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- Опубліковано 26 лют 2023
- Finally here to talk to you guys about what's been going on in my life and why I will not be returning to Indiana University in the fall...
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better things coming queen !!!!! not worth your stress ♥️♥️♥️
Love u so much girl ❤️❤️
ignore the haters! As a college student myself, seeing people act like this giving high school behavior
It’s crazy how much the high school behavior doesn’t go away in college
Right. Like grow up
middle school even
They are still going to be like that…even as grown adults 🤦🏾♂️
Thats what happens when you go to party led state schools
Miami is one of a kind. I went away for college, and THANKFULLY had an amazing experience. But I learned how much of a treasure Miami is.
Yesss love that
freshman year being difficult is a topic that so overlooked
YES. i’ve never felt so out of place. i never knew how hard it would be to make friends and actually stay friends instead of talking to them during welcome week only and never again
not feeling like yourself in a new environment was the worst thing! when i was a freshman people would post a ton on social media of them "having fun" and i always wondered why is my experience so different... despite my internal struggles i learned so much about myself. freshman year is the year to REALLY put yourself out there but it gets better i promise!!
people are so jealous of you and your accomplishments its so sad. they hate you cause they ain't you tamara
I'm blushing ❤ sm love to you!!
Right. People are crazy
Ikr! Those types of people are usually insecure with themselves
yaaaas slay queen?
I figured this was the video coming out next! I actually transferred to IU from another school. And I wouldn’t be having a good time if my fiancé wasn’t here. We literally just walk our dog and people watch 24/7 in this crazy college town lol. The Greek life stigma here is WILD to me and honestly entertaining. I’m also NOT a party gal and it’s all ppl do here. If it’s ur crowd, it works. But if partying isn’t ur thing, I totally see why u want to try something new. (Plus all ur other crazy and unfortunate circumstances). I’ve loved ur videos and can’t wait to see more wherever you go! Keep ur head up!
I love this and think that's awesome what you guys do hehe ❤ but thank you sooo much!
as a girl from a place like miami (brasil) that ended up in a school in the midwest - everything you're saying is SO valid and I can def relate to and understand. the midwest and the big college experience are not the vibe for everyone, and in a year's time, you're going to be so happy with your decision!!! you're way cooler than state school greek life anyways :)
Thank u soooo much ❤ means alot
a girl from my high school class also went to IU and transferred back to a state school, don’t feel guilty for leaving, i’m glad you realized it and doing what’s best for you. trying to stay and make it work will not be worth it. i also transferred home and i was upset and lost a lot of friends from doing it at school, but now i look back and everything has happened for a reason and i can tell it was meant to happen. now i am at the school i didn’t get into out of high school and always dreamed of originally going to. obviously try to have some fun for the rest of the semester while you can but i just started watching your videos and i’m so happy you’re making a happy change! it’s so exciting ❤️
Hearing this is so nice ❤ I’m glad you did what’s right for you and I’m looking forward for what’s to come too!
IU is incredible. So is Bloomington
@@CancelHappinessagree! Love the town, grew up there. Sorry about the judgement. I did leave and lived all over the world. I would still live there, but part-time only.
I am so sorry you had such a horrible experience. I went to high school in Bloomington but chose not to go to IU. I went to college in Nashville and so happy I did looking back on it. You are way too mature and sweet for those houses and those people. The people harassing you are either jealous of your success or just bored…or both. Just keep doing your thing. Your attitude, morals and values will get you so much further than any of them. Just stay true to yourself and ignore hateful people. They are the ones with the problem.
This means the world to here, I appreciate it so much ❤ Grateful for mature people like you!
girl I get this 100%. I’m transferring back home to Miami and I couldn’t be happier. Do what makes you happy, don’t let anyone else change that ❤
thank u ❤sm
im so sorry that you are/had to go through this, im also a college freshman, attended school out of state, and also had a terrible and experience. I moved back over winter break and have been at community college for this past semester and it’s the best decision i have made !! can’t wait to see what this new chapter brings for you !!!
