90 Day Fiancé - (Ash and Avery #6) - Therapist Reacts - The Seminar

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  • Dr. Kirk Honda, couples therapist, reacts to Ash and Avery (The Seminar) - includes clips from season 4.
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  • @handarule
    @handarule 4 роки тому +3885

    Ash: women are emotional, men are logical
    Women in audience: *calmly ask logical questions and challenge sexist ideas*
    Ash: *freaks out*

  • @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache
    @TheRealGuywithoutaMustache 4 роки тому +2038

    Ash: Men and women's brains work differently.
    Also Ash: Women can't think straight and logical because they're too emotional.
    Also Ash: *Takes a break from his seminar because he can't think straight and is getting too emotional*
    Also Ash: *IS A GUY*
    Okay, perfect job professor, may I have a refund?

    • @tiara9624
      @tiara9624 4 роки тому +9

      ARE YOU FOLLOWING ME?!?!! >:(

    • @fearsomefoursome4
      @fearsomefoursome4 4 роки тому +1

      Ok it's ok to call this guy a guru and bad mouth him cause his industry work isn't scientifcally based. But if you want to actually address what he's saying that's different. he never once bad mouthed being emotional or being rational nor did he imply either was a bad thing. The question that woman asked about it being on woman to figure out a mans love language was a completely loaded question. and if we're being honest here english is obviouly not this guys first language. I'm honestly more disappointed with seattle tribe over here and everyon in the audience looking for something to be offended by than ashes dated concepts of men and women.

    • @diemilch555
      @diemilch555 4 роки тому +5

      Holy shit, I would have never expected to see you here too. Oh bro.

    • @DuskSunDawn
      @DuskSunDawn 4 роки тому +2

      I think he didn't explaint it well. I think he was talking about studies that appeared on the news years ago, that studied the parts of the brain that people activate. They say men TEND to be better at maths and spatial memory while women TEND to be better at language...and, also, that women TEND to activate more parts of the brains than men when doing something I don't remember right now.

    • @rollingblade7582
      @rollingblade7582 4 роки тому +1

      lmao bro
      you’re just about everywhere

  • @sheacali5139
    @sheacali5139 4 роки тому +1814

    I love how Dr. Honda gets more goofy and sassy as he gets deeper into the 90 Days rabbit hole during quarantine.

    • @snoox27
      @snoox27 4 роки тому +30

      I love the sass!

    • @theweehooyeah
      @theweehooyeah 4 роки тому +38

      Goofier than adding some throw pillows to someone’s nothing box while they just sit there and fish for hours?

    • @blackrain9852
      @blackrain9852 4 роки тому +11

      theweehooyeah how did you figure out my weekend plans for every man I come across. Floral pillows everywhere! Mwahahahaha!!! Where my doilies at?!?!

    • @feeshah822
      @feeshah822 4 роки тому +4

      11:10 was the best

    • @lizzyh458
      @lizzyh458 4 роки тому +1

      @@feeshah822 right! I'm watching it again after 2,5 months and was thinking exactly the same.

  • @AC_fl
    @AC_fl 4 роки тому +2039

    “Noooo...no, no, Ash!! BAD, ASH!!”
    “I can’t watch this.”
    “This all could be solved if you had a degree in brain science...”
    The quotable Dr. Kirk made my day 😂😂

  • @kairu5607
    @kairu5607 4 роки тому +952

    Haha! Dr. Honda - “I’m terribly sorry, we will refund your money and please don’t instagram this, thank you very much.” 😂

    • @nietvoorudus5145
      @nietvoorudus5145 4 роки тому +12

      So funny OMG 😂😂😂😂

    • @JordanAlayne
      @JordanAlayne 4 роки тому +10

      I literally felt the same way while watching this video! 😂

    • @Kenjikah
      @Kenjikah 4 роки тому +9

      Did he refund their money?

    • @carlopean5068
      @carlopean5068 4 роки тому +5

      Fred Jones can you believe that he didn’t?!

    • @theweehooyeah
      @theweehooyeah 4 роки тому +1

      Carl Eric Pean I believe that.

  • @ohmyhulahoop
    @ohmyhulahoop 4 роки тому +876

    Dr. Honda: *chokes himself while drowning in cringe*
    Everyone: same

  • @sola9219
    @sola9219 4 роки тому +1161

    That thumbnail of him choking himself tho lmao

    • @mnunezhk
      @mnunezhk 4 роки тому +10

      gives me your avi vibes

    • @thriftyfreebies
      @thriftyfreebies 4 роки тому +11

      I had a good giggle at that 😆

    • @sailordoll1221
      @sailordoll1221 4 роки тому +2

      What part of the video is that

    • @thepotato9541
      @thepotato9541 4 роки тому +6

      @@sailordoll1221 It's at 6:33

    • @lilfairydoll84
      @lilfairydoll84 4 роки тому +12

      totally not click bait though because it literally is the perfect synopsis LOL

  • @chanelgodd
    @chanelgodd 4 роки тому +762

    Ash: women are emotional
    *cuts and zooms to Avery not emoting at all*

    • @PrincesSakura
      @PrincesSakura 4 роки тому +5

      Yeah 😂

    • @ms.turquoise6341
      @ms.turquoise6341 4 роки тому +2

      That's a good catch :D

    • @thriftyfreebies
      @thriftyfreebies 4 роки тому +10

      The fallout after this has him getting really emotional and accusing her of being “cold”, whilst she’s saying that she doesn’t want to be with somebody so emotional, too. Oh, the irony.

  • @madison6802
    @madison6802 4 роки тому +1157

    “Maybe they only edited in the parts that would trigger me” 😂

    • @KidOmega-iv4tp
      @KidOmega-iv4tp 4 роки тому +4

      Yeah, someone's been proved to be really narcissistic! 🤣🤣

  • @ninjaxstickman9721
    @ninjaxstickman9721 4 роки тому +583

    Ash: "Women are emotional and thinks too much"
    Also Ash: Leaves the the room because he his emotional and thinks too much.

