Apologies for the removal yesterday. Video got mistakenly auto flagged. Which would’ve greatly stifled its reach. Removed those few seconds and reuploaded today. Thanks for listening and same schedule release this Thursday!
That dude in the first story is a real human being. Understood his past and wrong doings and when it came to SHTF he saved someone who wasnt involved life
For the stalker victim, documentation is key. Document everything, get a ring camera, outside motion sensor lights, dash camera. The goal is enough for a restraining order then when that doesn't stop him jail time. From jail its time to move Until then Report all to HR, no leaving work by yourself. Texting a friend when you get home. Security system. Read up on your countries stalking laws and what you can do and need. Set everything to private, Instagram, fb, twitter. Unless its a person you know is them, no new friend requests. Stay safe.
I don’t usually comment on these videos because I usually use them to fell asleep. But OP in the last story needs to go to the police whether they believe in the justice system or not. Documentation is crucial, and you don’t need permission from HR or place of employment to go to police. HR is not your friend. They are there to protect company interests and mitigate lawsuits. Remember this. I have worked for my fair share of companies, and at least in my experience, they usually protect the aggressor. Documentation is important to get a restraining order, and eventual jail time when that restraining order is violated. It goes without saying that restraining orders don’t work with crazy. When people show us who they are, believe them. He texted you proof of stalking. I would have called the police then. Screenshot and document. Even if you don’t block or reply back to the stalker, it’s important to keep that line open so you can document the evidence. And should the worst happen, your loved ones will have the evidence they need to sue the stalker for wrongful death if it comes to that. The burden of proof is less in civil court, and the testimony in a civil case can be used in a criminal one. I sincerely hope it doesn’t come to that. If you live in a one party consent state, keep your voice memo app open or use a separate device to record your work days. Stay safe, OP! Edited to fix typos.
I also want to add to this. Do not engage with the stalker. It has been said that if you pick up your phone after 1000 calls, it only teaches the stalker that they have to call you 1000 times to get you to pick up. I cannot stress enough, do not engage. If he tries to talk to you, all you have to say is "I have nothing to say to you. Leave me alone." Repeat. Call the police or security if he won't back down. The case of Rebecca Schaeffer is one that we should always remember because that case is the one responsible for bringing in the modern stalking laws that we know today. As a final note, BOZE VS THE WORLD said many times in her stalker commentaries that we should never ever refer to a stalker as "my stalker" because it personalizes it. If you openly talk about it on social media, the stalker can get a sick joy out of being part of your life even if it is being presented in a negative light. It is important to refer to a stalker as "the stalker" in order to put as much distance as you can between you and them.
Yeah seriously, go to the police last story OP. You said you're willing to try anything, be willing to try an avenue even if you don't think it will work.
Your stalker sounds extremely dangerous. Hi reaction to your blocking his calls is very telling. If that enraged him, imagine how he would react to a restraining order. Restraining orders only work to the extent that the subject feels bound to adhere to them. Your stalker’s actions suggest he would not feel so bound, and that it may only escalate his behavior. You should talk to someone knowledgeable in these matters as soon as possible. Also, Gavin DeBecker’s book “The Gift of Fear” provides insights on dealing with these types.
My Mom knew her time was coming. She got everything in order. She had her will fixed. She had a burial policy. She signed over her house to my brother. Her land to me. My sis got money. It was all ready to be given to us as soon as she was gone. About 6 months later she passed. She told me she had been seeing Dad. Dreaming of him almost every night. She fell in her kitchen, went to the hospital and was gone the next day-On my birthday. 😢 She knew!!?? 🙏❤️😢
For the final story, guys like that see avoiding conflict as weakness, and it's clear he was never going to gracefully accept "no" for an answer. All that's left is the nuclear option: tell everyone. The police, HR, friends, family, co-workers. He wants to isolate and bully her, gathering people around her is her best defense. Even if the police can't or won't do anything, showing that she won't meekly tolerate his behavior and that she is willing to escalate is a step in the right direction. He will not stop on his own, he needs to be given a reason to stop.
Hope she reads the comments here. And honestly I don't think it's a good idea for her to quit her job. She already built relationships with those people, she's gonna have a tougher time starting over elsewhere. And those people can help her out, as well as technically they're liable to keep him from harassing her so they're the ones who should fire him.
Yeah the problem is that for whatever reason she doesn't want to do the things that are obviously the correct things to do. Tell the police, right? That's the obvious thing to do isn't it? Nope, won't do that cuz the police are just no good... Tell her male family members and friends? Nope, don't wanna start any trouble.. I mean, come on. The notion that police won't help you is so far from the truth. People just don't want to follow the law in these situations. The police can't just listen to your story and go arrest a guy. They need documentation. Start documenting everything RIGHT NOW! Report him to the police TODAY. Get a doorbell camera that saves video or at least one that can archive photos. Tell your family and your friends and your neighbors who the guy is and what car he drives. Tell your coworkers. Tell your boss. Get pepper spray for your purse. Get a big dog and a gun for the house... I just don't understand the reluctance by so many women to alert the police about this stuff.
@@slicedbread5692 Exactly, with documentation, it prompts police to do something when they can. She has the text and picture about the car situation. That is helpful. She has the HR situation already. So much going in her favor UNLESS he was police (which he isn't) then all of this will be helpful. If he isn't at the level of doing something to her physically then when he sees all of the commotion she can stir up then he would stop. If he is at the level of hurting her, then this will help also.
@@thesunshineisgrae6987 exactly. I always hear people say stuff like, "I told the police this guy stalked me and they did nothing!" Like they expect the police to just listen to her story with zero documentation and go lock the guy up in jail. That's not how it works. Document everything. Make him see that you're more trouble than it's worth for him to harass you.
