MOVING TO USA🇺🇸 | WHAT I WISH I KNEW BEFORE MOVING (as a Ugandan🇺🇬) GreenCard, Culture & More

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  • Опубліковано 15 гру 2024

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  • @vannesagolightly7424
    @vannesagolightly7424 2 роки тому +49

    I really needed this video as someone moving soon. Thank you Doreen.

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  2 роки тому +4

      Yes you should know these things, that’s good sis 🤍

    • @fideliaonokun6150
      @fideliaonokun6150 Рік тому

      @@kahundedoreen gfgfgff⁰

    • @petejames1326
      @petejames1326 Рік тому +2

      @@kahundedoreen your alot braver than me, at least you chased your dream, im a 40yr old guy in australia, ive always wanted to move to the USA because houses are so much cheaper but im just so nervous about doing it, i could probably live there a few yrs without working too, keep up the great vids

    • @petejames1326
      @petejames1326 Рік тому +4

      @@kahundedoreen you seem like a very kind and nice person after i watched your vid, i understand how the microwave thing got to you and hurt you, but please you have to forget about it, im a taxi driver, for the last 22yrs, i deal with idiots and rude people and scum every day, people treat taxi drivers like crap, so do other drivers, they always cut me off while driving and never let me in when i want to merge etc... but i dont take it personally otherwise i would get a nervous breakdown, i dont even beep at others anymore, i just ignore it and move on, thats what you must do, always rely on YOURSELF, dont rely on anyone else, and if you become successful you have yourself to congratulate.

    • @katushaberehemah1669
      @katushaberehemah1669 Рік тому

      ​@@kahundedoreen. Thanks for this information dear sister.

  • @SassyS2442
    @SassyS2442 9 місяців тому +21

    I’m an black American.. born and raised here. You are BEAUTIFUL and Unfortunately jealousy and envy is an incurable disease epidemic that is viral here! Keep your head up and your self esteem HIGH!!❤

  • @eporter8213
    @eporter8213 2 роки тому +118

    I’m Black American. I understand your point. working in America is hard. In my opinion, they’re probably intimidated because you’re young and beautiful. People will try to get you fired and tell your manager bad things because they intimidated by your intelligence, skills, or looks.

    • @DemyJeremiah
      @DemyJeremiah Рік тому

      How can I get a family in USA

    • @fivelions6854
      @fivelions6854 9 місяців тому +1

      @@DemyJeremiah look at videos surrounding your Question.

    • @donnahall-kumar333
      @donnahall-kumar333 5 місяців тому

      That happens to Beautiful and Intelligent American women as well so what is your point...
      👀👂👂✨

  • @nthatisimphale
    @nthatisimphale 5 місяців тому +13

    𝐍𝐎𝐓𝐄𝐒
    1.Home sickness
    2. Learn how to drive
    3. Jobs, bullying, racism: bad treatment 😢
    4. Cost of living: converting😂😂
    5. Minding your language
    6. USA is a bed of roses- its not perfect, You work hard for the money, you don't have a social life.
    7. Do not settle for less, be ready for change.
    8. US has a variety of jobs, you can be anything you want to be. Associate with people who'll support you. You can do any kind of job you want to do.

    • @samanthaaeee
      @samanthaaeee 4 місяці тому +3

      Just took a screenshot thankyou🫶🏾

  • @pj-mn4uj
    @pj-mn4uj Рік тому +41

    My sister thank you for being so transparent. I just want to let you know that you are an amazing woman and God allowed you to visit the US for a reason. Don't allow foolishness and silly people to bring you down. You are a super amazing you continue to keep your head up and continue to strive for your goals. You have a beautiful beautiful accent I love it and may God bless you. I'm in Florida... There's some amazing people in the US but there's also some people that's got some issues as it is everywhere. .. I have learned that God will send special people in your life to be in your circle. Thank you again for the video.

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  Рік тому +1

      Awww thank you soo much for this heart warming message 🤍🤎🤎🤍🤍🤎dear

  • @nickanyi
    @nickanyi 8 місяців тому +8

    I've never been to te US but I did spend 5 years in the UK. What I've learnt, immerse yourself in the culture. I'm from Kenya and I never spent anytime with other Kenyans. Even though I knew them or where they were. This alone enhanced my experience there 10fold

  • @iamtompte
    @iamtompte 8 місяців тому +6

    I love your personality and your innocence😊, i can tell it from how you transitioned from crying to smiling. You literally made me feel all the emotions one after the other.

