Harsh Moments That Chipped Away & Changed Me

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  • @MaiconSantos-gl7uz
    @MaiconSantos-gl7uz День тому +47

    I'm tired of being a loser and rejected man; it's not fair. I've never done harm to anyone, even though I've made some mistakes in life like every human does, but other than that, I've never done any evil to anyone. It's not fair that this is our destiny.

    • @AntiChrist666-k8c
      @AntiChrist666-k8c День тому +7

      life isnt fair

    • @zay5449
      @zay5449 День тому +8

      It's a brutal world I hope it helps knowing your not alone in feeling that way.

    • @leisureclubaestheticambien8376
      @leisureclubaestheticambien8376 День тому +3

      Jesus won’t reject you because he is familiar with this - he was hated by people
      Isaiah 53 1
      He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows, and familiar with suffering. Like one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and we esteemed him not. Surely he took up our infirmities and carried our sorrows, yet we considered him stricken by God, smitten by him, and afflicted.

    • @Big-guy1981
      @Big-guy1981 День тому +1

      Women are unattracted to 80% of men. Without money to make the cut, this is our destiny.

    • @imageword5576
      @imageword5576 18 годин тому +2

      Nothing is really fair in the sense that we like to think of it. We're mostly just animals, but with more complex symbolic thought process capabilities. Therefore most of the rules from the animal kingdom apply to us as well, which includes how the pecking order works. If you don't want to be seen as a loser, you have to demonstrate your superiority, which for humans can be done not just by genetically gifted looks or height, but also by showing that your symbolic thought processes are better than most other people's. That means whatever work you need to do on yourself to improve, needs to be done.

  • @AccomplishedChadLite
    @AccomplishedChadLite День тому +10

    I remember getting off the school bus for the last time on the last day of highschool and thinking, wow its all going to be better now.
    Nope, adulthood is just high school except you pay taxes.

  • @baker8674
    @baker8674 День тому +30

    Once puberty hits....beauty, status, height...we become VERY self aware of these elements...and those who have it have...those who dont start falling apart

    • @zay5449
      @zay5449 День тому +7

      Went from being the fastest to running by myself

    • @Brandanmayhew
      @Brandanmayhew 21 годину тому

      Cringe having females as your pfp. Biggest cope

    • @AidenDinkelman
      @AidenDinkelman 14 годин тому +1

      So real I always wondered if I was ugly and it hit me one day at 16

  • @SpaceCaptainJ
    @SpaceCaptainJ День тому +22

    Girls decide if they like within first 3 milliseconds. No point in trying to change

    • @Rocketdrink27
      @Rocketdrink27 День тому

      13 milliseconds

    • @Brandanmayhew
      @Brandanmayhew 21 годину тому

      That's cope. Whoever thought of that ridiculous 13 milliseconds nonsense is full of it. Maybe 3-5 seconds for some men but for obvious sub5 ugly men, obviously less than 1 or 2 seconds. 13 milliseconds seconds is such a pricse and laughable number. And how would they come up with that number? 😂 there is no test that can determine how long it takes, when it varies per person. You people believe anything these ridiculous scientists say😂 13 milliseconds l0l

    • @Brandanmayhew
      @Brandanmayhew 21 годину тому

      That's cap

    • @imageword5576
      @imageword5576 18 годин тому

      even if that is true, you can change things about yourself so that they start to decide that they DO like you in 3 milliseconds.

    • @Baresark
      @Baresark 13 годин тому +1

      Lost count of how many I'd approach at parties. You can see the light die in their eyes. Almost everyone I know has someone and they are all miserable, don't believe the Disney crap.

  • @zay5449
    @zay5449 День тому +8

    Love your videos bro hope you always make them. They help me to not feel so alone in this cold depressing reality.

    • @Tejana
      @Tejana  День тому +3

      Got you, Chief!

  • @KeithJones-mt6rb
    @KeithJones-mt6rb День тому +4

    Everywhere i go nobody wants nothing to do with me treated like a monster man not view as normal

  • @thegoodolddays9193
    @thegoodolddays9193 День тому +3

    Hope you can stay strong. Society might not treat you very well, but you're clearly a deep thinker and I think the world needs more people willing to talk about these issues. You're doing good work with these videos.