Been listening for about 8 or 9 years now and your story telling has gotten better and better. Thank you for helping me fall asleep (in a good way) for almost a decade ❤❤
I listen every morning. I don’t listen to go to sleep. I want to hear every word and not miss anything. Plus some of the stories might give me nightmares. 😱
Bro I was so confused yesterday 😂 got a notification you uploaded while I was sleeping, put the video on "watch later" when I first woke up like 4hrs later and went to sleep again. When I woke up again couple of hours later: no video 😂😂
@@JacobASmith59 Thank you because this is the second time I've dealt with abusive attorneys as my employers and I'm regretting my choices regarding college majors. It's really difficult when you're doing your best with what you have and someone who should be mentoring you and working WITH you verbally abuses you on a daily basis. No amount of money is worth your self-esteem and sanity.
@@maevependragoncurrently experiencing this and it’s so sad. I’m trying so hard to win this persons good graces but it seems any and everything I do angers them and it’s only been getting worse and worse.
Omg, I was laying in bed listening to this last night, I was in the middle of the first story, I was all invested...and it just stopped all of a sudden. Lol.
Stalker story: People, stop being so nice all the time. Be direct. You don't have to be nasty, but be clear. Most people do not pick up on "hints." Change your number, keep your media private, don't engage, tell as many people as you can (who you can trust) about the problem, document everything and keep the evidence somewhere safe. Get a big dog, carry whatever weapons you are allowed to carry, take security measures on your home and vehicle. Go to law enforcement. Papers don't protect people, but they provide a pathway to helping put monsters away when they escalate. Stop personalizing the stalker; they aren't "yours" and you don't want them to feel like they are. If a stalker isn't stalking you, he/she will stalk someone else. Be alert and aware of your surroundings...no playing on your phone, stuffing your ears with ear buds, and don't linger about in your car. Ask for an escort to your car. Most places are cool and will have your back if you speak up. Protecting yourself isn't being "confrontational"; screaming at a someone for some perceived slight is.
My niece was murdered by someone else's stalker. Campus security prevented him from killing his ex-girlfriend; however, my niece, unfortunately looked like her... so he killed my niece, instead. Had the stalking laws been enforced, he would have been in jail, and therefore, unable to kill my niece. My sister and the intended victim are in contact and work to strengthen stalking laws. Stalking is a serious crime. Hopefully, it will soon be treated seriously. 48 Hours made an episode about her case. It's called Who Murdered Jackie Vandagriff?
How awfully tragic for everyone involved including you and of course your sister. That your sister and the stalking survivor are working together says a lot about both of them, their resilience, emotional intelligence and character. Not everyone would be able to put aside their misplaced guilt (survivor) or anger (sister) but both are, and they are doing it to help others. Maybe it helps them process the ordeal. I have only one neice (no nephews or children of my own). She is 18 and in her first college semester. It was a great time of life for me and is for most young adults. I'm not a worrywart but there are far more mental health problems amongst youth and threats now that we didn't face like drugged drinks, stalkers and human trafficking (we're in a border state and its a huge problem). It's such a fine line, prepareing young people for the dangers of the world butnot wanting to cripple them with fear and anxiety about it. . She's a very smart girl, good head on her shoulders and has common sense, but she's been fortunate to grow up safe and protected. No real experience recognizing dicey situations or sketchy people. I pray for her safety. I want her to have fun and meet people but just a handful of years ago, a woman I went to school with from elementary through high school lost her daughter at college in a nightmare situation. The daughter and her boyfriend got into a fight and he killed her in a fit of rage. It hadn't been a violent relationship up to then as far as anyone knew, he just snapped. There were probably signs that an older women would notice but a young girl hadn't developed the skills to recognize yet. Nor was he old enough to have established problematic patterns of relationship behavior. (I had multiple conversations with my niece in recent years telling her if she ever feels uneasy to leave the situation even if there is no logical reason or she can't put her finger on why. There will be plenty of time to figure that out later.) Your niece's story sounds like it could be a similar situation, a crime that has become far too common but which happens fast and if there were any signs of danger at all, they would have been too subtle for a young woman to recognize. I'm so sorry you and your sister and my childhood schoolmate have all had to endure such terrible losses. Hopefully in addition to strengthening the laws, the medical/psychiatric field will develop better ways to improve the mental health and coping skills of young men so there are far fewer ruined lives (including theirs) due to momentary actions that cause so much pain and regret.
The Father Michael story was fascinating! Unfortunately another church cover up that could’ve saved a Priest this time. These Arch Bishops are not learning! How Father Michael knew about the meteorite would be easy as they are predictable. If he planned on attacking the other other priest with a knife in front of the police, that’s a sure fire way to secure your own death. He was lucky or unlucky the police used a taser instead of their other weapons, which I’m sure he planned on. The taser ended up doing the job in his case. He certainly wasn’t a martyr. Martyrs don’t have evil intentions or in his case he wasn’t of sound mind.
It’s 3:33am in the uk, can’t sleep as usual and so I’m looking for something to lull me to sleep and I find a brand new video from you Joel! Perfect timing, thank you. Love your content ❤
last story op: please tell your brother. stress to him that you don’t want him to do anything that will put your brother in jail because you need him around for protection in the future, but that you just need his help to scare this guy off a little. it seems like to me this stalker may be the kind of guy who will only take threat seriously from other men.
SAINT AGNES WAS MENTIONED! MY DAY HAS BEEN MADE. She is my Patron Saint. I absolutely love her. Her story is so interesting. Many more were martyred the day she was. Her bravery and love for Christ caued others to say they too were Christians. And others announcing that they wanted to be a Christian too. Poor Father Michael. That is just rough. :( Thank u Father for sharing your story. I will keep u in my prayers. Also. For those who don't know. The Church does investigations to see if sightings r hallucinations, completely made up, actually from Heaven, or a trick of the Devil.
