women. I’m sure she had a short term bf but maybe she cheated on him or it didn’t work out. Maybe she considered not having a bf a somewhat successful relationship. She is lying or speaking in womenese
I think she just tries to be a parody of suitable candidate for a relationship, for attention
I cannot explain why girls magnetize towards the most unhappy joke of the life. Is it somewhat romantic? "I wished for love and happiness, but look at me, used up, dirty, lonely goodies... Boo hoo, poor me" Better than boring peace
facts
I’m a man in mid 50s with a young daughter who has never been married and have been in the grocery business my whole career. I can never risk getting into a serious relationship because I want to guarantee that my wealth and home will be left to my daughter. Generational wealth for my daughter is more important than a committed relationship!!
Exactly same age and scenario as me. After the age of 35 it’s a very risky move for a man to get married.
Have all your assets under a different corporate entity.
I tip my hat to you.
I have 3 friends in their late 30's in a similar situation all single. They had to move for work, their aging parents lost work and either could not find work or retire yet so now their parents live with them. They are not high income earners and struggle on 1 income to pay the mortgage payments but because of the co-habitation laws they are terrified of bringing home a gold digger and losing their house.
The negative impact of Divorce Court decisions on men and on these numbers is rarely discussed
Women can't find real love because they're not looking for that. This is the *"hook up culture"* era
Nobody is doing the active work to attract it. They are doing it with the very ones who are destroying society.
Women aren’t looking for love. They are seeking a sponsor!
WOMEN WONT FIND REAL LOVE WHEN THE BAG IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART OF THAT EQUATION!!!
Correct. Most modern women don't want to admit it but when you evaluate how they move with men over time, they're really wanting situationships. They don't have the focus and stamina to stay married longer than 5 to 7 years
Then, at some future point in time (coincidentally: when their looks begin to fade and their fertility flags), they suddenly want a husband!
I’m 6ft tall or 183cm, athletic physique, broad shoulders , V shape, fit, full head of hair, somewhat handsome ( 7/10 I’m told). Early 40s and I can count on one hand all the times in my life I’ve been flirted with or glanced/ smiled at. I’m practically invisible. I’m quite sociable, friendly, enjoy meeting new people, and go out often. Even worked in a bar during my early 20s. Yet, I have spent years as an involuntary celibate and faced countless rejections. 99.8% rejection rate which has not changed with the woman’s age. Recently, a 43 year old divorced Taiwanese lady seemed to take an interest in me. I sometimes see her at work and we always stop for a chat. She asked if I was single and told me she is single so I asked if she wanted to go out for a drink. Realising it was a romantic offer, she declared my status as merely a friend and nothing more. Rejected and friendzoned by a 43 year old single woman really let’s you know where you stand in the scheme of attractiveness.
It’s tough not being in the top ten percent.
You'll be fine working younger women will notice
Here is the thing. As a person who is 51, been all over the world. To get woman, you have to have seduction and game. To get woman, you have to insinuate that you have other woman interested in you- even if you don’t. It works, woman want what other woman want. They don’t want to know that they are the only one.
Get that passport bro
@Joel-uc5lo yeah, I love traveling , especially solo. Been learning Japanese for 5 years so that helps break the ice in Japanese bars but anything beyond a little chit chat has yet to happen.
I’m open to new technology. I don’t think there’s any shame in it. If women make it clear to men like me that we are not desirable, why shouldn’t we embrace technological alternatives.
You need to be in the gym or find someone to change your wardrobe. You could have bought a Corvette and jumped the line, bro .. I. Get a minimum of 2 women per day I drive any of my sports cars
It always blown my mind how women worked hard to take men's opportunities from them, and then complain that there's no men for them to date. There's only a finite amount of high paying jobs, either you take the responsibility that comes with that, or don't have that job - or just be alone your whole life. I'm tired of hearing them complain about the consequences or their own actions.
This is a big part of it. With all the HR, DEI, Feminist that are applying and in the ecosphere saying there is unfair advantages of Women (to manipulate upward trajectory) they TAKE a position from a Man that is the “provider”
Well...this is hell where complaining and begging get noticed. Anything outside of that is considered a threat. So naturally the alphabet soup community do whatever they can to make that threat real. It's a dirty game , but someone has got to do it.
@@Mrs.CGraves It's honestly unreal. Anytime I was able to successfully pass an interview and land a job, the recruiter was a male. The ones where I got rejected came from females. Women shouldn't be involved in hiring processes in my honest opinion.
How much money does it take the keep the lights and heat on, especially by yourself. So many women use emotion vs common sense.
A man needs to make at least $60k per year to be able to afford to date and probably $75k before he can honestly consider marriage. Every woman who has a job paying more than $60k removes a man from the dating and marriage market.
As Kevin Samuels always used to say, life is about choices and trade offs. I understand that women also have ambitions, but if you want a man, find one while your still young if you are emotionally ready. Take advantage of your youthfulness before it disappears and get the best for what the market will offer you
I’ve been married 26 Years. I have built a beautiful life with my Husband, walking in traditional values and lifestyle.
If people want help, go to long term married couples and ask them to mentor you.
Listen, and when triggered work thru WHY it’s triggering, because it’s something you must let go.
I’m in my early 40’s and raised 2 wives who are wives.
That is wonderful !! However if both partners not committed ...it will not work out
@mrs.cgraves. You're hitting on a huge part of the problem here.
