i feel like this song is so under appreciated. “i made you my temple my mural my sky now i’m begging for foot notes in the story of your life” is so deeply accurate. she captures what it’s really like to love someone who gives you barely anything when you love them so completely
I didn't realized how sad i was until evermore came out. I realize that all i do is pretending that i'm okay and acting like everything is good. Tolerate It hit me hard. The lyrics,her voice and the music. "While you were out building other worlds, where was I? Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire? I made you my temple, my mural, my sky Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life" hits different.
This is the first song i’ve ever found in my 20 years of life that describes my relationship with my father. He’s in super denial of being a narcissist to this day. This song just makes me break down but heal every time i hear it. Still learning that my love shouldn’t be tolerated.
Evermore is her most underrated album and tolerate it is her BEST EVER SONG in my opinion. It might not be her amongst her bestselling like blank space, cruel summer, bad blood and the likes but it is, there is just something about it. The raw emotions, lyrics and sadness in the song is so poetic.
Reminds me of how I say " Dad?" And I say it again like 30 seconds later cause he doesn't answer cause he's on his phone and like 10 minutes later he answers
The fact that every single lyric in this hits so close to home… even the dishes the way I would clean and be yelled at for how I cleaned…. And how at the end it just repeats and the cycle starts all over again. Everyone always talks about abusive relationships and how hard breakups are but no one really talks about how unbelievably painful it is to be gaslit by your “best friends.” Break ups make you not want to date again, friend falling outs makes you not wanna be friends with anyone
this song is so deep. it makes me think that she wrote this song for people who find themselves in relationships that seem inescapable, in a way that they can only tolerate their situation or be tolerated. It’s like a relationship that is bound together by something stronger than emotions and the fear of heartbreak, but by oath or blood. I think of a marriage of 20+ years where someone finally falls out of love for good or of a failing relationship between a parent and their child. Those relationships are not always something that one can walk away from, so they are often tolerated.
i remember when i came out to my dad. i was fifteen. it was a foggy night in october. he took it well, i think. i’m his daughter and there’s nothing i could ever do that would make him love me any less. but he’ll always have his opinions, and that’s just the way that it is. later that night i went to start the dishes. i put in my earbuds and started my playlist. and the first song that came on was tolerate it by taylor swift. i never listened to that song the same way again.
I sit and watch you reading with your head low I wake and watch you breathing with your eyes closed I sit and watch you, I notice everything you do or don't do You're so much older and wiser and I I wait by the door like I'm just a kid Use my best colors for your portrait Lay the table with the fancy shit And watch you tolerate it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it I greet you with a battle hero's welcome I take your indiscretions all in good fun I sit and listen, I polish plates until they gleam and glisten You're so much older and wiser and I I wait by the door like I'm just a kid Use my best colors for your portrait Lay the table with the fancy shit And watch you tolerate it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it While you were out building other worlds, where was I? Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire? I made you my temple, my mural, my sky Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life Drawing hearts in the byline Always taking up too much space or time You assume I'm fine But what would you do if I Break free and leave us in ruins Took this dagger in me and removed it Gain the weight of you then lose it Believe me, I could do it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it I sit and watch you
its funny how i only listen to sad songs and then listen to them slowed which makes them even sadder. what is wrong with me...i used to be so happy. i used to not be second choice. i used to love myself.