For the girl who's being stalked, i might've missed where you're from but if you are in the usa get ypur CPL license. Even if youre uncomfortable with firearms once you have it you can take classes to carry a tazor. Not a stun gun an actual tazorwhich i better because you can fire it at a distance. Document everything even if it seems petty and make police reports even if you dont want to.3rd party involvement is key. And unfortunately switch jobs. Limit his access to seeing you.Good luck. Remember you are your first line of defense. Cops are minutes away when seconds count.
Please do more paranormal and cryptid stories! I love those kinds of stories but I can’t do most other UA-camrs’ voices, and I’ve already watched all your other paranormal and cryptid vids 😅
I’ve been hooked on skinwalker/mimic stories since the last skinwalker story Joel read. Scared the 💩 out of me. These stories on other channels can be so unrealistic that all you can do is roll your eyes 😅
My days have felt they blended together this past week. So I thought I got my days mixed up. But at the same time every thing else I listen to on Monday uploaded. But after seeing the comments there was more to it then my days blended lol. Thanks for reuploading
To that lady who's being stalked, I'm going to tell you to quit being evasive, be direct, and tell him you don't want him, make sure there are people around when you tell him, be really direct, not mean just firm, use the school mom tone, don't give excuses like oh I'm just not in a place for a relationship, just say you're not interested and you wish to be left alone. Stand up for yourself! men do not like that, a lot of bullies will back down. And if he doesn't if you're in a busy place, then you'll have witnesses and then the cops can do something. Good luck, also purchase pepper spray, and go get some self-defense classes because chances are this is not the only one you're ever going to have to deal with if you're good looking.
The video got deleted while I was listening and I was beyond confused for like 10 minutes. I checked on my phone and computer and thought I was going nuts
For that last story, with the stalker, you definitely need to file paperwork with the courts. Whether you have faith in the police or not, you need that legal documentation. You need the paper trail. You also need to keep a journal of everything that goes on screenshots ring doorbell camera. Everything needs to be documented.
To the person with the stalker: In the future, just be kindly blunt and don't drop hints. But for now.... I've had 2 stalkers in my life and have had to move in each case. The second time I really tried to be defiant and tried to wait it out, because having to move because of some crazy person and incompetent police really isn't fair.. but in the end, I moved for the sake of my peace of mind. If no one else will protect you, you have to protect yourself (and your sanity).
The last story. It's best to document everything that happens. Also, as you may not trust the police it is best that they know and have it documented as well. Inform your place of work and HR. If it gets him fired, that's his fault for being unable to understand the meaning of the word No means no. Buy pepper spray for your Keychain. So if you see him by your car at night, you have something he won't see. Also set up your home with stuff you can use incase he tries to break in. Keep your doors and windows locked. I really hope nothing bad happens, but I really hope you update us on what happens. It's best to know you're safe. Be strong op you can get through this.
Whoop 🙌 I’m rearing to go!! Thank you Sir LetsRead for your continuous dedication to uploading great content and incredibly amazing narration!! Your hard work is genuinely appreciated👍🏻🇦🇺
Definitely relistisened. Stories were, oh wow. Girl at the end needed to step it from the beginning and not have lied. Made him mad 😠. Thank you Joel ❤
Men like this will be mad and angry about not getting their way, no matter how it's presented to them. There's no "correct" way she could have avoided this situation.
@@spiralali Absolutely right. She did NOT "make him mad." His inappropriate, dangerous behavior is not HER fault. It is his. That said, she must deal with the situation. It is her responsibility to do everything she can to keep herself safe, including getting law enforcement involved. Life is not fair.
Story number 3, she's terrified of her stalker and is desperate for help. She believes if she goes to the police they won't do anything. But why not try? She has absolutely nothing to lose by going to the police. And there is a chance that they may be able to do something. And why doesn't she go get an order of protection?
For the person that has there coworker stalking them. Record and keep texts and calls. Give to cops, even the smallest thing so there's a record. As well as he get him canned. Move change # switch jobs. I know that they won't see my comment but I have lived this, still do. I decided not to move due to rent costs being so high. So some times I will still get that large object tossed at my window (nearly breaking it). When ever my stalker is going through something But my peace bond was long enough to get him less obsessed as well The little things on record save your life tho. Thanks let's read that one hit home but no matter how the write had the impression it was not scary. It was terrifying for those that have lived it
Ideas for the woman in the last story: - you don't trust the law to be useful (I don't blame you, they're mainly for clean up after men do terrible things) - you don't want to involve your brother (I can understand why) - 1) do you live in the US? If you do, how do you feel about guns? Are you willing to buy one and learn how to use it properly? Would you be capable of using it if necessary? - 2) do you have extended family located somewhere else? Could you use vacation time at your current job while you go stay with them while interviewing for a job in that farther away area? - 3) have you asked if HR would facilitate a sit down with the two of you, and many others present, so that you can tell him in a safe place that he's not the right fit for you, you're not interested in getting to know him better, and he's wasting his time and energy on you? I know these are really uncomfortable options, but they're all I can come up with. I've dealt with stalkers, but none as persistent as this guy. I'm sorry that he's inserted himself into your life, whether you like it or not. I think your perception of the danger is accurate, and I hope something works out for you to get free of him. I read The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker, and took an IMPACT self defense course.
Ladies, be clear and straightforward with your NO. I dont care if you hate confrontation, boys do not understand hints. Say NO, THANK YOU and be polite, smile.
I hate the "I'm not confrontational...I made hints" stuff. - No, thank you. No. Oh, Hell no. F Off.- All complete and clear sentences and appropriate at different times.
