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So they’re paying rent to live in a house they are on the mortgage for, but don’t own, to a landlord that is not paying them child support.
yeee haw
I think you got it.
Yeah dude is a SIMP and she's lying about something.
Well... he's a "landlord", but he doesn't get their "rent" until he sells the house. He has to get it in the form of equity
Dang
If I sat in a room for a reality TV show and tried to come up ideas for a show, I couldn't come up the messes that call into this and other shows. Just epic levels of ignorance.
Verbal agreements, especially with ex-husbands, are not worth the paper they are printed on.
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Homie thought he was gonna get a free house😂 simpin’ ain’t easy
He did get a mortgage through
Ex husband gets to sit there and enjoy all of that equity he's gained in those 5 years. Well done sir!
The fact that she hid this debt from him or lied by omission is a HUGE red flag and needs to be addressed as well.
A lot more to this situation,,,,then he knows,,,,
A woman's default is lying through omission.
According to the news women are doing so well financially.
She saw this Simp a mile away. She knew he was a sucker white knight.
What, you mean women lie? 🤯
She divorced the father of her child, this is nothing.
She is not a winner. Life gets tough you are on your own.
As a man why would you live in another man's house. That's crazy
They from the South.
@front331 This crap happens up here in the North, it's called the Pookie syndrome 🙄 😒 😑 😐 😕 😳 🙄
@@front331ah, that is not a common southern thing. If you are from New York you are from a state that promotes hormones to little boys and girls. So I be careful on that Southern bigot comment you made.
@@kathurtado13 You forgot Ray Ray
@@alinatamashevich3354 Yes!! Lolololol
He doesn’t know the cost of the bills. He pays nothing.
GET IT IN WRITING. In every state in the union, real estate transactions are not legal unless they are in writing. Verbal agreements don't count.
6:18
Moron? The other guy got everything. The caller is the moron.
Dude probably thought he was gonna live in a rent-free house and didn't bother to ask all the questions.. this really came back and bit him in his ass.. lesson learned
Typical Austin
@@aberration1 Keep it weird
@@alinatamashevich3354 - 😂😂😂
SIMPIN' aint easy. 😂
I hate when people do really naïve things and are shocked when the consequences are ugly.
You should be able to do naive things and not have them become ugly.
I remind people: "They all cry, when they get dirt shoveled on them.
A verbal agreement with an ex spouse 😂😂😂😂😂😂 your wife played herself
And played him 😂😂
Dude took a massive L marrying her. She has almost all the debt, has a kid already. He isn't a real man. Living in the past guys house also lol
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For all we know her ex could be a great guy and does pay his bills. Only hearing one side. I think its disgusting how people just automatically side with the women.
I just don’t understand how so many men are willing to take on other men’s problems! Then become accountable for paying for the problem if she decides to leave them as well.
Sorry, my dude; you deserve exactly what you're getting!
Shotgun wedding or they never talked about anything important.
Later: The more I listen to the call the more I wonder what they discussed before he married to a divorced woman. 🤦
Exactly how are you going to love in another man's house?
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I don’t have any respect for this caller. I bet he wouldn’t even mind if the ex husband lived in the house with them, lol
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I am sure he has the keys and walks in and out as he pleases 😂😂 I know I would
I’ve never heard of a situation like this - divorcing then her not getting anything from the house and staying as renters?!
It's simply bizarre, beyond bizarre really.
I know a guy who told me he let his ex-wife stay in their house and he’d pay the mortgage instead of paying child support. He now lives with and takes care of his mom.
I remember I told my ex wife I was taking her to court for back child support then found out she left the country and it’s nothing the courts can do.. boy did she get off Scott free.. hopefully this won’t be the case with this guy
You can still file something with the court for the possibility of arresting her at the airport or border if she ever returns. They do that to men who don't pay child support and leave the country, so they should be able to arrest women too.
@@megalodon1726 yes I already did that but honestly it’s pointless because If she comes back and get sent to jail I still won’t receive support exspecially while she’s doing time so I’m just focused on doing it all my self like I have for 4 years now
Simps gonna simp 🤷♂
Where does this couple plus teen think they could go in *Austin* for $1,300/mo. rent???