A LOT of middle-aged and younger folks are committing the same repetitive errors in today's "modern" dating marketplace. They mistakenly beLIEve that there's some academic, new, or "high tech" way to learn social & dating skills.
Single women most likely can't & won't learn how to be appealing girlfriends, fiancées, or wives out of a book. Usually requires some degree of ongoing coaching or mentoring. (Same goes for most men becoming appealing husband candidates).
@@SoundScientist1 that’s why you need a Couple that mentors. I can’t teach Husbandry. But, I can teach a Woman how to truly submit to her role.
@@Mrs.CGravessure but your traditional setup implies that your man is the bread winner?
I'm not sure that you're the target audience representative of the women were discussing. Are you more educated or Is he? Who's taller?
A lot of us career women value the traditional. We just realise quite late that spending our 20s getting degrees and work experience caused a gap between us and the guys.
In my experience, some men felt annoyed that I was more competent at some things. Some feel emasculated at what I earn.
You see?
Ps: I once tried asking a married couple if similar age for advice, it didn't go very well.
It seems like they were pretending to be perfect for aprerances; when I asked for advice observing their seemingly great entente, they acted super defensive then the man started yelling..
@@Mrs.CGraves. Duly noted...
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Im a single woman virgin 36 and its hard to find a guy for me. And it's not the fault of men! It's the fault of those damn radical feminists who has destroyed men! And that in itself is more depressing than being single
U r right darling.
More and more completely ingnore women today. Today the fact that most women can easily sleep around every day with another guy (via social media, dating apps, insta etc) and the fact that women are the ones who sexualize (Insta, TikTok, bigo, onlyfans or in public) and hype hook up culture is not attractive at all. It's way better to be without a woman today.. I wouldn't even meet a girl for a coffee today, they can all have the f-boys (about 10-15% of men)
I think men understand this 100 percent. The problem is that these type of studies and conversations are either falling on death ears for women or they are to busy trying to deny and push the blame off that they don’t take the time to listen and absorb it.
Everything is getting absorbed already. Been that way since the beginning. Absorbed and judged. Nonstop.
Unfortunately women see these type of truths as attacks. Just waiting on the final steps of my dual citizenship and I'm off to Colombia back to the motherland
Deaf ears*
@@freudianslip2192 you know what the f*ck I was talking about MF! I can’t stand people like you!
@@reynaldogil8842well it is an attack because you're asking a group of people to get out of their comfort zone to realize they're thought process is 🗑️ and women are in this situation are comfortable in their delusion.
What we still fail to understand is a lot of women and men have never been in a relationship. Meeting up a few times in the week for sex is not a relationship. Having a partner and constantly cheating is not a relationship. Relationship is a state of connectiveness and many don't even come close. For me, a relationship is about fun, trust, laughter, embracing each others flaws and putting in the effort to make things work. A relationship is solidified when a couple meet each others family and friends.
Think in the conventional sense yes, my guy though he hasn’t met my girlfriends cause he’s not going to have any thing in common w them, I mean shit my girlfriends have even commented on wanting to meet him. This doesn’t mean though you’re not in a serious relationship, for me I’m not traditional or conversational.
The problem is people don’t want to work on their relationships anymore. They expect perfection and leave when things start to get a little rough. Women were brainwashed by social media that relationships are always suppose to be smooth sailing otherwise, it’s not worthy it. These unrealistic expectations is why people are having problem forming relationships.
Are you a woman? Just curious.
@@tinahuttner7280 I hear what you're saying, but your partner doesn't have to have anything in common with your friends. Your friends are part of your life and I think it only makes a relationship stronger when your partner knows who you surround yourself with. Also, your friends who have known you longer, may identify things in your partner you may not see. It's all a positive at the end of the day.
Never having a boyfriend does not equate to never been ran through.
exactly, i do not believe she is virgin.
My thoughts exactly.
It's more than that, these days it's a total red flag (unless she's a virgin). Casual sex is always viewed as worse than relationships.
@@castiel4746 Why not? I'm 32 and I'm a virgin. I'm not proud of that because I've never had a relationship and that's lonely. But I wouldn't want to have meaningless sex either. I'm not attractive, admittedly, but I am submissive. I wouldn't have any problem with letting the man decide everything. But nobody has ever been interested in me. I don't blame men for that, it's biology. But I do feel lonely.
They don't count that.
2:08 She didn't say she is a virgin. She said she never had a boyfriend.
A 30yo man who says he's never had a girlfriend more likely than not is a virgin.
A 30yo woman who says she's never had a boyfriend more likely than not is not a virgin.
This is the big difference the lie by omission is very prevalent… that female mystique leads men to ignore her past experiences… too many naive men out here ignoring their checkered past…
"I'm not willing to drop my standards."
That is the problem right there.
@saraht170 There's zero problems with standards. The issue arises when the types of people who are at that level don't want you.
@@neoturi Indeed. Standards are fine, as long as they're realistic.
@saraht170 have all the standards you want, just understand that when your standards provide 0% success rate, and you do not change them, do not act surprised that you end up "buying the dog and dying alone" (paraphrased from Kevin Samuels).
Also, men generally do not judge women for having their standards. We just move on to more accessible hills to climb or we drop to our default state (alone or dead in a ditch or both). Women on the other hand do judge each other on their standards because that is how they compete amongst themselves. They will spite each other like harpies as we men look from the sidelines, baffled that these creatures actually call themselves friends. We too have our own incomprehensible male rituals like hazing and banter, and occasional fisticuffs, that only make sense in the absence of women. Otherwise, they become hurtful or diluted which is no benefit to anyone.
