This is one of the most challenging conversations in Nigerian culture. Thank you, Flo and Amaechi, for your insights. I love you guys, and thanks for sharing. Well, after having twins, I wanted just two children. It took us five years later to agree to have our last child, especially for the fact that we had no help and lived in the diaspora. Child care is not a cakewalk abroad. You should only have children you can support, and don't wait for God or family to help you raise your children.
I'm from the West Indies I have two children and my daughter is well educated my son is educated through trade my daughter spoils me because I sacrificed so much for her education she went to University she had three brand new cars and she remembers that she said mommy you will always be one of my top priority in the Bahamas we do not believe in putting our parents in nursing homes. ❤❤❤
I started following you because of learning to cook, the way you cook, I didn't know you think like this. So open minded and enlightened. I hope more people think like this.
The issue is that in the olden days our fore fathers were farmers hence they need more hands to farm as all were farmers then. It is now with the reality of the economic situation that we are now realizing that we have to reduce the no of children.
We watched this video more than twice❤. OMG the organic gisting is soo pure & we enjoyed it sooo much 😂😂😂 we didn’t want the video to end 😂😂😂 Our opinion is, for those that want to bear child(ren) better be financially, physically, emotionally, psychologically & mentally ready for the long haul…… regardless of where you live (be it in Africa or Asia/Europe/America(s)). It is a life time commitment of love, dedication and sacrifice. Secondly, having children is neither an investment nor retirement plan… having this type of mentality as an adult is very selfish. So try gather common sense before making life-time commitment decisions (such as having child(ren)) We are looking forward to the next episode on “weddings” byeee 😊
Never an investment nor retirement plan. Having children is not a walk in the park and people should ensure they have all the qualities you mentioned before enbarking on having even one child let alone a battalion!
This is a nice topic. Truth be told everyone want both sex as in children, but whatever is given should be appreciated. The supreme being give children.
Very important conversation. There is a lot in raising up children and fending for them. Parents are small gods to their children, and that's why He gave them to us "parents." There are a lot when it comes to parenting seriously.
This is the best video i have watched on UA-cam since this year. Forwarding it to some people i know their mentality. Make umuada no summon me this Christmasooo
We also agreed on 3 irrespective of the gender. I raised it and my husband agreed with me, pointing that less is better for quality upbringing. Time has changed, things are super expensive and we need time away from raising kids. Too many kids age parents quickly plus other wahala.
Quality upbringing is the ko-ko. Some people don't realise the stress they are giving themselves raising so many kids all their lives. What time do they have to live this life? Mba ooo.
Children must not come from ones loins . There are Children who need care everywhere. 😂When I want to rile up my Children , I usually tell them that I will have another kid, my son will say in Spanish ,Mum ,really ? ¿Mum Enserio? My daughter will laugh. Back in the days,the number of kids is usually two boys two girls. In our house we have a picture of Children like that in a beautiful garden . I thought I would have three Children, but my Children ' s Dad doesn't want lots of Children.So we decided on two. The funny thing is that the cost of living is expensive everywhere. God Bless and help every home. It is well.
Am enjoying this series of very important topics I believe in small family were the children will have equal and higher opportunities in life. Parents have time to relax after the day hustles You think and worry less In most Developed countries They don’t really have many children that’s why they go far in life in terms of life spam and actualisation .❤❤❤❤❤
The equal and higher opportunities cannot be over emphasized. Even in upbringing. You will notice that most parents are really focused on their first few kids but by the time they get to the 4th or 5th ones, they are already tired and those ones are not as sharpened as the first few.
Nawa oh. This is scary to think about for those of us still intending to get married and have children by God's grace. Fending for yourself alone already takes a toll everyday..hmm Chukwunna nyere anyi aka o.
Now i understand totally why my yoghurt is constantly hammering it in my ear that we are not having more kids because just the standard of living to take care of them per annum is so damn expensive that one wont even have savings again. To feed a family of 3 is expensive imagine when you have family members staying with you and still take care of our parents too. One square meal a day is luxury aswear now. May we train the kids we have now the right way with the right morals too.