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  8 місяців тому +3

      Thank you 😘😘😘

    • @iamtompte
      @iamtompte 8 місяців тому +1

      You're welcome dear 🫶

  • @irockgemstones2460
    @irockgemstones2460 Рік тому +13

    This video hits differently because I have had your experience here. I fully understand everything you felt. People will go out of their way to be rude & try to dim your lights for no reason... especially if you're beautiful, confident, and speak differently. Continue to shine and smile through it. Know your worth and always remember that your workplace is just a part of your journey...it's not your dream destination ❤ . Thank you for being so transparent. You are absolutely amazing & beautiful. I saw your video once and subscribed just because I loved the way you speak, your energy is captivating. I went shopping w/ you on Shein. Don't let anyone diminish your value. Keep doing you!

    • @xanus34
      @xanus34 11 місяців тому +1

      you said speak different, she did say the people that were being rude were Africans, not that all africans speak the same language. that being said, most Americans will help, just because you have a different accent.

  • @qmzp1978
    @qmzp1978 7 місяців тому +6

    Something that has helped me dealing with people being rude is not taking anything personally. At least you now know who to avoid at all costs.

  • @nakintuesther3417
    @nakintuesther3417 2 роки тому +24

    Well said, homesickness and depression is real. Wish people at home knew about this. Not easy at all

  • @mahnoormahmood2597
    @mahnoormahmood2597 10 місяців тому +19

    I recently shifted to the U.S. this video got tears to my eyes that others on a similar topic didn’t. It’s been super hard trying to find work, trying to get my photography business running again. In Pakistan I was the only photographer doing creative shoots and working with rgb lights, so that made me special and would have people praising a lot and felt like my presence made a difference, that my
    Existence made a difference.
    Over here, I’ve lost clients over small things which weren’t considered a big deal back home but they are here. And I felt, given that some of them were of the same ethnicity, they would be able to recognize I’m new and be more considerate but they’ve been the worse.
    Watching your video, I feel like I’m looking at myself through the screen.
    At the moment, I don’t know what I’m doing wrong, or right, for that matter. but God led me to your video and it has given me hope that I’m not the only one going through it. Thankyou for sharing your experience! I’m sure it has brought peace to many others like you and me.

  • @jaboubaa928
    @jaboubaa928 2 роки тому +22

    I remember when I first moved to USA 🇺🇸 back in 1999 I was a new bride and it was so hard for me and was crying every day. We did not have cellphone, WhatsApp and social media at that time to make things easy for me.

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  2 роки тому +2

      Thanks for watching 🤍so sorry about your experience 😢it’s always hard relocating to a new country and all the culture shocks

    • @jaboubaa928
      @jaboubaa928 2 роки тому +2

      @@kahundedoreen yes and you’re welcome hope things get better for you 💕

    • @Henry_Mukolwe
      @Henry_Mukolwe Рік тому +1

      I can only imagine how difficult it was😢 Sorry!

  • @lilyena2201
    @lilyena2201 Рік тому +15

    My first time in Belgium, I still had the Ugandan thing of greeting 'elders' & appreciating people for the work they do when you come across them working. Nga i greet this cleaning lady at my residence but get no response so i greet again thinking she didn't hear, the way she looked at me with a dead face. Never greeted anyone since then and I lost the guilt of bypassing people without acknowledging them.

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  Рік тому +6

      People here are cold, glad you know better now 🤍

    • @TrevorLee-21
      @TrevorLee-21 Рік тому +1

      Yes ma Ugandan sister. It's much more hard to connect with pipo here. Just mind your business and do your own stuff, when they need u , they will come. Just stay cool.

    • @jaim6463
      @jaim6463 11 місяців тому +1

      Ohhh no I'm sorry this is your experience... never allow anyone to change your character...
      Everyone I meet who is from Africa must think I'm obsessed and crazy because I always say I want to go... I don't know what part, but im going to vsave up, sell my home and relocate.

    • @BM7-j7m
      @BM7-j7m 2 місяці тому +1

      😂😂😂

    • @paulamugabi7320
      @paulamugabi7320 2 місяці тому +1

      Those people think we are thieves and drug dealers.😅😅😅

  • @ProcitaPeach
    @ProcitaPeach 6 місяців тому +3

    That geering and rolling of eyes was personal sis …., sorry about what you went through . Hugs 🥰

  • @LeeChanel05
    @LeeChanel05 2 роки тому +6

    This is my new favorite channel! Binge watching right now!! As a Liberian immigrant, I experienced the same things.