You’re not the only one that feels drained, if it isn’t the professors being weird, it’s the students. It’s good that you’re happier getting out of that
“Things can get better somewhere else” YES!
Keep your head up Tamara!! We all support and love you so much, do what’s best for you always 🤍
Thank you always ❤
as a college student at cornell who didn’t rush i experienced something really similar. clearly the kind of people who are ostracizing you have nothing better to do. keep your head up and do your thing because you are way better off!! sending you love ❤
Wait, is Cornell like this??
@@maryb.5668 yes
@@maryb.5668 YES!
@James Conoway greek life is a huge part of the social scene, but i wouldn’t say u need it to make friends! join clubs and def be outgoing :)
This is crazy. I’ve seen SO MANY other videos from other vloggers at parties where you can see underage drinking. Know that you’re a good person and this experience will just make you stronger.
Thank you SOOO much!
Girl you deserve so much better. You are so real and raw and undeniably you! I have always been so inspired by you and no one should ever make you feel that way. It’s so horrible how these people in small college towns are so small minded and clearly have no sense of real life or the world around them outside of their college life. 💝💝💝
That means so much to me ❤ thank you
Bloomington is an incredible city, with incredible people, and IU is a great school.
@@CancelHappiness so happy you feel that way, but everyone is entitled to their own options through their own experiences
@@TamaraAvinami I've lived in Indiana all my life, kid. Well other than a couple years where I lived in NYC and San Diego. And if you think Bloomington, of all places, is full of "close minded people" you just have no idea at all lol. IU is a fantastic school abd Bloomington is a great town and I know people who would kill for the opportunities you so casually throw away.
@@CancelHappiness dude it’s not that deep lol it’s 1 person transferring schools 😀
Girl I can totally relate to the last part and applying to schools once again, (I graduated in 2022 also) and just didn’t find the right university for for me, so I’m here applying again and I would have never imagined going through that process again! Just want to send you all the good vibes and love for the rest of your year and your future endeavors💘
we're all so proud of u tamara for how much u've overcame throughout ur freshman year of college. im still in highschool so i cant really relate but i hope ur doing better and find ur purpose in another area!
Thanks so much!!!
i have also been having a tough time in my first year at uni and i cant explain how much this video meant to me. Better things are coming, i wish you all the best. ❤️
Awww I'm so sorry to hear that but I really do wish you the best and am wishing the best for you too ❤
Girl you are going to THRIVE no matter where you end up. I decided to transfer back to a school close to my home and it was the best decision I could’ve made. Your grades will be better, you’ll get your personality back, and you’ll be so relieved when you finally decide on where you want to go 😌😌😌 So excited for u - good luck!! 💝
Awww, so exciting to hear! Thank u so much ❤
This is such a good way showing the difference sides of college do what’s best for you it will work out 💕
Aw Tamara. I was in EXACTLY your place last year. I came in freshman year so excited for Kelley and for IU and in return it all ended not in my favor. I came home and attended a college nearby where I am now going to transfer as a junior this fall somewhere thats a lot more relaxed & much less prestigious Indiana (Colorado State hopefully). Kelley was SO rough. I understand trying genuinely SO hard on a test and it always being unattainable.
Yessss felt that with the intensity of the classes too! But i'm glad you're happy with where you are now :)
@@TamaraAvinami I also ended up staying home for a year, doing online community college, and traveled to Israel, Turkey, Italy, and Spain! A learning experience that college could never give you! Enjoy your last couple months at Indiana as they, for me, were really bittersweet. And you're allowed to be upset & frustrated because you were so excited for it. It is truly unfortunate how many people that have been derailed off their course by Indiana.
girl i definitely feel you on this decision. i was at IU for a year and a half and it was not for me, and it was a hard decision to make to move back home. i ended up doing it for my own good. i wish you the best with whatever you decide to do from here on out :)
Thank u so much❤
I'm from San Diego, and went to school in Washington. I absolutely HATED it, going from sd to Washington was a bigggg change, it was a tiny college town where everyone only partied. I transferred to community college and I could not be happier. seriously best decision of my life!!!!!! You won't regret it
what school, if you don’t mind me asking?