Aunty thank you so much for this series, it’s much needed. Please any advise on how to protect ourselves from Men / Women in Naija that only see us abroad as tickets to japa. I know some women who marry and bring their spouse abroad only to be jilted as soon as they land. Any suggestions ma? God bless you
Exactly ohhh This is terrible now, teenagers that have nothing to show as handwork or business even in school, but their parents for one day do not ask them how they pay their fees, they are even the ones feeding their parents and other siblings. And parents keep shut because they have failed
Me and my wife starting talking about having kids. I love the facts she wanted 3 kids, I said I would love to have 4 kids. We decided to have 3 kids, just as long she has her daughter first. I said, okay because I couldn't wait to spend more of my life together as parents.
I totally agree with you. Times have changed, but some African men are still living in the ancient times. They want have more children even when they can't cater for them.
I wanted two children initially and my husband was ok with it. We had no issues with it until about six years later, i succumbed to family pressure and had my last child. I'm happy now that l had my last baby but left to me l would have stopped at two.
I desired to have 2boys and 2girls while my husband wants a boy and a girl, I agreed with him over a deliberate decision. We have one child now and planning to have the next baby next year. These topics are really important. I am happy we got it right from the beginning.
I liked and wished to have many children as a teacher but nna ehhh.i changed my mind to 2...mine is not even about the sex but a companion for my daughter.God please🙏
Yes, it is better to if possible, give them a sibling so they can keep each other company else the parents will need to find a way to play a good enough role of siblings to that child. 😊
So what if you have tried but no jobs? I see some people working hard, even toiling but not much money comes from their efforts. So why does God not come down from heaven and help them? At the end of the day, people should have the number of kids they can take care of and if they are struggling to take care of themselves, they should not have kids.
@FloChinyere My sister, If you don't pray God may not help you, Because the Word of God says ask and it shall be given. If you pray God will answer and make a way and prosper the works of your hands, I am a living witness and testimony. Please go close to God, You sound like you don't know or trust God. God wants a relationship with you, Jesus loves you. My sister I really enjoy your content, But I don't like the unbeliever aspect of you. Give your life to Christ now, Tomorrow might be too late. Shalom 🙏💕
@@AngelEze so the millions of people all over the world who live in countries where things work that have never prayed to God yet have their lives going well for them, who solves their problems?
I have always noticed that it is mostly those who cannot takae care of their children than have many children. Yes, you want a baby boy but if it's not coming why have 9 children only to unalive and leave the responsibility for the wife? Flo like you said, women should learn to say no to that many children.
I tell you! That time adverts were flying all over the place that people should have 4 children, it was mostly the affluent that heeded that advice. The low income earners were still having 5, 6 and above.
After our second child, we decided to have one more baby and boom we had twins, and i know how our finances have been stretched. A lot of people in this side of Nigeria where i stay don't think about all these, they just have children to count the numbers.
You got jara. That's the one no one can ever plan for. 🙌 Taking care of two babies at the same time in addition to 2 no be moi moi at all. Make una dohhh. May what will be used to raise them contnue to come.
Ogbonnaya Onu’s burial, I heard that all the children in America requested for them to watch the burial of their father. The only one that was able to come left before the burial giving excuse that the wife was sick.
The earlier people realize that children will one day live their own lives the way they want, they won't invest so much time and energy raising many kids. It's good to have kids to keep the house buzzing with people but once they are adults, we can't hold them to ransome if they don't want to be close to us. If this is true, it's really a pity. Someone's wife being sick is good excuse. But the rest of the children (don't know how many they are) all having good excuses to not be at their Dad's funeral that all family members chose the date of is something I cannot understand.
Sis, you are right. Marriage should primarily be for companionship and having kids is not a need. If we trust God and he hasn't given us a male child, how is it then a need, biko? Even God himself didn't see the need for it..."He will provide all our needs according to his riches in glory" Our culture makes us think we need certain things that if you look at it, the are not needs... May not even be a want for some but we allow "tradition" dictate what our needs should be🤦 ... Keep enlightening us jooo❤
I will never understand that "need" for a male child. In most families it's even the female children that remember those parents more. The day we realize that these children will grow into adults with their own thinking faculties, we will stop having too many children just for the sake of it.
You are both very open minded. I'm enjoying this series cos I had the exact same question with my now husband when I met him 6 years ago. I was 27 and already knew I was on the fence bout having kids so I absolutely didn't want a man who wanted kids.