  • @livthenekomancer
    @livthenekomancer 4 роки тому +990

    "It's 2020, man. Google something"
    -Dr. Honda, 2020

    • @goosebump801
      @goosebump801 4 роки тому +4

      😂🤣😂

    • @olanitas.9482
      @olanitas.9482 4 роки тому +1

      Yeah Ash obviously did but then his algorithm must have f***** up

    • @joopizdebest
      @joopizdebest 4 роки тому +4

      Need a T-shirt saying this loool

    • @chainmailcatmom8681
      @chainmailcatmom8681 4 роки тому +8

      You forgot the " jiminy crickets, it's 2020 man" quite possibly the best begining of a quote-able line 😂

    • @bigchicken5243
      @bigchicken5243 4 роки тому +1

      the burn

  • @eringoblah
    @eringoblah 4 роки тому +529

    "We love to be in the nothing box" made me picture a bunch of men playing in empty boxes like cats

    • @shanareilly6649
      @shanareilly6649 4 роки тому +14

      Made me laugh 😅😅

    • @ericalusky7236
      @ericalusky7236 4 роки тому +10

      LMFAO I died reading this

    • @theweehooyeah
      @theweehooyeah 4 роки тому +17

      If it fits, i sits!

    • @bobtheball5384
      @bobtheball5384 4 роки тому +16

      Lmao that's actually kind of cute-

    • @turnipgreen6280
      @turnipgreen6280 4 роки тому +5

      This shit has me Fucking rolling. Idk why this comment so funny but I’m Fucking bugging right now.

  • @jeanp1323
    @jeanp1323 4 роки тому +846

    "There's no substitute for proper education" - Dr Kirk, 2020 - SAVAGE ! LOL

  • @AC_fl
    @AC_fl 4 роки тому +827

    Just when I thought this feedback couldn’t get any better, he slid down in his chair laughing 🤣🤣

    • @carr0760
      @carr0760 4 роки тому +24

      I had tears streaming down my face when he did that!

    • @candaceisenberg4833
      @candaceisenberg4833 4 роки тому +29

      Agree. I also liked when he laughed because it felt like it came from a nonjudgemntal place. I felt like he was laughing at the choice of words but not in a mean way. It felt light and more about the human condition of foot in mouth which we have all had. Plus Ash kept digging... at that point what else can you do but laugh, the second hand embarrassment became too unbearable.

    • @Daphoenyx
      @Daphoenyx 4 роки тому +3

      hahaha right I'm laughing so much omg

    • @lunallena2933
      @lunallena2933 4 роки тому +3

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @FittedSheetGaming
    @FittedSheetGaming 4 роки тому +392

    "I lost my train of thought" not very logical for a man 😂

  • @Lshaw89
    @Lshaw89 4 роки тому +677

    "Maybe the rest of the seminar will be rad and I'll be throwing ash thumbs up"
    Strap in buckaroo for a wild ride

  • @hannahwirth1035
    @hannahwirth1035 4 роки тому +588

    the thumbnail killed me before I even clicked on it

  • @maimestiza
    @maimestiza 4 роки тому +191

    "I mean is he gonna start talking about the menstrual cycle at this point?" I'm dead 🤣🤣🤣

  • @trishtalksflix
    @trishtalksflix 4 роки тому +530

    Dr. Honda: "Ohhh noooooo!"
    Me: "Just hold on, it gets worse"

    • @Rise2022
      @Rise2022 4 роки тому +3

      Trishiana Brown Hahaha! You’re right the best is to come. 😂

    • @cjma482
      @cjma482 4 роки тому +2

      😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️

    • @trishtalksflix
      @trishtalksflix 4 роки тому +1

      @Elle Whitworth Thank you so much!❤️ It's pretty common in my country lol

    • @orelse
      @orelse 4 роки тому +3

      lol when he shrinks down in his chair 😭😭😭 Dr Honda is one of us.

  • @ivyk5796
    @ivyk5796 4 роки тому +297

    Those girls probably think the cameras are there because they are being pranked

    • @angelica534
      @angelica534 4 роки тому +3

      😂

    • @LtZerge
      @LtZerge 4 роки тому +6

      On that off chance they're getting punk'd and have a chance to meet Ashton Kutcher lol

    • @wandilengwenya4345
      @wandilengwenya4345 4 роки тому

      😂😂🤣💀

    • @camiquesada2009
      @camiquesada2009 4 роки тому +8

      This could totally be an Impractical Jokers presentation! 😂

    • @loveinsearchofwords
      @loveinsearchofwords 4 роки тому +1

      They think there is a guest star on impractical jokers 😆

  • @awetistic5295
    @awetistic5295 4 роки тому +229

    "I'm going through a few stuff in my mind that is actually going too crazy." - You mean... stuff inside those neatly organized, logical man boxes inside your mind? How is that supposed to be crazy?

  • @regcla6667
    @regcla6667 4 роки тому +403

    Ash : 2:01 so when you (women) are thinking, you're thinking many things at a time.. Everything is like "vrrrrrrrrrrrrrm" it's going crazy in your brain
    Also Ash, a man : 7:26 sorry guys, I'm going through a few stuff in my mind, that is actually going too crazy

    • @spde
      @spde 4 роки тому +8

      FAXXXXXXXX 🤣

    • @VaultGirl-
      @VaultGirl- 4 роки тому +41

      Ash is a woman confirmed

    • @alexandraaikonika
      @alexandraaikonika 4 роки тому +25

      SO YOU’VE BEEN A WOMAN ALL ALONG ASH?

    • @greta8746
      @greta8746 4 роки тому +28

      Later, when they argue he becomes very emotional and irrational, while Avery is very calm and just trying to solve the problem. How could that be Ash?! How could that be?!