@@sophiefischel382 sorry for the late response, but Washington state in pullman.
@@morganlusk8778 Did you ever regret leaving? I’m currently a student there and the only thing holding me back from transferring rn is the idea of me missing it later on lol
Hi sorry for responding late, but absolutely not! I seriously cannot express how happy I am that I transferred lol. I didn't have any good friendships there though, so it wasn't hard for me to leave. I would say just trust your gut, good luck!
I lived in California my whole life and I went to college on the East Coast. I hated my school and I felt so guilty for wanting to go back to California. I transferred to a school in San Diego after a year on the East Coast and I'm SO HAPPY I did. Everything happens for a reason. Don't feel guilty for wanting to go back. I promise things will get so much better.
Any chance you would give a clue as to the school back east? I am from San Diego and looking at IU and two school back east. Thanks
I have never seen any of your videos before but I am currently a freshman at IU this year and plan to transfer after this year. Everything you said about really hoping that everything would work out and then being the opposite, and thinking it was exactly what you wanted in HS senior year is exactly how I feel too. I can’t say I can relate too much to the ostracism you have sadly had to deal with, but I can only imagine how difficult that must have been.
Just wanted to say that this video and everything you said means a lot to me.
Thank you sm for posting this. I’m a college freshman too and I’ve really been considering transferring and I’m glad there’s someone I can relate to🤍
Aw I’m so glad I could help❤
I hope you’re okay girl ❤️ your “friends” there definitely suck too because why would they go in knowing your by yourself and also stayyy without u there knowing they won’t let u in its so sad! I hope you’re okay what’s meant for u will be!!
exactly….
You handle situations so well, me personally… lol. We’re all here rooting for u girl! 💌💌
Hahaha thank u sm ❤
I'm a transfer as well and just found this video after watching a bunch of your content- I can't even imagine how difficult it would be to feel like you're on a public stage being booed all the time while just trying to get through college. Proud of you for coming to this decision and I'm sure you will settle in wherever u end up!!
I have so much respect for you. It's sad that people in COLLEGE are acting like MIDDLE SCHOOLERS. People can be so deluded. Keep doing you.
Thank u so so much ❤
Hi Tamara! Your videos have been my comfort videos throughout college. You handled this situation with such grace and maturity and I admire you a lot for that because it definitely did not sound easy. I am excited to see you thrive wherever you end up and watch your college journey continue. You gave IU your best and that's all anyone could ask for. Keep your head up and a smile on your face!!
