Kramer vs. Kramer (4/8) Movie CLIP - I Want My Son (1979) HD

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    Joanna (Meryl Streep) tells Ted (Dustin Hoffman) that she wants Billy back during their first meeting in over a year.
    FILM DESCRIPTION:
    Robert Benton's Oscar-winning adaptation of Avery Corman's bestseller takes on contemporary problems of divorce and shifting gender roles, as a jilted husband learns how to be a nurturing father. Manhattan housewife Joanna Kramer (Meryl Streep) walks out on her workaholic ad man husband Ted (Dustin Hoffman), leaving their young son Billy (Justin Henry) in Ted's less than capable hands. Through trial and error, Ted learns how to take care of Billy, devoting more energy to his family than to his work, and finally losing his high-powered job because of his new priorities. When Joanna returns with her own lucrative job and the intent to take custody of Billy, Ted finds employment that won't interfere with his paternal duties. Even though he proves that he can do it all, Joanna still wins in court. Joanna, however, rethinks her desires when she finally grasps how close father and son have become. Addressing the male side of the self-actualization question, previously explored from the female perspective in such 1970s movies as An Unmarried Woman (1978), Alice Doesn't Live Here Anymore (1974), and The Turning Point (1977), Kramer focuses on Ted's evolution from absent parent to ideal father, as he learns to balance domestic and professional lives in the shifting late-1970s social landscape. Joanna's attempt to achieve the same, however, gets buried; only Streep's sensitive performance prevents Joanna from seeming an unsympathetic harridan. Critics praised the film's realistic depiction of Ted's travails, as well as the three lead actors' work; and audiences, perhaps facing the same questions of divorce and self-realization, turned it into a box-office smash. It went on to win five Oscars, including Best Picture, Best Actor, and Best Supporting Actress.
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    Cast: Dustin Hoffman, Meryl Streep
    Director: Robert Benton
    Producers: Richard Fischoff, Stanley R. Jaffe
    Screenwriters: Robert Benton, Avery Corman
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  • @jameskardys3452
    @jameskardys3452 6 років тому +1489

    Fun fact: Ted Kramer slamming the wine glass into the wall was not in the script. Dustin Hoffman decided to add that part. He didn't tell Meryl Streep about it in advance, so her reaction to it was real. After the camera stopped rolling, Streep got up and started yelling at Hoffman for scaring her, and what was supposed to be a fake argument between the two turned into a real one.

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions 6 років тому +10

      James Kardys: :(

    • @m.e.d.7997
      @m.e.d.7997 5 років тому +116

      I'll bet the director loved it and stuck up for Dustin, though.

    • @rstein926
      @rstein926 5 років тому +77

      Apparently Streep never forgave Hoffman for what he did to her.

    • @viper9833
      @viper9833 5 років тому +186

      @@rstein926 Actually, Meryl Streep can't stand Dustin Hoffman because he slapped her during one of the scenes of Kramer vs. Kramer, and it wasn't a fake slap like they usually do, neither written in the scrip.

    • @JReed1985
      @JReed1985 5 років тому +87

      It was fortunate that Dustin Hoffman and Meryl Streep didn't like each other in real life so the whole thing worked!

  • @773SleepyHollow
    @773SleepyHollow 11 років тому +641

    Meryl really didn't know that Dustin was going to smash his glass.

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions 6 років тому +33

      773SleepyHollow: sometimes in acting that makes for a fresh performance for all involved and also gets a good reaction from the other actor.

    • @siyamuddin62
      @siyamuddin62 3 роки тому +12

      Yes...
      Dustin improvised it

    • @bexsta7766
      @bexsta7766 3 роки тому +4

      @@siyamuddin62 Deffo as he moved the first time then realised that the stuff would be in the way so moved it again to do the smash x

    • @TheBehm08
      @TheBehm08 2 роки тому +1

      She almost breaks character at the end and has to cover her face cuz she’s about to smile about it lol

    • @seanbond6454
      @seanbond6454 2 роки тому +1

      Uh oh….fart

  • @firegod001
    @firegod001 8 років тому +476

    People love to pick these characters apart and complain about the behavior, but that's kind of the point. We all have bad behavior. I feel for each of these three family members. Such a great job by all.

    • @TECH097
      @TECH097 8 років тому +7

      ESPECIALLY in the situation of someone who used to be intimate with someone else, and shares the same child BECAUSE of that intimacy. The bad parts of their personalities are highlighted way more since this is a very personal matter to the both of them, and things are much less aggrivating when it's a stranger you're arguing with. And these three main actors are exactly why this is one of my Top 10 Favorite Films of All Time.

    • @kiks399
      @kiks399 8 років тому +9

      I did too, that's the beauty of this film: you can't help but refuse to pick one side.

    • @laminage
      @laminage 6 років тому

      Exactly. What Dustin Hoffman did with The Wineglass was similar to when Marlon Brando as Don Corleone Hit Johnny Fontaine played by Al Martino it wasn't scripted it just happened. That's why Robert Duvall (Hagen) laughed. On the UK Soap Opera Coronation St., Ken Barlow finds out his Wife Diedre had an affair with his Arch Enemy Mike Baldwin and shoved her against the Wall, she wasn't prepared but to many it was one of the best scenes not only in the History of Coronation St., but in a British Soap. Meryl Streep's Sister In Law is Maeve Kinkead who played Vanessa on Guiding Light The Soap Opera on and off beginning in 1983 until it's cancellation in 2009.