  • @wedoalittletrolling-im4ti
    @wedoalittletrolling-im4ti День тому +14

    6:53 Bro in high school I was the biggest simp there was this girl I was crushing on hard and at all of our classes I would be sure to hold the door open (just for her) even if it wasn’t even my class
    I just made a 🤡 of myself big time
    Laugh at me all you want now, I’ve accepted it 😂😂

    • @clearlister
      @clearlister 22 години тому +1

      When I was 15, I cried on the phone because she didn’t pick me. I still get organ failures thinking back about that.

    • @boyo-cp9xe
      @boyo-cp9xe 20 годин тому

      Same ​@@clearlister

  • @mycontentzone396
    @mycontentzone396 День тому +3

    I’ve had some terrible shit happen to me and I think about them everyday.

  • @Sisyphus..
    @Sisyphus.. День тому +5

    Mogged by a 1000 chads

  • @JustSittingThere-l7p
    @JustSittingThere-l7p День тому +18

    at least ur not still in LA choking on the smoke

  • @superturret
    @superturret 23 години тому

    reminds me of when i had to get my mandatory speech credit in high school. brutal stuff.

  • @AntiChrist666-k8c
    @AntiChrist666-k8c День тому +13

    A lot of pain in this community comes from not accepting their place in the totem pole.

    • @KairoGomes-r8m
      @KairoGomes-r8m День тому +16

      How someone could acept this shit?

    • @AntiChrist666-k8c
      @AntiChrist666-k8c День тому

      @@KairoGomes-r8m What other option you have ? Lying to yourself doesnt help man. I know it all too well.

    • @YES-lx3py
      @YES-lx3py День тому +3

      I accept my place but I still feel like shit. I feel way better rn than I used to feel for years. I jus go on with life. I don't want to kms. I will cope till the end

    • @TheDestroyer777
      @TheDestroyer777 23 години тому

      ​@@KairoGomes-r8mIts life! Existence and nonexistence have their good and bad! For me, if you re not getting the good parts of existence why not get the good parts of nonexistence? Am I right?

    • @Gaizaz
      @Gaizaz 17 годин тому

      @@YES-lx3py you look decent tbh man

  • @grilledlettuce4028
    @grilledlettuce4028 17 годин тому

    10:25 😢 ouchies

  • @nopemcgee2831
    @nopemcgee2831 7 годин тому

    The dog comparison doesn't work. Women will waste their whole day trying to save a street dog.
    We're lower than street dogs.

  • @JustRed916
    @JustRed916 День тому +2

    Life feels like a permanent ranked session on cod for sub 6 low status guys.
    Especially if ur not neurotypical holy

  • @leisureclubaestheticambien8376
    @leisureclubaestheticambien8376 День тому +2

    Isaiah 53 1
    He was despised and rejected by men, a man of sorrows, and familiar with suffering. Like one from whom men hide their faces he was despised, and we esteemed him not. Surely he took up our infirmities and carried our sorrows, yet we considered him stricken by God, smitten by him, and afflicted.

  • @adlermann96
    @adlermann96 21 годину тому

    Life is BROOTAL

  • @SavageEd1
    @SavageEd1 18 годин тому

    You're not the dog that gets to eat kibble

  • @kingdon7795
    @kingdon7795 21 годину тому +1

    Man if someone is rejected and hated by people for silly reasons or no reason at all then either they're an angel or a demon but nonetheless something special in a human body. Or it can be possible that most people around us are demons in human skin or else why would they be mean for no reason. I'm saying this as someone who faced same experiences like you.

  • @demolitor2359
    @demolitor2359 22 години тому +3

    Lower your standards and find an average to below average women who is your looks match.

    • @MaiconSantos-gl7uz
      @MaiconSantos-gl7uz 18 годин тому +5

      Cope

    • @imageword5576
      @imageword5576 17 годин тому +1

      @@MaiconSantos-gl7uz The real cope is thinking that you deserve a woman who is of higher value in the mating-marketplace than yourself, in the first place. Recognizing your own value (which for us is our ability or potential ability to produce value and to protect it) and then appropriately matching it with a woman of equal value (which for them is mostly their looks/age), is actually getting rid of the cope and living in a more realistic perspective.