My heart is so full ❤ thank you for the support and for your kind words
Hey girl, I transferred home from IU Bloomington after first semester! I hated so many of the hateful/privileged kids at IU and I had to get out bc they gave me major ick. I completelyyyyyy agree with how u related their sororities/frats as high school all over again, in a not good way, and I didn’t even rush. It’s just so many kids that had their parents wipe their ass until their 18th bday and I couldn’t relate and that’s okay🌟
To explain the student body: my roommate and I (who came from the same town and with good morals) kept a running count of how many times someone couldn’t even hold the door open for us when walking in after them
that’s why I don’t go to a college that’s in the middle of nowhere. People are bored and hate anything that’s new to them. 😭😭😭
people are so jealous and cruel, it's like you can never win when they're trying to tear your successes down. i feel a similar way with not liking the school i'm at : i'm at a good school but hate the environment and i 100% agree that getting a degree from a good college isn't worth sacrificing your happiness! i'm so happy 4 you that you decided to take this step and i wish u the best on your journey!❤
this is genuine so sad, im so so sorry this all happened to you. I truly hope youre in a better place now, you deserve that more than anybody. sending you so so much love as always !!! better things are coming your way I can just feel it. I love u forever tamara, you genuinely don't know how much of a positive impact you made on my life. so grateful for you always :,)
Tamara!! Since you’re leaving can we now pleaseeee get a storytime on what happened to your first roommate? Like what was that whole situation. If you don’t wanna make a whole video on it then please just respond to this comment about it. Pretty please with a cherry on top!😫🧁🍒
aw bby im so sorry i can tell this has been a rly stressful experience, im so glad ur changing ur situation for the better but it sucks that you have to. the fact that ppl have shit on you for the friends you've made because of popularity rly blows my mind, i can't believe that still a thing at a large university like iu. i literally made my college decision yesterday and at one point iu was my top school but yesterday i decided to go somewhere else, im gonna think it was meant to be. i hope ur last two months are a lot better, we all support you💗💗
I never comment on videos but I just want you to know I’ve thought you were the coolest person ever for the last 3 years. I’m a current high school senior, and seeing you go through high school inspired me to be more social and try things, and seeing you go through the college process made it easier for me this year. I always hoped you were happy there but of course things don’t always go to plan. I think you are going to kill it at UMiami or wherever you end up. Your UA-cam and your ability to create is a gift not everyone has and I think it’s a good idea to be in a place of like minded people. Plus! Tan all year round! ur awesome girl keep slaying
This is so sweet I’m gonna cry ❤ I’m so glad I helped u in any way and this comment just helped put a smile on my fave
No cause I swear on my life I wouldn't have been more social during highschool and made the friends I have if it wasn't for tamara
@@tutujohnson7356 this is so precious 🥺 I’m so glad wow ♥️♥️♥️
@@TamaraAvinami Same goes for me! Your videos have helped me step out of my comfort zone in HS as an introvert and talk to everyone around me :) I get so excited every time I get a notification that you've posted, as I am always learning things from you, and I love following your journey. You're like my virtual big sister and I want to say that you are incredibly strong and it is commendable that you continue to persevere even with the toxic people that surround you. I wish you the best at your new college & don't ever let insecure people make you doubt what you do. Your impact on us is so much larger than you ever could imagine
As an alumni I couldn’t be more prouder of you to come into realization of what’s truly best for you. It’s so refreshing to hear other people who are able to self assess what’s worth it & what isn’t worth it. You’re on the right path to success & the fact that you’re mature about it right now to see past through the shade of what others are throwing at you. You should be proud of yourself. I’m so sorry to hear that these people have discriminated & treated you differently but to be honest, it’s a them problem not you. So glad to watch you through your journey! Excited to see your next chapter ❤
This warms my heart so much to here, thank you so much for the support❤
@@TamaraAvinami heck yeah girl anytime ❤️
You have such a huge platform which you have used in a positive way. I have watched you for a really long time now and it is really unfortunate that it was something held against you in the rush process and now. Having a platform is very beneficial to you and if you were to rush a sorority again. I hope you find what it is better for you and your mental health. I am proud of you and happy for you, for choosing what will better come later and to be more positive!!
I appreciate you so much! Thank you for this love and support ❤
Hey Tamara, I’m glad you found the time to understood what need to be done and I am so sorry you went through all of this, just know things will get better I promise you that… here’s a quote that I live by day to day “ a rejection is a redirection, something might not be going well in the moment, but just know the future will always have a better outcome”❤️❤️
Love this ♥ thank you!
I'm a PhD student at IU and I completely understand where you're coming from! I have experienced some similar issues as well. I'm glad you realized that it's not worth it. You should NEVER feel unsafe at a place that is supposed to be home. Wishing you the best of luck!
keep your head up!!! all those people are just mad about your success! I'm really happy for you that you are now transferring. hugs from FL
Sooo sweet ❤ much love to you!
i know it’s definitely scary but like you said, things can get better elsewhere and that is def what is best for you right now. i’m so sorry for what these immature, jealous, people have put you through! they are seriously not worth your time and the new chapter that is coming will be so amazing, i can guarantee it!! everything happens for a reason and even though this situation has been tough for you, the following journey that you will go on now is going to be so enlightening. you got this tamara
I recently transferred colleges because of the same reason you explained at the beginning of people being closed minded. I’m proud of you doing what right for yourself. You deserve the best!
