Best Friend or Worst Enemy?

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  • @VALUETAINMENT
    @VALUETAINMENT  5 років тому

    Share your thoughts with Patrick Bet-David by texting 310.340.1132 or click here my.community.com/patrickbetdavid

  • @Mychalclark
    @Mychalclark 5 років тому +54

    You are right, I’m 23 yrs old now. Feel like I was in middle school not to long ago in 2010.

    • @thelatterdayarbiter
      @thelatterdayarbiter 5 років тому

      Mychal Clark same here, buddy. I started my work 8 years ago, but it’ll be a while longer before I see the results I want.

  • @therocelectric
    @therocelectric 5 років тому

    Sobering... going on 5 years next May 5 2020 in my biz. I been patient about profits and more focus on building my community, because they say it take 5 years to create a brand. Sincere thanks for this video, keeping my nose to the grind stone for the next 9 months... Super sincere thanks I needed to hear this, watching again again again again again again and again.

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 років тому +15

    *Pat, I literally got goosebumps.*
    I know exactly what you mean. People tell you to do this and that, that their ways and methods are better, that they know more than renowned wise men but at the end of the day, I don't care about words anymore. I just tell them "We'll see, time will tell."

  • @craigscott2315
    @craigscott2315 5 років тому

    time doesn't bother Me so much, I haven't watched time for over a decade. not having a day filled with doing things does bother Me! in relation to the topic, time currently is an enemy. simply, straight up, profound and considerate as always, thank You.

    • @craigscott2315
      @craigscott2315 5 років тому

      today, I don't feel time was my enemy. it is such a nice feeling to remember how I once felt so long ago! been looking forward feeling this way again for near a decade.

  • @SharifSourour
    @SharifSourour 5 років тому +6

    "Time will expose everyone." - PBD Love it!

  • @majornabeel598
    @majornabeel598 5 років тому

    I am 35, never sold even a pencil in my life, been an employee throughout, now planning on starting a business. You keep me motivated n grounded at the same time.

  • @g.y.o5419
    @g.y.o5419 5 років тому +7

    As said anyone can work 16 hours a day, 80 hours a week etc, but who the hell even wants that life, or lack of life. Time is important, and we all only have a limited amount of time before we die, make the most of it. Work smart, not hard.

    • @xdygmnyrdf
      @xdygmnyrdf 5 років тому +1

      Agreed.

    • @robluna193
      @robluna193 5 років тому +3

      Welp, you can work hard and still have a life. When you work that many hours you tend to choose more wisely what you do with your off hours instead of squandering a bunch of it watching Netflix or “living” by being at happy hour several times a week. Think about it..
      We have 168 hours per week.
      - 56 hours of sleep (8 hours per night)
      - 80 hours of work
      - 7 hours commuting to and from work
      = 25 hours ( which is roughly 3.5 hours every day available). Now some days you will not have 3 hours for yourself but if you’re sticking to 80 for the week, you might have 6 hours per day a couple days in a row.
      When you are that busy, you buy time. Meaning you pay people for stuff that don’t matter so you can do the things that actually do matter, like spend undivided QUALITY time with your family etc etc, NOT mowing the yard or washing your own car, cleaning your house, changing your own oil etc etc.
      Lastly, an employee typically doesn’t understand this life because they spend 35 of the 40 hours they work. Thinking about Friday... meaning every single hour feels like work. When you own your business or have equity in one, every bit of effort feels good. When you have a long productive day, you rest your head feeling GREAT about that day. It’s a GOOD TIRED! It’s the sense that you got closer to some of your actual goals and you LOVE THE WORK!

    • @g.y.o5419
      @g.y.o5419 5 років тому

      @@robluna193 If your idea of a life is 3.5 hours per day and you're happy with that, then that's great. No 1 size fits all. I understand where you are coming from, I totally get it. I have owned my own business and felt like there is not enough hours in a day. Depending on what line of business you're in, and other factors will depend how much time it requires from you. Depending where you are in life and what stage of your life, will depend what you want from a business. Will a 21yr old be willing to do 80 hours a week to chase a dream, probably. Then look at someone further on in life say a 60yr old, would they be wanting to work 80 hours a week? Absolutely not I imagine. No advice is wrong advice, it just depends where you are in life and what you want from it.

    • @ajwysopal
      @ajwysopal 5 років тому +1

      @@g.y.o5419 awww you owned your own business?!? What happened? You didn't put the time in? Or was it something else?

