Finding love & Dating in UK is hard 🥹! What no one ever tell you! Life as an intl student in the UK

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  • @TheRichgirl26
    @TheRichgirl26 Рік тому +18

    Hmm this topic should be a research topic. I just finished eating a full course relationship meal 😂😂 I can laugh now but some weeks back I was not myself. Please we need a part 2 😊

    • @patootie
      @patootie  Рік тому +5

      Lmao I can so relate, sis I cried a river for like 2 months straight 😂😂. Last year was not a joke!!

    • @rachelabayomi
      @rachelabayomi Рік тому +1

      Sorry dear

    • @stanleymathebula9843
      @stanleymathebula9843 Рік тому

      On whats up as well

  • @adeyinkaoladapo5863
    @adeyinkaoladapo5863 Рік тому +18

    This lady looks breathtaking. No make up, no Earring's, no lipstick, absolute nothing applied, good skin..omo òdun ìró ò dàá...she looks dead drop gorgeous...Please I need just one person to validate this statement of mine

  • @Raetalkss
    @Raetalkss Рік тому +10

    I am a Britco and got fed up of trying to find a man here. My bobo is from NIGERIA. Omo, if you want to move to the UK please find some back home. If you do want to date here please be open to older men and non black men. Several peers like myself are getting with Nigerian born men, older or white men. London men many are walking RED FLAGS! I am a Londoner I know what i am saying many do not want to commit. Save yourself and take my advise!

    • @Jenny-fl5cn
      @Jenny-fl5cn Рік тому

      Yes. I dated a white man. He is a strong practicing Christian. We decided not to go further because of an illness
      Any woman who lives Nigeria without getting married should try and be open about dating other races o. There are good and bad men everywhere. May God grant us our good heart desires.

    • @donisede8563
      @donisede8563 Рік тому

      What part of Uk are you?

  • @francodejj
    @francodejj Рік тому +5

    The environment « intensifies the loneliness »….very true!….back in 9ja, U can easily chit-chat with house neighbors, market people, etc….while in western nations, that’s not typically the case….the level of human everyday interaction isn’t the same….which contributes to what Patootie described.
    Waiting for Part 2 👍🏾👍🏾

  • @thatgelechic
    @thatgelechic Рік тому +2

    Waow! I pray all everyone out there trying to find true love, really get one, and amazing and understanding one❤

  • @davidmordi3117
    @davidmordi3117 8 місяців тому

    The parallel element you mentioned is a very cogent point. In the UK you have to be intentional in almost everything that you do. Personally, i think extensive research is key.

  • @rachelabayomi
    @rachelabayomi Рік тому +9

    What happened to those who migrate at 27 and no serious relationship before leaving😢 God help us. It’s actually a burden!

    • @bamigboyebamidele2058
      @bamigboyebamidele2058 Рік тому

      Which city are you?

    • @Jenny-fl5cn
      @Jenny-fl5cn Рік тому +11

      Migrated at 28. I will be 29 this month. No serious relationship. I joined dating site. Met crazy men. Joined another dating site, met reasonable men but most of them are white. Currently talking to a Nigerian man I met there and some white men. One of the white men visited me in the UK. He lives in the US. Another is coming to visit me this month. My mum was worried about it but what I need is a kind, hardworking and God fearing man.
      If you leave Nigeria in your late 20s and early 30s without getting married, my advice is to give a chance to any man who has the important things you are looking for.
      I have decided that it is not compulsory to marry someone from your village when you made the choice to leave the village as an unmarried woman. God help us all.

    • @rachelabayomi
      @rachelabayomi Рік тому +1

      @@Jenny-fl5cn Amen dear. And I pray God will surely do it for you. You will find the right man and yours will not be an exception. These are the things that scare me mostly.🙈 trying to adjust your expectations..

    • @leeayi243
      @leeayi243 Рік тому

      @@rachelabayomi I am available but currently in Nigeria will be back in the UK soon Godwilling. You look pretty let's chat.