    • @JessicasAnimalFriends
      @JessicasAnimalFriends 4 роки тому +5

      LIT👏🏻ER👏🏻AL👏🏻LY👏🏻

  • @raven1121
    @raven1121 4 роки тому +381

    Before the video: I bet Ash is using his skills as a relationship coach to know exactly what to say to manipulate the conversation/Relationship
    After the video : probably not

    • @swansonlexie
      @swansonlexie 4 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @musingwanderer2765
      @musingwanderer2765 4 роки тому

      He threw a sissy fit and insist Avery tells him she loves him else he’s going! He behaves as if he has never been in a rs before 😹😹😹😹

  • @petezahut2432
    @petezahut2432 4 роки тому +156

    Dr. Honda sinking into his chair laughing at Ash at 11:14 is the best thing I’ve seen all week

    • @Lily-cl6zk
      @Lily-cl6zk 3 роки тому

      🤣🤣

    • @maym3456
      @maym3456 3 роки тому

      Hahaha same.

    • @tato1026
      @tato1026 Рік тому +1

      I come back to this video every now and then, just to rewatch that bit and laugh-cry with Dr. H 😂😂😂

    • @zeldagirl420
      @zeldagirl420 Рік тому +1

      @@tato1026 Sameee lmfaooo first time ive seen him laugh that hard

  • @GourmandGirlie
    @GourmandGirlie 4 роки тому +589

    Don’t forget, Ash plagiarized most of this “seminar.” Makes it that much more cringe

    • @Niveskeetay
      @Niveskeetay 4 роки тому +30

      Yeah, I was going to ask if he ripped off Mark Gungor. Weird.

    • @raissalianna889
      @raissalianna889 4 роки тому +25

      I think he did.. I watched a video of someone saying the same things.. but that person talking in the seminar felt more free-spirited and entertaining :)

    • @KrisTinna41
      @KrisTinna41 4 роки тому +8

      True. I was shocked to see it, too! Mark's version is better, bec well...he wrote his own script.

    • @Auriflamme
      @Auriflamme 4 роки тому +39

      @@KrisTinna41 The original is still terrible misinformation though, even if it is delivered in a much more entertaining way.

    • @pippetandpossum
      @pippetandpossum 4 роки тому +21

      @@Auriflamme I thought it's supposed to be a comedy skit and not scientific? Like I thought he's a comedian?

  • @jamieosaka6208
    @jamieosaka6208 4 роки тому +947

    I love how your facial expression is matching everyone else’s in the room...and possibly the world 😑😣🙄

    • @cruelad1075
      @cruelad1075 4 роки тому +11

      Reminds me a little bit of Rose :)

    • @ivyk5796
      @ivyk5796 4 роки тому +3

      Mine is matching too

    • @vocaliise
      @vocaliise 4 роки тому +6

      Karina87 He is! Some found his profile

    • @LtZerge
      @LtZerge 4 роки тому +4

      Everyone watching this channel at least.
      I can't speak for the average TLC viewer, I feel like there are plenty of seriously old-school 1940s style conservatives to go around

    • @CK-wi1td
      @CK-wi1td 4 роки тому +1

      Lmao

  • @alexnightray5004
    @alexnightray5004 4 роки тому +168

    "How to find a man and not kill him." …..wow...what a great opening to the seminar. It certainly sets the tone and grate on women the wrong way.

    • @shrxyeah6264
      @shrxyeah6264 4 роки тому +8

      I think he was just warning them before he started talking.

  • @amybradley5821
    @amybradley5821 4 роки тому +564

    And his whole “speech” is plagiarized from some else’s seminar. Word for word until he just screws it up.

    • @gemmasalmon9667
      @gemmasalmon9667 4 роки тому +10

      Amy Bradley really?!

    • @awkwardotter13
      @awkwardotter13 4 роки тому +15

      That’s ridiculous, how has he not been sued?

    • @TheORealWitch
      @TheORealWitch 4 роки тому +115

      It's Mark Gunor's and I saw it ages ago but it is much more of a stand up than a seminar.
      I remember it was more for the laughs than stating facts. It's just sad to see that some people take it as a coaching stuff. Maybe someone in the coaching community made a lecture about it the it spread among them.

    • @Lshaw89
      @Lshaw89 4 роки тому +84

      Plagiarized from some comedian/motivational speaker called Mark Gungor, and Gungors original speech is meant to be taken ironically and not seriously. It does the rounds in Facebook videos all the time, so I imagine Ash watched it that very morning lol

    • @vashtilantigua908
      @vashtilantigua908 4 роки тому +3

      Amy Bradley Right? It’s from a Mexican catholic priest, wasn’t it?

  • @itzdumb
    @itzdumb 4 роки тому +228

    I love how Dr. Honda is finally learning the art of click bait thumbnails. He’s becoming a true blue UA-camr. :’)

    • @sonjalam3843
      @sonjalam3843 4 роки тому +65

      Can't be clickbai when the cringe was actually real, which is even better 😂

    • @lilly_koii
      @lilly_koii 4 роки тому +7

      I actually got some friends to start watching his vids thanks to that thumbnail hahaha

  • @MegCGZ1
    @MegCGZ1 4 роки тому +68

    My spirt animal is the lady staring in disbelief and saying simply, “No.”

  • @Lpstpaul
    @Lpstpaul 4 роки тому +79

    Dr. Honda: “no. no. No. nO. NO...NO”
    Participants: “no.”
    The comments section: “hell yesssss.”
    Best. Episode. Yet.

  • @carmendeleon001
    @carmendeleon001 4 роки тому +195

    It's funny how dr. Honda went from: "there is no evidence of that" to: N O !

  • @ericjensen7580
    @ericjensen7580 4 роки тому +87

    Sounds like her question really decorated his nothing box.

  • @fay10999
    @fay10999 4 роки тому +497

    It was interesting that at the first sign of trouble, Ash turned into a “woman”..ash’s words not mine. He could’ve just went into his “nothing box” calmed himself down.

    • @constancelequesne601
      @constancelequesne601 4 роки тому +9

      Ooooh good one 👍🏻👍🏻

    • @Lunalis_610
      @Lunalis_610 4 роки тому +37

      Haha yeah, he could've gone fishing for a bit.