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  2 роки тому

      Awwww welcome love 🤍

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  2 роки тому

      So soo about your experience dear, hope you doing better now

  • @bangitim4564
    @bangitim4564 Рік тому +7

    You know i want to come thre this year for studies.
    Your vidio has streangthened me
    I know life will some how be hard at first because first i am blind and not used to the environment
    But steel i will endure in order to achieve my goal of becoming the first blind software engineer in uganda.
    Thanks

  • @leikab
    @leikab 2 роки тому +24

    Doreen, bullying exists in corporate organizations here in Uganda too especially from females.I have loved your courage and persistence to achieve.

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  2 роки тому +2

      Yes it really does which I never expected 🤍thanks for watching ☺️

    • @birungiresty6155
      @birungiresty6155 Рік тому +1

      Be very strong your beautiful girl and you know what your doing waawo go a head.

    • @paulamugabi7320
      @paulamugabi7320 2 місяці тому +1

      Don't forget the witch craft😅😅😅

  • @carolrynnkundi2660
    @carolrynnkundi2660 2 роки тому +11

    Girl your killing this 😍getting more confident and audible each day
    Proud of you :)

  • @veeviccy
    @veeviccy 6 місяців тому +1

    You are amazing. Don’t let anyone ever put you down. I am also emotional like you, but I know they can never crash your spirit. And I also know you are doing amazing things now ( since this video is a year old). You got this💕

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  6 місяців тому

      Thank you so much beautiful for your kind words😍🥰

  • @Gboox8488
    @Gboox8488 8 місяців тому +1

    “She jeered”😂😂😂 I’m a British Ugandan myself and I’m planning on moving to the USA by the end of this year. I’m so lost at the moment in terms of how to obtain a visa/ green card but I’m not losing hope! You are absolutely beautiful Queen! I’m so sorry your experience hasn’t been the best but I’m sure it will get better for you! Sending you lots of love and blessings ❤ x

  • @LindaTinahTV
    @LindaTinahTV 11 місяців тому +3

    No one prepares you enough for relocation. It's nice to hear about other people's experiences.

  • @katutupeace6802
    @katutupeace6802 2 роки тому +6

    Thank you Doreen for this! We really needed this!! Sorry about the reception at your first day of work, remember it has totally nothing to do with you and everything to do with them maybe they saw you as a threat lol ..but stay positive and just continue to give the good vibes.... kudos!

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you 🙏🏽 soo much peace for the encouraging words and for watching dear 🤍🤎

  • @doreeniradukunda7609
    @doreeniradukunda7609 2 роки тому +4

    Awww so touching dear, glad you got over it ❤️

  • @mosesbakashabaruhanga5900
    @mosesbakashabaruhanga5900 2 роки тому +6

    i dont know why the volume is so low ,may be in the next video work on in .Actually there are small microphones you can buy and attach and they really help to enhance the sound ,i wil send pics on your watsapp

  • @cassricardo1237
    @cassricardo1237 Рік тому +3

    I think you have a beautiful spirit. Im from the Bahamas and i only visit America will never move

    • @cassricardo1237
      @cassricardo1237 Рік тому

      Which part of the United States do you reside?

  • @christianaosaro1394
    @christianaosaro1394 Рік тому +3

    Wow thanks for sharing your experience out there, You are indeed Courageous 🥰

  • @EkesaMediaKenya
    @EkesaMediaKenya 2 роки тому +4

    Hello Doreen, Ekesa Tv here watching and enjoying,True people work hard for their money, home sickness. Working for more than 8 hrs , It's not that easy and simple as people think. thanks for sharing.

  • @sharonnanyuta2255
    @sharonnanyuta2255 9 місяців тому +3

    I have loved the video. thanks Doreen

  • @nambusiprossy3875
    @nambusiprossy3875 2 роки тому +2

    We miss u baby. Family really misses u. U had higher vibes for us here at home.

  • @tusabeivan2745
    @tusabeivan2745 Рік тому +3

    The home sickness part is very true... I didn't know in the first 3months i was going to miss home. Mahnnnn🙌

  • @rebekahnassuna6833
    @rebekahnassuna6833 2 роки тому +7

    Everything you have said is 💯. I had my fair share of USA.