@saraht170 No need to worry about me. I'm still in my 17 year marriage paying off the second house.
Nah... I'm not willing to drop mine either. 😂
as a 35 year old virgin man, whatever happens happens. she can learn to stay single.
"35 year old virgin man". stop the cap.
@@ninjedi6710 no lie, and the rise in virgin men by age 30 shows that. Im soon to be 36 as a matter of fact
I looked up on google, feminism and raising boys. I was interested how raising a boy would make a feminist woman question some of the dogma of feminism.
Hardly any of the results were women questioning feminist dogma as a result of raising boys. 99% were tips on how single women could raise feminist boys: boys who would be more emotional, passive, yielding to girls. How to raise young men who are unattractive to women, let alone unfit to be called men.
Women are sabotaging the upbringing of attractive men, and forcing the upbringing of women who find most men unattractive.
Soe anthropologists claim that humans are unusual in being optimised to create grandchildren. Well we are now failing in that task.
Raising emotional boys is the worst thing. No women will want them and they will tend to mistrust masculine men the way single moms do
Like so many of these leftist movements they think they can change human behavior.
Its a forced learned behavior, you have to teach it and condition the person to actively go against their own nature.
the courts enforce this by terminating fathers parental rights based on hearsay from these toxic females. usually accompanied by their toxic mothers. the judge basically salivating at the chance to flout due process, circumvent laws, and ignore evidence, leaving young boys forcefully separated from their fathers and subjected to being raised with their innate manhood suppressed. its a whole secret system. any father who has been through the court system and subjected to the charade run by these psychos in robes knows what im talking about.
Are you aware of the mouse utopia experiment? It seems that is some population control.
I have seen interviews where they asked women to describe the minimum requirements for dating and then they asked them what percentage of men they think meet that requirements.
The women rattle off a list of 6 foot 1, six pack abs, $250,000 income, etc.
They'll say maybe 40% on men meet that... and then the person interview will tell them only 0.7% of men meet those requirements and most of those men are already married.
The reason women can't find love is because by and large they are throwing their bodies at men. I have dated multiple women who I could have loved and built a life with if not for poor decisions they made in the past.
I can't respect a woman enough to make her a wife when she doesn't respect herself.
Will you please elaborate on these poor decisions that turned them from women you could have built a life with to women you just had fun with?
having any sexual partners prior to securing a committed relationship, ie marriage. 0 is optimal. more than 2 and she's demoted to the "just for fun" category.@@beac8238
@@beac8238 Absolutely. If they have ever had a one night stand or hook-up you are automatically in the for fun category. It's not like I won't consider a woman just because she isn't a virgin, although it is preferable.
The woman I was dating prior to the woman I am currently dating initiated with her mouth on the second date... Automatically in the for fun category... I liked her so I gave her more of a chance than I normally would and as I discovered more about her past I had to end things with her.
I have never initiated sex within a month of knowing a person... Every single time it's been the woman and yet there are delusional women out here acting like it's the men who want to jump straight into bed with them. If I was dating a proper virgin/traditional woman I would be completely content with waiting until marriage.
It's disgusting how women blame men, etc for the dating world they created by choosing to be 304s.
@@beac8238 Hmm, it seems my response to your question might be gone. At least on my end it doesn't show up. Not sure if it is some UA-cam admin blocking it. In the event that you hadn't been able to see my response; to summarize things the women I am referring to made bad choices with men in their past. I'm not going to buy a high mileage woman for full price(marriage).
I’m 68. My fiancé is an attorney in Istanbul. She’s 44 and looks like she’s 24. She actually lectures at the United Nations. She wants to be a housewife and have children. This is a real girl. Here in America, I can’t get a girl in the supermarket to have a conversation with me. Of course, men like myself are going overseas. At least they’ll talk to us……
Melanie, I had a woman once tell me that because of women's historical disadvantage..."in order for us to be equal, I have to have all the power in this relationship."
- to which I replied, "back the truck up, sister!"
Run & don’t walk away 💀
yha nah run away from that. She probably uses that as an excuse to be lazy and not try at all in anything
Lmao sis needs to live in reality and the damn present. This ain’t the past.
@@Kyronetta even in the past I wonder where this male advantage was? 95% of men in history have been slaves, serfs, servants, or soldiers
Lucky bastards lmao
They look at history through modern lens. Were women going to go hunt the mammoths and escape the sabretooths? 😂. Were they going to fight in the militaries, conquer and build empires? Nope.
Next time, ask them how long they would've survived as a species if men didnt keep them save from wild animals, diseases, war and environment and feed them.
Lowering your standards is different than living in reality. Some people are delusional on what they can get and it’s not settling if an option is your only option.
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True. And also do not forget, men don't SPEND like women do, our needs are far more basic and even our high dollar expenditures are very long term buys, we take care of our material things. 13:40
We aren't falling behind, we are achieving work life balance
I've heard hundreds of these enlightened broads speak of this 'work life balance ' , but see only emotion drive them to excess, or give up at the first sign of difficulty.
But, you nailed it on the head... men are doing more with less to achieve TRUE balance. Well said mate.
It's a lot easier to get that work-life balance without a ball-and-chain holding you down.
This was such a GREAT and informative video not only for relationships but for the wellness of our sinking society.