    • @jclyntoledo
      @jclyntoledo 4 роки тому

      Yeah I always wondered how this info came about but everyone kept taking it as truth when they would hear it, this was like 5 yr's ago.

    • @amarieoflothlorien
      @amarieoflothlorien 4 роки тому +16

      I have got a nothing box too, it's called the toilet, that's were I leave my bullshit LOL!!!

    • @ladydiamond6611
      @ladydiamond6611 4 роки тому +1

      @@amarieoflothlorien this was gold!

  • @elizabethbaxter7417
    @elizabethbaxter7417 4 роки тому +308

    I laughed until I cried!! You know it’s bad when Dr. Honda says “At this point, you deserve what’s coming to you”.... 😅😂

  • @raineivy6146
    @raineivy6146 4 роки тому +94

    When Ash says "...it's just going crazy in my brain right now"
    ...didn't he just finish saying how men think in 'boxes' & in women's minds it's all 'crazy'? 😥 painful 😣

    • @ursaminor9780
      @ursaminor9780 3 роки тому +12

      It’s almost beautiful. Couldn’t ask for a clearer dissonance between rhetoric and reality. His “logical” brain is being overwhelmed by embarrassment and confusion while the “emotional” women are putting aside their anger and insulted feelings to calmly and clearly break down faults in his arguments.

  • @ellaclifford8257
    @ellaclifford8257 4 роки тому +397

    “I feel like I’m losing IQ points watching this” haha me too😂

  • @soulsocietyprincess
    @soulsocietyprincess 4 роки тому +197

    can we all take a moment for the thumbnail? THE THUMBNAILLL 😂

    • @monkeymonkles547
      @monkeymonkles547 4 роки тому +7

      I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT HAHAHA I LOVE IT

    • @mochachrunchz3543
      @mochachrunchz3543 4 роки тому +9

      I KNOWWWW HAHAHAHA that's actually part of the reason why I clicked this vid-- it was so funny lmaoooo

    • @unprodigal87
      @unprodigal87 4 роки тому

      I cried laughing!! I was not expecting that 🤣

    • @Picollm
      @Picollm 4 роки тому

      Bruhhh i need it in meme form 😂😂

    • @yazzmagtalas
      @yazzmagtalas 4 роки тому +1

      i watched the vid because of it. 😂

  • @aislynncarpenter701
    @aislynncarpenter701 4 роки тому +126

    "No. No. No. No! No! NO!"
    I'm with you there Dr. Honda.

  • @jessnoor7386
    @jessnoor7386 4 роки тому +414

    Alright folks, caLM DOWN, THIS IS THE MOMENT WE'VE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR
    Edit- since this comment got a lot of likes (tysm everyone), I'll use this spill some tea I got off ig about the seminar-
    hi Dr Honda, I hope you notice this, I'd like to inform you that one of the women in the seminar did a q&a on her ig, and someone asked what was the most absurd thing Ash said during the seminar, her answer was ash said something like women should dance to ease the mood, I would really like to hear your thoughts on this in the next installment, thank you.

  • @juliett5789
    @juliett5789 4 роки тому +179

    OKAY BUT THE THUMBNAIL HAS ME ON THE FLOOR 😭😭😭

    • @legzfalloffgirl5148
      @legzfalloffgirl5148 4 роки тому +10

      Him too apparently!!😹😹

    • @leandajohns338
      @leandajohns338 4 роки тому +6

      I knew when I seen the thumbnail, what this video was going to be about! Couldn't click on it fast enough!! 😅🤣😂🥴😳😂🤣😅

    • @leandajohns338
      @leandajohns338 4 роки тому +2

      I knew what this video clip was about as soon as I seen the thumbnail!! Couldn't click fast enough! 😆😳😅🥴🤣😳😂🥴😆

  • @burniquelonggadog5676
    @burniquelonggadog5676 4 роки тому +251

    Ash: "Women are emotional."
    Women: So, you choose death.

    • @genbluefun4124
      @genbluefun4124 3 роки тому +3

      😂😂

    • @kymscates7081
      @kymscates7081 3 роки тому +7

      “Women are emotional”
      In a room full of women... 😂
      I think he needs to go back to his nothing box! 📦

    • @bassssaasuuuup
      @bassssaasuuuup 2 роки тому +1

      *Correction
      women AND (reasonable sane)MEN : so, you choose death

  • @0Demiyah0
    @0Demiyah0 4 роки тому +215

    His Seminar could've been a sketch on The Office 😂 awkward conversation and zoom-ins on people's confused faces

    • @constancelequesne601
      @constancelequesne601 4 роки тому +9

      Yes!!!! This is very much a conference room meeting 😂

    • @fifadid
      @fifadid 4 роки тому +6

      I can imagine Dwight or Micheal saying this perfectly imdead

  • @JessicasAnimalFriends
    @JessicasAnimalFriends 4 роки тому +182

    “Going through a few stuff in my mind that is too crazy” OH ASH I THOUGHT ONLY WOMEN DID THAT 🙄

  • @juliannerafferty2605
    @juliannerafferty2605 4 роки тому +135

    I’m so happy to see this broken down and validating the fact that this is in fact sexist. I took an interpersonal communication course at my university which is predominantly male and is a military school, and this was the kind of content my professor would teach, and being one of the few girls in this class made it very difficult and confusing to see whether my thoughts that it was false, outdated, and sexist were correct when the whole class largely agreed with the professor.

    • @shoganflamemasta3975
      @shoganflamemasta3975 4 роки тому +22

      Sis, it's just that you can't go around trying to decorate on their "nothingness box", like seriously.

    • @triston9312
      @triston9312 4 роки тому +6

      Run away frm dis type of class.or u will lose urself

    • @kirstenminges9080
      @kirstenminges9080 4 роки тому +4

      I took an interpersonal communication class in a community college and it was incredible and totally different to this. It was completely about communicating effectively none of it hinged on gender that I can think of off the top of my head.