    • @g.y.o5419
      @g.y.o5419 5 років тому

      @@ajwysopal Please, don't feel bad for me. I sold the company and made some good money from it. I had it for 11 years and wanted to try something new. I am in the process of starting one, maybe two companies in the next 6 months. Work smart my friend, not hard ;)

  • @JoeAllenCarnivore
    @JoeAllenCarnivore 5 років тому

    I LOVE THIS VERSION OF YOU PAT! Telling it how it is, being real & not trying to tailor your message to everyone!

  • @Xerq457
    @Xerq457 5 років тому +33

    "I'm not talking to you. This message isn't for you. Go watch some cat videos."
    Damn Pat you da man

  • @tsn_7xi
    @tsn_7xi 5 років тому

    Out work
    Out improve
    Out strategize
    Out last 🔥🔥🔥

  • @HumansOfVR
    @HumansOfVR 5 років тому +2

    *_The time in your life is YOURS._* Use it how you see fit

  • @bigblackbillydick8873
    @bigblackbillydick8873 5 років тому

    Time........ is on my side, yes it is!

  • @sirluke7
    @sirluke7 5 років тому +1

    Brutal... but honest. It's a tough world out there. Peace!

  • @kevinlucas9905
    @kevinlucas9905 5 років тому

    Thank you for your insight sir. I've been binge watching your content anytime I'm on Uber or just doing house work and it's really inspired me to change my mindset and up my game. Today is my first day starting a courier business as a part of an 80 hour work week challenge I have given myself. Its literally going to double my current income. Thank you again for helping me with the mindset to switch gears. I don't know if I'll be a millionaire, but I will be financially free one day.

  • @LayonieJae
    @LayonieJae 5 років тому +3

    Outlast!! Yes!! That’s a great way to look at it! I’m willing to stick around and have stamina 🙌🏾

  • @rajibdeka2207
    @rajibdeka2207 5 років тому +6

    Patrick bet David and Grant Cardone - both are real deals, no nonsense men. Every entrepreneur should learn from them.

    • @agb3762
      @agb3762 5 років тому

      I know! Both are guys I always look to.

  • @peterturayjr1209
    @peterturayjr1209 5 років тому

    Very solid message there Pat!
    I believe working long hours (60 +) should lead to some productive results, yet it also depends on 2 further things to add on:
    - What industry is the entrepreneur/intrapreneur in?
    - WHAT EXACTLY constitutes as 'work' to the individual?
    The same IT or tech entrepreneur's weekly workload to build their start-up in Silicon Valley will be MUCH different to the work duration and duties of a video editor, freelancer or marketer on projects.
    Something to think about for all the Valuetainers reading this

  • @akmotivation1718
    @akmotivation1718 5 років тому +12

    "You got TIME!!" - Gary Vee
    Thank you PBD for sharing your wisdom with us!!

    • @abbasrizvi3090
      @abbasrizvi3090 5 років тому +1

      It's the belief in the limits - Wish you success

  • @buzzlightyear3767
    @buzzlightyear3767 5 років тому +2

    Even if you don't make it to the top, there is nothing more that will satisfy you or raise your self esteem then by hard work and displaying superior work ethics. It is especially gratifying, when you see others emulate you, and you know that you have influenced the next work force. Not all will be the boss, but that does not mean that not all should strive to be one. If you have the time, read Desiderata, short, but insightful, and possible life changing.

  • @saysomethingsmartcomeonent5233
    @saysomethingsmartcomeonent5233 5 років тому

    Time wait for no one. Your either ahead or your falling behind. Time respect those who uses it wisely while those who neglect it, end up watching the footprint in the sand fade away.

  • @jameslucas5590
    @jameslucas5590 5 років тому +1

    Meow. Time is against you, so work smart and never give up. Working smart is the first 3 points, and never giving up is the last point. Understand you can take a break, catch your breath and reevaluate. But don't give up because only then will you not be defeated. Working Smart (1. Outwork, 2. Out-Improve, 3. Out-Strategize), 4. Outlast {I enjoy your insights.}

  • @nikolairose2739
    @nikolairose2739 5 років тому

    damn, that hit me hard when you said "time is gonna expose everybody" instant flashback to all the days wasted and the nights contemplating if I should have been doing something better. Not to say I'm a lowlife failure...its just really hard to be your "best self"

  • @surimaribo24
    @surimaribo24 5 років тому +4

    straight to the point . thank you keep it coming

  • @Je.rone_
    @Je.rone_ 5 років тому +1

    *what's done in the dark comes to the light* everybody is "grinding" in the light but if your grinding in the dark thats where the magic happens 💪

  • @jasonkruger4303
    @jasonkruger4303 5 років тому

    Thanks Patrick - Agree 100%

  • @PassiveIncomeTom
    @PassiveIncomeTom 5 років тому +15

    Time is something we all use and can never get back.
    We have to learn to use this time effectively. Those who do are the true winners. 🔥🔥🔥

  • @Justforthelulz8
    @Justforthelulz8 5 років тому +38

    Dropped out of college was my best time decision, to stay under my parents roof and work on my business.

