You are always looking beautiful .My neighbor, I'm here in Ghana living for me. You have always given women all over the world great advice and encouragement.. God bless you, sister B ✝️💛✨️🌼🫶🏼....
My own take is that marriage is not for everybody. You can not eat your cake and have it. If you are not ready to be vulnerable and share 100% of yourself with your partner, just go and do surrogacy or go to a sperm bank and have the kids that you want. It seems to me that people with this kind of mindset marry just to have kids and have someone to nurture them and their kids, not for companionship. This is why we need to understand and accept why people want to marry. My comment is all over the place but my main point today is that it is okay not to marry someone and put them in everlasting pain by your actions knowing fully well you do not want to do this life with that person. This goes for both men & women. I am tired of all these stereotypes about marriage. Just stay single and enjoy your life. Also, Aunty B, you made a very good point about the fact that most Nigerian women that fight for property build that investment with their husband. Therefore, it makes absolute sense for them to ask for their share. As a married couple, you do not own your properties 100% by yourself. Your partner contributed either before or after you married him/her no matter how little, and that contribution needs to be recognized and accounted for during divorce, whether you like it or not.
When you usd the term mongo park ? What dose that mean ? I know of the Portuguese explorer mongo park but what dose it mean in this context pls ? ( All Love from oakland California) by way of Auchi in Edo state south. South of Nigeria 🇳🇬
Nice to see you looking good as always , auntie B. It's good there is no traffic on the roads . Please, wear loose clothes that are OK for the hot weather over there and have regular exercises to prevent obesity . Have a pleasant time, dear Auntie B.
Honestly, sis, looking at this glimpse into your current lifestyle, it's obvious that retirement in Lagos isn't cheap...or for those who didn't plan well.
Madam,l think the man did well in planning ahead and protecting his peace.That is why we also have prenuptial agreements.Are you insinuating that, there shouldn't be such agreements before marriage at all,since by doing so means the parties are already planning or preparing for failure? Humans do change and women have proven to be that erratic over and over again. The records are there to show that divorce rates are high and it would be naive and foolhardy for any self-respectful and financially stable man to lose focus before marriage and let an ex-wife claim everything he has worked for. I can suggest that embassies begin to add prenuptial forms together with application forms for family/spousal reunion visas, so no one would turn around later and start laying claims to assets they never worked for in the first place.
My take is that women are usually arrogant when they are financially independent…. The Bible says it’s the RARE woman who is industrious and kind and respectful to their family
@ kindly read proverbs 31 vs 10. In respect to the theme of discussion, The capable wife is rare. Also let’s face it, when a man is supported by his wife , there is sure to be anger, arrogance and humiliation. …High statistics on that
That man thought he ate with that comment about his ex. He must have lied to the woman that he bought that house and she must have been contributing to the upkeep of the house. That's such a one sided comment. Also, for him to call his ex wife 'flawed' like he's a saint, is diabolical. It takes 2 to tango.
Imagine that. He lived in the UK and planned not to own real estate?? Not a good man in the first place. Yes, we are what we PROJECT!! The value of real estate in the abroad is more valuable. Most women(black) who emigrated from the Caribbean, Africa to CANADA, USA, UK, IRELAND, ETC. purchase properties, invest where they live! Well said Lady B. Many brothers need to see and hear this.
Why should any human being want to control another human being for God sake! Marriage should not be based on controlling one another! But love one another instead
All this talk about manifesting stuff is all lies. How come women don't manifest their own and depend on taking from him when the marriage end. A lot of marriages end in divorce so every man MUST protect themselves. Open an LLC and buy all major property through the LLC. Do this before you marry. When she finally decides to leave there's nothing to take because you own nothing, the LLC does. Protect yourself Brothers.
Lagos is dirty and smelly facts! If the people like the should accept or be in denial. Lagos stinks because of the innocent souls hovering in that city. Innocent blood everywhere with no justice. 😢
Jamaican American your new subscriber. Thanks for sharing your experience in Nigeria.
You are always looking beautiful .My neighbor, I'm here in Ghana living for me. You have always given women all over the world great advice and encouragement.. God bless you, sister B ✝️💛✨️🌼🫶🏼....
When you find a spouse with similar values with you… you already plan to succeed.
Sis B . Nice to see you always happy person
Please enjoy your vacation and be safe out there.
🎉🎉sister B Happy enjoyment o 😋🥰 Thank you for all these beautiful vlogs, keep them coming
Oh, "Poverty alleviation project", Aunty B😳
Nice to see you my sister and enjoy ur trip and be safe
My own take is that marriage is not for everybody. You can not eat your cake and have it. If you are not ready to be vulnerable and share 100% of yourself with your partner, just go and do surrogacy or go to a sperm bank and have the kids that you want. It seems to me that people with this kind of mindset marry just to have kids and have someone to nurture them and their kids, not for companionship. This is why we need to understand and accept why people want to marry. My comment is all over the place but my main point today is that it is okay not to marry someone and put them in everlasting pain by your actions knowing fully well you do not want to do this life with that person. This goes for both men & women. I am tired of all these stereotypes about marriage. Just stay single and enjoy your life.
