If you can have sexual interaction with a man, and you're also a man. That means that you can do ANYTHING with other men, sexually or not. So those people who said those shit, just are in self-denial, internalized homophobia, they need to work on themselves (Otherwise they're just in the closet until the rest of their life, which is VERY SAD/SARROW)
It could be that he's struggling against religious or family teachings. This is his way of creating a line he feels he's NOT crossing. This way he doesn't feel like he's breaking the rules. Having bought into religion in the past myself, I say let's not judge anyone.
Honestly, I actually had a couple experiences like that happen. I just told them hey don’t worry about it if you like what you like who cares people shouldn’t be so insecure about what they love to do. Sexually.
I think he is trying to say that he does not identify as gay. Is that really any different than not identifying as a specific gender even though the physical “equipment” suggests specific gender conformity?
But by your logic, only Gold Star gays are really gay. You do him just a much of a disservice as someone who tells you that you CHOOSE to be attracted to men. I've met countless straight men who have stated, and I quote "if it wasn't for what's between their legs I wouldn't have anything to do with women." We can't say that sexuality is fluid and a complicated spectrum when it comes to being "gay" but ignore that sentiment when it's a "straight" male.
But by your logic, only Gold Star gays are really gay. You do him just a much of a disservice as someone who tells you that you CHOOSE to be attracted to men. I've met countless straight men who have stated, and I quote "if it wasn't for what's between their legs I wouldn't have anything to do with women." We can't say that sexuality is fluid and a complicated spectrum when it comes to being "gay" but ignore that sentiment when it's a "straight" male.
Hahaha. I hate when guys hit me up on grindr and say crap like that. I'm like ya you're gay or bisexual. I think maybe some guys have a straight guy fantasy so they think it turns guys on if they say the are straight. I don't know 🤷♂️
I would be flattered too...just like someone else was in another comment. I think that would actually be enticing! I could never have said that in high school but that was one fantasy of mine.
if you add a touch of white color to the black color it wouldn't be black color anymore. straight dudes have zero interest in gay sex, that's why they called straight.
He could be bisexual but I think it’s just maybe internalised homophobia or he’s figuring out.
oh, I'm so tired of persons like this. especially when it comes to 'I don't wanna be labeled'. facepalm. internalised homophobia, case closed!
But it was just yours,thats kool,
Well
Honestly, I would be flattered.
Well he's At LEAST not straight, be patient with the poor baby XD
Hay Davey I'm GAY can I do it 😯😋🏳️🌈!!!
What of the bi-curious?
Maybe he understands “gay” as romantically attracted to men and that’s not his case.
Mm, good point. He may have a very narrow definition / idea in his mind of what gay is.
If you can have sexual interaction with a man, and you're also a man. That means that you can do ANYTHING with other men, sexually or not. So those people who said those shit, just are in self-denial, internalized homophobia, they need to work on themselves (Otherwise they're just in the closet until the rest of their life, which is VERY SAD/SARROW)
exactly
It could be that he's struggling against religious or family teachings. This is his way of creating a line he feels he's NOT crossing. This way he doesn't feel like he's breaking the rules.
Having bought into religion in the past myself, I say let's not judge anyone.
its amazing how some lie to themselves lol. its a survival technique interesting ig
If he says he's not gay, I totally believe him!
He's bi!
Probably like a Kinsey scale 1 or 2 or something. ^^
Just sounds bi to me. He is exploring. Instead of being understanding, you want to mock and degrade. He is on the spectrum. Shame on you.
It might be a fetish that has nothing to do with sexual orientation.
Usually when they say that they mean that they're sexually gay, but romantically straight.
Honestly, I actually had a couple experiences like that happen. I just told them hey don’t worry about it if you like what you like who cares people shouldn’t be so insecure about what they love to do. Sexually.
Soooo, was it as bad as I'm expecting??
I've talked to several guys who began fantasizing about it. I just think they're bi-curious.
So let him. Skip the analysis.
You are so gorgeous Davey
I think he is trying to say that he does not identify as gay. Is that really any different than not identifying as a specific gender even though the physical “equipment” suggests specific gender conformity?
Just put on socks, then it's not gay.
My dude ur hilarious 😂
But by your logic, only Gold Star gays are really gay. You do him just a much of a disservice as someone who tells you that you CHOOSE to be attracted to men. I've met countless straight men who have stated, and I quote "if it wasn't for what's between their legs I wouldn't have anything to do with women." We can't say that sexuality is fluid and a complicated spectrum when it comes to being "gay" but ignore that sentiment when it's a "straight" male.
I feel everyone has the right to a bisexual experience yall just take this gay shit too serious
But by your logic, only Gold Star gays are really gay. You do him just a much of a disservice as someone who tells you that you CHOOSE to be attracted to men. I've met countless straight men who have stated, and I quote "if it wasn't for what's between their legs I wouldn't have anything to do with women." We can't say that sexuality is fluid and a complicated spectrum when it comes to being "gay" but ignore that sentiment when it's a "straight" male.
Hahaha. I hate when guys hit me up on grindr and say crap like that. I'm like ya you're gay or bisexual. I think maybe some guys have a straight guy fantasy so they think it turns guys on if they say the are straight. I don't know 🤷♂️
I would be happy 😂
I would be flattered too...just like someone else was in another comment. I think that would actually be enticing! I could never have said that in high school but that was one fantasy of mine.
Sexuality is a spectrum. Don't flatter yourself too much.
In 2024 your stance is pretty old fashioned
Why do you care how he identifies?
So... you let him do it, right?
I bet you do 😮
He’s curious.
Do it!
i'm bisexual, and i want to join you
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This video is extremely offensive take it down immediately
So... how was it?! 😂 But I understand that there are many a straight dudes who don't mind gay sex but are not culturally gay. Makes sense.
if you add a touch of white color to the black color it wouldn't be black color anymore. straight dudes have zero interest in gay sex, that's why they called straight.
Because he doesn’t want to date you, dude