taylor swift - tolerate it (slowed + reverb)

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  • @talyauzunlu8189
    @talyauzunlu8189 4 роки тому +582

    i feel like we should have our own little support group in the comments since this was all our song of choice

    • @misspotatohead1959
      @misspotatohead1959 4 роки тому +15

      Well, so tomorrow is supposedly my birthday but I have exams tmr too, so I’ll just have to tolerate the exams, I do wish I had time to celebrate tho😢

    • @sofias9238
      @sofias9238 4 роки тому +5

      @@misspotatohead1959 i hope you had a nice birthday🥺💛

    • @misspotatohead1959
      @misspotatohead1959 4 роки тому +12

      @@sofias9238 yeah I did okay in my exams and bought a small cake afterwards, thank you🥰♥️

    • @tripleaaa6359
      @tripleaaa6359 3 роки тому +8

      I always cry myself to sleep to this song. And thanks to this song now i know that i need help. And i’ll see a psychiatrist soon. Thank u Taylor❤️

    • @sofias9238
      @sofias9238 3 роки тому +2

      @@tripleaaa6359 congratulationnnns💕 hope it goes well for you🥺

  • @LindsUnhinged
    @LindsUnhinged 4 роки тому +315

    i feel like this song is so under appreciated. “i made you my temple my mural my sky now i’m begging for foot notes in the story of your life” is so deeply accurate. she captures what it’s really like to love someone who gives you barely anything when you love them so completely

    • @vj8711
      @vj8711 3 роки тому +11

      I couldn't agree more..💔 in a loveless marriage, and this song hits me on a personal level..

    • @user-tz4jd9ul1y
      @user-tz4jd9ul1y 2 роки тому

      Any advice if he says “I think you are insecure and I’m just more independent” after I am upset we don’t spend time together

    • @stella8737
      @stella8737 Рік тому

      @@user-tz4jd9ul1y he just doesn't care enough about you

  • @nilzeynepp
    @nilzeynepp 4 роки тому +455

    I didn't realized how sad i was until evermore came out. I realize that all i do is pretending that i'm okay and acting like everything is good. Tolerate It hit me hard. The lyrics,her voice and the music. "While you were out building other worlds, where was I?
    Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire?
    I made you my temple, my mural, my sky
    Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life" hits different.

    • @justinelim9871
      @justinelim9871 4 роки тому +4

      I hope you’re doing well.

    • @nilzeynepp
      @nilzeynepp 4 роки тому +2

      @@justinelim9871 thank you

    • @Gmimi012
      @Gmimi012 4 роки тому +2

      It hit me too. It just described me and made me realize that i was just tolerated

    • @nilzeynepp
      @nilzeynepp 4 роки тому +1

      @@Gmimi012 same...

    • @maddiesmart7668
      @maddiesmart7668 4 роки тому +1

      *Sending a virtual hug*. ❤️. Every thing will be fineee

  • @goldbananas608
    @goldbananas608 4 роки тому +259

    hey
    this song is what it feels like when you come out to people that you trust and they “accept” you but still act like you ruined something

  • @hassanmalik8190
    @hassanmalik8190 4 роки тому +111

    ‘but what would u do if i break free and leave us in ruins?’
    this physically hurts

  • @joseahhhs
    @joseahhhs 4 роки тому +192

    best song on the album

  • @amayawengernuk
    @amayawengernuk 4 роки тому +92

    This is the first song i’ve ever found in my 20 years of life that describes my relationship with my father. He’s in super denial of being a narcissist to this day. This song just makes me break down but heal every time i hear it. Still learning that my love shouldn’t be tolerated.

    • @tommie3700
      @tommie3700 3 роки тому +3

      Check out BANKS, she wrote a whole album about being in a relationship with a narcissist. Start with 'Till Now' and 'Contaminated'. Hope you're okay.

    • @amayawengernuk
      @amayawengernuk 3 роки тому +2

      @@tommie3700 Ooo i have one her songs already! Thanks so much! Recently cut him off and i finally feel a weight off my shoulders.

    • @tommie3700
      @tommie3700 3 роки тому +2

      @@amayawengernuk You go girl xx

    • @ankitavishwakarma3820
      @ankitavishwakarma3820 2 роки тому +1

      you are worthy of love, just know that, and that too unconditionally!

  • @ololadeabiodun6419
    @ololadeabiodun6419 Рік тому +13

    Evermore is her most underrated album and tolerate it is her BEST EVER SONG in my opinion.
    It might not be her amongst her bestselling like blank space, cruel summer, bad blood and the likes but it is, there is just something about it.
    The raw emotions, lyrics and sadness in the song is so poetic.

