🇵🇭 5 GREEN FLAGS 🇸🇦 for Dating a Filipina… (VERY IMPORTANT)

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  • Опубліковано 9 лип 2024
  • American expat in his 40’s living in the Philippines since 2022 breaks down 5 green flags to look for in a Filipina partner.
    #jasperinthephilippines #philippines #expat #passportbros #filipina #pinay #bgc #manila #makati #cebu #dumaguete #digitalnomad #filipinaforeignercouple #filipinamarriedtoforeigner #itsmorefuninthephilippines
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  • @tipigi3570
    @tipigi3570 День тому +7

    Spot on, as usual! If she's not constantly on her phone while on a date with you is a big one.
    For me personally, I like one that isn't so jealous. Some of these ladies take it way too far. I've always followed the - Look but don't stare rule. I shut one down once that tried that old trick question - "Do you think SHE'S pretty?". I replied "Yes, she is". When she got mad, I replied "You knew she was, and that's why you asked me. Would you prefer I lie to you? Why didn't you ask me about that fat one over there?". Silence...

  • @JohnHarthomstowCEO
    @JohnHarthomstowCEO День тому +6

    Damn. I made a lot of mistakes like this. I put her on an allowance, and eventually she had me paying the whole family an allowance. It started off just little bits at a time - "oh my sister needs a medical checkup", "oh my aunt's dog needs an x-ray", "oh my uncle's motorbike broke", and then eventually she was like "hey why don't you just set up a direct monthly deposit to their accounts so they don't have to bother you for help all the time" and stupidly I thought this was a good idea. Damn, I was running a whole payroll out there. Careful bros, these Filipinas can be extremely convincing. I won't make that mistake again.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  День тому +4

      Bro, are you willing to call me and tell your story? Make a video? Just an audio call anonymously.

    • @JohnHarthomstowCEO
      @JohnHarthomstowCEO День тому +2

      @@JasperinthePhilippines yeah bro I think I could do that, I need to keep semi-anonymous cos some people know me in PH by face & Im currently in a legal battle over it and can't give them ammo - but my name on here is unknown to her and her family - so we could do an audio for sure. I'm travelling a lot this week and next but in a couple weeks time I should be free

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  День тому +1

      OK perfect thanks bro. Email me. It’s under my about section. It’s the name of my channel. At g. Ma. Le

    • @JohnHarthomstowCEO
      @JohnHarthomstowCEO День тому +2

      @@JasperinthePhilippines great, will do. look forward to it! Got plenty of hard earned lessons to spill. Hope some of your viewers can avoid the same mistakes

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  День тому +1

      Exactly bro. Thank you. Looking forward to it.

  • @stephanegosselin2861
    @stephanegosselin2861 16 годин тому +3

    If a Filipina dig you she would be the most affectionate woman on the planet, she would cuddle in your arms like there is no tomorrow.
    She will always find a subject to talk about with you. You are her world and she wants to make sure you know she is your world to explore.
    Good luck!

  • @Damo_Raze
    @Damo_Raze 23 години тому +5

    Wife has a big family. When we started dating, most of them wanted to friend me on FB. Wife: no, don't accept any of them. Me: why? Her: because I don't want them bothering you for money. Me: I'm liking you more and more, sweetness...

  • @CraigKerwood-001
    @CraigKerwood-001 21 годину тому +3

    Spot on bro. I could add to the list, but I would be pointing out the obvious. Thanks again.

  • @captaindad5057
    @captaindad5057 День тому +12

    Green flag if she lets you put it in the back door and your the first to plant your flag

  • @vincen.4151
    @vincen.4151 21 годину тому +3

    Great advice video. There are plenty of great women in PI who are honest and caring. Just be careful out there. Most important is to to know your skills and abilities when dating women and meeting family members.

  • @phinpublishing5701
    @phinpublishing5701 День тому +1

    Jasper, thank you the gift membership, I am so grateful.

  • @KutWrite
    @KutWrite День тому +2

    I'd add longevity. Even as an LDR, someone who's stuck with you for a year or more with no promises from you or even a warning that you don't give money to anyone you haven't met..

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  День тому +3

      Yeah, you start to see someone’s true colors about nine months in especially in person

  • @themacker894
    @themacker894 День тому +2

    Good points. Thanks.

  • @rona8663
    @rona8663 День тому +7

    Right on as usual bro. My GF checked all these boxes and is the most kind, loving, romantic and affectionate woman I've ever known. She also makes me laugh constantly with her funny phrases and way of saying things. We laugh all the time which could be another green flag.

  • @AnthonyShaw-ty9pi
    @AnthonyShaw-ty9pi 23 години тому +2

    Bravo!!
    Good points!!
    👍💪👍

  • @clrodrick
    @clrodrick 18 годин тому +1

    Preach on! If you find the right one you just hit the lottery of life. I'm still searching but will cross that finish line at some point.

  • @TDE1593
    @TDE1593 День тому +3

    Excellent advice

  • @GUITARTIME2024
    @GUITARTIME2024 День тому +3

    Not accepting money from the foreign guy isn't necessarily a green flag. Theres something called the "Long Con". They know foreigners trade stories.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  День тому

      lol

    • @GUITARTIME2024
      @GUITARTIME2024 День тому +3

      @JasperinthePhilippines no really. The smarter filipinas know the foreigner will get accusations from loved ones back home saying "its all about money, shes playing you". If she can avoid asking for short term money, and play along, she can often get that fool for a house or a car or college support. Asking for money is a red flag, but the absence of that behavior doesn't always equal a green flag.

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  День тому

      Sure it does

    • @JasperinthePhilippines
      @JasperinthePhilippines  День тому

      Because when she asked for money later, I will say no

  • @Raquel_In_Sorsogon
    @Raquel_In_Sorsogon 8 днів тому

    like❤❤

  • @mowa99
    @mowa99 День тому

    Yep

  • @KuyaStorm
    @KuyaStorm День тому

    🎉

  • @LB-ty6ks
    @LB-ty6ks День тому

    You're 30 years older than her and you look it. She says that doesn't matter and she loves you. You: A. Believe her. B. You don't believe her. If you picked "A" and a lot of guys do, you're the one for her.

  • @andyknolls8735
    @andyknolls8735 День тому +2

    too bad most Filipinas don't do what you are saying.

  • @Trent-000
    @Trent-000 13 годин тому

    What's up with the Saudi Arabia flag? Good bait and switch bro. you got me on that 😂 I thought it was OFW in KSA

  • @Misterdave998
    @Misterdave998 День тому

    Good evening sir.
    I stand by what I said before. The fruit quality in the Philippines outside of Davao city is extremely low compared to mainland Southeast Asia. That is the main reason why I won’t live in Manila long term. I want my diet to be mainly fruit sir. Most of the fruit here in manila is imported from other countries sir.
    I am enjoying the Grand Canal mall at this moment. And you may think I’m looking for a boyfriend here, but I’m actually looking for a girlfriend here sir.