  • @georgeyao3999
    @georgeyao3999 5 років тому

    Definitely Time is not enough when I really want to work toward my goal!

  • @sanjaisunny5778
    @sanjaisunny5778 5 років тому +3

    Time is very valuable 👍👍👍

  • @eugenequiroz4685
    @eugenequiroz4685 5 років тому +1

    I love this message‼💯👍

  • @kareemolamilekan5884
    @kareemolamilekan5884 5 років тому

    Pat, You just woke up something in me right now...Thanks Man

  • @chriskarabinas2323
    @chriskarabinas2323 5 років тому

    effectiveness is included in durability, it is no wonder that humanity's first ally is time

  • @jrocket98
    @jrocket98 5 років тому

    Thank you so much Pat. Starting anew, killing anew!

  • @timstoev5607
    @timstoev5607 5 років тому

    eh....time! The only thing you can not buy, but the best thing you can use to sell everything. I personally hate the guts out of it, but you make a very accurate point- this is not a show off. Learn timing and everything will follow

  • @AntthonFynn
    @AntthonFynn 5 років тому

    Needed to hear this, thanks Pat!

  • @divyamurugesan5557
    @divyamurugesan5557 5 років тому

    Awesome message sir. 👍

  • @BlarkMCGark
    @BlarkMCGark 5 років тому

    Trucker I work 12 too 14 hour days , 7 days a week. 3 weeks out of 4. Once a month I may take 2 days off. Felon. Home and free since 2007. Average 68k a year, it ain’t great but I can hold my head up high.

  • @Illinoiseygovt
    @Illinoiseygovt 5 років тому

    Thank You PBD

  • @Sixer88
    @Sixer88 5 років тому

    I love this message

  • @fredshegu5136
    @fredshegu5136 5 років тому

    Awesome stuff David. Am fired up, time will show what i have been up to.

  • @huseyinturk6685
    @huseyinturk6685 5 років тому +5

    Amazing sir. I love the way you tell recipe for success. Short term pain long term gain.🕺

  • @stephenl418
    @stephenl418 5 років тому +1

    Great job doing this in one take! Impressive.

  • @c.j.6891
    @c.j.6891 5 років тому +1

    Thx Pat! You're the best!

  • @IvanBroes
    @IvanBroes 5 років тому

    thanks, a great Thanks -- i call it buying courage. I've been one of those that if i put something in my head i can't stop, and not kidding 24/7 if i didn't sleep, which is also a part of working. that's when i recharge. but what would you say, i've been like that since i'm 13. i've often wondered what drive me, because I don't consider myself courageous, i'm not interested in responsibilities, you can't bribe me with money. I realized it boils down to intellectual stimulation, to the point i rather see myself dead, it's the rhythm i set in childhood, like a cyclist who the night before feel his body is dead with exhaustion, but then I hear the first morning chirps and i jump out of bed anxious to start my work.

  • @jaydhillon
    @jaydhillon 5 років тому +4

    Great video - Love this Patrick! For me building my first company to 500 staff was via 14/16 hours a day for 5 years.. compared to big companies whose staff worked 9-5pm. People often ask me how to get started with nothing and I always say your biggest asset is time. Do the extra hours the other guys with something are not willing to do and do it over time. I am also 40 and I feel Like I am 21 and still feel like I just started in business...So everyone has time you right Patrick!

  • @MuhammadAnas-ui9ns
    @MuhammadAnas-ui9ns 5 років тому +1

    Just when I was about to slack, this video dropped! Thank Pat :)

  • @DineshBhatia
    @DineshBhatia 5 років тому +2

    Lovely video 👍👍👍👍👍

  • @DanielIles
    @DanielIles 5 років тому

    The best way to accomplish something monumental is to do something ordinary with intention every day for the rest of your life.

