Armie Hammer Bullying
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- Опубліковано 6 вер 2024
- One of the breakout stars of "The Social Network," Armie Hammer sat down with Ellen and opened up on his past experience with bullying. He shared how badly it affected him and how he feels about i...
So this is what Oliver would have really looked like at 24... It's the softness around the face.
Tara M hahaha
Yea...
HARHARHAR
I just came to look for that comment :D
I totally agree!!! How I miss Oliver. I hope sequel of cmbyn is on its way
his voice gives me goose bumps...
Yeah. Sexy goosebumps. XD
He does audiobooks too!
The best thing about his actor's voice is that, no matter how fast he talks, he enunciates each word so perfectly that we miss nothing.
i'm glad he was honest about not wanting to go to school and shutting down and stuff rather than just trying to put a positive spin on it
Me too. Since I've been through the same situation. He'd been honest.
Yes people, I actually met and talked with Armie for hours at LAX. We both were grumbling through security and he is so gorgeous you have to look at him, you must look!! I asked if he was an actor or model and he sweetly said, "I'm am actor, and when he told me "I'm Armie Hammer, I didn't believe him, so he took his driver's license out and even HIS picture was horrendous. He was very down to earth and so lovely to just be with. And his family is not the same as the cleaning products!
If you're looking how did Prince Charming looked like, Armie Hammer would be it.
Well he was Prince Alcott in Mirror Mirror...
Exactly
@@merelytravelers definitely
“Bullies are losers” -Ellen. Oh how the tables have turned.
Right!!?
I think it's convenient to think that bullies always lose out in the long term and that the bullied are the ones who end up accomplishing things, but it's not always true. Nor is it always true that things gets better. Adults can be as carelessly cruel as children, sometimes. Unfortunately, the world isn't fair that way. But the good news is that we can make it fairer, by working against bullying both from children and adults.
+kattahj Right? Look at Donald Trump and Mitt Romney, lol. At the same time, I don't envy their sad lives.
kattahj j
Ι'll agree. Although it's true that most or half the bullies don't end up well (emotionally, socially or regarding success), there are still some that get everything the wanted. And since I'm a person of justice (and a bit vengeful) I'd like to think (and I think it's accurate) that most of them never grow beyond their cruel, immature, insecure selves. I know I sound wicked, but if they caused me and other people so much pain, why should they triumph in life? Of course, there's always that "it's their families fault" thingy. But what if it isn't? I've seen evil people, coming from healthy, kind families. Sometimes it's just adolescence and sometimes they're straight up bored & cruel...
Yes... life isn't fair. I think Ellen was looking for some hope there but he didn't give any. Junior high is just a rough time for most people... we all had our awkward ages. But he did grow up into a beautiful intelligent man and his childhood undoubtedly gave him depth and humility. It makes him more attractive.
damn.... that sigh said a thousand words
and at the present day he got bully again by that hateful buzzfeed article and hateful comment toward him with no good reason at all and it made him delete his twitter account ....my heart hurts
Barbara Brown I also came here from that article and the one Slate wrote about him and I'm just so crushed
what happened? :O
these is an article about him on buzzfeed ....really negative ..... here you go: www.buzzfeed.com/annehelenpetersen/ten-long-years-of-trying-to-make-armie-hammer-happen?.ixg6bPA5g#.byKdALRYz
Wow, that was harsh from their side :/.
Omg I read some of it... so mean
I couldn't read all of it tho..It's so long..but how?? If I had to write an article trash talking Armie Hammer I wouldn't be able to write one sentence..
Armie Hammer is one of the most beautifull men I have ever seen. And his voice, my lord.
This makes me love him even more. I have so much respect for him for sharing his story on national daytime television... it had to take a lot of courage to do. But seriously, look at him now. He's talented, successful, and BEAUTIFUL. That face, that body, that voice.