Mr Right usually comes along when a woman is in her 20s
I just started following Melanie and love hearing a woman share such a balanced and transparent perspective that can really make a difference for those willing to listen.
I think most men in their 20s will tend to be lazy without a woman or the prospect of getting a woman they want. Once they hit 30 or so I suspect they end up getting secondary pressures that motivate them to get things for themselves, but a man will tend to do the bare minimum to live a comfortable life. Men tend to need a whole lot less than woman do to be in my experience.
I could be mistaken but the anecdotal evidence I've come across from women is that they spend more but have no retirement. I've come across that several times. I'd much rather live frugally now while saving for my retirement years to ensure I can still eat after my working years are done.
I am 32 and have been single now for over two years. With each month that passes, my bank account grows and my desire for chaos diminishes. I would like to enjoy the company of a woman but I do think I have given up. Attractive women play their games with me but in my mind I’ve already lost, and I do not have faith that I could be married to a faithful woman.
Yes... for the most part, men work because we MUST... and so that we CAN date... if we choose to date.
When society punishes men for dating and getting married, more and more men will REFUSE to date/get married.
They will "check out"... "take their toys and go home"... refuse to play a game where all the rules are rigged against them...
which is happening.
They say that 50% of men aren't even trying, but they try to make it sound like that is somehow a bad thing... for MEN... as if it's somehow a bad thing for them, that they don't have some woman making their lives a living 773H.
Unmarried men, per the income stats, flatline in their mid 30's. Meanwhile married men keep growing their incomes through their 50's. So a man without a wife is generally a man who never reached his full potential.
@@theskyizblue2day431 they mention it here, but expanding your pool of options (passport bro) may be an option to find more serious daters. I would ask your male friends for feedback if they know of anyone. I recommended my friend (also 32) to someone who lives in Mexico, and they have hit it off very well thus far (4 months). Meanwhile locally he was not meeting anyone compatible. Keep the faith.
The biggest underlying problem is the unrealistic/ crazy expectations that women have. But we cannot talk about that as it would damage or offend them too much
She is killing it in her career, she gave her early adult years to her career. Sounds like a MAN to me.
And when she start getting older, bored and unattractive, she wants a high value man for whom she doesn't even fulfill the standards.
but she doesn't have a wee wee down there
Sounds like being an adult.. what is wrong with you people. Bills don’t pay themselves, there’s nothing wrong with a woman focusing on her career. The issue is focusing solely on your career. A woman should be able to do both at the same time, it’s not that difficult.
@@Stantheman4444but THEY dont. They choose to do career and hookups. So, OP is right.
@@Stantheman4444agreed
I heard Robert Downey Jr. say, “You can have anything, but you can’t have everything.” I thought that was pretty good 👍🏼
Never had a bf but I bet she isn’t a virgin.
Right
Of course she's not.
Attractive young women can have trains run on them every month for a decade and still lament that they haven't had a boyfriend.
SMH
@@gibbletronic5139 pretty much how the game goes
Lol quite sad how guys talk like they are God
This pisses me off. Now he's just straight up LYING about what the effects and consequences of raising the minimum wage has been. It has devastated those areas he cited.
Yeah, once he talked about tripling the minimum wage, he sounded like a moron.
This whole thing has reinforced a theory i had for the last year; the problem is a subconscious belief in women that in order to truly have rights, it has to be taken from someone else.
Feminism has shifted from equality with men to competing with men. There's no other way it makes sense!
I could see that. I've seen women flexing their inked up muscular arms on social media in their gym selfies. They actually believe being more masculine makes them more attractive to heterosexual men. It's hilarious lol.
You've got that part of it right, @kryshunter
Another part is the whole oppressor-oppressed narrative.
Good people don't want to be the oppressor, of course... so the binary option is to become the oppressed, instead... which tends to make a person FEEL oppressed.
That tends to do a LOT of things... none of them good... including turning the other side into perceived enemies. When you treat someone like an enemy, don't be surprised when they BECOME one.
"The pooch" has been well and truly screwed.
It's outright female supremacy and misandry.
in GENERAL: Men: "Logic always triumphs over feelings." Great long-term approach. Women: "Feelings always triumph over logic." Great short-term approach.
You're absolutely right about putting more money into men's pockets to make them more appealing to women.
Increasing minimum wage will do little, as the minimum wage will be equally raised in the C-suite.
90% tax rates under Eisenhower is an urban legend promulgated by the 1%. The MARGINAL tax rate was 90% for HIGH INCOME earners. Ordinary folk paid much less income tax.
Under Eisenhower, CEOs earned roughly 30 times what the guy on the shop floor earned. The current figure is around 687 times, most of which CEOs earn by layoffs, outsourcing etc.
Until 1992, executive compensation above $1 million [i.e., "Marginal"] came out of POST-TAX profits. In that era, share holders would scream bloody murder if CEOs were gulping down their money.
In 1992, Bill Clinton signed an executive order that allowed CEO compensation to come out of PRE-TAX income. Suddenly, taxpayers were subsidizing these absurd salaries.
When CEO president Bill McKinnell retired as CEO of Pfizer, he received $92 MILLION retirement compensation, no doubt much of it sheltered. Pfizer had to lay off 50,000 people to pay his compensation.
A simple reversion to the pre-1992 tax rule would probably instantly do more than raising the minimum wage to put money into the pockets of working men.
