When I told my story about my uncle raping me. His mother said “she is lying, do you see how she dressed? I told her to stop dressing like that and stop tempting man” I was 11 years old dressing like the church had taught me. Blaming the victim and not the perpetrator is what’s wrong with this society.
I’m so sorry to hear this happened to you and that you had to hear such awful comments from people who should have protected you. I pray you have found or find peace because you are so worthy and deserve it ❤
I was never molested, but, I remember being so disturbed by something my Grandma said to me. Growing up, I was an Usher in our church and we sat in the very back of the church which put us in the direct line of vision for anyone standing at the pulpit. One Sunday, my Grandma asked me to move because she didn't want the Pastor to be distracted by my pretty legs. I was TWELVE, the pastor at the time was in his 40s! Like.. why are they placating a Pedophile? Was he known for looking at little girls?! I wouldn't be shocked, I learned as an adult that the man who occasionally drove the church bus was a convicted child rapist. He drove my cousin and I to a few events when we were between the ages of 11-15. I only learned this a few years ago when said man murdered his wife....a woman I'd known my entire life.
I was groomed, when my mother found out ( well she didn't, someone told her) she said: " why didn't you tell me, you must have enjoyed it". Those words, the shame, hurt me more than anything, and those words still haunt me today 50 years after
It's the most uncomfortable thing to do... to tell. I didn't tell either but my brother told for me - we were about 6/7 years old. I remember being absolutely terrified to open my mouth when my mother questioned me. I'm so glad you left your comment. Don't think for one minute that you're not brave, because you are, incredibly brave.
The fact that he gave her tea everyday and she would black out and go into a deep sleep is 100% not normal. There's no question he was drugging her and molesting her.
@@carolnahigian9518 it is not surprise or weird to say if these actions been done cos he is outsider yet if the father the one should protect his family yet he is ruining that responsible he should take care, it is hurt so much
Salam Sister, I was abused by a step uncle at the age of 7. I’m now 57 and I can honestly say it ruined my life. Thankfully you are here telling your truth. 🙏🌺❤️
@@henashaikh3863 "why not tell?" I don't understand why you even ask this, it's because the victim will be beaten, threatened or told their loved ones will die, etc. if they do. Added, there's the risk that none will believe you, or question how can you say horrible things about your granddaddy.
@@henashaikh3863 it haping too mee when i was young like 8 (now iam 35) and i never told anybodys and i was asking the same question too my self why i never told but its verry difficult to explain i think your so shocked that you dont realy know what happing and then you tried so hard to forget that your are in deny and you just acted like it never happing
I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness. Stop Sexual Abuse
i don't understand how someone can do this to anyone, especially a child. it's sickening. you should be applauded for showing him up. much healing and peace to you.
@@sheilaabaThe mother knew and was jealous of her daughter she likened it to an affair as opposed to child sexual abuse, the mother is just as vile as the father
How do you know that? Maybe her mother did not know this. That is also possible. If she knew that this happened, she should have tried to help her daughter.
The only hero here is you hunny! I Thank You for sharing your story, I too am a survivor of abuse, the sexual part starting when I was in the crib, by my blood father. The sexual abuse lasted into my teens, with as many as a dozen abusers that I can remember, until I stood up and said NO! The mental, emotional and spiritual abuse lasted until I had a child of my own at 28 and I refused to let any of it happen to him, so I walked away from all of my blood relatives. Best decision I ever made in my life and I'm almost 60 now. By being successful, happy and healthy, WE WIN!!!!
I am a sex trafficking victim and my story is not being heard nor does the law want to uphold my rights as a victim.!!!! I HAVE A STORY TO TELL AND NO ONE CAN SILENCE ME.
Think about that which is not tolerable. I would get free of the situation. Your life is not ruined. What makes you strong is taking the reins of your life. Your future. Make it of your choosing..
.you get stronger. Courage, trust in self , self belief, and as you get older, there is change. Take back your choices, your life. Bullies take advantage of others too. You owe abusers nothing.
I do this too. My child is a mixed kid in a white school though. I’m just making sure that no one gangs up on her while she’s on the playground. However, I don’t drive up and down the street. Instead I park my car right beside the playground and wave at my child. About 15 other parents do this too because the children play at the playground around 2 hours before the school day is dismissed and everyone is jockeying for one of the first spots in the car pickup line. I wouldn’t find this strange as a teacher
@@jeanettelebarron3306 I 'm not sure her mother was clueless. Her daughter told us that her Mom didn't have a good relationship and was, did she say "cold" towards her. I believe her Mom was jealous. It's too bad that her Mom didn't leave. She may have been under his control too. In fact probably was. However, she would still possibly become an accomplice because she didn't stop it. So so sad. This poor daughter going through all of this evil. I pray for Jesus to comfort her.
Why would the mother ever think it was normal for her husband to bathe with their daughter!? And how could anyone think it was normal for him to stalk her!? There's no way the mother did not know!
I don't understand how there weren't physical symptoms & evidence of this abuse. My gawd!There's no way her mother didn't know about this. The mother is guilty, too, & should also be prosecuted.
The part of your story that saddens me the most is that the people who accused you of being spoiled probably had their suspisions and ignored them. Noone can see that kind of father/daughter relationship up close without knowing something is wrong. Maybe not to the ful extent, but they had to know you were being abused and chose, yes chose to ignore it. That breaks my heart. May you heal and find happiness.