Oh and my aunt is one of those people your husband described. She kept trying to have a boy and finally had him after 6 tries. Eldest is 24 or so and the boy is 5. Now she's bothering me to send her money to feed her kids 😅
@@godsfavour1491 she is an educated adult with a degree and there is birth control in Nigeria. I don't actually care whose fault it is but why is an almost 50yo woman asking her 32yo niece for money to raise her kids when she has multiple siblings and nieces/nephews older than me.
Anybody that is following African beliefs should have money ooo. Not after having African belief you will be looking for someone that does not have African belief to train your battalion for you. 😂 The men who had many children back in the day were big time farmers. They had enough food for their children.
No. There are reasons for having at least 6 Children or even 10 UNLESS the Mother's Life in the birth process is endangered. Thankfully SURGICAL delivery through C- Section is readily done even in remote Villages. Well in the 1960s and 1970s, Men had 7 to 9 Children JUST to make sure Death did NOT leave them Childless at old age........ Just think of Families that LOST Children in accidental Death, or even sickness.
@@sylviakelechi7698 There are MDs that will give Analgesics to put off the PAIN in the first place. Here in USA there are Teenagers that WITHOUT PAIN Killer Medication and Caesarian ( C- Section )Surgical Delivery, WOULD have DIED trying to PUSH the Baby outt of the Womb..............Note that I said "If the Mother's Life is on the liine, PLEASE IMMEDIATELY use Surgery to get the Baby out. " May be the Mother should STOP having Children after that ONE Baby. There are Women that can have Babies for other Women through Surrogacy rather the Husband MARRYING another Woman for Children. That is also DONE here in USA.
@@ericezeokoli8800 I am here in the US also , do you know epidurals fail for some women. Thank God your here so you understand what’s the cost of child care and how some women have put off there career to stay at home because they could only get a six weeks paid maternity leave. Nobody should be talking about having 10 children in 2024 please
This is one of the most challenging conversations in Nigerian culture. Thank you, Flo and Amaechi, for your insights. I love you guys, and thanks for sharing. Well, after having twins, I wanted just two children. It took us five years later to agree to have our last child, especially for the fact that we had no help and lived in the diaspora. Child care is not a cakewalk abroad. You should only have children you can support, and don't wait for God or family to help you raise your children.
I can't even imagine how challenging it must have been for both of you to have twins as first children without extra help. 🙌
I'm from the West Indies I have two children and my daughter is well educated my son is educated through trade my daughter spoils me because I sacrificed so much for her education she went to University she had three brand new cars and she remembers that she said mommy you will always be one of my top priority in the Bahamas we do not believe in putting our parents in nursing homes. ❤❤❤
Bless you all. ❤❤❤
Wow. Such an open minded Igbo man... He considers the current realities 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏
Anybody who does not consider reality, reality will consider the person. 😂
I started following you because of learning to cook, the way you cook, I didn't know you think like this. So open minded and enlightened. I hope more people think like this.
She has open minded written all over her videos: cooking,village vlogs, her work videos.
I love these series so much! Thank you both for these gems of wisdom.
Loving these series... Keep them coming❤
The issue is that in the olden days our fore fathers were farmers hence they need more hands to farm as all were farmers then. It is now with the reality of the economic situation that we are now realizing that we have to reduce the no of children.
Sadly lots of people still don't realize that they need to change with the changing times.
I am enjoying these series honestly!! 😂😂😂 most people wanted to have 4 kids later they saw that the maths is not mathing 😂😂😂😂
Some will see koro-koro that the math is not mathing yet keep breeding. 😂
I agree absolutely with Hubby! A mix child is perfect.
We watched this video more than twice❤. OMG the organic gisting is soo pure & we enjoyed it sooo much 😂😂😂 we didn’t want the video to end 😂😂😂
Our opinion is, for those that want to bear child(ren) better be financially, physically, emotionally, psychologically & mentally ready for the long haul…… regardless of where you live (be it in Africa or Asia/Europe/America(s)). It is a life time commitment of love, dedication and sacrifice.
Secondly, having children is neither an investment nor retirement plan… having this type of mentality as an adult is very selfish. So try gather common sense before making life-time commitment decisions (such as having child(ren))
We are looking forward to the next episode on “weddings” byeee 😊
Never an investment nor retirement plan. Having children is not a walk in the park and people should ensure they have all the qualities you mentioned before enbarking on having even one child let alone a battalion!
The gist sweet dear. God Is Good. Nothing like this kind of Family.
Yes yes yes..love these series so much🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
Another very important discussion. Flo,you and hubby are always on point.
