jazakAllah khair!!! i’m only 15 and i come from a muslim family, but i feel like a revert because my family does not practice islam, only fasting and celebrating eid, maybe also paying zakat.. :/ almost a year ago i started taking islam seriously, and began to pray alhamdulillah! maybe 7 months ago, when i told my mom i wanted to wear the hijab she didn’t allow me. although i didn’t stop trying, i cried to her several times bawling my eyes out begging her last time i did was a while ago bc she threatened me. she thinks i will take it off, and that i do it just because i see other girls do it (even tho i told her that’s not the case) she hates khimars (basically hijabs that cover the shape of your shoulders?) saying its too arabic. (my family HATES arabs 😭) and once i told her about the niqab (just talking about it) and she was extremely against it :-( the things you said in the video were literally all i’ve been thinking of, but i am just so scared of her reaction that it’s making my tear up and shake. my mom knows so much about me and finds out things so quick. oh if only people knew how hard this is. but thank you so much for the advice genuinely!!!!! jazakAllah khair, i am so grateful i got to watch this. may Allah ﷻ make it easier for those who struggle to practice the deen, ameen
Sister while reading ur comment i almost thought it was me that wrote it. Im in a very very similar situation i never rly grew up that religious and at around 13 is when i started practicing my deen more seriously bc i actually researched islam myself. Tiny thing there is my parents have definitely improved over the years Alhamdulilah but for example when i told them abt hijab at 13 they completely shut me off. Then last year is when i rly had this strong urge to wear it and i told them. The biggest fight broke out. Since then the urge had never stopped Alhamdulilah so i totally get ur situation. Sister i will pray for u bc i totally get what u mean. (Im 17 btw)
This is a jihad from Allah sister, may Allah bless you and give u strength ameen♥️ i will especially remember u in my duas today cause ur story reminds me alot of myself 💔 i just held on for the sake of Allah , so many tears, so much hurt but now my mom has her own collection of headscarves that she wears 👀 and even though the rest of her clothing is not very loose and appropriate, its still a huge positive change💕 make lots of dua, ask Allah to give u strength and patience and for ur parents to be guided and do lots of istigfaar throughout the day especially when u know that u arent able to observe correct hijab cause of their constant nagging 💯 you got this girl, insha Allah ur gonna glow so bright on the day of Judgement for this trial 💐and ur future progeny will be children who have it easier to hold onto Allah’s commands ☺️💙
As salam aleykoum my sister ! I’m also a revert who lives in Europe. Our situation is sometimes really difficult but I am very grateful to have a community with sisters like you. Every time I watch your videos I feel so much better. Thank you for your positive advice. May Allah protect you and make things easier for all my reverts sisters ❤️
Assalamualaikum sis, I’m in the same situation right now with my parents and I’m 17 so I keep telling myself one more year till I’m 18 inshallah and I can be free! It’s really hard to pray and fast, please pray for me my sisters 💞 may Allah give us all patience and strength ameen 🤲🏻
one thing that struck me is always have good relations as you never know what could come out of it, would also add try to build and nurture new relationships for similar reason
Mashallah, I am so amazed by your positivity and hard work, even when you weren't allowed to do stuff, you wouldn't waste time and find a solution. May Allah grant you the highest rank of jannah, grant you patience, and your parent's guidance, if it's what he wills. I love you too, and thank you for trying when you were being put down. You are such a strong women, and your letting other's see that in them also. Assalamu alakiumm!💞
1. I wonder what my mum (who moved on to the spirit world) would think about my reversion. 2. Folks, don't forget about the proteins! Lentils, beanz, Popeye's spinich, potatoes! 3. If you know, you know. I've been a revert for 2 months now, and a niqabi for one month. And one of my challenges was getting enough vitamins! How do I know? I crashed for 7+ days straight. And that's when I knew that in this mild and rainy winter, I needed to supplement my diet with certain vitamins. Now, I was disgusted to know that melanin-challenged corporate Americans LOVE to put gelatin on everything they can think of. Even multivitamins. So take care to look for halal varieties when you can.
salam alaykum sister! i have a question. as a revert from a jewish family, my family is not supportive. family other than my parents have cut me off / said they would cut off me if i continued to practice islam. what should i do if they blocked me? how would i uphold the ties of kinship? jazakAllah khair
Wa aleykoum as salam may Allah keep you on the right path and guide your family, it shouldn’t be easy, especially in a Jewish family, but you have to know that in Islam we must keep ties with our parents even tho they reject you and cut you off, may Allah make it easy on us 🎀
jazakAllah khair!!! i’m only 15 and i come from a muslim family, but i feel like a revert because my family does not practice islam, only fasting and celebrating eid, maybe also paying zakat.. :/ almost a year ago i started taking islam seriously, and began to pray alhamdulillah! maybe 7 months ago, when i told my mom i wanted to wear the hijab she didn’t allow me. although i didn’t stop trying, i cried to her several times bawling my eyes out begging her last time i did was a while ago bc she threatened me. she thinks i will take it off, and that i do it just because i see other girls do it (even tho i told her that’s not the case) she hates khimars (basically hijabs that cover the shape of your shoulders?) saying its too arabic. (my family HATES arabs 😭) and once i told her about the niqab (just talking about it) and she was extremely against it :-( the things you said in the video were literally all i’ve been thinking of, but i am just so scared of her reaction that it’s making my tear up and shake. my mom knows so much about me and finds out things so quick. oh if only people knew how hard this is. but thank you so much for the advice genuinely!!!!! jazakAllah khair, i am so grateful i got to watch this. may Allah ﷻ make it easier for those who struggle to practice the deen, ameen
😢 may Allah make it easy for you sister, سبحان الله
Good luck sister, Allah is always with you, May Allah bless you with whats khair for you inshallah.