We have to be cautious though too. I once confronted my friend because her dad went out of his way to make her happy. For example, he’d camp out to get a new release of a movie, book, or device she liked. He was always telling her how pretty she was. He would run his fingers through her hair, hug her, and put his arm on her all the time. My dad is German, and we aren’t touchy people, so it made me uncomfortable. When I asked my friend about her dad, she told a counselor about it, and the counselor called CPS. There was a huge investigation, the dad nearly lost his high profile career, and the parents nearly lost custody. Everything ended up being perfectly normal, he just loved his daughter and was a touchy feely type guy. I’m not saying not to question that behavior. I’m just saying to really speak to the child. Don’t push the idea that something could be happening that they are blocking out, unless the child says they can’t remember chunks of time or blacking out.
Yes it's disgusting and I think it's another reason so many so called men carry out their disgusting fantasies if the law and prosecution service were to hand out life sentences for ANY ! Harm done towards a child I think it would stop a good majority of them not all of them because those one to swing
😢 my grandfather was a bad man too. He was thankfully put into jail when I was born so I was never subjected to him. However the rest of my family was so badly injured by him that I knew the trauma through them. We are still broken to this day and he has long ago passed away. The trauma will last forever.
no amount of kindness actually makes any abuse better or understandable it ruins whole families for years to come. i feel you’re pain i hope healing and happiness comes into your life like a beautiful rainbow
So good to see this subject finally being spoken about. It’s the best way to let others know they are not alone and ease the shame enough to perhaps seek help. Thank you 🙏
I got instantly sick when her Dad said he really really wanted her to have a little girl. And then when she had a son he said it was his! Disgusting. He needs to be admitted to a mental institution for life.
Thank you, Maya, for sharing your story - silence only gives the abuser power. They can only do what they do while their victim remains silent. May all victims be strengthened to stand up with the truth - because the truth is the only thing that can set you free!
Sexual abuse faced by little boys and girls is something not talked about in religious homes especially Christian, Islamic and Jewish families. And the abuser is usually someone very close who pretends to be the most holiest person to have ever walked this earth.
It s so rife and wide spread in the churches all over the world ,we can t even trust our nearests and dearests ,or people at schools ,it s the teacher ,father ,priest ,coach ,vicar, police , the trainer ,army officer ,the Bishop,.....who are u going to turn to for help .at least she found a nice family who will protect her and make her happy .
But as in this case there are those who know things and ignore them or chose not to pay attention or listen when the kids are struggling or reveal something. There are so many sick people, so little understanding, and so many selfish people who won’t extend themselves or do their job to help a helpless child. And I know from experience that the psychology in abusive families can make it very hard to get any actionable evidence even when you have suspicions.
So true. You want help. You go to your priest because you think that you can trust him. The priest asks you a million questions, and suddenly, you realize that he is getting turned on by talking about it. Then he doesnt let you leave and says, "You gave it to him, so why not give it to me, I can do better."
This happened to me by my step father!! I was 8 when it first started and when I finally got the nerve up to tell my mom she didn’t leave him!! It continued to happen until I was 12 and she finally left him but the trauma of my mother not protecting me from this man haunts me!! I figured if my mom didn’t do anything to protect me no one would!! This man was so obsessed with me that he found where we lived and he would leave me gifts and sick love notes and my mom would give me these gifts!! The hardest thing in the world was forgiving both of them, that started my healing process!! Don’t get me wrong I would never speak to him and I would never want to see him!! It’s also made my relationship with my mother very distressed!! Had it not been for Jesus Christ I wouldn’t be where I’m at today as a Christian!!
I am so sorry ... I dont want to be rude ... But where was Jesus when all of this was happening ? ? ? Jesus was NOT there for you, did not protect you, did not save you. The truth is that your own strength got you through it -- you saved yourself. Be proud of yourself and dont give the credit to Jesus when you are your own magic.
What concerns me are the bystanders in these kids lives that sense something is terribly wrong and don't do anything about it. We should not only hold to perpetrators accountable, every other adult who claims they "did not know" should be questioned and scrutinized as well. We need way more safe spaces to report and solutions for these crimes to be reported and prosecuted.
Wow…..😔 I know this story was difficult to tell and to mentally relive. But I’m thankful for those who speak up. It’s important we learn the warning signs to catch predators earlier than later. This was happening for YEARS 😢
You do not know how much you have helped people like me. I know I’m not the only one, that’s just illogical. You may have helped thousands and thousands of victims. I wish I could take your pain and send it to the depths of hell. Since I can not I am so happy to see you found a way to go on and found the strength to tell your story. Kids do nothing wrong to make this sickening evil happen but it take a lot of decades to realize you were innocent and you were wronged but you were not wrong! I love you even though I don’t know you. It’s a heart bond from one survivor to another. I wish you peace and love.
As a person who went to abuse, I thank God you are save. The person who abused me abused many others. He died without paying for it because we didn't speak out. As an adult, I would think, why didn't our fathers take him out and shot him. He was married to my aunt, can you believe that. But he has to answer for all of what he did. And I know that the God I serve will see to it that we will have justice.