    • @m.e.d.7997
      @m.e.d.7997 5 років тому +2

      And the acting by that kid was great. He did not stay in acting though.

    • @laminage
      @laminage 2 роки тому

      @@m.e.d.7997 He was a very smart Young Man. The only other Movie he did was 16 Candles with Molly Ringwald. At last report, he went to College, got a Degree English & History and at last Report worked as a Tour Guide for a Museum.

  • @Jgm-gm9wi
    @Jgm-gm9wi 5 років тому +316

    Man, the acting in this movie is superb! I thought I was watching a real argument for a moment.

    • @mindriot91_96
      @mindriot91_96 3 роки тому +10

      I was just thinking the same thing. This scene is like a documentary where hidden cameras were placed and they recorded a married couple's argument.Two of the finest actors in the world!!

    • @DanielleVQ
      @DanielleVQ 3 роки тому +14

      That glass part was totally not in the script and Meryl did not know about it, so that's a real shock over there.

    • @skyeslaton3435
      @skyeslaton3435 Рік тому

      Better than marriage story

  • @SquidkidMega
    @SquidkidMega 3 роки тому +143

    2:06 that wine glass always wanted to be a movie star.....this was it's big break

  • @viralbuthow000
    @viralbuthow000 2 роки тому +121

    Two acting giants at their best. What a powerful scene

  • @lambyiii
    @lambyiii 11 років тому +171

    Both of them are fantastic actors!!!! Meryl Streep will go down in history as one of THE best actresses ever.

  • @MaheshSingh-de1ix
    @MaheshSingh-de1ix 3 роки тому +38

    This is one of the finest piece of acting. Kinda like that bar scene in the heat. 2 great actors at their very best

  • @rstein926
    @rstein926 6 років тому +330

    Trivia: Both Dustman and Streep were actually going through a period of difficult times in this film. Dustman in real life got divorced and Streep lost her partner.

    • @isabelhaupenthal9417
      @isabelhaupenthal9417 5 років тому +2

      rstein926 streep didn’t loose her partner

    • @JReed1985
      @JReed1985 4 роки тому +31

      Dustin Hoffman and Meryl Streep didn't like eachother, which was fortunate for their roles.

    • @JReed1985
      @JReed1985 4 роки тому +1

      @Julio Mateo really, he had an issue with everyone of his co-stars?

    • @JReed1985
      @JReed1985 4 роки тому +2

      @Julio Mateo a lot of celebrities these days are being accused of accusations, mainly sexual accusations.

    • @JReed1985
      @JReed1985 4 роки тому

      @Julio Mateo you hear that with many actors like Bruce Willis and Christian Bale, great actors but they are difficult to work with at times.

  • @Charlesssssss
    @Charlesssssss 4 роки тому +121

    Love how dustin moves the glass away then put it back near him again so he can do his improv.

    • @lonestarreactor1554
      @lonestarreactor1554 3 роки тому +14

      In the context of the film it just shows he is just shimmering with rage.
      I don't want to think that he would hit his wife, but had they been in a more private setting, and no glass for proxy....makes you wonder.

    • @yessir2308
      @yessir2308 2 роки тому +1

      I noticed that too

    • @calebkulfan2190
      @calebkulfan2190 2 роки тому +2

      Lol right totally breaks character

    • @shouvikghosh8946
      @shouvikghosh8946 8 місяців тому

      He could have taken a sip before putting it back as not to make it obvious...

    • @liberalguy513
      @liberalguy513 Місяць тому

      @@shouvikghosh8946 I agree, he should have taken a long angry swig from it before he broke it ..

  • @itabrennan7420
    @itabrennan7420 4 роки тому +53

    This scene was filmed in JG Melons 74th & 3rd NYC. Table 6. My friend Hope cleaned up the glass!

    • @itsyeaboi5333
      @itsyeaboi5333 4 роки тому +5

      cool it was featured on bon appetit the resto i mean

    • @itabrennan7420
      @itabrennan7420 4 роки тому +5

      @@itsyeaboi5333 I saw it! Brought back wonderful memories of working there!

  • @ewaz6196
    @ewaz6196 2 роки тому +16

    I like how in the beginning of the scene he welcomes her thoughts and seems genuinely curious and interested in talking to her....but once she unveils her intentions he snaps.....
    And the fact that the wine glass breaking (a real wine glass, not a fake one) wasn't planned, the surprise on her face was about as authentic as you can get.

  • @Zva26
    @Zva26 4 роки тому +73

    Hoffman and Streep "cleared the air" over that incident very long ago. In fact, they were seen together not too long ago at a fund raiser at the Metropolitan Opera in New York. They've accomplished SO much in their respective careers (FIVE Oscars between the two of them!). Streep has won more acting awards AND nominations than any actor/actress in the history of film. Both are national treasures and both should be respected. They were young actors at the time, but their talent and genius were already well in evidence.