  • @odun.micheal
    @odun.micheal Рік тому +12

    Everyone here is busy. I am 25 and I am here on a Tier 2 visa, my work has been the only thing happening in my life. Everyone is taking shift after shift and the ones you meet either want you for some other reason. It's crazy here. I just want hugs. If there's one thing I miss in Nigeria is my daily hugs from female friends. We wait for part 2

  • @tobibabalola3143
    @tobibabalola3143 Рік тому +12

    Matthew 6:33 Seek first the kingdom of God and all these things shall be added unto you.
    Dont let your reason for going to church be to find a guy, I believe when u seek God and do his will he will settle all that concerns you.
    Bless dear❤️

  • @KennysFoodsandTreats
    @KennysFoodsandTreats Рік тому +2

    The problem is that the Nigeria men here especially the yoruba carry culture in their mentality. If you are coming from Nigeria with your spouse or you got married in the UK, please know that childcare is expensive so both parties have to work together.
    There is no house help here! So as a man be ready to take care of your children while your wife is at work, cook for the family. Your wife will do the same whilst you are at work plus taking children to school and doing homework for them.
    If a man doesn't understand this things, they will overwork their wifes who is equally working. This is where the frustration start from.
    Listen men! You need your wife support for the family financially, you need each other. The cost of house rent and bills is very high.
    Husband and wife needs to understand how the system work in UK .

    • @nicholaseriavbe4370
      @nicholaseriavbe4370 9 місяців тому

      U have said the truth and nothing buh d naked truth...cooperation, team work, understanding with ur spouse is equal to a good and healthy marriage

  • @fluffyblue9112
    @fluffyblue9112 Рік тому +4

    I have tried my best not to type anything again o,so that you wont say i come here always to Bully you again ni o.But we need part 2 o,i am really laughing here o lol.Honestly,i have really missed all your vibes in ibadan back then even though i try my best not to let you know that i watch your videos lollll.We love you patootie

  • @GamersGrid
    @GamersGrid Рік тому +3

    I’m 22 years old… White girls have show me Shege😂😂… As a young Nigerian The only people in my age group that I always see are white or Black British… No one is single in this country 😂😂

  • @amosize9400
    @amosize9400 Рік тому +7

    I think I’m too shy for dating apps😂. I av this feeling of wat if somebody that knows me sees me there..:.won’t I look desperate 😂🙈

    • @EgbaJonesAbutu
      @EgbaJonesAbutu Рік тому

      Everything here na App oh, buying and selling, dating and searching, sex and loving getting App 😂😅

    • @suwie549
      @suwie549 Рік тому

      😂

  • @clipshq7038
    @clipshq7038 Рік тому +1

    Relationship project management. Agile Relationship lol. Who is going to remove obstacles when they show up? Scrum Master kinda thing lol. You are 💯 right tho

  • @teescorner24
    @teescorner24 Рік тому +3

    In conclusion.. use Agile approach instead of waterfall ✅

  • @marvelolabode9085
    @marvelolabode9085 Рік тому +2

    Thank you Pattotie, and yes we want a part 2💃🏼. Please what leave in conditioner or detangler do you use for your natural hair?

    • @qudratibrahim8386
      @qudratibrahim8386 Рік тому

      Co asking because your hair grows fast

    • @patootie
      @patootie  Рік тому

      I use Aunt Jackie’s quench leave in conditioner

  • @Just4womenafrica
    @Just4womenafrica Рік тому

    I have not watched your videos in a long time... you are looking fine ooooo.. The UK is good for u

  • @REJOICESCREEN
    @REJOICESCREEN Рік тому +7

    We want part 2 pls, you know what we want 😂😂😂

    • @hfbhju7001
      @hfbhju7001 Рік тому

      Ibadan the fastest growing city in Africa. Rejoice Screen

  • @DaveworldInspires
    @DaveworldInspires Рік тому +1

    @Patootie Sparkles trying to tell us to use Agile methodology approach for all we do not Waterfall😅

    • @patootie
      @patootie  Рік тому

      You get me 😂😂

    • @leeayi243
      @leeayi243 Рік тому

      @@patootie I can hook you up with a really white guy, friends of mine, you want?