  • @drcissyatwine
    @drcissyatwine Рік тому +1

    Oh dear.. i also felt so homesick when i first left home.. its hard to appreciate uganda when you are there.. its like we should all leave to then learn to love it haha

  • @jevanicegracie771
    @jevanicegracie771 Рік тому +3

    Aww💜u deserve alot better my dear.. Such a touching story!

  • @dr.kigozibrahimtrt2273
    @dr.kigozibrahimtrt2273 Рік тому +2

    Actually you've spoken truth, wish you the best Doreen.

  • @markfennell1604
    @markfennell1604 11 місяців тому +1

    I’m sorry to hear about your experience as far as getting bullied on top of that from a fellow African I hope things get better for you and welcome to United States

  • @AsiaMarie233
    @AsiaMarie233 10 днів тому

    I’m sorry you’ve experienced bullying, discrimination, and prejudice (What you described isn’t racism since it was someone of the same race, but it is EQUALLY horrible and shameful.). No one deserves to be hurt. I don’t understand why that lady treated you so badly, and I just want to hug you little sister. 🫂 I still want to welcome you because I’m happy you have brought your love, laughter, talents, knowledge, skills, culture, and joy to share with us in the USA. I pray it has gotten better for you.❤

  • @machinetoolcommerce9375
    @machinetoolcommerce9375 Рік тому +1

    You're very lovely, don't worry there are many nice people in the USA too and you will find your way to them. Enjoy your time here and when the time comes take that with you back home.

  • @hopedoreen6653
    @hopedoreen6653 2 роки тому +3

    Aaaawwwww...... This is beautiful❤️ It got me so emotional 😭😭😭😭

  • @shyletzulu8305
    @shyletzulu8305 Рік тому +2

    Hi Doreen you have gained a follower will come back here to say hi I've made it to the USA I wanna come tooo❤❤❤❤

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  Рік тому +1

      Ok dear, welcome 🤗
      I can’t wait 🤍

  • @blackronin5578
    @blackronin5578 Рік тому +15

    As a black American, I recommend u save as much US dollar as possible n work online full time if u not already. Also don't buy a home here cause the US dollar goes far overseas n heck I'm considering moving to Uganda, Kenya or South Africa once established cause our economy in the US is tanking badly plus not a place I'll marry or raise children n I want a lower cost of living n a more traditional environment 💯💯💯

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  Рік тому +2

      Your right 🤍🤎🤎

    • @lionheart.5983
      @lionheart.5983 Рік тому +1

      Come to Kenya. Kenya is good.

    • @xiiscadey9617
      @xiiscadey9617 Рік тому

      ​@Lion Heart. Kenya, it's the same. You can't feel because it's your country 😢

  • @southernivyrx
    @southernivyrx Рік тому +2

    You are so beautiful!!! From one of your African American sisters... Thank you for sharing your experiences.

  • @Iamprocie
    @Iamprocie 2 роки тому +3

    This has got me emotional my G😓🥲we miss you bbygal❤️

  • @djdswift314
    @djdswift314 Рік тому +4

    I'm from America and I'm homesick 😢 the racism will make you feel like that as a black person. Like this is not my home. And it's so wild that a lot of people from other's countries view America as a easy and lovely place to live, I'm aware that yes, it is much easier than other countries but the mental things we go through here is no joke. But I love your channel, new subbie!

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  Рік тому +1

      Awww welcome 🤗 yes I do be home get home sick up to now

    • @tintamalambo444
      @tintamalambo444 11 місяців тому

      What state are you in?

  • @deekmuninga
    @deekmuninga Рік тому +2

    Thanks alot for this much needed information as I will be relocating soon.

  • @TanyaNishailoc
    @TanyaNishailoc Рік тому +2

    This is Avery insight ful video Doreen thank you for sharing your experience

  • @Han-wt4vg
    @Han-wt4vg Місяць тому

    So sorry for your experience, I think some of the people out there are under a lot of stress and pressure, they generally have issues and it has nothing to do with you. I’ve learnt to keep my expectations really low

  • @lizyrwaki-uu4np
    @lizyrwaki-uu4np Рік тому +4

    Girl, I can relate so much to your experience. I'm in Ireland and some of the Africans are the worst out here. I wonder why they forget that we are all here for a purpose and need each other at some point in life.

    • @TPLysa
      @TPLysa Рік тому

      There's a real simple remedy to that problem. You could always go home.