I think that Armie is a really nice guy but lets be real, if he was still chubby holly wood would murder him and all of the comments below wouldn't be about how cute he is and how he never should have been bullied they would be cruel comments. The truth is people haven't changed he has. I have to wonder how many of the people he is around now wouldn't be nice to him when he was in his awkward stage.
Great point. We can all want to be thinner, more muscled, better looking everything ,that we can change..but Hollywood is in it's own bubble..Beverly Hills alone(just a small percentage of LA population) has the highest per capita plastic surgeons in the world at over 70 for 6 sq miles. LA has more than any place in the world. Women and men start cutting up their faces at 38 years old and some keep going till they look like someone's dunked their faces in hot frying oil. I guess when looks = $$ these actresses/tors justify it. They have their 10s of millions, their cut up faces, and their mansions...someone needs to make a Black Mirror episode about it.
Uuuhm not really
He's not a nice guy.Pffff
Listen to the Call me by your name audio book... Narrated by Armie! For those of you who love his voice!
I have to say the "Bullies become losers" is not always true and dangerous to base your self-evalutation on that. I was bullied for being perceived as gay, I turned out to actually be gay and grew up to be educated with a relatively successful life, and though my bullies don't have amazing lives, they seem to have found success in having families and careers while Im older now and still struggling with that stuff.
I'm maybe slightly jealous of them and angry because they were supposed to end up being losers like I was told. Good things happen to bad people in this world, and that is reality, but you can still make a good life for yourself if you stick through it, even if you are severely bullied. It does get better.
Sounds like you and I had similar experiences. Though I will say some of my bullies did end up with poor fates. One girl who continually made rude comments about me, peaked in high school and went downhill from there. She was a cheerleader then, dating the star quarterback at a rival high school. A decade later, that quarterback was hitting on me. She was drug addicted and later died by O.D. But I know most of the bullies did go on to have families etc. Some with decent jobs if not careers. I think most bullying stems from insecurity. If the bullies overcome that, they can become decent people and have good lives. It just sucks that some of us end up suffering greatly from their insecurities.
I had one bully who actually hit on me in middle school, he just deleted his facebook and I think he's just realized he's gay, I was always waiting if that would happen. But the other ones seem to have lucked out I'd say.
You’re not wrong but I personally always thought that what goes around comes around one way or another. So let’s say that, for instance, if maybe the people who bullied you didn’t become losers, well, their kids could end up getting bullied. It could be life’s payback. Not saying I wish that upon their kids but people should be careful what they do because if it doesn’t come back to you, someone else, someone you cherish could pay for it instead. And it’s much worse. So at the end of the day, even if you don’t realize it, even if they seem to have become successful and happy, you never really know the entire situation. All you know is that you turned out better than they thought you would, and that, my friend, is all that matters.
I love his voice.
WOW!!!He grew 9 inches in one summer and was still bullied!!!
Armie is so brave for revealing this fact about his past. Bullying back then was worse than it is today, because schools ignored it almost as a rite of passage to adulthood. I felt so sad for him because I could see the pain in his face when he relayed his story to Ellen. But look where he is today. He is a warrior, even though he might not think so. I greatly admire him even more as a person for confiding about this difficult and painful period in his life.
he sighed... it must be tough :(
It's funny how he puts on a smug, arrogant, and pretentious persona as one of the Winklevoss twins, and yet here he is, down to earth in real life. What a great man.
No
'Remember that kids, bullies are losers'.
Guess who's saying that.
OMG HE WENT TO MY HIGH SCHOOL!!!!! I feel so special:)
Becca R how was he back then?
How do you feel about It now?
Haha, those bullies must be kicking themselves now. He is gorgeous.
i've been going through the exact same thing....he described what its like to be bullied so perfectly.
the way she titled it made me think it was a compilation of armie bullying people
Yes,me too
Er, he does.
He is so pretty.
And then youtube puts it in your recommendation after 10 years!
