on feeling like an outsider and having no friends. HSP diary.

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  • Опубліковано 24 гру 2024

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  • @acemcloud9733
    @acemcloud9733 День тому +7

    My life's collapsed on me these last couple years, a constant string of pain and I pulled away from everyone and isolated myself. I'm trying to find the courage and energy to rebuild at 40. Thanks for sharing yourself, Big love from NZ

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  День тому +3

      Thank you so much for sharing such a vulnerable part of your journey. I can only imagine how heavy it must feel to face such challenges and to try to rebuild at this stage of life. It takes immense courage to even acknowledge where you are and to voice your desire for change…
      Please be gentle with yourself as you navigate this time.. small steps, even the tiniest ones, can create momentum toward healing and rebuilding. Sending you so much love and strength from afar to New Zealand ❤️ Nastja

  • @CeeWilson-vf9kj
    @CeeWilson-vf9kj 2 дні тому +6

    wow, you are speaking to me here so much!! I don't know why HSPs often have such difficulty with making friends (I had/have this experience too).. I think it's definitely the hurt self worth you mentioned but also partly because we cannot pretend in the same way others do - when we are so sensitive, we can act as mirrors to others, who don't always appreciate that.
    Remember you've built a community of likeminded souls here, through being you and only you, and you and only you draw us back every week to watch more. What a beautiful thing

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому +1

      wow Cee... how do always manage to move me so deeply with your words?? I feel everything you’re saying so deeply... Identifying as HSPs, we often carry this quiet burden of not fitting into the “norm”... that can be so challenging... And what you said about the community we’ve built together really moves me. It’s such a gift to know that by simply showing up as myself, I’m creating a space where others can feel seen, heard, and understood. It's so healing for me... this community is such a beautiful, nourishing space, and it wouldn’t be what it is without YOU ❤
      Thank you for your presence, honesty, and for being part of this journey. It truly means more than you know.... Sending you so much love and warmth, Nastja

    • @CeeWilson-vf9kj
      @CeeWilson-vf9kj 2 дні тому

      @@EmbraceYourselfBaby

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому +1

      @@CeeWilson-vf9kj aaaw DANKE liebe Cee 😘

  • @angeladavis3066
    @angeladavis3066 День тому +3

    Sending you a big, warm hug from Palm Springs, California!

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  День тому

      @@angeladavis3066 aaaaw thank you Angela 🥰 a big warm hug right back to you from the city of Cologne 😘💞🫂

  • @let9989
    @let9989 2 дні тому +6

    This resonated so much with me… thank you for showing your vulnerability. It gives others permission to do the same ❤

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому

      Thank you so much for your kind words. It means so much to hear that my vulnerability resonated with you. If it helps give others the courage to be open, that’s all I could hope for... Sending you love and gratitude 💜

  • @lucywerner6947
    @lucywerner6947 2 дні тому +3

    Nastja…I need to pause your beautiful blessing of a video this Sunday evening after 3 minutes….SO much resonance within my heart space…….intensity of emotions….instant soul tears…
    Thank you for your vulnerability
    Thank you for your authenticity
    Thank you for letting us in
    You help so many with your words…with your being.
    I have been wishing to write a letter for some time now…life came in the way. But I will.
    Sending you love. ❤

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому +1

      Oh Lucy... I’m so deeply moved by your words. Thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for sharing how my video touched you. To know that it resonated with you so profoundly, helping to stir emotions, to awaken something in your soul... is truly humbling. Your kindness and your ability to feel so deeply mean more than I can express.
      We are all walking this path together, and to know that my words, my being, can help others along the way is a gift beyond measure. Your appreciation is a reminder of why I share at all.
      I can feel your heart in this message, and it’s a beautiful thing to know that our energies have connected in this moment. Please know that I’m holding space for you and your letter, whenever the time feels right for you to write it...
      Sending you so much love and gratitude, as well...
      Danke von Herzen liebe Lucy 💜🤗

  • @BarbaraBoholm
    @BarbaraBoholm 2 дні тому +5

    Nastja i so can relate when i lived in a small rural area vs the city,being the outsider,never fitting in... The one thing i feel being 47 is, it is a good thing to NOT be like everyone else!!! To be weird or cooky,different but try to be a human in a very caotic,strange world at the moment... Thank you for being you dear Nastja!!!! Sending you lots of warm hugs your way💖💞🫖🥧🍵🕯📓🖋♾☯