Sister while reading ur comment i almost thought it was me that wrote it. Im in a very very similar situation i never rly grew up that religious and at around 13 is when i started practicing my deen more seriously bc i actually researched islam myself. Tiny thing there is my parents have definitely improved over the years Alhamdulilah but for example when i told them abt hijab at 13 they completely shut me off. Then last year is when i rly had this strong urge to wear it and i told them. The biggest fight broke out. Since then the urge had never stopped Alhamdulilah so i totally get ur situation. Sister i will pray for u bc i totally get what u mean. (Im 17 btw)
This is a jihad from Allah sister, may Allah bless you and give u strength ameen♥️ i will especially remember u in my duas today cause ur story reminds me alot of myself 💔 i just held on for the sake of Allah , so many tears, so much hurt but now my mom has her own collection of headscarves that she wears 👀 and even though the rest of her clothing is not very loose and appropriate, its still a huge positive change💕 make lots of dua, ask Allah to give u strength and patience and for ur parents to be guided and do lots of istigfaar throughout the day especially when u know that u arent able to observe correct hijab cause of their constant nagging 💯 you got this girl, insha Allah ur gonna glow so bright on the day of Judgement for this trial 💐and ur future progeny will be children who have it easier to hold onto Allah’s commands ☺️💙
JazakAllah khair for the replies i love u all so muchhh 🥹🥹🫶💕
It's really heart breaking, how the people who were always by your side are not accepting you for who you are and start harming you directly :(
Assalamu alaikum! It's always a lesson to listen to you, sister. I am also converted. I am Brazilian. 🇧🇷
As salam aleykoum my sister ! I’m also a revert who lives in Europe. Our situation is sometimes really difficult but I am very grateful to have a community with sisters like you. Every time I watch your videos I feel so much better. Thank you for your positive advice. May Allah protect you and make things easier for all my reverts sisters ❤️
Stay strong
Never give up 😢💔
Assalamualaikum sis, I’m in the same situation right now with my parents and I’m 17 so I keep telling myself one more year till I’m 18 inshallah and I can be free! It’s really hard to pray and fast, please pray for me my sisters 💞 may Allah give us all patience and strength ameen 🤲🏻
Are you a revert
Im also 17!! I cant wait to turn 18 😭🙏🏼
one thing that struck me is always have good relations as you never know what could come out of it, would also add try to build and nurture new relationships for similar reason
Mashallah, I am so amazed by your positivity and hard work, even when you weren't allowed to do stuff, you wouldn't waste time and find a solution. May Allah grant you the highest rank of jannah, grant you patience, and your parent's guidance, if it's what he wills. I love you too, and thank you for trying when you were being put down. You are such a strong women, and your letting other's see that in them also. Assalamu alakiumm!💞
1. I wonder what my mum (who moved on to the spirit world) would think about my reversion.
2. Folks, don't forget about the proteins! Lentils, beanz, Popeye's spinich, potatoes!
3. If you know, you know. I've been a revert for 2 months now, and a niqabi for one month. And one of my challenges was getting enough vitamins! How do I know? I crashed for 7+ days straight. And that's when I knew that in this mild and rainy winter, I needed to supplement my diet with certain vitamins. Now, I was disgusted to know that melanin-challenged corporate Americans LOVE to put gelatin on everything they can think of. Even multivitamins. So take care to look for halal varieties when you can.
salam alaykum sister! i have a question. as a revert from a jewish family, my family is not supportive. family other than my parents have cut me off / said they would cut off me if i continued to practice islam. what should i do if they blocked me? how would i uphold the ties of kinship? jazakAllah khair
Wa aleykoum as salam may Allah keep you on the right path and guide your family, it shouldn’t be easy, especially in a Jewish family, but you have to know that in Islam we must keep ties with our parents even tho they reject you and cut you off, may Allah make it easy on us 🎀
@ ameen and jazakAllah khair! 💕💕
hiii bestie I love this video u made
I want to run away
why if I may ask
May Allah make a way for you and grant you ease after hardship 🦋
Our sister in the video talked about this, if you can't support yourself please don't do it, the outside world is much cruel.