  • @joyful_sister6581
    @joyful_sister6581 Рік тому

    I didn’t meet him on dating apps,I tried dating sites and most guys aren’t serious.Nobody introduced us to each other.

  • @happybuildershome4927
    @happybuildershome4927 10 місяців тому

    Me can't settle down in Uk or and country abroad because I have my business doing here in Lagos....i can marry any ladies abroad but remain in lagos. I can be going and coming if the lady with accept, i will be 37yrs by 2024, still single because of Jamb delay but i am doing fine in my business. I don't need overseas girls for money but for marriage.

  • @chiomanwozor6297
    @chiomanwozor6297 Рік тому +2

    Hi patootie ....been long here though ...you look nice❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @abibatswity9328
    @abibatswity9328 Рік тому +1

    I’m 27 and maybe I will just migrate with my man, make we go dey rough am Abeg

  • @Captainkingdomi
    @Captainkingdomi 9 місяців тому

    Wow amazing great content ❤

  • @rachelabayomi
    @rachelabayomi Рік тому

    I have missed you dear, being away from this channel for a while . Now I’m back! It is well.

  • @LammyJane
    @LammyJane Рік тому +1

    We want a part 2 💃🏾💃🏾💃🏾

  • @adaoraezeani5514
    @adaoraezeani5514 Рік тому

    Wow! I can't wait to hear what you will say oooo

  • @Thesweethannah
    @Thesweethannah Рік тому +2

    I Was going to ask about the friend you came to UK together, have he gotten a job or post graduate..

    • @patootie
      @patootie  Рік тому +4

      He is actually doing so great. God has been faithful to him ❤️

    • @tuforu4
      @tuforu4 Рік тому

      @@patootie STOP bothering GOD in KENYA too much THIEVES there and NIGERIA ..

  • @matthewadun7104
    @matthewadun7104 Рік тому +1

    This is the bane of living abroad.

  • @Joneleojo
    @Joneleojo Рік тому

    I love love 😊 omo it’s the singing for me o😂

  • @ayobamishaibu6904
    @ayobamishaibu6904 Рік тому +1

    The problem with this generation is that they already created a "spec" in their minds. That alone is limiting and anti-God and usually end in pain. God help us. Peace!

  • @bettylawal5117
    @bettylawal5117 Рік тому +9

    London Men are Stingy not ready to settle just enjoyment only O

  • @LifeofAdunni
    @LifeofAdunni Рік тому +1

    Reverse has been my case o. I don’t want to interact with any male specie before they give me breakfast😂.

    • @seanwilliamsj9744
      @seanwilliamsj9744 Рік тому

      Our life is not GPS programmed, there's no perfect man or perfect relationship anywhere life is try and error just keep the faith and be optimistic before you leap

    • @nicholaseriavbe4370
      @nicholaseriavbe4370 9 місяців тому

      @LifeofAdunni buh are beautiful

  • @TheAfosFamily
    @TheAfosFamily Рік тому

    You are looking good ❤ ❤

  • @beatsbymaxxie
    @beatsbymaxxie Рік тому

    Love your Pendant.

  • @popoolacharlescharles8281
    @popoolacharlescharles8281 Рік тому

    Lol. Interesting. I was resident in the uk for many years if I had found love I wouldn't be back in Nigeria. if you get what I mean. Pato I'm single ooo

  • @LifeofAdunni
    @LifeofAdunni Рік тому +7

    Uk men don’t send you honestly, it’s not like Nigeria that men will be running after you. These ones will look at you two times and remove their face😂.

    • @donisede8563
      @donisede8563 Рік тому

      Because they are scared not to be accused of sexual harassment

  • @techwork...
    @techwork... Рік тому +1

    Come back home and get love....
    This is an opportunity to do matchmaking app that connect real people looking for love in real time,to bridge the gaps ..
    Indians , Chinese, pakistani, even black Americans,do these things by going home for holidays ,marry or do introduction and work on settling down.....
    We need to do the same, build that community and keep our people happy....
    I come in peace.....

    • @oluwanifemioladipo7522
      @oluwanifemioladipo7522 3 місяці тому

      A community can be setup online to meet people not necessarily going home.