    • @paulameninato8948
      @paulameninato8948 3 роки тому +7

      That reminds me of the time I studied abroad in a Mexican Catholic school and thought it would be fun to take an ethics class.... The teacher was talking the whole time about how abortion is murder and made us debate whether homosexuals are ethical people. I'm bi so not the most fun class.

    • @baintreachas
      @baintreachas 11 місяців тому

      I’ve seen this taught at “girl power” type events. Kill me now

  • @ally526
    @ally526 4 роки тому +151

    Dr. Honda watching Ash's seminar was like watching myself see it for the first time all over again 🤣🤣🤣

    • @nixwestlake9196
      @nixwestlake9196 4 роки тому +4

      A Martz I’m sure we all made the same facial expressions as he is LMAO I’m cracking up at this. It is great

  • @maryshell
    @maryshell 4 роки тому +75

    I’ve seen people commenting that they can’t wait for Dr. Honda to react to the seminar. I had no idea this seminar is THIS bad 😱

    • @reysquadron7820
      @reysquadron7820 4 роки тому

      Same, I haven't watched the show, just love watching his takes and my sole exposure to it and couldn't wait to see "the seminar."

  • @TaniaLevy
    @TaniaLevy 4 роки тому +208

    Dr. Kirk, i usually never comment..but i am watching your videos every day and i am also on your podcast..i am a simple vocal coach but i literally just fell in love with your amazing review,you are so warm in all videos,and clearly so professionals. I started to watch your videos more because of the difficulties in my marriage...and it made me reflect so much more about myself and the way how i speak and how i react! I want to thank you as you are doing an amazing job here in the youtube community! thank you from singapore /germany! you are also very very handsome!

    • @allymkbay
      @allymkbay 3 роки тому +4

      Hi Tania! Im a fan of yours! Dr. Honda has been helpful to me as well. I'm thankful for these videos. Take care!

  • @kiwibuddy2
    @kiwibuddy2 4 роки тому +339

    I love the reaction of the woman who says “interesting” and then simply disengages. Clearly she realized there was no point wasting any more time or energy on this clown. He should be grateful, as she would have decimated him. Granted, that would have been entertaining to watch, but cudos to her for not engaging in a battle of wits with someone she clearly had outgunned!

    • @marcm3038
      @marcm3038 4 роки тому +20

      I feel like he would have kept dismissing all her points by saying "in your own mind"

    • @goosebump801
      @goosebump801 4 роки тому +3

      I would’ve had a hard time reacting so wisely 😂

    • @animeaftermidnight2765
      @animeaftermidnight2765 4 роки тому +3

      She was already wasting time at his dumb seminar it would have been worth decimating him I don't know why you congratulate her for not decimating him.

    • @animeaftermidnight2765
      @animeaftermidnight2765 4 роки тому +5

      @@goosebump801 I sincerely don't get why not telling somebody off is reacting wisely. I think some people deserve to be told off and need to be told off or else I'll keep thinking that they're right. This dude is one of those types of people.

    • @werisekk3
      @werisekk3 4 роки тому +7

      @@animeaftermidnight2765 possibly because it would be pointless, and in this case it would be pointless. Her opinions wouldn't change his mind in the slightest; she would waste her time and possibly put herself under needless stress (frustration) for absolutely nothing.

  • @ashleyclaire
    @ashleyclaire 4 роки тому +382

    “Now you’re talking crystals and crap.” 😂🤣🤣🤣 that’s gold. Imma use that for sure 👌🏻
    Been waiting for this, and you did not disappoint!!

    • @clarkkent1521
      @clarkkent1521 4 роки тому +15

      Honda broke. Jesse couldn't, but Ash did.

  • @brujitanoiresydr9687
    @brujitanoiresydr9687 4 роки тому +102

    Not gonna lie, I love this guy, he’s usually so even keel, this is hilarious “ I feel like I’m losing IQ points watching this” bahahaha

  • @xerxezrax
    @xerxezrax 4 роки тому +149

    i dropped EVERYTHING i was doing to watch this as soon as i saw the thumbnail

    • @LoriB58
      @LoriB58 4 роки тому +1

      Alison Shur omg yes! 😱 waiting for days!

    • @bbluebabby
      @bbluebabby 4 роки тому

      Same 🤣

    • @rishaa682
      @rishaa682 4 роки тому

      why

  • @Starwildchild1
    @Starwildchild1 4 роки тому +102

    “You’re talking crystals and crap.” Best quote from Dr. Kirk. I love it! 🤣

  • @shannepieters1789
    @shannepieters1789 4 роки тому +248

    The whole "nothing box" in the male brain sounds familiar to me and I'm 99% sure he stole it from a comedian, I'm not even kidding.

    • @GinaJ05
      @GinaJ05 4 роки тому +23

      Yeah he did

    • @Nashville4N6
      @Nashville4N6 4 роки тому +35

      It came from Pastor Mark Gungor and his Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage series. Mark’s delivery is hilarious and Ash just butchered it.

    • @WookieWoman
      @WookieWoman 4 роки тому +2

      Yup!

    • @nikkilengyel
      @nikkilengyel 4 роки тому +7

      He did. I saw that stand up years ago. It was funny. This...isn't...

    • @bsilva1302
      @bsilva1302 3 роки тому +1

      True

  • @FoxForcex5
    @FoxForcex5 4 роки тому +289

    “Equal opportunity sexist to everyone right now” pretty much sums it up 😂

    • @cjma482
      @cjma482 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️

  • @silvia-with-an-i
    @silvia-with-an-i 4 роки тому +275

    Professor Honda, I've never clicked on anything faster.

    • @cathybuchanan1421
      @cathybuchanan1421 4 роки тому +6

      Same! And shared with my 90DF friends lol

    • @drewchase6577
      @drewchase6577 4 роки тому +5

      Yeah, I've been waiting 4him to get to this clip.👍🏾😉

    • @milliehayes
      @milliehayes 4 роки тому +5

      I know, it was Christmas in my UA-cam suggestions!