First time i heard Odogwu speak and he opened my mind to so many things in marriage. 😅.. una thank you. Make i send it to my wife straight
Mr Barry you are now gaining double honours here! Financial and Marriage degrees. 😂🤣
This is a nice topic. Truth be told everyone want both sex as in children, but whatever is given should be appreciated. The supreme being give children.
I'm enjoying these series thoroughly ooo❤❤❤
I really admire you a lot Aunty Flo❤
This man is special...
very nice discussion, l so much enjoy it
Very important conversation. There is a lot in raising up children and fending for them.
Parents are small gods to their children, and that's why He gave them to us "parents."
There are a lot when it comes to parenting seriously.
This is so true of an African man.
For me is a matter of money, more kids require money to take care of them, I would like to have many if I have the enough money to take care of them
Love love love theses topics. Please keep having and discussing them
Wow this discussion is really interesting I didn’t even want it to finish 😂
Very good conversation
This is the best video i have watched on UA-cam since this year. Forwarding it to some people i know their mentality. Make umuada no summon me this Christmasooo
@@Jossypassion 🤣🤣🤣
We also agreed on 3 irrespective of the gender. I raised it and my husband agreed with me, pointing that less is better for quality upbringing. Time has changed, things are super expensive and we need time away from raising kids. Too many kids age parents quickly plus other wahala.
Quality upbringing is the ko-ko.
Some people don't realise the stress they are giving themselves raising so many kids all their lives. What time do they have to live this life? Mba ooo.
Children must not come from ones loins . There are Children who need care everywhere. 😂When I want to rile up my Children , I usually tell them that I will have another kid, my son will say in Spanish ,Mum ,really ? ¿Mum Enserio? My daughter will laugh. Back in the days,the number of kids is usually two boys two girls.
In our house we have a picture of Children like that in a beautiful garden . I thought I would have three Children, but my Children ' s Dad doesn't want lots of Children.So we decided on two. The funny thing is that the cost of living is expensive everywhere. God Bless and help every home. It is well.
Two boys two girls was the norm back then. Till today, some people do not want to let go of that 2-2 squad. 😂
@@FloChinyere😂 As in ehh things are no longer as before my dear Sister. Thank you for your time. Please extend greetings to your Beloved.
Am enjoying this series of very important topics
I believe in small family were the children will have equal and higher opportunities in life.
Parents have time to relax after the day hustles
You think and worry less
In most Developed countries
They don’t really have many children that’s why they go far in life in terms of life spam and actualisation .❤❤❤❤❤
The equal and higher opportunities cannot be over emphasized. Even in upbringing. You will notice that most parents are really focused on their first few kids but by the time they get to the 4th or 5th ones, they are already tired and those ones are not as sharpened as the first few.
As my mother will always say, “Muru ka i ga azunwu” 😅
Having kids is not a competition
Thanks for sharing nice one 👍🏾
My thoughts exactly,never liked plenty children ,one is okay ,at most two
Nawa oh. This is scary to think about for those of us still intending to get married and have children by God's grace. Fending for yourself alone already takes a toll everyday..hmm Chukwunna nyere anyi aka o.
I agreed everything you guys said.
Great video I really enjoyed watching thank you so much ❤❤
Great video, Flo. Can i get a link of the past millionaires so I can watch it too? Thank you.
Past millionaires? Not sure I understand.
@FloChinyere I meant the video about Ekenedirichukwu etc
Yes pray! God answers prayers 🙏
Now i understand totally why my yoghurt is constantly hammering it in my ear that we are not having more kids because just the standard of living to take care of them per annum is so damn expensive that one wont even have savings again. To feed a family of 3 is expensive imagine when you have family members staying with you and still take care of our parents too.
One square meal a day is luxury aswear now. May we train the kids we have now the right way with the right morals too.
Thats true of Igbo culture. I miss your cooking contents o. Please i have a question; Do you use Fish or Cryfish for your Beef and Chicken stew.
Very interesting conversation. For me it's the fewer the better. I don't want a house full of kids that's why I stopped at two. 😂😂😂😂😂
Nneka you have two too? hehehe.
@FloChinyere Yeah two sons. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Aunty thank you so much for this series, it’s much needed.
Please any advise on how to protect ourselves from Men / Women in Naija that only see us abroad as tickets to japa. I know some women who marry and bring their spouse abroad only to be jilted as soon as they land. Any suggestions ma? God bless you
I agree with you oga.
