Woman Says She Wants Family To 'Back Off' And Let Her Raise Her Kids

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  • Опубліковано 12 вер 2024

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  • @Inuko15
    @Inuko15 3 роки тому +368

    If you are smoking weed around your kids, and you’re currently living in a minivan, you should be thankful to your family taking those beautiful children in to a safe and secure home.

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 3 роки тому +6

      Her children need to be better off to adopted to another better family that homeless family of hers homeless man is one of him and if she plain to join him being in the tent or in the van together

  • @kandykate163
    @kandykate163 2 роки тому +46

    If she's working 50 hours a week and lives in a mini van, where are her paychecks going to?

    • @teachingtechnologyy
      @teachingtechnologyy 6 місяців тому +7

      Marijuana ain’t cheap lol

    • @anngoldberg7857
      @anngoldberg7857 3 місяці тому +8

      Its not expensive, either.

    • @justonemori
      @justonemori 3 місяці тому +1

      @@teachingtechnologyy at today's prices I bet she's spending more on food

    • @queenb7899
      @queenb7899 2 місяці тому +1

      ​@@justonemori, This was 7 years ago.

  • @christinaluna2055
    @christinaluna2055 3 роки тому +155

    This woman has no standards

    • @teachingtechnologyy
      @teachingtechnologyy 6 місяців тому +3

      Women like men they can control
      She likes that she can control him, even if he does nothing all day

  • @ysabella3259
    @ysabella3259 Рік тому +47

    “how many kids have you watch grace”
    “of mine none, of yours two”
    icon

  • @animefan2454
    @animefan2454 3 роки тому +92

    I'm a stoner and even I know I would not smoke in front of kids

    • @SunBunz
      @SunBunz 2 роки тому +8

      Stoners with standards. 👊😎

  • @leonkennedy6133
    @leonkennedy6133 3 роки тому +95

    If my daughter/son ever tells me to back off I'm just going to laugh at them because I'm the one who's raising their kids

  • @londonm3546
    @londonm3546 2 роки тому +27

    Wait, she actually sleeps with a man in a van who is unable to not only work and find housing, but who cannot give her $27? Moreover, if she is working 50 hours a week, where is her money? She could not save $26?

  • @jojomakes
    @jojomakes 2 роки тому +80

    Imagine having two children, working two jobs, while your boyfriend and the father of ur children hang out in ur van all day playing games on ur phone.

  • @britneybij3997
    @britneybij3997 2 роки тому +121

    Her: I never choose my boyfriend over my kids...
    Also her: **Proceeds to name all the times she went out of her way for a man that isnt even doing anything with himself**

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 Рік тому +3

      No child support for his two kids and no moneys and no job and he living in his tent and then in the van

    • @notwerkinginthishouse8634
      @notwerkinginthishouse8634 Рік тому +2

      @@suzyra1212
      I think the older child isnt his

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 Рік тому

      @@notwerkinginthishouse8634 She has homeless man that only live in the tent and car

    • @robettgriffin1904
      @robettgriffin1904 Рік тому

      ​@@notwerkinginthishouse8634do you want a boyfriend

  • @swimfast724
    @swimfast724 2 роки тому +17

    If they butt out who is going to take care of your kids? Lady you should be so thankful that you have them

  • @marioncobretti3253
    @marioncobretti3253 3 роки тому +41

    i've been going through serious mental stuff the last 10 years and i've kept working and even managed to buy a house.

  • @danielsayers8665
    @danielsayers8665 2 роки тому +41

    You can't blame someone for working night shift or not wanting to quit their job.

    • @missolesoul
      @missolesoul Рік тому +5

      If it reeks havoc for your kids or fami!y, you certainly can blame them.

    • @ef7558
      @ef7558 Рік тому +4

      "Find another job then" Yeah we can just get another job by magic! If she wasn't working all these hours they'd be calling her lazy!