Thanks for opening up with us ❤ we’ll always support u and I’m sure you’ll have a great experience in a florida uni
❤thank you x1000
So sorry you went through this. I went to IU and graduated in 2018. I had an extremely hard time acclimating from the beginning. Liked to go parties but also not the only thing I wanted to do. I went to high school in Tampa but I am from Chicago and promise this is not a general midwest thing (the judgementalness) but also agree on your comments about the crowd in Bloomington. I almost transferred sophomore year due to a variety of reasons such as major depression and anxiety, as well as just not being happy, but I got into a non housed sorority and I hate to be like “thats why I didn’t transfer” but I had 3 friends at IU and that was it. I already had acceptance to another school and everything so I was very close. Definately relate to your comments about greek life at IU because we were a “bottom tier” house and were looked down upon but I didn’t care because I found my place. I am so sorry you had this experience but proud of you for standing your ground and leaving to do what’s best for you. Best of luck on the rest of your college career, you will be successful no matter what!!!
Aw this means a lot to hear and I'm sorry you went through what you did too! Hope you are doing well now and thank you for ur kind words❤
@@TamaraAvinami Thank you!! I am doing so much better, post college life is so much better, I promise. I enjoyed college but don’t miss it. The best of your life is still ahead!🤍
I’m so sorry to hear about your experience. I don’t think there are enough channels that talk about the toxic side of state schools like greek life drama/just college generally bringing out the absolute worst in people. From being in college long enough I think it’s just a given that when you’re in this weird transitional space between childhood and adulthood people either don’t know how to act or end up learning real fast. It took me two years to figure out that the expectations I had as a senior in HS simply did not fit the person I was and that I needed to lose the toxic bs, drama, habits, isolate myself and just do me in order to be happy. You should be proud of yourself for making such a major change!!! I wish you so much luck and love!
I’m so sorry about everything. No one should deserve this. You are so strong for sticking through to the end. I definitely agree location of a school has a lot to do with the community of people. I’m glad I go to college in NYC, which is a very open environment and has a lot of diverse people. I know not all schools with frats and sororities are bad but I’m glad I go to a college without them. I like going to a small school but i’m also glad my school has a campus. I hope everything goes well for you with the rest of your college process!
Thank you so much ❤
these people bullying you online are so jealous and void of self-confidence. its such a reflection on themselves. you're amazing I hope you know that and no matter what, people who are insecure will find anything and anything to hate on.. it just unfortunately was you this time. I have been through a similar experience so I know how u feel girl. "its time to go" by Taylor Swift kind of describes how walking away from bad situations isn't a weak thing to do, its the strongest. walking away from something early when its not working out is such a brave thing to do and I just KNOW you're going to flourish wherever life takes you. IU has taught you some good life lessons I think, and you'll take it with a grain of salt in the future to make you an even better person. Can't wait to see the things you will do Tama! we love ya girl xx
Love this so much and I appreciate you! ❤
I honestly can't say anything else but applude you, you have such an amazing mindset and heart, you did what is best for you and nobody can judge you for that, ik ur future is so much brighter than any of the people that made you go through that. Love you 💕, i have for the past 4 yrs🤍
This is soo sweet!❤ thank u, my heart is so full and i love u!