Exactly ohhh
This is terrible now, teenagers that have nothing to show as handwork or business even in school, but their parents for one day do not ask them how they pay their fees, they are even the ones feeding their parents and other siblings.
And parents keep shut because they have failed
It's sad.
Me and my wife starting talking about having kids. I love the facts she wanted 3 kids, I said I would love to have 4 kids. We decided to have 3 kids, just as long she has her daughter first. I said, okay because I couldn't wait to spend more of my life together as parents.
Hahaua love comes when finances are buoyant❤❤❤❤
Another one 😃💃🏻💃🏻💃🏻
I'm so happy my husband watched this with me 😊😂. Oga wants eight kids and I'm like, who will breed them biko 😂? He's joking sha.
Hahahhahhahaha I love this topic biko can’t wait for the wedding topic
I totally agree with you. Times have changed, but some African men are still living in the ancient times. They want have more children even when they can't cater for them.
Very annoying something.
I wanted two children initially and my husband was ok with it. We had no issues with it until about six years later, i succumbed to family pressure and had my last child. I'm happy now that l had my last baby but left to me l would have stopped at two.
I desired to have 2boys and 2girls while my husband wants a boy and a girl, I agreed with him over a deliberate decision. We have one child now and planning to have the next baby next year.
These topics are really important.
I am happy we got it right from the beginning.
You wanted the 2-2 perfect squad of those days? 😂
I liked and wished to have many children as a teacher but nna ehhh.i changed my mind to 2...mine is not even about the sex but a companion for my daughter.God please🙏
Yes, it is better to if possible, give them a sibling so they can keep each other company else the parents will need to find a way to play a good enough role of siblings to that child. 😊
God does take care, but He wants you to play your part and work to foot your responsibility while opens the doors.
So what if you have tried but no jobs? I see some people working hard, even toiling but not much money comes from their efforts. So why does God not come down from heaven and help them?
At the end of the day, people should have the number of kids they can take care of and if they are struggling to take care of themselves, they should not have kids.
@FloChinyere My sister, If you don't pray God may not help you, Because the Word of God says ask and it shall be given. If you pray God will answer and make a way and prosper the works of your hands, I am a living witness and testimony. Please go close to God, You sound like you don't know or trust God. God wants a relationship with you, Jesus loves you. My sister I really enjoy your content, But I don't like the unbeliever aspect of you. Give your life to Christ now, Tomorrow might be too late. Shalom 🙏💕
@@AngelEze so the millions of people all over the world who live in countries where things work that have never prayed to God yet have their lives going well for them, who solves their problems?
@@FloChinyere let us know when she responds.
This is deep conversation. Common sense overload! Thank you Sir and Ma!
I have 2 kids a boy and a girl people keep saying I should have more.... I always say Never they, 2 is more than enough
Not squad o, not platoon o, not company o, nah Battalion African man want :)
😂😂😂
Aunty Flo... your mind! 😅😅😅
Wetin do am? 😂
😃 you riling up your children about having another sibling.
11:47 Dee Amaechi is spot on.
😂😂cut your loins according to your pockets.
15:12 destiny helpers now need help nowadays.
Nice one.
Even those who have enough today are not confident that they will have enough tomorrow. 😞
I have always noticed that it is mostly those who cannot takae care of their children than have many children. Yes, you want a baby boy but if it's not coming why have 9 children only to unalive and leave the responsibility for the wife? Flo like you said, women should learn to say no to that many children.
I tell you! That time adverts were flying all over the place that people should have 4 children, it was mostly the affluent that heeded that advice. The low income earners were still having 5, 6 and above.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 Chichi and our husband...me I see you having another baby soon ooo
Igba! 😂
@@FloChinyere😂As per I kwechri go 😁
After our second child, we decided to have one more baby and boom we had twins, and i know how our finances have been stretched.
A lot of people in this side of Nigeria where i stay don't think about all these, they just have children to count the numbers.
You got jara. That's the one no one can ever plan for. 🙌
Taking care of two babies at the same time in addition to 2 no be moi moi at all. Make una dohhh. May what will be used to raise them contnue to come.
@@FloChinyere Amen, thank you Aunty Flo
#tessepeople wow HALLELUYAH PRAISE THE LORD
Ogbonnaya Onu’s burial, I heard that all the children in America requested for them to watch the burial of their father. The only one that was able to come left before the burial giving excuse that the wife was sick.