  • @thewrongshoes
    @thewrongshoes 3 роки тому +122

    I don’t think they should be shaming her for working. The rest , yes

    • @yhyhyhhh
      @yhyhyhhh Рік тому +1

      yes they should

    • @suzyra1212
      @suzyra1212 Рік тому

      He look really disgusting and she loves homeless man both need to be homeless together and be outside together and kids finds better family that don’t live outside 😵‍💫

  • @penelopeb1370
    @penelopeb1370 2 роки тому +20

    He said he's over thinking and not focused. Dude, that's the weed. Stop smoking and get a damn job.

  • @Virgin_Succubus642
    @Virgin_Succubus642 Рік тому +9

    Doug: I’m here to support her
    Translation: She’s my ride.

  • @mike47734
    @mike47734 3 роки тому +23

    LOL why did the crown go “ooohhh” when she asked Dr Phil if he’s the same person he was last year?

  • @iampekkairl1417
    @iampekkairl1417 3 роки тому +111

    I watched this a million times

    • @pedroquinonez8039
      @pedroquinonez8039 3 роки тому +3

      Same

    • @thewrongshoes
      @thewrongshoes 2 роки тому +1

      Me too. I’m not sure why the mom is with a stoner that doesn’t get help or work 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @tfpauliina
      @tfpauliina 2 роки тому

      Joo no mä kans

    • @NKitty96
      @NKitty96 2 роки тому +2

      Same

  • @natalie9884
    @natalie9884 2 роки тому +51

    She is delusional thinking that she doesn’t need anyone to assist her and can provide her children with the stability needed. They deserve better.

    • @lindarice9159
      @lindarice9159 2 роки тому +4

      She lives in a van for crying out loud. She and her kids need to live in a nice, warm secure home. Her boyfriend needs to get a job or he can leave. He is a bum with a million excuses

  • @Delicate_Disaster
    @Delicate_Disaster 2 роки тому +10

    You want them to butt out, but the only furniture and bedroom they have is at her mother's house? So you want your kids to be homeless too?

  • @12345678911675
    @12345678911675 2 роки тому +14

    Her boyfriend is so clingy. Ew

  • @suzyra1212
    @suzyra1212 3 роки тому +15

    Her mom call homeless man a tick because he does look like one 😆

  • @EmilyAdams_theAltaCreative
    @EmilyAdams_theAltaCreative 2 роки тому +13

    I think it’s pretty obvi that she holds the sister not having kids over her sisters head. She can get knocked up. Good for her. She also totally bosses her BF around. She’s with him because he makes her feel superior.

  • @fawnieee
    @fawnieee 3 роки тому +84

    My sister has ended up with a guy like this :/ she was incredibly smart and completed a degree in criminology and had hopes of being a forensic scientist.
    And then she met a guy like this and now she's working in a wine shop, no longer allowed to contact us (due to her bf) and she's not even living with him nor does he ever visit her... It's always her that puts in all the effort. It's really sad when you see someone you love brought down by someone else.

  • @bonnienero9415
    @bonnienero9415 2 роки тому +15

    This woman is temporarily insane.She will look back years from now, wonder what was she thinking.

  • @Labrli
    @Labrli 3 роки тому +31

    He’s higher than a damn kite 😅

    • @jainicboo
      @jainicboo 9 місяців тому +1

      😂😂😂

  • @victoriamarx3267
    @victoriamarx3267 Рік тому +8

    I wonder if she ever dumped this loser and moved on, he was dragging her down. She's a beautiful competent young woman that could so so much better

  • @maxfranklinmeans
    @maxfranklinmeans 2 роки тому +6

    "I work 50 hours a week." For God's Sake, are you delusional?!