    • @ChrisWolff2013
      @ChrisWolff2013 3 роки тому +3

      I wouldn't call Dustin young since he was 41 when he made this movie, but yeah Meryl was 29 and as pretty as ever.

    • @andresihotang2314
      @andresihotang2314 3 роки тому +3

      I'm sure Meryl was still a bit pissed of remembering that experience in Kramer vs Kramer, but not like media said that they hate each other. Those media and people made them look like enemies with something for vengeance.

  • @rajeev1023
    @rajeev1023 5 років тому +85

    "What makes you so sure he doesn't want me?" That expression by Meryl. Oscar right there.

  • @FSUgrad
    @FSUgrad 3 роки тому +17

    Sheer genius acting...emoting their palpable feelings.

  • @noorrougelewis6704
    @noorrougelewis6704 4 роки тому +66

    You had to go away for awhile to learn that you love your son and want him? That's low.

    • @Sfdjdhrh
      @Sfdjdhrh 4 роки тому +28

      Not as low as leaving your son with his father. Showing up one day to say. I'm taking him from you.

    • @davy209
      @davy209 Рік тому +3

      I think what this movie does so well is pointing out the fundamental flaws in our society when it gender roles and how that plays a huge role in shaping the legality when it comes to child custody courts. Women should to be able to decide when they want to become mothers rather than being forced into a paternal role that they are not ready to deal with and also a man is more than capable in raising and caring for their child just as much as the mothers but unfortunately don’t get that recognition or even get acknowledged in a legal battle regarding child custody. I think that’s why I think a movie like Kramer vs Kramer is so important, because it makes us reevaluate the flaws of gender norms in society and can be change to where it feels for equal for both the mother and father.

    • @jo-eo9ld
      @jo-eo9ld 2 місяці тому +2

      when you’re so depressed you want to “go out the window” because your husband is so awful I feel it’s probably a bit difficult to focus on your nurturing, mothering instincts. It’s clear in the scene where she leaves that she’s only so upset because she loves her son and feels guilt about leaving him. But she had to leave, she literally said she would kill herself is she wasn’t able to. I don’t think a suicidal person is a great guardian for a child…she left, got herself out of her depression then went back for her son. I don’t think there’s anything bad there. Just sad really.

  • @rosevanguard
    @rosevanguard 3 роки тому +43

    The whole film was amazing. The acting in every scene superb.

  • @briarrose29
    @briarrose29 2 роки тому +10

    This movie gutted me as a little kid because my mom looked just like her. The idea of her leaving us or being out of love with my dad scared me a lot.

  • @MelissaAndersonTheFutureLegend
    @MelissaAndersonTheFutureLegend 4 роки тому +6

    2:02 This is where the glass suppose to be at, but then Dustin wants to add "that" unscripted move, so he put it back and slap it.

  • @DrSeuss-nw3px
    @DrSeuss-nw3px 2 роки тому +5

    Fun fact: this scene wasn’t even in the script. The actors just decided to improv and the director liked it so much they kept it in the movie

  • @linangametua4779
    @linangametua4779 6 років тому +4

    I love her facials at 1:56 is looks like she is going to cry awww love this movie

  • @annstillwell730
    @annstillwell730 5 років тому +19

    If I had a kid there's no way in hell I'd leave him.

    • @itsmeGeorgina
      @itsmeGeorgina 2 роки тому +1

      Some they have to, if the mother think she's mentally ill

    • @lepetitchat123
      @lepetitchat123 2 роки тому

      I want neither. Both horrible and immature people. Shouldn't have been allowed to breed.

    • @jo-eo9ld
      @jo-eo9ld 2 місяці тому

      she was suicidal at the time she left, she literally said so. It was better that she left him, got out of her depression then returned for him. Not “bad” just sad.

  • @OdditiesandRarities
    @OdditiesandRarities 6 років тому +39

    the way he hit that glass at the end was like a horse hoofed it XD

  • @subhaniarif
    @subhaniarif 3 роки тому +6

    Dustin was so hansome back then

  • @DarKKnightt07
    @DarKKnightt07 10 років тому +278

    I love when he throws the wine glass at the end, she abandons him and her son and just shows up one day trying to get him back, I would be pissed too if my girlfriend did that shit to me

    • @TayInTheWay
      @TayInTheWay 9 років тому +38

      Hoffman’s whacking the wine class off the table was unscripted. Streep’s reaction is genuine. I love, too, how Hoffman moves the glass twice before hitting it - you can tell something’s building. Great scene.

    • @BlackAdam10
      @BlackAdam10 7 років тому +18

      the thing that get me nervous, is that she says that she has anticipated all of this. What did she expect after that. She has the perfect husband, she is leaving the house without a second thought. Is her fucking mind problem and stupidity. You can't leave a 7 years old boy like that and if we like or not, she is his mother. Mothers are more sensitive, they are made for this role. I don't say that they are not couples that they are leaving their child, but usually there is some other reason for that for example the husband is alcoholic, unfaithful or the mother either......if you doing this for no reason your stupidity and selfishness has no limits

    • @marce2409
      @marce2409 4 роки тому +13

      Violent male. Primitive.