JERRY AT THE FRONT DESK. He will not care, no one will....I loved this explanation you are full of class. I will miss you
Anyone else think it’s messed up that her friends left her alone to cry after she wasn’t allowed into the darty? If my friend couldn’t get into a party I would leave with her
to be fair I went with a girl that I'm not that close so I don't blame her at all!
this was all redirection for something better!! I hope you know you're such a gem and you deserve the very best. Super happy you didn't settle and chose right by not staying at an environment that didn't deserve you. On the bright side, I'm happy you're back home. Oh how much I've missed the Miami vlogs! un abrazo Reina!
omg!!! im extremely excited for you to be back in Miami!! You're literally gonna thrive at Umiami or ANY other school in Florida. Definitely the right decision, were so proud of u
Thank you love!!
I just know God will bring you peace and happiness in the next season of your life. Stay strong ❤
Just know all the way from South Africa all love from support Tamara
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Love u!!!
i'm a new fan of you and I go to IU and I totally get this. Greek life is crazy stupid here and I've seen it effect so many people I've met along the way so badly, its def dumb at times for sure. but keep your head up love, great great things are coming !!! im excited to see where you go next :)
All of this is so disheartening and I am so sorry that this is what your are experiencing cause no one deserves to be treated like this. Like you said, a degree from a "top" school is not worth putting your mental health on the line. As a college student who grew up in NY and is now in aschool that is kinda closed minded I get where you are coming from (to a certain extent ofc). Going back to florida/miami sounds so great :) I have been watching your videos since you were in 10th grade and have continued to love your content! Stay strong queen you got this!!!!!!!
It’s okay bby. I’m transferring too! Wish you luck! ❤
Same to you ❤
do what makes you happy girly. here to support you always n forever !!! 🤍
THANK U ❤
i am so proud of you for making such a hard decision🤍🤍 thank you for sharing!!
wow tamara this was truly a breath of fresh air. i hope miami is way better on your mental health and full of better people
Thank u soooo much ❤️
Hey tamara, I feel like you never felt fully at home in Indiana, definitely never as happy as you are at home in Miami, everythings happen for a reason, take ur time!!!
This really is a prime example of you never know what someone is truly going through or what something is really like behind the camera. Although I can not relate to what you've gone through there, I can relate to wanting something to work out so badly and things just keep happening. My freshman year of college was horrible from the very beginning. I attended Purdue University (which is also in Indiana lol). I'm no longer there now and still trying to figure things out/where to transfer to. I was also accepted into IU and your videos actually made me want to go. I've been watching your vids wishing that my freshman year could've gone like yours, without any awareness of what you've been facing. People are jerks and you didn't deserve any of that. With all that being said, I hope you have an amazing time wrapping up your freshman year surrounded by those people who make you happy!
Aww I'm glad I could help your relate and I'm sorry ur situation at Purdue didn't go as planned but I wish you the best and know we will both find the perfect place for us! ❤
You're a big city girl! You would thrive in NYC! I know you talked about staying in Florida but I could see you having the time of your life in Manhattan and really finding your true self. Especially in the fashion industry
I’m so sorry you had to go through that that’s absolutely NOT okay. girl you don’t need to be in that negative space at all. you have so much more in life that’s coming up. the frats are embarrassing asf. greek life is absolutely not all fun and partying at all. I think you’re going to thank yourself later on for leaving and starting fresh where you feel 100% yourself. I was born and raised in Japan and I moved to the US for the college experience after high school but I’m moving back after being here for 2 years because I realized how incredible my home is. I relate so much to how you felt judged and not being your full self. transferring was a big fear of mine because I felt like a failure not finishing college in the US but you have to do what’s best for you! everyone is so different and wherever you go you will succeed girl. I know this was a difficult video to make but I’m so proud of you for being able to open up and be yourself. I love you tamara❤ and thank you for this video because it helped with my situation.
I love you too ❤ thank u for this!