Raising the minimum wage actually has the exact opposite effect that the gentleman in the video assumes it will.
He's clearly not an economist, and is basically spouting nonsense. Every time minimum wage is raised, the age of the bottom layer of workers increases, because the youngest people are the least qualified workers, so they are the least desirable from an employer's standpoint. Additionally, some employers, especially small businesses, are barely staying afloat in the current economy. If minimum wage is tripled, they will likely CUT the workforce and employ fewer people, and give existing workers fewer hours whenever possible. Nothing happens in a vacuum, and employers react to market forces. Meanwhile, young folks who would be happy to accept a job at current minimum wage (not triple current) are forced out of the job market because they have no work experience...
He should probably watch some Milton Friedman or Thomas Sowell videos about minimum wage.
@@MrVvulfAmen!
That woman was trying to live how a man usually does. Doesn't end well. Though a 30 year old women being a virgin is so astronomically rare. Meanwhile with most men, it's not so rare lol. I'm 33, never had a relationship, but oh well. Life's gone that way. I was born alone, live alone, and will die alone. I have no issues with it. My life path is a solo path, it is a quiet and calm path and there is some benefits to it. I just sit on the side as an observer and watch the show that is humanity.
The quiet and calm path is far better than the chaotic and unpredictable path of marriage and dating. Salute!
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That’s actually just sad bro but as long as you’re cool with it, it’s no biggie.
@@ilikepancakes2368 Sad because your bias ego says so, as if you are qualified to determine what is and isn't sad lol. Stay in your lane my guy. Don't project ego, it's toxic.
The grass is not always greener. I have a friend that has been married for decades. It is a sexless marriage and he has said more than once that he wishes he was me, a single guy. She is always demanding he jump through hoops and do stuff for her and gets nothing in return. See sometimes the chase is what we find exciting and not so much catching the reward. Investing in yourself development is never wasted.
When making 50k to 90k isnt enough because she's making 100k, go to places where a young beautiful fertile woman would be overjoyed with even $10k a year. Not only will they appreciate your efforts, they'll allow you to lead them.
Mr. Galloway mentioned in the full video that the crisis with men can not be discussed in society as many would see anything to help men is seen as anti women. What isn't said is that the crisis in men not just affects men, it affects women too. We have a long ways to go when men and women have become adversaries.
The so-called "crisis in men" is caused by women.
Yes, it's affecting women, too... and going to affect them even more, which is just a simple logical prediction.
Maybe society should start trying to fix the imbalance in the family courts, before it's too late... but, no... we can't have that, because it would be seen as "anti-women".
The only reason that they care about the "crisis in men" is because it's beginning to negatively impact women... and they have been learning about "population collapse", and they are worried where the money is going to come from, to fund all of their social welfare stuff.
Men have been in a crisis for a while now ... because of women. The only reason it’s being discussed now is that women are feeling the affects.
@@jefferytokarsky1930 This crisis was caused by men's willingness to sacrifice themselves on the altar of women's needs and desires.
You can see some of this in the ways that marriage has been ruined for men, in order to give all of the benefits and protections to women.
Prime examples are no-fault divorce, community property, child support, and alimony... and the way that family courts are so extremely tilted in women's favor.
Now, women are so self-centered, stupid, spoiled rotten, and ungrateful, as to complain about how that "evil patriarchy oppresses them".
Women killed chivalry in multiple ways, including their lack of appreciation.
Marriage is ruined, as an viable choice, for men.
Thus, we have hookup culture, hump-and-dump, men refusing to commit to women, red pill, MGTOW, "basement dwellers", men "checking out" of a society that calls them worthless (at best), and often much worse.
And yes, we have some actual misogynists who *are* misogynists... because of how women treat them. Misogynists aren't born, they are *made*... by women.
Cause and effect.
This is no different than what almost everyone calls "the cycle of child abuse".
Going back to your comment about, "The only reason it’s being discussed now is that women are feeling the affects."
Absolutely agree.
That is the only way that these problems will ever be solved, or even reduced, precisely because of most men's willingness to sacrifice for women.
*Women* have to want the solution, and be willing to sacrifice some of their gains in order to get it... and that isn't going to happen until they realize that this is hurting them, too.
Ironically (sort of), the "Chads" and "Tyrones" leaving broken women in their wakes (hookup culture, h-and-d) is likely to be one of the incentives to fix the problem.
Ditto for "Andrew Tates" and redpill and MGTOW... and even that deservedly infamous fellow from Hollywood with the initials "HW"... and the earlier one "BC"... and even quite likely that one who "didn't hang himself" and had "an island" and an "express private airplane".
I don't condone any of the stuff in this paragraph... but if society will wake up and smell the coffee, it might help to provide incentive to solve the problems. Blaming men will just make the problems worse, even when the blame is justified in specific cases like those 3 that I mentioned.
Imagine being bound to another person by a ball and chain who subconsciously overtime will despise you for doing the
“right thing”
My parents married in the midst of the Great Depression. My dad was a throwaway child who had virtually nothing but a dedication to working hard and being a hopeless romantic. My mom came from a solid middle class family that was doing OK with a well-paying job. They married and worked TOGETHER to become a successful marriage and he a successful businessman. That's what's missing today.
Women don’t want to put in the work anymore. They want the guy to be ready made. Nothing wrong with that but then what is her purpose in the relationship if she’s just there to be there.