  • @koldwater6053
    @koldwater6053 5 років тому

    77 and still working on it 👍🏻.

  • @jayyblessed
    @jayyblessed 5 років тому

    You keep me fired up!!

  • @leonoradompor8706
    @leonoradompor8706 5 років тому +1

    Beautiful Amazing Speech ! I love you Patrick !

  • @aqsm6922
    @aqsm6922 5 років тому

    Hey, PBD! Thanks for being my best motivator and guide.

  • @enu8886
    @enu8886 5 років тому

    Amazing video! People really need to understand that time is not on our side, so we must make the most of it. That is why I do all the things that I do and that's what really inspired me to start my own channel TheDailyMotiv8r. Great stuff Pat, I appreciate all of your videos. Thank you

  • @drivingawareness5824
    @drivingawareness5824 5 років тому +3

    From inside a Geo Metro "this is just the beginning"
    Years later, same quote, from a rolls royce. Keep on keepin on!

  • @PatrickCogen
    @PatrickCogen 5 років тому +1

    Time can be your ally or your enemy. It's up to you to use it correctly! Great video Patrick :)

  • @mdwasimfiroz
    @mdwasimfiroz 5 років тому

    Love you brother. The more I hear the more I believe in my ability to have an impact on so many things :-)

  • @padmaja999
    @padmaja999 5 років тому

    Awesome message😊 as a entrepreneur I totally agree. These messages are really helpful to see reality. Thank you 😊

  • @linsjoin
    @linsjoin 5 років тому

    Cat vids , nailed it. Im 26 years in the game now and have started to slow it down as the long term hard workers are all having heart attacks in there 40's , mabey a vid on 10 signs its time to slow up ............a bit

  • @patricklee8053
    @patricklee8053 5 років тому

    Thanks Pat! Totally agree. OUTLAST! it's not a race, it's a marathon. Much love from Malaysia ✌brother

  • @kevinlenyatsa3648
    @kevinlenyatsa3648 5 років тому

    This is the most important video

  • @bestinfo6361
    @bestinfo6361 5 років тому

    Pat bro this is the best video

  • @kevinwilliamson2236
    @kevinwilliamson2236 5 років тому

    Yes sir. Thank you 🙏

  • @JonnyOnTheRise
    @JonnyOnTheRise 5 років тому

    I've started 2 month ago working 80 + hours a week and I feel exited

  • @virtualmartini
    @virtualmartini 5 років тому +2

    Best friend.

  • @carapo66
    @carapo66 5 років тому

    Welcome back, Pat.

  • @alejandrodiaz4117
    @alejandrodiaz4117 5 років тому +1

    Biggest Mentor In Todays Generation!!

    • @VALUETAINMENT
      @VALUETAINMENT  5 років тому +1

      My man. See you at the VAULT 2020 conference.

    • @alejandrodiaz4117
      @alejandrodiaz4117 5 років тому

      @@VALUETAINMENT I'm already there💯💯

  • @therearenoshortcuts9868
    @therearenoshortcuts9868 5 років тому +1

    My Worst Friend
    and Best Enemy

  • @generalinbox3740
    @generalinbox3740 5 років тому +1

    Have your W-2 job, then take those skills from that job and combine with some interest you have - make a side business, and frankly horde the cash from it and pay your Liabilities Down until you grow big. Then leave w-2 job and go solo. The easiest way I think to get ahead is persistent hard work and avoiding the tax man.

  • @demeke773
    @demeke773 5 років тому

    You're awesome thanks for the morning motivation

  • @OgolordIntl
    @OgolordIntl 5 років тому

    "Outlast" Thank you Pat❤

  • @fireinthehole2272
    @fireinthehole2272 5 років тому

    Man, these quick videos are great, but you could've taken a lavalier mic with you on the trip! Also setting the camera on the dashboard is better on the eyes, if you had motion sickness like me, good to listen on the background.

  • @ameeralabous7893
    @ameeralabous7893 5 років тому

    Love it!!!

  • @WillyNsab
    @WillyNsab 5 років тому

    thanks brother

  • @ArtorMachine
    @ArtorMachine 5 років тому +1

    I really like when these words appear, 'this is just a beginning'. #thumbsup

  • @thecelticking80
    @thecelticking80 5 років тому +1

    Stick it out

  • @nathanandrinoid7569
    @nathanandrinoid7569 5 років тому

    Great video!

  • @jeodeepsingh8307
    @jeodeepsingh8307 5 років тому

    Man, that's powerful

  • @ousmanesow2916
    @ousmanesow2916 4 роки тому

    Amazing!