This guy is fantastic in J.Edgar. Never heard of him, but he' s better than Di Caprio in the movie
Ellen: what advice would you give to people give to people going through that now?
Armie: it doesn’t get any better.....
HE GIVES ME HOPE FOR HUMANITY
High school and Middle school were not the best years, I hope someday I can move on form this and not feel the pain form people who don't matter.
Why do people bully if your a bully please stop
People who bully don't view it as bullying. That's the big problem
+Sparklegirl11 How do they view it? or rather, what are they thinking and meaning by their actions?
I feel maybe they think they're better than you (the bullied victim) and can say or do what they want.
I wish for everyone bullied to know it says more about them than you (victim). Unfortunately it's not always how Ellen says, and bullies often do go on to be rich, successful, happy. Some feel remorse for their past actions, some don't, and some are even the same as they were. It's the same as any adult really. Some people grow up, some don't.
Kid bullies need to have it spelled out for them the damage they can cause. If they don't have it done, they never learn, and the kid gets to go on being scarred by some stupid kids from middle school. This person knows it doesn't matter any more, that it should be let go, but the memories and resulting self from those memories remain. Personal experience here.
BriBri
Empathy plays an enormous part in the dynamics of the aggressor. “Bullies (may be) deficient in empathy or even lack it completely.” (Van Noorden, Bukowski, Haselager, Lansu, and Cillessen (2016)). Empathy can be thought of as a “cognitive trait referring to a person’s ability to understand another person’s emotions” (Hogan, 1969 (as cited in Van Noorden et al., 2016)).
Subsequently, bullying may be viewed as “antisocial behavior” on both ends of the spectrum (aggressor and victim)(Van Noorden et al.). For the aggressor, the anti-social tendencies can include predatory behavior. Also, bullies often have a false sense of importance; as if they have a right to behave accordingly, and treat anyone in this manner. Yet, “the attitude that bullying is a rite of passage cannot continue” (Briggs (as cited in Austin, Reynolds, and Barnes, 2016)).
The target of the bullying may display anti-social tendencies as well. Perceived overt self-victimization can grow old with peers. Additionally, they may be viewed as not being a team player or potential ally.
Because of power and control and the only way to stop most bullies is to stand up to them. They often hate to be challenged unless that bully is Mike Tyson ( then you don't stand up , you run and get a gun)
People do not realize how painful bullying can be to the victim.
It totally destroys your self esteem and being very young you don't have the life skills yet to realize that your not to blame at all so you believe that it's all your fault.
Hurt ppl hurt ppl
I saw him with his wife in San Antonio. Him and his wife are opening "The Bird Bakery" in San Antonio. It opens on March 31st!
He still is Finnick Odair to a lot of people.
Shallow people. He's beautiful to look at... don't care what people think.
oh shit, I can see that.
Lol Finnick Odair was played by Sam Claflin ,not by Armie.
@@leeloodallas3447 fully aware, but a lot of people wanted him to play Finnick………
@@lilleeirin ah ok,...i must admit that i fully understand them lol,though Sam was quite drop dead gorgeous in that part
Well look how everything turned out…..
I'm feel so sorry for him he didn't deserve to get bullied. He's the most charming & most handsome actor ever!!
To tell u the truth I was bullied too yrs ago back in my elementary school yrs.
No one deserves to be bullied,actually
Next Batman right there
Khan Singh naaaaah
MUCH Better than Ben affleck
Next Bateman to be exact
I could listen to his voice... Forever.
There is absolutely NO EXCUSE for bullying AT ALL! 😡
Just goes to show that no one escapes the hard times in life... because you look at this guy now and he's a beautiful man who makes movies I love!
that's why he's so sweet :)
I wish it were that simple but sometimes bullies grow up to be presidents and CEO’s and dictators or just fine. It’s not helpful to think about what they will become. Focus on what you’ll become.
look what Armie grew up to become
I adore Armie...such a lovely man! Xoxo
Oh my gosh, Armie... That stinks. But after all you still,are amazing and I want to meet you and Johnny Depp more than anything 😀😀
anyone here after cannibalism?