Apparently sexual abuse is way more common than any of us can even imagine, I am 60 years old and thru the years almost every woman that I have known went thru some sort of sexual abuse. It is truly horrendous!!! The more I hear the more I understand how common it really is. I was sexually abused from the time I was in diapers. By the time I was 12 i remember asking my mom if I had sex written across my for head or something, I thought something was wrong with me that almost every man I met thats all they wanted!
I know right? There’s something rather strange and confusing about this rendition……..The father is a violent offender who should be locked up for life……something’s wrong with this picture,,,,,..They let him be released after seeing those horrific years of videos?!!!! Sick, patriarchal justice systems!
I've heard lots of abuse cases and this one is particularly scarring. Bless this woman's spirit. Her amount of strength as well as the support she has is amazing.
Wow. How to unpack the horrors of your story...? I feel like reaching through the net to congratulate the courage and positivity that you have demonstrated. Awe inspiring are the attitude and empathy for others which you share. My hopes are that you go from strength to strength in your efforts to maintain awareness and support those who have been subjected to sxl abuse and survived. Best wishes from my heart.
I was abused from 8 to 23 by my uncle . I told my mom at about 11. She asked me to Tell her whenever ot happens I DID. And she did nothing. At 38 i told my father and learned that she never told him. She confronted me, gaslighting saying: " i didn't know. How could i ever forget something like that? " He was "banned" from the family, but i know it's just because i live in the First floor. When i move out he will be reunited again. Crazy huh
What an incredibly brave lady you are. I am 53 and have never been able to talk about what happened to me despite my diagnosis of cptsd and offers of trauma focused therapy.
I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness. Stop Sexual Abuse
I'm always shocked and angered by mothers who don't rush to support their abused child. Usually because they cannot face the upheaval and drama, or as in some cases they blame the innocent child. I cannot imagine being that child and having no one for comfort and protection from the evil predator. They let these perpetrators out after short sentences in prison and move them to another district where they can start all over again with new victims.
The women these men choose are not random. These men are psychopaths and they seek out narcissistic women (lacking empathy) or submissive, useless women who do nothing. They wouldn't choose a loving woman who protects her kids like a mama bear.
I'm so inspired by your story. I haven't been a victim of SA, but I do empathize with you. The incredible bravery you've shown is amazing to me. I hope you're healing, and continue on a path with your son and husband to peace. xoxo
Stories like this break my heart my dad and I were very close but we did things like going fishing and I went to the grocery store with him he never ever did anything inappropriate ever he even quit tickling me when I started to develop.
My brother 14 years older than I did. When I told my mother as an adult she said I know but I stoped it in time. Then proceeded to try to make me reconcile with him. Brought my Daughter agenst my specific instructions to meet him. I do not understand why so many mothers just let things go, or actively shame the girls.
It’s demons. All apart of the enemies plans to destroy us. No other answer. Pure evil. People are just wickedly broken. Generational curses that are needed to be broken. Forgive them. Heal. LET JESUS restore you. Stay strong beLoved 🌹🙏
Thank you so, so much. I am so sorry you had to go through all of that manipulation, gaslighting & abuse. You are a hero & your vids are helping so many others 💐💜💐
I wonder if the cameras were able to catch anything that happened the night she was visiting with her baby. She said she woke up feeling uneasy. I really hope nothing happened to the baby. ♥️
You are a Beautiful Soul!!! Having the Courage to Speak out to Help others while dealing with your pain while healing is extremely Heroic and Admirable!! God Bless You!!!
The worst part is when we start to participate in the act, then we're to shame to tell because we're no longer forced. However children can't give consent to sex , so to anyone reading who feels its too late to tell, its never to late to stop it from happening to someone else.
Anyone who says pedo's need human rights, are as sick as the pedo's themselves. There is not a single person who has survived this abuse, who hasn't been terribly ruined by it.
I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness. Stop Sexual Abuse
Your story, your bravery, your freedom that you won within your own self...will inspire all of us who are listening to you. Whether we were abused or not...
WOW! That was the most powerful video from a survivor of sexual abuse I’ve EVER watched! She is beyond inspirational! People throw that word around a lot these days when in actual fact, it should be saved for special situations and people, like this woman. I feel humbled just listening to her story and witnessing her strength of character.
I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness. Stop Sexual Abuse.
@@Bexks My newest video is now on my UA-cam channel. This subject is very hard to talk about. I hadn’t talked about it in decades so opening up about it and allowing myself to feel however I feel is still kinda hard for me. I never would’ve imagined that I would be talking about my deepest and darkest secrets like this but I am. I will no longer hide it and pretend it didn’t happen. It did happen and I won’t keep his secret anymore. He damaged me in so many ways and I had to find a way to battle my demons and find myself. I won’t ever lose myself again
@@feliciaperezauthor ok, I’ll check out your channel. I have only spoken about what I went through a couple times in life. It happened when I was 8 yrs old. I didn’t tell anyone until I was in my 30s. I’ve had counselling years ago but I never spoke about it then either. I’m angry at 8 yr old me for not telling anyone. I don’t even know why I didn’t. Like what’s wrong with me? Why didn’t I tell someone. I went through a few more sexual assaults in my teens and never spoke of them either. Like wtf is or was wrong with me? I should’ve told someone. I’m much older now and those men completely got away with it and what’s worse is I only understood once I was much older that by not telling anyone about these men, they could of went on to do it to other girls. I feel awful about that.