Women (or more accurately, people) can't find love because they're not looking for love. They're looking for entertainment, pleasure, excitement, new experiences, investment-free sex and dopamine hits. Stability, security, trust, familiarity and commitment are boring. Drama, violence, mystery, lust and money. That's exciting.
You added "people" to the word "women". In this case people means about 80% of women and about 15% of men (f-boys, bad boys, high value men)
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Thus is yet another reason why housing is so expensive. More single people means more houses with only one person living under the roof.
I watch your channel because i love when you pause the video to comment on the subject. That's what makes it interesting and fun. Even when the subjects are serious. Keep going so we can continue learning and being intrigued. Thank you Melania
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Even though women in general claim other things are what they prioritize in a man, resources trumps all.
Even though they say men are intimidated by a woman who makes more, the reality is in general they themselves are the ones hyper focused on the fact they make more.
So
Wouldn't this suggest that women in general are less capable of authentic love if this one thing is the primary motivation for how they navigate relationships as opposed to men who generally have at least several things that are the primary motivation?
You're right. But women will never admit we love better and more consistently than they do. But the stats don't lie. They initiate far more divorces and are quick o monkey branch when they encounter a more attractive man with more money and status.
Women do not love you. They pretend to like you because it will be advantageous to her for you to think she likes you. Once it's not advantageous for her to pretend to like you she will not put on her show anymore.
"why can't i have this thing I've never once prioritized or worked towards?" - modern women
2:12 she said she never had a bf , Nothing about being a Virgin. A career woman , 'college passout' , never had a bf . Can't assume she preserved her Chastity , probability is staggeringly low.
"Never had a boyfriend" usually equates to "hooked up casually with a lot of people". No man wants to settle down with such a one once she's done all that.
Your explanation at the approximately 10:00 minute mark is what all career women need to hear and understand, because they have been sold a lie.
I'm 25 and work with a ton of 50 year old+ dudes. They consistently say they wouldn't even know how to go about dating nowadays, the women are lost. We have it really bad nowadays guys but keep your head up!
Triple minimum wage? So some guy flipping burgers getting $15 an hour suddenly is getting $45? So skilled workers, say, in aviation, jobs with actual responsibility, that are not making that much just get screwed? I assure you, these companies that are employing workers for $35 to $45 an hour are not going to triple that wage. Those jobs will leave the country. Airlines already do it, they send heavy inspections overseas where the employees make half as much money. This thinking is killing the middle class! If you are making minimum wage it is because you are worth minimum wage.
if they tripled minimum wage every fast food place would be closed down or staffed by robots within a year
now all the fast food workers are making $0/hr
socialists do not understand basic economics
It's an example dumbass 😂 god your stupid
The online dating thing is for men that are in the top 10% of looks. For the rest of us, it's meeting in person with CONFIDENCE. Chad is blessed and can be lazy, put "I'm 6'3" on his profile and the women are waiting in line to lay in his bed. The only way to level the playing field is to get out there and TALK to women.
Bottom line: For the average guy on Tinder, Bumble, Hinge or whatever, youre only gonna get the sub 4 women (old, nasty, fat, run through)....if youre lucky. But you'd be surprised how far charm, charisma, and confidence can get you IN PERSON.
Women can't find love because they have already rejected the man who would love her. This happens very early in adulthood. Women focus on sex and money instead, not love. Love has to be #1.
Actually, you cannot focus on love, because sex is love for them.
I think you mean "external love", they missed the guy that loves them, instead, they focus on the guy they love, a Chad, a Tyrone...
Correct
Women can’t find real love because they think it’s boring.
True
Thanks for telling the truth and helping me understand what's happening in our society.
As a man, and will say an older man, that it is difficult to understand the rules these days. It's something that Jordan Peterson has said in one of his talks, that the rules are not understood. These days it is very dangerous as a man, certainly from a career and reputation perspective. Men have to be very careful l as to what we say, especially to a woman. It is so easy for a woman to take a comment the wrong way, and that can be very much based on if the woman likes you or not, if they take it the wrong way, careers and reputations can be broken. People in general look to take offence, we live in a victim society. What this leads to is that men switch off to getting involved in any meaningful way with women due to fear of a ruined reputation, it's not worth the risk.
On another point what was said about reinvesting in the middle classes, I have heard before. Middle and lower classes spend their money, the rich keep their money and try to find ways to get more. The concentration of wealth in the top few percent is the biggest problem the world has in my opinion.
The raising minimum wage was a nonsensical stretch out category of discussion and false. That is not a remedy but rather a addition to even more economic problems
Alot Women started valuing money sex, attention & sisterhood praise instead of or over family , resources,stability & morals💯
Could it be because they are looking for the affectation of 6ft, 6pack,6 figures. The status of stay at home wife, and a provider, and not love at all?You have to love yourself before you can love anyone else.
He lost me as soon as he said to raise the minimum wage. How many times has the government raised the minimum wage? And how many times has it worked? Yeah lets raise the minimum wage, but how will we pay for it? Oh yeah! Print even more money to raise inflation even more so everything costs even more, so we need to print even more money, so we need to make more money to even afford to live! WHY HASN'T ANYONE THOUGHT OF THIS BEFORE????
The wall remains undefeated. I wonder what the complete story is.
The minimum wage argument is bogus. California has a $15 minimum wage and the taxes are ridiculous. Don’t increase the wage, decrease the taxes.