But remember, even a polite and direct, "No thank you" can be replied to with, Why are you so cold? Just get to know me better... bla bla bla And if men are super subtle, there's not even an opportunity to say "no thank you", because they haven't even asked you anything.
Wish you wouldn’t think we are all the same 😂Body language will be enough for me it’s not rocket science just the “men” you come across don’t want the no just like there’s women out there that don’t understand the word no and only hear yes. I’m sorry you have had these experiences, people suck!
I think we, globally, need to deal with stalkers in a totally different way than we already do, because nothing seems to be all that effective until the person being stalked moves or gets a dog/gun, the stalker attacked them, and they used self defense from which the stalker died. I think, anyone who steals someone should be put in an insane asylum literally until they no longer care about the person. The whole time, they are to talk to psychologists and if necessary, given medication. I'm considered “boy-crazy” and I wouldn't _dream_ of talking a crush even 1/16th as far. And the guy from this story, although would absolutely scare the hell out of me, is mild compared to some (the story still belongs on this video, what you're going through is *NOT* ok). I've heard stories where women have been severely injured and even killed from this insanely manipulative and absolutely disgusting behaviour and it really really needs to stop. It's sad enough that we only recently had *any* protection from stalkers but seriously, it's not enough. People shouldn't be able to get away with it. P.E.R.I.O.D
To the last story file a police report, get a gun, get alarm system can be cheap kind that you put on doors and windows to make loud alarm sounds when they’re opened, be willing to use self defense if he comes in your home, security camera, ring doorbell, wifi connected camera in main area/bedroom you can turn on when you leave and off when your home if you don’t like them being on constantly
Last story, im so sorry u are going through that. Quotting your job won't help. Unfortunately having your brother or friend warn him may be what needs to happen.
Stalker victim: you need to disappear!!!! Sorry you really must! You need to start find a job in the other side of the country and move literaly overnight. Tell nobody! And shut down all social media.
As a Catholic, hearing a priest call another priest "Father Spineless" is amazing lmaoooo But I'm also kinda surprised a priest doesn't believe that it's possible for angels to talk to other priests...?
Apologies for the removal yesterday. Video got mistakenly auto flagged. Which would’ve greatly stifled its reach. Removed those few seconds and reuploaded today. Thanks for listening and same schedule release this Thursday!
Thank you for your dedication. 😊👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
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Flagged why? I didn’t hear the entire video, but I think I was half way through and 🤷♀️ nothing seemed wrong…
UA-cam is so weird and dumb sometimes. 😒
For the nooses? They were menacing lol
That dude in the first story is a real human being. Understood his past and wrong doings and when it came to SHTF he saved someone who wasnt involved life
Whoever wrote story one is top notch. And the reading was just as good
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The author of story one is a jerk
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I agree I very much liked it
For the stalker victim, documentation is key. Document everything, get a ring camera, outside motion sensor lights, dash camera. The goal is enough for a restraining order then when that doesn't stop him jail time. From jail its time to move
Until then Report all to HR, no leaving work by yourself. Texting a friend when you get home. Security system. Read up on your countries stalking laws and what you can do and need. Set everything to private, Instagram, fb, twitter. Unless its a person you know is them, no new friend requests.
Stay safe.
Certain cameras have alarms that sound like police sirens
I don’t usually comment on these videos because I usually use them to fell asleep.
But OP in the last story needs to go to the police whether they believe in the justice system or not. Documentation is crucial, and you don’t need permission from HR or place of employment to go to police.
HR is not your friend. They are there to protect company interests and mitigate lawsuits. Remember this.
I have worked for my fair share of companies, and at least in my experience, they usually protect the aggressor.
Documentation is important to get a restraining order, and eventual jail time when that restraining order is violated. It goes without saying that restraining orders don’t work with crazy.
When people show us who they are, believe them. He texted you proof of stalking. I would have called the police then. Screenshot and document. Even if you don’t block or reply back to the stalker, it’s important to keep that line open so you can document the evidence.
And should the worst happen, your loved ones will have the evidence they need to sue the stalker for wrongful death if it comes to that. The burden of proof is less in civil court, and the testimony in a civil case can be used in a criminal one.
I sincerely hope it doesn’t come to that. If you live in a one party consent state, keep your voice memo app open or use a separate device to record your work days.
Stay safe, OP!
Edited to fix typos.
I also want to add to this. Do not engage with the stalker. It has been said that if you pick up your phone after 1000 calls, it only teaches the stalker that they have to call you 1000 times to get you to pick up.
I cannot stress enough, do not engage. If he tries to talk to you, all you have to say is "I have nothing to say to you. Leave me alone." Repeat. Call the police or security if he won't back down.
The case of Rebecca Schaeffer is one that we should always remember because that case is the one responsible for bringing in the modern stalking laws that we know today.
As a final note, BOZE VS THE WORLD said many times in her stalker commentaries that we should never ever refer to a stalker as "my stalker" because it personalizes it. If you openly talk about it on social media, the stalker can get a sick joy out of being part of your life even if it is being presented in a negative light. It is important to refer to a stalker as "the stalker" in order to put as much distance as you can between you and them.
Yeah seriously, go to the police last story OP. You said you're willing to try anything, be willing to try an avenue even if you don't think it will work.
Your stalker sounds extremely dangerous. Hi reaction to your blocking his calls is very telling. If that enraged him, imagine how he would react to a restraining order. Restraining orders only work to the extent that the subject feels bound to adhere to them. Your stalker’s actions suggest he would not feel so bound, and that it may only escalate his behavior. You should talk to someone knowledgeable in these matters as soon as possible. Also, Gavin DeBecker’s book “The Gift of Fear” provides insights on dealing with these types.
The story about Father Michael needs to be made into a movie. It's so intriguing and compelling but also heartbreaking and terrifying. I love it.
agreed
He was not a martyr. He committed suicide
The Bible says that the devil transforms himself into an angel of light to deceive you
yeah
100% agree!