So sorry to hear this story. I'm really curious to why no one noticed that you was hurting or something being wrong with your body or how this could go on & on with such a little girl and not be noticed.
People notice ! ! ! People know ! ! ! But they look the other way and "mind their business" ! ! ! People dont care and dont want trouble for themselves, so they stay out of it ! ! !
When I told my story about my uncle raping me. His mother said “she is lying, do you see how she dressed? I told her to stop dressing like that and stop tempting man” I was 11 years old dressing like the church had taught me. Blaming the victim and not the perpetrator is what’s wrong with this society.
I’m so sorry to hear this happened to you and that you had to hear such awful comments from people who should have protected you. I pray you have found or find peace because you are so worthy and deserve it ❤
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I was never molested, but, I remember being so disturbed by something my Grandma said to me. Growing up, I was an Usher in our church and we sat in the very back of the church which put us in the direct line of vision for anyone standing at the pulpit. One Sunday, my Grandma asked me to move because she didn't want the Pastor to be distracted by my pretty legs. I was TWELVE, the pastor at the time was in his 40s!
Like.. why are they placating a Pedophile? Was he known for looking at little girls?! I wouldn't be shocked, I learned as an adult that the man who occasionally drove the church bus was a convicted child rapist. He drove my cousin and I to a few events when we were between the ages of 11-15. I only learned this a few years ago when said man murdered his wife....a woman I'd known my entire life.
@@janellejulianajoyMy goodness 🤯🤯 I'm so glad that you never endured anything, but the women who enable these sickos are equally disturbed.
U need to reort to police ur uncle doing yo other girs
I was groomed, when my mother found out ( well she didn't, someone told her) she said: " why didn't you tell me, you must have enjoyed it". Those words, the shame, hurt me more than anything, and those words still haunt me today 50 years after
That's horrible. I know that shame way too well. It cripples us. I am so sorry you had to go through it. Sending you love. ❤️
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I am so truly sorry for what happened to you. It was not your fault.
I thought a mother is wired to tear to pieces anyone hurting her child. Its called mothers instinct ?
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I am 56 years old and I’VE NEVER TOLD. I commend your bravery.
You just did. You have nothing to be ashamed of. You did nothing wrong, he did. Peace to you.
It's the most uncomfortable thing to do... to tell. I didn't tell either but my brother told for me - we were about 6/7 years old. I remember being absolutely terrified to open my mouth when my mother questioned me. I'm so glad you left your comment. Don't think for one minute that you're not brave, because you are, incredibly brave.
U are, lady.
MI6 could use a woman like you!
@@Brainergamerzoffical idiot
The fact that he gave her tea everyday and she would black out and go into a deep sleep is 100% not normal. There's no question he was drugging her and molesting her.
Yes.
A neighbour Boy ( basket Ball - star) noticed me when no one else did- Groomed AND molested. Decades of Trauma& still counseling! dont give Up!
Survive dear woman - love to fill you up with care.
And take naked photos and sell them on the dark web...these monsters are sick and demonic
@@carolnahigian9518 it is not surprise or weird to say if these actions been done cos he is outsider yet if the father the one should protect his family yet he is ruining that responsible he should take care, it is hurt so much
Salam Sister, I was abused by a step uncle at the age of 7. I’m now 57 and I can honestly say it ruined my life. Thankfully you are here telling your truth. 🙏🌺❤️
did you let anyone know? If not, why not? Not to blame you, but to understand how these perverts often get away with their crimes
Grateful you shared your load with us that we may help you carry it ❤
I hope that you have much joy ahead of you, despite your past.
@@henashaikh3863 "why not tell?" I don't understand why you even ask this, it's because the victim will be beaten, threatened or told their loved ones will die, etc. if they do. Added, there's the risk that none will believe you, or question how can you say horrible things about your granddaddy.
@@henashaikh3863 it haping too mee when i was young like 8 (now iam 35) and i never told anybodys and i was asking the same question too my self why i never told but its verry difficult to explain i think your so shocked that you dont realy know what happing and then you tried so hard to forget that your are in deny and you just acted like it never happing
I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness.
Stop Sexual Abuse
I hope you are comfortable with your body and hating your step father, not yourself❤ stay strong sister 💪
Im so sorry 😢😢😢 praying for you ❤
I hope you can enjoy your life now and put this despicable person out of your mind.
So sorry for all that you endured ☹️😢 🙏
Your mom chose him! She brought him into your life! Of course the abuse would have happened
i don't understand how someone can do this to anyone, especially a child. it's sickening. you should be applauded for showing him up. much healing and peace to you.
We can't understand because this is just sickening and obviously a deviation that doesn't fit on a healthy and normal person
Your mom is as evil as your dad. Sorry you had to go through it. Sending love❤
Yes. Our nation has a proverb "Husband and wife is one satan". It means that people in couple are the same.
Been asking myself the whole time where was mom?!?? So painful for a child to go through all this alone
@@sheilaabaThe mother knew and was jealous of her daughter she likened it to an affair as opposed to child sexual abuse, the mother is just as vile as the father
How do you know that? Maybe her mother did not know this. That is also possible. If she knew that this happened, she should have tried to help her daughter.