    • @debbie2626
      @debbie2626 4 роки тому +5

      That thumbnail made me click faster than any clickbait I've ever seen in my life

    • @ChicSeraphim
      @ChicSeraphim 4 роки тому +2

      I could not wait for this!!!!

  • @melissag.428
    @melissag.428 4 роки тому +80

    "I would just call the whole thing off." Lmfao

  • @trianautamii
    @trianautamii 4 роки тому +191

    "I'm losing IQ points"
    Iiimmm whhheeeezzziiinngg 😭😭

  • @janeoracion4529
    @janeoracion4529 4 роки тому +247

    "I guess I could turn the camera off and get back my dominant male energy!" So cute! Hahaha I'm getting 2nd and 3rd hand cringe and laughing at the same time 😂

  • @mariaurena8078
    @mariaurena8078 4 роки тому +55

    Watching doc Kirks wholesome reactions is giving me so much serotonin
    right now lol

    • @smcd114
      @smcd114 2 роки тому +1

      Seriously I get therapy just watching him

  • @tecneon
    @tecneon 4 роки тому +170

    Ash: "men or more logical "
    Also Ash: "I need some time I lost my train of thought 😳".

    • @TheEmeraldLady
      @TheEmeraldLady 4 роки тому +3

      The irony of that moment alone! 😂

  • @noaomime
    @noaomime 4 роки тому +122

    Ash: any questions?
    Participants: 🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏽‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋🏻‍♀️🙋🏼‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️ refund please???

    • @mariajosemedina1
      @mariajosemedina1 4 роки тому +1

      I thought this would happen, I'm kinda disappointed ):

  • @cassandrahall7357
    @cassandrahall7357 4 роки тому +38

    “He is welcome to his train wreck”
    Yaaaass! I’ve been waiting weeks for this analysis and you did not disappoint Dr. Honda 😂

  • @fallennight89
    @fallennight89 4 роки тому +164

    Ash: Men's brains are very rigid and logical
    Also Ash: My brain is all over the place

    • @marcm3038
      @marcm3038 4 роки тому +6

      he should have taken a quick trip into his "nothing box"

    • @memi089
      @memi089 4 роки тому +2

      Maybe he missed placed some information in the wrong box lol!

    • @paris8780
      @paris8780 4 роки тому

      looool

  • @aeris...5389
    @aeris...5389 4 роки тому +161

    Girl: Me and my partner are very balance (masculine and feminine) and both are sexually active
    Ash : no

    • @chapawapa9736
      @chapawapa9736 4 роки тому +1

      Lol

    • @-w-1870
      @-w-1870 4 роки тому +9

      That shit killed me😂😂😂

    • @Kidgirl13
      @Kidgirl13 4 роки тому

      lmfaooooooo

    • @marcm3038
      @marcm3038 4 роки тому +1

      "it was all a dream in your own mind"

  • @kittyfox7
    @kittyfox7 4 роки тому +56

    I love when he said “I’m rethinking him and I don’t even live with him” 😂

  • @evelinel.9827
    @evelinel.9827 4 роки тому +251

    Dr. Kirk's face is priceless listening to the BS in the seminar!

  • @crazymike1706
    @crazymike1706 4 роки тому +246

    I love how a guy that wears leggings, is ill-informed, and fears being challenged has the nerve to say women are less logical.

    • @mamabear9454
      @mamabear9454 4 роки тому +5

      Not sure how Ash gets his legs into those leggings. What is his secret?

    • @seleneblackthorn1752
      @seleneblackthorn1752 4 роки тому +1

      I love how leggings are illogical xD

    • @rainesalatte
      @rainesalatte 4 роки тому

      Michael Gomez THANK YOU!

  • @luscraftasticcorner6635
    @luscraftasticcorner6635 4 роки тому +38

    i'm banging my head on my desk and laughing ... i cannot believe this was aired. LMAO

  • @germansnout
    @germansnout 4 роки тому +124

    If anything maybe this will help Avery feel less worried about his clients developing feelings for him😂

    • @Mimmi112
      @Mimmi112 4 роки тому +3

      🤣🤣👍

    • @rainesalatte
      @rainesalatte 4 роки тому +5

      I was so horrified by this seminar the first time that I didn’t even think of that but you are ABSOLUTELY right! 😂😂😂

    • @theweehooyeah
      @theweehooyeah 4 роки тому

      There is some online speculation that this isn’t exactly his typical “seminar”

    • @JudgeJeana
      @JudgeJeana 4 роки тому

      Don't underestimate the pity lay!! 🤣🤣

  • @candyllene
    @candyllene 4 роки тому +468

    *Dr. Honda cringing for 21 min and 25 sec straight*

    • @0Demiyah0
      @0Demiyah0 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂

    • @rachell783
      @rachell783 4 роки тому

      That’s what it is 😂🤣

    • @cjma482
      @cjma482 4 роки тому

      😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️

    • @sarah3796
      @sarah3796 4 роки тому

      I cringed all the way through

  • @nancyharris5530
    @nancyharris5530 4 роки тому +64

    I married my husband after knowing him for two weeks. My cat loved him. 49 years later we are still married and I love him more than ever.

    • @nikkimoon1533
      @nikkimoon1533 4 роки тому +3

      That's awesome. I married mine after 49 days. We fell in love on line, the feeling were immensely stronger in person and we just seemed to gel together so well. We've had our ups and downs, but he's an amazing man and I'm so glad that i committed myself to him in marriage. ❤️ Thanks for sharing.

    • @SchlyterMia
      @SchlyterMia 4 роки тому +8

      Makes sense. Ash explained that men have boxes inside. Cats love boxes! (I'm being silly. Congrats on a long and successful marriage. :) )

    • @stephanieclark1487
      @stephanieclark1487 3 роки тому +2

      Cat love is important! ❤️ my parents marries three months after meeting and they’ve been together 40 years.

