Stepmom Coach (feat. Mindy Kyle) | Unlocked with Savannah Chrisley Ep. 87
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- Опубліковано 3 чер 2024
- This week on Unlocked, Savannah welcomes stepmom coach, Mindy Kyle! Join them while they discuss all of the peaks and valleys of being a stepmom or dating someone with kids. Mindy shares her advice for women struggling to find where they fit in their new family, what realistic expectations are to have, and how to have empathy for everyone else surrounding you in this situation.
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About Mindy Kyle:
I became a stepmom at 24 years old. I was a single, independent, some would say strong willed female with no children of my own. I had just moved from my small California town to a big city in Utah on a whim and unexpectedly met and fell head over heels in love with a man who happened to have four kids - all of this happening in less than a year. It was a lot to process, believe me! Was this the plan I had always had for my life? Hard no.
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This was a great episode! My husband and I have a blended family and this episode was able to provide some clarity on thoughts I have had.
Omg this is personal, im a step mother , have been for 18 years and let me tell you, the heartache is real especially with the in laws. Its a difficult situation for yrs on agreeing with each other over how she was raised, shes grown now and its been shown, she listened and understood what I did teach her regardless of the resistance that was there. I am very proud of her. She is on her own, not dependant on us...she is only 21. She was the only child among 4 adults. She grew up rather quickly...
RUN lol ..on a serious note don't rush the process. You and your family are amazing and it will happen to you with the right person when it's meant to be. You deserve your own shot at love and your own family Savannah :) Never settle!
Savannah Love you and your Family ❤❤❤❤❤❤
You're doing great savannah❤️😍 I'm still 🙏 every single day for Todd and Julie to come home ASAP... I love your family ❤
As Humans And as Moms
We cannot expect acknowledgment for our service or good deeds,
We give Because we love. Not for acknowledgment and words of affirmation,
People and children in particular are self centered and selfish.
Step children are wounded little birds, their pain cuts Deep
Even when by outward appearances things look fine.
Keep loving the way you do
Expect Nothing
And you will be blessed
REMEMBER TO DO ALL THINGS AS UNTO TNE LORD🫶🏼
Or your well will never be full
And the Root of Bitterness will take hold 💕
This was great! I loved this! What a great podcast and so many truths! I can honestly see both sides as former step child. My experience was a very bad experience and it is so refreshing to see someone resonate research to be the best step parent they can be! ❤😮
Prayers for you and your family
Omg this was what I needed to hear. I married my husband who is 13 years older than me, and he was married before me and she passed away. They never had any children. However my husbands sister passed and he took in all 3 of her kids. I felt so lost! Thank you for having this conversation!
I've never seen a more mature woman to speak on this topic than Mindy. I'm sure she hit plenty of bumps in the road on her journey, but in opinion (yes, I said my opinion) she is the epitome of someone who SHOULD b a bonus mom. A lot of women r way too immature to take on this roll. She had soooooo many bullet points/the other side of the coin points. Best podcast so far. 👏
Its alot easier for savannah bc of how close the family is, but mine was a circus. I have conquered this circus, after 18 years. It was extremely hard to love someone. I am glad the way things have turned out so i guess all the struggles were tests for me and i must have passed them bc now things are peaceful and everyone is on the same page. My message to my daughter got through is all that matters to me now. Im grateful for her and her father.
EXPECTATIONS LEAD TO
DISAPPOINTMENT 💕
I surely struggled as step mom. I had a perfect relationship with their mother but things did get bumpy if the kids were in trouble here and not at their moms. Remember that when you speak to the step kids that you are kind of a friend. You’re also their bonus mom so you have to parent as well as be there as friend. I told my step kids right away I will never replace your bio mom or try to. Their mom had been in jail for eight years due to not the best choices. When she came back into their life everything was fine by the time I came along but prior to me they had a crazy person trying to parent them who dated their dad and she wouldn’t even take care of her own kids. She tried running me off right away. I think it’s very important that not only you communicate but you clearly communicate. Be straight forward with the children (depending on their age that is). Treat them as your own. If I wouldn’t say something to my own child then I wouldn’t say it to my step kids. I’ve had more issues with my daughter’s dad and step mom than I have with my own step kids. It’s given me so many lessons in life on both ends.
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I’m a bonus mom and have been for 34 years (26th of this month). My husband and I are 9 years apart. He was 30 and I was 21. The kids were 8 years (girl)and 6 years old(boy). My husband and their mom had been divorced for 6 years. I didn’t have any kids of my own at the time. We did end up having 2 kids together (boy and girl). I had always been around kids bcuz of family and babysitting. Our relationship just came easy for us. We have a great loving relationship to this day. I love them like they are my own. This podcast was the best one. ❤❤❤❤
As a foster mom, all this really resonated with me. Thanks for sharing!