    • @marce2409
      @marce2409 4 роки тому +28

      @@BlackAdam10 you are so wrong. Motherhood doesn' t rid you from human suffering, from pain, lack of peace of mind, unability to have a structure. Being a mother doesn' t make you a saint, martir or perfect person. And she left the boy in the care of his own father, not in a basquet at an orphan' s insitution door. Poor you, so flawless as a mother, fingerpointing others. Hypocrite.

    • @marce2409
      @marce2409 4 роки тому +3

      @Charles Martel I am a man. Short minded cave man. So typical. If it were for your kind, women wouldn' t be able to land and take off jets, but you know what? They do. They even pilot rockets. Go and have you little tiny balls shaved.

  • @johnfoster4244
    @johnfoster4244 Рік тому +4

    Josh: "I WAN'T MY MOMMY!!!" Ted: "I'm all you've got!"

    • @redips
      @redips 7 місяців тому

      His mommy is back, now he can live with her

    • @sashaking1115
      @sashaking1115 4 місяці тому +1

      He’s called Billy

  • @delrey874
    @delrey874 Рік тому +6

    Two of the best actors of their generation.

  • @daustin8888
    @daustin8888 2 роки тому +2

    This is acting. Not two people saying lines or looking pretty for thw camera. Just raw, genuine emotion.

  • @wrlord
    @wrlord 4 роки тому +69

    0:58 love how her face drops when he calls her on her California bullshit and she has no answer.

  • @mwr8408
    @mwr8408 6 місяців тому +1

    2:06 TBS 5th commercial break starts right now. Your watching Kramer vs. Kramer on TBS. Brought to you by Denny's. Welcome to America's dining.

  • @cmvogt5951
    @cmvogt5951 3 роки тому +2

    1:24 Joanna: I want my Son
    (Classic.)

  • @suddendee
    @suddendee 10 років тому +18

    Absolutely brilliant, from beginning to end!

  • @calebcurtis2005
    @calebcurtis2005 4 роки тому +29

    Everyone talks about what a great acting choice Dustin made by throwing the glass, but I have much more respect Meryl for not knowing that her fellow actor was going to make a dangerous and disgusting move and hurl a glass object close to her head but having enough whereabout to maintain composure and professionalism and stay in the scene. I don't care if you are in the moment oh, you should never compromise the safety of your scene partner especially when it wasn't discussed beforehand.

    • @DanielleVQ
      @DanielleVQ 3 роки тому +1

      Couldn't agree more.

    • @stanleymyrick4068
      @stanleymyrick4068 3 роки тому +12

      If your narrative were true, I'd agree. There was no safety issue though, so your whole narrative is false.

    • @mrbuckets5445
      @mrbuckets5445 2 роки тому +1

      Shut up; there’s nothing “disgusting” about it, quit abusing words

    • @Steelburgh
      @Steelburgh Рік тому

      @@stanleymyrick4068 She ended up with glass slivers in her hair. They could as easily have ended up in her eye.

    • @stanleymyrick4068
      @stanleymyrick4068 Рік тому +5

      @@Steelburgh You're right. Also, I'd recommend everyone stay indoors. And not eat anything because there are always side effects from any food. Also, it might be better not to breath. It's dangerous out there.

  • @Steven4now
    @Steven4now 4 роки тому +43

    The end where he hits the glass and breaks it on the wall would never pass in present day films, but that was such a powerful act, it really shows Ted's anger towards the whole situation and how much he cares for the son.

    • @DanielleVQ
      @DanielleVQ 3 роки тому +11

      Nope. It's because by this time, he's dealing with a real life divorce, and he thinks of Meryl as his real life wife that's why he's very rude to Meryl in this movie, even in off-cam.

    • @calebkulfan2190
      @calebkulfan2190 2 роки тому +4

      So crazy to not allow non-consensual violence in films!

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions Рік тому

      Even though it wasn’t planned and pissed her off.

  • @lousyring
    @lousyring Місяць тому

    Near the end he moves the wine glass away from himself, then he's like oh crap I forgot I'm gonna slam it against the wall, so he moves it back into position right before.

  • @jihangamal5823
    @jihangamal5823 6 місяців тому +2

    Amazing how they stayed together 8 years. They are incapable of communicating. No wonder she left.

  • @omar_syrinx2112
    @omar_syrinx2112 Рік тому

    2:08 she’s trying not to laugh 🤣🤣🤣

  • @JustinTheBoy
    @JustinTheBoy 2 роки тому +1

    2:07 funny 😁 when he smash glass of cup 🥤

  • @penguinman9570
    @penguinman9570 5 років тому +13

    I love it how Dustin Hoffman smashes the glass because he was actually angry in real life.

    • @joellennon6736
      @joellennon6736 3 роки тому +4

      He was to note there was a divorce he was dealing with in real life so he reactions are pretty geninue same with meryls in this scene

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions Рік тому +1

      He was

  • @suryapratap1565
    @suryapratap1565 2 роки тому +2

    I think this is a must watch for every couple who have a kid together, it was really heartbreaking for me seeing both of them so helpless, when all it took was some soul search and a simple act of kindness

  • @departamentobenavides
    @departamentobenavides 2 місяці тому

    Dustin and his improvs. Crazy.

  • @uhfch2358
    @uhfch2358 2 роки тому +1

    Who cleaned up that broken glass?
    Dustbin Hoffman and Meryl Sweep.