  • @mysteriousbezzy9171
    @mysteriousbezzy9171 10 місяців тому

    Also, people being brainwashed to think that Africans don’t like African Americans, without just learning to understand one another and ask questions to find the truth. I love learning, love your accent, and wish I had more people to teach me about the history of our ancestors. A lot of history was hidden from us and we were lied to for years. Also, the fact that many from Africa may not be aware of the racial struggles of being in America maybe because they were lied to or information was kidded as well. ❤ Black people still struggle in America for many reason but I’m sure you are finding out the truth.

  • @kisakyegelder7051
    @kisakyegelder7051 Рік тому +8

    The United Kingdom in my experience is good so far,been here 14years and am so so happy,I hope you find your happy place❤

  • @depanneurbonnehumeur6488
    @depanneurbonnehumeur6488 Рік тому +1

    I'm so sorry to hear that, I wish you good luck!

  • @CharlA7471
    @CharlA7471 2 роки тому +2

    Thanks Doreen for work. Just see ure video and subscribe. All u said is true mwanyinaze am in dubai I faced the same. I stayed strong and focused that helped me to succeed at wk .
    Am also planning to relocate to USA still figuring out the easiest pathway and connectins in USA .

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  2 роки тому +2

      Awww thank you for Subscribing dear…that’s good to hear🤍

  • @kakeirejane3660
    @kakeirejane3660 2 роки тому +2

    Surely that has been a buch of hardships dear, thanks for the share...was told the same.

  • @salomekamau5380
    @salomekamau5380 Місяць тому +1

    Girl, I hear you!

  • @mysteriousbezzy9171
    @mysteriousbezzy9171 10 місяців тому +1

    Omgggg! 😢😢😢🥺 I’m so sorry about your experience on the first day you started work. It’s horrible! People are really rude in America. There are some nice people who were raised right, and learn to treat people the way they want to be treated (like me or the guy who helped you). I feel that way about living in a northern state…and my family is from the south (Mississippi and Alabama). People speak down south and show good hospitality but people here where I grew up…will walk past you and not even bother to speak. Sometimes it’s a good thing they don’t speak and sometimes it’s mean.

  • @estherataparachu6031
    @estherataparachu6031 21 день тому

    Thanks Doreen for the information. ❤❤❤❤ from Uganda

  • @Lisette121
    @Lisette121 2 роки тому +9

    You seem so sweet and have a good heart. Don't change. A lot of the times people will try to break you, especially when they're not happy with themselves. And especially when you're pretty. I love America, but I always say blk immigrants usually have to trade the comfort of living back home with the convenience of America, which includes, running water electricity 24/7. Stores, entertainment, etc, within reach. But it comes at a cost, and that includes everything negative you mentioned in your video. Stay strong.

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  2 роки тому +3

      Thank you soo much love for the words of encouragement 🙏🏽

  • @Malligue
    @Malligue 8 місяців тому +1

    You did nothing. You are beautiful. You trigger their insicurity. Don't take it personal. I wish you all the best💪🏽

  • @nyamwijashamirah8786
    @nyamwijashamirah8786 2 роки тому +2

    Sweetheart please take heart we miss you in ug

  • @ChangeisComingSoon
    @ChangeisComingSoon Рік тому +3

    I’m very sorry about the racism that you went through. I certainly would’ve helped you with the microwave. I also can relate as an African-American. I have also experienced racism from my own race, although it’s very rare. Usually, I get the worse racism from whites, and people not from the US, like Afghanistan. Honestly, I have also experienced racism from Africans that are not from the US, several times. Racism is a big thing in the US. It’s very sad. Jesus bless you.

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  Рік тому +1

      Amen 🙏🏾 yes it is sorry about your experience

  • @BluePeacocks421
    @BluePeacocks421 Рік тому +4

    I’m so sorry that happened to you. We have to remember that the way people act/respond is more about them than you (us!)!!!

  • @ayebareclinton3320
    @ayebareclinton3320 Рік тому +2

    Keep strong and focused
    I wish you good luck

  • @mortygraphicsltd9799
    @mortygraphicsltd9799 2 роки тому +3

    Thank you Doreen this is really emotional good you got over it. #Goodlesson today

  • @gunorijssel7987
    @gunorijssel7987 Рік тому +1

    Sorry, but can't believe you didn't check THE SOUND of your you tube BEFORE and AFTER finishing recording. I'm now at 0:33 and if the sound does NOT improve I'm sorry to say so but I will NOT continue to listen to your relate! I'm actually curious if a little further down the road of THIS you tube you'll detect that the sound has room for improvement. WE SHALL SEE!