My Mom knew her time was coming. She got everything in order. She had her will fixed. She had a burial policy. She signed over her house to my brother. Her land to me. My sis got money. It was all ready to be given to us as soon as she was gone. About 6 months later she passed. She told me she had been seeing Dad. Dreaming of him almost every night.
She fell in her kitchen, went to the hospital and was gone the next day-On my birthday. 😢
She knew!!?? 🙏❤️😢
Im sorry for your loss my friend. I hope she is at peace with your father.
I was so lost last night😂 fell asleep to this and then woke up to video unavailable over it.
Thanks for the re upload !
Good It's not just me then.
For the final story, guys like that see avoiding conflict as weakness, and it's clear he was never going to gracefully accept "no" for an answer. All that's left is the nuclear option: tell everyone. The police, HR, friends, family, co-workers. He wants to isolate and bully her, gathering people around her is her best defense. Even if the police can't or won't do anything, showing that she won't meekly tolerate his behavior and that she is willing to escalate is a step in the right direction. He will not stop on his own, he needs to be given a reason to stop.
Yes! Don't forget the neighbours! No one can help you if they don't know. Tell everyone!
Hope she reads the comments here. And honestly I don't think it's a good idea for her to quit her job. She already built relationships with those people, she's gonna have a tougher time starting over elsewhere. And those people can help her out, as well as technically they're liable to keep him from harassing her so they're the ones who should fire him.
Yeah the problem is that for whatever reason she doesn't want to do the things that are obviously the correct things to do. Tell the police, right? That's the obvious thing to do isn't it? Nope, won't do that cuz the police are just no good... Tell her male family members and friends? Nope, don't wanna start any trouble.. I mean, come on. The notion that police won't help you is so far from the truth. People just don't want to follow the law in these situations. The police can't just listen to your story and go arrest a guy. They need documentation. Start documenting everything RIGHT NOW! Report him to the police TODAY. Get a doorbell camera that saves video or at least one that can archive photos. Tell your family and your friends and your neighbors who the guy is and what car he drives. Tell your coworkers. Tell your boss. Get pepper spray for your purse. Get a big dog and a gun for the house... I just don't understand the reluctance by so many women to alert the police about this stuff.
@@slicedbread5692 Exactly, with documentation, it prompts police to do something when they can. She has the text and picture about the car situation. That is helpful. She has the HR situation already. So much going in her favor UNLESS he was police (which he isn't) then all of this will be helpful. If he isn't at the level of doing something to her physically then when he sees all of the commotion she can stir up then he would stop. If he is at the level of hurting her, then this will help also.
@@thesunshineisgrae6987 exactly. I always hear people say stuff like, "I told the police this guy stalked me and they did nothing!" Like they expect the police to just listen to her story with zero documentation and go lock the guy up in jail. That's not how it works. Document everything. Make him see that you're more trouble than it's worth for him to harass you.
Been listening for about 8 or 9 years now and your story telling has gotten better and better. Thank you for helping me fall asleep (in a good way) for almost a decade ❤❤
I really enjoyed the story about Father Michael. It has multiple disturbing layers. The others were good too.
I listen every morning.
I don’t listen to go to sleep.
I want to hear every word and not miss anything.
Plus some of the stories might give me nightmares. 😱
Or ideas....😂. Jk
I listen before going to sleep, fall asleep within 10 mins so need to play again while I'm working lol
Bro I was so confused yesterday 😂 got a notification you uploaded while I was sleeping, put the video on "watch later" when I first woke up like 4hrs later and went to sleep again. When I woke up again couple of hours later: no video 😂😂
Same 😂
I was in the middle of the first story when he took it down, I was so confused 😭
I was already listening to the video , and it stopped and said video no longer exists
Ok, cool. So it wasn’t just me 😅
Same! The gaslighting 🤣
I love the Parker story. You never know what people are actually like until they really show you.
I loved the priest’s story. Sad for sure but so well written and held my attention.
I thought it was very intense and beautiful. He absolutely received a sign from God himself. He knew it was coming. ❤️🙏❤️
I have been sooo sick and unable to sleep. Put this on and fell asleep at the first story. LOVE YOU LETS READ
I sincerely hope you feel better super soon and you can get some restful sleep!
@ thank you so much!
The way that Father Michael seamlessly transforms into Father Thomas is positively creepy.
I just left a toxic work situation at a law office so this is fitting! Thanks, Joel! 😂❤
Props to you for having the self respect to remove yourself from a toxic environment! All the best
I can’t imagine a law office not being a toxic workplace.
@@mikebond6328 Every single one I've worked at was awful. I'm back in school, studying a different field.
@@JacobASmith59 Thank you because this is the second time I've dealt with abusive attorneys as my employers and I'm regretting my choices regarding college majors. It's really difficult when you're doing your best with what you have and someone who should be mentoring you and working WITH you verbally abuses you on a daily basis. No amount of money is worth your self-esteem and sanity.
@@maevependragoncurrently experiencing this and it’s so sad. I’m trying so hard to win this persons good graces but it seems any and everything I do angers them and it’s only been getting worse and worse.
Thank you Mr let's read, I was having a bit of a hard day and listening to you is always so relaxing. You are a huge blessing thank you.
I hope the next day was better for you!
Omg, I was laying in bed listening to this last night, I was in the middle of the first story, I was all invested...and it just stopped all of a sudden. Lol.