  • @4seeableTV
    @4seeableTV 4 роки тому +1

    The focus puller on Hoffman's close-up had to be kicking himself when the movie came out for part the scene being out of focus. I guess they didn't have video assist in '78-'79?

  • @MegaAstroFan18
    @MegaAstroFan18 7 місяців тому +2

    I don't know anything about this movie beyond this scene being parodied in Family Guy ages ago, but the specifics of this scene I agree with Hoffman's character. You don't get to be a walk-out parent and then come back and try to pick up like nothing changed. Nah, if you're serious about righting that momentous wrong, then you gonna work for it.

  • @yuzucha20
    @yuzucha20 4 роки тому +2

    すごい演技力の2人だなぁ

  • @luislizard2626
    @luislizard2626 4 роки тому +1

    There’s a famous Italian song of the 80’s that says ..intanto Dustin Hoffman non sbaglia un film
    Which means ..meanwhile Dustin Hoffman doesn’t Disappoint in any movie....

  • @apparently2
    @apparently2 2 роки тому +1

    Imagine this scene without the smashed wine glass.

  • @tonyHHH
    @tonyHHH 2 роки тому +1

    I flinched too lol

  • @leobewley375
    @leobewley375 2 роки тому +7

    This was INCREDIBLE star quality acting

  • @pedrobakale7180
    @pedrobakale7180 4 роки тому +30

    Perhaps the most hateful of Joanna's attitude is that capricious attitude of "I'm leaving, I'm coming back, I'm going with my son again." While she has found herself, Ted has also discovered what it is to be a good father, close and affectionate. The viewer has witnessed that and does not want that destroyed.

    • @davy209
      @davy209 Рік тому

      I think what this movie does so well is pointing out the fundamental flaws in our society when it gender roles and how that plays a huge role in shaping the legality when it comes to child custody courts. Women should to be able to decide when they want to become mothers rather than being forced into a paternal role that they are not ready to deal with and also a man is more than capable in raising and caring for their child just as much as the mothers but unfortunately don’t get that recognition or even get acknowledged in a legal battle regarding child custody. I think that’s why I think a movie like Kramer vs Kramer is so important, because it makes us reevaluate the flaws of gender norms in society and can be change to where it feels for equal for both the mother and father.

  • @janellekirkland3023
    @janellekirkland3023 4 роки тому +2

    Excellent Acting AWESOME😇

    • @LukeLovesRose
      @LukeLovesRose 4 роки тому

      That's Meryl for you and Dustin does a great job given his limitations

  • @putocelular9375
    @putocelular9375 4 роки тому +3

    I still don't know what that means of finding yourself?

  • @turtletank4784
    @turtletank4784 Рік тому

    I'm not really head over heels about this movie, but the acting is fantastic.

  • @DaveFisher-cq2dr
    @DaveFisher-cq2dr Рік тому +1

    2:07 HE'S GONE F**KING MAD, HOW CAN SHE NOT HIT HIM?

  • @grimm_5042
    @grimm_5042 3 роки тому +4

    Dustin: **puts glass away from him**
    Me thinking: oh he leaving now
    Dustin: **grabs glass towards him**
    Me also thinking: wait what he doing i thought he going ou-
    Dustin: **punches glass straight into the wall in front of Meryl**
    Me: oh dang im outta here man

  • @4sknProductions
    @4sknProductions 4 роки тому +16

    Fun fact: Maryl Streep improvised the line about wanting her son back. In the original script she was going to ask for some of her belonging that she left behind when she left.

  • @chopin65
    @chopin65 4 роки тому +3

    I wonder how that scene would be played today.

  • @MoleyRusselsWart_
    @MoleyRusselsWart_ 4 роки тому +1

    Crazy how much Marriage Story is based on this.

  • @jahangirhussain1
    @jahangirhussain1 4 роки тому +9

    Initially, I used to judge Meryl Streep’s character in Kramer vs Kramer. I used to think how can she be so selfish as to leave her little son behind to find herself. But now I understand her character’s predicament very clearly. Deep inside, she was a troubled young woman who was ambitious but gave up on her dreams to get married and become a mother. When she left her husband and son, she was confused about what she wants from life. She didn’t know where to go or what to do. At that moment, all she wanted is to just go away from the world where she felt like she’s trapped. She just wanted to breathe. But later, her maternal instinct kicked in and she goes back to her husband to ask for the custody of her child. Now I have begun to empathize Meryl’s character in Kramer vs Kramer.

    • @Vydio
      @Vydio 4 роки тому +12

      Empathy for the character is one thing. But actions have consequences. Problem I have with Meryl Streep's character is she truly thinks her leaving her son should not have any consequences.

    • @jahangirhussain1
      @jahangirhussain1 4 роки тому

      @@Vydio Well, she's a human after all. When she left, she was not in the right state of mind. She didn't have the chance to think if leaving her son behind will have consequences or not. As humans, we tend to get selfish sometimes. At that moment, she was only thinking about self-preservation.

    • @Vydio
      @Vydio 4 роки тому +5

      @@jahangirhussain1 OK. But she should not just expect to waltz in and just get her child back. That a court even entertained this was appalling.