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому +1

      oh sweet Barbara... you speak to my heart!!! 🙌 being "different" and getting older truly is a gift.. It's such a relief to embrace our uniqueness rather than try to fit in, and it’s so beautiful to hear you’ve found peace with that too. Thank you for your lovely words, they give me sooo much comfort each time... I’m sending you plenty warm hugs right back!!!
      Love 💞 Nastja

  • @jasonbroadcastsinabuckethat
    @jasonbroadcastsinabuckethat 2 дні тому +3

    Beautiful friend, befriend yourself, beautiful words. It's been such a wonderful journey this past year to be sharing with you and your/our community. I simply cannot put into words the validation you have given me since I posted my first video. Your videos always leave me in awe at your strength and pure spirit of heart and reading others comments you are truely resonating and helping so many others. Danke Nastja. Virtual hugs right back at ya! 🫂Your favorite Christmas song from the market was lovely and the singing that accompanied was 💖. I hope you have a peaceful Christmas and Wishing you an incredible 2025 & that you get all you wish for🧞...It's only what you deserve. 🤗

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому +2

      oh Jason sweetheart... 💞 again your words have touched me in ways I can’t fully express. yes... it’s been an incredible journey to share this space with you, and I am beyond grateful for the connection we’ve built within this beautiful community. I’ve always admired your strength and spirit as well, and I truly feel that when we open our hearts to one another, we help each other grow in the most profound ways. I’m so glad my words resonate with you, and I can’t wait to continue this journey alongside you in the coming year. Thank you for your kindness, for your beautiful energy, and for sharing your heart with all of us... and I'm so glad you received my little xmas song from across the pond : )) I’m wishing you a peaceful and joyous Christmas, and a 2025 filled with all the love and blessings you deserve. Virtual hugs right back at you,🫂💖 love, Nastja

    • @jasonbroadcastsinabuckethat
      @jasonbroadcastsinabuckethat 2 дні тому +1

      @@EmbraceYourselfBaby 💚🤗

  • @sudesnabasu
    @sudesnabasu 2 дні тому +4

    This video is umm, like you are speaking my words. This video is really for all the HSP women in the world. I'm feeling the same , the outsider, behind in life, struggle to connect, no friends...with increasing characteristics of HSP with age. Being in a non sensitive society makes us feel more alone. Now finding people like me in the internet throughout the world.
    So much ❤❤❤ to you . And your matcha bowl is hurt ❤️‍🩹 at the edge. Warm wishes for the Christmas leave.

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому

      once again... your message really hit home for me...knowing there are kindred souls like you out there brings so much comfort... I’m sending you so much love in return... Thank you so much for sharing your heart with me. And yes, I noticed the matcha bowl too ;) a little reminder that we’re all perfectly imperfect ❤️‍🩹 Wishing you warmth and beautiful moments in the days ahead. Love, Nastja ps: I would be so happy if you would share a little (nick)name with me that I could use to write you... but only if you feel comfortable :)

    • @sudesnabasu
      @sudesnabasu 2 дні тому

      @EmbraceYourselfBaby 🥰 ...my name is Sudesna . You can call me Su. Much love dear

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому

      @@sudesnabasu can I call you Su? :)

    • @sudesnabasu
      @sudesnabasu 2 дні тому

      @@EmbraceYourselfBaby you hear my heart ❤️

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому

      @ aaaw 🥰 so Su it is from now on 🤗

  • @Marla-i5u
    @Marla-i5u 2 дні тому +2

    I’m so happy I’m getting to know you Nastja more and more through your videos. Sending you so many warm hugs 🤗 hope you have a lovely day ❤

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому +1

      It’s such a pleasure for me to have you here sweet Marla 💞 your comments are always like a warm ray of sunshine for me ☀️ … my day is ending now lol 😅 will go to bed now 💫✨wishing you a lovely day though 😘

    • @Marla-i5u
      @Marla-i5u 2 дні тому +1

      @ thank you & sweet dreams ✨

  • @humbleviewpoint
    @humbleviewpoint День тому +2

    You said "you have no idea how much that means to me" and I totally get it. I feel your sincere appreciation. Without contradicting you, let me say: I do have some idea what it means to you. I have an idea because you have revealed such an amazing piece of your soul to your whole UA-cam community. You have 'let us in' perhaps more than you intended to, but that intimacy, that 'teilen', gives me a reference point. So Nastja, sister, although none of us can ever totally understand each other, there is a 'point of no return' where we humans bond on a level that defies explanation. You have led me (and I suspect many of us) beyond that point. We can't imagine going back to a world without your companionship. Thank you. Dare I say: "you have no idea how much that means to me"...