I am in a new, loving, mutual relationship now - but still find myself trying to heal the wounds my previous relationship left me with. I still always feel like too much, not enough, and like I have to fight to prove to him why he should still love me. Being tolerated is still my biggest fear
LYRICS I sit and watch you reading with your head low I wake and watch you breathing with your eyes closed I sit and watch you and notice everything you do or don't do You're so much older and wiser and I I wait by the door like I'm just a kid Use my best colors for your portrait Lay the table with the fancy shit And watch you tolerate it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it I greet you with a battle hero's welcome I take your indiscretions all in good fun I sit and listen I polish plates until they gleam and glisten You're so much older and wiser and I I wait by the door like I'm just a kid Use my best colors for your portrait Lay the table with the fancy shit And watch you tolerate it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it While you were out building other worlds, where was I? Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire? I made you my temple, my mural, my sky Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life Drawing hearts in the byline Always taking up too much space or time You assume I'm fine But what would you do if I, I Break free and leave us in ruins Took this dagger in me and removed it Gain the weight of you then lose it Believe me, I could do it If it's all in my head tell me now Tell me I've got it wrong somehow I know my love should be celebrated But you tolerate it I sit and watch you
I can only see this as the relationship with my dad…I remember wanting this man to hold me and letting me sleep on his chest and now he will storm off into the night and won’t come back for an hour over a small disagreement after he insulted me for telling my therapist about our family problems
its funny how i only listen to sad songs and then listen to them slowed which makes them even sadder. what is wrong with me...i used to be so happy. i used to not be second choice. i used to love myself.
i feel like we should have our own little support group in the comments since this was all our song of choice
Well, so tomorrow is supposedly my birthday but I have exams tmr too, so I’ll just have to tolerate the exams, I do wish I had time to celebrate tho😢
@@misspotatohead1959 i hope you had a nice birthday🥺💛
@@sofias9238 yeah I did okay in my exams and bought a small cake afterwards, thank you🥰♥️
I always cry myself to sleep to this song. And thanks to this song now i know that i need help. And i’ll see a psychiatrist soon. Thank u Taylor❤️
@@tripleaaa6359 congratulationnnns💕 hope it goes well for you🥺
i feel like this song is so under appreciated. “i made you my temple my mural my sky now i’m begging for foot notes in the story of your life” is so deeply accurate. she captures what it’s really like to love someone who gives you barely anything when you love them so completely
I couldn't agree more..💔 in a loveless marriage, and this song hits me on a personal level..
Any advice if he says “I think you are insecure and I’m just more independent” after I am upset we don’t spend time together
@@user-tz4jd9ul1y he just doesn't care enough about you
I didn't realized how sad i was until evermore came out. I realize that all i do is pretending that i'm okay and acting like everything is good. Tolerate It hit me hard. The lyrics,her voice and the music. "While you were out building other worlds, where was I?
Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire?
I made you my temple, my mural, my sky
Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life" hits different.
I hope you’re doing well.
@@justinelim9871 thank you
It hit me too. It just described me and made me realize that i was just tolerated
@@Gmimi012 same...
*Sending a virtual hug*. ❤️. Every thing will be fineee
hey
this song is what it feels like when you come out to people that you trust and they “accept” you but still act like you ruined something
:( i'm sorry bby, sending love
mhmm closeted gay swifties gang
100%
you just made this song 10x sadder now, and i agree 100% with you
‘but what would u do if i break free and leave us in ruins?’
this physically hurts
best song on the album
OMG YESSS😭😭😭
ur taste>>>>>>
For me it’s so close with tis the danm season😭
@@aguilarinternational1044 SAME
Is cowboy like me
This is the first song i’ve ever found in my 20 years of life that describes my relationship with my father. He’s in super denial of being a narcissist to this day. This song just makes me break down but heal every time i hear it. Still learning that my love shouldn’t be tolerated.
Check out BANKS, she wrote a whole album about being in a relationship with a narcissist. Start with 'Till Now' and 'Contaminated'. Hope you're okay.
@@tommie3700 Ooo i have one her songs already! Thanks so much! Recently cut him off and i finally feel a weight off my shoulders.
@@amayawengernuk You go girl xx
you are worthy of love, just know that, and that too unconditionally!
Evermore is her most underrated album and tolerate it is her BEST EVER SONG in my opinion.
It might not be her amongst her bestselling like blank space, cruel summer, bad blood and the likes but it is, there is just something about it.
The raw emotions, lyrics and sadness in the song is so poetic.
If you’re reading this, are you okay? Don’t worry! You will heal, things will be okay, you matter, you are important. Take care!