Me 🧍♀️
suddenly appear on my recommendation, i really hope it's false rumor, lol
@@sodeiku it’s not false a lot more stuff came out :/
He shut off emotionally. That didn't end well.
@@catharticmemefairy2088 You can't be serious, You really think HE Is A CANNIBALE off jokin dms ?
i'm not sure i agree with the generic spiel ellen gave at the end about the bullies becoming losers and vice versa. bullying can lead to long term mental health problems that stick with you into adult years meanwhile the bullies didn't have to contend with that. it's a serious issue
I'm always so shocked at the wonderful, beautiful people I find were bullied as kids. Armie, Chris Colfer.
I love that these guys ended up so successful, though.
wow. no freaking way i was thinking the EXACT same thing. he would be a PERFECT Finnick Odaire for the (hopefully) next hunger game movie, Catching Fire. :O
but either way, putting that aside, he is absolutely GORGEOUS. and that voice. *ohhh* that voice!!!!! :D
I love how hes so cool and humble, what an inspiration really.
i was bullied and beaten from kindergarten to 9th grade and then i'd go home and get beaten up by my mom i was too scared to say or do anything back and when i finally did fight back i ended up arrested. so dont do anything back let them bully and beat you up because teachers dont do anything and your parents dont do anything. even now as a grown woman i get dirty looks on the street people gag when they see me or say nasty things. its not worth doing anything about it. one of my bullies has a great job 3 kids and married. so bullies are not loser. i ended up a loser since i couldnt do my work and i dropped out of school and even my tutor said i would end up being a nothing and i did.
I'm sorry about that. I get bullied in school too and it ended up leaving me a trauma to this day
@calaftheeast The point is that yes, he's hot and yes, he was still bullied. That is the only relevance for his "hotness" in this conversation. I wouldn't feel any less for his situation if he weren't hot. But the fact that he is, does put things into perspective for kids who are being bullied.
@MidnightAndLulu ...and all I was saying is that, against all odds, he seems like a very nice and decent guy. Whether or not he benefits from this doesn't matter to me; what matters is that he does bring it up. And that bullied kids feel a little less alone and are reminded that being bullied doesn't mean there is something wrong with them: "See, kids? Even Armie Hammer has been picked-on. It's not you, it's the bully." And per your reasoning, why would he need to do any of this? He has no need.
yeah bullying is NOT cool and people need to think before they do.
Oh armie .. this broke my heart
The frequency of his voice is so... hypnotizing. And his hands... WHOOOOOOOOOWHEEEEE! /drool.
0:49, I would love to hear from this story but Ellen jumps in 0:52 and I didn't get the chance to hear what Armie has to say when he grew up and how he'd outgrown the bullies on his life.
2:26 - Now Ellen, look Armie in the eyes and say it again
At 24, he looks softer and godly handsome!!
BEAUTIFUL, inside and out
He’s just perfect,.
Middle School, gosh, worst years of my life. But, like Ellen said everything turns out better when you grow older, it really does.
OMGOSSSSHHHHH HE WAS 23 IN THIS AHHHHHHHHHHH
He literally looks like a teen-ager here😍
Be careful who you call ugly in junior high, juuust sayn
Hysterical! How do people even believe in something as silly as CANNIBALISM 😂😂😂
His voice is the same as how is now, I love it
The parents of bullies MUST be made responsible for their kids behaviour. Involve the police if
nessecary. Bullying is totally unacceptable.
CHRISTIAN GREY
NUFF SAID
Firstly, why doesn't this have more views? Second, its a proven fact that you end up 100x's more attractive than your bullies. I checked fb and mine are ugly as hell..Inside, and out now 🤗🙄
❤️💜❤️I love him. He deserves the world.