That's a steal. And teen didn't have to move schools/friends/neighborhood.
He got plenty from this "mess." Plenty -
His wife and her ex have worked out something that he doesn’t know about. She isn’t being fully truthful with him. She might still be sleeping with him
Playing another mans saved game.
It's not the husband's deal to make and I think the wife wants to keep the status quo to stay friends with the ex. I don't think they will do what Dave is saying.
0:53
Turns out?! How could the caller not know about her debt before getting married? Did they meet before the wedding day? What did they talk about besides superficial topics?
So you were happy to move in and pay cheap rent but didn't do any background research. If the payment is only $1300, it's probably a great rate. Which means he's in no rush to refi.
The not paying child support is light years more serious than if she stopped paying the mortgage. I agree with Dave. Force his hand. She’s shady though
I'm not sure how one takes out a mortgage and lives in a house you don't own.
I wouldn't pay "rent". I would hoard money, until we get legally evicted.
And then they go to court for unpaid rent.
@@jimmymcgill6778 He would have to spend money on lawyers and other legal expenses and they could always say "he wasn't paying his dues so why should we?"
@@georgemendez6760 That is not how it works. You can just fill out some forms to have someone evicted.
You don't need a lawyer.
Child support have nothing to do with not paying rent.
@@jimmymcgill6778 the eviction process can still take a long time... either way they need to scrap him for everything he's got
Which would ruin her credit and bring on headaches
Dang. What a bull shiiiitt mess to be in! Makes me want to rent forever till I'm actually ready to buy a home.
Wouldn’t be shocked if the wife has two husbands 😅
How emasculating it must be to be you, Thomas.
Child support is probably not written either smh
Not trying to sound like a dick, but dude asked for this when he A... married a single mother and B... Didn't ask all the financial questions before popping the question. Statistically speaking second marriage is more likely to fail then even a first marriage.
You can ask. Getting the truth is another story. Women are great at hiding there skeletons in the closet.
I am so thankful I am single no kids and never married. Btw I have a dog.
She should have been honest. The way they are starting out is not good.
Clean Up Financial Loose Ends After Divorce, Use Leverage and Negotiation, and Seek Legal Guidance When Necessary
Your show is really useful always👍
Real messy
A broke woman is unique? Do tell. Also this dude got taken to the cleaners and alpha pops is laughing his tail off.
Assuming the wife did not consult her divorce attorney on this agreement. 🤦♀
Women, because most divorces are the women initiating why do you do this to your families.
Men, why do you keep dating and marring women who are divorced and have children with another man.
Too sad, too much risk for the men.
Exactly. 😢 you're setting yourself up for bigger problems..
Dave - this is not a horrible transaction - it’s great for the ex.
6:29
Exactly! The ex husband gets off with everything and the caller is getting all the crap!
This is what happens second time round more problems than you can handle
Caller get to the damn point jeezus man
Ex husband is winning on this one😢
This male caller is delusional 🤦🏻♀️
😂😂😂😂 Omg!! A woman calling a man delusional😂😂😂😂😂
Wow, she's dumb... left herself on the hook for mortgage payments, but no legal claim to the equity??? She basically turned her mortgage payments into rental payments and gave away tens of thousands of dollars
Dude get to the point.
Verbal diarrhea
Everything about this is weird. I have questions about everything from their relationship, the relationship with the ex husband, their finances, ... Wow
Good luck brother. My goodness.
7:05 Sandra Bullock wasn’t driving this bus.
Yeah... this guy is just collecting rent from these knuckleheads for as long as he can. If they twist his arm to sell the house, she sure as heck won't be getting any of it. He'll just disappear, and he probably won't even give her hush money for the child support.
She knows he’s a simp and she know he will pay off her debt. As soon as the debt is paid off or low enough she will leave him.
That’s just what will happen
This beta male stepped in the pile meeting this girl.
Get it in writing.
Wake up and realize your relationship with the ex spouse is not in fact good considering he didn’t follow through with the home equity agreement NOR does he regularly pay child support! Get a backbone.
This is going to end in Divorce because she hid the debt
This guy is paying the mortgage on his wife's ex-husband's house - that he's living in! - and he's supporting his wife's ex's child without support from the ex. This guy is the king of all simps.