@@TamaraAvinami keep your head up babe!❤️
this is the exact same reason i left michigan state after my freshman year. i’m now a sophomore, living at home doing cc and i’m transferring in the fall. I’m working my ass off, have a boyfriend and working on bettering myself. proud of u
very similar situation rn for me at a different college & also not in a sorority! transferring will be life-changing for us
Life is so short and at the end of the day it’s so important to do what you want despite what others think. So proud of you for making this change for the better ! You’re doing and are going to continue doing great things Tamara ❤️❤️
Thank u with my whole heart! ❤
ugh im so sorry. I did this at the end of the fall semester (under different circumstances) but still, I know how stressful and frustrating it can be being far from home and other issues. you got this, keep your head up beautiful!
i'm sorry you had to go through this. SO proud of you for continuing to create content and realizing that it's best for you to leave that school. idk y some people think it's ok to be mean for no reason.
Thank u so much ❤
Omg Tamara! First better things are coming!! But this video could have not come at a better time. Ive been planning on transferring due to the social aspect, drama, and just the overall education aspect of my college. Idk this video has helped me to solidify my decision of transferring. Best of luck to you and future transferring!!
Aww thank you, best of luck to u too❤
tbh your friends aren't your real friends if they went in that party without you knowing that they didn't let you in...likee
im so sorry this happened. im from the midwest and trying to get out. you’re so much more then this societal craze here and will be the most confident person where ever you end up! you’re so strong and keep your youtube passion going!
I totally understand Tamara. I go to a Community College and have no friends at all from there. Some of my friends from high school go there but I rarely see them. I hope this video will teach me to turn to the correct people and I wish you best of luck with the new college search 💜💜💜💜.
❤aw thank you!
Hey, I'm a freshman at IU too and I think I've actually seen you around a couple times but I had no idea this was your experience. I completely understand what you mean by Bloomington having more close-minded people. I'm from LA so also a big city, and no one's judgemental at all of what people do. I've noticed too that influencers or things like that are less common and looked at differently in the Midwest. But I'm so sorry people here treated you like that.. I genuinely do not understand because it's not a big deal?? Maybe because they're not used it and we're both from large cities idk but it's still wild how disrespectful people acted. I also didn't rush for the same reason, I really didn't vibe w how greek life was taken so seriously (by some people). I'm actually transferring too for other reasons as well but I hope everything goes well for you next year!
I grew up in B’ton and have lived in LA for years. I still love B’ton and love Cali. Totally polar opposites.
so proud of you for doing what’s best for YOU. as someone who’s going to school in florida, you’re making the right choice !! sending love🫶🏻🫶🏻
this is def hs all over again but girl trust that everything will be meant be j let time play a role. what's meant to b will be. and j know that for those who talking behind ur back the only reason they b talking abt u cuz they dont got anything to talk abt themselves so they rely on ppl n talk shit abt them. in the ending whose rlly winning literally u. u built this platform for urself n although ppl will have things to say abt ur platform u still get the courage to keep posting and put out vlogs for us even w the negativity n for that ur strong. while they be talking behind ur back let em bc while your doing u n mind ur business trying to become success they'll still be in the same place, behind you. wish the best of luck for u and hopefully the school u plan on attending next year
you handled everything so well, I aspire to be you at this point , but it’s okay because in the future you’ll have a career and you have all these supportive fans and you’ll love your life and live it to the fullest, while these “frats” probably will stay in their hometown and get a local job . Stay strong !! this was definitely the universe trying to tell you something!
ur mental health is important !! happy you took the right decision for you ❤
I’m so sorry this happened to you Tamara, some people need to grow up and think about their actions. Supporting you whatever you decide to do next ❤❤ x
I'm from the midwest and go to college in the midwest, but both were in major cities, so my experience was quite different. That being said, the people I've met who went to schools in college towns (including IU specifically) were very much what you described. Weirdly obsessed with greek life, acted immature like they were in high school, partied a concerning amount (I go to bars in my city but the things they casually talk about are genuinely scary, putting themselves in life-threatening situations), and overall seem pretty obsessed with conforming and judging anyone who doesn't. It's funny because I'm in my senior year and have had maybe 5 conversations about greek life at my school ever, and yet I met a girl from IU and and I think greek life was brought up 5 times in the first week. And they kept talking about high school, like sorry, I've moved on LOL. Anyway, sorry you had this experience, hope it doesn't put you off the midwest for good!
hey tamara , i have been watching u like since idek and i have always felt like u were someone that i could really relate to and inspire me, i go to UCF now and i moved from nc and it has been the hardest thing but watching u and going thru similar things (being on campus first semester to living at my new home) has given me so much hope and i feel for you so much you are the strongest grl ik and i know everything happens for a reason 🥰🥰
This is so sweet and I am so glad I was able to help/inspire you in any way ❤ wishing you the best!
