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  • @sayless1445
    @sayless1445 9 місяців тому +72

    Aww, Hunter Paige is a beautiful brown baby doll🥰🥰🥰🥰

  • @SivvySiv
    @SivvySiv 9 місяців тому +72

    I love the phrase snap forward! I had my first baby at 33, and I'm 35 now! I am 100lbs down 2 years later! Believe me, baby weight will fall off. You will be just fine. You look beautiful and welcome to the club momma!

    • @SivvySiv
      @SivvySiv 9 місяців тому

      @@jd2024- I lost an extra 30lbs, I gained 70lbs my whole pregnancy 😮 breastfeeding for two years now I think had a part in it.

  • @msny278
    @msny278 9 місяців тому +50

    You will be a great mother. One thing I've learned about children as a mom of three is that they don't require as much as we think they do. We want to buy everything under the sun and they don't want any of that especially while very young. We can buy a $200 toy and they will have more fun playing with the box it came in. Children are also very resilient. Sometimes, as parents, we are very hard on ourselves, but the children are content and happy.
    I'm a 46 year old mother of 3 sons, ages 28, 24 and 20. About 2 years ago I was having a moment and felt like I needed to apologize to my children. I am not a very affectionate person so I figured that I never truly expressed to my sons how much I love them. Well, all of us were together, so we talked about it. They all told me that they never had a doubt growing up that I loved them. They said I showed them that I loved them by my actions. They said that I provided for them what other children around them didn't have. That something was a safe space to talk open and honestly. My bed was the place that the best conversations happened. I said all of that to say as long as a child has parents who truly love them, a safe place to sleep, food and clothing they will be fine.
    Enjoy the ride

  • @tiad5386
    @tiad5386 9 місяців тому +28

    I actually went through postpartum depression. At the time I was unaware(totally in a fog and don’t remember much about that time frame) I remember binge watching the entire series of Frazier🤷🏾‍♀️ my husband and I at the time thought it was normal for me to want to be alone. It wasn’t until he was speaking to his mentor and was told that I was going through postpartum depression. My husband stepped up in an amazing way and helped me through that time. With even making/ encouraging me to get up to shower, we went for walks, he set up lunch dates with friends, etc, all while taking care of our baby fresh out of the NICU by himself until I could. I love and appreciate him for that everyday.

    • @tiad5386
      @tiad5386 9 місяців тому +6

      Felt good to get that out! Thank God for such an amazing Husband!!

    • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
      @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  9 місяців тому +5

      What a blessing sis!!!

    • @tiad5386
      @tiad5386 9 місяців тому +2

      @@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol Amen! I must say I Absolutely Love your baby girls name. So sweet

    • @MamotteLollpop123
      @MamotteLollpop123 9 місяців тому +1

      Frazier is one of my comfort shows ❤ My whole family loves it ☺️

    • @curlygirly9158
      @curlygirly9158 6 місяців тому +1

      Wow that's great. You're so blessed to have such an amazing husband! And congrats on overcoming the PPD!

  • @OyaSanya
    @OyaSanya 9 місяців тому +28

    I just sent this to my daughter. She is so strong and is doing an amazing job as a new mother. We are her village.

  • @toniagoldsmith954
    @toniagoldsmith954 9 місяців тому +12

    If you feel like something is wrong say somthing. I was discharged 4 days after my C-section. But about 4hrs after baby and I settled in. Hubby ran a few errands. He got back home, I had to be rushed back to the hospital. I had a leaky heart valve( left ventricle). My hubby was so lost, but I told him, God and the doctors will take care of me, you just take care of my boys( chris was 6, Jordan was 4 days old). Jordan is 19 now. I'm just saying look out for self and say something if anything feels akward or out of place.

  • @shimiaisaac7981
    @shimiaisaac7981 9 місяців тому +22

    I've had two c sections so far, most recently last month with my daughter. My first pregnancy at age 38 I didn't workout the entire pregnancy but this time I worked out the entire pregnancy and I definitely feel it helped with my recovery and my motivation to continue being active in the postpartum stage. I've found pregnancy and postpartum TV UA-cam channel very helpful with postpartum exercises especially after having a c-section

  • @mommyinthechi
    @mommyinthechi 9 місяців тому +16

    My favorite thing about having a baby during Covid times was no visitors 😂I didn’t have to worry about anyone asking to come visit. Hearing your story is very inspiring. I’m a single mom, but I do hope to have a husband and a child within the context of a healthy, loving relationship.