Stalker story: People, stop being so nice all the time. Be direct. You don't have to be nasty, but be clear. Most people do not pick up on "hints." Change your number, keep your media private, don't engage, tell as many people as you can (who you can trust) about the problem, document everything and keep the evidence somewhere safe. Get a big dog, carry whatever weapons you are allowed to carry, take security measures on your home and vehicle. Go to law enforcement. Papers don't protect people, but they provide a pathway to helping put monsters away when they escalate. Stop personalizing the stalker; they aren't "yours" and you don't want them to feel like they are. If a stalker isn't stalking you, he/she will stalk someone else. Be alert and aware of your surroundings...no playing on your phone, stuffing your ears with ear buds, and don't linger about in your car. Ask for an escort to your car. Most places are cool and will have your back if you speak up. Protecting yourself isn't being "confrontational"; screaming at a someone for some perceived slight is.
My niece was murdered by someone else's stalker. Campus security prevented him from killing his ex-girlfriend; however, my niece, unfortunately looked like her... so he killed my niece, instead.
Had the stalking laws been enforced, he would have been in jail, and therefore, unable to kill my niece.
My sister and the intended victim are in contact and work to strengthen stalking laws.
Stalking is a serious crime. Hopefully, it will soon be treated seriously.
48 Hours made an episode about her case. It's called Who Murdered Jackie Vandagriff?
How awfully tragic for everyone involved including you and of course your sister. That your sister and the stalking survivor are working together says a lot about both of them, their resilience, emotional intelligence and character. Not everyone would be able to put aside their misplaced guilt (survivor) or anger (sister) but both are, and they are doing it to help others. Maybe it helps them process the ordeal.
I have only one neice (no nephews or children of my own). She is 18 and in her first college semester. It was a great time of life for me and is for most young adults. I'm not a worrywart but there are far more mental health problems amongst youth and threats now that we didn't face like drugged drinks, stalkers and human trafficking (we're in a border state and its a huge problem).
It's such a fine line, prepareing young people for the dangers of the world butnot wanting to cripple them with fear and anxiety about it. . She's a very smart girl, good head on her shoulders and has common sense, but she's been fortunate to grow up safe and protected. No real experience recognizing dicey situations or sketchy people. I pray for her safety. I want her to have fun and meet people but just a handful of years ago, a woman I went to school with from elementary through high school lost her daughter at college in a nightmare situation. The daughter and her boyfriend got into a fight and he killed her in a fit of rage. It hadn't been a violent relationship up to then as far as anyone knew, he just snapped. There were probably signs that an older women would notice but a young girl hadn't developed the skills to recognize yet. Nor was he old enough to have established problematic patterns of relationship behavior. (I had multiple conversations with my niece in recent years telling her if she ever feels uneasy to leave the situation even if there is no logical reason or she can't put her finger on why. There will be plenty of time to figure that out later.)
Your niece's story sounds like it could be a similar situation, a crime that has become far too common but which happens fast and if there were any signs of danger at all, they would have been too subtle for a young woman to recognize. I'm so sorry you and your sister and my childhood schoolmate have all had to endure such terrible losses. Hopefully in addition to strengthening the laws, the medical/psychiatric field will develop better ways to improve the mental health and coping skills of young men so there are far fewer ruined lives (including theirs) due to momentary actions that cause so much pain and regret.
@leslie6938 Thank you for your kind and wise words.
I'm glad it not just me lol thought I was tweaking when I saw the vid and then it was gone.
Always happy to see Let's Read upload
Why am I picturing the priest in that story as the vampire priest guy from midnight mass lmao
Finally came around to listening to this and when he said 'angel' my first thought was "uh-oh, I saw how THAT ended in Midnight Mass!"
I had a stalker. I started stalking him right back and acted obsessed with him. He left me alone
Goodie it's re-uploaded. Thank you. I need these for sleep 🫶🏾
Religious story ends at 51:37
Yeah that went on for ages
Thank you. I was getting bored.
Religious people always yapping
Ugh thank you. That was grating.
Awe you poor thing 😢
Perfect timing as usual Joel!!
Thank you for the re-upload. Have a good night Joel
I love the longer stories
No way!!! Gloucestershire made it
A great big bushy beard
Much love
Thanks Joel ❤
Just going to bed uploaded 1 min ago SENSATIONAL
First story - how did Parker pass the job’s weapons screening if he gave false info? That’s DOJ/FBI level background check, with fingerprints.
a lot of jobs don’t actually care to do the background checks, and in some states they don’t have to. -hr professional
I love these stories! So real! So Chilling!
Love Let's Read he's the homie thanks for all the dope narrations!! We love you G 💯💯👊
“Ecumenical matter” just made me think about Father Ted 😂
Lol I'm so glad I wasn't the only one thinking that 😂😂
The Father Michael story was fascinating! Unfortunately another church cover up that could’ve saved a Priest this time. These Arch Bishops are not learning!
How Father Michael knew about the meteorite would be easy as they are predictable. If he planned on attacking the other other priest with a knife in front of the police, that’s a sure fire way to secure your own death. He was lucky or unlucky the police used a taser instead of their other weapons, which I’m sure he planned on. The taser ended up doing the job in his case. He certainly wasn’t a martyr. Martyrs don’t have evil intentions or in his case he wasn’t of sound mind.
Reuploaded due to Age restriction.
Thanks for letting everyone know! Now if only they read your comment prior to posting their own!
Joel should pin this!
The intro is so Erie to me, it reminds me of summer when I would ride my bike at 4am listening to these stories
As a nurse I can say, many people know when they are "going home," as some put it.
Ready for bed and Ur stories. Thanx for the upload 😁. Goodnight 💤 everyone. Hope you all have a good night or day. Love from South Australia 🦘🦘🦘.😊
It’s 3:33am in the uk, can’t sleep as usual and so I’m looking for something to lull me to sleep and I find a brand new video from you Joel! Perfect timing, thank you. Love your content ❤
nice work joel.