  • @Javier636
    @Javier636 3 роки тому +1

    Dustin Hoffman slamming the wine glass out of script surprising Meryl Streep is a technique used by some actors and also some directors, I read an article that mentioned Alfred Hitchcock being the one who started the trend,. William Friedkin, the director of "The Exorcist" told actor Jason Miller that he would receive a blast of green vomit on his chest in that scene where he is interacting with the girl. In reality, Friedkin instructed his team to direct to vomit towards his face, he did so to capture a real surprised moment from Miller to capture it on film, that reaction we see in the movie is that of a real surprised man. Ridley Scott surprised the cast of "Alien' (1979) with blood splatter that was not in the script, the chestburster scene where the creature comes out of Kane's chest, the actors (especially Veronica Cartwright) were not told the would be splattered with blood, her reaction in the movie is a real surprise as she was not expecting it. Directos use this method to add reality to the movie and obviously it works.

  • @clownman9184
    @clownman9184 4 роки тому +2

    Meryl Looked Great In 1979

  • @sasojalovec5958
    @sasojalovec5958 5 років тому +2

    1:42 - Ted - Joanni: "Zakaj pa misliš, da bi si te Billy želel ?" Tu pa si se malo zmotil, Ted. To ti je Billy rekel, ko sta se sprla zaradi sladoleda ! Ko si ga prinesel v njegovo sobo in ga dal ležat na posteljo. Rekel ti je: "Hočem svojo mamo !" In ti njemu: "Samo mene imaš." A vseeno je Billy zajokal v kuhinji, ob vajinem objemu. Ko sta mislila, da se poslavljata.

  • @bernardreyesjr
    @bernardreyesjr 6 місяців тому

    you can feel the tension, that's acting

  • @MrCWells3000
    @MrCWells3000 7 років тому +184

    Meryl's performance in this film is so delicate, so fragile, and so very, very, precise.
    She shows exactly how difficult it is for women to navigate the endless expectations and demands that are projected onto them.
    This character is not "unsympathetic" at all- she is blindly fighting for her own emotional survival.
    And what is more human than that?

    • @babydee1920
      @babydee1920 6 років тому +27

      No it's called running away from responsibilities. Plain and simple.

    • @PalmurcioWorld
      @PalmurcioWorld 6 років тому +4

      Such an amazing comment and a perfect and empathic analyse of how is the character.

    • @Zwei4815
      @Zwei4815 6 років тому +20

      What about the expectations projected onto the father? He's expected to work to support not just himself but his wife and their child, too. Sometimes someone has to go out and get a job and someone has to stay home to raise the kid. She didn't want to do her end of the bargain so she left and forced him to take on her responsibility as well as his own.

    • @scifinerd17
      @scifinerd17 6 років тому +11

      Zwei4815 and luckily he was able to pull both of them off, we saw in the beginning he struggled but later on as time went by he was able to pull it off just fine and then of course she came back. It just showed that Ted was the more fit parent to take care of Billy than Joanna was, since he had the emotional capability.

    • @migleanikanovaite3323
      @migleanikanovaite3323 6 років тому

      MrWells3000 I agree all the way

  • @saldrummond5561
    @saldrummond5561 11 років тому +1

    she already has

  • @AliSakurai
    @AliSakurai Рік тому +1

    I hated the wife when I first saw this. She leaves her child and has the nerve to want him back? Scram lady!

  • @The2010golakers
    @The2010golakers 4 роки тому +5

    Oooof This scene has aged well...🤭🤭

  • @ryanpoe9791
    @ryanpoe9791 5 місяців тому

    The film that normalized the "it's not you, it's me" and the "finding myself" line.

  • @janellekirkland3023
    @janellekirkland3023 4 роки тому +3

    Very hard a Divorce I'm glad I lived through it😇

  • @ramonpurugganan6865
    @ramonpurugganan6865 3 роки тому +2

    Classic! Brilliant.

  • @connormilner450
    @connormilner450 4 роки тому +1

    ted you better give her the kid back or she'll call the police

  • @sasukatisasa
    @sasukatisasa 3 місяці тому

    High quality acting they both. The quality is so realistic i am intrigued

  • @Aqil336
    @Aqil336 9 місяців тому

    I watched this movie about 7 years ago. I thought this glass Wine’s scene is part of script. So, I always repeat that scene to Watching Meryl’s reaction in that way. So naturally. After the movie end.. I searching about this movie’s trivia on IMDb. I wondering.. this scene was Dustin’s improvised.. Great actors.

  • @williamkearn6886
    @williamkearn6886 6 місяців тому +2

    R.I.H Sargent Regalsan Anderstoan/Sargent Regalsan Dangerlen Anderstoan September 17th, 1979 - March 29th, 2023 / 1979 - 2023 / September 17th, - March 29th.

    • @williamkearn6886
      @williamkearn6886 6 місяців тому +2

      R.I.P Rebecca Hauck, November 17th, 1974 - October 14th, 2017.
      R.I.P Shane Murphy, July 4th, 1974 - October 14th, 2017.

    • @williamkearn6886
      @williamkearn6886 6 місяців тому +2

      Rest In Peace William Tahana Raymond Kearns/William Kearns, January 20th, 2005 - October 14th, 2017.