  • @annaeasley9267
    @annaeasley9267 9 місяців тому +5

    You are a blessing to this 69 almost 70 year old black woman. No I am not about to have a baby but you bring back memories and thoughts of those moments. Thank you for getting me to think back of moments of good times.

  • @MiraMira0ntheWall
    @MiraMira0ntheWall 9 місяців тому +9

    I can't wait for more of this. My baby is 3 months old, and I'm 37. I'm very happy I'm in a place to love on her without the stress of finance. That's why I waited. Also, I found my husband in my 30s.😅

  • @justRandiE
    @justRandiE 9 місяців тому +17

    Congratulations to y'all on the precious baby doll! I love how you say "our baby". Hunter is adorable 💕

  • @odessaonar4006
    @odessaonar4006 9 місяців тому +21

    Definitely give yourself Grace. Due in 4 weeks so these videos are life girl lol. Thank you for sharing. Love how attentive and the structure and support you and your husband provide.
    Have each other's back!!! ❤️ ❤❤❤

  • @JesBeeME
    @JesBeeME 9 місяців тому +5

    Awwww I remember her adoption story and her adopted mom back in the day! So proud of God’s blessings in her life! ❤ My kids are grown but the self care and self worth messages are great reminders for us women out here!!! So at 47 with grown kids let me get my snap forward on!!!! 🎉❤

  • @debramitchell
    @debramitchell 9 місяців тому +6

    I'm not pregnant (yet), but this video is so helpful! THANK YOU!

  • @LS-ph5qt
    @LS-ph5qt 9 місяців тому +19

    OMG She is absolutely GORGEOUS ❤❤❤❤

    • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
      @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  9 місяців тому +6

      Awww! Thank you!

    • @LS-ph5qt
      @LS-ph5qt 9 місяців тому +2

      @@BeautifulBrwnBabyDol You're soooo welcome!!! 💕

  • @hummergirl263
    @hummergirl263 9 місяців тому +19

    Hunter is so beautiful! Thank you for sharing your postpartum journey.

  • @DS-Trina
    @DS-Trina 9 місяців тому +8

    Shoot, I have baby blues but ain’t got no baby….😂 I’m older, and have no children, and it’s often scary to me thinking about taking care of another person. It doesn’t help that I’m an educator (high school), so I see firsthand what happens when there isn’t a strong parental foundation. I’m running out of time ya’ll….so I really have to decide if this is something I want to do. Thanks for sharing Dr. Nina! Hunter is beautiful!

  • @valindapayton9440
    @valindapayton9440 9 місяців тому +5

    That is a gorgeous baby. You are going to be such a great mom. God is good. I wish you continued strength and blessings in your journey.

  • @justRandiE
    @justRandiE 9 місяців тому +22

    Speaking of Bella, how is Bella adjusting to the new baby? Let's hear about how you and Sean are navigating new parenthood with a pet. Since Bella has been around for quite some time.

    • @tracywaring3769
      @tracywaring3769 9 місяців тому +4

      Good question always want to know about Bella xx

  • @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol
    @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol  9 місяців тому +15

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    ❤ Could you help me GET THIS VID TO 3,000 LIKES?! ❤

  • @samib8575
    @samib8575 9 місяців тому +2

    Dr. Aunty Nina, as always, I love your transparency and vulnerability. It gives me such comfort and joy knowing that you are doing what is best for you. I took in all that you said. I love that you are choosing who should be around your child in the spiritual aspect. Also, yes, you may not be able to protect them from everything. However, as long as they are in your home, you can control what takes place in that home. Gods richest blessing to you and the family, as you take on this next chapter in the story called life.

  • @SoulfulRose
    @SoulfulRose 9 місяців тому +2

    "I don't have to handle everything, and I'm not going have the answers to everything." 💯

  • @Cola531
    @Cola531 9 місяців тому +10

    Blessings Princess Hunter P and parents as well😊🙏🏾

  • @noblesavage1367
    @noblesavage1367 9 місяців тому +4

    May God protect your family. Nina, you're doing an amazing job.

  • @deneenogbeide5087
    @deneenogbeide5087 9 місяців тому +1

    Being a mother is the best job ever.

  • @qianabennett7891
    @qianabennett7891 9 місяців тому +4

    Wonderful!! Spirits are real. Protect the gift God gave you..

  • @tamekadavis6641
    @tamekadavis6641 9 місяців тому +14

    Blessings beautiful mommy.❤❤❤😊

  • @brendamitchiner5137
    @brendamitchiner5137 9 місяців тому +4

    Awwww Dr. Nina she is so beautiful. Thank you for sharing. God bless you all.