@calaftheeast Just because he doesn't look like he suffered doesn't mean he wasn't bullied. A lot of people were bullied in their youth for various reasons.
I was bullied as a kid as well- and I'm HOT now ! Part of what Ellen says is true- however- I have had MANY of my ex- classmates apologize for the way they treated me- gotta give them some props for maturity and having the guts and moral character to 'own' their dirt....Bully does continue right through college and into adult life-happens in the coorporate world as well... comes in MANY different shapes- its an ugly part of life.....and folks just gotta stand tall against it....
@calaftheeast ...and yet, even if that were all true, he was still picked-on. That's the point being made, here. When you look at this guy -- certainly, when kids look at this guy -- most can't imagine him ever being the victim of bullying, but he was. Kids need to know that being the object of someone's ire is not indicative of some defect with them; it is a reflection of something wrong with the bully. The bully has the problem, not those they're tormenting. Kids need to be reminded of this.
love him💝
I love how the so called 'literate americans' are flaunting their education here in the comments section!
I love Armie Hammer
You are way sick lady.
@@bingonamo7520 you watched fifty shades of grey and still doesn't understand 😭
I can't imagine him being anything but beautiful. He's like a living Ken doll. :3
Imagine being married to Armand Douglas Hammer
Imagine being eaten by Armie Hammer
@@crypticansellot600 well Unfortunate secrets
But you shouldn’t Mocking people at all
Okay daft
@@crypticansellot600 imagine believing everything ppl say. 🤢🤢
@@usmc6270 imagine being a simp on a d ' ck that cannot be yours
i love that angellic superbass voice
this was very inspiring.
Like this guy, he's deserves an Oscar nom!
Bullies are losers? Isn’t that a form of bullying? They’re kids too and many are going through their own struggles but don’t know how to deal with it. I was violently bullied throughout my school years, but I don’t wish any of them any ill. I hope they’re better too.
Way to go Armie Hammer. Such a sweet guy. I can honestly say that maybe in the long run you'll be like the next freddie prince jr. of this generation.:)
How do you bully Armie? He's tall, gorgeous, n PERFECT!
his voice *__*
Armie Hammer will be appearing on The Rachel Ray Show tomorrow (January 17).
Those girls missed their chance i guess.
@calaftheeast What's your damage, calaftheeast? Ok, so, he's very, very beautiful. Lots of very, beautiful young men, were bullied in their youths because society doesn't know exactly what to do with them and they make everyone uncomfortable. Bullying is bullying. Whether it's happening to Armie Hammer or someone else. People who are unique, who tend to "stand out" in any way, are usually the ones who get picked on. Those who are suffering from being bullied should remember how special they are.
when i saw him i was like you are the finnick odair but too bad he isnt casted for it :/
@MDkid1 .....yes- you are correct ! Only thing that stands between good and evil is someone getting right in there and standing for what is right. Did that on FaceBook yesterday and got defriended ( who cares anyhow ) Often times the perpatrators continue to be empowered simply beacuse NO-ONE wants to get involved. Its simple to do- and usually they back down- and maybe learn a lesson !
(btw...I'm 47 ,5-9, still have my 30' ( ! ) waist, blonde hair, blue eyes and get whistles at the beach ! )
It's so nice to hear him talking without trying to be all macho hollywood star :) x
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OMG YOUR SO RIGHT he's perfect!!!
He's so handsome omg
"bullies are losers" - not always true, only in films
@Herthan You are WINNING.
I really wish he were playing Finnick, because I can definitely picture him as Finnick.
same thing happened to me in gr 6
@superbruce you're so right! It does continue on into all parts of life, even adulthood. People also have to stand their ground, and stop bullying when they see it happening.
Btw....picture? ;) kidding...but its true though that sometimes funny looking kids (who were bullied) grow up to be gorgeous people (case in point...Armie)...I've seen it several times :)