Thank you
you too!
i love you
I'm crying
god is anyone here ok
cause i'm not
absolutely not
no ✨✨
No:)
Of course we are not
Me listening to it from the POV of a married woman: Oh.....sad
Me realizing the song applies to my relationship with my father: ☔️☔️
same
I didn't even know why I related so much to this song but then I read your comment. Damn!
omg :(
Oh god your comment made me realize that this applies to my mom and now I need to go find a therapist
Reminds me of how I say " Dad?" And I say it again like 30 seconds later cause he doesn't answer cause he's on his phone and like 10 minutes later he answers
begging for footnotes in the story of your life. hits so different
Ikr 😭😭😭😭😭
it hurts so bad having to slowly realize the person you gave your whole heart to doesnt love you anymore
hurts like hell
people who post slowed songs deserve more than the world can give.
The fact that every single lyric in this hits so close to home… even the dishes the way I would clean and be yelled at for how I cleaned…. And how at the end it just repeats and the cycle starts all over again. Everyone always talks about abusive relationships and how hard breakups are but no one really talks about how unbelievably painful it is to be gaslit by your “best friends.” Break ups make you not want to date again, friend falling outs makes you not wanna be friends with anyone
taylor released this when it was too late :( i wish i could've realized everything sooner...
there’s just something about this song... it tugs on the heartstrings
this song is so deep. it makes me think that she wrote this song for people who find themselves in relationships that seem inescapable, in a way that they can only tolerate their situation or be tolerated. It’s like a relationship that is bound together by something stronger than emotions and the fear of heartbreak, but by oath or blood. I think of a marriage of 20+ years where someone finally falls out of love for good or of a failing relationship between a parent and their child. Those relationships are not always something that one can walk away from, so they are often tolerated.
Or a 7 year marriage, and a daughter who will be broken when her parents get separated..
i remember when i came out to my dad. i was fifteen. it was a foggy night in october. he took it well, i think. i’m his daughter and there’s nothing i could ever do that would make him love me any less. but he’ll always have his opinions, and that’s just the way that it is. later that night i went to start the dishes. i put in my earbuds and started my playlist. and the first song that came on was tolerate it by taylor swift. i never listened to that song the same way again.
Stop I’m crying
I sit and watch you reading with your head low
I wake and watch you breathing with your eyes closed
I sit and watch you, I notice everything you do or don't do
You're so much older and wiser and I
I wait by the door like I'm just a kid
Use my best colors for your portrait
Lay the table with the fancy shit
And watch you tolerate it
If it's all in my head tell me now
Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
I know my love should be celebrated
But you tolerate it
I greet you with a battle hero's welcome
I take your indiscretions all in good fun
I sit and listen, I polish plates until they gleam and glisten
You're so much older and wiser and I
I wait by the door like I'm just a kid
Use my best colors for your portrait
Lay the table with the fancy shit
And watch you tolerate it
If it's all in my head tell me now
Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
I know my love should be celebrated
But you tolerate it
While you were out building other worlds, where was I?
Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire?
I made you my temple, my mural, my sky
Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life
Drawing hearts in the byline
Always taking up too much space or time
You assume I'm fine
But what would you do if I
Break free and leave us in ruins
Took this dagger in me and removed it
Gain the weight of you then lose it
Believe me, I could do it
If it's all in my head tell me now
Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
I know my love should be celebrated
But you tolerate it
I sit and watch you
think it’s “our love” in the bridge
This song explains without me having to say a word. I relate to this song to the point it hurts.
This song hits different when you think about how your parents will never accept who you love and who you are 😭
I have felt attacked OMG
This was.. everything...
this song describes the person who emotionally abused me for a year and how I left them the best by far
god this is so heartbreaking
The bridge hits so fucking hard
It's soo good ..I'll cry in the corner 🥺😭😭❤️
BEAUTIFUL
the best song on evermore and easily Taylor’s best top 5 songs ever 🤎
its funny how i only listen to sad songs and then listen to them slowed which makes them even sadder. what is wrong with me...i used to be so happy. i used to not be second choice. i used to love myself.
so beautiful :"
all of us with daddy issues deserve better
And mommy issues.