  • @kimikosumi4940
    @kimikosumi4940 8 місяців тому +1

    Your baby is so beautiful and you still look way younger than your age!💜😘

  • @naomiapata6239
    @naomiapata6239 9 місяців тому +7

    She is so beautiful, congratulations once again Dr Nina, I love, love, love you so much.

  • @makeupdonjuandiva
    @makeupdonjuandiva 9 місяців тому +2

    Thank you for your videos!! They always give me a great perspective and motivation. I'm preparing my mind and my body for motherhood. I'm 36, and I've always dreamed of becoming a mom. The older I get, I feel discouraged, but your videos always remind me it's possible.

  • @kimberlykelly6110
    @kimberlykelly6110 9 місяців тому +1

    I love your story. I wasn't worried about you and hubby about you guys at all. I know that you're going to do well. I'm so proud of you guys in your parenthood. You're on the right track.

  • @joannefaith8131
    @joannefaith8131 9 місяців тому +5

    Such a lovely update, I am very happy, things went well for you, during your pregnancy & delivery. Baby girl is soo beautiful 😍 thanks for sharing 🫶🏽

  • @LifewithKeeYishrael
    @LifewithKeeYishrael 9 місяців тому +2

    Your daughter is sooo beautiful 😍!!! Congratulations on your sweet bundle of joy❤❤

  • @nca4794
    @nca4794 9 місяців тому +1

    To me, the markings of a good Mom is a woman who cares about being a good Mom. ❤
    Thank you for sharing your experience. I'm so happy for you and Sean. God is so good. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @CJ-xg6ii
    @CJ-xg6ii 9 місяців тому +2

    Congratulations, Dr. Nina! So happy for you and your husband, and that he’s a hands-on and supportive partner in this new family process. Blessings, Beautiful!♥️

  • @happy4life265
    @happy4life265 9 місяців тому +2

    Watching your story just reminds me about. The fact that you need money and it will make your motherhood journey easier ❤❤

  • @KayIsGreatful
    @KayIsGreatful 9 місяців тому +2

    Dr Nina(motherhood looks absolutely beautiful on you, God bless you all forever always Hunter is Gorgeous!!!! Im so excited for you all. This journey is another level of our Gods love/ faithfulness he's such a good, good father... ❤ God bless takecare.

  • @HoneySnowflake
    @HoneySnowflake 9 місяців тому

    I'm so happy for your journey into motherhood ❤ with my 1st baby I was absolutely clueless and went through all the drama, including ppd. Having our 2nd baby last year, I knew right away to get in front of the possibility by scheduling therapy sessions ahead of birth! It makes such a difference when you can anticipate. I thank my past self so much for taking care of my future mental state ❤

  • @ajwrightltd
    @ajwrightltd 9 місяців тому +1

    Please relax and enjoy the journey! You will be fine! You got this! I am so glad you are protecting your spiritual energy! 🥰

  • @YouTubeMother1952
    @YouTubeMother1952 9 місяців тому

    Your baby is gorgeous and such a blessed little girl. You are such a wonderful mother. I am so proud of you and your husband. You have taught so many and will continue to.

  • @SimplyShev_hair
    @SimplyShev_hair 9 місяців тому +10

    Congratulations to you both 🎉🎊💕💖

  • @hn8032
    @hn8032 9 місяців тому +2

    Congrats momma! Ive been following up for years. So happy to see your journey through life. Blessings 🙌🏾

  • @trillm6826
    @trillm6826 9 місяців тому +4

    You have a beautiful family❤🙏🏾

  • @cfreemful
    @cfreemful 9 місяців тому

    Oh, Hunter is so blessed to have parents like you and your husband. Congratulations, to you both. Please, give yourself wisdom, grace and love.

  • @TheGoodLifeStarterPack
    @TheGoodLifeStarterPack 9 місяців тому +4

    Congratulations!!!