@@maryannecomment3302 she says in another interview, her mother always displayed jealousy towards her
The only hero here is you hunny! I Thank You for sharing your story, I too am a survivor of abuse, the sexual part starting when I was in the crib, by my blood father. The sexual abuse lasted into my teens, with as many as a dozen abusers that I can remember, until I stood up and said NO! The mental, emotional and spiritual abuse lasted until I had a child of my own at 28 and I refused to let any of it happen to him, so I walked away from all of my blood relatives. Best decision I ever made in my life and I'm almost 60 now. By being successful, happy and healthy, WE WIN!!!!
I am so sorry, but happy you are a survivor.
@@kimalonzo3363 Thank You.
That sounds almost identical to my story!!
@@carrieweaver6161 I so sorry to hear that! ❤️
I am a sex trafficking victim and my story is not being heard nor does the law want to uphold my rights as a victim.!!!! I HAVE A STORY TO TELL AND NO ONE CAN SILENCE ME.
No ONE can silence you no matter what they do, peace to you
Oh I’m so sorry for all that you endured. 😢
@@ismaasif4402 Thank you 🙏
@@bernice4599 Thank You 🙏
@@pinkrizo3815 much love and healing energy sent your way🙏
I can’t understand how a biological father can do this to their child. If a girl isn’t safe with her father, then who is she safe with?
They ruined it for us.
Think about that which is not tolerable. I would get free of the situation. Your life is not ruined. What makes you strong is taking the reins of your life. Your future. Make it of your choosing..
.you get stronger. Courage, trust in self , self belief, and as you get older, there is change. Take back your choices, your life. Bullies take advantage of others too. You owe abusers nothing.
the “biological” shouldn’t even be needed, were talking about a child, one youre raising at that.
Yourself
Her teachers didn't think it was stalker behavior for her father to be circling her school while she was in class??
One girl had her dad molest her in front of the school in the car line dropping her off.
As a teacher I’d definitely have reported that
I do this too. My child is a mixed kid in a white school though. I’m just making sure that no one gangs up on her while she’s on the playground. However, I don’t drive up and down the street. Instead I park my car right beside the playground and wave at my child. About 15 other parents do this too because the children play at the playground around 2 hours before the school day is dismissed and everyone is jockeying for one of the first spots in the car pickup line. I wouldn’t find this strange as a teacher
Your Mother was Clueless? Sick family. I'm glad you found true ❤!
@@jeanettelebarron3306 I 'm not sure her mother was clueless. Her daughter told us that her Mom didn't have a good relationship and was, did she say "cold" towards her. I believe her Mom was jealous. It's too bad that her Mom didn't leave. She may have been under his control too. In fact probably was. However, she would still possibly become an accomplice because she didn't stop it.
So so sad. This poor daughter going through all of this evil. I pray for Jesus to comfort her.
I was sexually abused by my grandfather from the age of 6. I understand what you have been through. I am glad you safe now.
I'm 70 My mom never seemed acknowledge
Don't you think he abused other sisters or even aunts! Was it your mom's father?
Don't ever let your daughter's around him!
Same. sorry to hear this
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Why would the mother ever think it was normal for her husband to bathe with their daughter!? And how could anyone think it was normal for him to stalk her!? There's no way the mother did not know!
Don't assume anything . It's her story , not yours .
My father bathed me and I have fond memories. Not every father is the same.
She mentioned it only happened when the mother was not home and that her mother was a cold unfeeling person that she didn't feel safe speaking to
Why do mothers bathe with their sons? Even at the rip age of 7 or 8?
@S02012 they don't...that's super weird
I don't understand how there weren't physical symptoms & evidence of this abuse. My gawd!There's no way her mother didn't know about this. The mother is guilty, too, & should also be prosecuted.
There was. If you watch her video by Sean attwood to get whole story. Father had videod abusing her for years after drugging her. Loads of evidence.
@@fleur3986 How do I find this video you mention? I wonder what ever happened to the mother.
The part of your story that saddens me the most is that the people who accused you of being spoiled probably had their suspisions and ignored them. Noone can see that kind of father/daughter relationship up close without knowing something is wrong. Maybe not to the ful extent, but they had to know you were being abused and chose, yes chose to ignore it. That breaks my heart. May you heal and find happiness.
True. The mother must have known something at least. These things can’t continue happening if it’s not surrounded by complicit people. It’s so sick.
We have to be cautious though too. I once confronted my friend because her dad went out of his way to make her happy. For example, he’d camp out to get a new release of a movie, book, or device she liked. He was always telling her how pretty she was. He would run his fingers through her hair, hug her, and put his arm on her all the time. My dad is German, and we aren’t touchy people, so it made me uncomfortable. When I asked my friend about her dad, she told a counselor about it, and the counselor called CPS. There was a huge investigation, the dad nearly lost his high profile career, and the parents nearly lost custody. Everything ended up being perfectly normal, he just loved his daughter and was a touchy feely type guy. I’m not saying not to question that behavior. I’m just saying to really speak to the child. Don’t push the idea that something could be happening that they are blocking out, unless the child says they can’t remember chunks of time or blacking out.