No one should have to go through this, no matter the following or not. I’m so proud of you for sticking it out for as long as you could and making a decision that fits you best. I wish you the best in whatever you choose next!!
tamara, i have been watching you since your freshman year of high school. you are the only one that knows exactly where your meant to be and you have to trust ur gut. it is horrible to hear about this because i have seen how excited you were to try something new. your new place will love and cherish you so much more and that is what you should be looking forward to. leave these idiotic people behind you and show them how much better you are without them (thats seriously the best kind of revenge aha). i know great things are coming for you and everything happens for a reason. you are on the right path now 🤎
Thank you sooo much ❤ this is so nice to hear
staying close to home for school was probably the best decision i could’ve made for myself. i see u thriving wayyy more in florida than in the midwest. i live in the midwest and what u said about there being a lot of closed mindedness here is very true. it can be very toxic. all love tho and i hope everything works out for u and that you’re last couple of months at IU are good ❤️
I was at a lost at some point with being at the right school and I’ve transferred before. You are not alone feeling the way you do! We all support any decision you make🫶🏽 we love you
Also people who are being so mean to you have high school behavior. I’m truly sorry! Seeing you cry makes me so sad I wish I could hug you
I work at a college and take part in the hiring process. I can tell you right now that we don't care which college you received your education from.
I am so sorry that u have that experience, amazing things comingggg love u so much
Girl, I am sooooooo sorry that you had to go through this. I went to IU 2021-2022 for my freshman year and absolutely did not have a good time. I was harassed by my floor mates in McNutt, constantly looked upon on as not good enough just because of the color of my skin. It was so cut throat that it made me sick. Greek life is terrible and so unfair, if you’re not a carbon copy of the standard, then you get treated like sh*t. I really hope you thrive from all this petty drama that is absolutely not your fault for having a platform. IU is a lost cause when it comes to the social life, but I wish you so much positivity!❤
Omg girl I'm so so sorry u had an experience like that. I do seriously appreciate your support and am sending you lots of love!❤
girl I fully committed to iu as a transfer and changed last minute to switch to university of Illinois and I’m so glad I did. IU gives me such judgemental vibes
The university I go to is JUST like this!! I can’t explain enough that ranking doesn’t even EXIST yet it’s still so evident like what? Literally how old are we. There is no such thing as popularity in college and it’s so blatant that the only people that care about Greek life ranking are people in Greek life… shorty working at crumbl cookies isn’t gonna treat you any different if they know you’re in a top house babe. It’s crazy but Tamara GOOD FOR YOU! You deserve to be in an environment that feels accepting and loving.
Crumbl cookies please 😭😭😭 buy thank you sooo much ❤
this is honestly so sad that we still see things like this and in college?? like maybe high school but college?? you would think these ppl would be mature but clearly not. and let me tell you keep thriving!! and keep having a smile in your face ❤️❤️
Damn i just went to the website it has so many hate comments someone was commenting on what you’re saying now like about them being small minded but you have ppl standing up for you so I’m sorry you’re going through this no one deserves that but That website is messed up surprised it’s up there the only thing is like how will you get away from it by switching to another school do you plan on joining another house or just living a more chill life
Love you! You will find your way don’t worry
love u too, thank u!
proud of you !! onto the next
Miss u ❤ thank u bae
im sorry girl, no one should have to go through this. you handled this very well, and you got this