  • @kashtheyoutubeguy9807
    @kashtheyoutubeguy9807 3 роки тому +1

    Well The Man Is Being Mean

  • @sannimcable
    @sannimcable 3 роки тому +1

    this is something a lot of people can relate to

  • @natalieps2387
    @natalieps2387 4 роки тому +2

    I saw this when I was really little what was wrong with Meryl? She had a breakdown? Couldnt they share custody ?

    • @DanielleVQ
      @DanielleVQ 3 роки тому

      I'd like it if you said "what was wrong with Joanna" since this is a movie. ✌🏻

  • @ricarleite
    @ricarleite 7 років тому +431

    And we replaced these kinds of films with superhero, fast and furious and transformers crap.

    • @abhinayamarykoshy1264
      @abhinayamarykoshy1264 5 років тому +41

      Everything has an era. This is the superhero era.

    • @grigorisgegas4723
      @grigorisgegas4723 5 років тому +4

      @Marina Pratt well said

    • @GreatSpaceToaster
      @GreatSpaceToaster 4 роки тому +15

      @Marina Pratt Thank you. It seems that every single scene that belongs to an older movie on UA-cam have the same "Back in the old days we only had good movies" thing in the comments.

    • @Abr022575
      @Abr022575 4 роки тому +2

      They'll come back.

    • @ThePa1riot
      @ThePa1riot 4 роки тому +21

      We “replaced” nothing. There’s nothing inherently superior about In the Bedroom compared to Captain America: the Winter Soldier. Moonlight, Whiplash, and Lady Bird were also made so if it’s just the aesthetic of people sitting down and talking dramatically, it hasn’t gone anywhere.

  • @bendawson3615
    @bendawson3615 2 роки тому +1

    shes a method actor…i think she was the first woman in hollywood to act naturally, like the normal way humans act without movie cameras.

  • @shawndenis2840
    @shawndenis2840 4 роки тому +11

    Joanna Does Not Deserve Billy,What Kind Of Mother Walks Out On Her Child For No Reason.

  • @m.e.d.7997
    @m.e.d.7997 5 років тому +2

    Awesome scene in an awesome movie.

  • @bradleybindle6428
    @bradleybindle6428 3 роки тому +2

    Kramer vs Predator

  • @Alex-md7ot
    @Alex-md7ot Рік тому

    the broken glass deserves an oscar

  • @noonea3838
    @noonea3838 3 роки тому +3

    that time, dustin was going through a divorce and meryl’s partner oassed away. dustin made fun of meryl’s partner ...

  • @SS-dr1hx
    @SS-dr1hx 4 роки тому +1

    K mart , boxer shorts. 97 x , the future of rock n roll.

  • @kgunitkeese17
    @kgunitkeese17 5 років тому +115

    1:27 "Don't get defensive. Don't try to bully me". Umm he's neither bullying you or getting defensive. He refused your request/demand for full custody of Billy. He has every right considering you abandoned him and come back 1 year and a quarter. If anything he's protecting Billy from you. I hate it when people try to act the victim that they've started.

    • @MIS315
      @MIS315 5 років тому +6

      Typical woman. Even when shes the perpetrator its victimhood all the way

    • @4seeableTV
      @4seeableTV 4 роки тому +34

      Idiot. These are CHARACTERS in a MOVIE.
      Dumbass misogynist.

    • @4seeableTV
      @4seeableTV 4 роки тому +12

      ​@@MIS315 Typical misogynist comment. I'll bet you're a real hit with the ladies.

    • @4812megan
      @4812megan 4 роки тому +4

      It's a defense tactic many people use (especially women because it works) playing the victim card. She is in a fragile mental state.

    • @pam0626
      @pam0626 4 роки тому +15

      kgunitkeese17 I disagree. Ted was a bully. He smashed a glass inches away from her face-how can you say she’s playing the victim? When he says to her, “Tell me what you’ve learned about yourself, I really want to know.” in that condescending voice, you can see her recoil and start to shrink into herself. He went from being friendly to cold in the blink of an eye, it is scary to watch as a viewer, because you know what’s coming next. She was intimidated by him. He never in a million years would have given her an amicable divorce, he was a bully. He would have worn her down until she was too tired to fight anymore. No, she shouldn’t have left Billy behind, but she was playing the long game: like anyone in an abusive relationship, Joanna needed to disappear out of Ted’s life and get mentally strong through therapy to come back and do battle with him.

  • @laminage
    @laminage 5 років тому +1

    A similar thing happened on the UK Soap Opera Coronation Street in 1983 when Ken Barlow finds out that his Wife Diedre was having an affair with his Archenemy Mike Baldwin. He threw her up against the wall and almost hit her. Anne Kirkbride (RIP) said she wasn't told but she felt it was more convincing. In her own way Joanna reminds me of Paula (Olivia's Mother) on The Cosby Show. She felt so stultified at being a Wife and a Mother. Also remember Women of Joanna's Generation were The Poster Girls for The Disease To Please. They go from being in their Parents House, The Dormitory or Sorority House then living with Hubby. Joanna was so desperate to please everyone else she didn't know how to be happy. When she was on her own, it was the first time she was alone without any responsibilities.