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  Рік тому

      So sorry about the Audio, it was low and I noticed after weeks of uploading it

    • @gunorijssel7987
      @gunorijssel7987 Рік тому

      Oh no, don't feel sorry: I kept listening to your story and immediately regret acted that soon. In fact: something else kicked in(read between the lines....hahahaha!). I would like to app with you.......if THAT is not a problem for you. Question: are you at home with the theme of HAMITES and SEMITES. If NOT we should most certainly start apping with each other.

    • @paulamugabi7320
      @paulamugabi7320 2 місяці тому

      My audio is ok

  • @mererocks79
    @mererocks79 Рік тому +1

    you're doing well, keep going!

  • @kasagamaabdul5688
    @kasagamaabdul5688 Місяць тому

    Thanks love. This is it, we need God

  • @Serajanee
    @Serajanee 2 роки тому +2

    This is so helpful gal ❤️🥰thanks for sharing

  • @mayanjatimothy5165
    @mayanjatimothy5165 Місяць тому

    I have not yet healed from the gearing, HAHAHAHA Doreen

  • @priscillarkiiza808
    @priscillarkiiza808 Рік тому +2

    Mean people are all over da globe,,thx 4 sharing Kahunde.

  • @katohamidu8326
    @katohamidu8326 2 роки тому +3

    Ohhhh... So emotional
    You just let the bad days go. Then you focus on how tomorrow is gonna be.

  • @MissyM3
    @MissyM3 Рік тому +1

    You are so beautiful ❤
    I couldn’t imagine someone being rude to you, for any reason.

  • @eunicelevina520
    @eunicelevina520 26 днів тому

    nice content just gained a subscriber and that thing of owning a car is true have heard it alot

  • @irenemukasa5742
    @irenemukasa5742 Місяць тому

    For sure you are good in and out girl you msg really make sense

  • @kiizaibrah1855
    @kiizaibrah1855 2 місяці тому

    Beautiful content, dear Kahunde, GOD bless you and give you grace and strength. Pray always, Jesus Christ can actually do wonders for you.

  • @brendayvonne8069
    @brendayvonne8069 2 роки тому +5

    They are trying to break you because you intimidate them honey bunch dont let them get to you atleast let me also be prepared for this before I come over and now I need to learn how to drive more than ever

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  2 роки тому +1

      Yes you should take it serious for the better love 🤍

    • @brendayvonne8069
      @brendayvonne8069 2 роки тому +1

      Thank you hun for sharing seriously many people should subscribe to your channel because the content is so good

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  2 роки тому +2

      Thank you soo much dear 🙏🏽Am Grateful for that 🙏🏽

  • @nabasiryehilda6157
    @nabasiryehilda6157 2 роки тому +2

    Sorry about that experience… I pray you meet Nice people 🙏🙏

  • @TheRegular_Overthinker
    @TheRegular_Overthinker 2 роки тому +13

    Oh yea! Someone gave me one advice, don’t make friends at work! Get along with them but they are not your friends! That lady was really mean and it was unnecessary!!! Weird how it’s African American ladies who are mean!!
    I have a lady who keeps picking on me at work! It makes me sad but you gotta block the negativity and do you girl!! Sending you 🫂

    • @kahundedoreen
      @kahundedoreen  2 роки тому +3

      Thanks for the advice dear 🫂just don’t give her time some people are like that

  • @Flourish_today
    @Flourish_today 6 місяців тому

    The thing is even if one makes 10m a month in UG its still not enough when you have a family. Maybe when you are single. So, working here in the US sente zo can build you a proper house back home if that is your plan to return. I hope things worked out for you eventually. You seem like a nice person.

  • @namusisiwaldah9989
    @namusisiwaldah9989 2 роки тому +1

    Ooo dea😢😢😢sorry about that mean person i guess u now far better so emotional

  • @sechabamafethe8401
    @sechabamafethe8401 3 місяці тому

    Hii im a Student from South African really want to move to USA upon completion of my studies which is about a year ,can you please guide me on where and how to start preparing

  • @titustaj9183
    @titustaj9183 Рік тому +2

    My first day listening to you and I'm sorry to what happened to you but at the same time you're somehow funny ❤️

  • @samanthatabiramu
    @samanthatabiramu 9 місяців тому +1

    Trust me
    All will be fine

  • @ghs9725
    @ghs9725 7 місяців тому

    I have a question, working in a day care, cleaning job for example in a hospital or school and taking of old people which one is better?