Kai😢
@ watch through live… video….I missed this
The earlier people realize that children will one day live their own lives the way they want, they won't invest so much time and energy raising many kids. It's good to have kids to keep the house buzzing with people but once they are adults, we can't hold them to ransome if they don't want to be close to us.
If this is true, it's really a pity. Someone's wife being sick is good excuse. But the rest of the children (don't know how many they are) all having good excuses to not be at their Dad's funeral that all family members chose the date of is something I cannot understand.
Sis, you are right. Marriage should primarily be for companionship and having kids is not a need.
If we trust God and he hasn't given us a male child, how is it then a need, biko? Even God himself didn't see the need for it..."He will provide all our needs according to his riches in glory"
Our culture makes us think we need certain things that if you look at it, the are not needs... May not even be a want for some but we allow "tradition" dictate what our needs should be🤦
... Keep enlightening us jooo❤
I will never understand that "need" for a male child. In most families it's even the female children that remember those parents more. The day we realize that these children will grow into adults with their own thinking faculties, we will stop having too many children just for the sake of it.
Pray!!? Flo Flo Flo😅
Most of the men don't know they are the ones that decide which gender the women give birth to.
Pray fire! 😂😂😂
Those children are coming back to Nigeria except if things change
Do you mean they are *not coming?
At this point, we have to rebrand the channel name to Flodogu. As in,flo and Odogu 😂
😂🤣 Mba ooo. Odogwu that is finding it hard to find time and sit down to make these videos?
You are both very open minded. I'm enjoying this series cos I had the exact same question with my now husband when I met him 6 years ago. I was 27 and already knew I was on the fence bout having kids so I absolutely didn't want a man who wanted kids.
Oh and my aunt is one of those people your husband described. She kept trying to have a boy and finally had him after 6 tries. Eldest is 24 or so and the boy is 5. Now she's bothering me to send her money to feed her kids 😅
@@Fluuuvin this case don’t blame your aunt. It is the society she found herself. In-laws pressures etc
@@godsfavour1491 she is an educated adult with a degree and there is birth control in Nigeria. I don't actually care whose fault it is but why is an almost 50yo woman asking her 32yo niece for money to raise her kids when she has multiple siblings and nieces/nephews older than me.
@@godsfavour1491 Ok if we shouldn't blame her, she should go to the society and in-laws that made her have those kids to help her raise them. 🙄
Believe in GOD ALMIGHTY. Receive Christ Jesus as your LORD and SAVIOUR.
You sound too religious..
Okoro man😂😂😂😂😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Chi, remember our African beliefs… children and marriage especially male children are 5 and 6
Anybody that is following African beliefs should have money ooo. Not after having African belief you will be looking for someone that does not have African belief to train your battalion for you. 😂
The men who had many children back in the day were big time farmers. They had enough food for their children.
No. There are reasons for having at least 6 Children or even 10 UNLESS the Mother's Life in the birth process is endangered. Thankfully SURGICAL delivery through C- Section is readily done even in remote Villages.
Well in the 1960s and 1970s, Men had 7 to 9 Children JUST to make sure Death did NOT leave them Childless at old age........ Just think of Families that LOST Children in accidental Death, or even sickness.
I would listen to this rant if it was coming from a woman
You don’t even know what labor pain is, so you can go ahead with your 100 children debate
@@sylviakelechi7698 There are MDs that will give Analgesics to put off the PAIN in the first place. Here in USA there are Teenagers that WITHOUT PAIN Killer Medication and Caesarian ( C- Section )Surgical Delivery, WOULD have DIED trying to PUSH the Baby outt of the Womb..............Note that I said "If the Mother's Life is on the liine, PLEASE IMMEDIATELY use Surgery to get the Baby out. " May be the Mother should STOP having Children after that ONE Baby. There are Women that can have Babies for other Women through Surrogacy rather the Husband MARRYING another Woman for Children. That is also DONE here in USA.
@@ericezeokoli8800 I am here in the US also , do you know epidurals fail for some women. Thank God your here so you understand what’s the cost of child care and how some women have put off there career to stay at home because they could only get a six weeks paid maternity leave.
Nobody should be talking about having 10 children in 2024 please
Aunty Flo... your mind! 😅😅😅