  • @whushaw
    @whushaw 4 роки тому +355

    "Jiminy Cricket's, it's 2020 dude. Google something!" - Dr. Kirk 2020

    • @kgales457
      @kgales457 4 роки тому +1

      This....on a shirt? Whoo, good merch

    • @thapoppyman
      @thapoppyman 4 роки тому

      Why are you people acting surprised by Ash's beliefs. This is the exact reason i don't like Indians. Ash showed their true feelings no matter how they act. All indian ppl deep to the core are sexist, insecure of their masculinity, jealous and evil. So what if it's 2020, this is who they are in dna and will never change.

  • @treasurerescue8885
    @treasurerescue8885 4 роки тому +162

    When I saw this episode I was cringing and thought "omg what is Dr. Honda going think about this guy?!" You did not disappoint, you hit the nail on the head. Now go take a couple aspirin and lay down to recover from Ash.

    • @midlight9758
      @midlight9758 4 роки тому

      treasure rescue same! And his responses were awesome

  • @amymamabear5227
    @amymamabear5227 4 роки тому +40

    7:20 one of ash’s boxes just collapsed

  • @TestaRosssa_
    @TestaRosssa_ 4 роки тому +66

    He said women have too much going on in their brains and it gets all jumbled up like 3 minutes before saying the exact same thing was happening to him and asking for a break! 🤣

    • @kentuckydaisy5578
      @kentuckydaisy5578 4 роки тому +4

      someone play him the tape, dude look what happened there

  • @nancyharris5530
    @nancyharris5530 4 роки тому +202

    Doc, you are so right. My husband of 49 years is a starry eyed romantic
    I don't have a romantic bone in my body. I could fish and knit for hours. Don would put a purple lazy boy recliner .in my nothing box.

    • @vashtilantigua908
      @vashtilantigua908 4 роки тому +5

      Nancy Harris 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @helenf.7221
      @helenf.7221 4 роки тому

      Lolllllzzz

    • @sharonbecker2851
      @sharonbecker2851 4 роки тому +3

      Nancy Harris. I am the romantic at times and so is my husband. And there are times when we can be together and not talk at all. We enjoy each others company. Even when separated. Cheers to Dr Honda!!

    • @nancyharris5530
      @nancyharris5530 4 роки тому

      @@sharonbecker2851 q

    • @nancyharris5530
      @nancyharris5530 4 роки тому +2

      Isn't it so true that we do not need to be stuck in a stereotype to have a great relationship with another person .

  • @Dino23124
    @Dino23124 3 роки тому +31

    I think this is very enlightening towards why Ash is a “coach” and Dr. Honda is a licensed professional.

  • @Daphoenyx
    @Daphoenyx 4 роки тому +150

    "Equal opportunity sexist to everyone right now" hahaha love Kirk Honda

    • @Nimesay1
      @Nimesay1 4 роки тому +1

      Amazing comment I chuckled 😂

  • @Han-yb7qo
    @Han-yb7qo 4 роки тому +95

    “You’re equal-opportunity sexist towards everyone right now. Fantastic.” I’m crying

  • @matildaramoni4053
    @matildaramoni4053 4 роки тому +42

    The seminar starts:
    Me: the show is about to begin

  • @feedcin6314
    @feedcin6314 4 роки тому +149

    “I guess I can turn the camera off and get back my dominant male energy” LOL!!!!

  • @KarenSmallwood
    @KarenSmallwood 4 роки тому +58

    Dr. Honda's face is so expressive during this video that I could have understood his reactions even with my sound on mute!!

  • @cybernautadventurer
    @cybernautadventurer 2 роки тому +5

    This is still one of my favourite Kirk Honda videos.

  • @spicy_ctrlo7132
    @spicy_ctrlo7132 4 роки тому +44

    This was the best episode ever . My favourite part was when Dr. Honda went into a no loop hahaha

    • @goosebump801
      @goosebump801 4 роки тому

      Yes! It was like Michael Scott on seeing that Toby’s back from Honduras 😁

  • @ShivaBM
    @ShivaBM 4 роки тому +100

    "Bad, Ash" killed me 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @cheryl593
      @cheryl593 4 роки тому +1

      Me too. That was gold.

  • @stellannie86
    @stellannie86 2 роки тому +8

    Back here once again watching this legendary gem.. 🙂🙂

  • @arianasullivan
    @arianasullivan 4 роки тому +243

    I've been having a *really* difficult time during quarantine. Stuck inside with my 6 kids (I'm a single mom), not being able to see my therapist. Etc. I was recommended one of your videos and almost didn't watch because I don't watch reality TV so why would I care about someone talking about it? Well, I thought- hey a third party, professional viewing of reality TV? That could be interesting.
    I ended up watching your entire Love is Blind series and felt so inspired by your commentary. I've taken notes and thought about my past relationship with my ex differently. I've been working really hard on myself and your videos have been the fuel to keep me going. I was so depressed and hopeless and your videos have given me a connection to a level of hope I couldn't find on my own. I just want to thank you from the bottom of my heart. I'm so grateful to have found you right now. Sorry this was long but I've just really been so helped and so inspired and so entertained I had to tell you. Thank you for your content ❤

    • @evam7502
      @evam7502 4 роки тому +3

      You rocky mama God bless u and ur familie

    • @oliviaobiaja
      @oliviaobiaja 4 роки тому +14

      I don't know how you're keeping it together with 6 kids. I have one and it's not easy...more love to you!

    • @cpr876
      @cpr876 4 роки тому +5

      I wholeheartedly agree. I’ve learned a bit about myself from hearing his commentary and seeing the couples in this series.
      Hang in there Mama!

    • @jodibell9869
      @jodibell9869 4 роки тому +11

      Wow what a phenomenal woman, raising 6 kids on your own! I have so much respect for you👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

    • @macweenie3780
      @macweenie3780 4 роки тому +9

      Just wanted to add that most therapists offer services online called telehealth, basically like skype or zoom. If your oldest child is able to be in charge of others for an hour, you could ask your therapist if they offer this helpful tool. I know how important mental health is and just wanted you to be aware of this.