OMG the fact that he was released after all is beyond me. I can't imagine how horrific it must be been to go through that 🥺 thank you for sharing
Yes it's disgusting and I think it's another reason so many so called men carry out their disgusting fantasies if the law and prosecution service were to hand out life sentences for ANY ! Harm done towards a child I think it would stop a good majority of them not all of them because those one to swing
The mother is culpable in this. I’m sure she knew! 🇨🇦
😢 my grandfather was a bad man too. He was thankfully put into jail when I was born so I was never subjected to him. However the rest of my family was so badly injured by him that I knew the trauma through them. We are still broken to this day and he has long ago passed away. The trauma will last forever.
no amount of kindness actually makes any abuse better or understandable it ruins whole families for years to come. i feel you’re pain i hope healing and happiness comes into your life like a beautiful rainbow
Such a strong women, my heart breaks for the children that go throw this type of abuse
So good to see this subject finally being spoken about. It’s the best way to let others know they are not alone and ease the shame enough to perhaps seek help. Thank you 🙏
I got instantly sick when her Dad said he really really wanted her to have a little girl. And then when she had a son he said it was his! Disgusting. He needs to be admitted to a mental institution for life.
Noo noo noo he needs to be put down filthy DEVIL
Such a sick human being
Absolutely vile! 😣😣😣
May this young lady heal. 💛
She’s so brave for sharing this
Narcissists don't view their children as humans. Children are their supplies and treated like objects.
Thank you, Maya, for sharing your story - silence only gives the abuser power. They can only do what they do while their victim remains silent. May all victims be strengthened to stand up with the truth - because the truth is the only thing that can set you free!
When she said 3 years old I felt physically faint, I actually thought I’d pass out.
Right 😣🤯🫨
Sexual abuse faced by little boys and girls is something not talked about in religious homes especially Christian, Islamic and Jewish families. And the abuser is usually someone very close who pretends to be the most holiest person to have ever walked this earth.
It s so rife and wide spread in the churches all over the world ,we can t even trust our nearests and dearests ,or people at schools ,it s the teacher ,father ,priest ,coach ,vicar, police , the trainer ,army officer ,the Bishop,.....who are u going to turn to for help .at least she found a nice family who will protect her and make her happy .
@@muzzabouzza6144 you’re right, imagine you go for help and the very person assigned to your case, police officer is a paedophile himself
But as in this case there are those who know things and ignore them or chose not to pay attention or listen when the kids are struggling or reveal something. There are so many sick people, so little understanding, and so many selfish people who won’t extend themselves or do their job to help a helpless child. And I know from experience that the psychology in abusive families can make it very hard to get any actionable evidence even when you have suspicions.
So true. You want help. You go to your priest because you think that you can trust him. The priest asks you a million questions, and suddenly, you realize that he is getting turned on by talking about it. Then he doesnt let you leave and says, "You gave it to him, so why not give it to me, I can do better."
It's also in Hinduism and Buddhism
This happened to me by my step father!! I was 8 when it first started and when I finally got the nerve up to tell my mom she didn’t leave him!! It continued to happen until I was 12 and she finally left him but the trauma of my mother not protecting me from this man haunts me!! I figured if my mom didn’t do anything to protect me no one would!! This man was so obsessed with me that he found where we lived and he would leave me gifts and sick love notes and my mom would give me these gifts!! The hardest thing in the world was forgiving both of them, that started my healing process!! Don’t get me wrong I would never speak to him and I would never want to see him!! It’s also made my relationship with my mother very distressed!! Had it not been for Jesus Christ I wouldn’t be where I’m at today as a Christian!!
That’s awesome you found Jesus. Thank for sharing that 🥰
An evil mum too
So sorry :(
I am so sorry ... I dont want to be rude ... But where was Jesus when all of this was happening ? ? ? Jesus was NOT there for you, did not protect you, did not save you. The truth is that your own strength got you through it -- you saved yourself. Be proud of yourself and dont give the credit to Jesus when you are your own magic.
@@victoryluck 👏🏼
What concerns me are the bystanders in these kids lives that sense something is terribly wrong and don't do anything about it. We should not only hold to perpetrators accountable, every other adult who claims they "did not know" should be questioned and scrutinized as well. We need way more safe spaces to report and solutions for these crimes to be reported and prosecuted.
Wow…..😔 I know this story was difficult to tell and to mentally relive. But I’m thankful for those who speak up. It’s important we learn the warning signs to catch predators earlier than later. This was happening for YEARS 😢
You do not know how much you have helped people like me. I know I’m not the only one, that’s just illogical. You may have helped thousands and thousands of victims. I wish I could take your pain and send it to the depths of hell. Since I can not I am so happy to see you found a way to go on and found the strength to tell your story. Kids do nothing wrong to make this sickening evil happen but it take a lot of decades to realize you were innocent and you were wronged but you were not wrong! I love you even though I don’t know you. It’s a heart bond from one survivor to another. I wish you peace and love.
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This woman is a hero!! Amazing testimony of a child/woman's strength.
As a person who went to abuse, I thank God you are save. The person who abused me abused many others. He died without paying for it because we didn't speak out. As an adult, I would think, why didn't our fathers take him out and shot him. He was married to my aunt, can you believe that. But he has to answer for all of what he did. And I know that the God I serve will see to it that we will have justice.