  • @ivanagustincervantesdiaz9234
    @ivanagustincervantesdiaz9234 4 роки тому +131

    If you’re reading this, are you okay? Don’t worry! You will heal, things will be okay, you matter, you are important. Take care!

  • @sophiachristopher9089
    @sophiachristopher9089 4 роки тому +379

    god is anyone here ok

  • @hayley6607
    @hayley6607 4 роки тому +203

    Me listening to it from the POV of a married woman: Oh.....sad
    Me realizing the song applies to my relationship with my father: ☔️☔️

    • @frogluvrfr
      @frogluvrfr 4 роки тому +3

      same

    • @madhurimamukherjee23
      @madhurimamukherjee23 3 роки тому +8

      I didn't even know why I related so much to this song but then I read your comment. Damn!

    • @physiovriddhi
      @physiovriddhi 3 роки тому +1

      omg :(

    • @lindabelcher974
      @lindabelcher974 3 роки тому +5

      Oh god your comment made me realize that this applies to my mom and now I need to go find a therapist

    • @katiefarquhar3176
      @katiefarquhar3176 3 роки тому +2

      Reminds me of how I say " Dad?" And I say it again like 30 seconds later cause he doesn't answer cause he's on his phone and like 10 minutes later he answers

  • @charlottebascomb3576
    @charlottebascomb3576 4 роки тому +56

    begging for footnotes in the story of your life. hits so different

    • @il3077
      @il3077 4 роки тому +2

      Ikr 😭😭😭😭😭

  • @audreyb8368
    @audreyb8368 3 роки тому +52

    it hurts so bad having to slowly realize the person you gave your whole heart to doesnt love you anymore

  • @eshaani
    @eshaani 3 роки тому +24

    people who post slowed songs deserve more than the world can give.

  • @Teddyhammy
    @Teddyhammy 3 роки тому +21

    The fact that every single lyric in this hits so close to home… even the dishes the way I would clean and be yelled at for how I cleaned…. And how at the end it just repeats and the cycle starts all over again. Everyone always talks about abusive relationships and how hard breakups are but no one really talks about how unbelievably painful it is to be gaslit by your “best friends.” Break ups make you not want to date again, friend falling outs makes you not wanna be friends with anyone

  • @snarat764
    @snarat764 4 роки тому +27

    taylor released this when it was too late :( i wish i could've realized everything sooner...

  • @holly289
    @holly289 3 роки тому +16

    there’s just something about this song... it tugs on the heartstrings

  • @destinychance2836
    @destinychance2836 3 роки тому +25

    this song is so deep. it makes me think that she wrote this song for people who find themselves in relationships that seem inescapable, in a way that they can only tolerate their situation or be tolerated. It’s like a relationship that is bound together by something stronger than emotions and the fear of heartbreak, but by oath or blood. I think of a marriage of 20+ years where someone finally falls out of love for good or of a failing relationship between a parent and their child. Those relationships are not always something that one can walk away from, so they are often tolerated.

    • @vj8711
      @vj8711 3 роки тому +2

      Or a 7 year marriage, and a daughter who will be broken when her parents get separated..

  • @valarirussak11
    @valarirussak11 2 роки тому +8

    i remember when i came out to my dad. i was fifteen. it was a foggy night in october. he took it well, i think. i’m his daughter and there’s nothing i could ever do that would make him love me any less. but he’ll always have his opinions, and that’s just the way that it is. later that night i went to start the dishes. i put in my earbuds and started my playlist. and the first song that came on was tolerate it by taylor swift. i never listened to that song the same way again.

  • @Emp158
    @Emp158 4 роки тому +16

    Stop I’m crying

  • @wonderstruck3
    @wonderstruck3 2 роки тому +17

    I sit and watch you reading with your head low
    I wake and watch you breathing with your eyes closed
    I sit and watch you, I notice everything you do or don't do
    You're so much older and wiser and I
    I wait by the door like I'm just a kid
    Use my best colors for your portrait
    Lay the table with the fancy shit
    And watch you tolerate it
    If it's all in my head tell me now
    Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
    I know my love should be celebrated
    But you tolerate it
    I greet you with a battle hero's welcome
    I take your indiscretions all in good fun
    I sit and listen, I polish plates until they gleam and glisten
    You're so much older and wiser and I
    I wait by the door like I'm just a kid
    Use my best colors for your portrait
    Lay the table with the fancy shit
    And watch you tolerate it
    If it's all in my head tell me now
    Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
    I know my love should be celebrated
    But you tolerate it
    While you were out building other worlds, where was I?
    Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire?
    I made you my temple, my mural, my sky
    Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life
    Drawing hearts in the byline
    Always taking up too much space or time
    You assume I'm fine
    But what would you do if I
    Break free and leave us in ruins
    Took this dagger in me and removed it
    Gain the weight of you then lose it
    Believe me, I could do it
    If it's all in my head tell me now
    Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
    I know my love should be celebrated
    But you tolerate it
    I sit and watch you

    • @peanut.buhtur
      @peanut.buhtur Рік тому

      think it’s “our love” in the bridge

  • @SwiftieFan
    @SwiftieFan Рік тому +5

    This song explains without me having to say a word. I relate to this song to the point it hurts.