From my experience the main issue between the bio and step child is how to raise the child. Yall have to be on the same page as adults for the child. If not you will have a difficult time doing it. That to me is the basis between a happy step parent and an unhappy one. Apparently I had to teach other adults also. And yes i agree we need more support from society as a whole bc savannah just defined what kind of things you are doing as a step parents and it is extremely hard.
Savannah, great episode, you brought out a very interesting point, regarding your partner having all his 1st. What I am about to say is coming from a good place. You've had to grow up pretty fast, and you still have a lot of growing to do, we all do even at my age 😂. Please don't tie yourself down to this guy, and short change yourself when it comes to having your own children one day. GOD, has a great plan for you, please allow Him to reveal it. Love ya!❤🥰
I love you Sav and I say this so nicely and with support. Don't get too hung up on how he handled the first year. Yall arnt even engaged and it's not even been a full year. Maybe he didn't do a ton for his ex the first year and feels guilty about if he did like a huge amount for you before even being together for long enough. He'll learn in time. Don't look to much into it. Maybe he tries to acknowledge your efforts daily instead of just one day etc. It's hard not to get in your head but you shouldn't. Vlearly he wants you to be their official step mom one day or he wouldn't have you so closely tied to them
Ladies you are not stepmoms, you are bonus moms ❤ and you will have so many first as a bonus mother and if someday you have a child of your own!!!
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Me please and Tatyana please too, Thank you!
***SAVANNAH: Father's Day is in (approx.) 2 weeks...THAT will be YOUR chance to SHOW him how NEXT Mother's Day SHOULD be done! (Help the kids to show him their appreciation, love and respect (in a sincere & gentle way) (and in milder version, from Chase & Chloe as well) and he SHOULD understand just like 🤌!!!
(He probably hasn't even BEEN recognized on "Father's Day" as a single parent, or at LEAST not how he truly deserves/expected & by changing/"upgrading" how HE is NEWLY celebrated on Father's Day, should open his eyes to YOUR expectations and what YOU deserve!!!)
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The white background really has your face popping. I need to go lay outside for hours,I'm so white still:)
❤we love you Chrisley's
*Chrisley's
Savannah: you’re awesome! There’s no way I could take two kids in that weren’t mine PLUS date someone who has 3 more…. You’re in a tough position! But you’re doing a great job!!! ❤❤❤❤
You settin your self up for heart break 3 kids u can't b serious a.step mom coach you not only come in second u 3 you should be 1 at. At all time's and hope understand
You have step siblings savannah how did u get along with them
Not step siblings half siblings.
What type of foundation are you using? Seems a little heavy and your face has a lot of shine with the lights.
I think a matte formula would look so great on you and that would help with your shine. Love you so much.
That's what you took from this episode?? How superficial. It's people like you who are reasons why people go to a bad self image of themselves. Keep your opinion there to yourself. She is beautiful. Some of us have shine and it often has nothing to do with the makeup. It's also a gift in many ways because having the shine means in our 40s we are still wrinkle free. Haha. When our friends are getting botox the shine in our younger years keeps us wrinkle free in our older years. If you want to get technical about it. But let's be kind and take the subject back to the heart of the matter that is blended families and not some narrow minded comment. Get a life. You're gross. And don't end an insult with "love you." Who raised you good grief. The fact that you received thumbs up on your comment makes me lose hope on where we are going in life. It's sad. And moreso that I spent time replying to your comment that didn't deserve any attention at all. Shame on me. Also your comment reads "edited"...same as mine because in my case I'm so burnt up about your comment I keep adding to it. In your case I can't help but wonder if yours reads "edited" due to you probably added that "Love you so much" in the after because the human in you finally realized what a complete piece of tool you were being.
@@brittaniesmith9820 -You obviously don’t have a clue what I was talking about. I asked what kind of foundation she was using ? MAYBE BECAUSE I WANTED TO KNOW THE BRAND. YOU BETTER TAKE A STEP BACK IN GET BACK IN YOUR LANE!!!!! Nothing in my comment said anything bad about anyone or deceased anyone. I actually got likes on my comment. It’s people LIKE YOU is why this world is the way it is … NOTHING BUT HATE. WATCH YOURSELF BEFORE YOU COME ATTACKING SOMEONE FOR SOMETHING YOU KNOW NOTHING ABOUT….
Unfortunately I have decided to unsubscribe. I use to adore you & your family but your political views completely astonished me. I thought you were so much more than this but I guess not, you’re just another one of THEM. I hope you & your parents get the life you DESERVE.
I can relate to your thoughts…Savannah’s political preference is surprising but I can’t discredit the other areas in her life where she’s making significant impact, especially regarding prison reform. It’s a double edged sword…
Additionally, I opted to unfollow Savannah on IG so I don’t see her political posts but I do find her podcasts to be valuable.
I guess I must have missed the political views I only saw and took to heart her concerns of how our justice system works. Which I have to agree is not that great. If you want to shut her down based on any political views that may not be in line with your own good riddance. Go away.
That's not nice. And no reason to capitalize "Them" and "Deserve" we get your thought. Don't be silly. Get over yourself.
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