    • @Failed_Chadlyte
      @Failed_Chadlyte 10 годин тому

      Ugly women don’t want ugly men.
      Chad gets hot women.
      Chadlite gets average/below average women.
      Average men go dumpster diving.
      Sub5 have their hand.

    • @Failed_Chadlyte
      @Failed_Chadlyte 8 годин тому

      @@MaiconSantos-gl7uz
      Ugly wom3n don’t want ugly m3n.
      Ch4d = wom3n 7 and up
      Chadlyte = 4 - 6
      Average guy = 3 - 1 (dumpster diving)
      S4b 5 = right hand

    • @tadghostal8769
      @tadghostal8769 2 години тому

      *JUST SHOWER MOAR BRUUHHH*

  • @bob2k375
    @bob2k375 21 годину тому

    8:57 😂😂😂

  • @Failed_Chadlyte
    @Failed_Chadlyte 8 годин тому

    I’m 6’3 and white. After almost 7 months I’m close to ascending to Chadlyte status. But then what?
    I’m 23 and still a vrgin. I missed out on my youth completely. Im already tired of life. The days have lost their meaning.
    The only 2 things keeping me alive are
    1)ascending so I can get a lot of wom3n
    2)I can’t end mys3lf, I tried 7 months ago but couldn’t pull the tr1gg3r.

  • @JamesGallagher2273
    @JamesGallagher2273 День тому +1

    You guys seriously over value women.

    • @thegoodolddays9193
      @thegoodolddays9193 День тому +7

      I think their issues with women are just the most obvious symptom of a bigger issue. Society as a whole has abandoned men like this and it's sad. Lack of success in the romance department is just one of the more painful ways to be rejected so it gets a lot of attention.
      If you listen to them, a lot of this is more about feeling like you have no future, having no strong community around them, no support structure and realizing that when they grow old, they will most likely be alone. That's painful for anyone to accept.
      I will say that, even if these guys find the right woman for them, they're going to find that many of their other issues are still there. It's not a magic bullet that will turn everything around.
      I keep these people in my prayers. Most of them are fundamentally good people, just carrying a lot of pain from rejection and anxiety about the future.

    • @TheDestroyer777
      @TheDestroyer777 23 години тому +1

      ​@@thegoodolddays9193Its not even that! I dont think its about community, being alone I personally think almost all problems come from having no good money, no resources, not being able to afford health, good food, education and so and so forth! Money bleeds into everything and Im not talking about money only for yourself, Im talking about money for everyone else! Its Maslow s hierarchy! You re not going to be a good person,care for higher values,virtues etc when you’re struggling to survive when others you care about have problems and struggle to survive. Its money, always was and always will be the main thing that causes over 90% of the problems in the average human life!

    • @imageword5576
      @imageword5576 17 годин тому

      Well, that is the primary biological prerogative underlying our drive to do pretty much everything. The reason we feel good doing productive things is because our balls know that it's moving us one step closer towards getting laid and therefore passing on the genetic information to the next generation. Of course, we have many rationalizations for why we do things but those are after-the-fact explanations that help provide a narrative to our entire sense of self.

    • @Gaizaz
      @Gaizaz 17 годин тому +1

      Says Chad 🙄

    • @JamesGallagher2273
      @JamesGallagher2273 15 годин тому +2

      @@Gaizaz As a man you need to go on the hero's journey to become someone extraordinary in some metric, that will attract attention, status or fame. Yes, there is a small substrata of men that are born good looking and don't need to improve to attract women. These men have their own issues with quality women however as men with only good looks, lack in other areas. But for the overwhelming majority of men they need to become something as most men are born with no value but have the ability to become extremely valuable.
      But eventually you will find that women are quite boring and not all that interesting. Women only get in the way of you creating an empire as they try to use up your time and attention. Become someone great my friend and women will seek you out, if that is what you desire, hopefully we will see each other at the top.