Omg good luck to them. What a mess😮
Why any dude would deal with a single mom, I’ll never know
and.....get it in writing
Get a lawyer in a divorce every divorce. Or just call yourself an idiot and if you marry someone that did that note she or he still wants a connection with that ex then consider running
Dave sipping water in the beginning 🐸
Typical Austin resident 😅
I'm in Austin now. I agree. All the California crazies are here now.
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thats about all I have to say.
Being stuck with the wife and the husband, is as bad as Kevin Samuels would think going to hell would to be.
This is crazy
Verbal agreements
Childsupport is for the kid
On the Ramsey radio show, who knows what time and channel it is!! Please! !Thanks!!❤
I mean the radio of the car. I would like to listen when driving
Another single mom using a man as an ATM. In these poor economic times, you will find more and more women going for men they would never even look at in better times just for the sake of maintaining their bad habits. Be wary men
This man planned on living in a house for free….
What if you buy the house from him? Subtracting your half of the equity and back child support? Why move and uproot the 17yo daughter as she’s trying to finish high school and start her adult life?
George is lookin' fine!
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The daughter should still get the child support money
His wife makes horrible decisions and set him up.
Ex-husband is not gonna take sole liability of a home his ex-wife and new husband live in.
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This guy is such a beta Lmao
Of course he is, he is American.
Dave loves to interrupt. I hate it.
Crazy story, the Germans say: Stories that only life can write!
The US equivalent is "you can't make this sh@t up."
Move.
I be afraid the ex is coming over and still tapping that.
Should've sold it a long time ago yikes
What if they made the ex-husband an offer on the house, to buy him out?
SMH! That’s another man’s house! What is wrong with these men that be with these women that don’t have a hold on their baby daddy’s! This would never happen to me😂 smh! And we all know he will not sit down with the guy listen to how he talks! 🤦🏿🤦🏿 pick wisely my friend
This call is just so .. Austin. Probably an open marriage too. No grip on anything this guy.
So the mortgage is in the wife’s and her exes name and she lives their. Sounds like the caller and his wife needs to buy the ex husband out. If the situation is what I think it is.
If the judge ordered her to pay the mortgage. Then the ex does not have to sell the house, or give her half of the profit from selling the house.
The judge signed off on it. You just cannot ignore the judge.
Honestly, it sounds like the wife is hiding something. I think this was the terms of the divorce settlement, and him promising half the equity was just to blow smoke up her butt because she was in denial about "losing" the battle. She probably got caught cheating or something and the judge offered her a convenient option to stay in the house and just pay "rent"
You could leave the State and force the issue into Federal court.
Yes, you can ignore the judge.
Wasted first minute with vague chatter. 😮
This is very Lionel MESSI
Women pull the ol' bait and switch on men ALL THE DAMN TIME so I'm not gonna cry when a guy does it to a woman.
I'm pretty sure he support LGBTQI, and everything about HollyWoke politics - spineless.
Man
Think about it from the Ex side.
One day shows up and wife and child are gone to see her parents.
She asks and gets divorce.
Now he sees his girl every other week. Part of him is dead, it hurts that bad.
Now daughter almost 18 years old.
He is now over her and has the upper hand.
I would sell the house and not give her and her new husband a dime.
Make them get an attorney and pay the back child support if he can get it reduced for a lump sum or not at all.
Women, you have no idea how society has made you so destructive.
A boomer giving advise is terrible
Finally, one where a man got a good deal 😂
Not smart. Learn how to cut ties when it's appropriate. The gentleman/caller, please listen to the conversation you had with Dave and the lady. In my opinion you talk about things that don't matter, I am guessing that's why you're in the predicament you're in.
Dave is mad because the ex wife got nothing?
Sounds like she's the one that cheated on him, and so the ex husband got everything.
And she hid it from her husband? What else is she hiding? Is she also hiding her side piece?
He’s a SIMP. Remember, according to Dave Ramsey, women are never in the wrong.
Dave White Knights allot!
Love everything else about him, but since he got a wife that stuck and daughters he does not get it.
Dave pray your blessing, but most women after a certain age it is about surviving.