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  День тому +1

      Oh Dave ……. 🥹 reading your message brought tears to my eyes… it’s hard to put into words just how much it means to me. Your ability to articulate such a deep connection and understanding is truly a gift, and it feels like such an honor to know that my efforts and openness have resonated with you on this level. You’re absolutely right: there’s something indescribable about the way we, as humans, connect when we share pieces of ourselves. It’s humbling (pun intended :) to know that what I’ve shared has fostered that bond and gone beyond words or intentions to touch a place where we truly meet as kindred spirits.
      Knowing that I’ve played even a small part in making a difference for you and others in this community fills my heart with deep gratitude and purpose. I’ll carry your words with me as a reminder of the beauty and strength of vulnerability and shared humanity.
      Actually I should make a little booklet
      out of your comments…
      With all my heart: thank you…❤️your sfam 🫂✨

    • @humbleviewpoint
      @humbleviewpoint День тому

      💖💖

  • @Alouna444
    @Alouna444 2 дні тому +2

    Love you Nastja!!
    your friends seems ouhaouu
    thank you for giving this space and time for us ,it is a big présent for Christmas time
    Wish you the best for both of you love ,big hug❤🎉 Alouna Isabelle

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому

      Thank you so much sweet Alouna…. 👼 your words and your presence here are also such a gift for me, too… Wishing you lovely days to come and a beautiful holiday season 💞🎄💫 love and warm hugs to you 😘 Nastja

  • @meta-metta
    @meta-metta День тому +2

    This is such a sweet video. Thank you for sharing yourself. I am about to turn 30 and am truly learning to love myself for real, and it's incredibly vulnerable. I am coming out of the shutdown phase of my life you have spoken of. I am yet to find my chosen family in this world and this video gave me hope for my journey.

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  День тому +2

      Wow… it truly means the world to me that my video could give you even a little hope. Knowing that it resonated with you and is part of your journey toward self-love and healing moves me deeply. Finding our chosen family can take time, but the fact that you’re embracing this process with such vulnerability is a testament to the love and connection waiting for you. Please know I’m rooting for you every step of the way. Sending you so much love…you are not alone in this❤️❤️❤️

  • @virginiavilas
    @virginiavilas 23 години тому +1

    Dear Sweet N, Merry Christmas 🎄. As a fellow HSP, I understand how difficult it is to be outside the realm of experience of most people - even those we hold dearest and most intimate. Life is always so paradoxical. So we embrace ourselves and we embrace the paradox of what is. And we laugh with every Jingle Bell 🔔 we come upon 🤗😆😂😄. Sending you much Love for the Holidays and wishing you a Wonderful 2025 !!! ❤ -V

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  19 годин тому +1

      Oh sweet (((V))) 🥰 … this is so true… and I’m so grateful for the connection your message brought me today. It means the world to to feel understood, especially when navigating the complexities of being an hsp. Life truly is a paradox, as you said so perfectly, and finding the beauty within that paradox is something I strive for every day… Wishing you so much love, joy, and a beautiful 2025 dear V 💞 with love, N😘🎄✨💫

  • @ennavaitovich5608
    @ennavaitovich5608 2 дні тому +1

    You are such a beautiful SOUL💛, please be kind to yourself and embrace who you are just the way you are! You are never alone!❤Sending much love, peace and strength🙏

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому

      wow.. thank you from the bottom of my heart dear Enna... 💛your words fill me with so much warmth and gratitude. Thank you for reminding me to be kind to myself and to embrace who I am.. it’s easy to forget sometimes, and your kindness is such a lovely reminder. I’m sending all of that beautiful, radiant energy back to you in abundance!!!💞

  • @YaroslavGittis
    @YaroslavGittis 2 дні тому +1

    Let the person who hurts you go. You are so smart and beautiful, you deserve something much better. Thank you for the video. I love it.🍀