The only possibility of decreasing taxes for the masses is to compensate that by taxing the few richest people more. The dude is completely right, people who aren't rich tend to spend the vast majority of their money, and an increase in income translates much more to an increase in spending. An economy runs well when many people spend money. If you don't have money to go to the restaurant, the restaurant owner and staff will not make money on you. One rich person can only buy so many products and services.
@@crazymonkeyVII define “rich” because even people think that making 100k in California is “rich.” Which is not, really. Now, if you aren’t making at least 6 figures, you’re considered low income in Commiefornia.
She became the man she believes she deserves
From what I've learned over the years, a man doesn't need to have a good job or be good looking in order to have a successful relationship. All you really needs is to have confidence and be a strong masculine leader. There are plenty of men in the world who are average/below average looking with average paid jobs, yet they've slept with lots of hot women or have successful long term relationships. If a man has game it's easy for him to have success with women. He just has to have the confidence to approach women and be the leader in the relationship. If a woman doesn't follow your lead then let her go and move on. Just be a strong confident masculine man and you'll have success with women.
Funny thing is that height doesnt make you better at protecting yourself or anyone else. Mike Tyson was knocking out tall dudes for years.
After seeing some of his interviews he was truly an impressive guy.
I don't buy that "he can protect me" nonsense... Its for trophy purposes. Women openly make fun of short men their entire lives. You want a 6'5 mofo so you can show off.
Cherry picking fallacy. There is only one Mike Tyson.
@@otimismoedoenca6749 Lol, I dont think you used that fallacy in the right context, and I definitely dont think you've ever done martial arts. Being tallies not make you a better fighter, or stronger. If you ever served in the military then you would know the tall guys always had problems doing physical activity and sparring. It's only good if youre a basketball player.
@@keirangrant1607 "The bigger they are the harder they fall."
Mostly because their knees and core are trash.
Women have been like this for decades. The hot ones think they have so many choices in their early 20s, and become awfully choosey. The good guys slowly leave the marketplace, and the no longer hot women, now with baggage start bitching about the choices they're left with.
Put in all the work to not need to depend on a man just to want a man to depend on 😭
The real reason is that women‘s expectations are not based on reality but on emotional fantasies that lack logic
My parents got married and then divorced after 19 years both got remarried and were with their new spouse for 25+ years.... and yes they are both in their 80's. Different people.... better people.
Young women date for casual sex (Chads only), older women date for help (she will accept her equivalent which she will still deem beneath her standards). Get your passport guys!
🗣️ Preach 💯
I’m not gonna stop trying to be the best man I can be, but if a woman only wants a man that has already reached success and would never look his way otherwise I personally want absolutely nothing to do with women.
You heard it from women first “If you can’t handle me at my worst then you don’t deserve me at my best” well you’ve already missed me at 15 years old.
I’m not sure how common it is, but as a genuine Christian man, I don’t want to be involved with a flousey and I’m not trying to sleep around, yet modern society looks at a man in control of his urges and calls him an incel. Satan has his fingers deep in so many people and they seem to love it despite being more depressed than ever
As a genuine Christian women... we are not of this world and its standards anyway. If God has a wife for you, she and you will meet under HIS standard, so you may safely leave the rest of womanhood alone in that respect. In the meantime, 1 Cor. 7 says that it is better for both men and women to be single and focus on serving the Lord in times of distress... so keep serving Him and have peace, and don't worry about the perishing world system more than is necessary than to be a good witness for Christin it... that is all God requires. God does not require marriage except for those who cannot contain their urges... enjoy your single life...
As a European seeing the US from outside, finances are important but as you have to feed your body, you also have to feed your mind and your soul. The US has to change course and recuperate the values like unselfishness, honesty, integrity, decency, loyalty and appreciate much more people with those values. Those were the values that created this great nation to begin with. Most of humans have enormous values and potential, we are just too much self absorbed to see it.
'Never been in a relationship'.. yeah right!
More like 'Chad wont commit!'.
If you're 30 and haven't been in a stable relationship it's even harder for you. Being in a relationship is nothing you have in the closet in case you want to wear it. It takes time, resources, committment and emphathy to make it work. This can only be learned by being in a relationship. As you can't drive by just enter a car in the driving seat, you can't just start having a relationship at 30. At that age living single until then, you have a much harder time trying to adjust to live with another person. As there's dating coaches there should be relationship coaches to learn how to live in a relationship for those who never have done it.
Beware of dating coaches as there are a lot of fraudsters out there specially when it comes to speed dating. The coach will often use the money men pay to hire women to feign interest in the men for the 1 hour even. Those women get a warm up drink at the event $40-100 from the coach and then hit the clubs that very same night with cash for drinks. Once you see it you cannot unsee it.
Relationship coaches are for women bruh. When men get into relationships they hardly leave (unless the women is modern and obnoxious) so it's the high standards of women that must be coached and managed.
agreed
"If he eats a popsicle...I can't do it" LMAO!
Swop saying “single parent” it’s actually single mother problem.
Towards the end, the guy was referring to the fact that men like to get themselves financially established before they start thinking about marriage and family formation.
There are only two options here.
Give up and accept that you will always be part of the 90%
Or become the 10% by any means necessary
And the hidden option of just going 'eh, not even worth my time anyways.'