  • @akeemalaka8839
    @akeemalaka8839 Рік тому

    Patootie, a business analyst wanted a job in UK. Do you know a company he can apply to UK? If yes, pls recommend a one or two. Thanks!

    • @patootie
      @patootie  Рік тому

      I can’t really recommend a particular company but the person should check LInkedIn for companies offering jobs

    • @akeemalaka8839
      @akeemalaka8839 Рік тому

      You talked about a company on your program. I Just need the name. That's all. He will fix it from there.

  • @amosize9400
    @amosize9400 Рік тому +1

    What would the 30+ ladies that came in single naw do🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @rachealodey9318
      @rachealodey9318 Рік тому

      Abi o. Am going to be 35 this Oct and I no get man oo
      This UK is doing somehow o

    • @jessicaabigail4662
      @jessicaabigail4662 Рік тому

      @@rachealodey9318 go out more often to clubs and pubs, don’t limit ur search to Nija men, have an open mind and try to reason beyond Nija mentality. It worked for me

    • @jacksonijirigho5324
      @jacksonijirigho5324 Рік тому

      Hi i can link you if u want. I came from france. It not like this in other European countries. If u want we can talk

    • @jacksonijirigho5324
      @jacksonijirigho5324 Рік тому

      But i m not french. I m a naija guy.

    • @Sir.b.o
      @Sir.b.o Рік тому +1

      ​@@rachealodey9318 I gat you if you're willing to relocate to the US.

  • @realtrealt3786
    @realtrealt3786 Рік тому

    Yes please part two

  • @amosize9400
    @amosize9400 Рік тому

    It’s really hard here🥹.

  • @suleadeola3283
    @suleadeola3283 Рік тому

    Yes part 2 pls

  • @michaelfarayola2204
    @michaelfarayola2204 Рік тому +5

    It seems Patootie's heart was really shattered with the way she was emphasizing that Demon😅

  • @esthermjo_bj
    @esthermjo_bj Рік тому

    All love dear ✌️🥰

  • @rachealodey9318
    @rachealodey9318 Рік тому +2

    Omo, we dey fight the loneliness anyhow here o. Even young girls in Leicester are mothers. I com dey look myself say I need help o

    • @leeayi243
      @leeayi243 Рік тому +1

      Ah ah! A pretty damsel like you not suppose to be so, I am Available I live in London, so let's give it a try naa! What do u think? What's your Ig or snaphandle? I dey 9ja currently though.

    • @rachealodey9318
      @rachealodey9318 Рік тому +1

      @@leeayi243 😂

  • @REJOICESCREEN
    @REJOICESCREEN Рік тому

    I'm here for the gist 😂😂😂

    • @patootie
      @patootie  Рік тому

      Rejoice lemme oo 😂😂😂

  • @lindaogundare1631
    @lindaogundare1631 Рік тому

    How did u grow your front hair

  • @richardbankole6454
    @richardbankole6454 Рік тому +1

    You this Ibadan lady, you didn't finish the gist o!
    .... I mean your personal experience experience with London guys. O ya continue jo

  • @itz_gemon
    @itz_gemon Рік тому

    Nice video 👍

  • @yetmat
    @yetmat Рік тому

    Waiting for part 2

  • @Official_Kemi
    @Official_Kemi Рік тому

    It’s the Shege for me 😂

  • @ngozianamah9446
    @ngozianamah9446 Рік тому

    Plz go back to where you posted recycling product in Ibadan ,ppl are asking questions

  • @ifesinachidike5103
    @ifesinachidike5103 Рік тому

    I never see even ghost... Scotland infact Aberdeen na married women full everywhere....

  • @ayomidebalogun6937
    @ayomidebalogun6937 Рік тому

    Sis
    Pls how can I get scholarship in the UK, as an undergraduate

  • @rachelabayomi
    @rachelabayomi Рік тому

    Please we want part 2

  • @raphaelinoko7195
    @raphaelinoko7195 Рік тому

    Please can you do a CV review Patootie?