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому +1

      thank you so much Yaroslav (with the beautiful name... ❤)... your reminder is exactly what I needed. It’s not always easy to let go, but I know that stepping into something better is the right path, and your encouragement gives me strength. I’m so grateful that the video resonated with you. Sending you all the love and good energy 🍀

  • @katec9893
    @katec9893 13 годин тому

    Thanks for sharing your story. I found it comforting to see you with your friends, that looks like a lovely group of people you have found. I found the last few years of my life very difficult after going through a lot of loss and bereavement and most recently I've had some health problems which have kept me quite isolated and feeling powerless. I have felt very unhappy and I know it's time for a new chapter to begin. I'm not quite sure what the new chapter will look like, but I am starting to go within to listen to my inner guidance. I am definitely a highly sensitive person myself and feel quite at odds with mainstream society, but like you say I know there's a lot of us out there who feel like this. Wishing you a peaceful Christmas and New year.

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  Годину тому

      Thank you so much Kate for sharing your story with me ❤️ It really means a lot that you opened up about such a personal and challenging time in your life. I’m so sorry to hear about the losses and struggles you’ve faced, and I can only imagine how isolating and overwhelming it must have felt. I have a chronic illness as well and had many moments in my life where I felt so isolated and misunderstood because of it… I also completely relate to what you said about feeling at odds with mainstream society as a highly sensitive person.. it can be so tough to navigate a world that often feels loud and fast-paced. But I truly believe that our sensitivity is also a gift, allowing us to connect deeply with others and find meaning in ways that others might not.
      It sounds like you’re entering a new chapter with so much self-awareness and strength, even if the path forward isn’t fully clear yet. Listening to your inner guidance is such a beautiful way to start.
      Wishing you peace, comfort, and moments of joy this Christmas and New Year. Sending you so much love and encouragement as you move forward on your journey.. love ❤️ Nastja

  • @Kunstmann_Film
    @Kunstmann_Film День тому +1

    Thank you Nastja for your inspiring channel! CU next year! 🫂🎆🎇💥❤🧡💛💚💙💜

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  День тому +1

      Danke mein Lieber 🫶✨💫 bin froh, dass es dich gibt 💞 see you next year!!!🍀 🐷 🌟

  • @itsfaiherself
    @itsfaiherself 2 дні тому +1

    started my day by watching this beautiful video and it truly filled me with positive energy🌟🤍
    Everything you said perfectly aligns with what I’m feeling.
    I’m so thankful for the day our paths crossed and feel incredibly lucky to know someone like you🫂
    This rare connection we share is something so special, it’s uplifting, meaningful and a source of constant inspiration✨
    You’re a remarkable person who inspires so many around you!
    We, your loving community, admire you deeply, support you unconditionally and learn something valuable from every single video you share!
    Truly blessed to have you in my life and I love you so much sweet pretty Nastja

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому +1

      ok... now I'm close to tears again... 😅 your words have filled me with so much warmth and gratitude. I can’t even begin to express how deeply they resonate with me.. I feel equally blessed that our paths crossed. This connection we share truly is something rare and precious, and I’m so thankful to have you... my gorgeous warrior queen 👑 ... in my life. You are such a gift, such an inspiration.. with everything you are.. everything you do and create.. and I’m deeply grateful for you. Sending you all my love and appreciation. I love you too, so much sweetie ✨🫂✨

    • @itsfaiherself
      @itsfaiherself 2 дні тому

      @ ❤️❤️❤️❤️🥰

  • @LiaVervo
    @LiaVervo 2 дні тому +2

    You must be proud of You, dear friend.

  • @itsfaiherself
    @itsfaiherself 2 дні тому

    Virtual Monday latte🥰❤️

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому +1

      you're too generous sweetie... thank you 🙏this is more than a monday latte ☕🥰 next time it will be my treat!!! 😘🤗