The suspense and eerie atmosphere you created were absolutely chilling
last story op: please tell your brother. stress to him that you don’t want him to do anything that will put your brother in jail because you need him around for protection in the future, but that you just need his help to scare this guy off a little. it seems like to me this stalker may be the kind of guy who will only take threat seriously from other men.
SAINT AGNES WAS MENTIONED! MY DAY HAS BEEN MADE.
She is my Patron Saint. I absolutely love her. Her story is so interesting. Many more were martyred the day she was. Her bravery and love for Christ caued others to say they too were Christians. And others announcing that they wanted to be a Christian too.
Poor Father Michael. That is just rough. :(
Thank u Father for sharing your story. I will keep u in my prayers.
Also. For those who don't know. The Church does investigations to see if sightings r hallucinations, completely made up, actually from Heaven, or a trick of the Devil.
i was thinking that the “angel” Father Mike saw was actually a demon.
@babiekatieee I didn't finish the story this morning. But from what I did hear, I agree with u
he would be Church of England, also not martyred over faith
@@moocowtoyou he said he is a Catholic priest. There r Catholics I'm England
For the girl who's being stalked, i might've missed where you're from but if you are in the usa get ypur CPL license. Even if youre uncomfortable with firearms once you have it you can take classes to carry a tazor. Not a stun gun an actual tazorwhich i better because you can fire it at a distance. Document everything even if it seems petty and make police reports even if you dont want to.3rd party involvement is key. And unfortunately switch jobs. Limit his access to seeing you.Good luck. Remember you are your first line of defense. Cops are minutes away when seconds count.
Please do more paranormal and cryptid stories! I love those kinds of stories but I can’t do most other UA-camrs’ voices, and I’ve already watched all your other paranormal and cryptid vids 😅
Same! I play his old paranormal videos basically every night and just listen to the repeats 😢
I’ve been hooked on skinwalker/mimic stories since the last skinwalker story Joel read. Scared the 💩 out of me. These stories on other channels can be so unrealistic that all you can do is roll your eyes 😅
My days have felt they blended together this past week. So I thought I got my days mixed up. But at the same time every thing else I listen to on Monday uploaded. But after seeing the comments there was more to it then my days blended lol. Thanks for reuploading
Hey Joel. Just wanna say thank you for all of your hard work in making these awesome stories. We really appreciate you bro. Much love from Michigan!
You pronounced Gloucestershire absolutely perfect! Every shire is similar with the shuh sound.
ZERO ( 0 ) complaints!!! 🎉 Thnx
To that lady who's being stalked, I'm going to tell you to quit being evasive, be direct, and tell him you don't want him, make sure there are people around when you tell him, be really direct, not mean just firm, use the school mom tone, don't give excuses like oh I'm just not in a place for a relationship, just say you're not interested and you wish to be left alone. Stand up for yourself! men do not like that, a lot of bullies will back down. And if he doesn't if you're in a busy place, then you'll have witnesses and then the cops can do something. Good luck, also purchase pepper spray, and go get some self-defense classes because chances are this is not the only one you're ever going to have to deal with if you're good looking.
The video got deleted while I was listening and I was beyond confused for like 10 minutes. I checked on my phone and computer and thought I was going nuts
Story 1 was crazy!!
Thank you for these stories.
I listen to you and your voice calms me. 😀
For the girl, I think learn some self defence. It will help kept your confidence and intimate him. I'm sorry this is happening to you. Sending love ❤😰
Thank you for this.. I thought I just missed out on one yesterday lol this notification was much welcomed.
Great vid Joel, the last story freaks me out so much. I really hope that op will be okay.
I thought I was losing my mind. I was like I know it’s Monday and I got a notification lol thanks for the reupload brother.
Old Russian guys - fyodor Dostoevsky
For the last story: read The Gift of Fear
Overwritten and not scary, miss the old days let’s read! UA-cam narration ain’t what it used to be be! Peace!
For that last story, with the stalker, you definitely need to file paperwork with the courts. Whether you have faith in the police or not, you need that legal documentation. You need the paper trail. You also need to keep a journal of everything that goes on screenshots ring doorbell camera. Everything needs to be documented.
To the person with the stalker:
In the future, just be kindly blunt and don't drop hints. But for now.... I've had 2 stalkers in my life and have had to move in each case. The second time I really tried to be defiant and tried to wait it out, because having to move because of some crazy person and incompetent police really isn't fair.. but in the end, I moved for the sake of my peace of mind. If no one else will protect you, you have to protect yourself (and your sanity).
The last story. It's best to document everything that happens. Also, as you may not trust the police it is best that they know and have it documented as well. Inform your place of work and HR. If it gets him fired, that's his fault for being unable to understand the meaning of the word No means no. Buy pepper spray for your Keychain. So if you see him by your car at night, you have something he won't see. Also set up your home with stuff you can use incase he tries to break in. Keep your doors and windows locked. I really hope nothing bad happens, but I really hope you update us on what happens. It's best to know you're safe. Be strong op you can get through this.
Great stories!!
Whoop 🙌 I’m rearing to go!! Thank you Sir LetsRead for your continuous dedication to uploading great content and incredibly amazing narration!! Your hard work is genuinely appreciated👍🏻🇦🇺
Definitely relistisened. Stories were, oh wow. Girl at the end needed to step it from the beginning and not have lied. Made him mad 😠. Thank you Joel ❤
Men like this will be mad and angry about not getting their way, no matter how it's presented to them. There's no "correct" way she could have avoided this situation.
@@spiralali Absolutely right. She did NOT "make him mad." His inappropriate, dangerous behavior is not HER fault. It is his.
That said, she must deal with the situation. It is her responsibility to do everything she can to keep herself safe, including getting law enforcement involved. Life is not fair.