  • @cottonkittencandy
    @cottonkittencandy 2 роки тому +6

    i dont see what he offers her in their relationship. if she works 2 jobs why cant they afford an apartment? even if it was a studio apartment. i mean i was a single parent i worked and went to school at the same time and was still able to afford a crummy tiny apartment but i had power, running water and a roof over my head and still had time for my baby at the end of the day. couldn't afford a car but thats what the bus is for. i would rather have the apartment than the car any day

  • @MiamayaJones
    @MiamayaJones 2 роки тому +93

    The boyfriend may be a bum. But I hate how people use smoking weed to call someone a bum. Like a mom can smoke weed and still be a good mom. A mom can work nights and still love her kids. The argument is so stupid. They are going after her for working nights....like they need to get their own life

    • @WaffleAssasinX3
      @WaffleAssasinX3 2 роки тому +2

      Seriosuly, t's only a problem because shes with a bum. otherwise I doubt they would grill her about working so much lol

    • @amberlacey7482
      @amberlacey7482 2 роки тому +17

      you can smoke weed and be a good mom for sure but for some people it makes them unmotivated and have very poor decision making skills. but i look at it as it shouldnt be done right in front of your kids

    • @Lele-gs9mh
      @Lele-gs9mh 2 роки тому +6

      Depending on the strain it makes some people more productive. Typical puritan thinking

    • @janiceanne
      @janiceanne 2 роки тому +13

      They are asking her to change jobs or change her hours so she can be with her kids in the afternoon, give them showers, teach them table manners, tuck them in bed, read them a bedtime story, etc. If she lives in the house of her mother and dependent on her, she is obligated to follow the rules. She can move out if she doesn't want to follow rules.

    • @audhdcreativity5899
      @audhdcreativity5899 2 роки тому +3

      @@amberlacey7482 I think sometimes people already are those things before they smoke weed and thd weed just makes them feel not so horrible.

  • @rachelraquel758
    @rachelraquel758 3 роки тому +16

    Let me live my life… in your driveway

  • @Clouditivity
    @Clouditivity 2 роки тому +13

    This guy is so cringy lmao.

  • @franktrandicostacomedy3370
    @franktrandicostacomedy3370 Рік тому +3

    Ive never seen two people more in need of a blunt than the sister and mother

  • @johnub4
    @johnub4 3 роки тому +15

    This is what happens to women who simp for a man

  • @madiArabella
    @madiArabella 2 роки тому +10

    The sisters hairline is crazy low

  • @steroidbarney8273
    @steroidbarney8273 3 роки тому +11

    What happened to her sisters forehead? It goes immediately from her hair to her eyebrows.. I dunno if I've ever seen that before.

  • @c_kaoi7660
    @c_kaoi7660 2 роки тому +2

    A spoiled little princess or a responsible adult 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @greatestever247
    @greatestever247 2 роки тому +3

    The reason that dude isn’t working is because he is lazy!

  • @chrisknakoske
    @chrisknakoske 3 роки тому +9

    wow she works an extra shift a week. craaaaaazy

  • @junechoi7595
    @junechoi7595 2 роки тому +19

    I work 50 hours a week as that's my light week. I don't know why she thinks it's some kind of honor to work 50 hours a week. Many people do that with no problem.

  • @Usedw0tm8
    @Usedw0tm8 6 місяців тому +1

    Wow my sister does the exact same thing, and I'd bet my car she says the same thing about me being "spoiled". She isn't raising her two children. She sees her son maybe twice a year, and she pushes her replacement daughter (after she ran away across the country with her boss) off onto her grandparents as much as possible. When she WAS primarily taking care of that baby, she developed advanced ringworm and a diaper rash so bad she had open bleeding sores. There's no excuse for that.
    We no longer speak, I get updates from her grandmother. That beautiful little girl deserves the world, and instead ended up with immature, toxic, abusive trash. I have no interest in ever seeing my dear sister again, and that's only one of many reasons why.

  • @railwaychristina3192
    @railwaychristina3192 Рік тому +3

    Fight for your kids by stopping the weed and getting a job which means you can care for them.