    • @itsfaiherself
      @itsfaiherself 2 дні тому

      @@EmbraceYourselfBaby ☕️🤍🫂

  • @majaangermuller3735
    @majaangermuller3735 2 дні тому

    Fühle dieses Video und das Gesprochene so sehr! In den letzten Jahren bin ich etwas einsam geworden, weil ich sehr schmerzhaft erkennen musste, dass mir die Menschen aus meinem vergangenen Freundeskreis nicht wirklich zu 100 Prozent beigestanden haben. Viele haben denke ich meine Beziehung nicht verstehen können und dass ich unabdingbar zu meinem Partner stehe, in allen Zeiten. Ich wurde zur "Spaßbremse".
    War schon immer ein sehr ernsthafter Mensch, auch wenn ich genauso spielerisch bin. Aber noch habe ich nicht die Menschen gefunden, mit denen ich schwingen kann.
    Ich hoffe, das kommt noch eines Tages. Diesen Herzschmerz, ein "misfit" zu sein, den kann ich so nachempfinden, da es mir insbesondere in der Pubertät so ging.
    Ganz liebe Grüße an dich, ich schätze deine Videos sehr und finde, du bist in allem, was du hier tust so kunstvoll.

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому +1

      Liebe Maja, ich kann deine Erfahrungen und den damit verbundenen Schmerz so gut nachvollziehen. Besonders wenn man merkt, dass die Menschen, die einem früher nahe standen, einen nicht mehr wirklich verstehen - und dabei geht es nicht nur um die Beziehung zu deinem Partner, sondern auch um die Haltung der anderen. Es ist unglaublich schwer, in solchen Momenten zu sich selbst zu stehen und zu wissen, dass man etwas Richtiges tut, auch wenn es nicht immer von allen anerkannt wird.
      Ich glaube aber fest daran, dass die Menschen in dein Leben kommen werden, die dich für genau das schätzen, was du wirklich bist - und nicht für das, was andere von dir erwarten. Der Schmerz des Außenseiterseins, den du beschreibst, ist etwas, das viele von uns kennen, besonders in der Jugend. Aber es gibt eine Tiefe in diesem Gefühl, die uns später mit genau den richtigen Menschen zusammenbringt.
      Es tut mir so gut zu hören, dass meine Videos dir etwas geben können... Und zu wissen, dass es Menschen wie dich gibt, die diese Energie spüren, gibt mir noch mehr Kraft.
      Liebe Maja, du verdienst es, dich verstanden und verbunden zu fühlen. Bis dahin, erinnere dich immer daran, dass du nicht alleine bist.
      Fühl dich umarmt und danke, dass du so offen und ehrlich deine Gefühle mit mir teilst💞
      Mit ganz viel Liebe, Nastja

    • @majaangermuller3735
      @majaangermuller3735 День тому

      @EmbraceYourselfBaby ganz liebe Worte von dir- ich danke dir dafür. Irgendwo da draußen schwirren kleine Seelenpartner herum. Manchmal erkennt man sie durch Worte, Augenblicke, kleine Momente. Und man sieht den Sternenstaub aus dem wir alle sind im Anderen aufleuchten. Auf dass du viele solcher Momente erleben kannst und die richtigen Menschen an deiner Seite hast. Alles Liebe und eine große Umarmung auch an dich Nastja 🤗💗

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  День тому +1

      @ wow das hast du so schön gesagt Maja 🥹 danke dir von Herzen für deine liebevollen Worte ❤️❤️❤️ ich bin so froh, dass du mich in den Weiten des Internets gefunden hast 🙏🍀🫂

  • @LiaVervo
    @LiaVervo 2 дні тому +2

    Be proud of You, dear friend. ☘

  • @nk-1995-y4x
    @nk-1995-y4x 2 дні тому +4

    ❤We love You, ❤

  • @LiaVervo
    @LiaVervo 2 дні тому +2

    ❤❤

  • @pingupen.studio
    @pingupen.studio 2 дні тому +1

    Danke für das Video =D Ein kleiner Gruß von mir

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  День тому

      Danke liebe Katha 🤗 ich freue mich sehr….💞 und schicke dir ganz viele liebe Grüße und Umarmungen zurück und wünsche dir schöne und besinnliche Feiertage 💫🍀✨😘

  • @Unknight
    @Unknight 2 дні тому

    Thank you... HUG!

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому

      Thank you for being here Beau 💞✨ big HUG right back atcha 🤗

  • @EleanorDeakinPoet
    @EleanorDeakinPoet 2 дні тому +1

    🧡 Life is hard man.

    • @EmbraceYourselfBaby
      @EmbraceYourselfBaby  2 дні тому +1

      I hear you... I’m sending you lots of love and warmth 🧡🧡🧡

  • @SvenNumberSeven
    @SvenNumberSeven 20 годин тому +1

    OM TARE TUTTARE TURE SOHA