  • @Official_Kemi
    @Official_Kemi Рік тому

    Part 2 🙏🏻

  • @jubriloloruntobaobajake776
    @jubriloloruntobaobajake776 Рік тому +2

    😂😂😂 To make relationship work entails alot of sacrifice

  • @mariamkabirabiola1853
    @mariamkabirabiola1853 Рік тому

    Yayyyy 🎊 🎉💃🏼

  • @oluwarotimifawehinmi2176
    @oluwarotimifawehinmi2176 Рік тому +4

    it is very cold for London you need a man

    • @hfbhju7001
      @hfbhju7001 Рік тому

      Because of cold only? you are a wicked man wallahi.

  • @JerryAnim-dh3qu
    @JerryAnim-dh3qu Рік тому

    Dating in the Uk be wahala o 😂😂

  • @ejiobihsomuadina2854
    @ejiobihsomuadina2854 Рік тому

    I'm kinda thinking what kind of a man will break your heart with the lovely smile of your face? anyway I like seeing your smiling face I hope ill get to meet you soon this yeah

  • @berniceasibor6651
    @berniceasibor6651 Рік тому

    😂😂 oya part 2

  • @raphaelinoko7195
    @raphaelinoko7195 Рік тому +1

    Someone have you and still messed up?? Ah🙆🙆

  • @TheAfosFamily
    @TheAfosFamily Рік тому

    Pele about your hand

  • @mujeebsikiru7109
    @mujeebsikiru7109 Рік тому

    Yhh we need part 2 oo😂😂

  • @akeemalaka8839
    @akeemalaka8839 Рік тому

    Patootie, won ti ko ila fun e ni 😂😂. Pele o!

  • @Lil-Undercover
    @Lil-Undercover Рік тому +1

    Are you serious 😂

  • @gudbeatzent4665
    @gudbeatzent4665 Рік тому

    Already u only been there 2 mins na 😂😂😂, you still young enjoy yourself travel lots of time for that love

  • @afrikanakademy
    @afrikanakademy Рік тому

    Patootie ur follow come hubby is here " Dm me when ready. "Still following u like ur shadow 😂

  • @MorounG
    @MorounG Рік тому +1

    And date outside your race…😅

  • @kewsdanquah8377
    @kewsdanquah8377 Рік тому

    I got my first injury in the UK made me laugh hard😂😂. Patooootiiiieee😂✌🏻

    • @patootie
      @patootie  Рік тому +2

      I’ laugh at myself too 😂😂

    • @kewsdanquah8377
      @kewsdanquah8377 Рік тому

      Aww😂
      You literally laugh at everything 😆

  • @MajorrBison
    @MajorrBison Рік тому

    Juice, jwuice lol, all join.

  • @1trueloveforever
    @1trueloveforever Рік тому

    As a former law student who also lived in London , I can say it was difficult navigating the dating game , the struggle is real

  • @hamdallah5243
    @hamdallah5243 Рік тому

    Part 2 pls

  • @olakunleadeola7264
    @olakunleadeola7264 Рік тому

    😂😂😂😂😂😂 the lord will epp us

  • @yusufftope
    @yusufftope Рік тому

    😂😂... Laugh wan kill me

  • @LifeofAdunni
    @LifeofAdunni Рік тому

    Patootie you’re singing😂😂😂

  • @farinahmomodu9608
    @farinahmomodu9608 Рік тому

    Hi patootie, are you single?

  • @folayanayooluwajoshua7877
    @folayanayooluwajoshua7877 Рік тому +2

    your yoruba 😂

  • @Airfya_papabi
    @Airfya_papabi Рік тому +2

    The Yoh Yoh in ur videos now a days have u been walking with South Africans a lot??😂😂😂😂. Wahala for who ll enter this Uk and stop dating ur partner back home😂better keep am for reference 😂😂😂

    • @patootie
      @patootie  Рік тому +1

      Yho!! Did you say reference😂😂😂

  • @lawrenceochei4546
    @lawrenceochei4546 Рік тому

    What dating app please

  • @1murkeybadmayn
    @1murkeybadmayn Рік тому

    Patootie ṣọra ẹ ò, you have male subcribers too ò 😁😂.