  • @ChideraCynthiaRN
    @ChideraCynthiaRN Місяць тому

    I would like to ask the lady who slammed the door on you how she felt after treating you that way, I really wanna know what goes through people’s mind when they treat people badly, do they feel happy within themselves or what? I just can’t wrap my head around this. God have mercy

  • @CHIGOAH
    @CHIGOAH 10 місяців тому +2

    I'm watching this video as a manifestation, you are such a beautiful, elegant, and intelligent woman ❤
    Sorry about what you went through, truly you didn't deserve any of that.
    About women at work even back home it's too much, I almost got depressed at my job then coz of fellow women.
    I hope to share my story one day.
    thanks for sharing this. God bless you 🙏

    • @Cherished_v-wHw-v_Secrets
      @Cherished_v-wHw-v_Secrets 10 місяців тому

      I am watching this video too as a modivation actually to be the best in my educational-academic journey and be able of coming to a university in the Us. Bullying is a very common problem actually and it's at the worst point especially in highschool(Secondary school in some countries) and workplace. My mother has been mistreated alot by some miserable losers and also me in school I was bullied for working as much as I could to make positive progress in my dream school. Good prayers for all! 🫰🏻💓

  • @birungiresty6155
    @birungiresty6155 Рік тому +1

    Waaawo i have liked the way you explain and the video as well.

  • @hellenmwelwa8263
    @hellenmwelwa8263 28 днів тому

    Thank you so much honey for preparing my mind

  • @irenemukasa5742
    @irenemukasa5742 Місяць тому

    Sincerely good ❤️ God bless you

  • @DanTheMan-yz8zx
    @DanTheMan-yz8zx Рік тому

    Nice video, I never knew they thought tukola mu bakadde! 😂

  • @Gulo477
    @Gulo477 Рік тому

    Thank U am also feeling home sick and people back home think that you always have money am Ugandan too katuyelibe😊❤

  • @Ichbinthee_dali
    @Ichbinthee_dali 2 роки тому +2

    So sorry about your experience at work on your first day

  • @namusokemary36
    @namusokemary36 2 роки тому +2

    Ooooh😭😭😭so emotional

  • @musokealexander1168
    @musokealexander1168 Рік тому +6

    Well, our Ugandan systems don't train one in empathy and boldness and how it applies in different cultures. That's partly why it is hard for us to predict certain temperaments when we travel.

  • @xanus34
    @xanus34 11 місяців тому

    use your earphones bedtime please volume is kind of low... I have had that problem with Africans from Western Africa but not the from the east. I am an American who is traveling Africa. the only other problems I would expect you to have is maybe if you look at people to long and getting in their personal space when there is a line,I know it is a normal thing in Eastern Africa. and last Go the DMV and get your license

  • @NaikobaAnnet
    @NaikobaAnnet Рік тому +1

    Thanks very much for sharing dear

  • @adedamolaiboyi
    @adedamolaiboyi 2 роки тому +1

    I really enjoyed this video. Very true.

  • @QueenoftheWest-16
    @QueenoftheWest-16 2 роки тому +1

    you are such a good story teller

  • @kay-lee8571
    @kay-lee8571 2 місяці тому

    3:16 yeah you really gotta work for a social life here. It’s considered out the norm to just strike up a conversation with someone you don’t know at the store, or even with your own neighbor. I find this pretty sad and I’m a BIG introvert which is saying something 😂 I wish our society made it easier to talk to people we don’t know, cuz if I saw everyone around me doing it, I’d be more likely to do it as well.

  • @hopesfantasy
    @hopesfantasy Рік тому +2

    Would u make a video on how you got it green card

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    @ssenyonjojbshayan Рік тому

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  • @dudoklasovity2093
    @dudoklasovity2093 Рік тому +2

    I moved to usa 4 years ago and there’s still nothing appealing. It’s all so fake! The life is so stressfull, work, drive, no social balance, everybody stressed out, anxious and busy all the time. Crazy lifestyle. People developing mental illnesses or chronic ilnesses early in life. I am so homesick for Europe Sometime I can’t believe I was so stupid to ever come to usa👎