  • @mountainhun
    @mountainhun 4 роки тому +218

    As a transgender woman, I was told frequently before I began transitioning that i had a "female mind". But the reality was that a major impetus was my socialization. I found it very difficult to interact with others socially as a man, and the expectations and implications thereof. Once I began transitioning socializing became so much easier and more comfortable for me. As a result I gained what people would consider more traditionally masculine qualities: I was more confident, more outspoken, more determined to have my voice heard. But the reality is that those attributes aren't reserved for men, and my improved confidence stemmed from fulfilling myself as a person.

    • @rainesalatte
      @rainesalatte 4 роки тому +11

      mountainhun good luck on your journey. 🙏❤️

    • @theweehooyeah
      @theweehooyeah 4 роки тому +14

      Wish you’d been at the seminar and said that to him; commence head-explody

    • @bobtheball5384
      @bobtheball5384 4 роки тому +26

      @j mula
      There's much more to life than hating people for what they are. Grow up.

    • @Monocultured01
      @Monocultured01 4 роки тому +19

      @j mula not understanding something about somebody doesn't mean you should hate them or find them gross. I also hope you wouldn't be surprised if I told you your comment is extremely rude (because it is).

    • @febbiegrace14
      @febbiegrace14 4 роки тому +6

      I'm happy you found your true self ❤️

  • @dianapascual1026
    @dianapascual1026 4 роки тому +20

    This episode might have broken Dr. Honda 🤣
    "No...no...no! No..."

  • @xstanstanstan
    @xstanstanstan 4 роки тому +175

    I found his seminar extremely difficult to watch, even this far away from it. I can't imagine how it feels there in the seminar.

  • @ZoeBellCake
    @ZoeBellCake 4 роки тому +58

    We broke Dr. Honda! I'm so sorry! My emotional brain is very upset right now! Lol

    • @ChelzLovesPeanut
      @ChelzLovesPeanut 4 роки тому +1

      “I’m losing brain cells.” I’ve never heard him be so curt before. 😅😅😅

  • @indiajaymes2401
    @indiajaymes2401 4 роки тому +9

    Dr. Honda's reactions and sassy remarks are SOLID GOLD in this - easily my favorite episode so far.

  • @humongouslyentertained
    @humongouslyentertained 4 роки тому +34

    Your reactions got me laughing so hard! You really tried to give him the benefit of the doubt in the beginning, and then roasted him into the ground haha

  • @tin589
    @tin589 4 роки тому +219

    "i'm going through a few stuff in my mind that is actually going too crazy" wow.. almost as if.. men don't think within boxes?

    • @murktarat
      @murktarat 4 роки тому +4

      wait this is the most hilarious comment, thank you!

    • @aswaswasw2323
      @aswaswasw2323 4 роки тому +2

      🤣🤣🤣🤣 yo these comments I just - 🤣🤣

    • @tonichan89
      @tonichan89 4 роки тому +6

      "Everything is like rrrrrvn, it’s going crazy in your brain!" ... oh wait, that was specifically women brains, right? Right, right!

    • @coolcat6341
      @coolcat6341 4 роки тому +1

      His boxes are wet & soggy

  • @Zakrovik
    @Zakrovik 4 роки тому +17

    It's nice seeing Dr. Honda having fun and viewing this as a comedy sketch, for once he just stopped analysing the situation and just let it flow.

  • @BeastTheMadness
    @BeastTheMadness 4 роки тому +269

    Imagine if one of these ladies was a lesbian. And she's like: we all need masculine energy in our lives you say? 😂

    • @OmfgHiii
      @OmfgHiii 4 роки тому +37

      Thing is masculinity isn’t male we all are masculine and feminine. But yes very cringe heteronormative

    • @louibeans
      @louibeans 4 роки тому +17

      ...or bisexual or pansexual or asexual 🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @Misa.misato
      @Misa.misato 4 роки тому +19

      As a very feminine lesbian who likes other feminine women I would have just started laughing in his face.

    • @TheMaiaDriscol
      @TheMaiaDriscol 4 роки тому +7

      Me, a Lipstick Butch: tell me more Dr Ash...

    • @Undeadharpie
      @Undeadharpie 4 роки тому +1

      I thought the blonde woman mentioned a female partner

  • @freyarcn3236
    @freyarcn3236 4 роки тому +319

    It is funny how Ash is using Mark Gungor’s Tale of Two Brains on his seminar. Not very original.
    He is having a hard time explaining what he is talking about because he got it from somebody else.

    • @dll-112
      @dll-112 4 роки тому +11

      This is exactly what I was thinking! I was about to look up the video and comment the same thing

    • @era4036
      @era4036 4 роки тому +11

      And that was rather a stand-up performance of Gungor than a coaching seminar.

    • @ck5611
      @ck5611 4 роки тому +23

      And it was meant as a comedy sketch for married couples to talk about how men and women come into problem solving in a relationship. I've seen it and it's actually pretty funny and you can tell the original guy isn't coming from a sexist point of view more of a this is the socialized jumping off point with a laugh.

    • @Auriflamme
      @Auriflamme 4 роки тому +9

      @@ck5611 If you ask me Mark Gungor's humour is a way of masking or mitigating the 1950s style sexist attitude he has. His seminar is for Christians who are inherently on the conservative family values end of the spectrum. Humour is subjective of course, but his seminars are still being delivered as marriage advice and his junk science is still being delivered as though it has a basis in reality.

    • @eledwin7115
      @eledwin7115 4 роки тому +1

      Yep, copy & paste !!!!

  • @davidlewis4162
    @davidlewis4162 4 роки тому +12

    I enjoy these breakdowns more than the actual programme 😂

  • @MylaCruz11
    @MylaCruz11 4 роки тому +122

    When he started choking himself I had to rewind a few times it was too funny 😂😂

    • @babysbaby1014
      @babysbaby1014 4 роки тому +7

      The hair fixing right after got me too