  • @zahrabintdaud829
    @zahrabintdaud829 3 роки тому +35

    This song hits different when you think about how your parents will never accept who you love and who you are 😭

  • @musab3014
    @musab3014 3 роки тому +5

    This was.. everything...

  • @beentheredonethat3213
    @beentheredonethat3213 3 роки тому +11

    this song describes the person who emotionally abused me for a year and how I left them the best by far

  • @xo8960
    @xo8960 3 роки тому +11

    god this is so heartbreaking

  • @manyavasudeva800
    @manyavasudeva800 3 роки тому +4

    The bridge hits so fucking hard

  • @ashley7376
    @ashley7376 4 роки тому +9

    It's soo good ..I'll cry in the corner 🥺😭😭❤️

  • @youknowwho7570
    @youknowwho7570 4 роки тому +7

    BEAUTIFUL

  • @Johnnohn
    @Johnnohn 3 місяці тому

    the best song on evermore and easily Taylor’s best top 5 songs ever 🤎

  • @sierrawelsch4573
    @sierrawelsch4573 4 роки тому +10

    its funny how i only listen to sad songs and then listen to them slowed which makes them even sadder. what is wrong with me...i used to be so happy. i used to not be second choice. i used to love myself.

  • @urvirtualstyler
    @urvirtualstyler 4 роки тому +5

    so beautiful :"

  • @charliedalton167
    @charliedalton167 3 роки тому +20

    all of us with daddy issues deserve better

  • @il3077
    @il3077 4 роки тому +16

    This perfectly describes me and my ex. I just want to be good enough for him. Finally letting go of him now

    • @xo8960
      @xo8960 3 роки тому +3

      im so proud of you

    • @il3077
      @il3077 3 роки тому +1

      @@xo8960 thank you. It’s been a month since we stopped talking

    • @illelnihlls6538
      @illelnihlls6538 3 роки тому +3

      Im so proud of u too:) be happy with a clear mind and a clear soul

  • @hanahowey
    @hanahowey 4 роки тому +5

    thank you.

  • @shortbug335
    @shortbug335 4 роки тому +6

    brb crying

  • @bamboleo6348
    @bamboleo6348 4 роки тому +12

    I'm so close to ending everything but I'm afraid of what that means so thank God for that?

  • @swiftiepharbz
    @swiftiepharbz 4 роки тому +12

    i just wanna stare at the ceiling and cry

  • @sarahdsilva2655
    @sarahdsilva2655 4 роки тому +34

    WHY....now I'm sad-DER

  • @crabbybilly7220
    @crabbybilly7220 3 роки тому +13

    I'm not mentally stable enough for this.

  • @linasaec_
    @linasaec_ 3 роки тому +8

    Does anybody else feel disconnected with their own family? And that they only love you because we share the same blood.

  • @nunita141
    @nunita141 4 роки тому +6

    So fucking beautiful

  • @leximeschino1612
    @leximeschino1612 2 роки тому +2

    I am in a new, loving, mutual relationship now - but still find myself trying to heal the wounds my previous relationship left me with. I still always feel like too much, not enough, and like I have to fight to prove to him why he should still love me. Being tolerated is still my biggest fear

  • @Rehabriri
    @Rehabriri 3 роки тому +2

    I sit and watch u !! in the end of the song

  • @joanofarc-jz1dg
    @joanofarc-jz1dg 11 місяців тому +2

    i sit and listen i polish plates until they gleam and glisten

  • @aaronjeshuarojasramirez5586
    @aaronjeshuarojasramirez5586 4 роки тому +5

    Esta versión duele más.. :’)

  • @jen6294
    @jen6294 3 роки тому +6

    this is gonna be the death of me

  • @furaances
    @furaances 4 роки тому +3

    Catharsis.

  • @MonumentToSin
    @MonumentToSin 4 роки тому +7

    Oh fuck I didn't think this song could get any sadder... shit...