  • @tracybrown7786
    @tracybrown7786 9 місяців тому +5

    Congratulations 🎊 she is so adorable and perfect ❤❤

  • @cece9604
    @cece9604 8 місяців тому

    Wow i needed this information 8 years ago.. i was a total wreck and didnt no why 😢😢 lack of support i wasnt sleeping my mental health was very bad i didnt no i had post partum depression and anxiety i thought something else was wrong with me before my doctor diagnosed me. My kids are now 6 and 8 just about recovering from it all 😊

  • @traceethomas387
    @traceethomas387 9 місяців тому +1

    Omg! Hunter is absolutely beautiful so happy for you and your hubby. Congrats to you all and I wish you the best on this journey of motherhood and fatherhood. God bless you all🙏🏿

  • @LivingWaterwithSisterGlenda
    @LivingWaterwithSisterGlenda 9 місяців тому +1

    🎉You are a mommy now🎉. That's wonderful my God bless you and husband and baby.❤

  • @reereep9334
    @reereep9334 9 місяців тому

    You look great. By watching you since the pandemic, I know you will be a wonderful mom. I was happy when you met your husband. Everything was done decent and in order, so stepping into this new role will be good. Keep God first, take time for you, Hunter, and Sean, take care of family. We will be here ( I will be here😊)

  • @kendracash9231
    @kendracash9231 9 місяців тому

    Come through,Dr. Nina! Keep shining bright, and yes, Hunter Paige is a jewel. Blessings to you and Sean during this precious time. ❤❤❤

  • @Chantelsway1
    @Chantelsway1 9 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your journey and being vulnerable with us as well ❤️ New mom here and I’m due in 14 days and your videos have been so helpful from HS to being pregnant. Thank you for bringing us along with you on this journey and I pray for nothing but the best for your family and you too!

  • @Willeneful
    @Willeneful 9 місяців тому

    Thanks for continuing to share with us/with me...congratulations again on little Miss Hunter and being transparent. Love your overall glow...keep up the incredible progress...I'm looking forward to snapping forward with you. I'm going through a healthier me journey and look forward to seeing and using some of your snap forward advice/procedures/steps. You are very inspiring and motivating to me

  • @patricianakibuuka830
    @patricianakibuuka830 8 місяців тому

    Love your closing statement

  • @Li-Anderson
    @Li-Anderson 9 місяців тому +1

    I haven't been watching as much as I used to. I have noticed your mother has not been around during your pregnancy. Is everything ok with her.❤🙏Congratulations again with little Hunter.The hair OMG!🥹

  • @michaelafrench8696
    @michaelafrench8696 9 місяців тому

    Congratulations ❤! God got you , take one day at a time. Embrace every moment it’s beautiful being a mom . I’m a mom of five I enjoyed every minute of it. God bless❤

  • @ocana8547
    @ocana8547 8 місяців тому

    Congratulations on your marriage & baby!

  • @aaliyah1884
    @aaliyah1884 9 місяців тому +1

    Someties been a new mother makes you think about your mother adn when you are a mom without a mom it can make you feel sad

  • @jackiedavis4298
    @jackiedavis4298 9 місяців тому +1

    What a wonderful Vlog !! Sounds like you're on track , I always tell people Is counseling is beneficial!!
    God Bless you and your family ❤❤❤🤗

  • @anobserver9658
    @anobserver9658 9 місяців тому

    She's beautiful. Congratulations

  • @jacolagreene9870
    @jacolagreene9870 9 місяців тому

    Oh my goodness she is so beautiful! Many blessings to you and your family!

  • @soybeans8139
    @soybeans8139 9 місяців тому

    You’re doing such an amazing job with yourself, that’s wonderful. Thank you for sharing.

  • @tamalamciver6025
    @tamalamciver6025 9 місяців тому +2

    Congratulations and sending blessings to you and your family.

  • @latressahairston2478
    @latressahairston2478 9 місяців тому +1

    Ok 3.0 I see you 😁 looking as beautiful as ever. Thank you so much for sharing your story with us. Baby Hunter is beautiful, I pray Gods' continues blessings for you and your family. You are a great mother already as I knew you would be ❤

  • @klomax7089
    @klomax7089 9 місяців тому +1

    Praise God! The Beautiful Brown Baby Doll gave birth to her very own Beautiful Brown Baby Doll! ❤❤❤🥰❤❤❤
    Welcome to the Parenting Ministry! It is more than a notion, and NEVER-ENDING, but y’all got GOD so you’re gonna be just fine. We, your YT family, will be in constant prayer for you and your husband and baby Hunter🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @caralisa648
    @caralisa648 9 місяців тому +2

    congratulations

  • @beautifulaltogether2224
    @beautifulaltogether2224 9 місяців тому

    She is such a beauty. Simply adorable ❤

  • @naturalnikki8675
    @naturalnikki8675 8 місяців тому

    Great video!❤️You are an AMAZING mom. Thank you

  • @latisewilson4561
    @latisewilson4561 9 місяців тому +6

    Please don't run yourself and your husband crazy wanting to be perfect .... the baby is safe and alive .... you are doing well