This is not the first time I've heard this. When I was a young man I worked in the church (assistant youth minister). I've heard many people say that young women should just focus on career development. Even back then I knew something was wrong about this advise. I remember being about 12 - 16 Y.O. when I'd be at the barbershop hearing the older men say something is wrong with this type of woman. They (the barber) would say look back over history men could get married, divorce, remarried, and or be single. However, no women have ever had enmass the same options that men have. They also would say why would any ilder woman be divorce, remarried, and or single in her later years. This is not the most opportune approach to getting the best option for their outcome.
Social Media is a blessing and a curse. We have too many socially awkward people period.
I love videos like this and all the suggested remedies to help solve the problems. Many of those remedies will help, but if we don't get to the attitudes or paradigms of the people, those remedies will only have a small affect. We in the western world have become spoiled and think that the world owes us something. Every man a King and every woman a princes. We have the "The grass is greener on the other side." paradigm. Until we as a whole adjust are attitudes, it will continue to get worst. Most people would classify me as a good man, but what I notice, since I've been out on the dating scene. is that no one talks about commitment, dedication and sacrifice. Most talk against those things since it does have to potential of wasting your time in the long run. However, without those traits, no one, or very few will ever get what they want from their partners. And so, it becomes a game to just protect yourself, while the dating market is going to hell in a hand basket. I wanted a real relationship after my divorce, but I have to admit, I have not found a woman I would trust fully, because it seems to be just about how people are feeling; instead of any principles.
None of them will help, companies are being rewarded for being discriminatory against strait men of any race and color. If a company has a choice between a black bisexual Muslim woman with zero knowledge in a field vs a strait Hispanic man whose slightly light skin with 8 years in that job. ESG and DEI dictate that a company will gain more access to loans and better deals going for the 'oppressed' minority over the more experienced worker.
"I have not found a woman to trust fully"
I think there's a problem, it's like to trust your country wouldn't be invaded, never ever
Minimum wage raises are not the silver bullet he tries to paint them as.
People in droves are leaving California because it's too fucking expensive.
Twice in my life I moved in with women who owned their own home. Twice it turned badly, it became a weapon used against me in arguments where I was constantly threatened with immediate removal. Don't waste your time with women like that. Part of the purpose of marriage is to build a life together. If you or she has already "built" that life then it might be best to just accept that and move on. There is a time and a point in life where marriage makes sense and where it does not.
I immediately dismiss any woman who owns her own home. For the reasons you mentioned but also she is looking for a guy to do repairs. I’m sorry I’m not doing home repairs for a house I have no entitlement to. I’m not going to do repairs to gain her equity and I’ll get kicked out when she’s used me up. No thanks
Yes. The problem with moving in with a woman is you're giving them all the power. They could say it's over, and then you may be homeless.
@@rushrush1209 Yup, the system/courts are fine with making a man homeless, but will do what is needed to prevent a women from being in that situation.
it goes both ways, women need to lower the standards and men need to step up. both genders are accountable here.
Tripling the minimum wage is an economically illiterate move that could worsen the situation by causing job losses and higher prices. It doesn't solve the intended problems but creates new ones, overlooking the complexities of the labor market and the real needs of workers and businesses.
Agreed. Only grifting communists and their gullible followers (aka useful idiots) think otherwise.
I turned off the podcast after he said that. For such an educated person he doesn’t understand how small businesses work.
No your wrong, trickle down economic is only benefits rich e.g no other country does tipping because its stealing, tipping used to keep slavery in place benefits no one.
Plenty of western societies are doing better for their middle class than USA with huigher minimum wage and health care there are facts.
Melanie, you are doing a great job. I enjoy your reactions at various points of the video. Keep it up. You are crushing it! 😎
Women living with the consequences of their choices. Get used to it.
I've said it before and I will say it again, height has nothing to do with a man's ability to defend or protect a woman. Bruce Lee was 5'8", Chuck Norris is 5'9", most MMA fighters and UFC fighters, except in the highest weight class are on average 5'9". Audie Murphy, the highest decorated soldier of WWII and an MOH recipient was...5"5". I am 6'2" and would probably get my ass kicked in a street fight.
Have you looked at why weight classes exist though?
@@otimismoedoenca6749 yes, but on the street you don't know the level of training or experience anyone might have. A big guy might be getting by on size intimidation while someone smaller may be a highly trained fighter with years of experience. So once again, size is not a determining factor on whether someone can protect you.
Impeccable insight from all ends … you gained a fan today Melanie📈
Galloway is a marketing professor, not an economist. He doesn't understand how minimum wage laws INCREASE inflation.
It really doesn't because our economy is more capital driven than labor driven.
Corporations offset that cost by marking up the pricing on everything. It's not the minimum wage increase itself. It's the corporate greed that increases. That sort of minimum wage increase is brutal on the small businesses and mom and pop shops that need employees.
Plus that encourages additional reward without any work. I'd argue that's what's wrong with our society right now. Entitlement.
They sleep with guys with money during their twenties then come crawling to the average guy for marriage after getting ran through. Has been happening for 20 years.
She had her chance, she blew it
Journeyman plumber can make $100/hr. That's $200K/yr. Setting looks aside, if he lived in LA or NYC, you think he'd get any dates? Blue collar career is instant disqualification in marjor cities.
It's profound seeing how much preferential treatment young women get in the job market, both for entry level positions, cafes, retail, hospitality, and in the increasingly feminized corporate world (where HR favours them through the roof). And you simply cannot talk about it in polite society.
True I know companies that are aggressively recruiting specifically for women even offering double,triple even quadruple the referral bonus for successful candidates.