So sorry dear u went through hell. Sincerely where's humanity
Thank you for being so brave ❤
Apparently sexual abuse is way more common than any of us can even imagine, I am 60 years old and thru the years almost every woman that I have known went thru some sort of sexual abuse. It is truly horrendous!!! The more I hear the more I understand how common it really is. I was sexually abused from the time I was in diapers. By the time I was 12 i remember asking my mom if I had sex written across my for head or something, I thought something was wrong with me that almost every man I met thats all they wanted!
Wow , it's true, but unbelievable, GOD help us all .
So sad to hear that, it is heartbreaking, how much sorrow is hidden behind smiles and happy family pictures..
You are such a strong person. Thank you for sharing. I am glad they got your father.
Amazing young lady! What a survivor!!!
Her body and mind really protected her, because that demon was a monster
I genuinely think it was because she was drugged so her body was looser than it would have been if she was sober. This is just skin crawling.
With all that evidence, how could he possibly be released from jail?
I know right? There’s something rather strange and confusing about this rendition……..The father is a violent offender who should be locked up for life……something’s wrong with this picture,,,,,..They let him be released after seeing those horrific years of videos?!!!! Sick, patriarchal justice systems!
Meanwhile, a guy who smoked pot is still serving...
Wow 🥲! Thank GOD for the strength to survive such a traumatic experience.
I've heard lots of abuse cases and this one is particularly scarring. Bless this woman's spirit. Her amount of strength as well as the support she has is amazing.
Oh sweetheart, you are a warrior.
Wow. How to unpack the horrors of your story...? I feel like reaching through the net to congratulate the courage and positivity that you have demonstrated. Awe inspiring are the attitude and empathy for others which you share. My hopes are that you go from strength to strength in your efforts to maintain awareness and support those who have been subjected to sxl abuse and survived. Best wishes from my heart.
So sad and I’m so sorry this happened to you. Thank the Lord you have overcome such abuse.
thank you for your courage.
WOW ! What a brave lady and so eloquent,her story is powerful ,she has been through hell and back again .
You are a remarkable women. You are a leader. I’m sending you all my support for your success!
I was abused from 8 to 23 by my uncle . I told my mom at about 11.
She asked me to Tell her whenever ot happens I DID. And she did nothing.
At 38 i told my father and learned that she never told him. She confronted me, gaslighting saying: " i didn't know. How could i ever forget something like that? "
He was "banned" from the family, but i know it's just because i live in the First floor. When i move out he will be reunited again. Crazy huh
JESUS BLESS YOU! JESUS KEEP YOU!! JESUS HEAL YOU!!!! JESUS RESTORE YOU!!!! STAY STRONG BEAUTIFUL!!! 🌹 FORGIVE, LET GO, LET GOD HEAL YOU COMPLETELY! 🌹🙏
I’m so happy that you were able to see him in a courtroom facing his demons. Not all of us were given that opportunity.
What a legend you are. Thank you for sharing your story. How incredibly brave you are. I'm so very sorry this happened to you.
Thank you for sharing and bringing awareness. We need to listen to every survivor that wants to tell their story.
I am in awe of your strength! You are resilient and a complete inspiration! I hope you have a blessed life with your new family!!
Moms often aren’t the protectors most people believe them to be.
What an incredibly brave lady you are. I am 53 and have never been able to talk about what happened to me despite my diagnosis of cptsd and offers of trauma focused therapy.
I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness.
Stop Sexual Abuse
I'm in tears, my heart is bleeding.
You are very brave, thank you so much for sharing your story!!
You are an incredible human being! Thank you for sharing your story & helping others… Sending you love & prayers…❤️🙏
I'm always shocked and angered by mothers who don't rush to support their abused child. Usually because they cannot face the upheaval and drama, or as in some cases they blame the innocent child. I cannot imagine being that child and having no one for comfort and protection from the evil predator. They let these perpetrators out after short sentences in prison and move them to another district where they can start all over again with new victims.
The women these men choose are not random. These men are psychopaths and they seek out narcissistic women (lacking empathy) or submissive, useless women who do nothing. They wouldn't choose a loving woman who protects her kids like a mama bear.
I would probably kill the abuser with my bare hands if someone did it to my child
I'm so inspired by your story. I haven't been a victim of SA, but I do empathize with you. The incredible bravery you've shown is amazing to me. I hope you're healing, and continue on a path with your son and husband to peace. xoxo
Stories like this break my heart my dad and I were very close but we did things like going fishing and I went to the grocery store with him he never ever did anything inappropriate ever he even quit tickling me when I started to develop.
You were lucky to have a proper dad, so was l. This woman was put through such a lot, God Bless her & please bring her Peace ❤
A great mental attitude. Love her strength.
How do abusers expect to get away with things when the victims grow up and realise? How are you gunna do that with no shame
I wonder the same thing. I don't get it. They're just sick.
HE got away w it!!
My brother 14 years older than I did. When I told my mother as an adult she said I know but I stoped it in time. Then proceeded to try to make me reconcile with him. Brought my Daughter agenst my specific instructions to meet him. I do not understand why so many mothers just let things go, or actively shame the girls.
It’s demons. All apart of the enemies plans to destroy us. No other answer. Pure evil. People are just wickedly broken. Generational curses that are needed to be broken. Forgive them. Heal. LET JESUS restore you. Stay strong beLoved 🌹🙏
Thank you for your bravery. Inspiring. This awareness needs to come up. You're healing yourself, others and the world!