  • @MsC7746
    @MsC7746 9 місяців тому

    Congratulations Sis, she is Beautiful! You are gonna be an Amazing Mom!!😘

  • @malikiatabb9456
    @malikiatabb9456 9 місяців тому +1

    Congratulations

  • @odessaonar4006
    @odessaonar4006 9 місяців тому +1

    Can you share with us your baby essentials so far for baby and mom? Care seat, bassinet, lotions etc

  • @traceyquinsey8894
    @traceyquinsey8894 9 місяців тому +4

    Congratulations

  • @angelJ5820
    @angelJ5820 9 місяців тому +4

    Congratulations ❤❤

  • @nuhaalmariyood5105
    @nuhaalmariyood5105 9 місяців тому +2

    So cute God bless you and your family ❤❤

  • @mitneejones7721
    @mitneejones7721 9 місяців тому

    I’m so happy for you Mommie! Yes, the body adjustment is much.

  • @deidreej
    @deidreej 9 місяців тому

    You look beautiful! Enjoy every moment with babygirl! Maybe we can get a vlog once a month 🖤🖤🖤

  • @ssaliormoon15
    @ssaliormoon15 9 місяців тому +1

    @BeautifulBrwnBabyDol if you don’t mind my asking: Have you ever thought about looking for your birth parents or your birth parent's family?

  • @Child_of_the_most_High_God
    @Child_of_the_most_High_God 9 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤ YOUR A MOMMMY NINNNA! 😊😊😊😊 I'm so happy for you !

  • @heychaena
    @heychaena 9 місяців тому

    I am so happy for y’all!! Thank you for sharing your story ❤❤❤

  • @Dontgiveup964
    @Dontgiveup964 8 місяців тому

    Awwww....she's so cute!!!!❤❤❤

  • @tamarraclark4740
    @tamarraclark4740 9 місяців тому

    Omg I had no idea congrats on the baby

  • @shay_renee_
    @shay_renee_ 9 місяців тому

    You look beautiful as always. Pregnancy didn't change your good looks❤❤.

  • @julielouisy1008
    @julielouisy1008 9 місяців тому

    Congratulations. May you continue to be blessed

  • @ldkea05
    @ldkea05 9 місяців тому

    1:06 I'm one of them ... Can't really explain just never saw myself or felt that spark as a parent

  • @intentionalgreatness
    @intentionalgreatness 9 місяців тому

    Thank you! Love this for you. Congrats on your new blessing. I know you'll be an awesome mom❤❤.

  • @brahmabkitty03
    @brahmabkitty03 7 місяців тому

    Playing catch-up but I love this for you Dr

  • @TamishaGibson
    @TamishaGibson 9 місяців тому +2

    You’re the beautiful brown momma doll now 😊

  • @cozyatcocos
    @cozyatcocos 9 місяців тому

    I am so happy for you Dr. Nina🥰 Tfs.💖✨

  • @CocoChanelle-1
    @CocoChanelle-1 9 місяців тому

    Congratulations! She’s beautiful!

  • @S.AnnMarie
    @S.AnnMarie 9 місяців тому

    Congratulations ❤🎉

  • @DoughDashCrew
    @DoughDashCrew 9 місяців тому

    Hey, it’s OK! You will be FINE. ❤

  • @regale1995
    @regale1995 8 місяців тому

    Congratulations 🎉

  • @ShadesOfIvory
    @ShadesOfIvory 9 місяців тому +7

    Blessings to the Dr. Ellis-Harvey Harness family your new baby. Ive been subscribed to your channel for many years...🥹🙏🏾. You give me hope, still....that just-Maybe, there is still real luv, out here...not these, "wyd", fools as gentlemen. 🤣🤭🤣

  • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
    @user-zx5xw4yw2e 9 місяців тому +2

    My body didn't change after. Some do, some don't.

  • @candiblue9280
    @candiblue9280 9 місяців тому

    Hey Dr. Nina loved the video!❤❤❤

  • @anjieh1104
    @anjieh1104 9 місяців тому

    So beautiful enjoy your baby. 😊

  • @xlena60
    @xlena60 8 місяців тому

    Congratulations 🎉❤

  • @sinegugundlovu1984
    @sinegugundlovu1984 9 місяців тому

    Hunter Paige, what a gorgeous name for a gorgeous girl. So happy for you and hubby.