  • @CoCo-yv3hl
    @CoCo-yv3hl 2 роки тому +6

    He’s a lazy bum that doesn’t want to work w/o responsibilities

  • @marioncobretti3253
    @marioncobretti3253 2 роки тому +3

    i hope its not down by the river

  • @thewrongshoes
    @thewrongshoes 2 роки тому +5

    I wonder where she is now

  • @lex_7529
    @lex_7529 2 роки тому +4

    the tick looks like he's from whoville

  • @42031x
    @42031x 2 роки тому +9

    U work 50 hours a week but you live in ur car in ur moms drive way, u should be able to manage living on ur own

  • @8888-9
    @8888-9 3 роки тому +12

    No no no
    All the nesting we do as expectant mothers.
    That keeps growing.
    Being motivated to do better.
    The family are alienating her, why not drop the superiority hat, and ask how can we help?
    What do you need to get ahead?

  • @chucker625
    @chucker625 3 місяці тому

    If that were my sister, I wouldn't go to her for help either.... Seems like the type of person that would hold every little thing over your head for the rest of your life.

  • @maxfranklinmeans
    @maxfranklinmeans 2 роки тому +2

    This woman needs to turn her life around, be a mother, and lay off the weed.

  • @MrBobbo18
    @MrBobbo18 2 роки тому +1

    Doug has the chronic! Weed so strong you forgot to raise your kids.

  • @viviannahernandez2032
    @viviannahernandez2032 2 роки тому +1

    this reminds me so much of my sister.

  • @up2nogood670
    @up2nogood670 3 роки тому +8

    Tell me there is more of this guy

  • @prettyparanormaljess
    @prettyparanormaljess 3 місяці тому +1

    This " mom " is dangerous. You see on the news daily where a mom chooses her man over the safety of her children, it ends badly usually an I am hoping that this woman will wake up or the family did intervene...this is scary! ALSO ITS NOT ABOUT THE MARIJUANA! Smoke or don't, not in your house, or car an don't let it stop you from living but if you work an take care of your kids you wouldn't be on Dr. Phil

  • @ladiilexx8533
    @ladiilexx8533 10 місяців тому +1

    She saying 50 hrs a week like it's 80 lol. Girl that's only an extra 2 hrs daily on top of everyone else's standard workweek

    • @j-rodthelibrarykid1166
      @j-rodthelibrarykid1166 9 місяців тому

      Different people can handle different things. Not everyone wants to work 12 hrs days like you.

  • @yoshimills9814
    @yoshimills9814 2 роки тому +1

    Chile they take smoking weed to another level. Smoking weed does Not make one ok with living in a van.

  • @captain_xap1218
    @captain_xap1218 3 роки тому +12

    Why are there soo less comments

    • @firebird6522
      @firebird6522 3 роки тому +2

      The channel only opened up comments about 3 months ago. This was up for four years before people could comment.

    • @captain_xap1218
      @captain_xap1218 3 роки тому

      @@firebird6522 thx for helping

  • @user-we2rq1ql4w
    @user-we2rq1ql4w 11 місяців тому

    Second copy on your ipod duplicated how relateable

  • @pattielliott1378
    @pattielliott1378 2 місяці тому

    the video cuts off and you don't know what happened, that sucks and I am less likely to bother looking at these knowing they cut off with no ending

  • @TheGokusupersayian
    @TheGokusupersayian 3 роки тому +6

    Wow

  • @alexdungan9816
    @alexdungan9816 3 роки тому +2

    What season and episode

  • @ssbdodi8718
    @ssbdodi8718 2 роки тому

    the sister is actually annoying

  • @sassygreen5024
    @sassygreen5024 2 роки тому

    u have no home got kids a jobkessless so called boyfriend....and u can afford weed??????? why????

  • @MrBobbo18
    @MrBobbo18 2 роки тому +3

    My goal is $27……………. ;)

  • @lindaowens2959
    @lindaowens2959 3 роки тому +1

    I would get rid of an overbearing family like that!

    • @paradoxic7869
      @paradoxic7869 3 роки тому +22

      Well, they can find a new driveway to park in. She isn't raising her kids, her mom is! CPS would take those kids away in a minute.