Thank you so, so much. I am so sorry you had to go through all of that manipulation, gaslighting & abuse. You are a hero & your vids are helping so many others 💐💜💐
Very sad and heartbreaking...you a great survivor
There is nothing to shame, i am so sorry that you pass all these, my best greetings to you and your family
How terrible. I am glad you are finding the courage to move and help others. Prayers for yoy.
I wonder if the cameras were able to catch anything that happened the night she was visiting with her baby. She said she woke up feeling uneasy. I really hope nothing happened to the baby. ♥️
I bet they did since she said they had evidence that started around 3 went up to the time he was arrested.
Thank you for sharing. You are brave and beautiful!
You are a Beautiful Soul!!! Having the Courage to Speak out to Help others while dealing with your pain while healing is extremely Heroic and Admirable!! God Bless You!!!
Heartbreaking and empowering. What a strong woman.
Thank you, Maya, for telling your story 🌻
Thank you for speaking out I know first hand how hard it is. Much love to you and your family x
You are so strong and brave. Good for you!
Thank you for speaking up! 👏
Bless you. I hope that you can continue to be strong and that he stays locked up as he is a danger to all women and girls.
The worst part is when we start to participate in the act, then we're to shame to tell because we're no longer forced. However children can't give consent to sex , so to anyone reading who feels its too late to tell, its never to late to stop it from happening to someone else.
very strong lady ,,
All the Love to you for telling this.
Thank you for being so strong to share your tragic story. I was raped and abused since I was a baby as well.
I hope you're better now. You are not alone
@@PuppetMommy I am doing much better but still struggle with the scars and memories. Thank you.
Anyone who says pedo's need human rights, are as sick as the pedo's themselves.
There is not a single person who has survived this abuse, who hasn't been terribly ruined by it.
Birds of a feather flock together.
100,000%
You are so brave to share your story. Thank you for all the work you’re doing. I think this is much more prevalent than people realize.
I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness.
Stop Sexual Abuse
I’m glad to see you thriving, and so open with everything you endured.
Thank you for sharing this painful story. You are brave, amazing and wonderful.
You are a compelling story teller and a force of nature - BRAVO to you both for your survival and for your crusade to help others.
How brave you are. Not everyone would be able to do what you are doing.
Maya, you are so incredible, I am a little lost for words to express what a remarkable person you are.
Thank you so so much for sharing this. We are not alone!!
Thank you for exposing the monster !!! There are many of them out there. That, need to be exposed.
Grateful you shared your load with the world so we may help you bear it. ❤
What a strong, brave human being.
Your story, your bravery, your freedom that you won within your own self...will inspire all of us who are listening to you. Whether we were abused or not...
Such a disturbed weird man, bless you
Have a beautiful future! You deserve to be happy! Thank you for sharing!
I’m glad she’s ok🙏🙏
God bless you for speaking out.
WOW! That was the most powerful video from a survivor of sexual abuse I’ve EVER watched! She is beyond inspirational! People throw that word around a lot these days when in actual fact, it should be saved for special situations and people, like this woman. I feel humbled just listening to her story and witnessing her strength of character.
I was molested by my stepfather for 7 years. The things he did were horrific. The damage he caused will be lifelong. Recovery isn’t easy but necessary. My voice was never heard but it is being heard now. One person at a time. I’m strong enough now and want to share my story to continue bringing awareness. Please choose to fight against molestation/ sex abuse WITH ME!, My fight is just getting started. This fight (for me) is no longer about my abuse, it’s about the society that failed me and my determination to bring awareness.
Stop Sexual Abuse.
@@feliciaperezauthor I hear you 🫶🏼
@@Bexks thank you so much. We must all stand together and make sure we’re heard.
@@Bexks My newest video is now on my UA-cam channel. This subject is very hard to talk about. I hadn’t talked about it in decades so opening up about it and allowing myself to feel however I feel is still kinda hard for me. I never would’ve imagined that I would be talking about my deepest and darkest secrets like this but I am. I will no longer hide it and pretend it didn’t happen. It did happen and I won’t keep his secret anymore. He damaged me in so many ways and I had to find a way to battle my demons and find myself. I won’t ever lose myself again
@@feliciaperezauthor ok, I’ll check out your channel. I have only spoken about what I went through a couple times in life. It happened when I was 8 yrs old. I didn’t tell anyone until I was in my 30s. I’ve had counselling years ago but I never spoke about it then either. I’m angry at 8 yr old me for not telling anyone. I don’t even know why I didn’t. Like what’s wrong with me? Why didn’t I tell someone. I went through a few more sexual assaults in my teens and never spoke of them either. Like wtf is or was wrong with me? I should’ve told someone. I’m much older now and those men completely got away with it and what’s worse is I only understood once I was much older that by not telling anyone about these men, they could of went on to do it to other girls. I feel awful about that.
I hope you find peace and healing. No little girl deserves this life. ❤
Omg that's insane I'm so sorry you went through so much pain and suffering at the hand of that man.
So sorry to hear this story. I'm really curious to why no one noticed that you was hurting or something being wrong with your body or how this could go on & on with such a little girl and not be noticed.
Yes, not a Nurse , and what about the Mother....?
People notice ! ! ! People know ! ! ! But they look the other way and "mind their business" ! ! ! People dont care and dont want trouble for themselves, so they stay out of it ! ! !