  • @jesslynfaustinamarella8564
    @jesslynfaustinamarella8564 2 роки тому

    THANKUUUUUU😩💓

  • @hannahjoyukulele
    @hannahjoyukulele 3 роки тому +3

    i know i deserve better but still it's like why could you not see that my love should be celebrated, wanted. why did you not want me like i wanted you

  • @priyalj13
    @priyalj13 4 роки тому +3

    Hey you!
    Will you smile for me? Just a sweet little smile please :)
    EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE BETTER ONE DAY I PROMISE. TIME HEALS EVERYTHING.

  • @ssvndynq
    @ssvndynq 3 роки тому +3

    2:05

  • @syriamusic_
    @syriamusic_ 3 місяці тому

    LYRICS
    I sit and watch you reading with your head low
    I wake and watch you breathing with your eyes closed
    I sit and watch you and notice everything you do or don't do
    You're so much older and wiser and I
    I wait by the door like I'm just a kid
    Use my best colors for your portrait
    Lay the table with the fancy shit
    And watch you tolerate it
    If it's all in my head tell me now
    Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
    I know my love should be celebrated
    But you tolerate it
    I greet you with a battle hero's welcome
    I take your indiscretions all in good fun
    I sit and listen
    I polish plates until they gleam and glisten
    You're so much older and wiser and I
    I wait by the door like I'm just a kid
    Use my best colors for your portrait
    Lay the table with the fancy shit
    And watch you tolerate it
    If it's all in my head tell me now
    Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
    I know my love should be celebrated
    But you tolerate it
    While you were out building other worlds, where was I?
    Where's that man who'd throw blankets over my barbed wire?
    I made you my temple, my mural, my sky
    Now I'm begging for footnotes in the story of your life
    Drawing hearts in the byline
    Always taking up too much space or time
    You assume I'm fine
    But what would you do if I, I
    Break free and leave us in ruins
    Took this dagger in me and removed it
    Gain the weight of you then lose it
    Believe me, I could do it
    If it's all in my head tell me now
    Tell me I've got it wrong somehow
    I know my love should be celebrated
    But you tolerate it
    I sit and watch you

  • @gracemyers2279
    @gracemyers2279 11 місяців тому

    “tell me i’ve got it wrong somewhere, i know my love should be celebrated, but you tolerate it” 💔

  • @Surajlovesbeyonce
    @Surajlovesbeyonce 2 роки тому +3

    Why does this feel like Anna from Disney frozen wrote this song 🎶

  • @marinaelle242
    @marinaelle242 4 роки тому +15

    if you're here please visit your therapist

  • @fataltrouble
    @fataltrouble 2 роки тому +2

    i made you my temple, my mural, my sky
    now i’m begging for footnotes in the story of your life.

  • @JesusChrist-lm4sy
    @JesusChrist-lm4sy 2 роки тому +1

    I can only see this as the relationship with my dad…I remember wanting this man to hold me and letting me sleep on his chest and now he will storm off into the night and won’t come back for an hour over a small disagreement after he insulted me for telling my therapist about our family problems

  • @katiefarquhar3176
    @katiefarquhar3176 3 роки тому +1

    I love the part when she smokes

  • @musab3014
    @musab3014 3 роки тому +3

    Who's the lady in the video?

  • @건강한비둘기
    @건강한비둘기 Рік тому

    good❤❤❤

  • @bayuananta8604
    @bayuananta8604 4 роки тому +2

    yup

  • @vee.13
    @vee.13 3 роки тому

    God..oh dear god.. i didn't even try to be happy today..i guess i'm truly done pretending... :')

  • @tashtube91
    @tashtube91 3 роки тому +2

    Believe me, I could do it.

  • @nivia-maria6
    @nivia-maria6 2 роки тому +1

    Olá todos q ver esse canal tudo bem com vcs?
    Vamos ajudar esse canal.
    Si escrevendo por favor.
    obrigada. Deus abençoa vcs.
    Fica com Deus.

  • @Vicerooy
    @Vicerooy 2 роки тому +2

    where was i ?

  • @panimalar3024
    @panimalar3024 Рік тому

    Whats the anime?

  • @coradvorovy6184
    @coradvorovy6184 4 роки тому +6

    liked at 69

  • @saigakale
    @saigakale 4 роки тому +3

    damn lol

  • @sierrawelsch4573
    @sierrawelsch4573 4 роки тому +43

    its funny how i only listen to sad songs and then listen to them slowed which makes them even sadder. what is wrong with me...i used to be so happy. i used to not be second choice. i used to love myself.

    • @yourfavitgirl999
      @yourfavitgirl999 4 роки тому +5

      You will get through it. You deserve happiness just like anyone else

    • @sierrawelsch4573
      @sierrawelsch4573 4 роки тому +1

      @@yourfavitgirl999 thank u sm so do you