This perfectly describes me and my ex. I just want to be good enough for him. Finally letting go of him now
im so proud of you
@@xo8960 thank you. It’s been a month since we stopped talking
Im so proud of u too:) be happy with a clear mind and a clear soul
thank you.
brb crying
I'm so close to ending everything but I'm afraid of what that means so thank God for that?
i just wanna stare at the ceiling and cry
WHY....now I'm sad-DER
I'm not mentally stable enough for this.
Does anybody else feel disconnected with their own family? And that they only love you because we share the same blood.
So fucking beautiful
I am in a new, loving, mutual relationship now - but still find myself trying to heal the wounds my previous relationship left me with. I still always feel like too much, not enough, and like I have to fight to prove to him why he should still love me. Being tolerated is still my biggest fear
I sit and watch u !! in the end of the song
i sit and listen i polish plates until they gleam and glisten
Esta versión duele más.. :’)
this is gonna be the death of me
Catharsis.
Oh fuck I didn't think this song could get any sadder... shit...
THANKUUUUUU😩💓
i know i deserve better but still it's like why could you not see that my love should be celebrated, wanted. why did you not want me like i wanted you
Hey you!
Will you smile for me? Just a sweet little smile please :)
EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE BETTER ONE DAY I PROMISE. TIME HEALS EVERYTHING.
2:05
LYRICS
I sit and watch you reading with your head low
I wake and watch you breathing with your eyes closed
I sit and watch you and notice everything you do or don't do
You're so much older and wiser and I
I wait by the door like I'm just a kid
Use my best colors for your portrait
Lay the table with the fancy shit
And watch you tolerate it
If it's all in my head tell me now
Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
I know my love should be celebrated
But you tolerate it
I greet you with a battle hero's welcome
I take your indiscretions all in good fun
I sit and listen
I polish plates until they gleam and glisten
You're so much older and wiser and I
I wait by the door like I'm just a kid
Use my best colors for your portrait
Lay the table with the fancy shit
And watch you tolerate it
If it's all in my head tell me now
Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
I know my love should be celebrated
But you tolerate it
While you were out building other worlds, where was I?
Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire?
I made you my temple, my mural, my sky
Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life
Drawing hearts in the byline
Always taking up too much space or time
You assume I'm fine
But what would you do if I, I
Break free and leave us in ruins
Took this dagger in me and removed it
Gain the weight of you then lose it
Believe me, I could do it
If it's all in my head tell me now
Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
I know my love should be celebrated
But you tolerate it
I sit and watch you
“tell me i’ve got it wrong somewhere, i know my love should be celebrated, but you tolerate it” 💔
Why does this feel like Anna from Disney frozen wrote this song 🎶
if you're here please visit your therapist
i hate her
i made you my temple, my mural, my sky
now i’m begging for footnotes in the story of your life.
I can only see this as the relationship with my dad…I remember wanting this man to hold me and letting me sleep on his chest and now he will storm off into the night and won’t come back for an hour over a small disagreement after he insulted me for telling my therapist about our family problems
I love the part when she smokes
Who's the lady in the video?
good❤❤❤
yup
God..oh dear god.. i didn't even try to be happy today..i guess i'm truly done pretending... :')
Believe me, I could do it.
Olá todos q ver esse canal tudo bem com vcs?
Vamos ajudar esse canal.
Si escrevendo por favor.
obrigada. Deus abençoa vcs.
Fica com Deus.
where was i ?
Whats the anime?
liked at 69
damn lol
its funny how i only listen to sad songs and then listen to them slowed which makes them even sadder. what is wrong with me...i used to be so happy. i used to not be second choice. i used to love myself.
You will get through it. You deserve happiness just like anyone else
@@yourfavitgirl999 thank u sm so do you