    • @GGiblet
      @GGiblet 4 роки тому +1

      Oh I so well remember Corrie then! I felt for Deirdre (her attraction to Baldwin) but it was so heartbreaking for Ken...

    • @laminage
      @laminage 2 роки тому +1

      @@GGiblet Yes, but Mike had this "Work Ethic" and was a "Go Getter" unlike Ken. He had so many resources but he squandered them. Remember how embarassed he felt when he went to his College Reunion and while others were Deans, Presidents or Chancellors he was an Agony Uncle for a Paper and while there's nothing wrong with that, his Family are far from perfect.

    • @GGiblet
      @GGiblet 2 роки тому

      @@laminage yes, yes! It was so realistic

  • @TheLookyus
    @TheLookyus 11 місяців тому

    2:06 What crashes?

  • @laminage
    @laminage 4 роки тому +2

    Bill Roache did a similar scene on Britian's longest running Soap Opera Coronation Street when he threw his Late Co Star Anne Kirkbride up against the wall. She confessed that she was having an extramarital affair with his archenemy Mike Baldwin who also was married to his daughter Susan. She wasn't expecting it but it was considered to be one of the best scenes in Coronation Street History but in UK Soap History as well.

    • @tami8458
      @tami8458 4 роки тому

      Was Bill inspired by this scene?

    • @laminage
      @laminage 2 роки тому

      @@tami8458 It's possible but so many amazing moments. To this day Ken Barlow never had a woman whom he loved as much as Diedre only was Valerie his First Wife

  • @m.e.d.7997
    @m.e.d.7997 5 років тому +2

    Didn't Meryl say Dustin did something to her in this movie? Yeah but it went away.

    • @harinijayasankar8884
      @harinijayasankar8884 4 роки тому

      What did he do

    • @kgunitkeese17
      @kgunitkeese17 4 роки тому

      Harini Jayasankar I think he said specific things towards Meryl to get a rise out of her to make her reactions more genuine and believable. Bringing up the fact that her boyfriend had died shortly before shooting began. Dustin was also going through some tough times because he was going through a divorce as well so a lot of his built up bitterness and anger helped sell his performance.

    • @itsmeGeorgina
      @itsmeGeorgina 2 роки тому

      He slapped her!! For real, and very hard too

  • @mariacristinaparedesojeda1809
    @mariacristinaparedesojeda1809 5 років тому

    Dios mio q actooor!!

  • @spikespiegel6033
    @spikespiegel6033 3 роки тому +4

    I'm surprised her lawyer didn't bring up him smashing a wine glass.

    • @kgunitkeese17
      @kgunitkeese17 2 роки тому

      Other way could be retaliated with her walking out for 15 months and not bothering to send any financial assistance. 🤷🏾

  • @joeybee1914
    @joeybee1914 2 роки тому

    Streep looks great.

  • @AgentAO7
    @AgentAO7 8 місяців тому

    Meryl is such a good actress.. I love how she portrayed the most unlikable wife/mother ever! 😅
    Dustin was phenomenal as well..

  • @GurpreetSingh-by5ih
    @GurpreetSingh-by5ih 5 років тому

    2019 remake will come steep will play Dustin's role.

  • @marce2409
    @marce2409 4 роки тому +2

    Goddamn acting. Superb both

  • @jdawgxpxduh8763
    @jdawgxpxduh8763 Рік тому

    Great scene. Great movie

  • @johnson_
    @johnson_ Рік тому +27

    Meryl Streep's acting is very good here. She left her son in a hurry, but you feel sympathy for her because she's a human being and her position is reasonable.

    • @EphemeralProductions
      @EphemeralProductions Рік тому +11

      Kind of. She just walked out and then out of nowhere suddenly appears saying she wants to be his mom again. In most circles i know of, that would be only partly reasonable at best.

    • @johnson_
      @johnson_ Рік тому +5

      ​@@EphemeralProductions The way I understand it, is that she's so depressed at the beginning that she's about to jump off a bridge and her husband pays no attention to her - you kind of see why she walks out after Hoffman is alone in the early scenes? And her speech (which she wrote) in the court is sympathetic. Of course, it's the worst thing to abandon your child, but Streep's acting is so good that you think - oh, I see why she did that and she's not a monster.

    • @SRBOMBONICA86
      @SRBOMBONICA86 Рік тому +3

      @@johnson_ nah ,as a woman I disagree ,she strikes me as capricious

    • @sweettea6706
      @sweettea6706 10 місяців тому +5

      As a woman and mother, her actions were selfish and inconceivable. I remember going to see this movie in college and having zero sympathy for her character when I was single. I had even less, once I married & became a mother. You don't come & go out of a child's life. When men do it, they are called "deadbeats". Well, the shoe fits for women too.

    • @amppma7302
      @amppma7302 10 місяців тому +5

      reasonable? disappearing from a 6 year old child's life for 15 months is not reasonable. she is selfish and cannot see how her actions affect others. it was almost impossible to feel sympathy for streep's character. her only redeeming action was deciding to leave billy in his home instead of ripping his life apart yet again.

  • @UlyssesM
    @UlyssesM Рік тому

    She is so beautiful. Her face is mesmerizing

  • @fernandovargasmejia740
    @fernandovargasmejia740 6 років тому +3

    Where's Kramer?