  • @Melody-l2n
    @Melody-l2n Рік тому

    Balance is key and everything. It is the way that the universe was created. It is the way that everything in this world works day night positive negative man, woman everything if you do not have balance, you will not be happy. It will be a waste of life, regardless, of which side you lean harder to.

  • @Melody-l2n
    @Melody-l2n Рік тому

    So what you’re saying so that I understand you clearly because I have worked 80+ hours a week for 2 1/2 years straight building. My first business is if you work 80+ hours a week for 40 years and you’re starting at 30 years old when you finally do decide to slow down if you do then it’s all gonna be worth it because you will enjoyed the 40 years that you put into it. You will enjoy the suits the watches, the house, the cars, your family I can see how that would be a great and enjoyable life, especially beings, that we know that wealth more often than not goes away within one or two generations past your death, I can see how that would absolutely be worth doing.

  • @riccardopolacci6501
    @riccardopolacci6501 5 років тому

    "El tiempo no se detiene
    ni se compra ni se vende
    no se coge ni se agarra
    se le odia o se le quiere."

    • @riccardopolacci6501
      @riccardopolacci6501 5 років тому

      "Time doesn't stop
      it can't be bought neither sold
      it can't be caught neither grabbed
      it's hated or loved"

  • @TheGarcia015
    @TheGarcia015 5 років тому

    TIME TELLS.

  • @forgetproblems3411
    @forgetproblems3411 3 роки тому

    DAMN. it puts fire in me.

  • @statecapture6086
    @statecapture6086 5 років тому +15

    Much appreciated Pat, hope you will visit my country South Africa very soon!

  • @greg_austin
    @greg_austin 5 років тому

    "Hard work" has nothing to do with how many hours per week one works. Some people are smart, some are not, some multitask, some are more focused, some sell, some manage, some care for others, some care for themselves. Anyone can have stamina and endurance if the tasks are laid out before him. Therefore, the true test of hard work is how much inventiveness--how much above-and-beyond the assigned task-flow one assumes. IMHO.

  • @rohitmattu
    @rohitmattu 5 років тому

    Best motivation❤️

  • @therearenoshortcuts9868
    @therearenoshortcuts9868 5 років тому +1

    it's my Worst Friend and Best Enemy

  • @taylorwalston1
    @taylorwalston1 5 років тому

    Coach Pat

  • @farfaraway2006
    @farfaraway2006 5 років тому

    When you said Dana white...
    Shit, you got me

  • @TheTinydevil122
    @TheTinydevil122 5 років тому +22

    Pat.. notice me man! i love your vids, been here for more than 2 yrs

    • @VALUETAINMENT
      @VALUETAINMENT  5 років тому +12

      Much love. Hope you're apply the content you're learning. See you at the 2020 VAULT.

  • @KiranSidhu
    @KiranSidhu 5 років тому +1

    I have a question Pat, when you first started making youtube videos, were you naturally very confident infront of the camera and did you speak as fluently then as you do now?

  • @Big_smoke55
    @Big_smoke55 5 років тому

    We shall meet soon my friend!!

  • @GuidoMillonezz
    @GuidoMillonezz 5 років тому

    I am Cuban, and the Guatemalan and Mexicans are harder working out there in general.

  • @combatkiller8552
    @combatkiller8552 5 років тому +1

    Sir! you're my role model..Please! explain those 4 points that you have talked about in this video...

    • @VALUETAINMENT
      @VALUETAINMENT  5 років тому

      I have spoken about it multiple times in other videos.

    • @combatkiller8552
      @combatkiller8552 5 років тому

      @@VALUETAINMENT
      Ok! Sir! I'll check the playlist...I'm a huge fan of yours from India...Thanks!.

  • @Xergecuz
    @Xergecuz 5 років тому

    It's not only about how many hours you spend in the office, it's about how much you get done in those hours.

  • @thatrandomchannel8589
    @thatrandomchannel8589 5 років тому

    I tell people working is a high for me. I live for my 2nd wind the next gear.

  • @nakulmalgundkar3041
    @nakulmalgundkar3041 5 років тому

    Love u pay 😍😘

  • @zambination11
    @zambination11 5 років тому

    Ιf the job pays very well and there is a big prospect of development and gaining more money, then people tend to work more and harder

  • @ChristianChua
    @ChristianChua 5 років тому

    "go watch cat videos!" lol... I love that