Just in time for my insomnia 😊
Haha, thank you! I was so confused when i went to listen this morning to go to bed.....i knew i saw it uploaded ...then gone!
Wow that first story makes my job seem like a drag🤣🤣🤣
3:55 man I love a good local story go birds 🦅
Listening to horror podcast after work is the best 😱
Hey Pennsylvania my state I'm wondering if first story was in Pittsburgh or what part of Pennsylvania that happened in? That story was a good one
It is not fair that the quiet ones is being looking down on. Been shy all my life.😔
You are correct. Life is not fair!
@leslie6938 Tell me something that I don't already know. 🤭
Story number 3, she's terrified of her stalker and is desperate for help. She believes if she goes to the police they won't do anything. But why not try? She has absolutely nothing to lose by going to the police. And there is a chance that they may be able to do something. And why doesn't she go get an order of protection?
For the person that has there coworker stalking them. Record and keep texts and calls. Give to cops, even the smallest thing so there's a record. As well as he get him canned. Move change # switch jobs.
I know that they won't see my comment but I have lived this, still do.
I decided not to move due to rent costs being so high. So some times I will still get that large object tossed at my window (nearly breaking it). When ever my stalker is going through something
But my peace bond was long enough to get him less obsessed as well
The little things on record save your life tho.
Thanks let's read that one hit home but no matter how the write had the impression it was not scary.
It was terrifying for those that have lived it
Great Stories!!👍👍
Ideas for the woman in the last story:
- you don't trust the law to be useful (I don't blame you, they're mainly for clean up after men do terrible things)
- you don't want to involve your brother (I can understand why)
- 1) do you live in the US? If you do, how do you feel about guns? Are you willing to buy one and learn how to use it properly? Would you be capable of using it if necessary?
- 2) do you have extended family located somewhere else? Could you use vacation time at your current job while you go stay with them while interviewing for a job in that farther away area?
- 3) have you asked if HR would facilitate a sit down with the two of you, and many others present, so that you can tell him in a safe place that he's not the right fit for you, you're not interested in getting to know him better, and he's wasting his time and energy on you?
I know these are really uncomfortable options, but they're all I can come up with.
I've dealt with stalkers, but none as persistent as this guy. I'm sorry that he's inserted himself into your life, whether you like it or not. I think your perception of the danger is accurate, and I hope something works out for you to get free of him.
I read The Gift of Fear by Gavin de Becker, and took an IMPACT self defense course.
5:49 only thing comes to mind is Tolstoy. Evil lying dictator? 🍊💩?
Great video my guy
Let’s go 😭 Was listening to it with my gf last night and it got removed mid upload
I just accepted a second job today. Very fitting 👌
Good night everyone
Ladies, be clear and straightforward with your NO. I dont care if you hate confrontation, boys do not understand hints. Say NO, THANK YOU and be polite, smile.
I hate the "I'm not confrontational...I made hints" stuff. - No, thank you. No. Oh, Hell no. F Off.- All complete and clear sentences and appropriate at different times.
But remember, even a polite and direct, "No thank you" can be replied to with, Why are you so cold? Just get to know me better... bla bla bla
And if men are super subtle, there's not even an opportunity to say "no thank you", because they haven't even asked you anything.
Wish you wouldn’t think we are all the same 😂Body language will be enough for me it’s not rocket science just the “men” you come across don’t want the no just like there’s women out there that don’t understand the word no and only hear yes. I’m sorry you have had these experiences, people suck!
@spiralali Wait if they are being super subtle how are they a threat? Do you mean stalkers or just in general?😅.
@@spiralaliim asking out of genuine curiosity btw I've been super subtlety awkward around women i don't want them to think I'm a creepy stalker😅
I think we, globally, need to deal with stalkers in a totally different way than we already do, because nothing seems to be all that effective until the person being stalked moves or gets a dog/gun, the stalker attacked them, and they used self defense from which the stalker died.
I think, anyone who steals someone should be put in an insane asylum literally until they no longer care about the person. The whole time, they are to talk to psychologists and if necessary, given medication. I'm considered “boy-crazy” and I wouldn't _dream_ of talking a crush even 1/16th as far. And the guy from this story, although would absolutely scare the hell out of me, is mild compared to some (the story still belongs on this video, what you're going through is *NOT* ok). I've heard stories where women have been severely injured and even killed from this insanely manipulative and absolutely disgusting behaviour and it really really needs to stop. It's sad enough that we only recently had *any* protection from stalkers but seriously, it's not enough. People shouldn't be able to get away with it. P.E.R.I.O.D
I love the thumbnail. Creative topic to read on. I'd be interested in more of this creepy coworker bit. Ty Joel. 🌹🏆💚
To the last story file a police report, get a gun, get alarm system can be cheap kind that you put on doors and windows to make loud alarm sounds when they’re opened, be willing to use self defense if he comes in your home, security camera, ring doorbell, wifi connected camera in main area/bedroom you can turn on when you leave and off when your home if you don’t like them being on constantly
Yay, it went out well I was listening on the way home from work.
Last story, im so sorry u are going through that. Quotting your job won't help. Unfortunately having your brother or friend warn him may be what needs to happen.
Nice touch at the end ❤
i didn't get it?
Stalker victim: you need to disappear!!!! Sorry you really must! You need to start find a job in the other side of the country and move literaly overnight. Tell nobody! And shut down all social media.
I thought I was trippin.. I fell asleep listening to this and then when I woke up to finish it it was gone.. lol
Wait isn’t the first story basically The Equalizer?
As a Catholic, hearing a priest call another priest "Father Spineless" is amazing lmaoooo
But I'm also kinda surprised a priest doesn't believe that it's possible for angels to talk to other priests...?
Welp back to back nights falling asleep to this!
Can't imagine the horror of being stalked. And by the guy who could easily overpower you on top of that.