Also, Aunty B, you made a very good point about the fact that most Nigerian women that fight for property build that investment with their husband. Therefore, it makes absolute sense for them to ask for their share. As a married couple, you do not own your properties 100% by yourself. Your partner contributed either before or after you married him/her no matter how little, and that contribution needs to be recognized and accounted for during divorce, whether you like it or not.
When you usd the term mongo park ? What dose that mean ? I know of the Portuguese explorer mongo park but what dose it mean in this context pls ? ( All Love from oakland California) by way of Auchi in Edo state south. South of Nigeria 🇳🇬
Well said Bridget. Beautiful message.
Lady B great to see you looking FABULOUS as always in your birth country enjoying the weather and food!
Nice to see you looking good as always , auntie B. It's good there is no traffic on the roads .
Please, wear loose clothes that are OK for the hot weather over there and have regular exercises to prevent obesity .
Have a pleasant time, dear Auntie B.
I can't love you less! Thanks for all you do for us all. Stay safe and have fun. ❤❤❤
Congratulations on your early retirement, Auntie B!!! Have fun!!! ❤❤
Beautiful please take very good care of Oby, she's amazing woman
Sista B! You are getting younger and younger everyday. Nigeria is good for you. Enjoy! 😍😘
Hello sis B happy Sunday.
Bree. Thanks for taking us along.
With all this feasting you better register for Gym to work some of it off. Keep enjoying life🎉
Watching from Toronto, Canada. This is torture. Watching you eat all that lovely food... is making my mouth drip.
Aunty B....this akara and akamu is a good combination
Aunty B ❤❤, pepper us ohhh.
Enjoy Naija my dear Aunty B, you deserve it
Honestly, sis, looking at this glimpse into your current lifestyle, it's obvious that retirement in Lagos isn't cheap...or for those who didn't plan well.
Sis B, please tell us where you got your Shades 😎
I got it from Tom Ford at Heathrow Duty free shop o😊
Madam,l think the man did well in planning ahead and protecting his peace.That is why we also have prenuptial agreements.Are you insinuating that, there shouldn't be such agreements before marriage at all,since by doing so means the parties are already planning or preparing for failure? Humans do change and women have proven to be that erratic over and over again.
The records are there to show that divorce rates are high and it would be naive and foolhardy for any self-respectful and financially stable man to lose focus before marriage and let an ex-wife claim everything he has worked for.
I can suggest that embassies begin to add prenuptial forms together with application forms for family/spousal reunion visas, so no one would turn around later and start laying claims to assets they never worked for in the first place.
Akara and pap 😂
My take is that women are usually arrogant when they are financially independent…. The Bible says it’s the RARE woman who is industrious and kind and respectful to their family
Lies!!! Which satanic bible are you reading? If you like don't train your daughters to be financially independent...suffer go chop you for old age.
@ kindly read proverbs 31 vs 10. In respect to the theme of discussion, The capable wife is rare. Also let’s face it, when a man is supported by his wife , there is sure to be anger, arrogance and humiliation. …High statistics on that
If lagos smells, why not live in other states like Enugu, Imo etc
That man thought he ate with that comment about his ex. He must have lied to the woman that he bought that house and she must have been contributing to the upkeep of the house. That's such a one sided comment. Also, for him to call his ex wife 'flawed' like he's a saint, is diabolical. It takes 2 to tango.
Imagine that. He lived in the UK and planned not to own real estate?? Not a good man in the first place. Yes, we are what we PROJECT!! The value of real estate in the abroad is more valuable. Most women(black) who emigrated from the Caribbean, Africa to CANADA, USA, UK, IRELAND, ETC. purchase properties, invest where they live! Well said Lady B. Many brothers need to see and hear this.
It’s harmattan season, so dusty.
They should have a Nigerian GPS voice in Nigeria.
Why should any human being want to control another human being for God sake! Marriage should not be based on controlling one another! But love one another instead
How can one be married to an enemy? They were never friends, it was sickening readying that😮
Very wise woman! That comment is disconnected in 7 ways.
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Yam
People with a distrustful minds, always believe they will be victim even when nothing has happened.
All this talk about manifesting stuff is all lies. How come women don't manifest their own and depend on taking from him when the marriage end. A lot of marriages end in divorce so every man MUST protect themselves. Open an LLC and buy all major property through the LLC. Do this before you marry. When she finally decides to leave there's nothing to take because you own nothing, the LLC does. Protect yourself Brothers.
Lagos is dirty and smelly facts! If the people like the should accept or be in denial. Lagos stinks because of the innocent souls hovering in that city. Innocent blood everywhere with no justice. 😢
Was the Man planning to divorce his wife when he married? Seems he is a negative person that expects the worst to happen.
When someone plans to fail they will fail Wolfley.
Please stop robbing Lagos in our face
MADAM WITH DUE RESPECT THE STATISTICS OF MARRIAGES THAT END UP IN DIVORCE IS OVER 50%.
THAT IS SOMETHING TO BE WORRIED ABOUT